Women convince themselves they don't need men, but men are wise to their ways

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Uh, men ignoring women is driving them nuts. I just did a story the other day about, uh, men kind of boycotting, uh, dating. And many of you said, "Well, it's not a boycott. I've permanently left the dating market." And that's certainly understandable. But the dating landscape has permanently changed forever. Women are completely oblivious to it.

This is because most men are learning the hardest truth you face as a man is realizing women can stay with you for years without ever really choosing you. She can enjoy your effort, your protection, your consistency, your money, your affection, and yet never see you as her future. Uh, she isn't with you necessarily out of love, or if it was, it's only temporary since she can refocus her love and attention in an instant to another man. She was with you more than likely out of convenience, nothing more than that, until one day she found someone else she thought was better, and suddenly you weren't enough for her anymore. Too many men realize too late that they weren't actually loved. They're just a placeholder filling time and being used for resources until she decides to move on. That's why you can't confuse her presence with commitment or attention with true loyalty. That's why you can't confuse her presence with commitment or her attention with true loyalty. If she never saw you as the man she wanted to build with, no effort you can put forth in this world is going to change that. Ultimately, she was only passing time until her next choice arrived. She knew she was never yours to lose. She just didn't let you know that she was only waiting for her escape to a better imagined opportunity.

Once men realize this and let this soak into them, it permanently changes a man and there is no going back. And women today do not realize how many men they have permanently broken. And once you've done this to a man, he will never return to the fold in the same way that he may have before. He will be a different person when it comes to friendships and dating, relationships, marriage, the rest of it.

And I think part of the reason why this happens is because when men love a woman, uh, they think of her like an object, and women get very offended by that because they think for some reason that means men own them or control them. It's nothing like that. It's that men just find them to be, uh, something that they want to protect and something they want to cherish and guard and safekeep. It's kind of like if you bought yourself, whether it's a new new camera or a new motorcycle or a new bicycle or a new car, you've invested in that. Whether it's money, whether it's time, whether it's effort to keep it clean or maintained or fixed, you you you cherish it so you take care of it. You cherish it so it stays healthy and will continue to service you as its owner for as long as you can maintain it. Loving a woman is kind of the same way. You cherish them. You want to protect them. Yes, you're a little possessive and can get a little jealous, but over time you want to nurture it and have it, uh, work for you and be able to support you and be part of your life. And unfortunately, when women then take that for granted and just decide to bounce and walk away from a man, it permanently, that sense of loss permanently changes him. And women don't realize this. And men, too many men are going through this now. And it's breaking them at a fundamental level. And I don't even mean breaking in a bad way. It just breaks off that that piece of them that they say they were the good guy. They were this person that was loving and kind. They were amazing. And women ruined it. It's happened to me. It's probably happened to many of you where you just say, "I am a completely different man than I used to be. I can no longer love. I can no longer give you what I used to be able to because I've been broken. You've hurt me too many times to go back to this."

Uh, I do have a main article I'm I'm going to jump into and it's here from Vogue. Is having a a boyfriend embarrassing now? And then I've got something else that I want to talk about, which is a followup that, uh, another author did about that article, another woman, of course, why women are now claiming that having a boyfriend is embarrassing. And it's a little bit sour grapes, but it's it's actually something else. And and we'll dive down into this. Uh, before I play that, though, I do want to talk about this video here.

>> I want to marry a man who gets more excited about my birthday than I do. Someone who plans little surprises just because he loves seeing my eyes light up. Someone who remembers the stories behind the things I care about and never treats my joy like an inconvenience. I want to marry the man who asks how my day really was and waits for the answer. The one who holds my hand in public and holds my heart in private with the same gentle care. Give me the man who celebrates my wins louder than I do. The one who shows up in the front row charging my camera and his confidence at the same time. The one who is proud of me even on the days I don't feel proud of myself. I want to marry the man who knows love is not grand gestures only. It is remembering I like my coffee sweet. It is warming up the car while I tie my shoes. It is listening when I talk about my dreams and then helping me turn those dreams into our plans. I want to marry the man who keeps choosing us even when life gets loud. Who does not run when things get hard. Who believes in growing together, not growing apart. I want to marry the man who makes ordinary moments feel like magic. Grocery store aisles that feel like adventures. Binge watching shows that feel like home. A future that finally feels like taking a deep breath. I want to marry someone who sees love as a daily choice, not a disappearing act. Someone soft with his words, strong with his loyalty, steady with his intentions. Because at the end of the day, I don't want a fairy tale that ends at midnight. I want the man who stays even after the music stops. The man who chooses me even when the world is not watching. The one who looks at growing old with me like it is something to look forward to. Who believes love gets better with time, not boring. Who knows that forever is made just from moments like these.

