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@JedediahBilaLIVE & @JustPearlyThings DESTROY Modern Women On Body Count And Equality | Episode 83

Jedediah Bila LIVE1:08:10

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Oh, yeah. The dance has begun. And we have a very special dance today cuz we are celebrating that J B Live hit 100,000 subscribers on YouTube, which is awesome. And we have a guest who just hit a million subscribers on YouTube. So, that now I you typically like do my little intro and then bring in the side shots. Everyone's like, she's back. But we brought just probably things back because you were so excited about Pearl. I got so many messages like, oh my god, I love her personality. I love the collab. So, I know she's only here for a short time right now. So, I was like, let's get her back in studio. And today we're going to do something a little bit different. Last time it was more of an interview cuz it was our first time sitting down together. Today I decided, you all know how I usually run my show, which is live reacts to all these crazy women. I said, well, how cool would it be if I had Pearl here and we did live reacts together to modern women. So, we're going to react to things like the patriarchy, body count, equality, fat shaming. There's a fun per tweet from Pearl on that I'm going to ask her about. Also, y'all know I covered the Vice panel that Pearl was on. So, there has been some follow-up. Some tweeting has gone on since the panel. It's Pearl's fire. That panel is like the panel that won't die. So, we're going to ask her about that, too. But we're going to dig right into Pearl. Welcome back. And congrats. A million, I mean, man, how does that even happen? That's like a number too big to imagine.

Yeah, I don't know. I I just woke up. I was like, oh, a million. But I don't I mean, it's like crazy. I think you're going to be My husband and I were talking about it. We were like, I think it's going to be the top channel in the whole space very quickly because it's you and Fresh and Fit really like right at the top. Yeah, I mean, there is others like Sneako is at 1.7 million, but they took him down. down. Yeah. And now he's on Rumble. Yeah, they kind of um It's like when the guys get to a certain level, they just take them down, huh? I wonder if that's true. I wonder if some of it is like that we get away with saying some things because we are female. I think we do, honestly. Um or maybe I'm next. We'll see. Maybe I'm Maybe I'm next. They'll take me down. No, no, no, we can't have that. We cannot have the Matrix. And we're also going to I'm going to ask you about the Matrix a little bit in terms of I don't know how political you are, but are you getting more into that? Are you interested in that red pill angle? We'll get there. We'll get there.

So, the chat is open, everyone. So, we want your questions. We want your comments. As usual, super chats are going to get read. Delly's here to read them. Let's start with we've got a panel from hmm Whatever podcast. You know how it goes. We're going to play. We're going to stop and go. And your favorite two ladies here are going to respond. So, let's hit it. 26:52 Asian suggestion. I don't know if it's the right move. He said the way to fix all the world's problems, his words, not mine, is put a woman's body count on her forehead and that'll fix everything. Thank you so much. That was That was so helpful. That was so helpful. So, I'm going to open it up to you guys. Do you think that that would fix a lot of problems? I would like to comment on this with guys, too, because there's a lot of guys that will have their whole face, too. I think just because someone had a whole phase in college doesn't mean that they aren't worth loving when they're in that period later in life. And I think Andrew Tate is referring to people in college and younger people when looking for people to hook up with Okay. Let's pause it. No, he's not. He was talking about everybody. So, body count on a woman's forehead. If you could literally put that number on a woman's forehead, they're commenting about Andrew Tate saying, well, that would solve everything. I thought about it and I said, you know, that's brilliant. Because if you think about it, if that happened, the women would be too embarrassed to let that count go up. So, they would stop behaving badly. You have a lot less promiscuous women. Then the guys would be They wouldn't want to hang out with a woman that had like 500. Imagine the girl's forehead. So, that behavior would just get removed from society. Does that What do you think? I don't think it would. You don't think so? So, how would how would they be erasing IT? NO, NO, I think the girls would just do it anyway and the betas would bear marry them anyway. Come on, guys, they marry a single mom. You're telling me the body count I I would like to think, you know, but the realist in me is like, nah. Like these girls are putting thirst traps on Instagram. They're putting They have their their other two baby daddies. Da da da da Someone still marries them. They might not have a body count, but they may as well with their 10 ass shots on Instagram, Diane. BUT YOU KNOW THAT UH-OH, she's bringing out the names. Right. Star of the show. There You know there's a Diane out there that's like, how did she know I DID THAT? HOW DID SHE KNOW? YOU KNOW WHAT I mean though? IT'S LIKE THE GUYS still date these girls anyway. But do you think I mean It might help a little bit. I think there would be humiliation though because when you ask girls about their body count, like you see it on these panels, they get like all like, you know, they're embarrassed about it. So, there's got to be some segment of the female population that would just either stop or they'd be self-conscious. And then I think about it and I'm like, okay, well, if less women would be behaving badly cuz they'd be worried about that body count going up, there'd be less guys hooking up with those girls. Maybe like that whole hookup culture would kind of just quiet a little bit. I'm hopeful. What can I say? I'm just kind of I'm just a realist. Like I would like ideally, yes. Do I think that would actually happen? No, because again, like the guys are still de- marrying the single mothers. They're still They're still dating the girl that they know damn well has had 20, 30, 40. Like they They might not have a sign, but they may as well. Like with Instagram, you might as well have a sign. Can you imagine you go out You go out somewhere like a public place, an amusement park, and there's just women walking around with numbers, with body counts ALL OVER THE PLACE. YOU WALK BY YOU WALK BY 75. I LOVE IT. I LOVE IT. Only Andrew Tate would think of something like that, I have to say. What do you make though of the reaction where she the next girl original like automatically comes in and says, well, that's not a reason not to love someone. And that It's almost like immediately becomes this emotional argument, whereas what I think a lot of people are just saying in the rational space is just it is different for men and women because men and women care about different things. It's just a reality. It's not about whether you're worthy of love or whether you're aside from that have good traits or good characteristics. It's just a reality that if guys know that count is high, they're not going to want to wife you up in the same way. Yeah, no, it's true. Like I don't I The girls are like arguing is water wet. Like water is wet. Men do it all the time. I've not liked promiscuous women. Like I don't make the rules. We just tell you what they are. They're like, is it wet? Why is it wet? Was it always wet? if he thinks it's wet. It's just like Is it my fault? like, girl, you're wet for everybody. Well played. Well played. Well played. Let's keep playing it. Um Let's keep Let's see. I don't remember if there's more in there that I wanted to get to, but let's keep playing it. But if you take his claim towards just all women in general, everyone has those periods in their life, you know? It happens. That, too. Okay, pause that, Kelly. Speak for yourself, Rebecca. That's the other thing, right? This like, oh, everybody goes through it. No, not everybody's [ __ ] Not everybody has that phase. Why do they say that? I know girls that were virgins till they were married. Like Like get out. Not everybody has that So, is it just like, well, is that just like making excuses cuz she probably did it, so she's got to like say, oh, I mean, to be fair, devil's advocate, in her in her circles, probably. Everyone probably has. All the girls that she knows. Um and it's much more common. Most girls like We We go by 1920s, 30s standards. Most girls are absolute [ __ ] Like Think about it. They're like, two. Diane, like I know. GET OUT OF TOWN. SO, WHAT IS LIKE the trendy cuz you're young and I'm old, so I have to like What is the trendy like hooking up means what now? Does that mean you're sleeping with somebody or does that mean you're What What is that? Hooking up? I I would think that's sex, but Because everybody's talking about body count, but there's also a whole bunch of women we don't talk about, which is like the do everything but. Oh, the Yeah, the the virgins. Yeah, it's like, I'm a virgin. I know that type of virgin. The virgin. It's like, I'm a virgin. I'm untouched. And meantime, they're doing all sorts of nasty on the side that's just not, you know, tradi- It's not sex per se, but it's stuff. Let me ask a question, okay? All right, you got two girls, okay? One girl one, body count at 10, head count at two. Other girl, okay? Body count at two, head count at 10. Who you picking? Uh Higher body count? Nah, I want with the lower body count is where I'm going. The body count. Yeah. It's interesting. Men, it depends on the guy. Some guys would like prefer the head count. I don't know. I knew somebody in the city. I'm not going to mention any names, but she HAD DO IT. SAY HER NAME. She had She was a virgin, you know, she And And with And proudly displayed that, you know, talked about it all the time, but she had let's just say she had eaten a lot of corn dog. I mean, it was a lot. I mean, it was it was beyond. So, I was like, Does it I mean, is it really Is it any different? I think it all needs to go on the forehead. I'm taking one step further than Andrew Tate. Any sexual activity you've been involved in, ladies, let's put it on there. Let's put it on there. Okay, let's keep going, Deli. Not generalize, but a lot of people have those times in their life and I don't think men or women should be judged for that. So, that's what Okay, pause. Can I say something? I'm sorry, we judge men for not being able to get laid. And I'm sorry, you kind of should. Guys should learn how to get laid. And I'm vice versa. Women should learn how not to sleep with the whole football team, Rebecca. Yeah, it's true. It's true though, but that's because there's a double standard in society. Like you're allowed to judge men, you're allowed to rip on men, but if you rip on women, then you're a misogynist or you're you're a woman hater or whatever it may be. Well, it's just like the world. You're doing what's easy. It's easy for men to not get laid. It's easy for women to get laid, so it's it's it's like of course society's not going to reward you for doing what's easy. It's like I went I went and cashed in on unemployment. Good job. Yeah. Yeah, okay, Deli, let's keep going. And feel free if you want to pause something, feel free. She's all in. She made herself real comfortable. Oh, yeah. I'm really Pearl's like taking down the JB Live sign behind me. She's like, "Where's my name up on the up on the up on the board?" Okay, let's keep rolling cuz there's a good part in here I remember I want to hit. Let's keep going.

