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I want to talk about something. So I was tweeting. Someone said, I asked about what else would people like to see me film. Someone said, "Self-concept only versus SP affirmations." I think self-concept is fantastic, but there's still coaches that are saying people put too much energy on the SP and must focus on self-concept to get the version of them they want. I also saw another comment. Some, was it a comment? There was something about coaches or or teachers or somebody saying like, when you think about them all the time, it's like putting, like strangling them or like pushing them away, something like that.
So okay, I need y'all coaches, wannabe gurus, anonymous accounts, um, sorry, there's an airplane, um, teachers, um, whoever, whatever, whatever you are, I want you guys to stop demonizing people wanting an SP. I don't understand the fucking problem. Matter of fact, there was literally somebody who told me on Twitter that there are accounts that are literally saying you like need to be okay with being single or okay. See, I need y'all to stop listening to these people. First of all, if we desire things, we, we are beings that desire. Okay? We are literally created to desire. Like we are spiritual beings with desires because we are supposed to fulfill those desires. We are never going to not desire things. There's never going to be a point in your life where you desire nothing. You're always going to have more desires because it is in your nature to desire and manifest. Okay? That's your nature. It's what you are. You're, you're a spiritual being and it is your nature to desire, fulfill desire, fulfill, to learn your magic, learn your powers, learn who you are. Okay? We are supposed to be operating as spiritual beings. We were never supposed to be suppressed and our powers hidden from us, basically. Okay? Think of yourself as a magical bitch. That is what you are. You are a magical spiritual being and it is normal and natural for you to desire. And it is especially normal and natural for you to desire to have a partner, a partner to share experiences with. Okay? It is normal. If it wasn't normal, you wouldn't desire it. Okay? It, it is okay for people to want to have a partner because, you know what? How fun is it to have all these things and no one to share it with? Like, that just sounds fucking boring. Whether it's a best friend or a partner, what fun is a million dollars and traveling and and a big house and and just all these things if you have no one to enjoy them with? What is your beef with people wanting fucking partners? I don't get it. And yes, I understand people can be very desperate for a partner because when you love someone or you're in love with someone or you desire someone, it can be very overwhelming. Your feelings are very overwhelming. That's just love. That's just what it is. I mean, who cares? What does that hurt you? First of all, here's my number one rule of thumb before I get enraged about something someone does. My number one and only rule that fucking matters is, does this affect my life? If the answer is no, then it's not my business. And if a lot of you would learn that rule and operate by it, you'd one, have cleaner noses because they wouldn't be in other people's business so often, and two, you'd be a lot happier because you could then focus on yourself and not others. If it doesn't affect your life, it is not your business. So if someone wants a partner or seven or 17, it doesn't affect your life. It is not your business. Okay? That's my number one SP rant. I don't know why y'all are some SP haters. Manifest a damn person if you want a person. Everybody should have a, a freaking partner to, to enjoy things with. Everyone should, everyone should have everything they want unless they want to, you know, harm someone physically or ruin someone's life or worse, you know what I'm saying? I'm, I don't mean it like that. I mean like the things that people naturally desire, it's normal. You should have them. You should have all the money you want. You should have all the fun experiences you want. You should have all the happiness in the world. You are meant to have it. It is already yours. It is already available to you. Okay? Or you wouldn't be able to desire it.