Now, while that's very sweet and romantic and, uh, apparently she wants to marry every Disney prince all wrapped up into one, uh, it sounds like she wants to marry a gay best friend. Really, if I'm to be honest about it, but this is the kind of thing women come forward to. And I think at one point in time, a lot of men would have said, "I can do those things, but it's got to be for the right woman that's going to do the same or more for me." But remember, uh, in, um, when I open this video, all the things that men have learned about women since then, which is if there's an opportunity for them to level up, many of them have made it clear they will jump ship and take the first opportunity. So why would a man commit all of this time and effort into a woman just to have it go away?

There's a gentleman on X. Uh, this I happen to find his account. Uh, he's an older gentleman and I'm, I'm not giving him any, uh, I'm not trying to give him any shame or anything like that. And he's got 20,000 followers. He's not a huge account, but of course, as we know, that doesn't mean that what he has to say is any less important or less relevant than anybody else. And he, I caught his post and I read down through it and I really think that it resonates with how many of us men feel about the dating market today. In response to that video, he said, "Many, many women do not understand how much the life of the average man is shaped by rejection and often outright betrayal by women. Everything this woman is saying is right and good, perfectly reasonable for her to want all these things. But she and women like her need to know how it lands. Uh, meaning, you know, how do men receive this type of message? The man out there who's been rejected, lied to, betrayed, hears all this and thinks, 'I was that guy. I did do all those things and she still dumped me for somebody else.' He can't hear this charitably because the roar of his pain is too loud in his ears. He can only hear it as it lies. He's never going to believe a woman wants these things. At least not from him. At least not from a reasonably decent, if imperfect guy. He's going to believe that what this woman is saying is, 'I want Chad to do all these things.' A guy who's perfect in every way. And wants to know how my day went. Many men have been conditioned by social media discourse and by their own experience to believe that they can never be good enough to be worthy of a woman's love. They hear this woman's list of what she wants as another list of ways they'll never be good enough. Especially when the judge of good enough is a woman's subjective feelings, which can change at any moment. Yes, it's good for this woman to want these things. It's also good for men to want things from women and for women to think about what they owe the men in their lives. Our culture around dating, romance, marriage, and sex is a mess and creating something better is going to require changes from both sides."

I do agree with him. Uh, I do agree with him and his statement, but there's a lot more to this in that once a man has gone through this, once a man has had that part of him broken off, the part that can truly love from the bottom of his heart. Once that's gone, there is no repairing it. It never comes back. And if it does, multiple times, young men have said, "Well, I'm going to give this another shot and another and another and another." And after it's been damaged or broken enough times, it just never grows back. It never comes back for a man. Now, you might say, "Well, the same thing happens to women." But there's a difference. Men are not running around looking for every opportunity to level up. In many cases, yeah, the guy might sleep with another woman or something like that. But in most cases, if a guy's bedroom needs are getting met and he still is attracted to his wife, because men must build the better world that they want and they can't jump on somebody else's wagon to get it. Most men are are focused on making their life better for themselves and the woman that's with them, where women are looking for the opportunity to leave for a better man. Because this is happening so much today, men have been permanently broken.

So, when we see an article like this, "Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?" by a middle-aged woman who has a lot of chips on her shoulders, it comes across as very insensitive and quite stupid to men. And we're going to break this down. I'm not going to read the whole article, just a couple passages just so you know, uh, just just enough of it so you can get an idea.

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So, the Shante Joseph, just so you can get an image of the woman that we're referring to, this is her. Uh, as you can see, she's not exceptionally attractive. Uh, she is middle-aged, somewhere probably in her late 30s to early 40s. She has resting [ __ ] face. Uh, she just doesn't have a good outlook on life, especially when when this is the image that you associate your writing and your article to. So that's not necessarily a very good sign to begin with, but in here she says the following.

