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So it's important to realize that, right? That when it comes to manifestation, I'm not just talking about tangible things. And I feel like a lot of times when you are new to manifestation, much how I was when I watched the documentary "The Secret," and they were talking about houses and cars and physical things. I think often times people think that that's all there is, and that's okay. So I'm not saying you're wrong if you think that way, but again, there's levels to manifestation.
When I'm talking about manifesting, y'all know I always say you have mastered manifestation when you don't even worry about manifesting physical things. You manifest the energy, the frequency that the, that whatever you desire is aligned with, and you will attract everything you desire, and some things that you didn't even know were possible. Right? Because there are many physical, tangible things that are beyond our awareness. Right? You learn about new cars all the time, a new type of house all the time. I know for me, I, I like watching those videos of like, uh, houses getting built and house inspections and stuff like that. You learn about new kinds of things all the time. When you focus on manifesting the frequency, mo, focus on manifesting the energy, everything that is aligned with that energy will attract to you, regardless of whether you are aware of it, that it, that it even exists or not. And, matter of fact, it will come to your awareness of existence when you are aligned with the frequency of that thing. Anything that you are aware of is possible for you to have. And that's at any frequency. Anything that you are aware of is possible for you to have. So, in order for you to have it, it has to first become into your awareness. But to come into your awareness, you have to be open to the frequency of whatever it is. Right?
So that's why when it comes to manifestation, we're going to talk about step one, which is decide what you want. Beginner's level manifestation, deciding what you want looks like naming the physical thing, naming the house, naming the car, naming, uh, whatever it is, right? The, the, the spouse, the partner, the husband, the wife, the children, right? The physical things. That's what beginner's manifestation looks like. Deciding what you want on a physical level. But master's level manifestation, I like to call it, and I always refer to it as holistic manifestation. Holistic manifestation. It's okay to know what you want on a physical level, but you have to do the work to get to the source of your desire. Everything that we desire holds energy, and all energy is frequency. It's vibration. You get to the source of what it is that you desire. So the reason that you want that person, or the reason that you want that house, or that car, or this amount of money, there's the reasons that you want those things. But beyond the reason, what is the frequency of the person? What is the frequency of that type of house? What is the frequency of money? What is the energy of money? What are you really asking for?
And there's different ways to do this. Right? So on a scientific level, you can actually research the frequency, the vibrational frequency, the hertz of money, of brick, which your house may be made out of, right? The house you want. So you can research the scientific frequency of it, or you can get to the root of the energy, right? So what will be the energy that's aligned with money? What is the energy that's aligned with a house, a car, a person, right? What is the energy of it? Now, that I know some people may think that that's easy, like, oh, well, the energy that's aligned with money is abundance, but that's not always the case, right? That's not always the case. To know what the energy that's aligned with it is for you, you have to ask yourself, why do I want it? Why do I want it? Sometimes it's not abundance that you're trying to manifest. Sometimes what you deeply want to manifest is the freedom that the money will give you. Sometimes what you really want to manifest is the freedom of rest that having an abundance of money will give you. Sometimes what you want to manifest is the stability, the safety, the security. Absolutely, Regina, and in, uh, chat. Sometimes that's what it will be. Thank you for that, Lowkey MJ. Lowkey MJ just shared a source of frequency for various things, right? So sometimes that's what it is. The, the, the reason we could all want the same physical thing, but the reason that we want it may be different. Therefore, the energy that's attached to it, or the energy that we're calling on from it, is different for everybody. It's no different than a person, right? Like, even coming to this meeting tonight, different people who attended this meeting have different intentions with this for this meeting. They desire to pull a different energy from this meeting. You will manifest what you align with. You will manifest what your intention is. You will manifest what it is that you deeply desire to pull from that thing. It's a, it's a, it's, it's no different from a transmutation, right? To transmute some energy, right? So, how can you pull the energy from this and attract it and align it and bring it into self, right? So, that is what you have to really decide and know for sure. And you do this with each individual thing that you are manifesting. For some people, they want to manifest a job. You decided that this is the job you want. You manifesting this job. My question to get at a mastery level of manifestation with step one, which is deciding, is you asking yourself why. Why do I want this job? Why isn't the job over here good enough, or the job over there? Why do I want this job? And when you're really trying to get to the truth of the why, what is your deep desire to feel and experience in that position, in the position of that job? What is your deep desire to feel and experience when you are in that position? And that will help you get to the root of deciding. Because to decide at a basic level, basic manifestation is just to say the physical thing. But when you're mastering manifestation, you're focused in on the energy and you are manifesting in abundance and alignment with that energy. Okay? I hope that's understandable. And that's just step one with the deciding. Okay?
