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[Music] Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen. Testing one, two, testing one, two. Who can hear me? Who can see me? How are we, boys? How are we, boys? Who is the youngest person here? Write your age in the chat for me. I'm going to give some advice for the younger guys. This, this live stream is all for the younger guys who are either in school or in college. So right, tell me what you're doing right now. What's your biggest thing? Is it school? Is it college? Is it business? Is it work? Type that in the chat, let me see, because this, this is going to be a good live stream for the younger guys who are in school and who are in college. What do we got? Actually, let me do a poll so I can see. Poll: We got school, we got college, we got work. I'll say job, and I'll say business, right? Uh, answer this poll that I've just done in the chat right now. Do it faster, then let's see. We got school, college, job, business. If you're in school and college, like doing a job in business inside of it, just put school and college, because like that's more of the—I wouldn't say it's the important thing, but it's kind of like the thing that you can't kind of like, you know, um, stop doing right now. So even if you want to grow your business, if you are in school and you go in there every single day, then, then put that down. Oh man, we've got a huge number of guys in school. Okay, this, this live stream is going to be valuable as [ __ ] for you right now, school and for college, especially for the college guys. Because for the school guys, I'm assuming this is going to be kind of weird. Actually, for the guys who, who have said that you're in school, just say yes or no. If you are in school only, if you're in school right now. Are people [ __ ] like, are people having sex around you? Is that, are you at the age yet where like people are either having sex or maybe at least like doing like oral or, or stuff like that, or you know, girls are posting like sexual content on TikTok and stuff? Yes, if that's happening, or no, if like no, you're not old enough, or you just haven't really seen that in your environment yet. Yeah, it's kind of M, how many guys are saying yes? Isn't it? For these are people in school. So everyone who's saying yes right now, if you just wrote yes, please just type your age in the chat. Only if you just wrote yes, type your age in the chat, just so I can see. Okay, so for anyone typing their age, this is the age of people who are seeing like there's sex happening around them right now. There's some like older, there's some 19 and stuff, but there's some which is very [ __ ] young, 12, 14. And for everyone typing their age right now, just be totally honest, are you slightly maybe like influenced by this? Like, do you in some ways feel like you're missing out? Do you think like, you know, you want to kind of like do it as well? You want to get a girlfriend, maybe you don't want to be a total degenerate, but in some ways like you might still want to go to the party, you might still want to be like invited and to be able to speak to these girls and everything. Maybe you don't want to do it and you know it's not good for you, you know it's not good for your focus, but you like the desire a little bit is probably there? Yes or no. Yeah, quite a lot, man, cuz I when I was, was um, 13, 14, 15, I was the exact same, literally. I was, you know, I, I didn't know the people were having sex till I was like um, 17, honestly. Like when I heard about people like, you know, my friend told me that he got head from some girl, like I genuinely didn't believe him. I didn't realize people were doing that [ __ ] till I was literally like 17 years old. Like I had my first kiss when I was 17. So my experience probably is a little bit like slower than yours. Like I literally had my first kiss at 17, I had sex at age 19, but then after that I went into like I basically like, you know, rinsed out this life right. So I went full into degeneracy and I started like [ __ ] like as much as possible. So today I want to give you the sort of opinion of a guy who did enjoy himself whilst he was young and didn't focus on like the work. So before we, we do that, before I drop in, let me ask one final question to you right now. What is your opinion whilst you're young? Should you work hard or should you enjoy yourself? Like if you could only choose one, of course, of course you can try and get like a balance, but if you can only choose one, which one would you like prioritize? Would it be working hard or would it be enjoying yourself? Work, and just be totally honest. Everyone's writing work hard, but if you actually disagree, if you like actually think like, you know, being young it's good to enjoy yourself, then just write that down, just be like to. I want everyone to be like totally honest here, like we can disagree with each other respectfully, because we've got a lot of work hards naturally in this like, you know, industry of self-improvements for my men watching this. So yeah, yeah. So I'd say it looks like there's more guys saying work hard, but there's still quite a few who are saying to enjoy life and to try and find the balance. I personally do believe that balance is a bit [ __ ], like there's some people who can maintain balance. I don't know any successful person who is