Uh, most recently, there's a pronounced shift in the way people showcase their relationships online. Far from fully hard launching romantic partners, straight women are opting for subtler signs. A hand on a steering wheel, clinking glasses at dinner, or the back of someone's head. On the more confusing end, you have faces blurred out of wedding pictures, or entirely professional, entire professionally edited videos with a fiance conveniently cropped out of all shots. Women are obscuring their partner's face when they post, as if they want to erase the fact that they exist without actually not posting them.

Now, if you go on and read down through the rest of this, uh, she says it's for a couple of reasons. Uh, number one, uh, women lose followers, uh, from their accounts, their social media accounts, when people find out that they're actually dating somebody. It's from women that don't have any man in their life and they're jealous and they don't want to be reminded of it, and B, it's from men that may have been hoping to date the woman at some point in time, and then they find out she's got a guy, and they move on. Now, she says it's not sour grapes and, uh, you know, she's not upset that she doesn't have a man in her life and she's perfectly happy, even though she refuses to follow anybody that starts posting about a relationship if they've been single before.

I think what's going on is a couple of different things. I think women are moving from man to man and relationship to relationship so quickly now that they don't want to have a permanent trail of bodies left behind on their social media that they need to cultivate, uh, curate, uh, uh, delete or explain to anybody. I think the second thing, though, is many of them get their narcissistic needs met on social media by all the thirsty adoring fans that they have from the male side of things and of course, the, uh, female saying, "Yes, queen, you do it."

Here's a little another excerpt that kind of explains things from her point of view. She said, "There's an overwhelming sense from single and partnered women alike that regardless of the relationship, being with a man is almost a guilty thing to do." On the Delusional Diaries podcast, fronted by two New York-based influencers, Haley and Jazz, they discuss whether having a boyfriend is lame now. "Why does having a boyfriend feel Republican?" read a top comment. "Boyfriends are out of style. They won't come back in until they start acting, uh, right," read another with thousands of likes. In essence, having a boyfriend typically takes a hit on a woman's aura, as one commenter claimed. Funnily enough, both of these hosts have partners, which is something I often see online. Even partnered women will lament men and heterosexuality partly in solidarity with other women, but also because it's now fundamentally uncool to be a boyfriend type girl.

This is what we've mentioned many times when it comes to social media. Women's real world, in other words, them sitting at home, them going to work, them sitting eating lunch in a lunchroom, that's not the real world to women. That's just a way for them to be able to put their online persona in order. In other words, to pay for the extravagant purses and the makeup and the dresses and the locations. Uh, there were many stories of people going overseas to very popular destinations on Instagram and going over and just flying there to take pictures and of themselves in this place and then hopping on a plane to fly somebody else, trying to live up to this social media hype that their lives are actually awesome when in reality they're not doing very well. There's a plane company that has a plane and it's, I don't even think it's a plane that flies, but it's something like a G7 or a G5 and it's, it's a very luxurious plane on the inside. And you can rent the plane for an hour for $500, not to go somewhere, but to actually just sit inside of it and take pictures while you, uh, bring your own bottle of champagne or sparkling grape juice or whatever it is these women are drinking and pretend to be living the lavish lifestyle. Then when it comes to dating, a woman will look at a man and instead of looking at her real-world self that is going to be dating this man, she looks at her online curated persona with the makeup and the fake jewelry and the Gucci bags and her fake destinations and everything else and she says, "I deserve a man that aligns with that, my imaginary person, not my real person."

Here's a good example of that is right here. This woman is a perfect example of what I'm talking about. Now, this has cringe music over it. Um, so when I play this, I think I have to mute it. Let's hear it.