Now, and again, don't feel the pressure of like, okay, I don't know how to do that. I'm not there yet. That is okay. It's no different than taking a college course, right? You take, you, you go to college. Some people are in 101. Some people are in 102. Some people are in 2011. Some people are in 404 and are seniors and about to graduate. And some people are in grad school and getting their masters in it. Right? It's no different. I too, like many of you, started in, and really started in remedial. I started in '07 one. Okay? Because when I, like I said, when I first watched the documentary "The Secret," this was many years ago. I was in college undergrad at that time. So interesting, right? That I was in remedial for manifestation. I, although I was aware somewhat of what manifestation was, I was not aware of the detail that goes into it. And I had to work my way up to mastery level manifestation. So I had to work my way up to getting to the root of what I wanted to, to understand how to align with the energy and the frequency. I had to work towards that. And it took time. It took practice. Right? So again, I'm sharing with y'all some of the questions to be able to ask yourself to get to that mastery level.
Now the second step is visioning. So once you decide what you want at a basic level, you have the physical thing, right? At a master level, you have the energy. You need to vision. Now, what does it mean to vision? At a basic level to vision, and at a mastery level to vision. The process is similar, but the results will look different. Everybody needs to be practicing what I call holistic visioning. What does that look like? Let's start at the basic level. You want a house, right? You need to vision, and you could do this in meditation. You need to vision and see yourself in the house, right? See it. What does the house feel like? When you are in the house and you're visioning yourself in the house, what does it feel like? How are your emotions? What are your thoughts when you are in the house? When you're walking through the house in your vision, what's going through your mind? What emotions are you feeling? Yes. How does the house smell? Right. This is holistic visioning, right? You're, you're visioning from the mind, from the emotion, from the physical of being in the house, utilizing the senses. When you are walking through the house and you are something that's cooking, what is the meal that you're cooking in your house? What type of food is in your refrigerator? When you walk outside and you see the grass, how does the grass feel on your feet? Right? Well, what, when you eat your first meal of that house, what do you taste? When you breathe in the fresh air of that home, what does that fresh air taste like? Right? So, you practice holistic visioning in that way. What are the sounds that's all the way around you? What are the sounds that you hear when you are in the home? When you stand outside of your home, what are you hearing? That is holistic visioning, right? Are there a lot of birds? Are you seeing trees? Are you smelling the rain? What are you holistically seeing, feeling, fa, uh, touching, tasting, smelling holistically? What do you vision when you are in that house?
Now, that same process for master's level, but it's with the energy. You wanted the house. What is the energy of the home? Why did you want the house? What is the root of the energy? I wanted safety and calm. So now vision yourself in that energy, detach from the house. Vision yourself in the energy of safety and calm. When you are at a master's level, you have, you practice a, it's easy to practice detachment from the physical because we recognize that what I actually deserve and what's actually aligned with me may be bigger than that physical thing I want. So it's okay to start with a physical and to say, I want the house. But the root of what you want is the safety, the security, the calm. So you holistically vision, but you holistically vision the energy. When you are in safety and security, what does it look like? What do you see yourself doing? What does it smell like? How are your thoughts? What are your thought patterns when you are safe and secure? What are your emotions like when you are safe and secure? What's around you? Who's around you when you are safe and secure? So again, with the mastering manifestation, it's at a vision of, or you're tapping into a vision of yourself in the energy of what you desire. Not necessarily the physical thing, but in the energy of what you desire. It's not so much what does it, what does it look like, K. Cotton, it's what do you look like when you are in that energy? With the, with, uh, the foundation, or the basic level of manifestation, it, you're focusing on the thing. With mastery manifestation, you're focused on the God within you. That's the big difference. One is external, the other is internal. Mastery level is all internal. It's all understanding that everything that you desire in the atmosphere is a reflection of who you are. So you manifest from the inside out. With basic manifestation, you manifest from the outside in, right? So, I hope that that's understandable for everybody. Right? So again, with the mastery manifestation, the holistic visioning, it's about visioning yourself in the energy and fulfilling and embodying the energy versus with the basic manifestation, you're visioning yourself in the home. You're not visioning yourself being a manifestation of the energy. Mastery level, basic, you're visioning yourself in the thing. And I can't say enough, there's nothing wrong with either one. It's just about where are you? Where are you? Right? So that's, that's the only difference. And yes, it's holistic visioning. A lot of people think that with visioning, you're just supposed to meditate and see yourself in it, or just see yourself driving a car. It's more than just seeing yourself driving a car. You need to hear it. You need to feel it. You need to see it. You need to think about the thoughts. What are your thoughts when you are driving it? Manifest the emotions. Manifest the feelings. That's the holistic version of visioning. Okay? So that's step two is the holistic visioning. And I'll put the, um, matter of fact, I'mma just take a screenshot and put it in the chat. So, what y'all can do is if you want to follow along and take notes, you can, um, do that and put a, a screenshot of all the non-steps. And then if you want to follow along on your own and take notes, you can do that, cuz I didn't write no full out notes. I just wrote down my steps. There you go. It's in the chat right now.
