Venus transits to natal Moon

Venus Moon transits today, so all Venus transits to the Moon increase affection in some way. We do not want to be alone, and our affection, um, our desire for beauty, all of that is enhanced. And our relationships with women are in one way or another affected, whether we're a man or a woman.

So with the conjunction, it is a really good day. In fact, the week that we have Venus to the Moon, the week that Venus is conjunct to the Moon, we are feeling pleasant. We do want to stay in. These are not like Venus Sun transits where we want to go out, we want to party, we want to meet people, we want to socialize. We do want people, we do want affection, but we want that within. We want that where we're at. We want that at home. So we party with transits of Venus to the Sun out. We party with transits of Venus to the Moon within, within our home environment, and typically with those that we are closest to. We're exposing ourselves with Venus Sun transits to quite a lot of people. We are exposing ourselves to much fewer people with Venus transits to the Moon, and those people are those that we have affection for, that we love, that we care for. So forgiveness is enhanced as well.

Now, with the conjunction, we are not feeling, um, there's not an increase in the for sexual activity that can happen with some the transits from Venus to the Moon, generally not with the conjunction. There's a desire for affection rather than, um, we're not horny. That's what it is, or affection, not horny. There is a difference. And sometimes we'll get both of those depending on the transit. But we can experience increased sexual activity with the conjunction, but that's not the the meaning of it. That's a derivative of having extra affection and love to give. Um, we are inviting others over. We are wanting to create a romantic, soft mood around us. Focus more on beautifying the environment. Um, I had this transit just a couple of months ago, a few months ago, and I went out and bought new houseplants that particular, you know, three-day period. Um, so I was really concerned with making my cottage prettier. That was my focus. How can I bring in things that are, you know, more lifegiving, more organic, more beautiful? Um, you know, we're not trying to save the world when we have these transits. We are trying to bring comfort to our own immediate environment. So we may spend money, attention, time on, you know, painting a room. It may be as simple as that because it makes us feel better.

Um, they are not the, these are not the most consequential transits. We usually do not start relationships under Venus Moon transits. Now, that can happen if they, it's happening in occurrence with something else. Um, and this will certainly show that the beginning of that relationship is particularly harmonious in terms of emotional needs. So we have a good, uh, give and take with the conjunction when it comes to the affection that we need and the affection that, you know, selfish. I think we're appropriately selfish. I'm jul. Oh, all right. So we're appropriately selfish when we have this conjunction because we're thinking about how can we increase our own sense of connectivity through the giving of our affection. And we get back what we give. So it's a very fair and open-handed way to deal with people. Uh, and we do want something. We do want something, but what we want is very soft. This, it's an ultra feminine transit. So we're willing to receive. We're inviting, uh, those that are extended family. We get along with those very well, those types of people very well with this conjunction. And we may seek them out. We may invite them over. That's much more common is for them to come to us.

This is a tie where we do have to watch for overindulgence. Just like we do with Venus to Sun transits, Venus to Moon transits can actually, uh, result in swelling, edema, retention because we're looking at the Moon and we're looking at the indulgence of Venus. So we have to watch for sugar. We have to watch for, uh, consumption of just what is comforting. Now, with Venus to the Sun, we have to watch for what is overindulging, what we're overindulging it in terms of partying, in terms of happiness, in terms of letting our hair down. That's going to be more alcohol, you know, fatty foods, party foods, bar pizza, stuff like that. But when we're looking at Moon Venus, it's things like, um, you know, your 12th cup of chamomile tea that day, you really need that. Or, um, you know, getting up and eating cake for breakfast because it's our comfort food. Um, we just, it's, it's not as consequential as it is with the Venus to the Sun, but it is something that we have to watch out for. Um, I did note that I ate candy for breakfast when I had this transit a few weeks ago. I had Jolly Ranchers for breakfast when I had this conjunction. What is that? Uh, hard candy. I sucked on hard candy all morning because that's what felt good to me. It didn't feel good later, but I felt good at the time.