>> Yep. Okay. It's just a, it's just a song in the background. Uh, for those of you just listening here, we see a gal that's, um, she's got a high forehead, which you can tell. Um, now I'm not saying she's horrible looking. Hear me out. Hear me out. Okay? If you, when I was a teen, when I was 18, half the girls in school looked like this because of pimples and acne and everything else. No, they weren't models. But at my age, I probably had as much acne, if not more, than this woman does. But the problem is, this is what she looks like in the real world. She should be dating a guy that looks like the lead actor on Napoleon Dynamite. Like, that is the type of guy that she should be belonging with. But what happens is these women go out there and they cultivate and curate this wonderful life where they put on the push-up bras and they have the fake tan and they put on the fake lashes and they start caking on the makeup. They have body glitter that they put on, they do their hair. They jump through all of these steps. And again, if you're just listening, we're playing a video where she's going through these steps dialing herself up. And at the end of the day, what happens is these women end up looking like this. Now, me personally, I find that to be way too much makeup, but she has a lot of acne to cover and she's put fake moles on her face, but it's glamorized and it is glammed up to the 20th degree. And when you see this, men would say, "Okay, this is what she looks like when you see her in the club or you see her out on an evening on the town. What men realize they're getting is the woman in the beforehand. Okay? The one with the acne and the big glasses. Men realize I'm actually this is the woman that I would be dating if I date this woman. Me personally, you, you say something like, "Okay, you know, she's not super overweight. She keeps herself in shape, so that gets her a couple points. All right, she's a four or a five, but I'm a four or a five, so maybe I can date this girl and we'll get along." But she doesn't see herself as this girl. She sees herself as this girl, which I mean, you ask me, even with the makeup, it's, it's not a great look. She has a five head and everything else, but she's glammed up. She sees herself because she can go out to a dimly lit club with all this makeup and her push-up bra, and she can probably get a guy that's a seven or an eight to take her home or take her out to his car and smash in the back seat. So, she believes she is now valued as seven or an eight. And that is where one of the big problems with all of this lies is that in reality these women say it's embarrassing to have a man and I don't need a man and, uh, I can, I can do something else and something different because I have my curated world of my sicko pants and my fans on social media and that's the real world to them.

The woman that wrote this article, uh, this is her right here. Uh, she's got tons of videos going down and this is her talking about the actual article that she wrote. And if you go down and look through the comments, this has 3,000 likes on it. Uh, all you get is a lot of, "Oh, I loved reading this." And, "Oh, me too, girl." And, "Oh, you slay." And, "Oh, I totally agree with you." And then there's guys in here that are saying, "Oh, you know, you're still beautiful and I think you're amazing. You're such a strong, wonderful woman." And this is what's happening. Women have become so disconnected and men want nothing to do with that. Men just, men have opted out of the system completely and the, it's driving the women crazy, literally, where women are now living in fantasy land where they say, "Oh, it's, I don't even need a man. It's embarrassing to have a boyfriend. I need to hide him. I need to hide him because I don't want people to know I'm dating somebody. If I show glamour shots of me traveling somewhere, I want people to think I purchased the trip and that I'm a some boss b*tch and I'm, I'm, I'm in charge of my own." They don't, they don't want it to be known that the guy standing right off camera that's her boyfriend that's probably looking off the side of the ship when they're on a cruise somewhere. They don't want to think, "Well, maybe the guy bought those tickets. Maybe she's not as strong and independent as we thought." And of course, the last part is she doesn't want to be seen with a man because it leaves the opportunity open to find another man on the market because all women are, at least most of them today, are looking for a level up and they don't really care how bad they hurt you as they step on heads to elevate themselves up to the next level.

Uh, this author from the New York Post, uh, Claudia Paposki, I guess, or Paposki, "Why Women Are Now Claiming That Having a Boyfriend Is Embarrassing." She kind of admits this. She says, "To me, it feels the result of women wanting to straddle two worlds. One where they can receive the social benefits of having a partner, which means money, status, trips, convenience, uh, having a man around. Um, maybe, maybe sex or sleeping with them, something like that. But they also don't want to appear so boyfriend-obsessed that they come across quite culturally as loerish because it is so in vogue right now to hate on men and trash men that if you date a man, you're actually kind of a loser in the eyes of many of these women." She continues on. She says, "At almost 30 myself with a relationship status that leans more single and it's complicated than taken and surrounded by friends and long-term relationships, I can't lie, the article piqued my interest. I know many incredible women, and my ultimate pet peeve is when absolute icons dull their sparkle to suit their relationship. There's obviously nothing wrong with being in love and being proud of it, but I've always maintained the importance of having a life and a personality outside of the person you're making out with." Well, yes, of course, you've got to have a social life outside of your partner. But these women are not having just a social life outside of their partner. They're excluding their partner to the point that eventually they run into somebody else where, whether real or perceived, they think is a better value or a better, um, a better step up in life. And they dump the previous guy without him doing anything wrong or deserving to be dumped, just so they can level up.

