Transcription
Any man who gets you would be settling.
Yeah.
He'd be settling for you. You got two kids.
I mean, even though. And see, that's where I'll be battling because it's like,
Well, but you, you. Okay, let me, let me, let me hold on. Let me.
No, no, no, no, no. Stop. Let me reframe all this for you. If we were talking about non-black men, if I snapped all the black men away, would a white man accept you? The average white man?
You mean like the same way you say average for a black?
Yeah. If there were no, if I snapped all the black men away, would, would, can you expect white men, average white men, above average white men, would they come and say, "Well, sure. Becky or you?" Yeah, sure. Alex, would, would white men take you?
Maybe if it wasn't, um. No.
No.
Okay. Would a Chinese man take you? Would Chinese? Would Asian men take you?
No.
Would Middle Eastern men? Stop, stop. Would Middle Eastern men take you?
No. Probably not.
No. Because you know you couldn't come to them with the same thing you come to a black man with.
You. No. Listen.
Why do you think they? Because.
Listen. Because we are not beneath you.
[Applause]
Hi.
Hi. How are you?
I'm great. How are you?
Good. How old are you?
32.
All right. So, um, is it time to give up on the fantasy or the dream of this ideal man?
Yes. I think I gave up on that around 22.
Okay. Are you single or you married?
I'm single. Uh, divorced 2020. Remember.
How many kids? Any kids?
Yes, two.
Uh, you said you got divorced in 2020?
Yes.
Uh, uh, was it for irreconcilable differences?
Um, yes. My husband, um, he was four years younger than I am. Uh, he just kind of decided once we had, son, have a daughter, uh, prior to him. I met him when she was three years old. So, him and I kind of dated that whole time and we got married. But, um, once we had our son, he kind of just was like, the responsibility of having a family, being a husband. He just kind of told me one day, I don't want to do. Our son was four months old and he just said, it's not for him. He wants to be a bachelor. So, that's life kind of living and I just accepted it. So, what? So, is he paying child support?
Yes, he is.
That's why. This is why I tell women, stop marrying younger men. Know why y'all think y'all should not be getting with younger men.
Yeah. Yeah.
So, but okay. So, did you hear the last call where I was talking to, to the woman?
Yes. Yes, I've.
Why? Why do women? Why do you think women are so disgusted by the notion of settling for average men?
I think, um, a lot of it has to do with lack of structure and upbringing, potentially, um, childhood stuff. Um, so maybe we don't have that model. So social media, the TV kind of raises us. It tells us this is, this is what you look for.
Mhm.
Um, the music. I mean, because I was influenced by stuff as a young woman. So, I think, you know, definitely watching your content has shifted my mindset. Uh, while I was going through my divorce, I picked up on your. It just kind of, and I've kind of always had that wife mindset, but I've just kind of, about me going to therapy, done that healing, actually when I date a man, it's nothing else.
Hey, how are you?
Yeah. Hi.
How old are you?
I'm 34.
34. We're talking about. Is are you single or you married?
I'm single.
Any kids?
Yes. Two boys.
So, we're talking about, uh, is it time to give up on this notion of an ideal or a dream guy?
Um, it's so funny because I'm kind of like the last young lady that was on here. Um, when I first started hearing your content, I was just like, you know, like, uh, I showed it to my mom. I showed it to her friends, cuz I was like, "Y'all got to like." And I, I'm a type of person where as long as I can understand, then I can kind of get with it. And it seems like more and more I'm really starting to get where you're coming from as far as, you know, kind of us thinking we're special and not wanting to settle and stuff like that. And then not really believing we're modern women and so on and so forth. And so it's just like, hold on, Tanisha, you need to get in the light. I can't see you.
Yeah, I am. I'm moving now. So it's. So, is it time to give up on the dream guy?
Yes, it is.
Okay. But you didn't say that. You, you, you said a lot just, but you didn't say yes or no.
Not me.
Yeah.
Um, I, I hate to say it, but I, I would have to say yes.
Why do you think? Why do? Okay, you're 34, right?
Yes.
Two kids. How old is your oldest?
15.
From a man standpoint, why would you say you hate to say it when men think like this? The man you lost your virginity to was your first husband. That's how men think. If you got two kids, are they by different men?
No, the same.
Okay. The man you had a child with is your second husband. So you already were married with two kids in a lot of men's minds. Why would you, why would a woman not you, but a woman like in that get a dream guy? Why is this an average guy not the dream?