Now the third step, which is scripting. And I will be very clear about this. Scripting is important. Scripting can look different for different people, right? And I say that because some people think that scripting looks like actually writing a script, like you're writing a movie or a play. And that's completely fine. For some people, scripting is a journal entry, right? Like writing a journal and saying what you want and explaining what you want. And that's completely fine. For some people, scripting is vision boarding. Vision boarding is a version of scripting. The vision is happening through thoughts, through energy. Putting it down on paper is you're scripting it, right? So, script it. Now, at a basic level, when you are scripting it, you're doing any of those things. You're writing it into a journal. When I say writing it, I'm talking about writing your vision. Because the key thing and the value of scripting is that you have to release the energy from just your internal and put it in the universe. That's the value of scripting. This is the major important step to get it from just your internal energetic being and release it. It's like calling the frequency to you. Calling the energy to you. That is the value of scripting. You decide, you vision, then you call the energy in. That's the scripting, right? Now, how do you call it? How do you release it? At a basic level, it would be your vision boarding. It would be your journaling, right? Where you're, you're just writing down your vision. The vision boarding, you would be making like a collage, or you could, vision boards could look a variety of different ways. I have a vision board made of dinker symbols. I have a vision board made of colors, which each color represents different things. I have a vision board. My very first one was the old-fashioned vision board, which is like pictures and words. So vision boarding can look a variety of different ways. You can also vision board on your phone. I know people use like Canva and different things. The key is just getting it out and putting it into the universe. Right? Again, same thing with the journal entry. You can literally just write down your vision. Write down what you see. Speak it into the universe. Another practice of visioning that a lot of people do is the voice notes, right? Speaking it to the universe, speaking it into the phone. That is a form of scripting. The key with scripting is, and when you say script, a lot of people think of just like actual writing script, which is a part of it, but script is you releasing the vibration from your body and writing it into the atmosphere, the, the frequency of the universe. That's what the script is. The script is not so much the physical thing. The script is you writing your energy in the, the, the fabric of the universe. That's how you are calling it in. That is what scripting is.
Mastery level scripting. You don't necessarily have to do the vision board. You don't necessarily even have to do the journal entry. Your life, your movements, your thoughts, the way you speak is the script. You embody it. You embody it. Your action, the way you move, everything. You embody the energy. You become the energy. You show up as the energy. That's master level scripting. You become the energy. Right? Now, at a basic level, that will happen. But further down the line, further down the line, at a basic level, it takes a few more steps for you to get there. But at mastery level, you can go straight from deciding what you want, visioning what you want, and then becoming that. And it happens, right? That's it. And it's easy for you to do that. It's easy for you to manifest as and show up in that energy. It's easy for you to do that. It's not hard work, right? It just feels natural to you. Once you have the vision, your living becomes a practice and a manifestation of the vision, and everything that's aligned with that just comes to you. So the thing with mastering manifestation, and this is why it just is easy for you to manifest whatever it is you desire. I can tell you as a master manifestor, the, because you know, it's interesting because it's not that everything, it's not that things don't stop becoming work. The work changes because when you become a master manifestor, the work then becomes being intentional about what you don't manifest. Right? You got to be intentional about what you don't engage in, what you don't watch, what you don't speak, what you don't align with. Because it's so easy for you to manifest, you have to be intentional. You can't play with [ __ ] when you are a master manifestor. You can't be in and out of things that you don't desire. You can't be in and out of crowds that you don't desire because it's so easy for you to become. It's so easy for you to multiply energy. So you have to be super delicate about what energy and what frequencies you align with. That's the difference. So with mastering manifestation, once you get to that space, what you then have to work on and master is your discipline. That's what you have to master is your discipline. Right? Because being a master manifestor can be dangerous when you don't have the discipline to not go to the event. When you don't have the discipline to stop hanging around that person. When you don't have the discipline to stop picking up the phone. When you don't have the discipline to stop watching those types of shows and movies. When you don't have the discipline to stop listening to that music. When you don't have the discipline, right? So that's becomes the part that you really have to master. To be a master manifestor is a beautiful thing, but it ain't pretty when you don't have the discipline. Cuz that music you listening to and you on that vibe and you on that energy, and that energy shows up in your life that day. Then what? See that music you listen to for fun, right? Where they talking about shooting and killing and this and that, and you turned up. Turned up. But you don't even realize that as a master manifestor, you are becoming that energy. You're aligning with that frequency. And then when it's at your door, then what? So you can't even play with those types of things no more. You can't even tap in and out of that, right? You have to be super careful and you have to protect yourself, protect your mind, protect your spirit because you can't play with tapping in and out of what you show up as because what you show up as, you will become. Right? So that's the difference there. Right?
