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Most people think I control my life through my phone. The truth is, your life is controlled by your phone. We think that we're using it, but it's actually using us. Every person that I've ever said, "Have you ever done a digital detox?" has said the same thing: they say, "No, but I need to."
It is very difficult to hear the voice of God when every discretionary quiet moment in your life is filled with doom scrolling. The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy. Jesus said in John 10, "I've come that you may have life." Well, the reality is the enemy is stealing our time, killing our joy, and destroying our relationships—really, it's all through what has become a digital appendage. It's attached to us all the time.
92% of Americans have a smartphone. The general population spends 5 to 7 hours a day on screen time; teenagers spend 7 to 9 hours a day on screen time. What is that doing to people?
Hey everyone, you know we're in this great study in Second Peter. We're talking about bringing truth that Peter wrote about 2,000 years ago and how it really applies to today—to a lot of situations we're facing. We're going to take just a little break and we're going to interview Pastor Darren Whitehead today. He wrote a book that I think is so relevant called "The Digital Fast."
We will get back on the next podcast right back on track with Second Peter, but let's go right to that interview with Pastor Darren Whitehead. I am so excited today because I'm having my first guest on the program, and that is the pastor of the church Lisa and I attend, our pastor, Pastor Darren Whitehead. Darren, it is so good to have you on!
I am delighted to be here. Thank you so much for being here in your new beautiful space; it's incredible. You know what? That accent sounds like you might be Southern or from somewhere in the world.
Maybe! Yes, I am from Mississippi. No, I am from the true South—that is, down under. I'm from Australia, but I've lived in the US for 26 years. I'm married to a Tennessee and an American girl.
Yeah, and I was going to get deported, so I got married to an American! No, I'm just kidding. No, yeah, but I got married 22 years ago to Brandy, and I have lived in the US for the last 26 years. I have lived in America longer than I lived in Australia now.
And tell everybody about your children.
I have three daughters; three half American, half Australian daughters. Sydney is 17, Scarlet is 15, and Violet is 13. I literally almost fell out of my seat laughing on Sunday! You said something about, "Yeah, my daughters will say, 'What now?'" What is this? Well, with a mother from Tennessee and a father from Australia, my girls say, "G'day, y'all!"
So anyway, tell us about Church of the City.
I got to tell everybody, the first time I ever heard your voice was on Michael W. Smith's worship song "Let It Rain."
Oh, my goodness! How did that name instigate me? But Lisa and I, we love that song "Let It Rain," and right in the middle of it, there was this Australian guy that came in and started reading out of Psalm 97. Yes!
Oh my gosh, every time, the presence of God would just fill our car, and I'm like, "Who is this Australian that read this?" And it was such a powerful presence. And then I find out years later it was you!
Isn't that crazy? That we recorded that in 2001. Yeah, I'd been living in the US for about two and a half years. I grew up listening to Michael W. Smith, and it turned out I was leading a youth group, and his son was in the youth group. So that's how I met him, and we became friends. He asked me to come and do something—come read something, pray, whatever—in the middle of this song. So I felt like I should read Psalm 97, and we recorded that in Florida.
And then that album—this is back when CDs were really the thing—released on September 11, 2001.
I did not know that!
Yeah, that's when it came out.
Wow! So the first time I met Michael W. Smith was in the year 2000!
Oh, is that right?
And he was serving me cookies.
What?
Yeah, so his mother—so it was the first book that I published with Harper Collins, with Thomas Nelson. His mother was publishing her cookbook!
Oh!
So he comes out serving a recipe from her cookbook to all of us authors that were meeting there that day. It was actually quite funny! I thought, "Gosh, Michael, I never thought the first time I'd meet you would be serving me cookies." I thought it would be in some big, massive auditorium where I'd come hear you sing, you know?
I've known his parents for as long as I've known Michael, and I did his dad's funeral. Then his mom, Barbara, died just a couple of years ago, and I got to go by and see her before she passed. Very special people.
Yeah, they are a special family; special people.
