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And drug dealers and gang members with [music] tattoos with a big dick and a big like a vacuum. Hoods and drug dealers and gang members [music] with tattoos with a big dick and a big vacuum.
>> Look at the top. POV, the type of men that everyone says nurses date. Now, you probably asking, "Man, how did you get so much information out of a 7-second video?" I went to the comments.
>> [laughter] [laughter] [music] >> Let's get to it. Let's read a couple, shall we? Silent repost. All nurses. She She liked what she was saying. Look. "You too loud telling MY BUSINESS." OH. OH, OKAY, NURSE.
>> [laughter] >> "I have been delivered. Not anymore." Now, she's looking for a nerdy dude, tech guy, right?
>> [laughter] >> "Sounds about right", says nurse gang. See? "I have been delivered." Delivered. DELIVERED.
>> I AM DELIVERED.
>> [laughter] >> "I LOVE MY MAN WITH HIS TATTOOS." OKAY, NURSE. All black women, mind you. "I see no problem, lol. Who else going to keep up with my lifestyle?" So, the hood dudes, the drug dealers, I guess they got that fast money. Nurses get paid a significant amount. So, she's like, "I need a guy that make it just as much money as me, and I don't care where it comes from." Insert drug dealer, scammer. There you have it. They tell you straight up. Like I said, you just got to you know got to see what they talk about. Like Destiny's Child said, where they at? Where they at?
>> I know some soldiers in here.
>> [music] >> They want to take care of me.
>> See? It's just something about them. Oh, okay. So, this is how is Dr. Umar would see stuff like this.
>> I beg your pardon?
>> Saying that black men is making them date these types of guys. No, they just like them. They can't help that. Look, you too loud. Oh, okay. Nurse Ann, she said as a nurse, they're my favorite kind. Nothing about marriage though. Just you know, they're my favorite kind. Nurse Ann's here also, I second this motion. We like what we like. Guys, Jesus Christ. That's what I've been saying this whole time. You can't fake genuine desire and attraction. They like what they like. But for some odd reason, black women and the black community is trying to force black women to like nerdy type of guys, tech guys, because they see them as the stable ones in the community. You see what's going on here? We're not done. This woman said, "We are slightly unhinged, so it only makes sense." No, seriously. Oh, okay. This woman said, "Not no more, I'm delivered. Not no more meaning that she's dealt with those gangbangers and drug dealers, but not no more, I'm done playing that game." Okay. Look, this woman says, "At least they're matching our pay." There it ain't.
>> Money. Big money. Look, Rainy RN, I turned mine into a husband and working law-abiding citizen, but that hood always comes out when needed. Who said Tupac in a suit? Or whatever, that's what they want, Tupac in a suit, so I guess that's what she manifested.
>> [laughter] >> She said, "Yeah, because we think we're sent here to save everyone." And they're clapping like, "Yes, this." 60 likes on that post. So, they're trying to, I guess, justify dating hood dudes and drug dealers because they're, I guess, at to try and save everyone because they're nurses. That's That's the excuse. That's the reasoning behind it. And, honestly, she may be right. And I'mma explain to you why with this Dr. Jordan Peterson video.
>> have to see. The female myth is Beauty and the Beast. Tamable beast. In the Disney movie Beauty and the Beast, the woman who's quite a stellar character, right? She's beautiful and she's wise and she's intelligent.
>> [music] >> She has her choice. Like she's got loser, the village man, she's got narcissist, that's Gaston, and she's got beast. Now, stupid women like narcissists, naive women like narcissists because they confuse their narcissism with confidence
>> [music] >> and confidence. That's how narcissists exploit. They look like they're confident. They look like they're competent. Beauty, Gaston is after her, wants to charm her. She goes for the beast. Well, the beast is a monster. He's a traumatized monster, even.
>> [music] >> But, she hopes that he's tamable, that she can bring him into relationship.