Now again, at the basic level of manifestation, when you are truly and deeply at the phase of scripting, it's a great thing because now you know it's out in the universe, but then you have some time and a little bit more freedom to build on it. This is when you start aligning with the energy and becoming more aware of the energy once you physically see it. You see it written on the paper. You see the pictures on the vision board. You see the, the, the, the frequency of the voice note. You get to see it, right? Seeing the energy, seeing the thing, you get to see it. So it, it kind of helps you to better be able to define and align with the energy. So for most people who are at the basic level of manifestation, this is when they take it from the physical and go to the energy. At master level manifestation, you are already in the energy. You are, your scripting is you being the energy. And that's the huge difference right there.
Now the fourth one, the chanting, right? And this is again, at master level manifestation, you are already at the energy. You're chanting. You are the "I am," right? So the "I am" mantras are easy. Once you are at master level manifestation, you don't even necessarily have to do the chanting or any of the rest of these steps in the form of being intentional about trying these steps. You are already moving through steps four through nine. The chanting is just a part of who you are. The serving, the gratitude, the work is just a part of who you are. All of that comes natural. But if you are a beginner, once you have put it into the universe and you scripted it, you need to look at your script and ask yourself, how can I turn this script into "I am" mantras? How can I turn this script into the energy or the thing that I want to become? Right? And this is when they really start to define what it is that I want to be that's in alignment with the physical thing that I want. So again, taking it to the example of the house, right? Okay. So you wrote down how you think in the house, how you feel in the house. You wrote down what you see in the house. All of that turn into "I am" mantras. "I am thinking blank." "I am seeing blank." "I am feeling blank." "I am moving like blank." "I am blank." Right? So you turn all of that into "I am" mantras and you chant those "I am" mantras on a regular basis. You chant them on a regular basis. And what that does is that aligns you with the frequency. And see, for a lot of beginners, the part that they struggle with is this part, but this is the, the solution to it because they can't fully, they don't believe it. Something I've realized with a lot of people with manifestation is you want what you want, but you don't even deeply believe that you are worthy of it, or that it's possible for you. And that's, that's where it gets broken for a lot of people. A lot of people's vision never leave the paper. A lot of people's vision never leave the board because your mind doesn't even believe it. So the "I am" mantras helps to literally change the frequency and the thought patterns of your brain. You need to heal your brain. You need to fix your brain. Your bridge is clogged with a lack of worthiness, with low self-esteem, with past trauma. Chanting the "I am" mantras shifts the thought patterns and the frequency of your brain. In order to manifest, you have to be a master of your mind. Okay? Those "I am" mantras is how you can master your mind. And I do understand that for some people, it may feel a little bit difficult to be able to do this, right? Like, how do I master my mind? But again, you need to release control over trying to be perfect and trying to be somebody who you think or deem as spiritual. And you have to show up as what's spiritual to you. And the way to do that is by starting this process where you decide what is true for you. Literally, if you start from step one, you are deciding what you want. You are visioning who you want to be. You are scripting who you want to be. And then you are calling yourself into that energy with the "I am" mantras. So, you're not trying to be like somebody else. You're not trying to follow somebody else. You're literally deciding who you are and following yourself. You are becoming your own leader. Right? And that is the big difference. Nobody can change your mind for you. Nobody can fix your brain for you. Nobody can clear your bridge for you. Only you can do that with discipline and practice. And that the practice is literally chanting the "I am" mantras. As I told y'all before, when I went to Bali, uh, to, was that 2017? I believe that's when I learned, 2017, 2018, maybe. I think 2017. I think I don't know, something like that, right? But when I went to Bali and I was studying Hinduism, that's when I learned how to properly chant, right? And that's when I, because I, you know, I used to chant my "I am" mantras. "I am well." "I am peace." "I am joy." "I am love." But when I realized that it's more than just that, that's a great start, right? And they told me this, that that's, that's basic chanting. That's the beginner's level chanting. Mastery