The Smart Guy Explains How Black Women Are Weaponized Against Black Men

Peace. Peace. Hope everybody is having a great day. Um, we about to go into a heavy, heavy conversation. It's a very, um, sensitive, this is a very sensitive, sensitive topic. Um, and we going, we going to make it happen. Peace. Peace. Okay. What's up, Essence? Sorry. How you doing?

>> Peace Queen. How you feeling?

>> I'm good. Good. I'm good.

>> Okay. So, everybody, everybody tuning in, um, we, we're going to talk about, um, accountability for, for black women. Um, and, and just a, just, just the importance of it, my perspective on it, and what I like, just my outlook on it. I think it's a topic that needs to definitely, definitely need to be addressed. Um, so I know a lot of people are going to be sensitive about this. I don't give a [laughter]. I'm sending a disclaimer. So this is, uh, my disclaimer is this is, uh, this is not, this accountability is important, right? This is not an attack on black women, but my, my personal examination of the role I feel that black women play in the breakup of our relationships and, and, and also their contribution to the destruction of the black man. Um, and I say all the time that the greatest soldier, the greatest soldier in the white man's army is the, has been, has been the black woman. And I don't think we understand as, as a community, as a culture, as a nation, the, the purpose of that, the strategy of that, the, the, the reasoning for it. Right?

>> So, I want to just go over some things first, and then I want you to kind of like ask me some questions based upon what I'm, I'm going over, right?

Okay.

>> So, first point is the greatest soldier in the white man's army has been a black woman. And it's been a strategic reason. We also have to understand mindset. How you think creates how you feel. How you feel becomes an emotion. That emotion becomes a vibration. That vibration becomes a magnet that attracts things to you. So once you can control the mindset of a person, if you can control the mindset of a woman, then you can control the mindset of a family. Uh, you can control the mindset of generations to, to come because you're, because you're, you're, you're giving birth to the child. You're giving birth to the next generation. So, it's very important to understand why the black woman's mind has been under attack by our colonizers and our oppressors for so, so, so long. It's important to understand that, right?

Um, next thing is black women, our women have been conditioned to go against the leadership and authority of the black man. And media has created kind of like that, that great lie, right? Media has, has created a lack of confidence in the leadership and authority of the black man. You look at horror movies, we're the first one to die. You look at movies about success or, you know, Wall Street or, you know, Wolf of Wall Street, we don't see any black men.

>> Um, being marketed as powerful. Superman is white. Jesus is white. Spider-Man white. The Incredible Hulk green before he white.

>> Right?

>> Yeah.

>> Thanos is, Thanos is [ __ ] purple.

>> Right?

>> Iron Man is, is [ __ ] black, right? I mean, is, is white. Wolverine, X-Man, the Terminator, any Rambo, Rocky, Adrien, every, every masculine, every powerful masculine image, um, our women has saw in media of a man hasn't been black.

>> And anytime they show, um, a black man in media, it's in a demoralizing or compromising position.

>> Right.

Um, so this is why I said our women have been conditioned to go against the leadership and authority of, of the black man. Um, and also the black man is the only man on the planet that is publicly disrespected by, by, by his woman, but by, by his woman and also the women in our nation. You know, every other race accepts, um, their man as the leader, ruler, and authority. The white man, the Chinese man, the, the Jew, right? There's no, there's no, there's no question about that man's position in his woman's life. And, um, I think understanding why that is, but also understanding the effects of slavery. Understanding the effects of slavery, but also the strategy of slavery.

>> Right?

And I think there's a, a deep-rooted anger and frustration that black women feel towards, um, black men that doesn't get addressed because we weren't able at that time to stop the babies from being pulled out of the pregnant woman's stomach. We were, we weren't able to essentially protect our families, right? And there's an anger and there's a frustration. And then when we, when we vis, when we visit the Willie Lynch letter.

>> Um, how they talked about buck breaking and raping, literally raping the black man in front of the black woman, and then, and then raping the black woman in front of the black man that they just, they just raped, and then pulling, and then pulling newborn babies out of the, out of the mother's stomach and stepping on the baby's head.

>> Cutting the man's penis off, um, hanging him with his penis in his mouth and setting him on fire.

>> And then tar, and then putting tar and feather on the strong black men. So they find, so they would find the black men that would, would fight against what was going on, but didn't have, didn't have the power, but they were trying their best to resist.

>> They would take that man, jump him, rape him,

>> pour hot tar on his body, pour feathers on his body, and then chain him, chain him to different horses and have the horses literally pull him apart limb by limb. Right?

Then they would take, they would take, they would take, um, you know, a big pot. You have a boiled food or boiled chicken or boiled collard greens. They had life-sized [ __ ] pots, and they would throw the men in the pot and boil them in front of the black woman.

>> And throw the babies in there. So there's a deep-rooted anger and frustration that our women feel towards us.

>> Right?

Um, and it's, it's very important to understand that that was the strategy. That was a mental condition. That was a, that was a purpose. And we're still affected by those things today. Our women still feel that frustration. Our women still feel that lack of protection. Right? It's very important to understand that. Also, um, when I, our women learn to switch the power, um, and use their power, not against a black man, but to speak up for him publicly and support him, then there's nothing on this planet that can tear us down and stop us.

>> Right?

You know, so a lot of, there's a lot of power that black women have, and it needs to be, it needs to be, um, it needs to be utilized. Hold on a second. Peace, God. Peace, God.

>> [laughter]

>> Peace. Yeah. So, we know, we know that we know that the way Lynch letter was designed to remove the power from the black man, um, emasculate the black man, make and hyper-emasculate the black woman and make more dependent on the plantation and the white power structure, and not dependent on her man and her power structure. And we didn't even at that time have a power structure here in America. So it's important to understand that, right? Um, that the black woman was strategically given more power than the black man to break down the family structure and absolutely. And, you know, take away further her confidence in the black man in terms of being a provider. Right.

Um, I'm just going down the line. Um, so, and then the black woman, woman is also the only woman on this planet that publicly not only disrespects her man, but it's this message of, I don't need you.

>> White women running around in in coalitions and groups saying, "We don't need the white man." You don't see the Chinese woman's, "I don't need a lot." We don't see that [ __ ] right?

We don't see that. We, we only see it in our culture. And, you know, and it's brainwashing, and it leads to, it leads to, um, it leads to celibacy, isolation, lesbianism, all things that destroy, um, a nation when you're trying to build a nation,

>> a family.

>> Right?

>> It's very important to understand that this is, this has been a strategy, right?

Um, so I'm just going down the line. The next thing I want to talk about is, um, I'm just basically giving you fuel for questions that you that we can kind of can ask. Right.

>> I'm, I'm ready to pop in whenever you ready to have me. So, I'm just letting you.

The next thing is the reason why, the reason why black women have been conditioned or even feel like, I don't need a man, is because the white woman has been their indirect mentor and inspiration forever. Because the, the white woman has been the only woman that black women has seen in media, magazines, movies, etc., etc., right?

>> And black women have been pulled into the feminist movement of white women who were oppressed here in America.

>> Not realizing that black men, not only never oppressed their women in America, we never had the power, institutions, or power structure to even be in a position to oppress our women. So why would you have to feel like you need to be free from me? Or I've never been empowered here in America to, to even to even oppress black women or women overall.

>> Right?

>> It's another point that I want to talk about, which is very important. The white woman has been the mentor for black women. The white woman has been the mentor, has been the standard for beauty, blue eyes, contacts, etc., etc. And black women has been conditioned through media, publications, magazines to look at white women as the standard. It's not their fault, but it's just a reality.

>> Black men has, we have never oppressed our women in America. Now, I said we never had the power to, but even when black men had more power, we talking about back in the day with factory jobs, what we talk about the Harlem Renaissance.

>> Um, when black men had more power and they had factory jobs, we were the head of our household. We actually took care of our women. We actually protected our women. Men from the 60s and 70s, you know, when we own our own businesses, black communities and brownstones and black churches and stuff like that. When we talked about Black Wall Street, black men were taking care of their women because it's in the black man's nature to take care of his woman and also to love his woman.

>> Right?

So we have to get our women to understand to pull themselves out of the white woman's issue with their men and pull themselves and pull themselves into the issues that black men have in America and stand behind their men. Stand, stand with their men and let's build a nation that we know we can actually build, right?

Um, and also understanding what submission means. A lot of black women don't understand what the word submission means because they connected back to slavery and they've been conditioned to do so. Okay, I'm not talking about you're going to have a duct tape on your mouth and you're going to have on your neck and you're crawling and, and when I say jump, you say how high. I'm not talking about that. That's not submission. That's, that's abuse. That's demoralizing. What I mean is, um, cooperation.

>> And being, and being receptive and being in agreement with the direction and destination that as a man, um, I'm pointing out for us to go in.

>> Mhm.

>> And using your power, using your strength, using your patience, using your durability as a black woman to actually follow the lead and go in a direction that I subscribe and pro, and, uh, um, suggest that we go in. That's, that's submission, being, being in agreement, right?