balanced. It, it's all like Medi sort of broke people who are balanced that I know, and you know, they kind of like, they work kind of hard and then they take a few days off and they, you know, they relax on weekends and stuff. There's, there's no one who's rich who's like that. I'm just being honest to you, there, there's not a single person who's rich who's balanced. It's just how it works. It's like, what if you want to become like amazing at the thing you do as an entrepreneur, business, athlete, whatever, you're not living a balanced life. You're like, you're working a lot every day, even on weekends. It doesn't matter, like weekends don't exist for an entrepreneur. So anyone saying balance, like I will just kind of say like it's not going to happen to you. If you think you can like balance both of them and stuff, it's, it's um, it's not so much that you can balance like every day or every week, but you can get like some kind of weird [ __ ] up balance like through the year. So for example, a lot of entrepreneurs what they'll do is they'll work really, really hard for a few months at a time. They're literally working 12-hour days, 14-hour days. They're literally just waking up, working and just sleeping. That's it. They're eating like one meal a day, they're often not even eating, they're just super focused, super focused, super focused. Then when that big project is done, that big like block of life is done, they go wild for like one week, two weeks, three weeks. They start taking a bunch of drugs, [ __ ] a lot of girls, partying, flying around. Okay, one week here, one week here. A lot of entrepreneurs do that. It's like a very extreme example of like work hard, play hard. I don't know any rich guy who basically like, who has this like very wholesome like balanced life. Even the ones who've got like families and F and um, wives and everything, they still go into like these moments of like detached away from life and from love, and they just focus on work for a few days at a time. It's just that's just um, my experience of seeing it, and it's the exact same with me as well. So I, I'll work 12, more than 12 hours a day, and um, oh, we've got Ali in the chat as well. What's up, bro? I'll work more than 12 hours a day, and then I'll have periods where I kind of like go off that for a couple of weeks. So Ali said, hey, I'd love your thoughts on the dilemma of work hard to grow my business versus I've achieved the goal of financial independence, I want to chill and do the work. Honestly, it's not that different, Ali, from um, from what these guys are struggling with, which is like basically, do I continue like working as hard as possible, or should I try and add more enjoyment to my life? Best-case scenario is that you get the enjoyment from your work. So I've set up my life in a way that there's genuinely no like fun activity which isn't like, you know, like taking drugs and that kind of stuff. Okay, fine, that's very stimulating, but in terms of like sort of normal life, there's no like fun activity which is actually more fun than my work. So what I'd say to you, Ali, is like increase the fun of your work. You've always been into that with your productivity mindset. It's how can you find a way to psychologically make it more fun? So for example, like this isn't really a work task, it's 4:00 a.m. right now where I'm at in barley, and I was going to just work on a video, and I randomly write it started writing down like this topic on a video, and I was like, oh [ __ ], I want to like, I want to talk about this right now. I want to give advice to the boys right now. So what I'm, I'm like here helping the young men in, in this community, and this is technically work. Look, I'm gonna make like a few thousand pounds for hopping on to this live stream right now, and it's like I'm, I'm literally here chatting with the boys. It's like, it's not actually hard for me to do. I'm literally smiling, it's not hard. I've not had to set it up. I'm not like, you know, like I've not even got ready. I've not even showered yet or anything. So this is like, if you can add in some of the tasks that are super fun, then you can merge like your work with that. The one of the biggest, biggest things that I'm like a big pusher for is that sort of masculine purpose. If you can really add meaning to your work, it becomes a lot more fun. You see, I'm not live streaming right now, and when I do upload a video, I'm not actually uploading a video to me in my own brain. I'm, I'm literally saving this generation. I'm, I'm making the strongest community of men out there. One guy uploads a video, the other guy is leading the movements, one guy is laying the brick, another guy is building a cathedral. One of these, these young men here right now, when he studies, he's not studying, he's on the path to retire his family, whereas his peers are just checking off the box and just reading the page. That's the difference. So for the young guys who are here right now, who, who have voted that they're in school, you know, when you want to study or when you don't feel like studying, what if you did think to yourself, I'm not actually studying, I'm preparing for the skill that's going to help me retire my family, so my father doesn't have to work anymore. For the young guys who want to make a business right now, you're trying to grow like a YouTube channel, what if you did say to