How Being “Too Much” Made Me a Millionaire

If you don't watch anything other than this 60-second introduction, I pray that you do because I truly believe that the test that you went through was meant to produce your testimony. And if you have been called too much at any point in your life, if you have been made to feel like you were not enough or too much or needed to be in a box and that the world didn't have the capacity to hold what you were offering, I want to explain to you why. And if you would just give me the next 60 seconds, I will do that.

Okay. So, this this is people. All right, these are people. These are people who are in your life. This is your well-meaning mom, your supportive dad, your best friend, the teacher at school. And it's not that these are bad people. It's just that they have a purpose. Okay? A cup's purpose is to receive this amount of liquid. All right?

Now, there's a problem. Here's where the problem comes in. Is that this is you. This is you. First of all, you see you see a difference here. You're not you're not the same. And see what happens when people are calling you too much is this. This is you excited, big dreams, looking for so much more than is in front of you, wanting to do things that nobody else in your family, in your generation, in your bloodline has ever done before. And I'm guessing you can imagine what's going to happen. This is you. You're pouring out. And at first, they like it. This is comfortable. You're you're dreaming within bounds. You want to do things that maybe they've done or that seem normal to them. And so that works. And then you pour out more because people are enjoying it and they're liking it. And then this is good. It's still a lot. Okay, we're at the And then what happens? You keep going and you keep going and you keep going and what is this now? It's too much. It's too much. I don't think you heard me. It's too It's too much for them because they were never meant to hold what you had to offer.

Being too much for them doesn't mean that you are the wrong tool for the assignment that God created you for. that the very thing that is your weakness, your default, the thing that people have told you you need to fix, you need to change, it's because you were designed with a different purpose. And maybe, just maybe, God didn't create the sun to light up a room, but to light up a world. And maybe he gave you not too much, but enough, not just for one person, but enough that you could fill up other people, too. but enough so that you could spread around what God had given you and to put it inside a container that could actually carry the capacity for your calling without overflowing, without it being too much, without it being something that tells them to stop and to retreat because your light is too bright. Because a sun was never meant to be put inside of a room or under a lamp. It was meant to go into the sky and fire was never meant to be coraled but to be allowed to burn wild and free to warm and light worlds. And you have been trying to distill yourself down into something that is palatable for other people. But a prophet is recognized everywhere except in his own hometown.

You see what the people who are telling me that I was too much didn't know is that I wasn't built for them. I was built for impact. That I was simply on the wrong stage. Not that what I was saying wasn't important or that it didn't matter. In fact, my thumbnail, my my title is not clickbait. Being too much. The very things people criticize me for, that I talk too much, that I think too deeply, that I have dreams, that didn't make sense to anybody else except for me, were the very things that led to me being a millionaire. The things that I tell you guys on this camera were things that I thought were insignificant and import and and not important because I had listened to what other people were telling me about it because they told me it's too much. They told me that nobody cares about it. And even if they never said it with their words, the way they dismissed me, the way that they couldn't even tell me what I was saying when I would ask them what they thought about it because they had clocked out or zoned out 10 minutes into the conversation. the things that I would say and people told me I go on for too long because they were never the container that I was designed to go on for. I have videos on this platform that are an hour long of just me talking, saying the things that God has shown me in my life that people have absolutely had their lives changed and transformed by the very things that I was telling other people and I couldn't have paid them to listen and now people pay to listen to me. And so maybe you were the kid who asked too many questions, who spoke too deeply, who dreamed too loudly and too big, and you learned to dim yourself in order to stay safe. You weren't punished for being bad. You were punished for being too bright. And and light in a room can be dangerous. And so they punished you not because you were bad, but to protect themselves to protect themselves for getting burned by the light of the sun that they were trying to contain.