Okay, and now tell us about Church of the City.
Alright, so we planted Church of the City in 2013, right here in Franklin. We actually planted one church in East Nashville in the morning and we planted in Franklin in the evening. So we planted two churches on the same day.
It's been a real—I tell you, we planted these two churches, and then two years into our story, a church that I used to be the youth pastor in from 15 years earlier—John Tyson and I were the youth pastors at the People's Church—came to me. Their pastor resigned, retired, transitioned out of that role, and the elders came to me and said, "Would you be interested in merging our churches together?"
I thought, "That sounds very difficult. I don't know if I really want to do that." Brandy and I prayed about it. We had a fleece of a number of really specific things, and not only were these things things that the elders would have to agree to; these were things that I was never going to tell them they needed to agree to. These were things that they had to suggest.
It was things like changing the name of the church and adopting our mission, vision, and values—all of these different things—which I was never going to suggest. Then we prayed about it.
The next day, one of the elders said, "You know what we need to do," and he just mentioned all of the things that were on our secret list, and we just knew, "Okay, we are going to have to walk this path."
It's been remarkable, John, like the way that God has prospered and blessed. It's been—you know, we were talking. We started on Easter Sunday, right? I think we had about 200 people on Easter Sunday, and this past Easter we had 22,000 people!
So God has kind of 100x, you know, like what has happened in these last 11 years! Now, but I think the thing that's so remarkable to me is, you know, Paul said when a man and a woman are joined together and become one, he said, "This is a great mystery; only God can do that," right?
Yeah.
When you put two churches together with two different DNAs, only God can join them together and make them one.
That's why I think you were quite wise to say, "God, all these conditions need to be met," and it needs to be so miraculous to me that I know it's the right thing to do. And now look at the fruit of it—just 10 years later!
Yeah, that's remarkable when you think about it. There have definitely been many moments throughout this last decade where it’s just like God has opened a door that no man could have opened—no persuasive words, no influence. It's just a move of God, and no one can get credit for it. It’s not clever leadership; it's not strategic thinking; it is just God opening a door.
But God has gifted you, and you are a very good leader. I want to say that as somebody that watches from the outside or is a part of the church. You are a phenomenal leader, and your team reflects you so well. I just want to thank you for the way you've served our entire community. It's been remarkable.
Well, thank you for saying that. You wrote a book, and this book really has my interest. You just recently put your entire church on a digital fast and saw some remarkable outcomes.
Yes, and that's why you wrote it in a book. Let's talk about it. Why would you choose to write an entire book on something that you'd put your church through?
Yeah, so we take the first 21 days of the year and have a season of prayer and fasting. Fasting is probably the most neglected spiritual practice of the ancient world. People don't want to fast; it’s uncomfortable, and you get hungry. So we call our entire church to fast and to really seek the heart of God. Some people, in doing that, are going, "You know what? I'm going to fast from social media." I think that's cool, but that's different from biblical fasting. I don't want to dilute what biblical fasting actually is.
But I'm really intrigued by the other idea too. So what I said to the church is, "This year, we’re going to do a fast like we have the previous years. We’re going to be fasting from food, and we’re going to have an increased focus on seeking the Kingdom and seeking the heart of God for this brand new year. But we also want to consider doing a digital fast later in the year. So if you want to sort of opt out from food and you want to, like, you know, stay off of your phone, you can do that, but we're going to do that together as an entire church later in the year."
Now, I had never done it before; I had never known of a church that had done it before, but we experimented with it last year for the first time in the month of May. I started reading a bunch of books; I started studying what social psychologists are saying about this. Clearly, you know, these smartphones have seeped their way into our lives. You know the iPhone came out in 2007, right? But it didn't even have an App Store. The App Store came out in 2008; push notifications came out in 2009; Instagram came out in 2010. So you can see how these devices have sort of seeped their way in.
They started out being honestly really wonderful—augmenting our lives; like, this is just joyful technology. The first few years on the iPhone, enhancing our productivity—just giving us an ability to be so much more efficient. Honestly, the first couple of years of the iPhone, we were all upside!