yourself like, oh, I'm not just uploading YouTube videos, I'm sharing the lessons that would save another man's life. Suddenly, it's like, it's, I'm up at 4:00 a.m. right now, it's not hard to wake up super [ __ ] early when you think like your work is that important. It just adds a lot of like fulfillment to the, the tasks that you do. So for most of us, we did say that okay, we should prioritize uh, working hard when we're young. So I want to give you my experience, because there's, there's a big sort of war online of like, should I work hard when I'm super young, or should I maybe be a bit more social and enjoy myself? Should I go to some parties? Is anyone in that, that dilemma right now? Is anyone like recently been thinking, man, like, you know, should I, should I kind of like be a bit more social and, you know, like make more friends and stuff? Just say yes if, if that's like you. Maybe it's with video games, like should I just play some, you know, with my friends and stuff? Shouldn't I be enjoying myself when I'm young? Yeah, yeah. So for, for men of us, yes, and like I, I know how hard this like mental turmoil is, because you feel a responsibility to work hard and to delay gratification, but you're seeing everyone else around you and they're having a great time, and this makes it worse, right? Let me ask you another question. You know the people that you see around you who aren't working as hard as you and they are enjoying life more than you, doesn't it piss you off that they still seem to be getting like great results? Like there's a guy, you know, who doesn't work as hard, who's enjoying himself more, and he still attracts loads of girls, he's not even on self-improvements. There's another guy, you know, who, who doesn't study even half as much as you, but gets higher grades. Doesn't that [ __ ] piss you off? And as much as you might have like love for the guy, you know, you respect him, whatever, but it, it like in some ways it kind of like hurts to, to see someone who's having it all, he's enjoying himself and he makes a [ __ ] ton of money. So for example, like okay, if I looked at like Ean or Andrew Tate, if I looked at these guys and I'm like, you know, you see their Instagram post and you're like, damn, he's, he's with women, he's enjoying himself and stuff. Here I am in my, my sweaty [ __ ] bedroom just working 12 hours a day like a goggling, like what am I doing, bro? Shouldn't I go and enjoy myself more? It hits to you, right? This, this social comparison that you feel all the time, it hits to you, especially when it feels like that guy isn't working as hard as you. How about like in the gym? I know that's a little bit off topic, but for all of the guys here who are like super hard in the gym, how about when you meet a guy in the gym who, who quite frankly is a [ __ ] idiot and he doesn't even know anything about the gym? Does it, does that like, has anyone experienced that before? Like you've watched all these fitness videos, you know exactly how many grams of protein you eat per day, and there's a guy who's built more muscle than you, and he's like brain dead. You ask him what, how many grams of protein he eats, and he doesn't even tell you in grams, he tells you in like, yeah, I have like three chicken breast. Bro, you ask him what he's training today, and he goes, oh yeah, you know, chest and, and probably a bit of back, and he's [ __ ] huge compared to you. This is you are right, I'm Theo, I'm there like, eat, sleep, lift, repeat for years. I brought my [ __ ] like black like Kenyan friend who, who must have elite genetics. He did seven workouts, and he was [ __ ] bigger than me, and he was literally bench pressing like, like um, what is, is that 0 80 kg? He was bench pressing 80 kg for reps. It took me three years to get there, and he literally came into the gym, didn't give a [ __ ], smoked weed every day, literally just [ __ ] like played video games and un and stuff, [ __ ] [ __ ], came into the gym, and in seven days literally beat my PR, and he had a nicer physique than me as well. I, I had spent years of my life leveling up, bro, years like, like, like weighing out my uh, every gram of rice and everything, bro. But you know, you know what this says? You know how people are saying genetics, and often we say like something like genetics is like cope, and it's, it's an excuse. Just think about this dynamic right now, because that explains it really well. There's me and there's my Kenyan friend Levi. He has basically never went to the gym before. He's always been, you know, he like runs a little bit. He's Kenyan, so like all Kenyans is [ __ ] sprint, bro. They're just fast, man. Okay, but he's like, he's done some like athletic things, but he's not like actually been in like the gym, right? We meet in university, become best friends. For the last few years, I've been lifting religiously, eating grams of protein, and literally tracking every gram of of rice. I've been doing everything right, and he comes into the gym, and in one week he can bench the same thing as me. Now think about what this would have made me feel, but actually think about why this happened in just a few weeks. His physique actually looked better than mine in three years. Now you might say, oh, B Hamza, you're, you're a [ __ ], you didn't really work that hard, right? But I would actually tell you the actual truth. I actually really