that person and then you find someone that you know, matches your ideals a little bit more. Yeah. There's an example of before I have you guys come in, I just want to go around the panel on that. So, do you think that that would solve all the world's problems if we put the body count on the Not my word, that's Andrew Tate's suggestion. You guys know he got banned, so maybe he's He could be wrong. He got Yeah, he got He got He got canceled. So, thoughts Thoughts on that. Go ahead. Um yeah, I think that's completely superficial and not important when you're talking to people. I think that I think the body count is social construct in general. I don't think it's productive. What? Pause it, Deli. I mean, it's See, this is the thing, too. Then they like vomit out like the Drew of Wallow to Oh, it's a social construct. It's not very much It's not important to her. She's telling you right there, by the way. She's telling you it's not important to women, male body count. That's true. What she's not factoring in is that if you had a tableful of guys, they would all care about it. Like it's just not They can't process it for some reason. Like they can't I think it's just an unwillingness to change their own behavior and they know that if they actually internalize the fact that guys care about it, they have to come face-to-face with their own past and then also come face-to-face with their own present and the decision that they're making. And it's narcissism. It's like I can do whatever and have no consequences. Right. And it's like it's like they're they're being told in real time, "You ain't the shit." Right. just just grow. It's okay. Yeah. Yeah, and she goes on and on, the patriarchy. Everybody's to blame but their own behavior. the patriarchy. You think there's a patriarchy? Uh no. These all these females are just lazy. I'm so tired of this. Yeah, they say that. They say, "Oh, everything's the patriarchy. It's a male structure." And I'm always held back with a MILLION YOUTUBE SUBSCRIBERS. I'M LIKE, "GIRLFRIEND, you put a bikini on, you walked around the block, and you got like more followers than a guy got all year." So, like I don't understand when they say the patriarchy, I'm like media's on your side, the news is on your side, the magazine covers are on your side. You mentioned on the Vice panel, you talked about how there's quotas when it comes to employment. So, I would love to know like the patriarchy's got you down how? Tell me. Delineate the ways. can. They never The only answers they really give are men can sleep around and women can't. But you're doing it. You are You You search your couch. Yeah, I was like, "You know what? I respect the sugar babies more than the hoes." At least they're getting money. Y'all are giving this out for free. Do you have a lot of women on your show that that's that outright or out in it for the cash and say it? Uh I have a couple sugar babies on my show that we talked Like it's not a general topic, so even if they're on on there, it doesn't really come up, but there's like one or two. I bet you there's more that are in They're just in it for the cash that don't want to vocalize that, but there's got to be a whole lot of them. Can I Wait, I need to tell you something. Okay, I just feel like we're going to be on the same wavelength. Okay, so I went on Sauce Cast yesterday. They were talking about how much money you need to maintain yourself like as a girl, like be a girl. The The These girls said two grand a month and I thought this was crazy. What are they doing for two grand A THAT'S WHAT AND THEN THEY'RE LIKE, "THAT'S LOW." AND I'M LIKE, You know what though? I'll tell you what if it's not low if they're doing the Botox, the fillers, the lip stuff, all that. That's very expensive. I don't do any of that stuff. So, for me it's like I go get a facial and I'm good to go. I I would just rather look like myself and not have to Like I'll just get what I get. Why are you Y'all are trying to do all this just to get a guy that's like one, maybe two points. Just get what you get. Like no guy wants to go to bed and wake up with a whole different I needed to bring this up cuz I just felt like you would agree with that. you what it is though. It's the Botox, the fillers, it's the nails because the nails are constantly Not only that, you see those long Your nails look beautiful and I do mine short, too, but you see the long, pointy extend I don't need it to look like claws. It's not a weapon. It's not a weapon. It's the hair extensions. That stuff really does add up. If you're doing all that. And then you know, once you do that stuff, the Botox, all that toxic [ __ ] then you're addicted to it. Well, I I heard on my show would be like, "Pearl, you don't wear makeup." And I'm like, "I wear a little bit." I can attest there is makeup on. There's Yeah, but then I'm like it's just compared to the other girls cuz it's like Yeah. Okay. The difference is though, you wind up getting a boyfriend, whatever, and you wake up next to him the next day, and he still knows it's you. That girl, it went from Halloween costume, then the costume came off, and he's like, "Ooh, scared." Yeah. So, you don't want to scare him in the morning. grand. I'm like, "Hi." It's a lot of cash. But I was thinking about it. I'm like that's like kind of speaks to our culture because it's When you have a family like it the That's like a college fund. Yeah. So, it's it's like you're kind of putting the money like towards you instead of for the family, you know? Also, like save some of that for your I mean, invest in a home and that. I mean, it's ridiculous. I just I don't care how much money I make. You won't catch me spending two grand a month on what? On what? told you what it was on, but you're not doing any of that stuff. You're not going to have So, but so were they saying they expect guys to pay for that They were Yeah, they were saying if they like stayed home, basically like that's how much they'd want the guy to give them a month. Like cuz they're He was asking me if I was to stay home like how much a month I would need. And I've never really calcula- I know it's not two grand. I don't know what it is, but two grand I'm They're like, "Gym memberships." I'm like, "50 bucks." Yeah. WHAT DOES YOUR APARTMENT NOT HAVE A GYM? LIKE Most apartment buildings have a free gym to boot, so. is I don't know. They're doing a lot of stuff, Pearl. A lot going on in the frozen face area is all I'm going to say. All right, let's go to 31:40. And then they come out like like you know, like Yeah, or the bug eyes or like You know the weirdest thing about that? I talk about that all the time. I should have you back next time you're here and we'll talk about girly stuff, but like the weirdest thing about it is a lot of women in my age bracket do that stuff cuz they're trying to look younger and I always say like young people's faces move. Like I'm looking at you right now. You're how old? 26? Your face moves when you talk. Now, mine does too. I haven't done any of that stuff, but like the the clearest giveaway that a woman is old, getting old, and she's unhappy and insecure is the frozen face. Like no young person has a frozen face. Well, and it's like I just felt like This is when I was younger. I was like, "Do I go the Botox route?" I'm not going to lie. Like I've thought about it. And I was just like, "You know what? I'm going to focus on everything else before I ever go down that route." Like why wouldn't you do, you know, like most of y'all would probably benefit more from just eating like cutting out sugar. Oh, yeah. Sugar ages the skin a lot. Yeah. Yeah, sugar. It's a whole other topic for another Deli's like, "How did we get into this and how do I get out of this room?" What is that? There's going to be like a help me sign that you're going to see up here above Deli's head in a second. All right, let's go to 31:40. We talk about judgment. I may have bled into this, but let's see. I do that sometimes. forehead On the forehead. Is that the solution the world needs? Maybe to Andrew Tate, yes. But to the rest of society, I feel like it's definitely a no. Um I I don't think that everybody should know how many people that you slept with. I feel like that's kind of your personal information and for you and you only, right? I mean, unless you'd like to share it, then obviously that's great, right? If a guy asked you your body count, like a potential romantic partner, would you refuse to answer that question? Um I think it depends on the relationship that you have with that person. I mean, if it's just like someone that you're going to hook up with Okay, pause. So, should they answer that Should people answer that question? Is that information that they should give away? I mean, it depends like are you being honest or do you want the best outcome? If a girl slept with 30, 40, 50 guys, why on earth would she answer that if she wants the best outcome? See, I think they could tell though. Yeah, no, you can. That's what That's what I'm saying. Like are we going like what they should do or what would give them the best outcome? Cuz those are two different questions. The right The right thing to do is to be honest in my opinion, but I feel you got to be honest because if it starts popping up, like if you say, "Oh, two." And then he starts hearing about, "Well, there was this guy and there was that guy." And he scrolls down your Instagram and there's all this stuff going on or it's very clear that there was a lot of play going on on the Instagram say three and then there's 10 ass shots. It's like, "No, honey." It's more like 13 and you and I both know it. So, I think that's the that's like guys aren't dumb. Yeah. So, you may as well tell the truth cuz they're