chanting. And I would sit and watch the Elder, Elder monks. That [ __ ] sounded like [Music]. That's literally what, like you would be like, what? But it's almost like you are putting yourself in a trance, right? Because what you're really doing is quantum leaping. What you're really doing is quantum jumping. The power of master chanting. Okay? When you master chanting, you know how to follow a rhythm and a breath. You're following a rhythm and the breath. The breath is relaxing your nervous system. The rhythm is elevating the vibration. And what's happening is is your spirit is elevating beyond the physical body. That's what's happening. You'll even notice, right, that when you get into that high trance level of chanting, which usually for most people, it doesn't happen in 10 seconds or a minute, and it usually doesn't happen on the go. In order to practice this, you need to sit and dedicate about an hour and choose, uh, you could choose anywhere between one to two or three chants. Right? For me, I like to do about three, right? So, let's say if I'm doing "I am well," "I am peace," "I am whole," and I'm choosing my rhythm and choosing my breath, right? So, what you want to do is start with what feels natural. And that's another thing, right? When it comes to master chanting, a lot of people, they are, they choose the type of breath that they want. Right? I want to, no, just start with the chants and what breath feels natural for you. "I am well." "I am peace." "I am whole." "I am well." "I am peace." "I am whole." Inhaling. "I am well." "I am peace." "I am whole." As I'm saying the words, I'm exhaling. "I am well." "I am peace." "I am whole." "I am well." "I am peace." "I am whole." "I am well." "I am peace." "I am whole." And as you continue to do that, you will naturally increase in pace. Naturally. You don't even have to try to intentionally do it. You don't even have to try to intentionally increase. You don't have to say, "By minute one, I'm going this fast. By minute two, I'm going." No. Naturally, the difference is, as you master it, how long it takes for you to get to trance level, transcendent level of chanting will get shorter and shorter. So you can go from "I am well," "I am peace," "I am whole." "I am well," "I am peace," "I am whole." To "I am well," "I am peace," "I am whole." "I am well," "I am peace," "I am whole." "I am well," "I am peace," "I am whole." "I am well," "I am peace," "I am whole." "I am well," "I am peace," "I am whole." "I am well." "I am peace." "I am whole." "I am well." "I am in peace." "I am whole." "I am well." "I am peace." "I am whole." Like you can go there faster and faster and faster and faster and faster, and it'll just happen. And it's not just saying, like, even in this moment where I'm just doing it, I'm giving you an example. But if I really wanted to focus in, there's an energetic elevation that happens as the rhythm increases. Right? So you will feel yourself start to come out of your body. Right? You will feel yourself kind of come out of the physical. And this is what it feels like. You don't even, literally, you do not feel your physical body anymore. You don't feel it. You don't feel it. You don't feel your physical. You are sitting. You don't feel yourself sitting. You don't feel your physical body. All you can see is colors. You can literally see sometimes and feel vibration, but you feel like your spirit is elevated beyond this plane. That is the quantum leaping process. That's what it looks like. That's the process of aligning with the vibration. You are elevating beyond your physical moment and aligning with the vibration of that. Right. Yes. Similar to Angela Basset, and "What's Love Got to Do With It?" Remember, like, as she, I didn't even think, remember, as she got better with it, because when the sister first told her how to chant, she was numb. [Music] They was going real slow. And remember, as she got better, and she was in that room, and Ike was playing the music, and the door was closed, and she was in there, and it was numb. Like, she got so good with it. Comes with practice and comes with time, right? And the crazy thing is, Angela said she really did study Buddhism and learn chanting just so she could be able to execute that role well. So again, it just teaches you the power of the breath in the process of taking your time. But this is the process of becoming the energy. As I said, when we talked about scripting, when you are a master manifestor, you are already there. You are already there. So chanting is a part of your natural process anyway. It's a part of your natural experience anyway. So you are already there. It's already what you do, right? It's, it's, you are already the energy. So it doesn't, you don't have to work as hard to elevate out of your body to be in the energy. You are already there. So walking down the street, you are in the energy. Driving your car, you are in the energy, and you could feel the vibration without having to chant to elevate to the vibration. But again, still, the chanting is a part of your natural process, right?