did like struggle and sacrifice, and it was actually a massive like, like um, hurdle for me to make that progress. You, you want to know what the difference between me and him was? When I started in the gym at age 17, I couldn't even lift the empty barbell, not even close. Even the empty dumbbells, you know, like the adjustable dumbbells when that had no weight, like my brother would give it to me with no [ __ ] weight on the dumbbell, and even that was a bit tough. You know why? Because I was anorexic. I was 12 pounds when I first started, literally less than 50 kilograms. You most girls that you see in your class right now, they weighed more than me when I started weightlifting. So it took me more than like literally a year or two years to get to like most people's like starting points. It took, think about it, it took me two years to get to most people's starting point. It's, it's often something I, I kind of forget, and this is a brutal like, like story about me. This stuff like you probably don't know about me, even though I've shared a lot on YouTube. There's stuff you don't really know about me with like medical conditions. I went through a kid, we were like a very poor family, and we basically like, I, I was like malnourished, and I didn't actually have like the nutrients when I was a boy. So my legs were all like [ __ ] like, I got like a condition called like rickets. So my legs, my knees, my, my arms, I, I was like this weird like, like, I literally, I was malnourished as a [ __ ] kid because we basically were like, I was born in poverty basically, and um, I stay in places now which are 10K a month. So lots of progress, but I was genuinely malnourished and, and I remember like my dad took me to some hospitals and stuff, and it was already like starting to like [ __ ] up my bones and everything. And so when I was like, you know, an early adult, 17, 18 years old, I was still really like skinny and really weak. And even today, for example, like if any of the guys here who were even 15 years old, if they put their hand like this against man, you would probably have like more, more of like a meaty hand. Like I have quite like a, like a woman's hand wrist, it's quite skinny and everything. Obviously, I'm like, I'm [ __ ] big now, everything, but like my natural state, because I was literally malnourished for most of my life, meant that I, I didn't even have like a good frame to build upon. So I want you to come back with me now to this time in university where my friend benches like the same thing that I did, but I had been like, you know, like working on this goal for like years, and he basically just started at my three-point, three-year point mark. Should I have felt bad about that? What, what if you, if you loved me and you really wanted to pass on like wholesome advice to Jer Hamza whose friend just mugged him? What would you tell Jer Hamza then? Would you tell him like, oh yeah, you should, you should like, you know, feel bad, he, he's just worked harder than you, haha, you should have worked harder? What would you say to him? What would you say to younger Hamza who's looking over to his friend feeling kind of shitty when his friend has just like hit his bench press waiting like a couple of sessions when you like young Hamza had been like working really hard on it? What would you actually say to that like version of me right now? You know, I wouldn't say to, oh, it's just genetics, don't worry, bro. I wouldn't say that to him, just because it's like, I don't think telling a young man like, oh, genetics or whatever, I don't think that makes him like feels strong, but I would just say, I would tell him, don't compare to where another man is today, compared to where you were yesterday. You see, I made actually fantastic linear progress through these years of weightlifting, and it was only when I compared myself to other guys that, that's when it really started to make me feel like [ __ ]. There's a difference between comparison and competition. Competition is, for example, me and my friend Levi, we're both on 80 kg bench press, and as friends we say to each other, bro, let's both of us get to 100 kg bench press, let's figure out how to do it, and let's challenge each other. So then we every like three days, for example, we go in bench press, and we're shouting at each other, oh man, you hit 85, I didn't hit it today. It's like both of us. Competition is when you are literally with someone who you're friends with, and you both have the same goal, and you're both kind of like, like kind of shouting at each other to push hard. So for example, it's you and your friend having a sprinting race, like a, like a race where you trying to run as fast as possible. Competition is like a friendly thing that we do to actually grow together. That's different from like war and fighting, which is like, okay, I really want to [ __ ] this other guy up, I want to hurt him. So like, let's say sparring in, in your martial arts club is friendly competition with guys who are actually on the same team as you. When you get into like an actual fight in martial arts, you know, you organize like the amateur fight, that's [ __ ] war. That's like, that's, that's not a competition anymore. Now you're trying to actually like [ __ ] hurt this guy. So there's like three different levels, right? Comparison is when we look at someone else who is probably