>> Yeah.

Um, and our women need to redefine what the word submission means and actually create, and actually create, um, a new standard for, for submission. Um, that's my art. So that was that. Um, and then also, I got two more points and I, you know, I want you to kind of like, you know, feed off that and kind of like ask some questions to give some input. Right.

Mhm.

>> The system has been designed to remove black men strategically out of the house and out of the family.

>> Right?

>> When we looked at, when we look at like, um, it was something I looked up, um, when we talk about like, like, like section eight and welfare and certain things, they were saying that you had to get rid of the man.

>> Right?

>> Right.

>> They, they forced black women to remove the black man out of the house. Right. But, but when it came to the white farm wife, the government, when the white farm wife was trying to get a subsidy for the farm, they didn't tell her to get rid of her man or her husband. They kept that family together and gave him subsidy for their farms.

>> Right.

>> And, and, and when it came to us in terms of getting welfare, they, they, they, they made it, they made it an obligation for that man to not be there.

>> Right.

>> Right.

>> So that's just something to point out. The next thing I want to talk about is a lot of black women don't, they've been, they've been conditioned to highlight finances and money. And if a man doesn't give you money, then he's not a man. If a man doesn't provide and pay your bills and give you money, then he's not a man. Well, you have to understand that there's a difference, um, in, in terms of provisions. There's more than one provision, right? Finances is also a part of it. But let's talk about the different types of provisions that a man, and only a black man, can provide to a black woman. The first thing is direction, a destination for the future. Also, consumption control.

>> Right?

This is what a man is going to help the, the black woman. So for all the women that think you, you don't need us, no, you need them. You need a man, and we need each other. Right? So a man, and I'm talking about provisions. A man provides direction, a destination for the future, and consumption control. Black women spend over $20 billion a year on cosmetics and stupid [ __ ].

>> Right?

A man is going to help with consumption control, also give direction, also fulfillment. Taking that burden away created by the role reversals, a woman's, uh, natural state brings her fulfillment. When you're living in your femininity, when you're allowed to be a woman, you will be, you will, you will be fulfilled. Right? This is what a man is going to provide. A black man. Next thing is discipline for the children. Creating a code of behavior and virtual, and virtuous character traits such as empathy, patience, generosity, ambition, dedication, and consistency. Women, women think that providing for a child is raising a child. Providing for a child is just maintaining a child. Send me another request. We not stopping. Peace. Peace. Peace. Peace. Peace. Yeah. I ain't going to stop.

>> Peace. Yeah. Don't worry. Don't worry. I got y'all. I got us.

>> Yeah. You know how they go.

>> Yeah. Yeah.

>> Right. So, so, so, so this is why, and everybody that's watching, this is why I talked about us developing our own apps and having our own independent, um, media monopoly. But that's another, that's going to be my next, my next live. But, you know, because a lot of times when I'm talking about, when I'm talking about these topics and I'm going in, I'm going in, I'm going in, there's always some type of a BS that comes. But the point I wanted to make was.

Let me go back. Let me go back. Let me do a quick recap for y'all. If y'all just tuning in, we talking about accountability for the black woman, not attacking the black woman. I love the black woman. I love the black woman. Right. Right. Um, however, we have to understand that black women have been used as a pawn to destroy our nation, destroy our communities, and destroy their man. So, mindset is important. How you, and I'm talking fast because I want to get a recap so everybody that's just tuning in, you can understand what we talking about. And I'm going to go right back to the point before the live did some [ __ ]. How you think creates how you feel. How you feel becomes an emotion. That emotion becomes a vibration. That vibration becomes a magnet that attracts things to you. Black women's minds are attacked by white supremacist groups, oppressors, and they use that conditioning to destroy us. Our women have been conditioned to go against the leadership and authority of the black man. And media has created [clears throat] a great lie. So we talked about every time you turn on the TV, when you see a black man on a movie or whatever, he, he's weak, right? Superman is white, Jesus is white, the X-Man is white, the everybody in Avengers is white except for one person, right? Um, anytime it's a horror movie or action movie, we die first. Or if there's like an action espionage movie, we're the cowards. We're afraid. So media reinforces, um, the lack of respect our women have for us.

Also, I talked about the greatest soldier in a white man's army being a black woman.

Um, and, you know, that has been a strategy utilized since the days of slavery. And they actually made a system for that. And they, and, and they had a, not only the Willie Lynch letter, but the Willie Lynch letter was a page out of a whole book they had on how to make a slave.

Very important for us to understand.

Next thing I said, the black man is the only man on the planet that is publicly disrespected by his woman.

>> Right? Publicly disrespected. Yo, you can't do this. You can't do that. You not this, you, you're not that. I don't need you. I don't need you. I don't need you. I don't want you. I don't want you. And the reason why black, so the white man doesn't have that issue, right? Every other race accepts their men as the leader, ruler, and authority. And the reason why black women publicly disrespect black men is because they have been pulled into a liberation movement that had nothing to do with them.

>> Right?

The white woman has been the, the, the indirect mentor for black women forever because that's the only woman that the black woman has saw in media, magazines, movies, etc., etc. And white men have oppressed white women. They have done horrendous, sinister things to their women. So the feminist movement came because white women were tired of being oppressed by white men. And black women got pulled into, but that's the white woman's fight is not your fight. Stop thinking black men have never, black men, we have never had power in America. Black men, we have never oppressed our women in America. And when black men did have any type of a power structure on a small level, they took care of their women. We had houses, we had brownstones, we had businesses, we had communities. We took care of our women.

So that's very important to understand that. The next thing I, next thing I touched on, um, was understanding that, understanding that if the black woman uses her power, if the black woman uses her power not against the black man, but to uplift that man and publicly, we need more black women to publicly talk positive about black men. Then no other race institution will be able to tear us down once our women start using their energy and their power to talk positive about black men. Point blank. Period.

Um, yeah. So that, that was that. And then also, um, now I'm getting to the point where I was talking about before the live got cut off. I was talking about black women have been conditioned, the money game. If you don't pay me, if you don't pay my bills, if you don't pay, if you don't buy me a car, you don't buy me bags, etc., etc., then you ain't [ __ ]. You ain't a man. And a man is supposed to provide, but there's also other provisions, not just providing. And I'm going to address all those provisions. One of, one of the most important provisions a black man provides to a black woman is, um, direction, a destination for the future, and consumption control. Right? Black women spend over $20 billion a year on nothing. Hair, cosmetics, beauty, bags, whatever. A black man is going to show you how to control your consumption. He's going to give you direction. Next thing is fulfillment. When a black woman, when the, when the black man is going to take away the burden created by the role reversals, allowing you to be in your natural state as a woman. And when a woman, when a black woman is in her natural state, she will have the most fulfillment. There's power and peace in femininity. The next provision I talked about was, um, discipline for the children. A black man creates, provides discipline for the children, creating a code of behavior and, and, and, and virtue, and virtuous character traits like empathy, patience, generosity, ambition, dedication, and consistency. And a lot of black women don't understand the difference between maintaining a child and raising a child. Just because, just because you buy clothes for the kid, etc., etc., you're not raising that child. You're just maintaining that child. And when that little boy grows up to be a man, he has female traits. He's emasculated. He's [ __ ]. He's indecisive. He doesn't know how to make decisions. He doesn't trust himself. 90, 98% of black, 98% of black men who are incarcerated today were raised in single-parent homes.

These are real numbers. And then when, and then when that man is not in the house, the daughter doesn't know how to be a woman. She doesn't know how to cook for a man. She doesn't know how to be loving with her man. She doesn't know how to interact with a man on an emotional, um, interpersonal level, right? You have to have a man and a woman in the household. We cannot do it without each other. Okay? It's what they call a, a, a parental coalition of masculine and feminine energy. And the masculine energy has to come from a man. And the feminine energy has to come from a woman. That's that combination. And then that man, that man being in the house, and you cannot raise a child. You can maintain a child. Yes. But you cannot raise a child without.

>> Without me.

>> Point [ __ ] blank period. And then now when you're raising a child, those child, that child will have a code of behavior, will display virtuous character traits such as empathy, patience, generosity, ambition, dedication, consistency, durability, etc., etc. The next provision is, um, gratification. The man provides a pleasing, all mental needs. Um, uh, uh, all, all mental needs and desires, physical and mental. Pleasing all your needs, physical and mental. This is another provision. This is what men provide. The next thing we provide is also protection. Protection. Protection.

>> Right?

And now let's talk about finances. We talk about finances, but we're talking about, um, creating generational wealth, creating, uh, you know, building community, creating job opportunities, you know. So, I'm not, I'm not just paying, I'm not just paying your bills.

>> Right?

I'm having a real financial plan for the, for the, for the, for the, for the future of our family's finances.

>> Right?

Um, and I think it's very important for our women to, to, to understand these things and, um, basically wake the [ __ ] up.

