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HOW TO BE A PLAYER

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If you're watching this right now, and you are in a bad place, where you know that you deserve better in life, and you're finally ready to transform, keep watching, and I promise you, you will not be disappointed.

Now, to excel in life, there is a little something called the game, and everybody is playing the game, whether they realize it or not. For many of you watching, you were tossed into the game without any help, like myself. Many of you grew up with no father figure and no positive male role models, and these things put you at a disadvantage in this thing that we call life. But the more that you know and understand life, or the more that you know and understand the game, the more that you can bend it to fit your reality or to fit your preferences.

Now, we currently live in a world where masculinity amongst men is really hard to find, and the number one reason why so many men are getting ignored by girls and even people in general is because they just don't understand the game and they don't understand how to play to win.

Now, if you want to be one of the best players in the game of life, and if you want to have girls chasing after you and other people respecting you, you have to understand a few very important things, starting with number one.

Now, every single one of you watching right now, you are starring in your own movie. This is the story of your life, but so many of you are allowing other people to be the main characters in your own movie. Many of us allow our friends, our parents, and even random strangers to hold more importance than ourselves, even though we are the ones who are supposed to be the main character. So you have to ask yourself, what exactly is it that makes a good movie? What makes the best Hollywood movies so fun to watch? And the answer is the ups and the downs. If you want to see a movie and nothing bad or challenging happened throughout the entire movie, you would probably get really bored, and you would want to leave. And in your own personal movie, you are supposed to be the main character, and you are supposed to go through ups and downs, and you are supposed to reach a point where you hit rock bottom, and you're tired of living a mediocre life, whether that happened a few years ago or whether it just happened now. And reaching this point is part of the ups and downs, and and since you're currently down, the only way to really go from here is up. So ups and downs are always a part of every great movie, so they should definitely be a part of yours as well.

So what is the other thing that makes a movie great? And the answer is victory. Every great movie has a main character, and after battling through the ups and downs, eventually this main character becomes victorious. Now, many of you might have started at a disadvantage in life, but that doesn't mean that you can't be victorious in the end. And in fact, all the best stories throughout human history, whether it's the tales told at night around a campfire or even all the major religions of the world, they all end with the hero of the story claiming the sweet, sweet victory that he deserves. In the best stories, start with a man who comes from humble beginnings, like all of you watching, and this man has great potential, and he has the power to change the world in his own way. This is the hero of the story, and throughout the movie, the hero faces so many different challenges and so many different enemies, and all of these evil forces are all trying to stop him pretty much at the same time. And what makes the movie even better is that at some point, it truly looks as if evil is going to prevail, or it looks as if the hero is just not going to make it. But then, right at the exact moment where it appears that all hope has been lost, the hero suddenly reclaims his power, and he slays the evil that has been trying to overcome him.

Now, in every great Hollywood movie, the story might be a little bit different, but the underlying theme has always been the same, and it's that to be a successful player in the game, you have to become the hero of your own movie. So many of us, so often are faced with obstacles and tests, whether it's from females, other men, or even our own mind playing tricks on us. And oftentimes, we feel like giving up, and we feel like the game is rigged and unfair. We feel like everybody and everything is against us. But it's precisely these tests that give us the opportunity to play the hero of our own movie. It is these tribulations that make us stronger and that force us to improve, and it force us to become better. You see, every obstacle that you face, every enemy that tries to take you down, these are all necessary evils, and what these actually are are opportunities in disguise, and each one of them exists to give you another chance to choose to be the hero of your own story or to choose not to be. You see, when you let your mind play tricks on you and scare you out of talking to girls that you like, you are not playing the role of the hero. When we allow fear to control us and to stop us from taking advantage of opportunities that we could use to increase our income or improve our abilities, we are once again not playing the hero of our own movie.

So take pride in knowing that each one of you watching right now, each one of you was literally designed to be victorious. Each one of you was literally designed to be the hero of your own movie, and even if it doesn't seem like that, you were designed to win in the end. So start acting like it. And with that said, I love you guys, and until next time, thank you so much for watching.