going to And then if it if they find if you tell the truth and they stick around, maybe they're one of those guys that doesn't care that much. It's going to be rare, but if you lie, then it's going to be over. Then he's going to think you're lying about everything. So, that's interesting. All right, here's what I want to do. I want to go to 40:27. Deli, I'm going to skip one. Like I don't know. The more I think about it, the more I realize like how negative it is because like I think the reason and we talked about this in the car, too. The reason why like men care, I think at least, like about low body counts is because I think they like I'm not saying this is all men, but I'm saying that a lot of men like to have that like sense of ownership. Like, "Oh, like this is like untouched. Like no one else like saw this besides me." You know? I I that's like men. I think that's like such a I think it would like if that were brought if like my body count was brought broadcasted on my forehead or like anyone girls was then I think that would like just create more of like this society where like then you it. Do you think it's about ownership though? That was an interesting choice of word she used to me. Like a guy wants to own you and he wants a woman that's like not been seen naked by another guy. of immediately when they said owning her souls or stealing her soul. That's what I thought of. I'm like some guys. I mean sort of in a way like it's kind of the same in the same way that Andrew Tate is would say that um like she is my property. Mhm. But you like when you say it kind of sounds bad but it's like a guy kind of wants to know that like you're his. Yeah. Like what do you want her to my girl. Yeah and not belong to everybody. So in a way yeah I think she's right. Um I think she's kind of trying to do it with a negative connotation but I think she's right. think it's about often times people say oh the virgin the virgin is ideal the virgin is ideal. I've been saying on here that it's not necessarily a virgin to me like it's somebody who pairs sex with emotion and who's had meaningful relationships and won't just sleep with someone just for a a physical experience but like needs that pairing of sex and emotion and takes relationships seriously. Do you think the guys are really looking for that virgin or is it more my description of what I'm saying? Um I think that most guys are realistic and know that in 2022 they're probably not going to get one. Wait you wait all the virgins I I know a couple right and I yeah I know a couple um allegedly but I I wasn't there you know. Yeah. Um Were they the virgins that did everything else? I don't know. This girl was very innocent like just talking to her like she was in her 20s and I felt like I was talking to like a a 15 year old. So I actually I believed this girl. Um but I think what we say on the show the new virgin is sub five. It's like under five. So that that's kind of what men I think what I what I this is I've interviewed a lot of guys about body count and it's basically like sub five is ideal. 10 is workable like if a 10 is kind of the cut off where they say they won't deal with them but I see who they actually date so a lot of the guys when they say 10 they're capping and they really mean 20. Even sub five? I mean that's a very small population of women. If you think about like women who go through college now they're already I mean they're beyond that by the time they're out of college and 22 years old. Really? Oh yes. Yeah well I mean listen I'm from New York City though. So I'm speaking from that lens but I would say that's pretty pretty standard now. So five I mean I don't know. I Yeah I mean from what this is just from like interviewing guys on the show and like sometimes I'll ask them off camera cuz guys they can't say too high of a number otherwise they kind of look like a simp. What do you mean So if I say how many bodies is too many bodies and they say like if they they say their actual number like guys will kind of look at them funny. So from what I've gathered it's like and I'm sorry I don't make the rules I'm just telling you what they told me all right. Sub five is ideal sub 10 is like that's good workable 10 to 15 is it's not ideal but they'll they'll do it. 15 to 20 is like but if they really like her she'll still get away with it. Yeah and That's nasty. like 30 is no man's land. No man's land. And like 20s it's hard because I want to say guys won't at 20s but again I see who these men are dating and I see who they're dating. I mean I don't understand these women got I don't know how they have this much time on their hands. Girl they got a lot of free time. lot of free time. It's a lot of hoes hoes got a lot of free time. God. All right let's go to 44 42. I'm skipping around a little bit. I'm going in order when I'm skipping cuz I want to get to the Chads. You see the Chads? Oh yeah. Oh okay. To you know even the perception of like frats like over here at UCSB ATO kind of has this perception of going and being like you know really really hot guys you know are in ATO and then girls even though they're aware of that they still kind of go to those frats and even though they know maybe those guys might not be like the best they'll still go and like allow them to kind of break rules at least initially. Of course like once that happens and you experience that it does hurt like that feeling of getting hurt then you will go and say like, you know when you get into like an intimate relationship that's also when you Okay, I want to ask your opinion on why young modern women repeatedly go after guys that they know are going to be heartbreakers that they know are going to leave them crying at night. Why is it? Narcissism. Modern women are narcissists. just they think they're going to change them? Yeah, they think that they're so special they've been told they're special from five years old so they're like, oh, he hasn't wifed the last 35 girls he slept with me, I'm going to change him. But why doesn't that lesson like that to me that like that makes sense round one. Mhm. Right? But then like round two with different guy you don't realize, oh, that other guy cheated on all his girlfriends and me so even though this one's also hot I could see he's cheating on all those girls I'm not going to be any different. Memo goes to is is is just like not a lot going on up here or I just literally I mean we're sold a dream. He said he won't. Or is it the attraction is just too much? You know like that's who they're drawn to because those guys don't care because those guys are like this is what I'm going to do with my life. Yeah. And there's an appeal to that. I'm going to go back to narcissism. That's my final answer. I just think modern women are narcissistic think they're special. None of you Some of you all didn't have brothers to bully you growing up and it shows. I I wish I had had an older brother now. I always wanted an older brother. Somehow you ended up grounded don't know how. I had a good dad. Yeah. I had a really good dad luckily. He's watching he's like oh yeah. Let me ask you this cuz we're from a different generation. Did you ever watch like a TV show and like have a heartthrob guy in there that you were like all about? Any any TV show you called it. Who was it? It was um okay I had two. When I was a kid like kid kid it was Taylor Lautner from the vampire movie whatever that was and Jesse Williams from Jesse Williams is in Grey's Anatomy. Oh I don't watch Grey's. Okay. this he's like this mixed hair with like blue eyes. He's so pretty. Are they like slightly edgy troublemaker types or I I don't remember honestly. Um no I don't think he was in the show. If I Are you drawn to that type? Are you drawn to that like slightly mysterious little bit of edge like in your in your real life? Um I think I'm definitely drawn to guys that can protect me. So I like a guy that I feel like could protect me. So sometimes does that come with that yeah but but I kind of am more like I have like a risk meter that goes off so sometimes I'll be like attracted to guy but I'm like ah no he's trouble you got to you got to stay away from that one. Right. And then you do it you stay away cuz a lot of women get that risk meter and then they they're like oh look the whole house is on fire let me go in. I'm not I mean like I've had a boyfriend that my dad didn't like right? But I think some girls will waste their entire 20s on that boyfriend. Some girls waste a couple of months so Is that a sign would you tell women like if you bring a guy home and your dad if you've got like a good dad you have a good relationship with your dad you bring a guy home and your dad's just like is that Yeah no I yeah that yeah I agree. My dad hated my college boyfriend. Hated him. Yeah they have a good They have a good oh my gosh I was dating this guy right? And I don't want to get into like the reasons but there was things that were happening that like just weren't great and I was like dad like do people change and he looked at me and he said yes. And I was like wow okay. What do you mean dad? He said they get worse over time. And he said he said so any trait that you see now in 20 years it's going to be 10 times worse so choose carefully. And I walked away and then he's like do you like torture? Are you dumb? AND I WAS LIKE BUT AND I WAS LIKE WHAT God damn like It's true though. Yeah he was right though I broke up with him so See I grew up watching 90210 you probably don't know that show cuz I'm old but there was a guy I saw the new one. Okay the old one was the character was Dylan McKay. Old people in the chat you know what I'm talking about and it was played by Luke Perry who I later met. He's since passed away. But