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Now back to the podcast.
Fast forward that 16, 17 years. Almost everyone has this sense of dread about how much they are consuming media on their smartphones. In fact, every person that I've ever asked, "Have you ever done a digital detox?" says the same thing: they say, "No, but I need to."
There's like this collective sense of like, "I'm spending way too much time on this." As a pastor, I am concerned about people's mental health, their social relational health, and their spiritual health. It is very difficult for me to hear the voice of God when every discretionary quiet moment in your life is filled with doom scrolling. It's just filled with visual clutter.
It's like the enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy. Jesus said in John 10, "I've come that you may have life." Well, the reality is the enemy is stealing our time, killing our joy, and destroying our relationships, you know? And really, it's all through what has become a digital appendage; it’s attached to us all the time!
Most people—91% of people—have their phone with them all the time. That means that the last thing they look at before they go to sleep and the first thing they reach for when they wake up in the morning is this smartphone.
Can I put a pause in that? Yes!
I'm going to bring you back to 1984.
1984! Lisa and I—our job was to take care of the guest speakers that came to our church. Our church was one of the most well-known churches in the United States, so we had every well-known speaker in the world coming. One of them was a man named Dr. Lester Sumrall.
Now, Dr. Lester Sumrall was probably one of the most feared ministers—like remember when Samuel came to town? Everybody trembled. When Dr. Sumrall came to town, everybody trembled!
Well, for some reason, he just loved me. Now, you gotta remember I'm in my mid-20s—
He loves you, John! Come on!
That's—I'm not saying that that's not true!
So anyway, he just said to me one day, he said, 'Cause he was coming in a couple times a year, "I want to have breakfast with you and your wife tomorrow morning." I said, "Sure, Dr. Sumrall!"
So we went to the hotel and we went down to the restaurant, and he's sitting there, and he says to Lisa—because Lisa at that time was working for Elizabeth Arden Makeup Company, and she was a rep for eight states—he goes, "Lisa, you want to know what I would have done if I wasn't in ministry?" She goes, "What?"
He goes, "I would have been a perfumer!" And he goes, "I got the nose for it!"
Lisa and I are like, "Oh my gosh!" So he really opened up with us at that breakfast.
In that breakfast, he said, "God has shown me things that are going to happen in the future." He said, "One of the things that God has shown me is I see a day coming when people are going to hold a box in their hand, and their life is going to be run by that little box in their hand."
Stop it! This is 1984! We didn't even have cell phones; we didn't have flip phones; we didn't have anything!
Wow!
And we thought, "Oh bless his heart! He's off his rocker. He's missed it!" You know? But yet, do you know what—they just did, I think it was either Time magazine or one of the major universities just did a poll; over 164 million Americans—so we're talking about over 50% of the American population—their number one thing they deal with is anxiety.
Yeah, why anxiety? Because of everything they're getting out of here! This is running their life. The anxiety is what's running their life.
Okay, I wanted to pause on that; I wanted to—I want everybody to hear how important what you're saying is and why I really am excited about you being on this program. So continue.
Yeah, well, the latest research has found the general population of Americans—92% of Americans have a smartphone; the general population spends 5 to 7 hours a day on screen time; teenagers spend 7 to 9 hours a day on screen time.
That's crazy! I mean, 9 hours a day? People don't even want to work eight hours!
But go ahead!
It's 9 hours a day! You gotta ask yourself, what is that doing to people? What is it doing to their social intelligence? What is it doing to their comparison? You know, Romans 12 talks about, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world." I've got to believe there has never been a more powerful piece of technology that is conforming people to the pattern of this world than these smartphones.
And people are collectively feeling it! You know, as opposed to like 2010, where everyone was like, "These are great!" Now there's this sense—even among teenagers—that they think, "These things might be taking from me more than they're actually giving."
And you know, you start to look at the statistics on depression and suicide and cutting, particularly among teenage girls. Teenage girls are even more than teenage boys. I mean, teenage girls on social media during the years of puberty—it's turned out the research is now finding that that is dangerous.