>> [music] >> And, like a good beast has options, but he'll forego the options for the relationship. That's the female sexual fantasy.
>> [music] >> Tamable beast. Now, that's rough, right? Because how likely is it that you're going to be able to tame a beast? Not
>> How likely is it? Not that likely, ladies. Okay? That one woman that said, "Hey, my husband is that and now he's a law-abiding citizen." That was the only comment like that. It's very rare. Let's continue.
>> Not that likely, but pretty damn useful if you can do it.
>> [music] >> Then you have someone who can keep the real beasts at bay. Like women have to negotiate a very tight line cuz they're looking for men who are disagreeable enough to be able to tell the monsters to go to hell, but who are generous and productive enough to share. That's a hard target to hit. It's a hard target for a man to become, too.
>> And that's why I don't advise the nerdy tech guys to change. You cannot become what you aren't. That's not you. And like I said it before, you're attracted to what you're attracted to. Women see these types of guys as a challenge because if they're the woman responsible to get this beast of a man to act right, she takes that on as a badge of honor. Right? And it happens a lot in the black community. It's funny. It's one little thing that women like to do, and I know men who have been in relationships or are in relationships before, are currently, you know what I'm When I explain this, you're going to start laughing. When you're with your friends, and you know, you're just hanging out at with your boys or whatever at the bar or something like that, and your girl or your wife will call, and she'll just she'll you say, "Hey, you know, I'm about to go here. I need to check on this. How you doing?" or whatever. You have a brief conversation with her, and then you're about to hang up, and she'll say, "Give me a kiss." Right? Dudes, you know what I'm talking about? Give me a kiss. Over the phone or on FaceTime. And she knows that you're with your friends. So, if you do this in front of your friends, you know, they going to start joking on you. Oh, man, look at you kissing your girl through the phone. Women like doing that type that type of stuff. It's It's because of the fact that it's kind of like taming the savage beast. If I can get this masculine ass man to give me a kiss through the phone, then that means a lot to me. He really likes me.
>> Tell them you love them. You'll talk to them tomorrow.
>> Well, y'all heard the lady.
>> You tell them.
>> Love y'all. Talk to y'all tomorrow.
>> [laughter] >> Wow, [ __ ] Nah, she didn't have to do that, man.
>> Can you hear me?
>> Yo. All right. All right. Just going to talk to y'all later. That's crazy.
>> Say bye. Say bye, friends.
>> Well, you say bye.
>> [laughter] >> SAY SAY BYE, FRIENDS.
>> [laughter] >> ALL RIGHT. WE'LL TALK TO THEM LATER.
>> CHILL OUT, MAN. I just want to play some
>> [laughter] >> All right. So, tell them bye.
>> I'm not going to do that right now.
>> Why not?
>> Cuz I just want to clown and [ __ ]
>> [laughter] >> Say bye. Say bye. SAY BYE.
>> [laughter] >> DON'T SAY [ __ ] TO HIM LATER. TELL THEM BYE.
>> Say bye, J BO.
>> [laughter] >> ALL RIGHT. SAY GOODBYE, FRIENDS.
>> YO.
>> I GOT HIM TO do it. Yeah. And it's small,
>> [laughter] >> but me and y'all don't understand it, but they love that. Give me a kiss. Don't hang up. Tell me you love me. GIVE ME A KISS. MEAN IT. MEAN THE KISS. YOU LOVE ME? SAY IT. SAY IT. MEAN IT. AND THEN THE DUDE IS ON I love you. I love you. AND THEN AW MAN, I HEARD YOU. You know what I'm talking about? Those small things women take pride in that, man. And this is just the the worst of worst of it when a woman gets with one of these hood dudes and they're expecting him to change and become Tupac in a suit in a suit. But when he does it, it's simply expected and it gives her a reason as to why the relationship didn't didn't work. So she can go back to her friends and say, "Aw man, I should have not dealt with this guy. I knew he was in the streets. I knew he was a drug dealer. I knew he would get locked up." And her friends, "Yep, girl. You know what I'm saying? That's how they all are. They all." That's what happens in the black community. When they take on this project of a man and it all goes to hell, now all black men get blamed for your decision that you willingly did because that is your preference. You tried to change him, it didn't work. Now we all responsible. Let Dr. Umar tell it.