he uh he was had that bad boy energy like that he wasn't a bad boy in that he did fall in love here and there but he had this very like independent I don't need you you enhance my life but you're not going to make my life and I was just from a kid like, you know, that independent guy. And I think like my message to guys always is like don't be that guy that like texts her constantly in the beginning who's like needy so needy. It's so unattractive. so unattractive. Oh my gosh it's so unattractive. Like we want we want a guy that's got stuff going on. Like and happens to fit us in his schedule. RIGHT. IT'S CHAD I GET to go to dinner yay. Yeah and I had a question from a guy the other day. We're going to get to the chat right after this section guys so don't worry but I had a question the other day and a guy said well a woman is like giving me like indecisive vibes you know what do I do? And I was like it's done. I said it's it's over. Cuz when we like someone when that phone buzzes we're like it's like our birthday. It's sad. Yeah like you go above and beyond when you like like when you really like a guy you go above and beyond. So if she's indecisive Especially in the beginning. Yeah. It's done doll. It's done. Yeah. All right. Let's get to let's do 111 25. Tally you see that? In that same block? Yeah I got you. Okay. Genuinely speaking do you think dudes care about ambition and six financial success in a woman? Do you think they find that attractive? Yes. Do you think it's like a high priority for men? Probably less successful than like them, but like still successful. Okay. Um, I think that I mean I got Okay, we're generalizing, so I'm not going to say depends. I mean it seems as if in today's society things are kind of shifting. It's kind of going from like oh, the man provides all the money to I feel like it's kind of getting a little bit closer to being equal. I mean I would hope. So, I would say yes, they do value that because obviously you want an ambitious woman. You want a woman stop it. Let's stop it lest the both of us need a barf bag. Um, so the this is the delusion, right? Like and I this is something that I even had internalized for so much of my life that like being this independent woman was going to be valued in some way and it's really hard for women to absorb that guys just don't care. They don't care at all. I will I will say okay, if a guy does care, he doesn't have a job. Yeah. He's he's looking to lean on you. He's looking to live off of you, girl. He's got He might say he's got a job. He don't He don't The only other time I've heard a guy say that he cares is because um he felt like because he was so successful, it's better to have a girl that has something to lose. Mhm. So, like she couldn't go on the internet and like da da da da da or she couldn't So, but that's not being attracted to it. It's just like guys are risk versus reward. Right. You know, so they're like how can I mitigate this risk? Right. But it's not like oh, her job like Oprah's so hot. You know, so they don't care. They like but boobs, skinny, yes. Yeah. What do you make of the equality statement about like her saying oh, you know, I think you know, equality is is is hip now and like I would hope guys would want this because there's equality. I feel like this this desire that women have for like select what I call selective equality. It's like they want they want things to be equal when it's convenient and then when it's not convenient, they want the upper hand. And I there's like a lack of self-awareness in that area. Yes, we just want to live in la la land and just do anything and have no consequences forever. But it's not too much to ask. It's like equality till the check comes. Yeah. At the restaurant. Equality till, you know, you're walking down a dark alley and someone's got to beat that guy up. You're not jumping in with your boxing gloves, honey. Oh, no. You want to bond some guy. So, it's interesting because I you know, and and I think what what's been really fascinating for me going through this journey and you've been obviously been in this space longer than I have, but just not only do you notice like a lack of self-awareness in women, but you you acknowledge a lack of self-awareness in yourself to some level. Oh, yeah. I say I'm not special. I'm not a unicorn. Stop simping in the chat. I say I'm not special. I saw you say something the other day about the chat how you didn't you didn't want to get a check mark and they keep throwing you out of the chat. Is that Did you say something? Yes, because I don't Okay, I don't know how to get a check mark on YouTube or Instagram or Twitter. Oh, I think Twitter you can pay eight bucks a month. Sorry, Elon cut. And I just don't care. So, They're running her out of the chat. So, I keep going in chats and they're like get rid of this fake JustPearlyThings account. I'm like it's me. YOU'VE GOT 1 MILLION subs and they're like they think you're impostor JustPearly. I love it. Coach Greg Adams threw me out the other or his his mods they blocked me. I was like I'm blocked? And it wasn't just a temp, it was like a lifetime block. I was like You got to get your check mark so everybody knows it's you. I don't know how to get it, but I just don't care enough to figure it out. that you have a million subs and you don't care enough to get the check mark. THAT'S LIKE WHAT THAT MAKES me like you more. You know what's funny? I didn't even get my 100k plaque. I was like they can see it on my YouTube channel. Like why would I get it? Why get a plaque? I didn't know that. Yeah, you get a plaque. I guess I guess I get one out of million too, but I'm like I mean You know, you get girlfriend you get your million plaque. That's like an Emmy. You get that and you display it. You display it like an Oscar. All right, we have one more from this and um then I want to go to the chat. So, let's go to 242 35 and then I want to go to chat and then we're going to get to the fat shaming tweet. It's awesome. Okay. I want to add a little bit to this. I don't think we're trying to say that men don't have struggles, but I think the problem is that women also have struggles and those struggles need to be taken as seriously as men's struggles. Well, I I Yeah, of course. Men and women and women it just sucks that like Well, actually I our struggles aren't taken as seriously. And a lot has changed, but like We just need a freeze frame. Let's pause that. If somebody just has a freeze frame on my face and yours and the reaction, it was like How do you say that women How do you verbalize as a female that women's struggles are not taken as seriously as men's in 2023? Oh my All we hear about is women's struggles. Oh my like we have march Every time women whine, there's a march. There's a [ __ ] march. There's a Who do you think all the teachers This is this is this is more political, but all the teachers that were marching, it's not the men, it's the women. We just march and they're like listen to us, our problems blah blah blah. Cuz they're talking about things that don't exist like the pay gap. They're talking about Well, they're talking about abortion. Oh, that was the other one that They love to talk about abortion as if it's not another living thing growing inside a woman's body. They love to dismiss that. We're going to get to some politics at the end. I'm going to suck you in in some way, but but that's that's the brainwashing though. Yeah. Because they're they've been told that the reality is that these women have been told that women's issues aren't taken as seriously and rather than take a minute to actually think about it and say well, wait. Like what you just said, there's a women's march. There's a there's a You don't have Where's the men's march? If there was a men's march by the way, there would be massive societal outrage. It would be like oh my god, what Why are these men doing this? This is so misogynistic. It would be the end. Bet you never heard of men's rights activists. Like I mean I hadn't before I'd been in this space. Oh, whining whining poor me boo freaking hoo, I'm a woman. It's unbelievable. And and that's what's interesting to me about it is that in the same breath as it's the boo hoo, it's like oh my god, I'm this, I'm that, but I'm also an empowered independent woman who doesn't need a man. How do you reconcile I'm an empowered independent woman who doesn't need a man and I'm going to whine all the time. Everything is The world is against me. Everyone's against me. Somebody help me. It's just it's like pick one, honey. Yeah. Yeah, and half the time these empowered independent women make $35,000 a year at Tesco. So, it's just like are you empowered? Yeah, that's I see we had a conversation about that last time with the CEOs. You were like there weren't that many CEOs, Jed. No, it's it's a small percentage. So, most girls are just average chicks saying they're boss babes. Boss babe at McDonald's. All right, let's move to the chat. in human resources. What does that even mean half the time? What do they do these people? I Every human resource person I meet, I'm like what do you do? Did you see a Twitter when Elon fired all the people doing nothing? I think it was mostly the women. Yeah, AND IF THEY DID YEAH, AND IF THEY DID STAY THEY'RE ASIAN. Come on. Did you see the picture where it was like all the people left and it was all guys? It was Yeah, it was Noah's one or two Indian chicks and my dad owns a software company. I'm like that is on point. Oh, is that what he does? Yeah, yeah. And so, it's it's like if he does have women work for him, they typically are more Asian. They just they just work hard in that culture in India. They do. They do work hard there. Well, I have a lot of respect