So the brain develops a lot in utero, of course. The next time the brain really starts to develop and change and synapses are firing and all of that is during puberty, you know?
So this is roughly from the age of 11 to 14. If there is social media—if these kids have social media during the time of that hyper brain development—it is destructive; it has the power to be very, very destructive.
And things like Instagram are actually the worst! The research shows because you got these young girls who are looking—it's so superficial, right? You're looking at bodies and makeup, and people's value has been reduced to their external appearance.
And they are projecting a highlight reel of their lives, which is not real—and photoshopped—and they're comparing that with what they know of their own lives, and they're filled with insecurity and inferiority.
They have this—what is now known as obsessive comparison disorder—and it is wreaking havoc! That is why the suicide rate is up two and a half times now!
It's really, really concerning.
I had a pastor, okay? There were two lead pastors that committed suicide a couple years ago, and I had a lead pastor who has over 5,000 people in his church say to me, "John, I feel the pressure." And he said, "Where it's coming from is my screens."
The Instagram!
He said, "Because I'm seeing what everybody else is doing, and I feel like I'm so far behind."
But anyway, it's not just teenagers—but the fact about the fresh firing of the brain between 11 and 13? That's remarkable because that's when they're really getting in deep, yes.
Oh, but keep going! I don't—
Okay, so what we decided is, what would it look like if we actually went on a journey together as a church? Social scientists call the problem with smartphones a collective action problem. What that means is that everyone knows that these devices are having a detrimental impact on their mental health, but no one wants to individually step away from it all because they're going to get left out of everything.
You know, a kid's going to shop at school; everyone's going to be laughing about an in-joke, and they're going to be the only ones that didn't know about it because they're the only ones that are not on a platform of some sort.
So, people know that this is problematic, except no one individually wants to step back from it for fear of missing out.
So what we decided to do as a church is, we thought, "What if we all go on a journey together? What if grandparents, parents, teenagers—what if teenagers' friend groups—what if their small group is all doing this together?"
Instead of one person saying, "I'm going to step back from my digital consumption," instead of them doing it by themselves, all their friends are doing it too!
And so we decided to—and I got a lot of this from a collection of different sources. What would it look like to do a digital fast? I’m not suggesting that someone takes a hammer and smashes their smartphone!
Right!
This is not about whether you have a smartphone or you don’t. It is looking at the apps on your phone through the lens of distraction versus utility. Not all apps are equal, right?
Right!
You don’t—you don’t open the calculator app on your phone and play with it for 45 minutes, right?
Right!
So you got to think about what are the distraction apps? So, the distraction apps typically are social media; they are news; they are games; they are video apps like YouTube. And if your job will allow it, take email off your phone as well!
These are the wormholes that are in on your phone—right? These are the apps that you look at when you pull up at the lights and you're waiting in traffic, and you grab your phone and you start doom scrolling on something.
The goal would be to remove all of those apps for a 40-day period and reduce your phone down to a utility device. Utility is making phone calls, texting people, using your GPS, using your calendar.
These are all of the things that assist your life without distracting your life, correct?
So we want people—we want to reduce distraction. And then we also want to reduce attraction, if we can. And one of the ways to do that is you grayscale your phone.
And so you can remove all the color from your phone, and it just becomes a black-and-white device. And you're deliberately trying to make it less enticing for yourself to numb yourself, to steal all your distraction.
And so when I do that, what flies through my mind, John, over and over again throughout the day is the world is in color—the world is beautiful! This is not in color; this is not the world; this is not the real world.
And so you're deliberately trying to turn down distraction, turn down attraction, and then we want people to turn up devotion.
So this is not just putting down something; it is picking up something as well. And so this book leads people on a 40-day journey that is four 10-day increments.
Right?
The first is to detach—we want to invite you to detach from your phone by removing all these distraction apps. And you do it with all your friends as well! Your whole family should do it together!