better than us in some way, and we can't help but feel bad about that. Competition is when we find a friend who has the same goal as us, and we keep encouraging each other to push really hard, and we're trying to like see who can hit it first. And naturally, when two guys say, okay, I bet I can like jump further than you can, naturally both guys end up jumping further than if they were just alone. So competition is a good thing, and it's a friendly thing, and then the final stage is just fighting and war, and that's like, I actually want like, if me and you trying to like, you know, jump, I want you to break genuinely break your legs. If me and you were in this like sort of war like mode of like, you know, we're competing, not competing, Sor, but we're in this like um, martial arts gym or powerlifting or whatever. Does that make sense? That at least that's the way that I see it. So they're, they're the three. My issue is that I was trying to compare to a guy who's on a different part of his journey than I was, and that [ __ ] up my mental health. Now imagine for you right now, when you, you know, for the guys I've just said who are um, feeling like [ __ ] cuz someone else is performing better, better than you in, in your studies, it's the exact same thing. So should you enjoy yourself or should you work hard when you're young? I think I'm not going to tell you to be balanced, because I think that's [ __ ]. What I'm going to say to you is if you, if you can only secure one of them, you'll be more glad that you secure working hard. You know why? Cuz anyone who, who anyone who thinks that if they just enjoy themselves now they'll be satisfied is completely wrong. Anyone got that mindset? Just, just be totally honest and just type yes in the chat if this is your, your line of thinking. Did you think that if you did enjoy yourself, you'd enjoy yourself for a little while, maybe you'll party a little bit, maybe you'll try like going to like your parties or take drugs or maybe have sex and like, you know, be social, and then you're kind of like, you'll kind of stop doing that because the itch has been ticked, the itch has been scratched? Anyone had that mindset of like, that's what like enjoying yourself right now, it's like, oh, what if I just do it a little bit right now, like whatever, the enjoyment will be so that I can eventually stop doing it and I won't like, I won't desire it anymore. So at least I've like, I've felt it. For many of us typing yes right now, let me tell you the truth, that's not how it works at all, and, and just be honest, I, I want total truth from, from at least a few guys here, total [ __ ] truth, right? It's time to be totally honest. Type one in the chat if you're specifically thinking about having sex that, oh, I might start [ __ ] like a bunch of girls right now just because it'll be fun, but then I'll stop doing it eventually. Type one in the chat if that's what your mindset is, and I'll, I'll type one, not for me right now, but like for when I was a young guy. For many of us right now, that's exactly what we're thinking about, right? And I'm sure like a bunch of religious guys will say whatever, Haram, it's, it's not good, whatever, but if we're totally just honest with each other right now, that's what a lot of us are desiring, right? Let me tell you the truth right now inside of this little bedroom here. I hope he doesn't mind me saying this, but it's my friend Scott. Me and him combined, I won't, I won't even say it, but like both of our body counts together are in like the hundreds. So right now, the reason why I'm bringing him into is because yesterday I actually asked him this question where I said to him like, you know, people online say that you, you could enjoy yourself and then you'll stop doing it later on, and both of us laughed at how stupid that advice is, being guys who [ __ ] when we were young. And Scott is like literally, he's like a [ __ ] Chad covered in tattoos, like neck tattoos, finger tattoos, he's like that kind of guy, right? He grew up in like, you know, like a, I won't say his, his stuff, but like he, he's what we would all consider a Chad, right? 100% what we'd consider a Chad, and we were laughing at how stupid this advice is, like, oh, just go enjoy yourself when you're young. You know why? Because when you scratch that itch when you're young, and like for all the guys typing one who just want to [ __ ] a little bit and then you'll stop, you don't stop after that. If you [ __ ] when you're young and you [ __ ] a bunch of girls, it's not like the itch gets scratched and you're like, oh, okay, I won't do it anymore. It makes it so much [ __ ] easier to fall into that hole. So this might sound cool to some degenerates here, but it's like you can like, not accidentally, but you before you know it, when if you [ __ ] like a bunch of girls.
When you were younger, when you’re still an adult, and you’ve got more things to lose, and you’ve got a bigger reason to be productive, before you know it, it’s like one random week, you you’ve slept with like literally four girls, and it’s just, it just feels normal. You know why? Because it’s like you know how to play the game; you’re actually good at it. You’re good at attracting girls; you’re good at like speaking. It it’s almost like something that just happens instantly because you know how to flawlessly like interact with a woman.