For you that culture. Hard work, yeah. Okay, let's get to the chat. I just. We have a bunch? Yeah. Okay, let's do them.

Uh, the first question's for Pearl. Pearl was a Muslim lady crazier than they actually showed her to be. She claims they made her out to look crazy. Jed, I wish you were on that panel. Wait, what Muslim lady? I'm assuming she's talking about the panel. Was there a Muslim on the vice panel? Who was Muslim? I didn't see anyone with that. Was it the? Was it the? It might have been the woman on the bottom left they're talking about, but I'm not 100% sure. I thought she said something about culture related to. I could be wrong though.

Okay, I'll tell you one thing. They did the libs a service. I promise to God they were 10 times crazier in person. I heard that everybody's asking for the full video footage to be released. I hope they do. I hope they release all of it. I have no qualms with that. And they're saying you were crazy and you're saying they were crazy. So, everybody let's. The only solution. But there's a reason why aren't they release? See, you couldn't have been. The conservatives couldn't have been crazier because then they would have released the footage. It's got to be the other side that they got to protect. Look at it. I mean, I would say the footage. They they actually did an okay job of showing both sides. My only qualm was you cut out the freak outs. Like the girl in the front and that freaking Eli, that dude had these like freak outs and Eli, he looked at me and was like, call me a man. And I. Or it was it was either to me or it was to Sydney. I don't remember who, but I remember I was this close to being like, you're a dude, but I. Well, it is a man. It is. It is. I'm so tired of these he-shes with mental disorders. Like I I. It's like you guys want me to reason with crazy people. Yeah. And the more I'm on liberalism is a disease and you guys are all crazy with mental disorders. Liberalism is a. It is a disease. A disease of the mind. How do I get on The View? I want to go on The View. Let me talk to them. You're dying to go on The View just once. I KNOW. I WILL CAUSE HAVOC. You know what I was thinking this morning? I was thinking, can you imagine Andrew Tate on The View with those ladies? Come on. TELL ME YOU WOULDN'T pay for that. That would be the. I mean, it would blow. Oh, man. Can you imagine a full episode of that? Okay, Deli, I know you're waiting. The view ladies, you're invited on my show. I don't think you're coming on your show. You're invited. You're invited. We'll fly you out. shouted down, too. You'd be. Forget it. Your mic would be cut. They could they could shout down at me and I I just give them my. Okay, crazy. You're like, I'm going to cut that clip. Just shout me down and I'll cut that. It'll be unedited. I let crazy talk. Yeah, that's what I did when I went on. Go ahead.

All right, uh, we have a $10 from Brock. He said, "My favorite two ladies with common sense in a world where nothing makes sense. Keep up the good work you do and Pearl, you need to go in on Hafiz next time as he's very condescending towards you." Oh. People were saying that in the chat. They were really mad about that. Yeah, that was that was a. That was like the worst day. I almost had a. That was like the worst day. I had Hafiz on here, but like early on. Yeah. And the chat was so. They were like, "GET HIM OFF. GET HIM." I COULDN'T believe it. I was like, "Wow." I like Hafiz. It's nothing like personal. I just don't think he maybe is aware of how condescending he can be. Um, I mean, I think like when you start to go personal and you compare me to porn stars, only fans models, and Derek Jackson, I think that's. It just is like kind of below the belt where it's like I I don't go in and say like talk about your personal life. Yeah, so. He played dirty. Okay. Yeah, we have another one. A couple more actually. Yeah. Um, Two Bit User said, "Western women are like McDonald's, over 1 billion served." "Pearl, get get Sydney on your show. You handled Hafiz better on Valuetainment than ever before." Mhm. There you go. Yeah, I. We've reached out to Sydney, by the way, audience, just so you know, um, to see if she'll come on, but she's not here and I I kind of want to do it in person, so we'll see. But any more and then we're going to go to fat shaming. Yeah, uh, it's. Okay, society from Numbers Guy. "Society admonishes and does not celebrate people doing the things that are easy like women acquiring sexual partners. On the flip side, men acquiring partners is hard and rightfully celebrated." Yeah, that was your point that you made earlier.