I spent years mistransating rejection and I thought it meant that I'm not enough. But what it actually meant is I have so much overflow that I have more in me than the vessel that they have was designed to carry. And the fact that they are telling you not that you're wrong, but that you're too much means that it's a confession about their capacity, not a critique of your calling. You weren't rejected for being broken. You were rejected for being beyond. And what broke you wasn't your bigness. It was the belief that you had to shrink in order to survive. It was that belief that because they couldn't carry what you were offering that you needed to offer less when really you just needed to offer it to somebody who had the capacity for it or for a container that had the ability to carry what you were delivering. And maybe you've struggled with this battle between shrinking versus expanding because sometimes we can think that being accepted will be the thing that saves us. But acceptance is not the same thing as alignment. You can be accepted by people who don't even see you, who don't even know you. They just want to make sure that you stay small enough to fit their narrative to make them feel comfortable to stroke their ego because heaven forbid somebody can do something or wants to do something that they can't or that they haven't. And there comes a point when shrinking for safety will feel like suffocation to you if it doesn't already. And the trade-off isn't worth it because the price of admission into those rooms is always the same, which is your fullness. You might be thinking, "I've spent years being palatable." But let me ask how that has actually worked out for you. It's not humility to hide your light. It is disobedience. And if your presence threatens their peace, then they weren't building peace in the first place. They were building a cage. And they wanted you to not be a mirror that showed them that there was more to where they are than where they're at now. And every time you watered yourself down to be digestible, you robbed the world of your real flavor. But the truth is that you didn't lose friends. You lost containment. You didn't lose opportunities. You lost limitations. You see, the doors that opened for you when you were pretending to be somebody else were never meant for you in the first place. And along the way, you rejected the rooms that would have actually accepted you for where you are. I'm telling you, girl, you are a drink of water to somebody in a desert, but you're hanging out in the rainforest where they don't need you. That doesn't mean they don't need your water or your light. It means that you are in the wrong place where it's not wanted or needed. And this is the switch that changed everything for me because I didn't let the fact that I was in the wrong room stop me from finding the right one. And sometimes the best thing that you can do is leave the room. Not because you're better than them, but because your assignment is bigger than what that room was designed to hold. And if you want to do that, you want to learn how do you monetize this light? How do you move from having to dim yourself down to a candle flicker flame into being able to embrace your bigness as the sun and find the world in which you were meant to invite light and warmth into. That's exactly what I go over in the new training that I'm unleashing called the three-step formula to replacing your income, working from anywhere, and getting paid to be exactly who you are. It's for women like me who feel like you never fit in, like you knew the corporate grind wasn't your thing, and maybe even you tried to build a business, but that business felt more like a cage because you were doing it according to everyone else's ways and standards and not according to what truly aligned with you. And yes, this can work for you even if you don't have a niche, you don't have an audience, and you don't want to hustle or sacrifice your peace because that's not what I wanted either. And by the grace of God, here I am now taking my family on all expense vacations and able to tithe more than I used to make in a single year and able to truly get paid without ever having to shrink myself or pretend to be someone that I'm not.

You see, what looks like too much in the wrong room is actually perfect capacity in the right calling. Your voice isn't loud, it's clarifying. Your emotion isn't weakness. It's wisdom and volume. And your ambition, it's not ego. It's evidence that you have a higher assignment than the other people who you may have been talking to. You weren't designed to be digestible. You were designed to be undeniable. You see, the same loud voice that that a person inside of a library would be reprimanded for is the same loud voice that would command an army that they wouldn't be able to literally live or hear the charge without. You see, your divine assignment is that you were built for more, not to be liked. God didn't make you too much. He gave you more than most because you are entrusted with more than most. This isn't ego. This is entrustment. You see, we live in a world that is obsessed with relatability, where standing out is seen as arrogance and playing small is seen as a virtue. But what if your extra wasn't excess? What if it was evidence? That God chose to place more capacity in you because he trusted you to carry more weight. And this is clearly seen in the parable of talents where literally in Matthew 25 it says God doesn't give equally but intentionally. He gave one five, one two, and one one talent, each according to their own ability. And the one who buried it, he wasn't called humble. He was called wicked and lazy. You see, you keep asking God for overflow, but you're still apologizing for the capacity that he has given you. For the fact that he made you a vessel that was meant to carry so much more. Being too much is what it feels like to carry five talents in a room full of people who only carry one. They weren't uncomfortable because you were excessive. They weren't uncomfortable because you were entrusted. And God didn't give mass production callings to paper thin people. If he made you heavy, it's because your mission is holy and you have a heavy mission to carry. And it's not about being better than anyone. But it does mean that you are different. Moses had range and David had wild emotion and passion. And Paul had obsessive drive is what it would have looked like to our culture before their mission. To some people it would have looked like dysfunction and after their mission it's clear to see now that it is divine preparation. Your traits are not random. They are rehearsal for a bigger stage. The intensity the intensity the sensitivity the fire all of it was assigned. It's not just a part of your personality. It's a part of your toolkit.