>> Yeah.

>> I wanted to, I wanted to get to some questions or whatever you had.

>> Okay. Cuz some of the people in the, um, comments, especially the women, are, you know, they're feeling a ways. And so I just wanted to express, like, again, like you said, you love black women. I'm a black woman. I love my sisters.

>> But let me say this. This has, this is unapologetic. We talk about accountability. Black women never want to take accountability. And a lot of times, there, listen,

>> the system has always highlighted the insufficiencies and inadequacies of black men.

>> But we never take that telescope and point it on black women.

>> And the second you point the telescope on black women,

>> then it's like, "Oh my god, you hate, you hate women. You got mommy issues. You're, you're gay. You only date white women," etc., etc.

>> No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

>> And when black women

>> begin to understand the role that they play,

>> we can change our culture overnight. We can build the nation overnight. This conversation is not for black women who do not want to take, who do not want to take accountability. This conversation is if, if, if, if you think you, if you're okay with being celibate, if you're okay with being isolated, if you're okay with being a carpet muncher, being a lesbian, this conversation is not for you. You can get the [ __ ] out of here. You can block me on Instagram. You don't have to follow me. This message is not for you. This message is for the black women who are tired and sick and tired of us being at war with each other.

>> We have to understand both parties, but we're talking about women right now. And if you're not ready to have your, your big girl conversation, then you can respectfully get the [ __ ] out of here. But go ahead.

>> I think that a lot of black women don't understand how we have been pimped against our men. And so I try to go back and, and explain to women, my sisters, like, you have to understand, they take how we feel and our disappointment. They, they blast the disappointments, uh, that we have towards our black men. They blast it on media. They blast it, blast it, blast it. Again, like you said, they're always showing, uh, the white man in such a powerful roles and.

>> But we're not, listen. So, I want you to ask questions based upon what, what everything I was talking about. I'm not here. I'm not, see, I'm not, I'm not even slightly being lenient or even trying to advocate for someone's uncomfortability. Okay.

>> Well, it's not about the uncomfortability, but I do think that when you create a space for women to be like, "Okay, now I understand," like, um, it's, it's easier for a lot of women to take in when it's true. It's true. It is easier. It is easier.

>> I, I, I don't want it to be easy because it's not easy, right?

>> But do you want to be efficient?

>> It's definitely, it is efficient.

>> Okay. So,

>> it is efficient because, listen, because, hold on, hold on, the truth is the truth.

>> So, now.

>> When we talked about, like, the thing I, the thing I said, which was a great point, right? Black women have been following white women in America forever. And that white woman has been placed as the standard strategically and subconsciously in magazines, media, movies. So you got a bunch of black women trying to be white women, not even realizing that.

So this has to be addressed. This is a, this is a problem. When, when black women and black men were in slavery, we're still in slavery, but when we're like on a plantation, they use these strategies on purpose. They, you, they use the black woman. They use the black woman. Now, if the black woman doesn't realize that she has been used and is still being used,

>> I don't even want to have a conversation with you. You can go over there and stay over there.

>> Well, it sounds to me like you just want to preach to the choir. My, for me and my message, I want everybody to get the message because there are a lot of women that are, that are struggling, frustrated, but feminists and don't know why they're, they're, um, not fulfilled in life. It's true. It's true. I've had a lot of women come over to this side after realizing, "Oh, it is me."

>> But let's focus on what I talked about. That's why I addressed it. The reason why those women go through that is because they have been, and I addressed it, right? This is not a conversation for emotions. This is, this is a conversation for reality.

>> Okay?

Now, black women have been pulled into the white woman's power struggle with white men. Okay.

>> Mhm. [clears throat]

>> So, and everybody in the comments that's talking about, "Let her speak." This is not a, this is not a me over talking her or her over talking me. This is actually an interview opportunity that we're both having. And I told her I wanted to be very, very unapologetic in my, in my, in my points and I want to stay on topic. So this is why I'm interjecting if she says certain things. But, um, black women have been used against black men. And the problem I see is our women do not want to take accountability for being used. Mhm.

So if you don't want, if you don't, if you don't realize that the white man is the gun, but you're the bullet.

>> The bullet.

>> If you take away the bullet, what happens to the gun?

>> It's useless.

>> Right. So I'm sitting here getting shot.

>> The black man is getting shot.

>> And when the black man gets shot and he's in the hospital and they're removing the bullets, guess what I see? The bullets are being removed. Black women.

>> Right?

We know, we know, we know the gun is the white man. You see, when, when black women, when black women stop allowing themselves to be weaponized against black men,

>> there's a, there's a, there's a shift. You see?

And when black women understand that taking accountability for being used doesn't mean that you wanted to be used,

>> doesn't mean that you're sinister. It just means that you were being used to destroy your man. Because the destruction of your man leads to the destruction of a nation, and then that nation cannot compete with the current nation that we allowed to be in existence. Okay.

So, what would you say to the women that don't necessarily recognize that they're being used, but don't want to be used, but they don't recognize? Do you have nothing for them?

>> I, I just gave it. So, again, this is why you can't advocate. Everybody's not going to get on Noah's ark.

Everybody's not going to get on Noah's ark. You have black women who have become obsessed with a mindset that keeps them away from black men. That's why I said that mindset leads to what? Lesbianism.

>> Isolation, celibacy.

>> Right?

So, you know, you can't, first of all, you have to take accountability. If you, if you don't accept that you're being used and you, and you don't, you refuse to look at the facts, I'm not here to convert you.

I'm not here to change. I'm here, I'm here to speak to the black women who are ready to change. I'm here to speak to the black women who are receptive.

I'm not, I'm not, I'm not advocating. And a lot of times this is what black men do, and, and they suffer, and they, and they get broken down. You know, it was a saying, you know, you can't turn a hole into a.

>> Housewife. [clears throat]

>> Right?

You can't turn. Listen, you can't turn. Listen, you can't turn a bullet. You can't turn a bullet into a band-aid if the bullet, if the bullet wants to insist on being a bullet.

>> Right. Right. I feel that. Um, for me, I think you're ready for the people that's ready to go. And I think I'm still, I'm, I'm ready to go, but I'm still like, "Hey, you guys, come on." So I think that's.

>> You can't bring. No, you can't do that. And again, if you're, if you're ready, right, if you're ready, then, then trust what I'm telling you because you got a lot of black women who are still traitors.

There was a movie called Rosewood, right?

>> And you had this one black woman who was, who was sleeping.

>> With the, with, with, with [laughter] one of his plantation owners. Right.

>> Right.

>> And when, and when the slaves were putting together a revolution,

>> she told, she, she told the secret.

>> Yeah. Yeah. You understand?

No, we got, listen. Uh-uh. That's why that, that's why you got to be careful because we have a lot of, we have a lot of infiltrators and we have a lot of traitors in our culture, and you have a lot of black women who, who, who've been conditioned so much that the white man is God.

>> That she will kill you, kill herself, kill the black man in order to protect that reality that is not even a real reality. But she's been conditioned to accept as a reality that turned into a societal acceptance.

So we have to, you have to understand that you're being used, and if you don't understand that, then there's nothing. I'm staying away from you because if you don't realize that you're hurting yourself, your man, your culture, your family, your community, your nation.

I have to stay away from you because you're dangerous.

>> Yeah.

Martin Luther King have another speech. Why?

>> Cuz dead.

>> Okay, girl. Malcolm X can't have another speech. Why?

>> Dead.

>> Callum Muhammad can't give us another speech. Why?

>> Cuz he's dead.

So I'm going to allow myself to be removed from this realm because I'm trying to save somebody who is not wanting to be saved, and then only to turn around and say, "Oh [ __ ], my bad. You were right." No, [ __ ] you.

>> You stay on with him.

>> I feel that. So if there was like, okay, let's say you could get all black women in America, three K's, you could get us all one thing, and we all have to do this one thing, what's that one thing you would do to change the dynamics between black men and black women? I love that comment. Everybody can't go. This ain't for every black woman. Every black woman ain't a sister. Every black woman not not down.

>> Okay. So let me tell you something. Let me, let me just let me just address you real quick. You have to stop advocating for women. This is not a man versus woman conversation. You cannot get all black women on all accord. It just won't happen.

>> You see, you can't get all black men on, on, on one accord. This is for the people. Like, I'm never going to, I'm never going to marry an Asian woman. I'm never going to marry a Russian or white woman. I'm not doing it. I'm never going to be a homosexual. Right. I'm never going to go against my people. I'm never going to stop banging for black people. I'm never going to be a bullet for the oppressor's weapons. I'm not going to do it. I don't believe that the white man is powerful. Mhm.

>> I'm a God.

>> I have to understand the effects of slavery, and I'm, and it's open in my eyes like, wow, the black woman has been frustrated. She's angry because she didn't feel protected.

But now that blind anger and frustration, it blinded her. So now she doesn't have empathy.