Okay, I want to get to um the fat shaming. This is a great tweet. This is number two. Could you pull that up, Deli? It's uh Pearl's tweet, which I loved. Let's pull it up. I have it here somewhere. Where did I put it? Where did I put it? Oh, here we go. It says, "Thank you to the internet for fat shaming me into losing 15 lb this year. I'll keep fat shaming the whales to help them, too." What I love about this, though, is like everyone gets so offended when you talk about obesity and here you are saying the exact opposite. Like, do you actually? Is that honest? Is that an honest emotion you have? Yeah, no. Me about what happened. Well, it was when I started the show, it's kind of like when you get on camera, you see everything. I was like, "Oh, I'm a little chunkier than I thought." And I've never been like fat or obese like uh. Sorry, that's not true. I was obese by like 5 lb for like 2 months and then I lost it. But. But when I started the show, I wasn't fat. I wasn't obese, but I was like, "Ah, I could cut back on my eating." And, you know, I'd get comments here and there and I'd be like, "Ah, I should I should really work on that." So, in the course of the year, I wanted to lose 25 lb. I only lost 15, but I'm on the way. That's good. 15 is good. Yeah, and so um and I had a lot of acne, too, when I started and so. Great. Thank you. Thank you. Um and I just had a lot of bad habits, so I just decided to work on it. And my issue is whenever I fat shame the whales, they're like, "You're not thin enough. You're thin enough to be fat shaming me." And I'm like, "Well, I get fat shamed, too, and then you work on it. You try to get better." But it's like fat people think they're above being made fun of. I can be made fun of cuz I'm a ginger. Men can be made fun of for being short. Everyone else can be made fun of. Why are you special? Why are you special? And the worst part is you can change it. Men can't change being short, but you sure as hell can change not eating 10 Krispy Kremes in a day, Rebecca. Well, the reason that they get away with that is because society has now labeled obesity as healthy. And with good reason because society. Remember, all these media outlets and this is where you get into the matrix, but all of these media outlets in large part are funded by pharma. And what helps pharma? What helps you to become somebody who's dependent on medication for life and all of this stuff? Well, you have to be unhealthy. So, now this new like obesity is the new healthy is being glorified by media because they want an unhealthy population that's then relying on drugs, that's relying on all these things that's more likely to be depressed, that's more likely to be someone who's not self-sufficient, a weaker society that you can control. It's all connected. And women are just falling apart. What I think is really interesting about you, though, is it's not easy to take the criticism and have that reaction. Like it's not. If for somebody to say like, "Oh, you, you know, whatever. You're You're a little chunky." Say they said or whatever. And for you to say, "Oh, you know what? I am a little chunky. Let me stop doing that." You know, and maybe I could do something. That's not easy for people to do. How did? What What do you think went right in your life that you were able to have that reaction and not get offended, defiant, nasty, and then go eat a donut? Well, I mean, I would get offended at first. I'd be like, "Oh." You know. That's not getting offended, though. That what you just did. But then it's just kind of like, "Well, why did it hurt?" Cuz they're right. Yeah. Nothing hurts if they're not correct. You know, so um I think I I don't know. I just was like, "You know what? They're right. I want to do something about it." So, I bought this like meal plan from this guy called Cooking with Chris. And he's on Twitter and he's actually. There was like probably the best meal plan I've ever bought. Sometimes I still go off it. That's why I haven't lost 25, but. But it was actually really good. It's hard when you travel. Traveling is not friendly to good habits. lose weight when I'm traveling, but it's but it's because I'll be busy. I'll be so busy that I don't eat enough. Yeah, so it's like like a lot of times I'll gain it when I get back because it's not it's not like done in a healthy way, you know. It's like you get back and you got to like store up again. I I get it. My biggest problem is I drink sugar coffee in the morning, but I've quit. I'm now like roughly 20-ish days sober from coffee. Oh, wow. Coffee. That's hard to quit. It's like sugar. Sugar is hard to quit. is like I know some people can drink it in like a healthy way. I'm just not that person. I like the milkshakes in the morning. I like. So, if I'm going to drink coffee, I'm like, "There's no point in trying to do it a healthy way cuz I won't drink it." Right. So, that was. Well, props to you for having that reaction. Um, not a lot of people have that reaction and I I don't know like what you looked like before. I don't. I'm just looking at you now. You look great, but I I think it's I think it speaks to character to be able to like process something. Like even when I started on here and like people were saying stuff to me like commentary-wise when I was like in the in the space and I was like, you know, with Rolo the first time. I had to like kind of process that, step back, and be like, "Well, let me think about what I just said." Like self-. It's not easy to do that because then you have to like admit you were wrong or admit you were doing something in your life that wasn't good for you. Not easy.

I want to get to uh Drew Afualo and Dylan Mulvaney. You know Dylan Mulvaney? Mhm. Okay, let's go. That Drew girl. She's like. The Whatever podcast is actually here. It just said, "Thank you for reacting." and sent some uh bunch of hearts. Oh, awesome. Love your show, Brian. We're trying to get you on. We You know that, though. You know. Okay, let's go to Drew Afualo and Dylan Mulvaney. You see that? It's number three. Dylan Mulvaney. Oh, you're going to see Dylan Mulvaney. You know Dylan Mulvaney. I might. I I'm not good with names, so. It's a biological male that is on hormones and all sorts of stuff and did like a girl power segment. A weirdo. Let's just call them what they are, weirdos. Oh, man. Let's play it. You ready? said multiple times on multiple occasions that I'm never going to drag women the same way I drag men. Um and I've said that because men do that enough for all of us. Oh, baby. They got that covered. But I will say there are women out there that are trying to take us down. They are. Yeah, I have many of them. It feels like now that I am, you know, I'm still new to like girlhood to womanhood. Yeah. I there does feel like this scarcity complex of like there's not enough to go around and then TERFs, don't get me started. Okay, so she. You know Drew's podcast? It's It's like great for content for me because it's just a hot mess. So, I just like pull, but you know, this is the conversation about it. Of course a whale is talking. It's never the. She, by the way, has talked about obesity a number of times. She'll say like, "I have body neutrality." You know, she doesn't have body positivity. She wants to just up and get on the treadmill. Shut up. I'll show you what I I'll give you my meal plan. She's trying to help you, girlfriend. She's going to give you a meal plan. Just saying. But yeah, there's like a there's a like, you know, I'm not happy with what I look like, so I'm just going to pretend like it doesn't matter kind of attitude. the thing like I honestly think. And you know what? I I'm a really long-term thinker. And so, a big reason that I wanted to get my eating habits under control cuz that's just something that has never in my life come natural. I've always been easy for me to work out, go to the gym. That's easy. What's always been hard for me is sugar. I I freaking love sugar. I do, too. I love dessert. I love pizza. Like I just love that stuff. And I've gotten slowly like better over time, right? And it's kind of funny. I look at myself like 10 years ago. I was so. I I was thinner because but I was like I was so much worse. And she freaking. I forgot where I was going with that. I lost my train of thought. it? Okay, cool. We'll get. You'll get it back and then just interrupt me. But what do you make of First of all, you've got, you know, goes without saying odd to have a biological man on talking about womanhood and girlhood. I mean, what does one even say? But this is an interesting. This is a thing that she talks about all the time where you can't drag women. And if you're a woman who like criticizes women, you're a problem. And she's talking. I mean, she's talking about you. She's talking about me. She's talking about people like us who see bad behavior among women and criticize it the same way we criticize men. I hate stupid people. So, I will criticize stupid people. I don't give a [ __ ] if they're men, women, or trans. Uh, stupid people just irritate me. Why are you so special that you can't be called out for being stupid? So, it's for you, it's just as simple as that. Yeah, stupid, annoying, weirdos. Yeah, you got to check out some of. You should go. Do you? I'm not on Tik Tok for political reasons, but you should look up Dylan Mulvaney's content because Dylan did it. We did it on the show. It was a whole thing about how he was taking the hormones and his like transformation into a woman. Real weird. I want to I want to say something. I don't want trans people in sports or in our locker rooms or in our bathrooms. That's it. She said her peace. People people will be like, oh, the bathrooms is okay. No, it's not. No, it's not. Thank you. Yeah, women have a problem with that. It's a legitimate concern. It's. And for some, you know, it it. And then then those women are afraid to speak out, but in many respects it becomes a safety concern for them. So, it's kind of crazy that women feel bullied that they can't express that.