I think society has just made us feel like life is a fairy tale. I have been told that a lot, like in relationships and by people that like, I think life is a fairy tale and I, and I used to just feel like it's not that I just think it's going to be all sunshines and rainbows and the picking dog.
Have I ever lived with a man?
Yes.
Did he pay bills?
Yes.
Did you have to work? Did I have to work?
Yes. Yes, we both.
Was it easier to live with somebody who was splitting bills?
Ye. Yeah. As far as the bills wise, but I think we don't choose, right? As women also.
You don't choose the boring guy. You don't choose the boring stable guy. Uh, I mean, well, cuz honestly, I have my, my child's father is well, my children's father is like, I guess you could say the boring guy.
But it wasn't, it wasn't the the boring part that was that bothers me cuz I, I don't mind being bored or.
What bothers you? Our, as in a black, in the black community, we have a lot of problems in.
What? What bo? What's? Give me an example. What bothered you?
It's just like people's attitude and just like.
His attitude.
Both of ours. I'm not going to just say his, is, is mine.
But typically when we get in a relationship, man, especially with the one we have kids with, we ain't coming with attitude. We're trying to have peace in our house. And I'm going to tell you right now, ma'am, I'm, I, I know you come in there with plenty of attitude.
You know, I know. You know, I know.
But it would be things.
But it would be things that, that would, you know, like infidelity and, you know, cuz we, we were both pretty young. He's older than me, but, you know, we were both still in our early, uh, 20s. Did you provide a peaceful home?
I, I think I did. I thought I did cuz I.
I don't know. I'm asking, did you provide a? I'm. No, no, no. I'm asking, did you provide a peaceful home?
Peaceful.
So, what do you mean by peaceful? Like.
Peaceful, meaning, um, not a lot of drama, uh, not a lot of argument, unaggreeable, easy to get along with, not, not, not asking all these 50 million questions, not nagging, more like yes, dear. Or were you more like a stereotypical sister? Hold on. You gonna get your say, you going to have you gonna be heard. Uh-uh. Ain't no if I got something on my mind, you ain't going to sleep until I say what I got to say. I'm car down the street. Come on, man. You know what peace is.
Yeah. And see, that's the thing. I'm, I try to be open.
Did you provide a peaceful home? That's a yes or no. And the answer is no.
Well, that's only, only when there was situations that we needed to discuss and I felt like he couldn't be mature enough to just discuss them. If there's topics, I mean,
We do have to live together. You know what I'm saying? So, there's certain things that have to be discussed as far as parenting and as far as, you know what I'm saying, infidelity and how we want this relationship to play out.
Yeah. But see the thing is, but the thing is, more often than not, and you got to be honest, many times y'all try to run a relationship like we your kids versus we your man.
Yeah.
If, if he says, and he said, if he, could your man say, and that's final and the conversation be over?
Yeah.
I'm talking about her. And the answer is hell no. Gentlemen, if you can't say a net final and it's not over and ain't no peace in that house.
Mud.
So, ma'am, you can dance around the word. Ma'am, you can. Let's say he. Hold on. Hold on, ma'am. Let's say he cheated and all this other stuff. Okay, fine. But you can't say that you were raised to be a peaceful, agreeable woman either.
No.
Do you realize that men cheat? Listen, listen, listen. Men often cheat for femininity, not sex.
Well, I, I don't know.
Okay. I'm not saying it's always, but I'm not saying always, but I, I want you to think about what I just said.
Okay.
So, so what I really want to ask you because like I said, like a lot of the stuff you say about us needing to kind of pipe ourselves down as far as.
What type of?
You know, wanting a high power man and what those type of men really want in a wife.
So, I, I've actually, you've kind of brought me to my senses on that level, like, you know, as far as getting an average man. I don't know. I live in Texas, so I don't know about the 40, the 40,000. That's, that's, that's low even here.
No, you're not. I live in. I live in Texas for 12 years.
But see, my mom, my mom. Well, I was.
Mist. Listen. If a man can pay. Hold on. Listen, listen. If he can pay his own rent, his own, if he's self-sustaining, that's all he needs to do. But here's, here's what you don't. Here's what's gonna happen. You got two kids.
If the rent is $2,000, you need to pay 1,500. He need to pay 5. He need to pay 500 because you bringing three people.