And you know, if you think about men, right? Men throughout history, throughout the ages, throughout the eons, they have to collect and gather and make and build whatever they get. Now, you go back, I don't know, to caveman times. If, if a caveman wants to be warm, he has to build a fire. If he wants to eat, he's got to go, you know, slay an animal and and skin it and cook it and have so he can have food to eat. If he wants to shelter himself from rain, he needs to build some sort of a hut or find a cave, which is probably why they called them cavemen. Although I don't think there are that many caves in the world. But my point is that man has to go and earn it. Nothing is given to him. But what do the women do? The women get by by going with the best man. The best caveman will give her the best food and give her the best protection and give her the best shelter. And so her lot in life is how well she does is directly tied to how well the caveman she attaches herself to. Well, that hasn't changed any. Now, yes, women can go out and earn their own money, and women go out can go out and do their own thing, but that lizard brain thing that's built in their head still drives them to go find the best man they can get. And at any point today with feminism and everything else they've taught these women, if at any point in their little pee brains, they think, "Hey, I'm going to have an easier life, an easier time, better looking kids with better genetics, a better opportunity if I just leave the guy I have for that one over there. I'd be on easy street." In the past, this wasn't as nearly as easy to do, and there was a lot, a lot of social ostracization and penalties for doing this. Women just couldn't jump from man to man to man. But now in today's society, not only is it not punished, it's cheered on. Women are told, "Oh, it's stunning and brave. What, uh, he's not meeting your needs? Just move on. Level up. Get your bag, girl." And these women are proudly doing it and laughing on social media as they do it. But all the men, whether they've been involved with that woman, they are involved with that woman, or they've had their hearts and souls crushed by that woman, or young men today seeing it happen to other men over and over and over on social media, those men realize, I, I'm not going to take this risk. I'm not jumping on board with this anymore.

And so when you look at these women that are writing articles about this saying, "Well, actually, it's embarrassing to be with men, and actually we don't need no man, and actually, even if I have a boyfriend, I'm going to hide him." What they're really stating is that I'm waiting for a level up. Uh, I don't really want to talk about my man in my life for a, a multitude of reasons, but really it boils down to this is probably just my current man, but I'll be moving on or leveling up at a, at a later point in time. And the whole point of this is men realize this is happening and men see it happening and men are just staying away from all of it because they realized how broken the market is.

Another woman here, uh, Abby Buffo, who has 1.3 million followers, shared a video of her herself celebrating the news of this article, which is "Having a Boyfriend Is Embarrassing." She had a v, a video that she put out to her 1.3 million followers about saying, "Hey, British Vogue is coming out and declaring that having a boyfriend is embarrassing. What a time to be alive and single ladies." This woman with 1.3 million followers celebrating with all of her fans saying, "Even British Vogue says, 'We don't need no man, everybody.'" And her and all her little followers celebrate and say how wonderful and happy we are. There's only a pro, there's one problem with this though. The woman that wrote this article is not British Vogue. It's not of all of Britain. It's a small subset of people, one woman. And this one woman's article made another woman celebrate thinking they're all on the same page of this is wonderful. We all agree we don't need boyfriends. When in reality, it's just two women celebrating this. The author and the other woman pointing to the author saying, "We've made it, everybody." And then all her little fans celebrate and cheer along.

But ultimately, it always boils down to the same thing. These women, once I, and I, I used this expression the other day in a video, but I do want to say it again because it's the best way to look at this. Men at the age of 18, 19, 20 start out with nothing. They have no chips. They've got to go out and hustle and earn and work and become good communicators and maybe learn some game. They've got to go to the gym and and try to get healthy and be in good shape. They need to dress nicely. Over time, they can accumulate, uh, chips that they might use in the casino, right? But they don't get this maybe until they're 30 or 40 years old. Finally, they're worth something. The difference is with women at the age of 18, 19, 20, they have all the chips they're ever going to need or have that are valuable to a man. Now, over time, she might make, make a bank and she might have a fancier car and a bigger house. That doesn't matter to men because she, her resources are not his. What matters to men? Youth, beauty, fat, uh, fertility, and, uh, her kindness and her loyalty. You know, if we're going to be frank, loyalty is a huge thing today. So, at the age of 18, she's got all the chips she's ever going to have in her life. And then she goes for the next 15 or 20 years spending her chips, going out and gambling on this guy and sleeping with this guy and having a party time with this woman and going out with her friends and doing this. And over time, those chips are leaking away until by the end of 40, the guy's got all his chips he earned over the last 20 years. She's lost all the chips that she had. Now, in reality, that 40-year-old that's gathered all those chips is probably the best partner for the 20-year-old and vice versa. But that's not the society we work in today because the young woman doesn't ever think she's going to be 40 years old with no chips, although they land there every single time.