I want to get to Michael Sartain and Ro Lo. Let's go to number four. And then we're going to get to the Vice feminist panel, but number four is. I have a caveat to what they're saying. I'm actually going to ask Ro Lo about it next time I see him, which is in a couple of weeks. Let's play it. Men make rules for betas and break rules for alphas. Now, I'm going to tell you this, if you find that to be offensive, I won't even debate this with you. This is absolutely, unassailably, irrevocably true. I have cannot tell you how many times I meet a woman who says, I am going to make men wait five dates to have sex with me and go and have sex with their ex or go have sex with some male stripper or [ __ ] VIP host that they met or some bartender the first night. It is absolutely un irrevocably true. Can you talk about this and how it fits into your argument? So, this. There's like kind of three parts to this. The first one is my iron rule to Massey number three, which is any woman that makes you wait for sex, the sex is never worth the wait. Now, that is not about, you know, push for a same night lay. That has nothing to do with it. It has everything to do with what I call the desire dynamic. Genuine desire. Men make rules. I want to get your take on that first. Before I even say anything, what do you think? Do you think that there's truth in that that women will make some guys wait for sex, but if they're genuinely super attracted to a guy, that guy's not going to have to wait. Yeah, I think that's true. I think I mean, when you think about it, the men that like you've had sex with, it's not like you they all waited the exact the same amount of time, right? So, some guys had to wait longer, some guys got it quicker. So, yeah, I think if you're have genuine desire for a guy, you sleep with him quicker, typically. Yeah. Here's the glitch in that for me, and I'm going to ask Ro Lo about this. Maybe I asked him already, I can't remember. He's been on here so many times. But, the glitch in it for me is that if the if the if the goal is a woman who let's say either is a virgin or who's really picky about who she sleeps with or values her body, all that stuff, that woman may really be sexually attracted to you, but she may be like nervous to have sex with her first time or like that girl may delay everybody. And you may just be one of the people getting delayed. So, they have to have their feelers out for those women because if that's the girl you want, she may not be playing a game with you. She may just be like scared. Like the first time I had sex, I was very. I made him wait a while. I was totally into him. We were dating, but I was I was like scared. I was like, this is going to hurt. I'm a I'm worried. You know, I was going through all the girl emotions. So, like that. I feel like that girl and maybe there's maybe it's cuz there are like not a lot of them in this day and age, but I don't want them to forget about that. I think their point is there usually is a guy somewhere that even the virgin will break the rule for. Even even the virgin like cuz I'm sure there was maybe men that did more than that guy did for you. Right? That maybe waited longer and did more and did all this stuff and you still didn't sleep with them. Like it's not like the guy that just put in the most investment got laid, right? So, I think that's like his whole point is usually if a girl's making you wait and doing all these rules like she's just not that into you because it's like if even if she's a virgin like I think guys can kind of feel even if maybe she's saying no and like I don't like they can feel if a girl like really really wants to, you know? So, I I think that's the vibe, too. And that's what they're talking about is like genuine desire where it's it's almost it's so hard for them not to say no like most of the time they won't. If if you're that guy to her. It's true. I mean, attraction for a man is a powerful thing. If you're physically attracted to a guy, it like that's the guy that you're sitting waiting for that text to come in. That's the guy you're breaking plans with. You know, oh, grandma, I can't make your 80th birthday party. I have to go for a walk with this guy. You know, it's true. You just like it's like you can't help yourself. You like need to be around them. You want to be around them. I'm just trying to like speak to cuz sometimes I'll get messages from girls that are like, well, I wait, but I really like want to wait till marriage. Like I could be totally into a guy, but I'm just like nervous or and this. So, they still exist and I just want them to have a voice. Yeah, and I think I think men are just like, you know, they deal with probabilities and not possibilities. And most. And most of the girls that they they meet aren't virgins. And to men it's like, well, if you're not a virgin, like what are we What are we waiting for? Like it's one thing if she's a virgin or whatever, but it's. Yeah, but most girls as we said, they're they're not below five. So, they're like, what What are you making me wait for? And like. And the. And like to men they're like, has someone else gotten here quicker than I have? Right. And like a lot of the times the answer is yeah. Yeah. That's true.

All right, I want to get to the feminist panel. Then we're going to go check back in with the chat. So, audience, you remember I covered the Vice panel last week. By the way, that episode did amazing. People loved it. They loved seeing you. They loved seeing Sydney go. I basically played like the whole thing and reacted to it. What I didn't know is that there were tweets that came in after the fact that were fascinating. So, we're going to go to those tweets and then Pearl's going to react. So, let's go to number five. Let's go to that first tweet. Pull that one up for me, Jelly, if you can. I don't remember the order that I have them here. Which one is that? Oh, yeah. This is from Lives of Tik Tok. Panelists that had a debate about feminism, which included Eli, that's the biological male, are claiming they went through violence because they had to hear ideas and opinions that they disagreed with. So, this is what Eli, the biological male, and you'll remember Eli is. You'll notice the short blonde hair. We covered a long segment. Eli was really upset. This is what Eli says, "I don't trust media, nor do I think it's helpful to platform fascists. That's you like Vice did. When Vice said they were having us debate some anti-trans and conservative speakers. By the way, did Vice say that? Because if Vice said, oh, you're anti-trans, that's kind of. They shouldn't have done that, but I didn't think they meant actual racist, anti-Semitic, neo-Nazi supporters like Sydney Watson or Pearl Davis. You're mentioned by name. However, the platform was going to happen one way or another, and the least I could do was prevent the anti-feminists from spreading any more disinformation. There's your talking point that came from the top down than they already have. I believe some of the far-right speakers made our points for us promoting anti-sex, anti-queer, and anti-women conspiracies that very few people actually believe." So, that was the response. And then that woman uh, you guys will remember her. She was in the bottom left. She was kind of like horrified that somebody would have gun rights and heaven forbid a woman would exercise Second Amendment rights. She says, "Thank you, Eli, for your care, safety, and protection. We went through violence." Talk to me, Pearl. Oh my god. Is it that? Can I see? Can I pull this? Yeah, that's who I thought. This chick. Yeah, we went through that. That's this one. Lady, oh my god. So, talk to me about these people that and and and how somebody could say it was violence for them to hear a dis. You know, I thought violence was like people that went to war. You know, how how soft y'all look for having a conversation and that's violence? Oh my god. This girl had a whole freak out that they cut. I I can't remember who's calling it violence. Yeah, the the yo, whatever. to me like she dis disabled her unless she blocked me, but she disabled her account since then because she was, you know, strong empowered woman who couldn't handle a tweet. Yeah, like she literally was yelling at. I don't I wish I could I wish we were doing this interview closer to when we actually did it, but I just remember her like yelling at everyone and they. She had this big ass freak out during it and they just cut the whole thing and I'm like, girl, they edited you good. They didn't make you look half as bad as they could ruin women? Remember when she turned around, she was all sweating, perspiring? Yeah, and Eli, they're just a bunch of weirdos with mental disorders, so I'll just let them be triggered weirdos. What's important to me about this, too, is we talk about leftism here all the time, but this is the modern leftist. You know, they can't sit in a room with people who see the world differently without feeling somehow oppressed by it, without feeling like you were violent, without feeling somehow that they've been harmed by hearing a different perspective. When the whole point of the panel was to have different perspectives. Like what did you go for? like two on 10. Like let's just be real. I mean, they gave us two other conservatives, but one was a trans and and like actually I'll I'll even use her pronoun for her because I liked her, but she she had the one the in the red was actually nice. Like the but she didn't really talk much and the freaking the one girl in the front with the like the gun rights girl, she was still she was still ish. They're both kind of ish conservative. Yeah, I'm like, so me and Sydney were like. Yeah, but when it came to feminism, she had that stuff running through her veins. And then I I'm so tired of fat chicks complaining about beauty standards. What? Why are you complaining about a beauty standard if you're fat? You could lose the weight. Like this is in your control. Sorry, I have a lot I have thoughts about this panel. No, it was it was. If people didn't watch the panel, you should go watch it. I know you saw on coverage of it. You should really. It's it's a. It's a really important display of what's going on from the feminist left because they they just they want you shut down. And the goal here was of course to come out of it and make it so that another organization wouldn't want to have you on. Wouldn't because somehow you were going to harm the people, you were going to make them feel like, you know, they had been, you know, belittled. And the goal was to then bully those organizations so that the conservatives don't get invited. And then it's just this monotone, you know, one view for everyone. These are the group thinkers, you know, this is how they work. Yeah, look at. I and I would go back, honestly. When I go to a panel, even if I know they're going to out like try to edit me poorly, I just try to still be likeable and funny even if even if you edit me bad, you can't out edit funny. And that's that's always what I try to do. And honestly, you did do it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That girl they were crazy. When she was like, oh, you know, you're you're the pretty girl. You're like, are you calling me pretty? Thank you. Thank you. Then she's like, no, I'm not. Then she's like, backhanded. I'm like, thank you very much. I am the beauty standard R I should be having a modeling contest. And that's the thing, you came off likeable, which they they couldn't they couldn't they couldn't change it. They couldn't make you mean. And that's the thing about content, like people don't understand. You could be so smart, you could you could know everything, but if you're not entertaining and likeable, it doesn't matter. Like you won't have a you won't have a big platform if you're not entertaining and likeable. That's what I say about politicians running for president. Like you just won't make it happen. You won't get the votes. It's sad cuz I don't think it's maybe the most indicative of who is, you know, the most knowledgeable or whatever, but it's just adapter.