All righty, so that brings us to the sextile between Venus and the Moon. So we are prone to understanding those around us better than usual when we have Venus in a sextile to the Moon. If we are very appealing to groups or to those that we have to work with or form some kind of cooperation with, we are charming. We're giving people just like us. They like us very much. This is the time to ask for favors. Um, just like with Venus and a sextile to the Sun, Venus and a sextile to the Moon means that we are exuding such an authentic caring that others believe us. They believe in us. They sense that, hey, what you're saying and your body language and what I'm feeling from you, this is all matching up here. There's an intuitive, uh, green light that goes off in people's brains when we have this sextile going on because we're genuinely, uh, concerned with what's going on with others and, um, genuinely want to express that. So get my notes here. So friends, as well as family, we are feeling very protective about. We are feeling like we want to give and we're helpful. Now, our helpfulness pays us back. We get, we get favors, but that's because we, our s, that's our way of being. And if you notice this with transits, this is really going to teach you about reality if you pay attention to this class. How we're being is what we're getting. Do you get that? Our being is the result. What you are is what you're bringing to you. How you're acting determines how other people are responding to you. So because we're being so affectionate, being so good, we're being so, uh, I mean, good at at taking care of others around us, they take care of us. It's easy. It's easy to get along. It's easy to get our needs met because we're needing the needs of the, the needs of the people around us. So if you want to have somebody agree to something, this would be the day. This would be the day to ask for it. Um, we are, we are inviting people towards us or inviting them to our home. Typically sextile transits, um, you know, are about going out into the community or about participation and what is cooperative. But we want others to come to us, and we can still have that, um, affection building activity, cooperative activity, but, uh, it's within the confines of what we find, you know, what we feel is home or we feel is, uh, our domain.

If we have to give a speech, if we have to give a talk, if we have to communicate something, it goes extremely well with this sextile because the audience that we're communicating with receives it extraordinarily well. They get our sincerity. That's the core of this transit. Is we come across as sincere, and it's easy to share our feelings, our inner world, in such a way that the people who are, who receive it, are able to learn something. We, they feel that we've offered them something because we have been able to express ourselves authentically without reservation. It's received in such an open way. It makes an impression, a positive impression on those around. Just excellent, excellent transit. It's quiet, but it's excellent.

Which brings us to the square. This is an affection arousing transit. It can also be a, a sexual transit. It arouses sexual feelings as well. We don't want to be alone with any of the Venus the Moon transits. Venus transits to the Moon, we want affection, we want participation. And with the square, we're particularly greedy. It is a greedy transit. We're greedy for affection, we're greedy for for sex, we're greedy for attention, we're greedy for possession, we're greedy for food, we're greedy for what brings us a sense of validation and love. And so this can be a day or a few days where we are possessive. They're insecure. We are needy. This is usually how it shows up through neediness. And this could be a day of the year when we have a, like we have somebody who pulls away from us and then creates that sense of anxiety or neediness. We want to go towards them to reassure ourselves. And you never want to do that in that kind of situation because it pushes the other person farther away. Don't do that to an avoidant. Ever do that to an avoidant. So if you feel somebody pulling back, you need to pull back. We don't do that with this square. We don't have very good self-control. And it can impact our attraction. Others can lose attraction to us under the square because we are so needy and effusive. And we can be seen as, um, well, we'll lower our value is what we'll do in that situation when we act needy, when we act desperate, uh, when we put somebody else on a pedestal, we are necessarily at the same time lowering our own value because if someone's up here, okay, we're starting again. So we are lowering our value potentially when we have this square because if someone's up here, that means we must be down here. And that neediness is an expression of us wanting something that is above us or something that we feel like we don't already have. So it can be a jealous transit. It can be a needy transit. You have to look at it in terms of what's already going on because it won't be every year that we experience the same effects. Now, if it is hooking into a complex of planets in your chart that is triggering pre-existing jealousy, your insecurity, the chances that you will have a bad day every year are much higher. But for most of us, um, it's going to be, uh, situational and it's going to be depending on what is already happening in your relationship and in your life. Uh, but if there is a lesson that needs to be learned when it comes to, uh, you know, acting on our anxiety or acting on our, um, our our lack of worth or our idea that somebody has something that we need, uh, then we're going to get a lesson in lowering our value because we are acting desperate. So people can feel more repelled rather than you're back.

Mothers are a pain in the ass under the square. Mothers and women can be an issue for us. And this may be the day that we have a problem with our mom asking too much of us or pushing something on us, or women around us being moody, women around us being difficult. Uh, and we ourselves can experience swelling, bloating, and menstrual issues. Very, very common under this particular square. Um, we can have more cramping. And I think some of it has to do, I think with our nutritional choices too. Uh, we may load up on the salt and the sugar, the caffeine. So we have to be careful how we indulge ourselves. Glandular issues can be an issue. That's something that traditional astrology teaches us with this transit. I haven't seen that myself, um, but that is something that as a general rule is supposed to be a thing. And I will go with that. Um, hurt feelings. We are experiencing more sensitivity in general, especially with friends, female figures around us. And I think that's why we're experiencing difficulties with our mom is we're taking everything personally on this particular day or this particular week. We're very emotional and everything is subjective. It's all about us. We don't have a perspective that allows us to balance our needs with others. I think that we're being so needy for affection and then expressing our, you know, our our dissatisfaction in such a way that it's increasing the likelihood that we will not get the affection that we need. So there again, how we're acting is determining what we're getting. We're being needy and spoiled, and that's how we're going to experience the people around us, especially our mother. She's just being needy and spoiled. She's not giving to me. Our hurt feelings are something that we need to be careful about blaming others for under this transit. We can drive people, you know, not like permanently away, but it's like they look at us like, God, go take a nap or something like that.