Yes.
I, I can, I can. That's not going to happen. But I can understand that because my, my kids father, he's, he's, he's in their life and he pays child support. So, let's just say I have his, I have their 500. Let's just say that. But, but like my, I know my mom and, and my stepdad, they, they both work for the EPA and I think they only, well, a piece, they were both retired making like, I think only like 80 or $90,000 and they live good. They don't, they not living like.
80 or 90 together?
They.
80 or 90?
No, they. Well, my mom make retired making about 90 and my stepdad retired making about 80 something.
Average people.
I can't.
Yeah. So that's what's average to me. But you.
But that's not. No, no, no, no. That's not average. No, no, no. Ma'am, stop.
That's [ __ ] It's not average.
Your standards are too high.
Oh, so with my mom and them is making middle class is not $80,000. No.
If I can say something. But they not, they not rich.
Go ahead. Stop. Hold on. Say, like realistically, just being as a woman with two kids, I understand if I get a man who makes $40,000, that's more than what we need. I'm sustaining me and my kids by myself now.
Man, you got the makeup you have on and stuff like that is all [ __ ] you don't need.
Yeah.
All that stuff is adornment. You got all this additional stuff.
Did. Okay. What? Did you go to college?
I had to.
Ma'am, hold on. Hold on. Did you go to college?
Yes, sir. But I didn't graduate.
Okay. Do you make over $80,000 a year?
No.
So then why? If you ain't making it, why should a average man make it?
No, I'm saying I'm, that's what they retired making. So I know like, you know.
But that's a different generation.
They had labor benefits. Okay.
This is what I need you ladies understand.
Yeah.
You got two kids.
Not him.
Not him. You ain't making near nowhere close to that money and and you have an appetite that you can't afford to pay for. You can't. I mean, them them eyelashes and all, you can't afford to pay for that on your own income. That's being you taking. If we gonna be real, we gonna be, if we gonna keep it a stack, you taking some of that passport money and putting it on your face and your body.
I, I really am not. I really am not.
Okay. Well, my point of the matter is this ain't free.
And the point is. And the point is, okay, let's say you're not, but if a man can take, if a man can pay his own bills, he's fully self-standing and sufficient, then how come two people coming together who can take care of themselves does not improve your situation? Because that means.
You have one. You have one residence.
Right.
It's, it's simple math.
Right.
But it's not, it's not simple. It's not civil matter because see a man is supposed to come in and do everything. Even if you got somebody else's kids, a man is supposed to come in and do everything. And, and the thing is, we're not getting virgins.
Young virgins. We're getting women who have other men's fingerprints and DNA in situations. And we got to accept all that and then provide. Men ain't doing all that, man.
And you have, you really have enlightened me on that. So, so I understand it. And my mom has always worked, you know, so I'm not, you know what I'm saying, shy of saying, "Okay, maybe it might need to be, you know, maybe 60/40." Because they both, my mom and stepdad, they both pretty much made the same money. But my mom still only pays, you know, only did like lights and groceries and like the, the small stuff for the house and stuff.
Your mom or your stepdad?
How old were you got married?
I was like nine.
Okay. And how many children does she have?
Um, she has three.
Okay. Uh, is your mama over 50?
Yes.
Okay. Different generation.
Mhm.
Different generation. Different generation. Men in my generation and above actually got more respect being stepfathers. Today, a stepfather is looked down on because he don't get men don't get respect. Biological fathers and husbands don't give respect. Stepfathers. So my point is, if you are a woman today, you are fortunate to have a man, period. A pair of britches in the house. That's what the pandemic showed us. When the world shut down and stopped, all the [ __ ] y'all thought that was important was nothing. When you had to go out there to the grocery store and fight over water and toilet tissue, that strong independent attitude ain't gonna do nothing because you can't do [ __ ] about no man. Every other group of women had men, even Hispanic women. Hispanic women, Hispanic men make less money than black men, but Hispanic men get far more respect.
Y'all need attitude. Well, here's the thing. Y'all need to do nothing. Uh, but you're gonna die alone. And see, I refuse to die alone. So I, that's why I, I listen all the time. Even though my mama, she, she don't be feeling you, you know, because she, she come from a different time.
So. Your mama, your mama don't, but the men do.
Your mama, the thing is, your, your mama may not, but the men do.