>> Because the black man was afraid. He didn't want you to get raped. He didn't want to get raped.

He didn't want the, his baby to be pulled out your stomach and stepped on. He wanted, he, he tried his best, but he was facing an insurmountable mountain.

You understand?

So even as I'm telling you this conversation, I felt like I, oh my God, I wanted to, I almost cried, and I'm so glad that God works in mysterious ways. I'm so glad that the, the first live ended because I was about to cry. I started getting emotional. I started, I started thinking like, damn, you know, black women, we see, and, and, and, and, and this is the accountability on both sides, right? Because we didn't protect the woman at that time, right? And it's almost like it was almost impossible. We got pulled from Africa. We, we, on a foreign land.

What, what am I going to do? It's like, you take me out of Harlem and you bring me to, you bring me to Brownsville, Brooklyn. I don't know nobody. And now you want me to fight the whole projects by myself.

>> Right?

You know, so the black man, he, like, he can, he understands that you're frustrated. He understands that you're angry, but he's like, damn, babe, you know, I had to fight 300,000 people. 3,000 versus one.

>> Right?

So, we, that's why I said, understand. That's why, that's why we have to have an understanding of the strategy and effects of slavery, and black women need to be more empathetic to black men.

Okay. So my thing is, when you're asking black women to be more empathetic, um, you want us to be empathetic towards the struggle that black men have as well. Correct.

>> See, the purpose of this live.

Was black women's accountability. Mhm.

And what I told you was, if you wasn't ready to have the conversation before here, don't have the conversation because I'm not, I'm not advocating at all for any women, any black women who are uncomfortable with this conversation, who are uncomfortable with accountability.

This conversation, this topic is about black women's accountability.

Okay?

And I'm staying on topic. So, so, when you talk about, when, when we talk about black women's accountability, it always goes somewhere else.

It always goes off of the last thing you said.

>> Go ahead.

>> Are you irritated? I'm not. I'm, I'm literally, I agree with you on a lot of the points that you're making. I think.

>> I'm not irritated at all.

>> Maybe.

>> You said what?

>> I'm not irritated.

>> I'm just sure. Um, cuz I've been trying to ask you, you know, certain questions, but, you know, whatever. So my thing is about black women and accountability. I, I call black women to be accountable all the time. I, I do that for both sides. I wouldn't be having this conversation with you if I didn't. So I do believe that black women need to be way more accountable. We are the first teachers of the children. That's, that's a done deal. That's understood. There's no tension there. Um, I was just responding to the last thing you said when you're saying that black women need to be more empathetic. I, I agree. I agree with you. Um, but my thing is, well, how do we, what do we tell black women? How do we get black women to understand the black man's plight and to be understanding? If we feel like, "Oh, well, I'm, we're doing our own thing. Y'all are doing that, and we're not coming together." Like, if we feel like we're separated, we're not together. How do.

>> See, listen. You're not really ready to have this conversation. And I'm going to just be direct because I answered that question. Empathy. You have to have empathy. When you have empathy, what happens is black women are desensitized.

Y'all don't give a [ __ ].

>> Okay?

>> Right? So when you have empathy, when you have empathy, then you understand.

Period. You have to have empathy, right? So this is why the first thing I said was the greatest soldier in the black, in a white, the greatest soldier in a white man's army has been a black woman.

So now it's not about black man versus black woman.

>> The white man wanted about that.

>> So I understand that's what he did.

>> He taught you to go against me. He taught you not to listen to me. He taught you that. You got that from him.

And the white woman, you got that from the white woman, but from different perspectives. The white man taught you to go against me because if you go against me, I can't go against him. The white woman taught you to go against me because you thought she meant me when she was just going against the white man. And because you've been inspired by her, you're following her indirectly. And then they got clever. The white woman got clever and pulled black women into their fight for liberation.

And then that liberation spilled off. That fight for liberation, black men, we became collateral damage.

That's real. Um, I know for me, I, I'm very concerned about the black family. And I, and I wonder how can black women, um, be better mothers and better wives to our men and our children, um, especially when there is such a disconnect, um, especially when it comes to the children. Like, if a sing, what would you, what would you tell a single mother who's not.

>> That's the point because I already addressed that. Black women need to understand the difference between maintaining a child and raising a child. Okay.

You've been conditioned, you've been conditioned to, to believe that maintaining a child is raising a child.

And then when that child becomes an adult,

>> that child [ __ ] up.

Okay. So, the situation is a lot of our.

>> So, let me answer the question because, like, a lot of times when you, when we have this conversation, it's natural to get defensive. It's not an attack on black women. This is just, like I said, I'm holding them accountable, and, and I had to understand why this, that, listen, black men play a part, black women play a part. We're talking about the black woman part. And anytime you talk about the black woman part, everybody wants it's, it's a problem. If I came on here and start talking about black men, black men, everybody would be.

I'm not doing that right now.

Okay? In order for black women, you have to understand what's a woman's role. You don't even know your role as a woman. That's one. A black woman's role is what? You're the nurturer. You're your wisdom. A black woman's role is wisdom and balance.

You're, you're, you're the nutritionist. You feed, you feed the next generation that's going to build our nation. You're the greatest educator.

>> Right? The black woman is, you're the smartest organism on the planet.

But now because you hear that, you're like, "I don't need you." So now your, your gifts become your curse, right? Your personal gifts become your curse because you're so busy being a bullet for the white man as opposed to being a bullet for the black man. And you don't understand that you're maintaining a child and you're just, you're not raising a child because you can't raise a child.

Okay?

You have to have, like I told you, it's what they say.

It's a parental coalition of masculine and feminine energy. But the masculine energy has to come from a black man, and the feminine energy has to come from a black woman.

There will be no studs, and there will be no bettas. There will be no studs, and there will be no baiters. Because what we try to do is we try to make a, um, a false parental coalition where you get the masculine energy, but it's coming from a stud, which is a woman, and you get the feminine energy, but it's coming from a man who's a beta. No, no, no, no. It has to be. The masculine energy has to come from a black man, and the feminine energy has to come from a black woman. So then that coalition is how you actually raise a child.

And then when we talk about the black woman, we talk about the black woman.

Yeah, it's all good.

Keep going.

So when we talk about the, when we talk about the black woman being a better wife or being a better mother, she needs to understand what being a wife is. She understands what being submission, being, what is submission, and what is the provision that a man provides other than finances. So now, when that man gives direction, he's giving a destination for the future. He's also helping to control, um, her consumption. When that man, and that fulfillment comes when she can actually be a woman, he's taking away the burden of the role reversals, right? And it's in that woman's nature to, to, to, to, um, you know, be naturally who she is. And there's power, there's power in femininity. We talked about that, right? She understands that that man is going to provide discipline for the children, creating a code of behavior and virtuous character traits. So when that man, when that, when, when that man is saying, "Yo, when you got the teenage boy that's going crazy," and that, and that man checks him, she's not, "Oh my God, what are you doing? Why are you being so hard on him?"

Right? She's understanding. She's allowing the discipline to take place. Um, um, also that man provides gratification, right? So in order for our women to be better wives, they have to understand what being a wife to a man is. And you have to respect the authority. You have to respect, you have to exalt your man.

You've been conditioned to exalt another man, which is, [clears throat] white man. You've been conditioned to exalt everybody else but me. So if you don't value me, if you don't value me, if you don't feel you need me, if you don't respect me, how can you be a wife to me?

Right?

If you're, if you're going into this already feeling like we're equal, if you're going into this already feeling like you don't need me, if you're already going, going into this feeling like, "Yeah, you doing that, but I got my own. I don't need you," [ __ ] If you're going into that, then you'll never be a good wife. And, and if you don't understand that you're just maintaining your child, if you don't understand that you're just maintaining your children and you're not raising your children, then you're never going to be a good mother.

Uh, you made some really good points. Um, I think that black women do have an issue with respecting black men. Um, like you said, for all those, for so many reasons, we've been programmed to disrespect our men. Uh, we've been programmed to see him as inferior. And

Let's say it right there. If you've been programmed to disrespect your man, if you've been programmed to see your man as inferior, you're being programmed and you're reacting due to that programming. The reaction, when you're, the reaction of a black woman being programmed like that is why I'm saying she's the problem.

Okay? And not saying that she's the creator of the problem. She is the problem. So there's a sickness that needs to be removed out of that black woman. And then once that sickness is removed, then she, then she, and then she is no longer the problem. She's just the bullet. She's not the gun.

So once she understands that, she's just the bullet. She's not the gun. She's not even the marksman. She's not the shooter. She's not the gun. She's not even building the gun. She's just the bullet. And

When she says, "You know what? Whoa, wait a minute. You got mad." And she talks to all the other bullets in the clip and she said, "Hey, come on, y'all. Let's get the [ __ ] out of here." And they all jump out the white man's clip.

When the white man goes to aim it at me, it's like click, click, click, click, click. Ain't no more bullets in that [ __ ] gun.