That sounds awesome to some guys. Trust me when I say it’s like it’s it’s probably more of a distraction than it’s worth. If you think that you’re going to like, you know, have a bunch of sex and partying when you’re younger and you’re just going to kind of like mature after that, it’s not. I want you to imagine right now like this low-quality, like I’m imagining some low-quality mid-age British woman who’s got covered in tattoos, and she like partied, and she got like [ __ ] a bunch of times when she was younger with this mindset: “Ha, I’m just young, you know, my mom says it’s fine, I’m just young and stuff.” That same middle-aged woman is still going out drinking right now; she’s still having another boyfriend every three months right now.
When you compare her to the young person who would actually be like super disciplined—let’s say there’s like a nice mature respectable educated woman who never went into this mindset of like, “Oh yeah, I just need to party and enjoy myself right now”—when this this respectful woman is 40 years old, is she still going to have a boyfriend every 3 months? You can imagine these two women right; imagine like a really respectful, clean, like really attractive woman who’s like, you know, had a great father, and she didn’t [ __ ] around when she was in college, and imagine like this sort of like—I keep imagining like a fat British woman with like tattoos and everything—this one enjoyed herself when she was young; this one didn’t. When they’re older, what’s going to happen is is this one suddenly going to think, “Oh well, you know, I [ __ ] around when I was I was younger, so I don’t need to do it anymore,” or she is she going to be more likely to do it?
It almost sounds stupid to ask you this question, but if you do something now, are you going to be more likely to do it in a few years? Of course, right? We all know about The Compound Effect; we all know about habits, right? We all know about like neuroplasticity, like you know the things that we make normal in our brains and habits and beliefs; we end up doing it more and more and more. It’s like a a seal; once the seal is broken, it’s broken. So I see I speak to many young guys who have got this kind of mindset where they think like, “I’ll just party and and I’ll have a bunch of sex right now, and I’ll take drugs, and I’ll be friends with degenerates, and then yeah, I’ll be more serious in my business after that.” They’re not more serious in their business after that; they’re not. And the issue is that they start to associate enjoyment with these bad, unhealthy, unsafe things.
So my advice to you, the safest advice that I can give you, is find the enjoyment and the fulfillment in the hard work. You don’t need to separate them, you know? So this is this isn’t me telling you, “Have balance, have balance.” No, no, no. This isn’t about balance. This is me telling you, work all [ __ ] day, but make your work be super fulfilling so that you want to work all day because it’s actually super fun. My work is more fun than partying; my work is genuinely more fun than having sex, honestly. My work is more fun than having sex, so I work [ __ ] 12 hours a day. It’s easy for me; it’s fun for me. The amount of fulfillment that I get from it, of being a [ __ ] modern-day leader for young men who actually like look up to me, who listen to the message, who are respectful, who are developing awesome values—that’s fun as hell. It’s literally, it’s just hit 5:00 a.m.; I’ve been awake for 2 hours. It’s 5:00 a.m., and I’ve been awake for and working for two hours. This right now doesn’t even feel like work; this is me just like just talking to my men casually, just having a fun time, and then I’m going to go back to work again.
I might have still been out right now. I’m 26 years old. Five years ago at 5:00 a.m., maybe on this exact day, I would have been in some weird flat taking drugs, inhaling [ __ ] laughing gas, and probably like struggling to [ __ ] the girl next to me because my dick was barely getting hard because I was so sleep-deprived and I had so many substances inside of me. That’s like the extreme end of what people think enjoying yourself is like: go to these parties and have casual sex with girls that you don’t even like, you girls you you literally have nothing in common with. Now this isn’t me saying that you have to like go the full extreme route with, you know, religion, you’ve got to get married married first, or anything like that; that’s maybe a good thing as well. But for me, this is just saying like, “What if he didn’t do the ultra-degenerate things? What if he did find a woman who’s awesome, and then you wanted to spend time with her? Sweet. What if that…” Like think about the difference between finding a girl who you actually are compatible with and having sex with her compared to just like trying to [ __ ] as many women as possible. This one’s literally more fun and is healthier; this one’s [ __ ] like it’s disgraceful; it’s the kind of thing that you wouldn’t want your—imagine how what how your mother would react if she got to like sort of see that her son was like this. She’d be [ __ ] like like disgusted by you, and rightly so, because this is like the worst.