So all righty, that brings us to the Trine, uh, which I believe I, I need to look this up. I think I had this couple days ago. I think I did. One second here. So Trines, we know are always a feeling of relaxation or mastery, um, because we have a good sense of past and future, how to envelop the lessons of the past into, uh, the current state of things. Wow, look at that conjunction from Venus to Venus. Um, so there's a, there's a way that we reach out with our affection under the Trine that brings really, really good results. Our relationships run extremely smoothly. Our desire to forgive is extremely high. The way that we handle the people around us is is very tender. We have the ability to combine our feelings with the, um, with the expectation of warmth. So we are being open, we're being, um, we're being forgiving, and we get that. We get it back. Um, how we relate to women is extremely successful under this Trine. Uh, it's very easy to, um, express ourselves. Um, we don't have issues when it comes to overdoing or over expecting. We're not overly effusive. It's just the right amount of affection for the situation. We are friendly to everybody under this Trine. Uh, it's indiscriminant in how we, um, you know, give of ourselves. The sex drive, the expectation of sharing ourselves physically, that's all very high. The Trine is a horny transit, but not because it's a physical, I want to, something I want, I want to be satisfied. It's as a result of what we feel in terms of affection. So a lot like the conjunction, the sexuality that may be experienced is something that is very much tied to our expression of love and devotion and and caring. So we do want to be with others, but very specifically with those that we want to reach out to in an emotional way. Uh, it's a very good transit to renegotiate within a relationship, to sell an idea because people like us. They are willing to listen to us. They are willing to, here we are. They are willing to buy what we're selling because, just like with the sextile, they realize that we're telling truth. We're sincere. And, um, that pays dividends. And why do they pick up that we're sincere? Because our body language, our expression, our words, all align. And intuitively, the people that we're dealing with have this feeling that, oh, they're telling the truth. All these subtleties are lining up. And so we engender trust in those that we're dealing with. Um, so everybody likes us more than they usually like us. We invite people over. It's a great time to throw a party at home. It will be successful. We will be the best host. And, um, it's, but it's a good time that also fosters connectivity within the people that we're with. Dinner parties, that's a really, really good expression of this transit. We don't tend to overdo it. Uh, we are, I'm offering something though, uh, in terms of experience or in terms of, um, an in taste of something that others very, very much want to accept. So really great transit.

