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[Applause] For thousands of years, men have known about the Dark Side of female nature. The ancient Chinese, when they created the yin and the Yang, and they chose to represent the female with the dark portion of that Circle, creating balance in the universe, recognized the dark nature of female behavior. Aristotle, famously not a fan of female behavior, Sigman Freud and Carl Young both pointed out some of the deepest, darkest behavioral characteristics that are common in women.
Yeah, for some reason—maybe I missed that day at school—but uh, I never got the message. Like, I didn't realize that until it was way too late. I don't know if I would have changed anything, but yeah, I'm learning it uh, the hard way, and uh, I'm not saying that all women have these characteristics, only that it is a common part of female nature, at least as identified through history by some of the greatest thinkers of all time, and that men definitely need to be aware of it. So today we're going to dig deep into the dark side of female nature.
Now, I'm not just going to pick on women here because I don't think that women as a gender are more crazy than men necessarily. I think that it's just that the crazy is distributed differently between men and women, where I think that with men you got a lot of normalcy with a handful of crazy all concentrated in a few guys. With women, the crazy is more evenly distributed, so you have more frequency of crazy, but just at a lesser degree. So you won't find female, you know, serial killers quite as often, but um, you'll find a high level of neurosis and uh, pathological behaviors that are just unique to females in general.
As a man, if you have a conflict with another man, it's much more likely you're going to directly confront him, you know, verbally, physically. Um, now there are times when passive aggression comes into play with male interactions, male competitiveness, but mostly it's pretty straightforward. Another thing with men is there's a high percentage chance that once the aggression has been outed—we're out, we know what our feelings are about each other—um, there is a new um, status quo that's created, and very frequently there's a mutual respect for one another, if not even a friendship that comes about. Women are not like that at all, in any way, shape, or form, relationally.
Women do not confront one another. In fact, they will appear to be quite friendly with people that they have a lot of um, competitive or uh, envy or um, just general beef with. Um, but to their face, women will not—not behave as if they have any problems at all. Now, they'll give subtle cues, like, you know, the way they look at them or um, the way they uh, give them the once-over, up and down, that kind of behavior. But generally speaking, women do not confront other women when they have a problem with them, which is fascinating because it leads to a whole host of other behaviors that are really, really destructive. And um, since I have two daughters, I've seen the way these behaviors can play out in real life.
My oldest daughter, who is very pretty and very smart, in high school had a very hard time because there was a click of girls that um, never confronted her, but they would gossip and they would spread uh, misinformation or or lies about her behind her back in order to um, discredit her socially so that she would not be seen as a competitor with them. So women see a hierarchy that um, they want to control and to own, and they want to be seen at the top of that hierarchy. And in order to do that, rather than just confronting the person that they feel challenges them, they will create a narrative about them, spread it around, and destroy that person's reputation and cause them to be ostracized from the the larger group. That way they eliminate their competitors without ever having to confront them. They'll do it in a subversive way, and that's a very common characteristic when it comes to women. They um, they don't confront issues head-on; they tend to um, take a a backstabbing approach whenever it's available.
So women will also use sarcasm, manipulation, and um, I don't know what they call it, just a general fakeness, in order to create—create an environment around their adversary that um, leads them into a false sense of security. So their objective is to destroy this person um, relationally, and they will do it by almost um, becoming that person's friend, learning their secrets, finding out where their soft spots are, and then they will intentionally use those soft spots against them socially. This is—has to be sociopathic behavior, but it is something that is seen as a part of female behavior in general, female nature. Now, I know that doesn't apply to all women, and I'm not going to, you know, say that it does, but it is pretty common, and I've seen it frequently in in my life with different women who want to undermine the relationship that someone else has or to make them look like they're less than or or something along those lines.
Women also have a really tough time forgiving when it comes to these things. So if—like I remember watching my daughter play soccer when she was, you know, a teenager, and she played for the high school team and she was on a, you know, a travel team, so she was relatively good—she wasn't great, but she she did okay—um, and if there was ever a slight that occurred on the athletic field, you know, um, a naked tackle, you know, where you actually go for the person's legs or you um, throw an elbow or something along those lines, they don't look at that as part of the game, you know. So I think with men, although men can get pissed off, you know, and they'll react when someone does something, but they don't carry that around with them; like they they don't um, think about that days, weeks, or months later.