Explain to me like, cuz it almost be sound. The only thing that I can't get past is it almost sound like, okay, I can, I'm not going to say settle. I can find a man, you know what I'm saying? That's willing to be a part of my lifestyle of what I already have going. Of course, I already have kids and stuff like that. If you know, if I find a man, what do you want me? What do you want?
I'm sorry.
It almost feel like too though, you want us to just accept anything. It don't matter about the attitude as long as I think the only thing I've heard you say.
Is as long as it's not like physical abuse or something like that. Everything else is supposed to.
I want you. Yep. I do. I want you to accept anything. You're damn right. I want you to accept a man is a man that can is sane and he, uh, is a decent man. I don't care how you.
Don't think that's. No, no, no. Ma'am, I need you. No, I'll let you speak. I need you to accept the man or you die alone.
Man, no disrespect. You got two grown mother flipping kids. If the world was a right place, you wouldn't have a man at all.
You should get no man in life. But that's like saying people ne will never make mistakes like there is a.
No, that's saying that you, that's saying you go back and complete the family you started.
He married. He, he married somebody else.
That's your problem. You should have completed it when you had a chance. See, one of the things we've told women to do is just go out and make babies and then you realize that let me tell you something, dear heart. Any man who gets you would be settling.
Yeah.
He'd be settling for you. You got two kids.
I mean, even though.
And see, that's where I be battling because it's like.
Well, but you, you. Okay, let me, let me, let me see. Let me hold on. Let me contract a contract. Let me. No, no, no, no, no. Stop. Let me reframe all this for you. If we were talking about non-black men, if I snapped all the black men away, would a white man accept you? The average white man?
You mean like the same way you say average for a black?
Yeah. If there were no, if I snapped all the black men away, would, would you expect white men, average white men, above average white men, would they come and say, "Well, sure. Becky or you?" Yeah, sure. Products. Would, would white men take you?
Maybe if it wasn't, um. No.
No.
Okay. Would a Chinese man take you? Would Chinese? Would Asian men take you?
No.
Would Middle Eastern men? Stop. Stop. Stop. Would Middle Eastern men take you?
No. Probably not.
No. Because you know you couldn't come to them with the same thing you come to a black man with.
You. No. Listen.
Why do you think they? Because.
Listen. Because we are not beneath you.
Your standards is you think black men should accept. Why should a black? Why would you expect a black man to accept what you know a white man, an Asian man, and a Middle Eastern man wouldn't expect? Accept.
They, they don't respect us. Anyways, I don't think if I, I think if I was childless, they wouldn't really, you know, that's just my personal opinion.
Would it be? Would it be because of your race?
I, I, I feel like so.
No. No, it's not because of your race. It's because of the lack of femininity. It's because of the size. It's because of the attitude. It's because of the way y'all come in as masculine. Men are men don't reject women on race first. They reject women and black lack femininity. And those other cultures have a patriarchy and structure. And this is what I keep trying to get you black men to understand. Black women expect us to accept less. Then they know that they would have to raise their standards. If we were all gone, they know if they wanted a man, whether they were attracted to them or not, whether they thought white men was just as boring and they know they'd have to up their game because white women wouldn't. White women ain't going to just let you come in and take their men. They gonna fight for their men. They gonna compete. Y'all expect us to compete for you. You expect us to settle. Ain't happening. I just something I realized a long time ago like the honor is you're not their pride and really the mindset I'm old him no you're like or you're old him it's vice versa. You really have to like humble yourself, woman, you know what I'm saying?
Well, the thing. The thing is, our women don't have to humble themselves because they believe that our culture and the media and everything else and even the women told.
Women that we would be lucky to have you in any state. Women in my lifetime, women used to feel some kind of way. You used to be shamed for coming to church being a single mother. Now you can come to a church with three or four different kids with four or five different men sit on the front row and scream amen. There's no shame anymore in the black community. Now women, women, men have been saying all we want is women who are fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, submissive, and childless. Women have progressively gotten larger.
But I've never. You're the first and only children say that.
[ __ ]
I swear.
No, ma'am. I have been 53 years old. We have been saying this for the longest. Y'all just haven't been paying us any attention. Cuz one thing that started to happen is.
Uh.
Well, I'mma tell you right now. Listen.
The boring dudes are supposed to be your husbands, not your [ __ ] [ __ ] up baby daddies.