>> No, you have to be held accountable because they have a poor selection. See, what you're saying, you're selecting a poor mate. And what I'm saying is they don't have much to select one, so of course you're going to end up with a poor mate. And why she going to end up with a poor mate? Because we as black men are not raising black boys to be the men that our women need.
>> You see how this works? So, don't try and change yourselves for women who just simply want those types of guys. They're going to have to make it work with them or they're not going to make it work with you. I don't want them to try and make it work with you. I don't want them to try and date outside of their preference just so they can get with a stable man who's a law-abiding citizen. You know how good it feels to walk into my favorite firearm shop and know that I could just pick up any firearm that I want to purchase and not have to worry about the paperwork coming back crazy? From being a law-abiding citizen? Do you know how good it feels to have that firearms instructor tag because I don't have any priors and things like that? I'm not nervous when I walk into these stores where they run my social security number and it's going to come back with multiple felonies. They consider us lames.
>> [laughter] >> Well, when they don't know that we dangerous than your average run-of-the-mill drug dealer. I shoot better than you. Nursing is one of the professions with a higher divorce rate in the United States with some studies reporting a rate of 37% and others of than other professions such as physicians 22.1% dentist 22.9% and pharmacist 21.5% Also, according to AMN Healthcare, nurses have a higher divorce rate than other professions than uh and one factor that may contribute to this is a temptation to stray outside of their marriage. A 2021 study from PMC found that 21% of nurses have either had or are in unfaithful relationship. However, infidelity doesn't always lead to divorce, but when it comes to marrying a nurse, you got to do some proper vetting. Because of the fact that and I don't know if you know, I work in the healthcare field and what I noticed is that sometimes when nurses get married they will start to out-earn their spouses because nurses do get paid a significant amount. And so, when they start to out-earn their spouses, they start to look at him as less than because they work around what? Physicians. They work around surgeons, right? So, they're like, man, my husband makes $70,000. I make $120,000. I got all these men that make high, you know, high income. I'mma start having a little bit of dinner with this this nurse or this this physician, and then next thing you know, he's sneaking in.
>> [music and singing] >> So, that's the type of dynamic that a lot of nurses get themselves into, and they end up cheating. So, you guys have to watch out for that. I'm not saying write off nurses completely because they are definitely useful to the group, but if you going to try and marry one, I would be mindful. Okay? I'm just putting it out there.
>> What professions in women should men avoid? But, I went through my case list, and there are some common professions that I see in women. The most common one that I see is teacher. The second most common is nurse.
>> The second most common divorce uh woman is a nurse. Okay? So, this is not me. This is a divorce lawyer saying that. The second most common, and there's multiple studies and research papers about this. A lot of sources say this, that nurses they are up there in the top three. The number one uh case load that she saw in regards to divorces was ironically a stay-at-home wife. So, you guys probably asking, man, why are we doing so much research on nurses, and how does that pertain to the type of men that black women prefer?
>> [laughter] >> You guys remember we did this avatar?
>> Of course, studies say only 11% of nurses are black, but I graduated at the top of my class. I'm a black RN. Of course, I use my education degree to further myself, to do a business on the side while doing bedside.
>> [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] >> Got them nurses. I told you them nurses got that bread. You see her shopping at Louis Vuitton, got her nails done. Very attractive. Nurses seem to be always attractive, right? But they have a couple of flaws flaws in regards to the guys that they typically are attracted to. But they don't know that we dangerous than your average run-of-the-mill drug dealer. I shoot better than you.
>> Don't let the smooth taste fool you. I'm from the streets.
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