So when you're feeling a little jittery on day three, you're kind of like you're laughing about it a little bit, and you're like, "Alright, you know, let's go play!"
Exactly! It's a legitimate detox!
So we want people to detache from it.
Right!
The second 10 days is we want people to discover. What you will do is you'll start to discover feelings that you didn't know you had because you were numbing yourself with your phone.
You'll start to discover things going on in your family and in your relationships and with your friends and with other people. You'll start to discover the voice of God aresh, because your mind is not so cluttered with useless pieces of information.
So that's the second 10-day period. The third 10-day period is to delight.
And what happens is when you get 20 days into this, it’s like rebooting your senses—your eyes, your ears, your touch, your taste! It all feels new again!
And wow, I remember I was 20 days into doing this, and my 13-year-old daughter wanted me to watch her bounce on the trampoline. So I said, "Sure!"
You know, at this point, I wasn't carrying my phone around in my pocket at my house anymore because I used to do that all the time; it was just with me all the time, right?
Right!
Like, I had it in a drawer, and I was just at home.
And so I go outside, and I'm barefooted, and I can feel the grass under my feet! And for whatever reason—I can feel the grass under my feet—it's like I'm alive!
And I look at the sky, and it’s about to be sunset, and it looks incredible! I can smell the air! And then I just hear the sound—like it's in high definition—of my daughter squealing and giggling and saying, "Watch me, Daddy! Watch me, Daddy!"
And I have this conscious thought, John: "Wow, this is delightful! This is a better life!" Who knew that I was substituting the beauty of this life for the artificial promise?
It's almost like the Matrix!
It's like the Matrix! It really is, yes!
Yes! Yes! I took the red pill, I got unplugged!
And all of a sudden, I'm looking at my daughter, and I'm just thinking, "I'm so thankful to God that I'm her dad. I'm so thankful for this moment. I'm so thankful that there's air pulsating in my lungs! Like, it’s so good to be alive!"
That's the third 10-day period. The final 10-day period is to determine.
And this is—I want to determine after these 40 days, what is my plan going to be? How do I re-engage? At what degree do I want to re-engage?
There is this lady named Marie Kondo on Netflix, and she's famous for teaching people to purge and clean out their closets. I don't know if you've seen this or—
I have, actually!
And so, one of my daughter-in-laws is really into it!
Okay, so what she does is she encourages people to hold a piece of clothing and ask the question, "Does this spark joy?" And if you say "No," then you throw it out! If you say "Yes," then you keep it!
So I would encourage people to take the distraction apps on their phone and ask yourself the question, "Does having Instagram on my phone spark joy? Does having TikTok on my phone spark joy? Does Facebook on my phone or Snapchat or whatever it is—does this spark joy? Or am I better to interact with these platforms on a desktop computer, or am I better to interact with these platforms on a laptop?"
'Cause it allows me to put them back in their place instead of them taking over my life.
I’m curious: what did you do with YouTube?
So I didn’t have it during the fast.
Yes?
I put YouTube back on my phone after the fast because I listen to content when I'm driving so much.
That’s me in the gym! I'm always listening to content on YouTube!
I was just curious about that one!
Well, you know, it’s—and everyone works out their own thing, you know? So YouTube is not harmful for me. I don’t—right? You know, it’s usually sermons that I'm listening to, or as with me and you know, when I need to repair something in my house, I real quick go to YouTube!
Exactly!
So usually, you know, whenever I'm driving, commuting, running, exercising, whatever, I want to stimulate my heart and my mind, and it's usually sermons.
And so, it's not a destructive thing. I don’t watch cat videos, you know? So I don't scroll; I don't doom scroll.
But I can tell you this—when Instagram has been on my phone, it's just like this candy that's just beckoning you to come in all the time. And I'm just best not to have it!
Okay, what are some of the results you saw in the entire church?
I was amazed because I was a little nervous about doing the whole thing. First of all, I was thinking people are going to say, "You're nuts for bringing this into a church space! You know, like, this is out of your lane, bro! Why would you be doing that?"