True. That's that's why 54% of black men are single and childless. 30% of black men are married. But 80% of black children are born outside of wedlock. So roughly that means 80% of kids are being birthed by are being fathered by less than 20% of men. It's the 80% of men that don't. It is it is the it is the large group of men that ain't married and ain't got no kids that have been saying if you want us to marry you, you got to be this. And what happens? You got to go out there and have somebody else's kid. And then you finally start turning around and looking for Russell Wilson. So, and then you're like, "Well, where they been saying it?" They were saying if they were in the chess room, they were in the algebra class, they were in physics, but y'all were, but y'all was calling them corny and lame and goofies and nerds and everything else. And.
Let's see how. So, how do we stop this? Because like.
It may be too late for me. I may need to just go ahead and.
I was going to tell you how you start. You tell your daughters. You tell your daughters and you tell your your your cousins and your nieces that are under, uh, 18. You start raising your daughters and your sisters to to serve the men of the family, to value the men of the family. If you have children, you say you got two boys.
Yes, sir.
Okay. Well, if you got a boy and a girl, you put more resources into your son than your daughter. You got to women have to start making a difference with the men with the boys in their home. If you start, if you start seeing women start making a difference between their son and daughter, what happened today and black women, they cuddle their sons and they make their daughters harder. Go to college and do this, this, this, and they put their boys in Jordans. No, no. You put the resources into your boys. Boy Scouts, this that martial arts, blah blah blah, STEM, science, technology, engineering, math, [ __ ] basketball, football, and all these sports. Put them in math club, chess club, finance. Start, start building a man, boys that are going to kind of grow into the men. So the daughters will have something to build with. And the reality is a lot of women aren't going to get nobody because nature. Cuz even if you were ready to do it, the work is so a lot of women feel like it's too, too much work to be done. And let's just say it is. You can't ask men to settle because y'all don't want to settle.
And see, that's the thing. I don't mind settling, but it's just like, how can? Because like I have someone that I'm dating, but I tell him all the time based on how, you know, based on watching you, that we need to go to therapy because I feel like because of his childhood and how he was raised and, you know, other things that, you know, he is kind of messed up emotionally. You know what I'm saying? Then why would you.
Then why would you deal with that?
Well, Kevin, you just said I got to settle. Who else I'm.
Say you got to settle for. Damn, I didn't say you got to settle for emotional damage. I said settle for the stable, boring, average guy. None of that was emotional damage.
Here's what you got to settle for. The guy that don't make you tingle. The short guy. The guy with the little dick who lasts for 30 seconds. The guy who gets up at five o'clock in the morning and goes to work and comes home and eats a bologna sandwich and watches the boring ass guy.
And boring ass [ __ ].
I know I may not look like you, but I've had that before. And those type of men are insecure and it's like, you know, it causes unnecessary issues.
Insecure meaning what? Insecure about what? I mean, just like, you know, just, you know, anything like.
No, I don't.
Want to want to check my phone and, and I, I wouldn't never have a problem, but it's like if, if we don't have trust, if you can't trust me to walk out the door without you, like, you know what I'm saying? So, it just be, it be really hard and I really.
I'm not. I'm not going to do this. I'm not going to let you paint all the average men as, as, as insecure. You get married. I really want to find.
Stop. Stop. Stop. Stop. Stop.
Stop. You are what you attract.
I'm sorry. I know too many men who don't fit this category because everything seems like, well, I'd be willing to accept this and willing to accept that. Well, if you meet somebody who I said is stable, this, that, you said, and those aren't the same two men. And if you're dating a man who's insecure checking your phone, why are you going on the third date?
Mhm.
If you got a man who needs therapy, this on you. So, you're not going to paint all men in this category. This is what you call confirmation bias. And why y'all do this, why women like yourself do this is because you say, "Well, they all messed up, so I might as well get one to turn me on or whatever, cuz no matter what I settle for, something going to be wrong with them, so I might as well get good sex or whatever." [ __ ] all that. No.
Yeah. No, that's not what's important to me. I really want to have like, like you said.
Have you gone to therapy? Have you gone to therapy? Have you gone to therapy?
Yes. I don't still go, but yes, I.
How long did you go?
Um, for about two years.
Okay. How long ago was that?
Um, probably about four or five years ago.
So, you mean so you're saying that you still at this point are not being able to sort through and vet and pick healthy-minded men? I think I just do not know how to pick. Kevin.
