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Welcome to High Value Blueprint, where bold ideas meet real talk. Today, we're breaking down a controversial Kevin Samuels moment that's sparking debate across the timeline. Let's unpack it, challenge the narratives, and uncover the real truths behind the conversation.
"Hello."
"Hi."
"How are you?"
"I'm good. How are you?"
"I'm good. How old are you again?"
"I'm 30."
"So, my question was, why don't your friends like my content? But do you have a question?"
"Yes. So my question was for the high value women or the women who are above the 10%."
"Okay."
"You made..."
"Earnings."
"Earnings. Okay."
"Yeah. You made a post about men who are the 6%. How why should they only have one woman?"
"3%."
"3%. Why have one woman?"
"Mhm. So for women who are high valued, who are educated, who do make more than the 10%. How do we I guess get these 3%ers that only want one woman?"
"Okay, first of all, a woman's not high value because of her income."
"Okay."
"The value proposition for women is different. You know, uh she's attractive and appealing. Uh has a comforting character. She's discerning and disciplined and several other things. But money doesn't make a woman high value."
"Okay?"
"Otherwise, you could go into Hollywood, you can go, you go to places where women have hundreds of thousands of millions of dollars and they still have to marry... men, right? So, you're basically asking, 'How do I get a 3% man to be loyal?' You want what all women tend to want. You want a loyal alpha. Why? Where in history have women ever been able to make that kind of demand of of such a rare man?"
"I don't think ever. I mean, I understand it. I feel like every man that I've dated of high value has always wanted more women, but I've just never..."
"So, is that something we should just deal with? Like..."
"Where in the history of human beings have men of high cal of high standing ever ever been expected to be solely monogamous?"
"I I guess I don't know."
"See, I was listening to Sheryl Sandberg. This ar this culture we have here, the the monogamy, like it or not, was really done for for business reasons more or less. But if you really look at human beings who kind of settle themselves accordingly, men of means tend to have more food, more resources, more men at arms, more more soldiers, more this, more that. And he has a queen, and he also has what? Concubines. You get to be number one. But you got to look at it this way, too, ma'am. That's how human beings have evolved. And I know a lot of women are upset with that. But where in nature do you see the top males who are just makes monogamous pair bonds? It's not even in our nature. Now, just because a man may choose to do it, why is that so important? And here's the funny thing. That man, the man you're talking about is magnitudes more valuable than another man. Just from an income standpoint, we're talking about a man who's at least three times more income than average men, right? At least. Then why doesn't he get three times more options of women? He's more valuable, right? And see, this is a this is a female fantasy. I want you to go out there and kill the dragon, be the top dog. I want you to dominate other dominate other men. Uh subdue the environment, and I want you to bring it all to me. And then I want you to solely commit to me. Now, for 3 to 5 days or more out of a month, I'm not going to even you can't even touch me sexually. And we know in business anytime a monopoly is on something, what happens to customer service? Customer service on some products that are monopolies is low. Consumer confidence is average. Innovation is stagnant. What makes a market better? Competition. So you want a man to go out and do all this stuff and then he has one sexual partner. Okay. And what if he wants it? What if can you fulfill his sexual needs? Because men who are driven like that tend to have high drives. Can you fulfill that?"
"I can try."
"No, no, no, no, no. Not try. Not try. The the men we're talking about, let's get into this. The men who are driven like this are generally healthy, generally very virile, have higher levels of testosterone. They are conquerors by nature. And most women cannot keep up with a man's sex drive. So, he's supposed to go out and do all that stuff and limit himself. Why? I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm trying to understand the the the justification why..."
"I mean I don't if he's in love I don't know. So there's no loyalty if you're..."
"Loyalty is we come home to you. Loyalty is your name is on the mortgage and on the insurance. Your name is on all the important stuff. When a man cheats, he men don't cheat with their dick. They cheat with their wallets."
"Okay. Well, I've had men just tell me straight up, this is what it's going to be."