Now, for her question, are you strangling your SP when you think about them all the time? Hmm, let's think about this from a logical and scientific way. What you focus on, your subconscious creates more of, right? This has been proven. So then tell me how focusing on having someone that you want equals pushing them away? Because that's sounding a lot like 8 + 8 is 27. And unless you're really stupid, you know that is incorrect. Okay? Right? Okay. So, so if by law, by spiritual law and by science, what we focus on grows, let's just use the cliche term. How does that make sense that the more you think of this person, the more you push them away or they won't show up the way you want them to? If I am affirming that my person loves me, is obsessed with me, and wants to be with me, I'm not wavering. I'm thinking of it in that way. I'm thinking as if I have what I want because I'm talking about these are people that claim to know the law, telling people this stupid shit. You're someone who claims to know the law and how it works to the point where you feel like you're entitled enough to teach it, you're educated enough on it to teach it, to then tell them that the same law that they should visualize or or think in an abundance mindset for money, or affirm for money, or focus on having a lot of money, feeling rich, if you will, you're telling me that it doesn't work that way though for a person? So now the law is choosy and it's like, yeah, we'll see for money, I'll do that, but for your person, mm, nope, figure out a different way. I'll wait. Right? No, that's not how it works. See, the law is the same. It never changes. The law of assumption is the law of assumption. And it's, that's even a name probably given by Neville. It's the law. It's the law of whatever the fuck you're thinking all the time. Like I said before. Okay? What you focus on, you create more of because what you're focusing on, what you're thinking all the time is what your subconscious assumes that you want more of, right? So if you're thinking your SP is obsessed with you, all that's going to print is your SP being obsessed with you. You're going to select a version. Whatever, we've been through this, but I'm going to say it again. Whatever you're thinking, whatever you're thinking all the time, over and over and over and over and over, whatever you're affirming all the time is what you are selecting. You're choosing it as an experience. It's like a menu. You have this menu of infinite experiences for you to choose from. So when you're thinking that your SP is so obsessed with you, that's the experience that you are choosing. So if you're repeating it over and over and over again, you are confirming that that is the experience you are selecting. So the only possible outcome to that is them being obsessed with you because that's the experience you're selecting. It doesn't work in a way that's like, "SP's so obsessed with me, SP's so obsessed with me," and I'm, I'm selecting "SP's so obsessed with me," but then my reality or my subconscious or the universe is going to go, "No, I don't think we're going to give you that. I think we're going to have him run away from you. You're going to get the opposite." That's not how it works. That's not how it works. You get the experience you're selecting. The reason that people don't get the experiences they're trying to select is because while they're selecting in this one, they're also reacting and then selecting this one. Because every time they are selecting this one and then that person does something the opposite or does something rude or mean to them because they haven't, they haven't wired that pathway for it yet, they haven't fully selected the experience yet, probably based on, uh, opposing thoughts and stuff like that. And and their original belief about this person, they're having to work on changing the belief about this person. But while they're doing this, this person is still a little bit of an ass asshole. So even though they're selecting it, as soon as that person is an asshole, they're going back to selecting asshole version because they're going, "Oh my God, he's such an asshole." So then you get asshole. Okay? That's just how it works. Sorry to say asshole so many times, but I mean, I'm just, do you get my point?
Now, as far as the self-concept question, let's talk about self-concept. Self-concept is wonderful. You should absolutely. Your self-concept is who you are. What types of experiences do you have? Who are you? Because you are also selecting the version of yourself. Your, your self-concept is the version of you that you are selecting. Who do you want to be? What types of experiences do you want to have? How do you want people to treat you? How do people see you? How do you see yourself? How good are you at manifesting? Who, who are you? What version of you are you selecting? That is your self-concept. That is wonderful and that is going to change a lot about your experiences. It controls most of your experiences, your self-concept does. But you can have this belief when it comes to, okay, we're talking about SPs. So you can think you are the literal hottest girl in the entire universe. Okay? Everyone is attracted to you. You have always been that bitch. Okay? You've had no problem getting a, getting a man or a girl or whatever it is that you want. Okay? You've had no problem. But for some reason, whatever reason, it doesn't even matter. You don't even need to go digging for the reason. For some reason, you see this human. Maybe it's because of you feeling strongly for them. A lot of the time, it's that. It's one thing to get a lot of attention from guys you don't really