I remember uh, some girl threw an elbow at my daughter, and then I guess later my daughter got kicked hard in the face with the ball. I mean, it was a hell of a kick; it knocked her right off her feet and flat on her back, and I thought holy—I thought I was going to the hospital that day—but um, she didn't; she got popped right back up and kept on playing. Give her all the credit in the world, but she did not forget that girl, I will tell you that, man, cuz we played that team a few—few weeks later, and there was some payback, and it wasn't just her paying back; it was like all the girls on the team were messing with this girl through the whole game, you know. It's just part of the game, you know what I mean? I think that with men you expect that they're going to be competitive, and in that competitive spirit, things might get a little messy, but with women they don't—they don't provide that level of um, understanding about the way you play a competitive sport, and they hold a grudge. And that grudge-holding is something that goes off the playing field as well; that happens just in general with women. They have a really tough time forgiving um, after they feel like they've been slighted; they will hold a grudge forever.
My sister-in-law, who was about 10 years older than my ex-wife, man, she—she held grudges for decades, you know. And even my ex-wife, I remember when we went to counseling, and this is like, you know, 17 years into our marriage, she's talking about things that happened in year two or year three, and I am having a really, really hard time to remember what the hell she's talking about. But those were like the primary complaints that she had about me when we were in counseling were things that happened 15 years earlier. It's like, what the—are you talking about, and why is that important now, you know what I mean? Like, is that happening now? No. Has it happened in the last 15 years? No. So why are you bringing that up now, you know? And it had to do with, you know, our relationship kind of breaking down after my daughter was born and my, you know, kind of staying away from her because she was such a—to be around, but I won't go down that story, but um, yeah, she held that grudge for 15 years, I mean, and talking about it like it happened yesterday, and it's like, how can you even spend that kind of emotional energy hanging on to something so negative? When—why would you use that as rationale for getting a divorce, you know, decades later? But they will, and it's dark and it's ugly, so just be aware of it.
When you think about the two genders, we each have some superpowers. So men are rational and they're physically strong; so those are male superpowers. Women are very emotionally sensitive and they're very sexual, and they don't realize just how powerful their sexuality is. It is on par with um, a man's physicality when it comes to the ability to get what they want, and they use it as experts. So, for example—and I think I mentioned this in one of my other videos—where the sun and the wind are placing a bet to see which one can remove the coat of a—of a human down on earth, and the wind, using his force, blows and blows and blows and blows, and of course the man just tightens his coat even more, while the Sun comes out and heats the guy up, and of course he voluntarily takes the the coat off. Well, that wind is kind of like a metaphor for physical strength; using physical strength to get what you want um, can be very difficult, and oftentimes um, force is exactly the opposite of what you want to do. However, sexuality is a lot more like that sunshine um, because men, in particular, have an, you know, a strong affinity for physical, you know, um, love. Uh, women are Masters at using that sexuality, that that warmth, to get what they want, and we men are uh, morons because we fall for it just about every time.
This is the kind of information that young men should be aware of at an early age; like you should be getting this in sex ed class, like right from the very beginning. Like, everybody already knows about vaginas and breasts; let's get down to how they act because these behaviors—we don't realize it, you know, and as just being human, we all think that the everyone on the planet sees the world in a similar way that we do, and they—they feel things the way we do. And I think if you're talking about another man, you might be close, but when you're talking about a woman, it's a completely different situation; they see the world completely differently. Now, part of that is because they're not as physically strong, and their rational thought is not a um, something they can rely on as much as we can. So using emotion and love, of course, is a strong one, and sexuality, which is a primal need for men—um, yeah, you can see how easy it is for women to manipulate men. I mean, it's almost like child's play; I've taking candy from babies. So we need to just sort of air that out so that men are just aware of that all the time because it's not something that's happening that you're causing; it's something that they're doing as often, if not more often, than you're even aware of.