"That's what... And that's why I say high value men don't cheat. They exercise options. And as a man who's never cheated, I still understand that uh you can. And if you're a man of value, you do have options. And if you're a woman that wants to deal with a man like that, you'd be a fool not to understand that those men have that man has options. And if he chooses to do something completely different, that's on him. But it's not natural. What we're talking about is an even natural man. I mean, you know your sex drive and you know that men's sex drive tends to be higher than a woman's. So he's supposed to get out there and conquer and then and dominate and then make beg you for sex. I mean, if you tell me a woman is rip ring and ready to go whenever however he wants and she's going to meet his desires so he doesn't need to desire another one, but you can't tell me a woman that can do that. It's not possible. That's why I asked. So I asked the question where where did this concept come from? Cuz it's not even natural. Where do dukes and earls and uh the top 10% of men throughout civilizations where where have they ever just had one woman solely?"
"Yeah, I agree. That's true. So I always tell women like your position if you want to deal with men who are in high demand from other women, your problem isn't typically your man. Your problem is typically the other women cuz the other women are trying to get your position. It's your job to make sure that even if he does this that there's rules, no outside babies, no STDs, uh no public or private embarrassment, and no putting the family at risk. Right. Cuz do you not know what? Because think about how your standards are. If a man can meet your standards, that means he can meet a lot of a lot of women that you think are beneath you, their standards. Right."
"Right."
"Well, then go for a man who's lesser. Why don't you go for a man who's not valued? who who is not who's not pre-selected who other women just is like you can have you you can have him all to yourself I don't want him you got him girl that but that ain't what you want right?"
"No."
"Right. And how old are you again?"
"I'm 30."
"Okay. When do you want to get married?"
"Kids?"
"I have one."
"I want more. I know I have a son and I know you all I'm just I'm just telling you. If you talk about high value man, you know what that means, right?"
"My son is with a high valued man as well. I know."
"Was he your husband though?"
"No, he was not my husband."
"Why was he How long were you guys together?"
"Um, on and off for 10 years."
"Why didn't you guys get married?"
"I don't think we were compatible."
"Then why'd you make a baby? See men, I need you to understand. You want a high value man to be a stepdaddy. Sierra got y'all confused."
"Yeah. I mean, my son's father is a great man. And it doesn't matter the kind of man you're talking about can go get a 25-year-old version of you without a kid. That's why I'm like I think you ladies need to realize when you have children, high value is pretty much off the table. Especially in today's dating environment. Today's dating environment is different than it was even 5 years ago. Too much information. The cat is out of the bag. New York Post even talked about it today. Do you realize that you can't have one struggle to get the kind of man you're talking about? Not one. Did you watch my broadcast last night? Is it over for these women?"
"No, I didn't. I didn't see."
"I talked I talked about the kind of women that it's over for regarding high value men. And I said, 'These career boss chicks, these high earners, uh, who want to continue that, it's over for them because a man's not going to compete with that. Go watch it last night.' I talked I was like, and then uh, and I also talked about women who are unfit, it's over for them. And I said it too, if you have a kid, it's a wrap. Because you got to realize that that your the men you want are in the top 5% of men and they can go get and they have access to and women are actively shooting their shots. So what can you do? And then you want them to be monogamous. You're not monogamous. You bringing somebody else's kid. Uh here here it is. Men with golden I'm going to talk about this. Men with golden penis syndrome are ruining sex and dating for women. And this is written by a really lame blue pill dude. Um, a lack of competition has led the men to develop golden penis syndrome. An arrogance stems from the assumption that there's a steady supply of females. See, this is a beta male who wrote this who's jealous of men who have options because women choose the men that they want and he's not one. So, there's a plethora of men. The the men up here have an an unchanging supply of women. So, how can you go in at 30 with a 10-year-old expecting a man up here and he's going to be loyal? That's that's that's a big ask. That's a big ask. Uh sex ratios among college-educated heterosexuals and singles is approximately three women to every two men. And then even at the 1981 was the last time a four-year college graduated more men than women. And then where was this in New York City? 9 to 12% of men in that category identify as being gay or bi. So, uh, what is it? Some 9 or 10% 9 or 12% of men haven't said they're gay. So, basically what I'm saying is you ladies you want these men are up here and and you know, do you think you don't know what you have in your house that's of more value? If a man knows that he's socioeconomically from a height standpoint or from a marketplace standpoint, he is more rare."