care about. Some you may care about a little bit. You may like them a little bit. Or girls, you may like them a little bit. You may care about them a little bit. But one, a lot of times when you feel very strongly about someone else, that automatically to you makes it a little more challenging. It makes it seem like they are somehow more special than the others, which they are. I mean, the person you want to be with, the person you love, the person you're attracted to, drawn to, they are automatically more important than the others. So of course you're going to have an easier time with the ones you don't care about versus the one that you do care about. So if you have an assumption or a belief that this person is more unattainable or is unattainable or is harder to attain because you think so highly of them and you see them as so important, then you probably are going to still need to change your specific beliefs about them. Tons of people have tons of different beliefs. There are a lot of beliefs that are like, um, you know, I have no problem getting guys, but except for the one that I want. As soon as I want someone, they don't want me. Um, that is a very common thing. So it's really a person-to-person situation. So I can't fully go in detail, but I'm giving examples. So usually that's the case. A lot of times that is the case. So while your self-concept may be absolutely wonderful and it may have 20,000 people falling at your feet, that one person that you think something different about, you're going to have to target that one specifically. Okay? You're going to have to change your belief about them because even though you think everybody falls at my feet, everybody is obsessed with me, you still have these thoughts about that one person that they're harder or more unattainable or that they don't worship you the way other people do. Okay? So then you have to change that belief about them by telling yourself, "Oh yes, they do. They are so obsessed with me. Um, they fall at my feet too. They bend over backwards for me too. They, whatever it is, what you know what your belief is about that person." So no, you have a perfect. I know plenty. I have plenty of clients that come to me with a perfect self-concept and we still have to fix the direct belief about the person they're manifesting. And a lot of the time, it is because see that person as different and more unattainable and they feel like that they, they can get anyone except for the person they want. So we fixed that. You still have to work on that specific belief. You, you, even, it's not even just about a person you want to be with. It can be a person that's just always giving you trouble. Like everybody else is nice to you, but this one person just happens to be a bitch. Okay? You still, if you want that person to not be a bitch anymore, you have to directly affirm that this person is also very nice to you. This person loves you. They treat you kindly. Whatever. Okay? You have very specific beliefs about people and different scenarios. Even though everything else is so easy, you could have this one belief about this one thing that you just have to change for whatever reason. It could be conditioning from your childhood. It could just be an experience. It could just, whatever. You could learn it from fucking TV or social media. It's, it's okay. You can, you absolutely should work on your self-concept. You should always want a good self-concept because it's going to control most of everything. But for the little things that still need to be changed, don't be afraid to change them. Don't derail yourself and be like, "Oh my God, my self-concept must be shit because every single thing is not the way I want it." Okay? Because you just probably have a different belief about that situation. You somehow believe in one way or another, they are immune to this self-concept thing you have going for yourself. Okay? Just change it and they'll fall in line. That's it. Stop demonizing SPs. Don't let anybody make you feel bad for wanting to manifest a person. And work on your self-concept and your other beliefs. Okay? Let's stop making it hard. Stop telling people. Stop. I hate. I hate this is what I hate about these coaches, these want to be coaches, these want to be gurus, these want to be teachers, these want to be whatever. They're just doing it because it's trendy and they don't know what they're doing and they're giving harmful information and they're scaring people and they are convincing people that things that they're doing are wrong when they're not wrong. They're complicating shit because they don't even understand how it works. They're just trying to jump on the trend. Just change your thoughts. That's it. Just change your thoughts. If you know that the thoughts that you're having are creating, uh, are selecting an experience that you don't want, change your thoughts. That's it. That's all there is to it. Just change your thoughts about it and do it consistently enough until you see it manifest, until you see the experience manifest in your life. Okay? Until the experience changes, until you get the experience you want, just change your thoughts about it. That's it. Stop letting people make it so hard for you. You can desire whatever you want. You can manifest whatever you want. You are a, you're an unlimited magical spiritual being. It is natural for you to have desires. You are not a, you're not doing bad because you still desire things. It is your nature to desire and fulfill. Okay? That's literally what you're here to do. So have fun, live your life, manifest every single thing you want. Okay?
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