You guys, when I used to get on stage or in front of the class and I would present, my teachers would always give me the same feedback. They would say, "Slow down. Slow down." And now I had a webinar coach that I paid thousands of dollars. And one of the things he said is, "It's amazing how quickly you speak." The people that told me, "You have to butter people up. You have to go in soft. You need to be polite and politically correct." The number one comment I get on my videos, or one of the number one comments is, "I love how you just get into the point. I love that real talk tough love call me up and out of my sin and my mess and my mediocrity and the very things that people told me to stop and to change are the things that have enabled me to make $100,000 or more every single month while working five hours a week and getting on camera and simply sharing things that the Lord has taught me in my own lessons in life that I get to pass on to you. Isn't that crazy? What if I would have believed them? What if I would have let them tell me that the issue wasn't the room that I was in, but that I should just shine a little less bright? You see, the thing that made people uncomfortable is the thing that now makes thousands, and at this point, we've had millions of views and people take notice because of. And so if you've been managing your muchness like it's a liability, you should really now start seeing it as leverage, as literally your access point to the life that you have been dreaming of because you know you were not meant to play small. You keep trying to become palatable for people who were never assigned to receive you in the first place. And when you stop managing what God meant to multiply, you will start to see it as fruit instead of friction. and that your abundance is not pride but preparation for what you were designed to do. You see, you don't need to scale back. It's time to scale up. You were never supposed to be manageable. You were supposed to be multiplied. And you've been editing yourself in hopes of being liked. But God doesn't fund edits. He funds assignments. And when you try to be liked, you may get some form of temporary applause. But when you obey your assignment, you will step into the legacy that God has for you. Your too muchness isn't a flaw. Stop managing it and start multiplying it. And it's not about ego. It's about obedience. Because when God gives you more, he's not flattering you. He's expecting something from it. He's expecting a return. And when you bury your capacity, you're not protecting your reputation. You are robbing generations from what you have to give.

Now, when it comes to making money, being too much wasn't about a personality trait. it's worked is my pricing strategy. The moment that I stopped trying to be liked is the exact moment that I started being paid. There was this business I tried to do before. I'm not going to say the name of it cuz I'm sure some of the videos are up somewhere. And I literally like stripped myself of all my personality. There were certain people that I was following online and they were very professional and very kind of put together and I tried to kind of mimic that and I took all of the personality, the life, the color, the flavor out of my videos and tried to be this buttoned up kind of CEO corporate type of professional and speak with a lot of authority and like I was Katie Kurr on the news channel and that's just not who I am. And once I finally peeled back and said I'm just going to be myself and see what happens, that is exactly when I started getting paid. You see, in a saturated world, invisibility isn't caused by incompetence. There are a lot of people who know what they're talking about, yet they will never actually be discovered and certainly not make money from their knowledge. And it's because they're blending in. And nothing will make you blend in faster than trying to be palatable and please everyone. In today's economy, the death of your business or brand is not hate. It is indifference. Let me say a name that some people might be mad that I even say out loud, but Donald Trump is a master at this. You know why? Because love him or hate him, I bet you had a reaction when I said his name. You either said woo maga, whatever. Or you said no, hate him, whatever. But that's the thing. Polarization is actually what breeds profitability is that people when they hear your name, they should love you or hate you. Because the only people who people are indifferent towards are people who they either don't know are people who don't stand for anything. And you aren't here to please the people who are not your audience. We are surrounded by creators, by coaches, entrepreneurs, and influencers all saying safe things in safe ways. And then they wonder why nobody remembers them. Blandness isn't neutral. It's forgettable. And forgettable will not get you funded. You see, playing it safe is the most dangerous thing that you can do in a loud market. Vanilla doesn't go viral. And it doesn't go high ticket either. They said that I was polarizing because I said that building a business with biblical principles is the best way to do it because I said I don't want a bro business and to build a hundred million dollar impact or income, but I wanted to be able to literally just make enough money to um be able to fund my freedom lifestyle to be able to stay at an amazing resort and pool and go to Disney and travel the world with my family that I wanted to be able to have freedom, not manage a staff or scale a company to the moon. And they told me, "Hey, you can't do that. you have to build this huge business and empire. And I said, "No." They told me that there's no way that you can make $100,000 a month while literally working five hours a week. Certainly not while just posting the things that you want and being yourself. And by the grace of God, I am here now living that exact dream, having proved everybody who told me it was impossible. Wrong. And that's the thing because the algorithm isn't what is suppressing you. It's your timidity. And subscribe because that's the next video I'm going to be coming out with, which is how to make the algorithm your literal servant. Because you have to understand that the people who can dominate every single platform, it's not because they learn how to master an algorithm. It's that it's because they or it's not because they learn how to master the algorithm. It's because they learned how to rise above it. And this is all going to come from you being yourself and truly being able to tap into the superpower that God gave you.