"How important is it to have a man like that? Or would the average man not do?"
"Okay. Well, then you need to be ready to be part of a rotation. The best you can expect. I think a winning hand for you, uh, if somebody were to, if a high value man were to accept you as his wife, that man would likely have children and he would still likely exercise options."
"And that's been my experience. So..."
"Yeah, that's why people get mad at me. I'm like, this is what it is. It's like because he's like, 'Well, I'll promote you to primary, but you know what it is. I got I got a kid over here and I'mma be I'mma be [ __ ] down my baby mama from time to time.' You got to understand that. You can't have no part to your baby daddy. You need. And then you still got to live up to all the. You got to live up to all the rules. No social media, coffee, single friends. You still got to live that life. He can do what he want, right?"
"And and and you know and women like that's not fair. Ain't no there's no fair in this thing. You don't have to deal with men like that. You could choose to say you know what I'll get a guy that's making average income and I have all myself but that ain't what you want. So just be primary wife and uh don't ask questions you don't want to answer to. Do you want to have any more kids?"
"Yes."
"How many more?"
"Two."
"Then you better get to work on the on the sales proposition. What's the sales proposition? Date me because what?"
"Cuz he got you got a 10-year-old, right?"
"Right."
"So, a 10-year-old is his father taking care of his responsibility?"
"Yeah, he's a great great father, great provider. Still, I mean, I've been in that position, too. Still, um, y'all need to come over. I'm just, this is a good conversation, but you got to know the kind of man you're going after. Unless you're going after a man who's in his late 40s, 50s..."
"Mid-40s, early 40s..."
"Late 40s, 50s, cuz those are the guys that tend to be like, ah, fine. Yeah, we like whatever. But if you mid-40, I mean, you talk about income, a guy doesn't hit his financial stride to 45 to 55. So depending upon the kind of income you're talking about, he has to have time to get there. So you're either going to give you're either you're going to you're going to okay, ladies, understand something. To get a high value man, you're going to give up at least three things. To be a single woman with no children, you're going to give up three things. And for every ding you have on you in the sexual marketplace, you're going to give up one more thing. If you want a man who is a certain age, what you gonna give up to get him? Because that's the three things you g to give. You gota give you got to give something to get that man."
"So what I'm ultimately saying is if these men by the numbers are are more rare than women who want them..."
"Right."
"...Um I I'll give this example. It's kind of like um if you've ever bought something uh on a on the open market like watches and things like that, you can't go buy certain watches because they're just not enough of them. So, they have a whole market to where the price is increased in the gray market. High value men are on the gray market and they're increasing in value. So, um I would suggest that with a woman with a 10-year-old just come and say, 'Look here, man. I know what it is. I'mma be this Beyonce up in here. I'm with you. We got some ground rules. I cannot tolerate public embarrassment, any any any diseases or whatever. I can't Here are the things I can't tolerate other than that. But if you break this and you break like public embarrassment, that kind of stuff, bringing home babies, diseases, you break this, I'm coming after you like Dr. Dre's ex-wife was coming after him and you can't say [ __ ] And most men will be like, cuz we cuz we understand rules."