I feel a little insecure about that. You know, I felt like some people were like, "Just teach the Bible, dude!" You know?
So I was hesitant about that. I was also a little worried that people weren't even going to do it because they were like, "Ah, you know, my smartphone’s my whole life! I don't want to give it up! I don't want to give up social media!"
I was a little nervous they wouldn't do it. What I found is that most people want to do a fast—want to do a detox at some point; they just need a leader. They just need someone to give them a date!
Right!
They're like, "Here's the date! Alright, here's when we're going to do it!"
Okay, so detach, discover—let me do it. The next one is discover, isn’t it?
No, no! The third is discover!
Isn't it?
Yes! So, discover!
What are some of the stories you heard from church members on discover? So discover—what I hear largely is parents of teenagers.
And it's—you know the funny thing? When we are attached to these screens, it's often the things that we don't even know about. It's your teenage daughter who's walking through the room, and she's weeping, but you didn't see this—she was weeping!
And so, you know, because you're watching something that means infinitely less than the fact that your daughter is upset and something is on her heart, right?
Yeah!
And so, I heard many, many stories of that. I heard many stories of parents—particularly in the discover phase—parents going, "You know what? It is very easy for me to look at my teenagers and say, 'You need to get off your phones,' but I’m realizing that I’m the one that has been modeling this."
And they have essentially been mimicking my behavior. I have been modeling—it's like the "3M!" You sometimes I've been modeling this—they've been mimicking me!
And then I get mad at them! And it's sort of the height of hypocrisy!
I realize that I’m the one that has a problem, and my children are simply copying what I do!
That’s what I discovered when all of a sudden I didn’t have these anymore. So I wrote about this in one of the books that I wrote; it's called "A Heart of Blaze."
In the opening chapter, I shared how I was at a church in a particular city in North Carolina—it's not a massive city like Charlotte or Raleigh, but it's a big city.
And I was at the end—I’d done like a weekend for them—and the spirit of God spoke to my heart and said, "There's been a ceiling for churches in this city that no church can grow past 2,000."
Wow!
And I said, "God, T just showed me that the only way this is going to be broken, this ceiling, is a fast!"
Wow!
And I said, "But it's not—it’s not a food fast! I said it’s a digital fast!" I literally said it.
It's like I said "TVs" because TVs were back in those days!
So the pastor jumped on and got up and said, "We're going to do this for 40 days!"
Yes!
Well, kids started—we're going making C’s and D’s; they started making A’s and B’s!
Wow!
Fathers started reuniting with their families; marriages started getting healed, and they had a move of God! That church doubled in size within the next two years; they went to 4,000 people!
Wow!
And that was when I first saw this happen, and I believe that when Lester Sumrall said to me that people's lives were going to be controlled by the box—I don't think—for the first time in my life today since hearing him say that, I used to think it was like their email saying, "Hey, we're doing this and that"—and that he was—I now see today what you've said, because you've opened my—God’s used you to open my eyes.
Their lives are going to be controlled—not in a good way—in a bad way.
And I don't think he alluded it being good, but it’s a much worse way—by the fears and anxieties that it's putting in people's lives. When you look at the 164 million people, the number one thing—and I think about what Jesus said, "Men's hearts are going to fail them for what's coming on the earth."
What's coming on the earth is just—I've never had this much information of what's coming on the earth that I do right now!
And I used to think people are going to die of heart attacks because they see what's coming.
No! Your heart—you’re supposed to guard with all diligence because out of it flow the forces of life!
That's right!
So men's hearts are going to fail them. It's not a heart attack; it means now your life center is shut down in you, right?
And that's what the enemy wants for the church!
Yeah, I think most people, like sort of to your point, most people think, "I control my life through my phone," but the truth is, your life is controlled by your phone!
You know, we think that we're using it, but it's actually using us!
Okay, this is so important, and I just can't even tell you how honored I am that we get to share this with our listeners! Darren, where can people get this book?
So you can get it at Amazon.
Okay!