Is your, a father in your life?
No, sir.
All right. Well, that's a big problem. I can't get into all that, but a big part of why y'all pick what y'all pick, too.
Because I mean, we're responsible for our choices, ma'am. And I'm sorry. You said you live in Texas, in Dallas.
I'm sorry. No, there too many good men. There's a hell of a lot of good men in Dallas. Hell of a lot of them. Go to Garland. They have that [ __ ] off on my man one more goddamn time. I lived in Garland for too long. Knock it off, ma'am. It's not gonna fly. It ain't gonna fly here. Don't go to the Potter's House. Go to Oakcliff Bible Fellowship. Go to Ibach. Go to Friendship West. There are plenty of good black men in Dallas Fort Worth.
Knock that [ __ ] off. I mean, I haven't.
No, no, no, no, no.
And guys, that brings us to the end of today's video. Thanks for watching. Now, breaking this video down, I think it's hell of a thing to do. But let's talk of the two ladies involved in this video, one is living in reality and one has to still live in fantasy. And the thing is this, the two women in the video, the younger one is more matured. I mean, she's 32 years old, so she's the youngest and she's more mature. Saying if she happen to get a man that is making $40,000 and that is more than enough for her because she's already doing, I mean, taking care of herself and the kids or the boys, whatever the case is. So, if someone is bringing in $40,000, that is more than enough because that $40,000 will be able to maintain that person. So if that is coming in, I think that's an improvement in your situation. And this lady talking about $40,000, I don't know how they tend to view the how they tend to look at themselves. You are obese in the first place. But I think all these things tend to happen or these kind of statement tend to go towards black men for the simple fact that we are so satisfied with women that have already reproduced with other men because there is no reason why this lady in such position should be able to say these things that she just said in the video. Asking of well Middle Eastern men, Arab and all those people, white men not accepting you for who you are right now. And you expect black men to accept and just appreciate that. It's an insult. It means black men are bene. We are the lowest of the lowest. That's why she just basically said indirectly and it's crazy. And the only reason why these women tend to say these type of things is just the simple fact that we as black men we promote mediocracy. That's just the truth. Because in an actual world, if the world was to be a right, the right place right now, these type of women wouldn't get husbands like Kevin said in the in the video because God, the days women that already reproduce with other men wouldn't get husbands. We have a situation whereby we have guys no, they are val not understanding who they are and then appreciating whatever that comes their way and that is the only reason why a woman like this will [ __ ] on men making $40,000. It's just crazy like even come to think of it thinking of man. It's just I mean, the delusion and the fantasy is just out of this world. You have already messed up having two kids from, well, luck or whatever the case. If it is marriage, they still don't care. It's still, you know, you've reproduced with another man and you still thinking of having the dream guy. So what does that dream guy deserve? Does he deserve you? Are you the price that he deserve? I think that's why it always boil down to you're not thinking of, okay, what I'm looking for is that really looking for me? They don't think of it that way. They just think of, oh, I have to get that man that is 6' tall. You know, that is very exciting. Take me around the world driving Mercedes and all those things. That is what is going on in their hearts and they don't care what the [ __ ] you want. And like I said, sometimes we got to hold ourselves as black men accountable for some of these things. It's just for the simple fact that we, we glorify. Let me just say that. We, we glorify mediocre and it's just bad, right? And when he asks her, did you provide a peaceful home? And Kevin Samuel has to define what being peaceful or peaceful home is. Tell us everything you need to know. There wasn't peace because we all understand that this lady understand what peace stands for. So asking that, what is your definition of peacefulness is just, I mean, you don't need the answer from her. That was a self-answered question. Mean, she didn't provide that, but she just cannot say that shame itself, guilt, and the need to be right couldn't make her answer the question directly. You obese. I mean, respectfully, I'm not trying to be an [ __ ] like I. But sharing on men that are making $40,000 and thinking that your mom and your dad making 80, $90,000 is just average tells you the mindset of these women. So if you're average woman and you are not making that amount of money and you thinking that an average man that is coming into your life should be making 80, 90, I think I will say you don't have sense. If that is how your mind is operating, you don't have sense because you're already an average person and you are not making that amount of money that you are thinking of average people to be making, which is 80, 90. And she thought her parents were average people. No, even if they were to be average people, like he said, that's a different generation. Guys, catch you in the next one. I'm out. And subscribe. Peace.