And the only bullet strong enough to pierce the armor of the black man is the [ __ ] black woman.

That's why we have to address black women.

Yeah.

The only bullet, the only bullet strong enough to pierce the armor of the black man is the black woman. This is why the white man made you a bullet.

That's real.

Um,

Take a realize what's going on. Queen, realize, man. I don't know what happened. I don't know if she left or I don't know if she left. I think she left. I don't know. Hey, man. I don't know if she got off. Yeah, she did. Sorry for you. Yeah, sometime. Yeah. So, yeah.

My phone was acting funny. Sorry.

It's all good.

But yeah, you know, like I said, I agree with a lot of your points. I agree with, I say all your points. There's nothing I haven't agreed with you on, um, when it comes to black women accountability. Um, I would just look at, well, what, what is it that black women, I guess, should work on first? Because that's what I'm trying to get, like, some direction, you know?

Okay. So now, so now, so now let's talk about it. You have to understand you're a bullet. Can you repeat this?

Yeah. I am.

I am.

A bullet for the black man.

Well, listen. I got you.

We, we, I don't want to speak. I am not.

I got you. I got you. But put it in perspective, right? I want you to say this. I am.

I am.

A bullet.

The only bullet.

The only bullet.

Powerful enough.

Powerful enough.

To pierce the armor of my man.

To pierce the armor of my man. I am.

I am.

A bullet.

A bullet.

For the black man.

For the black man. All right. Here we go. You feel me? You feel me? Because now, because now, because now when we talk about accountability, accountability is not just taking account for your weaknesses. Accountability is, is also taking accountability for your power.

Mhm.

You see? Now, when [clears throat] you, now when you understand your power, now when you understand like, "Wait a minute, I am a bullet."

Wait a minute. Oh. Oh, you using me.

Oh, you using me. Oh, you using me.

Oh, nah, you ain't using me no more, white man.

I'm getting out your gun.

I know why you put me there.

You ever seen Super, you ever seen Superman? Superman. Only thing that can hurt Superman is, is, is kryptonite or other Kryptonians.

You understand?

So, so, so remember when Superman got into that fight, Lex Luthor couldn't beat him. Lex Luthor had to get people from, from Krypton. And they was, and it was five of them. They was beating Superman's ass.

Right?

Yeah.

So, the black woman got that. You, you came from me. So, you got a lot of, you, you powerful. You power like the black woman is so powerful.

And it's like, once she starts to understand that power, oh man, forget about it.

You, but again, you're just a bullet. So the first step is recogni, black women recognizing that we're the bullet, recognizing where the ammo, and deciding, you know, are we going to stay within the white man's clip or the, or we going to hop with the black man, okay?

But, but listen, most black women are going to stay in a white man's clip because you've been conditioned that this is the only clip powerful enough to be projected out of.

You see? So now, this is why, this is why the first thing I talked about is mindset. This is why it's important for us to take accountability. This is why it's important for us to have aggressive, abrasive, unapologetic conversations about the [ __ ] bullet.

Black woman, the black woman is dangerous.

She dangerous. So we like, "Look, look, queen, look what you doing."

For the other black women who understand, they have to tell the, the other black women like, "No, girl, that ain't it. Stop co-signing the [ __ ]."

Okay.

Okay. And then the next step, once you realize it.

Okay. So now, so, so now once you realize it, you're on the vibration. Remember, remember, remember, um, remember, um, listen, remember, right? Um, yeah. Yeah. You talking crazy. I'm just going to block you. It's okay. Like, I'm just going to block y'all. You know what I'm saying? You're ready to have a conversation. Once you, once you realize and you change your mindset, what's the mantra?

How you think creates how you feel. How you feel becomes an emotion. That emotion becomes a vibration. That vibration becomes a magnet that attracts things to you.

Once you change that mindset, the men that come into your life are going to be different.

The men that come into your life is going to be different.

Now you're ready to be a wife. Now you're ready to be a bullet in a black man's gun.

See?

Okay. Okay. Are you still, are you reading comments? Oh yeah, I always get that. Yeah, because because engagement is important. That's why my lives are always so, I engage. I don't, I don't avoid the comments. I, you know, it's important for people to understand. A lot of times when people, a lot of times when people leave comments or negative comments, they, they're hurt. They're in their feelings or whatever. I don't knock it, but my purpose is to get all the, all the bullets I can and fill up these guns.

Okay?

[laughter]

You know what I mean?

Okay. So, what's what's another topic you want to touch on?

Another topic.

I, I would say, well, for the, see, my thing is solution-oriented. I'm very solution-oriented. There's a lot of single black women that are raising a lot of children. What, what's the message to the

No, no, you see, you're saying it wrong. There's not a lot.

Oh, you don't like me saying raising. Okay. There's a lot of single. Because listen, [laughter] it's important to understand, right? There's a lot of single black women maintaining children, not raising. Yeah, I'm listening.

Okay. So, for the women that are maintaining children, the women that are single, um, what, what is something that they could be doing if they don't have a man in the house? What would your message be to that woman until she get a man in the house?

You have to change the mindset that's keeping a man out of the house. You have to change the vibration. You have to change the vibration that's keeping the man out of the house. If you think you're raising a child, but you're really maintaining a child, then you're gonna keep the energy out of your, your, your house that's gonna actually contribute to you raising the child.

Right?

Well, okay.

Listen, this is, see, I'm, you ask, I'm answering.

If you think you're raising a child, you're not. You're maintaining a child. And when you have that mindset, you're keeping the energy out of your life that will actually contribute to you raising a child. When you don't understand how to be submissive, when you, when you have this mindset or outlook on men, on black men in particular, you're, you're, you're operating on a frequency. You're operating on a vibration that will keep you away from what you're, what you feel you need or want.

The universe does not differentiate between color, age, creed, or whatever. What you put out is what will come back. This is why they attack our minds.

Mhm.

This is why the first form of slavery was mental.

How you think creates how you feel. Well, how you thinking about yourself? Let's start there.

Mhm.

But you can't have a powerful, you can't have a powerful self-image of yourself because the self-image that you have for yourself has been given to you by your oppressor. And now, your image of yourself is the point of reference is the white woman, right? So, you have to have an authentic image of yourself. Who are you? You are the original woman. Who are you? Are you a baddie? Are you a [ __ ]? You're a goddess, righteous?

So, if you don't understand that you're a goddess, but I'm a god, and you came from me, but you think Jesus, you think Jesus, you keep saying Jesus, but when you say Jesus, what image do you have in your mind of Jesus? A white man. You see?

When you think of God, you think of the white man as your God. So who, who going to be in your life? A white man or nobody.

So you have to change that. Our women have to understand that you are goddesses.

So now, when you have that authentic self-image of yourself, now you can attract things conducive to self, righteous, right? So that's that first step, having that authentic positive self-image of self. And then what is the other spectrum? Me. And who am I? I'm a god. So now, when you respect, when you respect my authority, when you respect and receive my leadership, and you're submissive, and you're cooperative, and you're receptive, and you're not trying to argue, you're not trying to tear me down, you're not trying to have the last word, you're not trying to say, "Yeah, yeah, yeah." You're just like, "Let's do this, baby."

Then, then the change is going to take place. How you think creates how you feel. How you feel becomes an emotion. And emotion becomes a vibration. That vibration becomes a magnet that attracts things to you. We have been conditioned to think that creates emotions that don't benefit us. So, we're living on a vibration that attracts things to us that destroys us, that keeps our women alone, that keeps, that, that creates celibacy, isolation, lesbianism.

Yeah.

Hyper, hyper. You got women who think they're alpha. You can't be an alpha. Doesn't even exist. You got, you think you're, you think you're No. Know this power and femininity. Goddess, accept who you are and love who you are. And when you accept who you are and you love who you are, and it's real, then who or what loves you is going to come and love you.

Mhm.

Not the white man, not the Chinese man. [laughter] Julio.

Not Julio. [laughter]

I love you.

Right.

And then when you break, and then when you break, and then when I, and then now when you say, you say, "I am, I am, I am a bullet," but I, but now I am a bullet for the black man.

Mhm.

And now you start screaming for the raptors. You scream out the window, "Black man is God."

Black man is what?

God.

We know that this way.

I'm just saying. You know how that make, you know how they make a [ __ ] feel. [laughter]

You know what I'm saying? He like, "Yo, nah, you a god." [laughter]

Talk about you talking about me.

What?

Right. So now what you're doing is you're using your power to uplift your man, not demoralize your man.

You're using, you're using your power to empower your man, not disempower your man.

Right?

You're using your power to uplift your God.

And then you know what happens? I uplift you.

I protect, love you. You see? I aim, I aim the gun at them, not us. Kind. Go ahead. Go ahead.