Men go into this kind of environment of like, “Oh yeah, I just want to socialize and just make friends; I just want to like, you know, I just want to um party and take drugs and be with these like um low-quality people, degenerates.” I I used the wrong word in this one. Like socializing, making friends is is still awesome; it just depends if they’re like, you know, horrible degenerate people, drug addicts and stuff. I wish the young men of our tribe didn’t feel like you were missing out as much because you’re not losing that much when you’re in school or college and you’re not going out to like sleep with these girls or anything, or you’re not going to like these parties where people are acting all sloppy and everything. Certainly if you do want to go and like experience it, and you’ve never really been to a party before, and you want to go to like a couple or something, yeah, fine, absolutely; maybe that will be the balance for you that you went to like three parties this year or something. But just know that it like it has lasting impact, and if you can get ahead in this game of like like navigating your purpose and really adding meaning to your work, nothing compares to that: no party, no drug, no woman compares to like you actually having work that you find fulfilling.
So the one last question I’m going to ask you right now is: Do you have work that is fulfilling and purposeful and meaningful? Type one in the chat right now, and if you don’t have work that feels like really fulfilling, type two right now. Yeah, we have a lot of twos. Yeah, there are some ones, but there’s a lot of twos. That’s what we’ve got to help with. This is the bigger thing that I think we should be focused on as young men in our tribe. It’s so easy to be focused more on like on, you know, just trying to like party and whatever and maybe get girls and all this, but if you’re writing two right now and you don’t have like this really really meaningful, wholesome work that’s fulfilling you, it’s going to be so easy for you to be addicted to short-form content and and video games. It’s going to be so easy for you to eventually fall for a low-quality girl, and I guarantee the guys typing two right now, guaranteed if we did like an analysis of everyone typing in one and two, uh the guys typing in one have got fulfilling work; the guys typing in two haven’t, guaranteed. What we’d see is the guys typing in two ejaculate a lot more; the guys typing in two fap a lot more; they play more video games; they spend more hours on YouTube, on TikTok, guarantee it. All the guys typing in one right now who have got meaningful, fulfilling work, guarantee they’re on higher no-fap streaks than everyone else. It’s all the [ __ ] that you hate right now. You know how you keep staying up later than you wanted; you know how you wake up sleep-deprived; you know how like you’re struggling to quit porn and everything. Guaranteed if you’re if you don’t have have meaningful, fulfilling work, guarant[ __ ]teed this is what’s going to happen to you; it’s going to be harder for you, guaranteed.
So maybe on the next next live stream I’ll talk more about like actually finding work that feels meaningful and and adding more meaning to your current work. We got a bunch of people, 1.5k in the chat as well. I’m going to show you a link to Adonis gang; it’s not released yet, but this is like our basically our new community platform. So if you want to um you want to join this, it’s only five bucks a month, so it’s like affordable for literally everyone. If you’re in um if you’re in India, Brazil, whatever, I not really started it just yet; like it’ll be launched in a few days, but this is basically where our new community is. It’s affordable for everyone; this is where you get like tickets to my in-real-life meetups where you come to like the rooftop of gyms and hit workouts, and you you connect with um with our community, our tribe members. So you can go get it right now. I think it’s really [ __ ] good, and it’s just started; it hasn’t technically started yet; it’s um we’ll launch it in a few days, but if you just wanted to like join early or something, speak to the guys who are in there; there’s already almost 400 people in there as well, which is like really [ __ ] good. This is where like our tribe will be hosted; this is where we will connect as young men; where I will literally connect you with like friends so that you meet new guys who are similar to you; this is where I’ll set you like action steps; this is where we’ll give you like tickets to come do the meetups in real life like as I travel around the world. If you—right now I’m in Indonesia, in Bali; maybe next time I’ll fly out to like Thailand; maybe I’ll go back to Dubai; maybe I’ll go to London, whatever—and this is like how you get all this, so you can go to that link if you want to right now. It’ll be like if if you’re uncertain right now, there’ll be like a full video I post on the main Channel where I talk about it, but if you just wanted to like come in early, I’ve just been posting the link there just because a lot of people like joining early before like a program is like fully launched just because you end up like, you know, kind of like feeling a nice little connection with everyone who’s there before we really send like thousands of people there. So if you want to do come join, that’s awesome. I think it’s [ __ ] awesome, man. I I feel so [ __ ] like purposeful being inside of Adonis gang and seeing these guys