And what these women ultimately want is this kind of guy right here. Uh, this is a video that some loser on TikTok posted and he, he decided, hey, I'm going to, I'm going to give my two cents to all the other quote unquote loser men that that we need to, we need to fix ourselves, guys. We need to up our game because we're embarrassing to these women. This is the type of woman or this is the type of man that these women want or they say that they want a man that feels like this because he has all the right words and he's on board and he's loveydovey and oh, we need to be better for these women. But in the meantime, women hate him because he's weak and he's a feminite and he doesn't stand up for himself and he's a pushover. This is the kind of guy we call a sneaky [ __ ]. He's a feminist. He's all on board and he hopes to grovel and just get a, just get a little piece of that pie because he's been a good boy and protected these women from all those awful men. But in the meantime, women want traditionally masculine men, but they're not getting them because politics. Because men are not agreeing with all the craziness of the feminists and the women don't want to, the women don't want to be with that long term. Sure, they'll sleep with him. Sure, they'll try to change him into the perfect man, but it never works.

Vogue just posted an article saying having a boyfriend is embarrassing. I think for men this is a wakeup call to the smart independent woman, good salary, nice place. We provide no benefit. We are no longer the priority. In fact, we're probably a burden to them. We need to realize having a girlfriend is a privilege and our duty is to raise them up and make them the most successful version of themselves. That might mean doing the laundry and picking up the dishes. It might mean working harder to support them so they can go back to school. It might mean just focusing on ourselves more to be the best versions of ourselves to inspire them to want to do the same. I think a healthy relationship involves both people raising each other up to be the best versions of themselves and doing whatever they can to support that person to be able to do that. Right now, I don't think men are doing that. I think men don't really provide a benefit. We need to figure out how to provide that benefit so we are no longer embarrassing.

>> Yeah, cool story, bro. I hope she sees this. This is the feminine indoctrination that gets into men's heads. We're not, we're, at no point in time should we be there to support her and lift her up so that she can get her bag. You know, she's going to, because if you do that as a man, she's going to dump you. She's going to see herself as better than you. And women don't date down. And so she will move on. She will step on your head to cross the river full of crocodiles. And then she'll just keep walking while you're eaten alive. This guy has never, or at least is too stupid to realize women's modus operandi. And he doesn't realize how women look at him. Women need to be there to support the men because the women want the men's resources. So the better a man does, the more resources she gets. If the man is there to to support the woman and get her more resources by lifting her up, well, she only dates up. So as, as the higher she gets, the higher she's looking to date, and then she's going to leave you behind standing in the mud puddle. This is the type of of man all these women say that they want, but ultimately they never stay with him. They step on him and walk away every single time. And men know this now. You ought to see the replies on some of these things. Men are just like, "You're a loser, dude. She will dump you the second she has an opportunity." And men are now avoiding these women more and more. And the women are just, they're coming up with every excuse in the book they can to to just hate on men even more. They've broken the market. They've broken the system. And now that men say, "I don't want to play in this system anymore. You screwed up the market. Now the women are angry. Still blaming the men for the for the problem that they created."

Uh, before I get to the last video, I will share this with you. And this is the kind of stuff that women share. This comes from an account called Lo's Drops or Love Drops. And this is the kind of thing that women push and they get up in their head in their fantasy world and all their nonsense without realizing the real world they've left behind that includes real men with real issues and real masculinity and the, just the real world. They've left it all behind. Uh, this chick over at Love Drops shares this. It's a woman writing with a marker on a mirror in what seems to be San Francisco Bay because it looks like the Golden Gate Bridge is, uh, behind reflected in the mirror here. And it says, "I pushed you away because I needed you to pull me close." That's some, that's some Hallmark book. That's some lifestyle magazine [ __ ] right there. That sounds good on paper. That's something that women eat this up. "Oh boy, that's great. I'm going to post this on my timeline. I pushed you away because I needed you to pull me close." Men see that and they're like, "Okay, well, that literally makes no sense. Um, I, I, I, I broke your foot because I needed you to run faster. I threw salt in your eyes because I wanted you to see me clearly. Pushed you away because I needed you to pull me close. That's not how this works. We're not doing this anymore. We're not doing this anymore. You push me away, I walk away. And in, in many cases, I don't just walk away from you. I walk away from all the women that are just like you. I'm not playing this game anymore. Many men are not. We're just done with it. It's nonsense. All your little imaginary worlds and your feelings and your crazy social media posts and it really boils down to you're just nuts." And I share, I try to share these often because it is a reminder. It is the, it is the salve that you can rub on your wounds when you go to bed at night, gentlemen, because many, many of you, and I have been through this as well, there's times where you go, "Man, this sucks. I got to get my crap together." But I try. My stuff is together and I still can't get a woman.