You see, pleasing the masses leads to mass approval, but low loyalty. People will say, "Yeah, they like you, sure, but it's really they don't know much about you." And those are not the people that you really want to buy from, the people that you trust. Polarization builds tribes and people who buy not because you're reasonable, but because you are resonant. There is no cult brand that was built on a general consensus. It was built on conviction. And so don't try to sound like the industry. Sound like yourself. And if you want to do that, but you don't know how, again, that free training is in my description that goes over the three-step formula I use to replace my income, work from anywhere, and get paid to be who I am. Because your excess is an economic signal. Exaggeration isn't dishonesty. It's deferration. You were differentiated by birth by the big personality that you have. And in a world addicted to noise cancellation, your volume is a strategic move. If you're too much, then good. That means that you cut through all the mess. Because people don't pay attention to muted brilliance. They follow the loudest signal that feels like the truth. being too emotional, too passionate, or too intense. These aren't flaws in the market. Baby girl, you got currency. These are the exact things that are going to make you wealthy and the exact signs that the container that you have been pouring into is too small for what you've been given. You have to stop apologizing for what God appointed. And you stayed broke or unhappy or stuck in this unfulfilling career, in this draining business, because you kept asking people to value what they didn't even recognize and what they didn't even need. You see, people when they say that you're too much, they're not rejecting you. They're rejecting the mirror that you hold up to them when you walk into the room. You see, Mark 6:4 says, "A prophet is not without is not without honor except in his own hometown." Even Jesus, the son of God, wasn't received where they thought they already knew him. And what happened? He could do no miracles there. Not because he lacked power, but because they lacked honor. Power requires honor. And without it, the gift is limited. Not because it isn't potent, but because it's not permitted. Just like the friends I had who I would give the same wisdom and advice to who never listened and never took it. Although I've been able to help many people build successful businesses that are six and seven figures, but not the people who are closest to me because they weren't the target audience. And this applies to you, too. So, while you may think that you're stuck, what's really happening is that your miracle capacity is being muzzled by dishonor. And trying to be liked is only going to keep you broke and out of alignment with what you were actually called to do. You're not wrong. You're not excessive. You're just trying to multiply in a space that can't carry your calling.

But there is one thing I want to be honest about. Before being too much made me a millionaire. It made me miserable. It made me lonely because people didn't get me. I never felt like anybody understood me. People always told me that what I was saying was either again too much or not enough or weird or like I talked too much or whatever it was and or that I was too serious or that I was too growth oriented or that I wanted too many things in life. And that is a very difficult road to walk. And so if you're walking it, trust me, I'm not glamorizing this to mean something that it doesn't, but I'm saying that's why it doesn't fit because you are in the wrong room. And this process and this existence of being too much, it is beautiful and it is holy because God never wastes a wound and he never called me too much. He called me entrusted. And so to the woman who feels like you are still being punished for your brightness, you're not broken. You are becoming. And to the woman who is still trying to survive the fire inside of her, it is not going to burn you. It is going to build this lit up world through you and your ability to warm others with your light. So I didn't fit because I wasn't supposed to. I wasn't too much. It was just that I was the first person around me to do something like what I'm doing. And anytime you're going to go first, it's always going to look like a problem and not a prototype. So, what if you weren't designed to enter a lane, but to create one? That people think a niche is about what you do. But what if it was about the thing that you are that no one else has the ability to be? That too intense, that too passionate, that too weird, too loud is just you being original. And originality always looks like a risk or a liability to people who are addicted to imitation. You see, this isn't about business. It's about being. It's about becoming the kind of person that you didn't think ever existed. You became the proof that your people needed, not by following a path, but by foraging it. And once you built that path, you didn't beg for their approval, but you charge for entry. Being too much was never the problem, but hiding it was. Your fullness, it's not extra. It is the entry level for the future that you were born to lead. And you weren't born to find the box. you're born to replace it.

So, if this resonated with you, please leave a comment and letting me know. I know that this won't reach everybody, but for the woman who is out there who's like me, who's looking for where you belong in the world, um, it's not because there's anything wrong with you, it is because you keep trying to show up in the wrong room. So, if you want my help to create your room, to create your stage, to create a place where you can get paid for being exactly who you are, make sure you check the description to look at that training where I go into the three steps that you need that'll teach you everything about replacing your income, being able to work from anywhere in the world while getting paid to be exactly who you are, even if you don't have a niche, you don't have an audience, and you don't want to hustle or sacrifice your piece in order to get there. So, I'll see you there.