So, um, I know one thing when I get really frustrated or I've been extremely heartbroken, a black man really broke my heart or whatever. I had a huge argument. A lot of times I think women will take that, those frustrations, then go online and be like, "Niggas ain't shit." One, you just said something that reminded me of the things that I do when I'm really upset with black men. When I feel really hurt by a black man, I go online and I show love, you know? I do. Black men are amazing. Black men are this. You guys are the best. You nobody can touch you. You know, especially when you know who you are. I'll say things like that and I receive the love back. So, you know, that's that one thing I try to tell a lot of people, not even just women, just people in general. When you're upset with the opposite sex, don't go on here bashing them. Go put out the energy that you want from them. You want love from the black man, right? So, you put love out there. So, you.

A lot of that anger comes from ego. You're mad because you're on a vibration that, see, look, narcissistic black women are in a [ __ ] coma. They're in a dream.

And relationships is the pitch.

So they get woken up and then they mad, like, "No, that [ __ ] don't work. It's not sustainable."

It's not sustainable. So now you mad because you had failed relationships, but now who's to blame? Us. Every energy that comes into your life, you bring it into your life. We, people are just reflections of who you are.

Mhm.

So this is why, this is the, this is the, this is the conspiracy. Now, if people who come into our life are reflections of us, but we don't even create the reflection of us, then how can we change the people that come into our life? How can we change the reflection of people who come into our life, or how can we change people who come into our life if we don't understand how to properly create that, that, that reflection, that image of ourselves?

Right? This is why the white man attacked our minds. This is why the white man attacked our minds.

This is why he attacked a black woman's mind. This is why he made you hate me. So if you hate me, you're only going to attract failed relationships.

You don't really believe I'm saying this in general, right?

Saying it's like a general statement. You don't really believe the black man is God. Everybody celebrated Easter. You know who you were celebrating? You were celebrating me. Everybody, everybody, everybody was. I was so mad driving. I'm so mad driving past all these fake ass churches and I'm seeing people, all this Easter [ __ ]. I'm like, "YOU CELEBRATING A BLACK MAN."

You celebrating, you celebrating me. But in your mind, in your mind, you've been conditioned that Jesus is white. So, YOU CELEBRATE THE WHITE MAN, right? You don't believe that. You don't believe that the black man is God. You don't believe I'm a god. You don't believe that the black man is, is, is the original man. You don't believe that the black man is the father of science, the father. You don't, you don't really, you don't really believe that because you've been conditioned not to believe that. People that come into your life is only a reflection of you. But the white man figured out how to create an image in your head of yourself that is not even a real image. So you're going to attract things that reflect that image that he put in your mind.

Right?

So you have to deprogram yourself. You have to unplug and then you have to unplug and then insulate yourself away from the conditioning. We're living, we're living in the unnatural times. Everywhere you turn, why you think, why you think every time you turn on the TV you see LGBTQ? You see, you see binary. You see transgender. Everywhere you turn on TV, like it's B. But in reality, if homosexuality was natural, nothing would be in existence.

So we have to understand that we're being conditioned. How you think creates how you feel. But if your, if your thinking is being controlled by someone who doesn't want you to feel good, then you'll never feel good.

That's real. Um, yeah, I, I definitely agree with that. I think a lot of us, you know, we just, we just have no idea.

They trying, man. Listen, listen. They said, look, they said they changed Easter to. I've seen that.

But listen, you know why? Because the, because the, [clears throat] truth is coming out. The truth is coming out. So now they like, "Okay, damn. They, these [ __ ] didn't fig, these [ __ ] didn't figured out that the black man is God." So we can't have, we can't, we can't get a black man a day in celebration now.

Okay.

Listen, they even told you in the Bible, Jesus was black.

You understand? So.

It still shows you a white man.

Right. [laughter] So, so, so, so this is, this is, this is how can you build? How can, how can, and, and listen, how can a woman and a woman have a family? It doesn't happen that way. Listen.

The black man is the backbone. The black man is the backbone. The black woman has never been the backbone. And that's a burden that your spine is not even strong enough to carry. This is why it doesn't, it doesn't work. The black man is the backbone. And if you destroy, if you destroy and eradicate the black man, then we will be extinct. And black women think for some reason that if I go somewhere, you ain't going nowhere. You coming, you going too.

If I don't, if I don't produce me, you're going to disappear.

Mhm.

If I don't, me, you're going to die too.

So, you think because you're in a gun that you're safe to. Once the white man get finished with you, with me, he coming for you, right?

Love you. He'll love you neither. The highest, the highest, the highest divorce rates are interracial dating. And they keep trying to put, put it out there. Look somewhere else. Look, you have options, girl. Go get you a, go get you a Bartholomew. Go get you a Billy. Yeah, you have options. He don't want you neither. [laughter]

That's, that's real.

He don't want you neither. The highest divorce rates of interracial dating.

Yes, they are.

They haven't even, they haven't even created a, a mental conditioning system to support the longevity of interracial dating and interracial marriages because interracial dating was just a tool weaponized to remove us from each other.

Mhm.

That's all. Feel me?

Yeah. So, you know, earlier, um, we, you brought up, um, toxic masculinity, and I told you I don't actually believe, um, men have toxic masculinity. I don't know if I went any deeper, but I, I was going to say, I don't think that men have toxic masculinity. I actually think women have toxic masculinity. And that's, you know, kind of what's going on versus, um, maybe there's some toxic feminine traits because the emasculation, right? Women have toxic femininity. So.

You don't think it's?

No, because we have to, we have to remove this notion that that I'm going to be feminine and you're going to be masculine. So when I study slavery, right, um, you know, I know that the black woman was, was made to be hyper masculine. So I don't think, like, I don't think black women have a struggle with masculinity. I feel black women have a struggle with femininity. Okay. And

Now when I say that, I mean like, we're the, our overly masculine traits. The fact that we have that we are seeing now is super masculine versus feminine. That's where I was going.

I got you. I got you, goddess. But what I'm saying is that stems from slavery. The black woman has been hyper-masculated for that reason. But now, I don't think that black women have an issue with being masculine. I feel black women have an issue with actually being feminine. And it's that lack of femininity that creates so many, um, so many problems. But go ahead, because I wanted to hear, I want to hear more what you were saying about that though.

Yeah. No, I just feel like, you know, the, the whole, um, you know, we, they, I don't, I think it was some gay man, white man that started the whole toxic masculinity thing. I think it's a whole, um, play on masculinity period. Not even just with the black man, but, you know, because black women are coming off like, "I'm, I'm, I'm the boss. I'm independent. I'm alpha. I got it going on. Y'all, y'all got to follow my lead." This and that. When you have that type of energy, like, "Oh, no, you sit down. I'm talking." You know, when you have that type of back and forth and sassy, you know how we roll? Our ex, when we get all that, that's kind of like us trying to be masculine, and it's toxic when we're trying to be masculine. That's.

It's toxic because you can't. That's why I say it's toxic femininity because you can't be masculine. Just like I can't be feminine. You look crazy. You look crazy. You look crazy trying to be a man, and I look crazy trying to be a woman.

Right. Facts.

Right. Um, so I think, I think it's important. I think it's important to understand that there's power in femininity. It's okay for black, it's okay black women to be a woman. It's okay.

Okay.

I think we're convinced that it's kind of weak, like, and it's feminism. It's, it's a feminism. Right. When I started think about that, it's these white women out here talking about, "Dude, we're equal," and we, you know what I mean? And so we're getting this energy.

Because people coming in late, right? So this is now again, but this is why I said this is why it's very important. That's always bringing back the topic, right?

Mhm.

Um, hold on. This, this is why this is what I was saying about, um, dang, what is it?

Right. Okay. This is what I was saying about, um, the white woman has been a mentor for black women.

Reason why that happens is black women have been pulled into a white woman's liberation. Because like Joan of Arc, right? Joan of Arc, what, what they used to do like in Joan of Arc times, they used to take this machine and put it in the woman's vagina, and when they twist it, it opens it opens the woman's vagina, right? We still have that. And they rip it out, right? So this was the, this was some of the sick, twisted, sinister [ __ ] that white men were doing to white women, right? The first homosexuality came from the Greeks. I mean, it's a lot of stuff. Pedophilia came from the Greeks and the Romans, right? So they created an equal rights movement. Black women, because they wanted to have power or felt abandoned, they said, "Well, hey, if I fight your fight, then I can get power, too." Not realizing that those same white women who used black women to get in power did not share the power with the black. So when those black women, when those white women got certain seats in political and government positions, they didn't empower black women. They said, "Go ahead, [ __ ]. Get out of here, [ __ ]. Now go where you go where you belong."

Yeah. Yeah.

So, and this is why I said that black men never had enough power in America to oppress anyone, let alone black women. So why would you feel like you need to be free from me? I've never, I've never imprisoned you. I never had the power to imprison you. I never built prisons for you to be incarcerated in. And when black men had factory jobs, when black men worked for General Motors and Ford, when black men were, were doing good in communities and we had majority black businesses, black men were good to black women because it's in our nature to love our women, and we do, and will forever do.

Yes.