Now, um, detaching. Detaching. And this is for the beginner's level or the basic level of manifestation. Once you get to that space where you have felt and experienced the vibration of your desire, you detach from the physical thing. You detach from the house, which is the example I've been using. You detach from that because now you've experienced the energetic frequency, the vibration of the root of what that house carries, the energy that house carries for you. Now you have gotten to the energy. So detach from the house. And this is the key is the detachment because what will happen is is sometimes that physical thing that you want is actually lower than the vibration that you have aligned with. So now you have to lower back down to meet the house. With the chanting, you've transcended to the vibration of what you deeply desire. But if you stay attached to the house, now you got to lower back down to meet the house. Then what? Then what? You stay attached to the job. You've energetically transcended beyond the job. Now you got to lower back down to meet the job. And here's the dangerous thing about that. You've given the physical more power than your spiritual. You've given the physical more power than your spiritual. And the danger of that is the spirit leads the mind, the mind leads the body when you are moving in proper order. But when you are leading with the physical, when you're leading with the flesh, the flesh will convince the mind to go against the spirit. You won't even recognize the phys, the bigger physical thing, or the bigger opportunity that's out there for you. Your mind will talk your spirit out of what it knows because you are following the physical. And this is another phase that I noticed that a lot of people get stuck at. A lot of people will get stuck at this phase where you know you have experienced this vibration. You know that you are worthy. You know you can feel it. But when the opportunity comes that's aligned with the vibration, you talk yourself out of it. And that's where your anxiety comes in. That's where your second guessing comes in. That's where, oh, you trying to take other people's opinion and get other people's advice. When you are at master level manifestation, you don't really need anybody else to advise you on what to choose. Your spirit just knows because you are at that vibration. So everything that's aligned at that vibration is your comfort place. Anxiety has no control. You are comfortable there. You are safe there. Right? When you are a master level manifestor, you are, you have embodied that vibration. So, anything aligned with that feels like home. It feels safe. But for people who get the new opportunity, or get the new house, or get something else that's not what you originally thought you want, you can't even recognize that this is bigger than what you originally thought you wanted. And because you haven't gotten to the space where you trust the energy, you will talk yourself out of it. And that's you lowering your vibration to stay attached to that physical thing as opposed to detaching and recognizing home when you see it. A lot of people don't recognize home when they see it because they're still detached from some, to something that's lower than them. Right? So that's where, like, you really have to do your work to detach from the physical thing. Yes, being attached. It, it can be family. It can be other people. It can be your own past trauma and your own experience of what's normal for you. The beautiful thing about elevating your vibration is the moment that you can recognize and look around and see that certain things that you used to think was normal was not normal. Certain things that you used to think was prosperity was not prosperity. Certain things that you used to think was love was not love. When you have experienced a high vibration of true authentic love, you no longer find home in anything less than that. But when your version of love is attached to a person, you find safety in that person. Therefore, you will lower your vibration of the love that you know that you are worthy of and accept that lower vibration of love that that person may be giving you. Right? And that person could be family. It could be a partner. It could be anything, right? But that's what it looks like. That's what it looks like. So sometimes you even have to detach from the people. You even have to detach from the people. And you will know that a person is your person when you can remain at that high vibration and they feel like home. They feel like home. It's not even a question. Your person, the love of your life should feel like home when you are at your highest vibration. They should feel like home. And it, it's easy. You don't have to do mind tricks and convince yourself that this is home. You don't have to accept less than what you deserve for, for you to tell yourself this is home. It feels easy. Okay? And it's the same thing for family, right? Everybody in our, well, for mo, for, for most people, everybody in your family is not detrimental to your wellness. Some people in your family are actually home at that high vibration. Some people in your family are actually love at that high vibration. But you have to recognize who ain't right. You have to recognize who ain't. And you have to, the, the only way you'll recognize it. It's not about pointing the finger at them and blaming them. You have to take accountability and be aware of when you are lower, lowering your vibration to be in their presence, to be on that phone with them, to be in, in an energy exchange. If you have to lower your vibration to be in an energy exchange, that's not home. If you have to lower yourself to exchange energy, or accept the fact that you just giving and it ain't no exchange, that's not home. So, just something to consider. But again, that's the value of detaching because once you detach, it becomes easy to assess what's home. It becomes easy to assess what's safety. It becomes easy to assess that, okay, now number six, work/live. And again, this is for the basic level of manifestation or beginner's level of manifestation with the work/live because you start to work toward your desire and you work toward your desire by living it, right? You, by living it. So you are working and showing up and living in that energy, in that vibration. Once you have transcended spiritually and energetically and mentally to that vibration, you have to start living and moving and working like it, right? You have to start working in that vibration. Living in that vibration. And for a lot of people, that is the work. But it's again, it's not hard work because it, you are at that vibration. It's just you being naturally who you are. But here comes the hard part for people. For a lot of people, the hard part becomes undoing societal conditioning of who you should be. Right? Sometimes society has taught you and told you that in this world, we move like this. In this world, we only help people who help us. In this world, we only love people who love us. When you are working and living as the high vibration energy