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I just gave up a year to come here.
What do you mean you gave up a year?
I literally said, "I'm going to commit this year to..."
No, but I want you to see her model the world. I'm sorry. I want to move on, but this is too helpful.
Everything in her model is "I gave up." What kind of [ __ ] [ __ ] is this? This is martyr [ __ ]. This is why she's alone.
I gave... You didn't give anything up.
I'm committing. I'm I'm investing in myself. I'm investing in you. I'm investing in this room.
No, you're not investing in room. You're not investing in me. You're investing in you.
This is [ __ ]. You're investing you only if you believe it's worthwhile. And you're investing in year university. I'm...
willing. I'm willing.
So, you're going to three programs in a year or two years. That's not giving up your year.
Poor choice of words.
No, no, no. You always choose those words in the interactions I've had with you so far. Everything is what you give up. That's why you're alone. That's the most selfish way to look at life. I'm not saying you're a selfish person because I don't believe you are. I believe you're a really giving person. But you've come up with this story so you could feel in control. And the best way to control is "I'm giving everything. I'm the one." That's significance. That's not love. Raise your hand if you follow this. So you're giving up and no one wants to be around somebody who's constantly being told how much you gave up. [ __ ] you. I don't need you to be here. Go. I'll give you your money back right now. I don't need a penny from you. If you think you're investing in me, you're [ __ ] mistaken. I'm here because I choose to serve. I don't need to do a [ __ ] thing the rest of my life for money. But this is what lights me up is to see people have a breakthrough. That's why I'm still talking to you after all this time. Cuz I really want you to have it. But I'm not going to force it. That's the difference. That's the only difference here. Can you see the pattern? How many can see the pattern of "everything is I've given something up"? How can you possibly be happy in your life when everything's a sacrifice? You won't be happy, but you'll feel validated and significant. This is [ __ ]. You've done what you want to do. You came here because you want this for you. You didn't want it for the people in this room. You don't even [ __ ] know them. You're not invested in this room. And you don't even know me. You believe I can help you. And you were right. But you have to do the work.
I won't do the work for you because it won't last. I'd love to. Part of me just love to. I love being a hero. Don't you guys? But rather than be a hero, I'd like to see you actually have long-term success. That's the sweetest way I can put that.