All right, so let's look at the opposition between Venus and the Moon. So we want to give to those around us, and we may not be entirely, uh, discriminating about who we're giving to. Like the opposition from Sun, from Venus to Sun, the opposition from Venus to Moon can also have us getting into relationships or experiencing affection where we haven't had the best process of, yeah, really looking at what we're getting into. It's impulsive because we want to experience affection. And it is a transit, the opposition, that does arouse our need for sexual gratification. And that may be at the expense of an actual real emotional connection. And, but that's the reason we're getting into something is because we want intimacy. And, um, we also want to express ourselves physically at the same time. It is hard though, unless we're making a good choice to experience both ends of the spectrum simultaneously. Sometimes we can end up flirting with somebody that we just, you know, remain in the friend zone, or we don't get to this, we don't get to make a home run that particular day. And we'll experience that frustration of having that buildup of, you know, physical affection, but we are getting, you know, a lot of the Moon stuff that we need, the the intimacy or the the emotional satisfaction that we need, maybe not the the physical. For other people, they will experience a relationship where, at the time, it can feel like they're getting both. They're getting, you know, the emotional intimacy connection that they need, and also they're getting to express themselves physically. But, um, then we find out that the relationship was actually hollow. It was, it was more superficial because we did, uh, you know, use our judgment in a really good, appropriate way. So you have to look at what's going on. But it, it is a transit that can produce traditionally what we would consider scandalous results or results that we, you know, we're doing the walk of shame back home 5:00 AM the next morning because, you know, it felt right at the time, but we woke up and realized that, oh wow, what was that? Particularly if you're having a Uranian transit at the same time, that will increase the likelihood that you'll make a spontaneous decision that may not be in your best interest. This doesn't tend to be one of those transits though, where there's like really lasting bad effects where, like, you know, some a reporter is going to jump out of the bushes and take a picture of you or something and send it to your parents. It's, it doesn't tend to produce that kind of scandal. You will get, uh, the more potential for that with Venus and opposition to the Sun. But Venus and an opposition to the Moon is much more private in how it expresses. Um, but we can make some non-discriminating choices that can get us into trouble. We're also more prone to eating our feelings. Eating and drinking our feelings. Can eat a lot of ice cream, drink more alcohol, a lot of sugar. So, um, and and that can be in place of not being able to express ourselves in a physical or affectional way. We'll go to the freezer instead. Um, so, you know, our feelings run high when it comes to meeting to give. We want to give and we want to receive. If we can invite over, invite others over, this is a wonderful expression of this transit. Usually we are going to want some kind of peak personal experience though. We're going to want to get with somebody in particular. Um, if we can't do that though, a good second choice is to invite more than one over. That doesn't mean we have an orgy. It's not an orgy transit itself. Um, now if we have other things going on, it may contribute to that. That may be a choice that we make. But, um, you have to, other things going on. I don't think all of us have an annual orgy. Right, right, right. So, um, we do have to be somewhat careful, but it isn't going to bring out, um, potentials that aren't there in the natal chart. If you are, if you already have high standards or you're not, you're not, oops, oh no, she's gone. She'll be back. I think at least. Oh, yeah, sh, there she is. It started raining. But if you are suffering from a breakup, if you are already lonely, hold on. Yeah, if you're feeling fat, if you're feeling unattractive, and this transit comes by, this is when I think we're in the worst position to get the worst out of it because we're already prone, you know, to making decisions based on wanting to make ourselves feel better or finding comfort. We're not in a good position to date, uh, this week because, you know, we may go through our online dating people and pick somebody out that normally we wouldn't because we're feeling a bit desperate. It and we end up selling ourselves short. So we don't want to make, uh, choices where we end up lowering our value. See, we do that with the square too, potentially by being desperate. Yeah, and needy. Needy. We're doing that with the opposition. Not always in existing relationships. Um, it is more about, uh, reaching out to find something that we can bring towards us. And if we do have an existing relationship too, this is something could in that vein because, it may be that, um, our partner isn't as into us as we are, but we are reaching out or we're asking or we're, uh, you know, expecting something. And it, they may satisfy our desires, but then we can realize after the fact that, wow, they like, didn't kiss me once during that session. They really want to be there. Oh, no, give me one of those things. Yeah, we a little bit embarrassed afterwards like, I think they threw me a bone or a boner. Okay, be careful about being desperate next time. So see, either way, see, we end up lowering our value potentially in some way. And and if we're an exist, in an existing relationship, it maybe not, not be that the person is, you know, outright expressing that to us, but if we're paying attention to what they were saying without saying it, you know, they probably wanted to be watching TV instead. So we'll have to be careful about what we ask for. People in a long-term relationship, I think we have to be careful. I know, being too hard on ourselves about that because I think it's okay sometimes to give when you need, when you don't necessarily want, but you don't want to do that all the time. You, you can't do that too often or else you're just self-abandoning. You're just letting somebody. So you can't give it up too often in a relationship if you don't want to. I think that it's reasonable to expect that sometimes. I think that that's a good give and take. Yeah. Yep. You'll back, damn it. So there's, there needs to be a good give and take. If you're giving it up too often where you don't want to, there's a problem in the relationship. There's a lack of desire, there's a timing issue, or you have a mismatch when it comes to sex drives. Um, expectations about sex, may one of you is a morning person, one of you is a night person. You're going to have to figure something out. If you feel like, all right, so I have to be careful about the give and the take. And if that is in a good balance, this is something that, you know, we can have a temporary setback when it comes to maybe asking too much. But in a functioning relationship, that's fine. That's fine. It's not going to have a lasting consequence. The square can have a bit more of a lasting consequence because we are more outwardly like needy. Like it's not as bad with the opposition. It's not something that we're, we're acting out of jealousy. Ad je desperation. Um, we are much more annoying with the square. We don't tend to get the jealousy and the insecurity with the opposition. We're not seeing our partners as the one who, uh, is pulling away or that we need to go towards them. It's us that's being actually, um, needy, but we don't know it. With the opposition, we, I think I'm, are much more aware of it. We're aware of our anxiety. With the square, and we see that our partner has done something to trigger that. With the opposition, it's like we just approach the partner like, you know, I need, I need something. And then they can see us as a result as the needy one. But with the square, it's the partner does something to us in our mind, and then we respond to that.