It's available there. "The Digital Fast." TheDigitalFast.com has a bunch more information on there if pastors want to lead their church through this.
Yes, sir!
We have made a way to make this book available in bulk at a highly reduced rate—like 60% off!
Outstanding!
And so, I have a couple of churches that I'm going to be doing this—leading them through this in the summer.
And they’re buying in bulk so that everyone can use the book as a guide, as a tool to go through a 40-day period. And then you can buy it on Amazon, or if you want to buy it in bulk, there's a bunch of links.
Well, you know, I'm just going to be open with everybody. I brought this down for our spring family spring break down to the beach, and I left it down there by accident. It's still down there!
But I'm about to go on a 3-week sabbatical, and guess what's going to help me prepare for that? It’s this!
And I'm just so thankful that you wrote this book!
Is there any final thoughts that you want to share about this? I mean, please, I'm not saying that we need to wrap; I'm saying, Darren, if there's anything else that I've missed by not asking the right questions, please share!
Well, the final thing I would say is that 100% of people who have participated in this have been glad they did! No one has said, "You know, I just really wish that I could have spent more time doom scrolling on cat videos!"
Like, no one regrets doing this! Everyone feels the benefit of this! Whether they do it with absolute purity, whether they cheat a couple of times—like any way that someone does this, we are bringing their digital media consumption to the forefront of conversation.
And everyone starts to just be aware of it! You see, most of the time we function on autopilot, right? Most of the time, we're functioning—we’re just numbing ourselves with these devices, right?
And so now teenagers and parents are talking about how are we going to do this as a family? The power is kind of unveiling how hidden all of this is—and to kind of say, "Look, I’m giving way too much of my time to this device, and it is not fruitful, and I want to live differently than this."
And so you want to reboot your life to begin with and then work out what does it look like from there?
100% of people who have done it have been glad they did!
Okay, let’s do something, guys. Let’s do opposite peer pressure! Like, guys, tell your college friends—tell—we have so many young people listening, right?
Tell your college friends, "Are you kidding me? You're not going to do this digital fast with us?"
And then get them to realize that they have a life to live, and that life is not going to be controlled by the anxiety, the fear, the fear of missing out—the—
There’s so much more that comes from this little box that Dr. Sumrall saw back in 1984.
Think about it; it's incredible!
God tried to warn us way back then! And I'm glad that you heard the heart of God to be able to say to the church, "Hey, let’s walk in the life of God! Let's enjoy this world!"
God gave us this world to enjoy as well as to be pilgrims reaching people—the lost in this world.
You're not enjoying this world that he gave us freely?
All the beauty! I mean, you know, Darren, you and I—we both like the beach, and when we're down at the beach, you walk along the shore, and you're just like, "Look at what God has made! Thank you, God!"
But you know, it's more than beach. I walk through the trees of Franklin, and I go, "Look at this beauty! Look at the green grass!"
But that goes down because when I was a boy, that's what captured my attention—was the beauty of creation!
I didn't realize that I was worshipping a God who made the creation; I was really enjoying what he made.
I don't think kids are getting that today because they're so bound up by their screens.
Thank you so much for writing this, and thank you for coming on the program. I appreciate you so much!
And is there—can you close us out by praying for people right now?
I think you got a lot of people right now that are really wanting to go on a digital fast. Pray for that experience—that they experience what you experienced!
Yes, let’s pray right now.
So God, you know every single person who is listening right now. I pray that you would speak to them, give them clarity. Lord, I pray that you would give them the courage to actually step in to do something like the digital fast.
And Lord, I pray that you would turn up your voice during that period. You give them ears to hear and eyes to see.
I pray that they would find themselves reconnecting with the Spirit of God in a moment like this, and I pray that the outcome is that their lives would never be the same!
It would be a before and after moment!
And I pray, God, that you would bless them for their obedience; you would bless them for their courage, and that your hand would be upon them as they step into doing this.
And this is our prayer, and we pray it in Jesus' name. Amen.
Amen!
Darren, thank you so much! It's an honor to have you on!