that you desire, you are going to be the weirdo in the world. You are going to be the outlier in the world. You just are. The world is not conditioned to be at that high vibration. What their norm is, I'll give you, let me give you a very minor example. Well, I was in the grocery store yesterday, right? Went to the, I was just, uh, running. I wanted to get like a, a water, a lollipop, you know, just running to the store. Just a couple of things. So, I was, I, times like that, I don't bring no purse. I just grab cash. Before I left the house, I grabbed a $10 bill. My spirit said, "Get another $10. Have $20." And whatever's left, you bless somebody with it, right? So, get to the, got me a water. Got me a water and two lollipops and a, and they had the cinnamon cones, right? The little cinnamon for the, for the decoration. I love those like cinnamon brooms, but cinnamon pine cones. Y'all get into them. Huh? Got them some cinnamon pine cones. I said, and that's why spirit told me get that, get that extra $10. Huh? Cuz my, my water, my two lollipops was under $10. When I saw them cones, baby, I got up out of line and got them cinnamon pine cones and came and came, came back in line. So, I was blessed and thank God I followed my spirit and bought that other $10. When it was time for me to get that, my change back, it was $5 and some change. So, the cashier counted it out and she was, I said, "You can keep the change." And she thought that I was only talking about the coins. So, she went to hand me the five and the receipt, and I like slid the receipt from under the five. I said, "You can keep all the change." And she was like shocked. And the man behind me was like, "Wow, in this world, that's not normal." In this world, people don't tip the cashier at the grocery store for rigging up the groceries. In the world, that's not normal. Right? And again, I'm giving you a very light example. That's an example of you following your spirit and you do what spirit tells you to do even when in society you have not been conditioned to believe that that is normal in the society you live in. There was a reason that my spirit told me to get that extra $10 and whatever is left over, you bless whoever is there. And I didn't know who was who I was gonna bless. I didn't know who I was going to interact with. But this is how I decided to, to tell her to keep the change. When I grab the following spirit, look, every step of the way. Following spirit. Grab the extra $10. Get to the store. See the pine cones. Oh my god, they got the cinnamon pine cones. I get the pine cones. Go back to the line. She said, she picks up the cones. She's like, "I love these cones." "They smell so good." She said, "My favorite thing is coming off the escalator and smelling the cones." Is that? We start talking about the cones. It was late at night when I went. The store was about to close, y'all. It's late at night. This sister was kind. She sparked up a gentle conversation. We exchanged energy about the beauty of something that we both love. Just a gentle soul. You deserve that, sis. You deserve to be blessed for your kindness. You deserve to be blessed for your gentle energy. It's late at night. The store is closing. I'm sure you are tired. Everybody doesn't get blessed for just saying hello. Everybody doesn't get blessed for just saying, "This is beautiful." You like that? I love that too. There's an energetic lesson here. And again, I'm telling you, this is a very minor version of what I'm talking about, which is to just live it. But when you are just living in that energy, again, it, even the man behind was like, "Wow, wow." Because that is not normal. That's not normal. So sometimes spirit will lead you to do things that's simply not normal. Sometimes spirit will lead you to show up in ways that is simply not normal. And that's a very minor example. I can't say that enough. There are bigger ones, right? And that's what it looks like. Blessed to be a blessing. But to be blessed to be a blessing, I'm talking about $5. But blessed to be a blessing looks like giving the sister a compliment even if she don't say hello back or she don't say thank you. Holding the door for somebody. We talked about this with the seven spiritual laws of success with the law of giving. Even if the person don't say thank you for holding the door, you followed your spirit and you did what you felt like was right. Right? When you see somebody who looks like they need to, need to talk, hey, how you doing today? You know, some, something may draw you to somebody. You go to them and just spark up conversation, and you may have been the energy that they needed to get them through the next moment, right? Just not even you saying something, just you being there and and seeing them. They just needed to be seen to get them to the next moment. That's what it looks like. That's what it looks like. So, you don't move according to what society tells you to expect other people to do. You don't move according to societal rules and what society says is normal. You follow your spirit with how you interact with people, with how you interact with things, with how you, you follow your spirit with that. Right? And that's what it looks like to live at that high vibration, to be that high vibrational energy. You follow your spirit. And in the words of Mama Maya Angelou, do right. You just do right. You do right. But see, the thing is, right is subjective to the vibration. Doing right is subjective to the vibration. It's based on the vibration that you are at. Somebody's version of right at a lower vibration is not the same as somebody's version of of right when they vibrating high. It's just not. So, and then people will talk about, oh, well, karma, karma, karma. This is where karma comes in, right? Because something I've heard people say in the past is, oh, well, karma is only real if you believe it. No, you are always attracting what you desire. But guess what? When that lower vibration is what's normal, that low vibrational [ __ ] feels like home for you. You don't even recognize your bad karma when it shows up because being in terrible situations is your normal. Right? This I tell people who, people who steal are always going to be in lack. That is their karma. People who steal are always going to be in lack and be in a position where they feel like they need to steal. That is their karma. But lack feels like home to them. So they can't even recognize that karma coming, coming to them because lack feels like home. You see what I'm saying? So doing right, they don't even see nothing wrong with what
They're doing because wrong feels like home to them. So this is why you cannot concern yourself with the karma of others, with the energy of others, what's right and wrong to others, because what's right and wrong to you may be that right and wrong at your vibration. But I'm vibrating here. I'm vibrating here. You can't determine what's right and wrong for me. You can't determine what's high or low for me. Only I will know that based on my own vibration. Okay? And you can't talk yourself out of it either. Okay?
