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đź’•AVOIDING YOU BECAUSE THEY FEEL ASHAMED! đź’Ż / love tarot

Lumiere Tarot •6:44

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Hey my lovelies, thank you for joining me. I'm so happy you're here. I hope you are doing well. Let's find out what Spirit wants you to know regarding you and the person on your mind right now. They may be avoiding you; they may have, like, ghosted you, or just like, um, and it's because they feel ashamed, is what I'm hearing.

So they may not have responded to a message that they've sent you, but they feel ashamed about their behavior, and now they cannot face you, is what I'm seeing. Okay, this person, they may have an avoidant attachment style, but there's something here where they are really, um, controlling their emotions. They're not letting on how they feel; they are kind of avoiding feeling their feelings as well. So they're like a stranger to themselves, is what I'm seeing in this situation. It is not the healthiest way of dealing with things. They've got a heart chakra block; there is a wound that needs healing here.

But when it comes to you, and you're just like, you know, you've gone ghost, or you've pulled away, or what is going on here? What is going on is that they cannot feel their feelings; they're afraid of their feelings; they're afraid of their feelings, um, in relationships, or or for you. It makes them feel triggered or too vulnerable. Let's see, this person, though, it feels like there's a strong energy of self-sabotage here, but they don't want to lose you. Ultimately, they want to be with you; they do love you. There is no one else for them. They may entertain other people because it's entertaining, but they don't want to lose you. But I think they're doing—it's like that's from their higher self and their heart's desire, but that their behavior is the opposite. You are a good thing in their life, I tell you; you are a good thing in their life. Don't let their issues impact you or reflect on you. Don't take that on board, okay? It isn't you. You are lightness; you are magnetic; you are pure, um, you are a catch. You have all these things going for you. So this is their own journey to heal this, okay?

Their heart skipped a beat when they met you. They fell in love, maybe the moment they saw you, or just, um, it's like their own feelings, the depth of their feelings is a trigger, or like your love, your pure love, is a trigger for them. Like anything superficial, they can handle it; anything where someone's a little bit distant because they're a little bit narcissistic or something like this, that's what feels familiar to them. But this, your pure love that they have, that you express, that you have given them, is a trigger for them, and it's really, really sad. This is childhood wounding that we're dealing with here. You were meant to meet this person and go on this journey. This person is like a significant messenger in your life. I think that you have the capacity to self-reflect, and you know a lot of wisdom, so you're able to see the bigger picture here. And this person was brought into your life for a reason, and you—you know the suffering ends when meaning begins. When you can find the meaning in this situation and in this connection, um, then you'll be able to see the bigger picture, and you'll be able to alchemize some of these more challenging emotions. You've been together in many lifetimes as well, so you've inre—like a lot of, um, karma and energy between you and this person. All right, they're always thinking about you. This is the thing; this is the thing. It's like they can't allow themselves to have you, and you're just like, well, why is that? Cuz it's really weird, and it's like it's subconscious.

I think if you're resonating with this message and you're still with me, it's because, um, I'm seeing a strong avoidant attachment style in this person. They avoid difficult things; they avoid conflict; they avoid feeling their feelings, talking about feelings, um, deep connection, the whole nine yards, all of it. But yet this person does love you, from their higher self, from their heart. The truth is that they love you, and this is—it's very melancholy what I'm picking up on; it's very bittersweet is what I'm seeing here, and they think about you all the time. They talk to you in their mind. There's an energy of divine timing here. What I'm hearing is that they've got some healing work to do. You cannot rescue them; you cannot do the work for them. I know you want to because you've got that empath energy, um, I think that they're going to come back into your life at a later date. I think you've got a lot that you have to do in your life that is very exciting. There's a lot of exciting things lined up for you in your life, a lot of exciting opportunities and changes that you can, uh, grab with both hands. You can—you can jump in and really kind of experience those right now, and it's going to bring you a lot of joy. But this person is in a dark place, and they are going to come out of this. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. They are a really, really good person, and it's really sad that they're in this mindset, or that they've tripped up over this, um, these limiting beliefs, and they're not sure what to do, do or how to heal it. But it doesn't—it makes it difficult for you to be together at the depth that you want to connect at, but it doesn't negate the feelings that you've had for each other and the experiences that you've had together and how special your connection is.

Those are your messages today. Let me know how it resonates down in the comments. I read every single one of my comments. Also, remember to claim your rereading with Keen. You can talk to a LifeStar psychic today about what's next in life and love to get the clarity you need. Five minutes for $1 over at Keen, uh, with the five-star psychic of your choice. So check that out; details in the description or in my bio. But take care.