And forever will. So, so.

That's a fact.

Okay. So, before, you know, before we end, I want to touch on a couple more, uh, a couple more questions. If you, if anybody in the comments got any questions or whatever, um, you know, you know, I always, I always tap, tap in with the questions. If you got any questions, God, um, uh, let's, let's, let's, let's do that. If you see any questions that you, that that you feel we should touch on.

They was firing off some good ones earlier. Let me see if I.

I know the comments get crazy. Be like.

Yeah, they go so fast.

Can I ask you a personal question?

For sure.

Um, are, were your parents together?

No. Absolutely no.

So, oh, that's. So, how did you, how did you get in this, you know, in this energy?

I had to change my self-image.

I had to change.

When you were young?

I had to change, I had to change the self-image I had for myself. Wait, what? Uh, what's the exact question?

Um, yeah. Like, how did, how did you, like, when did you wake up? How did you decide to, to take control as a black man?

Because, because, because I mean, listen, I hate to, I hate to use the, I hate to use like cliche, I like, hate to use like cliche words, but I really, I really think that God bestowed upon me a certain level of wisdom and awakening and knowledge.

Mhm.

Um, and I really feel like God chooses who he decides to wake up. God woke me up because I was, I was molested by my mother. My mother was a drug addict. I never, you know, I never knew my father. And I grew up with abandonment. Listen, listen. I grew up with abandonment issues. I grew up with low self-esteem. I grew up with a lack of confidence. I grew up searching for the love my mother never gave me in women. So that made me a playboy. It made me very promiscuous. And, and every time I climaxed, it felt like a hug my mother never gave me. I want you to listen to what I'm saying. Listen, listen, really listen, really listen. So, I grew up searching for love from women that my mother never gave me. And I could, it was like a thirst I could never quench, right? And then I got to the point that I realized that I could never find that, I could never find that love.

So, I thought that I never would find love. I thought that, listen, what I'm saying. I need you to, I want you to like, don't move too much. You ready? Listen to what I'm saying. I want you to lock in what I'm saying, right? This is important. Um, so I'm searching and searching and I can't get this love. So now I'm, because my confidence at the time was so [ __ ] up, I didn't realize that I felt like I would never even have love. I didn't deserve love, right?

And then I started to do research. I started to do research. I started to say, "Well, listen, yo, what is love?" Right? What is love? And what? I started becoming obsessed with information about like this, right?

And I feel like God gave me that intention to not accept my current state of mind. That was God. And then I said, "Okay, oh [ __ ], there's a difference between a mother's love and a woman's love. A woman can never give you a mother's love. A mother can never give you a woman's love. She gives you a mother's. Is this difference? Equally powerful though.

Equally fulfilling. Equally powerful. So what I realized once I realized the difference between love, I realized I was barking up the wrong tree. I was going to McDonald's for Burger King and going to Burger King for McDonald's.

Okay?

You see? Mhm.

And then once I identified the different types of love, it allowed me to accept the love that I wasn't getting from these women because they couldn't give me that love. So I changed my expectations on the love that the women in my life was supposed to give me.

Then the next step was I had to realize because I didn't love myself, I was attracting women in my life that could never love me because I didn't love me. Mhm. And

So I had to create that self-image. I had to have that value for myself. And then when I started to love myself, I started to get on the vibration of love. And then I attracted people who love me because I love me.

And [clears throat] then the next thing was, wait a minute, I'm using sex as a form of escapism. As a form of escapism. I'm hiding in the [ __ ].

I'm hiding in the [ __ ]. I'm running from myself. I'm hiding in the blunt. I'm hiding in the bottle. I'm running from myself. I'm trying to deal with my issues with escaping. And when I stopped using women to deal with my abandonment issues and I faced them and I dealt with my abandonment issues, I no longer justified having sex to deal with this issue because I had to deal with the issue. I had to fight the demon. And when I, when I, when I killed those demons, it changed my interactions with women.

It changed the dynamic. Started to change. And now I didn't need to have sex with you to deal with my issues. I could just, I could just hang out with you.

I didn't need to hide in the blunt no more. I didn't need to smoke weed and be out my mind and and and be intoxicated. I didn't need to drink.

I looked in the mirror and loved what I saw.

And then that started to change. So I changed my mindset, right? I changed how I, I changed how I viewed myself. I really got to prayer and meditation and affirmations and mantras, right?

Mhm.

I studied what was, you know, what is love and what is a mother supposed to do and what does a woman do and then I started to understand the difference in responsibilities.

And, and man, it was, it was a, it was a beautiful, beautiful change.

How old were you?

How old were you when you started?

Um, what that process?

[ __ ] Five years old.

Okay. You, you became very aware at a young age. My mother molested me. So, so when you get touched like that as a child, then I had a baby. She was older than me, right? She was, she was older than me. So now when you're forced to like, listen, more black boys are molested than black girls. There's more, this is what I studied. This is crazy. There's more female pedophiles than male pedophiles. There's more female pedophiles than male pedophiles. And the number of registered female sex offenders is is disproportionately low to the actual number of actual female pedophiles and sexual offenders.

You see? So, that those like those feelings and emotions started for me early. And because I had an abusive mother who never was there, I, I'm so, I'm so young. I wanted love. So now I be, I'm searching. Now I'm searching for love. Looking for love in all the wrong places. And I was too young. I was too young to to kind of like have that self-reliance.

So I, I grew up, I grew up emotionally broken.

And the only thing that put me back together was God.

Wow. I had no idea. Um, that's really powerful. Like from where you were and where you are now. I'm kind of speechless. I'm trying to get myself together because, um, [snorts] my heart hurts for a lot of, a lot of our people that are so many people are messed up because they've been molested. I'm so sorry. I didn't, I didn't get molested when I was younger, but it just, you know, it just hurts my heart because I hear so many people, especially when I start talking about sexual abuse on my page. A lot of men will DM me because they don't even want to come out and talk about it. A lot of men, when I talk about it, it'll be silent. But when I check my DMs, it's full, it's full of of men who were boys that didn't want to tell anybody or did and people laughed at them. And I'm just like, "Oh my God, how do people, when they go through that? Like, how do they, how do you even, what do you say to somebody when they're asking you, you know, how do I heal from this? I have no idea because I've never had to heal from that."

Well, you, well, listen, you, you heal with God. See, like people, like people, people give God credit for everything, but, but, but everything. People give God credit for everything, but everything. God can heal everything. You see? So, you know, that strength. So, so again, my strength came from God, right? You know, my knowledge base came from God, right? That, that, um, inclination or that thirst for knowledge came from God. And God put me on that journey. See, God teaches his best lessons through pain, right? God teaches his best lessons through pain. And the qualifications to be a teacher is that pain.

So, sometimes God has a greater purpose for us. And when we're going through the pain, we're receiving the preparation. We're receiving the knowledge to inspire and help other people 20 years, 30 years, 15 years, 40 years down the line. So, we can't get past what we going through because we don't realize what we're going through is to help somebody else not go through it. And that's the, and, and that's the purpose. And while we're going through it, God is giving us the strength. And we don't even realize that we're actually surviving it. But we're so, and we're so going through it that we can't realize like, "What the [ __ ], man?" And then when you reflect, and then now when I'm, when I'm doing what I'm doing now, and I, and I'm doing seminars and I'm talking to people and I'm talking to kids, and I'm like, "Whoa, wait a minute. I have all these experiences to draw from." Not experiences that I'm proud I can actually draw from, but it's, it's my testimony.

Right. Yeah. And I forgave my mother. And I forgave my mother. But I had to understand forgiveness. I forgave my mother. See, see, this feeling I feel is for you. It's for you. And I'm giving it to you. This is for you and I'm giving it to you. So I forgive you.

This ain't for me to feel.

This pain, this low self-esteem, this lack of confidence, this hate for this. No, this is for you. I'm giving it to you. I forgive you. You can take that [ __ ] back. And I love you, but I'm letting you go. And I'mma love you from a distance.

Yeah.

Wow. I definitely commend you, brother, cuz.

Listen, but again, it's all, you listen. All praise is due to God. And, and, and, and the God, the God that's in me, and the God that's that is in you, is, you know, came from our, came from our father, right? So now we're using, now we're using our powers to heal our people. We're using our powers to heal our people, right? We're using our powers to inform our people. We're using this. This is why these conversations are important, right? This is why accountability is important, you know. Okay. So that's, that was okay. So that was a question you asked. Uh, let's get to like maybe two, two, three more questions and then, and then I'm, I'm, I'mma end it.

Okay. I'm so like, [laughter] you know, um, let me see in the comments.

Jesus. And I'm still saying that correctly. Excuse me.

No, you ain't saying that. Look, you ain't saying that. You said you saying you saying my name.

Got you. Listen, don't change the name. Just swap out the faces. Don't change the name. Just swap out the faces.

Listen, I don't have any more questions. So let the audience.