Uh, this comes from aka or aka face. He's got about almost 600,000 followers and he says, "Videos are circulating online showing women in their 30s and 40s tearfully reflecting on being single, childless, and without stable homes. The clips often include captions expressing regret or longing for a family life, sparking widespread discussions about loneliness and societal expectations and shifting relationship norms." Now, I can't play this cuz once again, it has cringe music, but, uh, I've, I've put this woman in a video a while back. She's an attractive blonde, but it says, "It's impossible for women after 40 to find a boyfriend. I have no children. I cook delicious food and I have a big house. Am I really that bad?" Well, you're 40, so you're never having children. You say you have no children, but a man may want children, and you're over 40. You cook delicious food. That's great. Dudes are down with that and you have a big house, doesn't matter because it's not the man's house. And so you'll never see it as both of your house, you'll see it as your house because the man didn't provide it. And so yes, while many guys will sleep with you, many guys will date with you, date you. No one is going to hitch their cart to that wagon.

"Another woman will be 30 next year. No marriage, no child. I always go to bed with tears." "Another one. I'm turning 39. Not married, no child, not in a serious relationship. I'm hopeless. Please help me, God." You've had 20 years and you blew it. "Another one. The age of 39, still single, no house, no car, uh, no children. Dear Lord, this is the end result." Time after time after time after time. And we warn them, stop doing this because now we're going to ignore you. Now we're going to avoid you. You're a liability.

And like I said in the beginning of this, okay, and this is the point you must remember as a man today, the dating landscape is permanently changed. And women don't realize it, but they're the ones that changed it. Okay? Women will stay with you for years. They'll claim they love you. They'll sleep under the same roof. You can take them out and they date them and they say they're so happy to be with you and everything's wonderful and she'll take, she'll take advantage of your efforts and your protections and your consistency and your money and your affection and she'll still never see you as her ultimate future because they always keep an eye out to be able to level up and step out the door. And men know this now. And men are walking away forever. And it doesn't mean that these men don't ever date or they don't, you know, they're not with somebody or they're not even in a long-term relationship. No, they'll still do that. But those men now keep some gas in reserve. They keep some extra extra fuel in that reserve tank because when you're young, you'd give it all for a woman. If you think she's, you know, you think you're going to be together forever, you give her your everything. You give her your best. You love her. You would take a bullet for her. You'll do anything for. But after that, you get burned time after time after time, those calluses on your heart get so thick, they're like a steel wall and they become impenetrable. It doesn't mean you don't appreciate women. It doesn't mean you don't date a woman. Take her out to dinner, sleep with her, enjoy her presence, but you retain the knowledge that at any moment she very likely might say, "I'm, I found somebody to level up with. You're not in anymore. I'm moving on." And if you, if you keep enough in that reserve tank instead of being empty like you were as a kid where you said, "Ah, I'm crushed. I can't go on. Ah, life's unfair." Now, you'd say, "Well, I enjoyed it while we had it. Kind of sucks. I guess I'll be starting over. Best of luck to you. Move on." And then you start over again because you've got that extra reserve. You didn't ditch all your friends like you did when you were young. You kept your friends. Uh, as a matter of fact, your friends are more important to you than that girl is or that relationship is. You kept your hobbies. You kept your possessions. You didn't give and sacrifice too much like you would have when you were younger because you're wiser now. Women have taught us all their true nature. And men are becoming wise. And now we're ignoring women. We're ignoring their needs. We're we're ignoring their demands. We're ignoring all the nonsense. And because of it, I think men are kind of winning. Uh, or at least winning as much as you can. You may not get exactly the way you wanted, uh, a relationship or a family or a marriage, all that in life. You may not get that exactly the way you wanted it, but at least you'll come out of this, uh, in the positive, some way, some form, you'll make it. And I think most guys will because we've got to build those chips where the women are just throwing all of theirs away.

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