"Because if he does something like that, that's reckless. It's it's dangerous to the family. It's dangerous to the brand. And he has to pay. But most men would say that's a fair deal. Now, here's the funny thing. Here's what you ladies need to understand. The older men get or the busier we get, the less we want to exercise these options. We barely got time to to have sex with you. We want to go to bed. We want to go to sleep. A lot of times your the the options these guys are exercising, they're going over there for a mental uh release far more than sexual. She's providing a different girlfriend kind of experience and you're providing a wife experience. You want to keep the kind of man you're talking about, be his wife and his girlfriend, not his wife and the mother of his child. Be his wife and his girlfriend. And it's a lot less than some chick can come do because we as men, we don't want to get to know another chick. We don't want to get to answer her questions. You can actually win. And this is where women your age should be outpacing younger women because you should at least be wise enough to be like, 'All right, I got it, kid. I know what it is. This the deal.' You should be able to kick younger women's ass. So, I just gave you some real good game right there. If you're willing to be pragmatic, you can win. You can win because we men who are at this level are pragmatic more than anything else. They ain't trying to have sex with somebody new every day. You know how much the sex uh STDs are out there? Ain't trying to do all that. They ain't trying to do all that. Lastly, if you need to get him a sugar baby or or get him something like that, this comes in between me and you. I'm not talking the rest of y'all. A lot of women allow their husbands to sugar or seeking arrangements and they set a budget and you're like and and it's kind of like a pretty woman thing. He's like, 'All right, you go do what you do, whatever. It's it's it's above board and you know what he's in it for and she comes with a certain specific skill set and he ain't leaving you for the sugar baby. He's not leaving you for that because she can't she can't be the mother in Minnesota or whatever. It's really what happens. And a sugar baby or seeking arrangement is much better than uh a rotation or whatever cuz she just want the money."
"Yeah. She want your man. She want your spot. So if you have the kind of mindset to be like, 'Look, trust me, it's better that way.' And sugar, 3 months, 6 months, 2 months, whatever. So, uh, and me and more often than not, guys get tired of doing that. They don't really want to exercise it. They just want to more often than not, men just want to know they have options to do."
"That's it. They want to know they have that option. That's it. So..."
"All right. Good."
"Yes."
"Look at that. Bye-bye."
"I know I'm going to get hate."
"All right. Let's be real here. She said she was with her baby daddy for 10 years and then suddenly they were not compatible. Miss me with that BS. You don't spend a whole decade with someone, build a life, have a kid, and then discover you're not compatible. No. What actually happened is she got comfortable, started feeling like she could do better, and now she's rewriting history to make herself look like the victim. That's the playbook. And the fact that Kevin didn't call her out harder for that one, man, that slipped through because that right there, that's dishonesty disguised as self-awareness. At best, she's a cute side chick. Let's keep it 100. She's not wife material. She's not bringing peace, humility, or accountability. She's bringing baggage, ego, and a whole fantasy about high-value men that doesn't exist in her reality. And here's the kicker. Her experience with men is seeing high-earning dudes who have options. And she doesn't like it. She wants the rich guys' lifestyle, but without the competition that comes with being with a rich man. She wants Chad. Six-figure income, loyal, emotionally available, and faithful. But she also wants to feel desired, and have her freedom. Come on, that's not compatibility. That's delusion. Let's be honest, women like her are professional liars when it comes to self-assessment. They'll say, 'I'm independent. I make my own money. I just want love.' But what they actually mean is I want a man who makes more than me, caters to me, and tolerates my attitude because I'm a good woman. Meanwhile, she's 30 with a kid trying to act like she's still in the dating pool as if nothing has changed. No, reality has changed. Your leverage has changed. The game has changed. And let's talk about that 'I'm making money now' line. That's always the red flag because what women like this don't get is that their success doesn't make them more attractive to men. It just makes them less cooperative. Men don't care how much money you make. We care about peace, femininity, and loyalty. And she's sitting there thinking she's settling if she marries an average man. No, sweetheart. The average man would be doing you a favor. A high-value man doesn't want a woman who's already shared herself, built a kid with another man, and then thinks she's entitled to a better deal at 30. This is the same story we see over and over again. Women who played the long game wrong and now blame everyone but themselves. So, here's the truth. You can't spend a decade making bad choices, create a child, and then expect to start fresh like you're 21 again. It doesn't work like that. Life has consequences. If she really wanted to be honest, she'd admit that she fumbled a good situation chasing a fantasy and now she's paying for it in the dating market. But no, she's still in denial. And denial at 30 with a kid is a luxury you can't afford."