Another one of those um, things that women are really good at is using their emotions. So crying is something that a man will not do in order to get a reaction from other men. Do you know what I mean? Like, you would not, you know, be out hanging with your buds and uh, suddenly one of the guys starts crying because uh, he ran out of beer money. Nobody cares, do you know what I mean? It's like, dude, if you want a beer, just ask for a beer; you don't need to cry. But now a woman, when she wants something that she can't get, will resort to tears on a regular basis, or if um, a situation becomes too tense, too stressful, too uh, um, difficult to manage for whatever reason, out come the tears. And of course, it's to break down the barriers that are being built up around them for their bad behavior or the situation that they're in or whatever it might be, but those tears are a manipulation. Now, some—now I agree that sometimes they're very authentic, and I don't want to take that away from anybody, but even in their authenticity, frequently there is just a flavor of manipulation, you know, and uh, you should be keenly aware of that.
And women will also use the threat of self-harm as a way to manipulate you. So if they're not getting what they want from the relationship, don't be surprised if uh, yeah, she starts mentioning terrible things that she might do to herself just to win you back or whatever. So don't—don't fall for that. I—I've seen that one myself a few times recently, and that is not something you should fall for. And you know, it goes right to your desire to save her, to help her, to be the um, you know, be a—have a purpose, to have a mission. You don't want to see someone harm themselves; you want to be protective, and as men, I think we um, instinctively will do that, and so a woman sort of knows that we have these instincts, and she knows how to push those buttons. So just be aware of that; just because a woman is claiming that she's going to do something terrible to herself, it's very, very unlikely. I think women are successful at, you know, ending their lives um, like a quarter—25% of all the the people who do that um, end up um, being women, and the 75 to 80% are men. So women might attempt it more often, but they—they're not very good at it, so they're not really trying that hard, if you know what I mean.
Women do have a nurturing nature about them; there's no question about that, but they can even take something as pure as that nurturing nature and turn it into something dark. So a woman will use her um, expression of concern and desire to help as a way to control you. So she will um, take control of the finances; she'll want to take control of other aspects of your life, and she will use her uh, ex—the way she expresses her concern and nurturing and love for you as a way to gain control and to um, manipulate you to behave in ways that she wants. And this is another dark behavior; this is not something that's healthy in any way at all. I think you see it both in wives and in mothers, you know, where a mother will um, be disapproving of a behavior or something that's going on in some—in a child's life, and they will—they will use their nurturing nature and that child's desire for approval to manipulate them into changing their behavior in a way that is um, you know, in liking the mother likes or prefers. And um, yeah, it's—it's just a manipulation; it's dark; it's um, I don't say it's pathological, but it—it comes close; it's—it's pretty ugly stuff.
So you guys have probably seen all this stuff about body positivity, you know, and that's the way women are on the surface; that's the way they want to express themselves; that's the virtue signaling that you get from women is they want to be all positive and supportive of their sisters, you know, everybody's a 10, all that stuff. Well, behind their backs—behind the fat girls' backs—they are body-shaming them, and they do it just as bad, if not worse, than men. And then for women that are really beautiful and really sexy, oh, there is no worse enemy in the world than another woman. If a beautiful, sexy woman walks into a room filled with women that she doesn't know, there will immediately start being some shaming going on and a lot of gossip and bad-mouthing this woman behind her back before they've even met her. They don't know anything about this woman, but just because she's dressed—dressed attractively and um, she's a very beautiful woman, they will immediately start pulling the knives out and going for the back. Um, yeah, and this is common behavior; this is not uncommon behavior; this is the kind of thing that women do on the regular. So although I'm calling it a dark part of femininity, it is a very common characteristic, so it's a—obviously a sign of insecurity; it's a sign of um, an inability to feel good about—about themselves; who knows? But they point their fingers at men when it comes to this stuff, and men generally don't shame, and they generally um, you know, if—if they think a woman's too fat for them, they will just say it, you know. If they're not attracted to a woman, they will just tell you, you know. Men will not be um, trying to manipulate you or trying to be your friend or whatever. Yeah, if they're not into you, they're not into you; like we don't—we don't pretend; we just say it like it is. We're more confrontational, but in a positive way. I don't think that avoiding issues that are right in your face is a good way to have a good relationship with people; I think you got to be straight with people, let them know where they stand.
