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I've been in a seven real relationship. I know you're going to get on me. I asked my partner for a ring. He put it on layaway. I told him he has a year. It's been 9 months. Do I continue to wait or >> baby?
Listen to what you just asked us, honey bun. >> I know. Yeah. >> As a matter of fact, repeat it. >> I've been in a relationship for seven years. >> I told him, >> ask me the question again. I've been in a relationship >> for seven years. >> Pause. I've been in a relationship for seven years. >> Yeah.
I had to ask a man of seven years to buy me a ring. He could not buy me a ring. So I had to ask him to put it on layaway. I had to ask this man. Listen to yourself, woman. Listen to yourself, baby. I had to ask this man. I had to ask you for a commitment. This ain't about the ring. Seven years of my time. You didn't want to marry me because if you did, you would have found that out at 6 months, 7 months, 8 months, 9 months, 10 months, 11 months, one year, not even past two. We talking about a man here, baby. Men who know No. Get out the driver's seat. That's not your place right now. That shows a level of desperation. Stop being desperate, woman. It don't take no man seven years. Did it take you seven years for Paige? >> No, ma'am. >> It didn't take my husband no seven years. I ain't seen no man in my life ever have to wait seven years of a woman's life and then she had to ask you to take the initiative to get a ring.
I want you to take this conversation. I just want you to sit in the mirror and I want you to say, "God, present yourself right now and I want you to talk to God about seven years and ask God, what man did he have to send that to had to wait for seven years to decide if you were a wife?" >> You made the decision. Stop playing God, woman. Stop playing God. You are a woman. Remember how much how beautiful you are, how much power you got. Baby, you don't have to be desperate for love. >> Love is at the door for you. You don't got to be desperate for that, baby.
I want you to love yourself, black woman. I want you to love yourself, black woman. I want you to love yourself, black woman. Do you hear me? >> I hear you. >> I want you to love yourself, black woman. And I'm not saying that to be funny. I don't care about the claps. I don't care about the applause. You have a destiny and your destiny does not mean that you have to wait on somebody else to match your destiny. Whoever God has for you in your destiny where you are destined to be is going to be there and it ain't going to take them seven years. So I want you to love yourself, black woman, for one moment on that microphone. Say, I love me. >> I love me. >> Say it one more time. >> I love me. >> Say it one more time. >> I love me. >> Scream it. >> I love me. >> Say it one more time. >> I love me. >> All right.