Okay. Okay. So if you see any, so all right. So I guess just, I guess just pick, just pick, just pick three questions from the comments and then whatever questions you pick, that's, that's what we gonna build on.

Got to scroll. Let's scroll. Let me see.

I like this one. Somebody just said, okay, this, I, I still want you to pick three, but I want to address this. They said, speak on women using toys to, to, to, to help with. But, but that's, we talked about. You're going to, we talked about isolation. That falls under the category of isolation and celibacy, right? And, and, and a toy. This is so to answer that, answer that question, a toy can't provide you with direction for the future and consumption control. A toy doesn't provide discipline for your children. A toy doesn't give you protection or, or, or it gives you instant gratification, not sustaining or sustainable gratification. It doesn't help you build generational wealth. Doesn't help you raise your children.

So all it does is help you comment and.

And it, and it's bad. It's bad for you. I speak on this a lot. Um, especially the vibrators and all that stuff. First of all, the first of all, we know plastics, drinking water out of a plastic bottle is bad for you. Putting some plastic, rubber, whatever it is, putting that inside your body is absolutely toxic.

Listen, and, and this is why, this is why, this is why black women are having so much problems giving, giving birth. A lot of it, a lot of it comes from using these, using these toys. A lot of it comes from the diet. I mean, you know, the white man has a, has a real plan to, to, to erase us, right? So, you know, I think just to answer that question is a toy can never replace me. And a toy, and and Pornhub can never replace you because because our interaction is not sexual.

It's not just sexual. It's not just, it's way more, it's way more deeper than that. I mean, but yeah, queen.

Yeah. No, I, you know, I, I talk about that a lot and I try to get women off of these, it vibrators. Absolutely awful. And we, you know, sisters complain all the time, "My man can't make me come." Are you vibrating yourself out of coming from penis? Are you vibrating yourself? You know, are you desensitizing yourself from a, a real man? [laughter]

For sure.

Jeez.

And, and, and so, so, so that happens because at the end of the day, they have to, they fear being, as we talk about, it's called white genetic annihilation. So they weaponize homosexuality, protect to, to protect against white genetic annihilation. They weaponize sexuality to protect against white genetic annihilation. So you got the roles, and I got Pornhub, right? They do all the, they create all these, all these, all these things to keep us away from each other and to keep us from actually reproducing.

To protect against their annihilation. Um, yeah. So, so, but yeah, let's just pick three. Let's just pick three. Uh, just pick three questions.

I got one.

Okay. Okay. I'm just let you know if you got your question, get it in now because I, um, I got to go to the boxing gym. I love y'all, but I'm, I'm, I'm definitely, I got, I got other engagements. But go ahead.

Okay. Um, what, someone asked earlier, what are the traits of a virtuous woman?

Man, [laughter] oh man. Um, it's a beautiful thing, man. Um, well, you want to answer that?

I mean, I think the, the traits of a virtuous woman are patience, um, the ability to be open-minded, um, the ability to be corrected, um, to, uh, recognize good leadership, um, you know, nurturing, and to be a partner. You know, we're, we're in the fight for liberation. We're not free. So, all the material things that we see the white women have, and this, these people are providing this for their woman, and this is that, we have to be understanding of where we are as a people and where our man is. And, um, real quick, one thing I always try to tell women or

or especially the women that are like far off is we we saw the white man cut off our man's penis and then and then we told we we shhat on black men for not having a penis and then went to the man who cut his penis off. You know what I'm saying? Like just as so women can the extreme example so women can understand like we you know we kind of ran off with the [ __ ] that put us in the position. You feel me?

But um but yeah, I just you know just the patience, the nurturing, the the ability to adapt with our man, the ability to move and and and you know move out certain situations and of course you know the being able to maintain a home. You got to be able to maintain a home.

>> Okay. So Okay. What's Okay, that's question one. Two more then then we gone. [laughter]

>> Um Oh, you don't you don't want to answer that one on your end? No. Okay. I mean, hey, I'm I'm in agreeance to what you said. Okay. I feel like I'm I'm in I'm in agreeance with you. I'm in agreeance. I agree with what you everything you said. If I if I disagree, IF I'M QUIET, that means I agree.

>> Okay.

>> Um I'll get this one. Do you think the importance of intimacy creates a telepathic connection that creates a deeper bond for union?

>> Wait, what's the ask again?

>> Hold on. It just it just got Do you think Oh god. Do you think the importance of intimacy creates a telepathic connection that creates deeper bond for union? I don't know if that question was posed properly.

>> It might in the post. So, at the end of the day, just because you have ju just because you intimate doesn't mean you have a telepathic telepathic connection, you know, you you know, energy transference is real. You're going to be exchanging some type of energies and [ __ ] Yeah. But to to to to I mean

>> um intention is important, right? And yeah, you might have some type of connection. You might have some type of telepathic connection, but do you control that connection? Are you even realizing that you actually have that connection? Um, this is why being intentional before you have intercourse um is is important. And and what is the purpose of of of even the intercourse other than just busting a nut, right? I I think that we have to understand the the power of sexual energy. Um I think we have to understand the power of of of intercourse and how our intercourse brings things into a physical realm.

>> So this is why this this is why foreplay foreplay a lot of people don't understand foreplay foreplay is is almost like the the the preparation for what your energy is going to bring due to having intercourse. So just because you're wearing a condom don't don't doesn't mean that you're not bringing an entity into this world. that you know so the foreplay is supposed to you two parties can identify okay we about to do this but what's what are we going to bring into this this realm because of connecting our energies so I think it's important for us to not place such a focus on penetration and and and and more so on on on the mentalism on the mentalism or the mental aspect of of of sex and intercourse yeah I thought Yeah, I don't personally have any more questions. I gotta get this chicken out the oven. [laughter] Anyone else has questions?

>> Yeah, I like this question. How can a black man raise a black boy without without the father? Well, what you So, you got to do your due diligence. You got to study. You got to learn. You got to connect. It takes a village. So, you got to connect with other fathers. Find other fathers. Don't Don't be shy about it, right? You gota we It takes a village. We got to connect. You got to learn, right? You got to go. You got to You know, you got to learn. You got to self-educate. You got to pray on it, right? You got to pray on it. You got to pray on it and intention. I mean, intention, information, and diligence is is is is how I would do it, you know. Um,

>> okay. Go ahead.

>> I was going to say, um, uh, my my ex-husband is, matter of fact, he has the kids right now. Um, so we have a great co-arenting relationship. Um, but I know when he's here with me in Houston, I have him in the boxing uh, Moa boxing. He goes to boxing. He does basketball. And I love the community of I don't know if all boxing rings are like this, but the community of the boxing um gym that my son goes to, all the all the coaches are like family. So,

>> let me say something too because because you said something that struck something to me, right?

>> Co-aring is what the relationship is supposed to be like. A lot of times people don't have a healthy parenting relationship until they separate or break up. M

>> I mean now you co you're co-parenting but what you do as co-parents is what you're supposed to do as actual connected as as a coalition of parents. So if if so for for families raising black children look at successful co-parenting relationships because that's what the actual relationship is supposed to be like. And it's sad that it takes a separation to to to to actually figure out the best parenting approach.

>> That's real. That's real.

>> I mean All right. So, um, yep. So, I think that's it. It's been real.

>> Thank you. Thank you so much.

>> It's been real. Um, I love it. This was good. This was just it had

>> it had intense moments, but I feel like we I feel like we I feel like we're leaving how we're supposed

>> righteous. Righteous. Hopefully, we can do another live. Hopefully that's in the works in the future. I definitely want to dive into that one topic. I just have to prepare myself for that. But yeah, thank you so much again. Huh?

>> What topic is that? sexual abuse.

>> Oh man, it's tough. It's tough. Yeah. Yeah. I had I had a really good um I think there's a there's a there's a there's a video you should watch too about that. Um it's called uh the smart guy motherless child interview. I think it's about breakbeat media and I kind of I kind of went into depth about that, you know, the motherless child thing. So I think in preparation for that next conversation we have, I think you should check that interview out. It's it's very insightful.

>> Okay.

>> All right. Peace. So, that went well. That was good, man. That was good. You know, energy. The energy. It's all about energy. Um, shout out to everybody. I hope I hope everybody um the live is gonna be up. Hey, go back, watch it, Bill. Trap. Yeah, Trap Anonymous. Yeah, that was Trap Anonymous. Trapping anonymous for sure. For sure. All right. So, y'all got any more um any more questions? I'm about to get out of here. I go to box gym. You all know I'm fighting. My fight coming up. You know what I mean? Coming up. Know what I'm saying? Shout out to my um shout out to my business partner, my manager, Dev Jeter. Know what I'm saying? Shout out to the team American Fortune. You know how we rocking. Um I love y'all. I love y'all. Um I love y'all. I love black women. Um and we getting ourit together. Some people going to like it. Some people going to love it. Some people going to hate it. But everybody's going to respect it. Everybody's respecting. Peace.