All right, so the last one I'm going to go on with is vindictiveness. Vindictiveness is just sort of this general—submissive—submers—Vindictiveness is a general subversive way of holding a grudge and trying to cause another person pain because you believe they are a threat to you in some way, shape, or form. And women will do this, and they will do it in a very passive-aggressive, subtle way, but it is just as mean as if they were just punching you in the face. This kind of vindictive behavior um, happens in the shadows; it's behind people's backs, you know; they try to act like they're innocent; often times they'll be virtue signaling in the midst of it all, but the entire time they are filled with hate and anger, and they're just trying to cause pain to another human being; that's all it is. Often times it's the Sisterhood that they're all standing up for, you know; women in that Sisterhood will—will certainly get the knives in their backs, but if you're married to a woman and you're her primary human contact and she's not happy with you or you've done something that she really disapproves of, just prepare yourself; vindictiveness will come.
You know, there was a story—I can't remember if this was in the 70s or the 80s—it was this woman who eventually got convicted of murdering her husband, but the way she did it was just so womanly. She took just a tiny little bit of antifreeze, and she mixed it into his iced tea every day for like 6 months, maybe even longer, and she would increase the amount just a little bit. Well, eventually, I guess these toxins and antifreeze build up in your body, and he had a heart attack and died one day, and no one thought anything had happened; they all thought it was just a normal heart attack; it was just a terrible tragedy. And for some reason the coroner ran a toxicology report and discovered all these antifreeze chemicals in his blood, and that tipped them off, and they figured it out after a little while that that she had been slowly poisoning him over a long period of time. Now, just think about the amount of hate and vindictiveness and anger and just pure—I don't know—evil you would have to have for another human being that you would just slowly poison them over a very long period of time, knowing all along that this person was going to die, and she's smiling and pouring the tea and just as sweet as she can be; the poor guy has no idea what's going on until one day he's reached that critical threshold, whatever that amount is, builds up in his tissues, and bam—heart attack, and he's gone. So yeah, if a man's going to kill you, he's just going to shoot you, you know; it's going to be plain and simple; we're not going to go trying to poison you over the course of a year or whatever. No, we just get it over with, cuz—you—you think about it for—for that period of time, you got to think it through every day; you got to make the decision every day for months and months and months that you're going to kill this guy, like—and you're—you're just relishing it every single day; that's just—that's just pathological, you know what I mean? That—it's insane. Anyway, I guess to take away from all this is guys, you got to study up on women; you got to understand where they're coming from; you got to understand their psychology because their behaviors are not like ours. Um, and I think that when we go through life, you know, when you're hanging around with a lot of other guys, you think that you can predict the way people are going…
To act under different situations, but when it comes to women, those behaviors and actions are not what you would expect. And I think that we overlook a lot of these behaviors because men are attracted to women, and we, of course, want the sexual opportunity that comes from women. But at the same time, we must know in the back of our heads, this isn't right. Like, what's wrong?
And I think that, yeah, I certainly did. I internalized it. I thought, well, it must be me. You like, maybe there's something wrong with me, maybe I'm doing something wrong, maybe I need to change my behavior, you know. So I started reading books about, you know, how to get along with people and all these things and how to be a "win friends and influence people" kind of guy. Yeah, that doesn't account for women; it just does not account for that behavior at all. I can tell you it just doesn't. Yeah, this is a completely different animal, completely different.
And um, we know nothing about them. I mean, the Chinese knew 5,000 years ago, Aristotle knew 3,000 years ago, Freud and Carl Jung knew 150 years ago. Somehow, in the last 50 years, this information has been hidden, and now it is emerging. And this is like the secret for men, if you will. This is what you need to know if you ever intend to have a relationship with a woman; you need to have this in your head and this awareness. Because if you don't, she's going to use these tools against you, and she is going to um, manipulate you into a situation that is inevitably going to cause you a lot of pain and sorrow.
All right, you guys. I hope you've enjoyed the video. Uh, please like and subscribe. Let me know what you think in the comments, and uh, stay healthy and if you can, stay single.