I want to ask you before we wrap today. We're going to go to the chat one more time, but I want to ask you about the matrix stuff. I I don't know how much you care about your like a red pill lens on politics. Is this something that you're interested in? Are you paying attention to things like, you know, the World Economic Forum or digital currencies or mandates? How much do you care about that stuff? Um, well, I don't think it'll ever be like a center like a center point of my channel, but I'm learning more about. I'm interested in it. So I'm open to hearing about this stuff. From what I understand, this is this is what I know about the matrix. There's a group of people allegedly that are Satanists and super rich that apparently do these worship thingies in the woods that Alex Jones found out about and there were some and that's why they censor Alex Jones cuz he's right about a lot of it allegedly. And then there's apparently they push policies that will go towards population control and automation. So, for example, abortion was pushed by them and like because it was eugenics and it was founded by a racist and all that stuff. And then on top of that it was like immigration, like the reason they didn't want the wall and everyone was freaking out about that was because it's human trafficking. And then apparently they I've heard they drink the blood of kids. I don't know if that's real. I don't know that like to make them look young or something and they traffic or just have sex with underage girls at the island. Um and apparently the World Economic Forum also pushes these policies um through a shot apparently that'll make you like infertile or something. Or drop dead. Um and. Yeah, this is what I know so far. I don't know what's right and what's wrong. This is just a. So that's a different. Say Pearl regurgitates. This is me regurgitating. That's a different version of what I know from the matrix, but you should. Things that I would say, you know, because you are somebody out there sharing a controversial opinion. And you know, we know that controversial is fine as if it's towing the line of what, you know, media and, you know, they all want you to say, but yours isn't. Yours is going against the grain. So that panel you did is a manifestation of what's going on right now, which is like you you show up in good faith to have a debate and they try to shut you down. And if they can't shut you down, they try to make it so that you're ostracized after. But this World Economic Forum, you know, my advice is always to people, you know, who have a red pill lens on dating and relationships is when you look at politics, like all of this stuff coming down the pike is to control you. You know, we talk about digital currencies, we talk about electric cars, we talk about the World Economic Forum who says you'll have nothing and you will be happy. If you you're you're somebody who obviously cares about freedom. You're operating your own business. You've got your own channel. You're speaking your own mind. You're the enemy. You are the enemy. I'm the enemy. Anyone who cares about their freedom is the enemy. So it is important. I'm glad you're like looking into it. You know, you don't want to fall down a conspiratorial trap, but. Do you think they drink the kids' blood? I would say no on that. That's not something I've heard. What I do hear about them is that there's there's. There you go. What I do what I do know is that there is a commitment to take people's freedoms away. And part of your freedom is your ability to do a show like you do. And speak your mind. So they're coming. I mean, they're coming for anyone who doesn't tow the line. Yeah, we'll see. Maybe I'm next. Maybe I'm deep. I don't know. I was just like, you know what? I was broke last year. I used to have no followers. I'll just go back. Oh well. I did what I could. I can't with you, girl. Okay. Mom, dad, I'm moving home. I love your attitude because you. And maybe this is one of the reasons that you've been so successful is that you have this attitude of like, whatever will be, will be. Nothing's going to break me. I'll be fine. I'm going to laugh through it all. That's a. That's a really important trait. Or the other thing is doing things. I would say mentality. I would rather do something badly than not do it at all. And a lot of people are afraid to do things because like, oh, I'm afraid I'm going to lose this debate or I'm afraid I'm going to not, you know, is know enough or blah blah. It's just like I'd rather do it and do it badly and get better and next time do it better. Like it's all about getting better. That's true. That's 100% true.

Deli, we're going to close with you. Okay. The Purple Pill podcast said, "Shout out to Pearl for hitting 1 million big things. Everyone goes purple pill in the end." Whatever podcast says, "It's crazy if men people in the red pill said the equivalent stuff will be canceled and unplatformed." That's. You have many have been. Yeah. I mean. Sorry, female privilege. I don't know what to tell you. That's true though. Yeah, it's true. AC said, "Just found Jed last week through Pearl. Love you both. I'm 42, made a lots of bad choices. I wish I had women like you in my life while growing up." You have us now. We got $11 from Vivron. "I'm liberal, but we have been deeply enjoying your content for different perspectives. Haven't missed any episode. Also, I went to college with Jeremy. He's so smart. It's been a while, but tell him I said hi." He is. My husband is so smart. It's like he's my smarter half. It's just his brain is just. It's insane. It's crazy. We have a super chat from Craig. He said, "Greetings from Melbourne, Florida. Thank you ladies for addressing these topics since you all are women, you will likely reach more females than your male counterparts in the red pill community." Um, got one from Up North Society. "Keep doing your thing, guys. Started following Pearl at 30K followers. Videos and don't look good now, but innocent until proven guilty." And it's the last one. That's good. Well, thank you. You came back. I love it. I love talking to you. I love talking to you cuz you're just not afraid to be like, I'm figuring it out. You know, there's like an energy to you about like, I'm human, I'm figuring it out. Whatever happens happens, which is awesome because everyone in this business is so serious all the time. It's like, I just want to be like, live your life. Like laugh a little, you know. Look at all of it. Well, it's just like if you're not having fun, what's the point? Right? Like what what is the point if you're not having fun doing it? And a lot of people will ask me like, why did you start the channel? Da da da da da. And I'm just like, I I thought the topics were interesting. I was having fun and I like learning what's true and what's not true in the world. So. Well, read up on the World Economic Forum. Maybe we'll have a little debate about that next time you come here. But yeah. Great to have you here. Thanks for having me. And audience, we have Zubi on Monday. It's going to be fabulous. We're going to talk to Zubi about the matrix. We're also going to talk to Zubi about advice for men. As you may know, Zubi is in tip-top shape and he's also blowing up everywhere. So, we're going to have him. We're going to break down. I'll see you then. Bye.