like grow inside. If you just go and even look at the page as well, the last the video on the page that you can see that was the most recent Meetup. So if you enjoy coming to something like that, like if you just go have a look at the last uh video on it where it’s like 25 guys came, we went to the rooftop of a gym nearby; I paid for everyone’s like day pass and everything; I paid for like a a personal trainer, and we all hit like a massive workout together; we got like content pictures of everyone; it’s [ __ ] awesome. And for you paying $5 a month, it’s like I spent more money on everyone’s day passes than like they they spent in like [ __ ] I don’t how how much would like I don’t know about a year of like their monthly memberships like, but it’s it’s just so [ __ ] wholesome, man. Let’s let’s gather like the men in one main Community where we’re all like masculine as [ __ ] where you’re getting set like action steps by me, where you’re getting like, you know, all these posts where you can write where or the guys are like given advice. If I could, I don’t think I can like share screen right now, but um inside everyone’s like sharing like advice, resources, videos, Notion templates, and like, you know, asking good questions. Uh, yeah, it’s awesome, man. We’ve just hit we’re just about to hit 400 members as well; this is awesome. We’ll leave it there, and um Massie just joined, good man who has just joined right now. Let me let me uh let me see Massie’s just joined. I wonder yeah, I do wonder how many people join when I mention it on a live stream because it’s quite amazing. I can just hop on a live stream and like 10, 20, 30 people just end up like buying a program that they basically don’t even know anything about. Massie joined; epicness joined; and we got um basic Omega just joined; nice. We got better people join; we got hry just joined; andry joined as well. Yep, see boys, if you want to join Adonis gang, the full explanation, like if you’re uncertain like like I’m saying, it’s the full explanation of the video of like what’s inside will come out soon on the main Channel; you’ll see it, and you’ll um if you want to like, you know, see exactly what’s inside, but if you just want to kind of join and just kind of risk your five bucks, you’re going to be very happy if you join. I just want to see it hit 400 members before I go. Basically, there you go. Sick man, I think it’s [ __ ] awesome because what I was saying is like the the cheapest programs I’ve sold so far, like, you know, the the stuff that I sell as an influencer, they’re all like $500, so many young guys can’t afford that. Basically like loads of people in like India, Pakistan, Brazil, these countries, they just wouldn’t be able to afford like, you know, a little online program for $500. This one’s five bucks; five bucks a month. You join; you you connect with everyone else who are here, so it’s I think it’s just super [ __ ] awesome, man. Yeah, we just hit 400 members; sweet. Quick quick shill from me; I just made 20 bucks, guys. Yes. [Music] Oh no, Jose, it’s not five bucks a day; it’s five bucks uh every month, so it’s 60 bucks per year. So I think it’s pretty affordable even for like guys in India; you could probably still afford like $60 per year, five bucks per month, which is pretty nice, isn’t it? It’s not like like I said, it’s not actually fully launched just yet, but this is specifically if you just wanted to join like early because there’s only 400 people; soon I’ll have like thousands, maybe 10,000, maybe more; we’ll see actually how m—is this; do the math right now, right? Everyone’s paying five bucks a month; think about how much money I’m going to make when there’s 100,000 people inside of Adonis gang. Someone write that down; what is it? How much am I going to make per not even per month; how much am I going to make per year when there’s 100,000 people in this community who are paying five bucks a month? 100,000 people who pay five bucks a month; how much am I going to make per year? Six million from one program. I was malnourished as a child; we were so poor; I didn’t even have nutrients so that my legs have grown in like a weird way. I was malnourished as a child. This year we’ve already made more than a million dollars; next year they’ll be pushing about 10. I hope that gives you some inspiration for the rest of of today. Maybe I’ll go find a picture of me when I was a kid; you see like my it brings the tear to my eye, man; my legs were all like [ __ ] up and like caved in, woods and stuff; it’s like you you literally like you it kind of it really looks like a [ __ ] like I don’t know like a charity picture or something, like pictures of me when I was like a little baby; it’s like we were so [ __ ] poor that I didn’t even have like the nutrients to grow properly. Six million a year from one program; that’s the goal for next year. Yeah, I’ll find a picture of like it it doesn’t look like that um serious now because obviously I’ve had nutrients over the last few years, but I’ll find a picture of when I was a kid, and you can just see it’s like my knees just cave inwards and everything; like it’s horrible, man. Yeah, thank you for joining the live stream today. If you do want to join, get closer to me; you want to learn from the boys and everything; I really think it’s going to be [ __ ] awesome if you if you join Adonis gang, and I’ll see you to the next live stream whenever I do them; do the hard work, especially when you don’t feel like it.