Which is why I said this. Why you got to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. You got to get comfortable with being the weirdo in the world. You got to be comfortable with being the girl in the grocery store that's just like, "Well, why would she do that?" Right? But you you just have to be comfortable. You know, sometimes, you know, speaking of tipping, sometimes something I like to do when I can is I will tip the person working more than I what I know they make in an hour, right? And for most people in the state of Georgia, they're not making $20 an hour when they're working as the cashier. They're not making $20 an hour when they're working at the barista. So, I have no problem handing somebody the $20 or handing somebody $15 when you know that you're tipping them more than they make in an hour and that just blessed them cuz it got them through the next hour. Or sometimes it may have blessed them cuz they may be able to say, "I could go home an hour early today and I need that for my wellness cuz I got my hourly wage, right?" So, sometimes that's what it looks like. Society will tell you that that sounds crazy. You some Sometimes I tip more than what my coffee costs, right? You tip more than your drink. It's not about I I don't judge how much I tip based on how much something costs. I follow my spirit. I follow my spirit, right? It's not you don't determine a society can't determine for me how much I should bless somebody with or how much I should give somebody. I follow my spirit. Okay?
So that's what it looks like to live in it. And again, I'm not just talking about money here. I'm talking about with the energetic exchange of love energy, of peace, energy, of compliments, of a listening ear, of advice, right? Sometimes eye contact, just letting somebody know you see them, all of that is energetic. Okay?
Now, the seventh is to receive. And once you become, once you work and you live in your vibration, you will start to receive everything that's in alignment with that vibration. Now, how do you receive? I taught y'all this lesson before. Shout out to Denise, one of my doula teachers who taught me. She used to work a lot in Bali. And she taught me a very powerful lesson, right? I was I was a a show out in my doula class, right? So, I was like doing really well in the class and you know, she she just really loved my energy and we had great exchanges, right? And she wanted to bless me with like this tapestry thing that they make in Bali. So, she was like, I really want to give you I want to gift you something. And I said, "Oh, thank you." You know, not thinking nothing of it. So, she folds it up and she she tells me to come over and she's like holding it in her hands like she's holding her hands like this, right? So, she tell me to come over, she's holding her hand. So, she's holding it out to me like this. So, my my natural response at that time was to reach for it, right? So, I'm like, and it was funny, y'all, because it was like a little awkward moment cuz she holding it like this. I'm holding the other side. I'm like, "Okay, I think all right." She said, "No, no, no. Put your hands back." So, I'm I'm like, "Okay." So, she put the blanket down. She put the tapestry down and she said, "I'm blessing you with something. When you need to receive, you don't have to reach for it. You just open your hands and you receive it. Oh, [ __ ] Oh, [ __ ] That was a [ __ ] lesson. My mindset was reflected in my physical action. And that's a bonus lesson. My mindset was reflected in my physical action. She was blessing me something and I thought to receive it, I too had to reach out and grab it. But when somebody when the universe is blessing you with something, you just open yourself up and you received it. You receive it. So that's another practice when it comes to receiving. When it comes to manifesting, you have to learn to just be open to receive. You don't have to reach to grab when something is for you. When the universe is blessing you with something, you just open and you receive. That's it.
And what does that look like? What does it look like to not reach to grab? What does it look like to just be open to receive? You ain't trying to hustle for it. You ain't trying to scam for it. You ain't trying to outdo nobody else for it. You ain't even got to compete for it. When the blessing is for you, all you need to do is just be present and be open and know that what is for you, you shall have and you receive it. You receive it. And this is what it looks like for blessings to just come for you just to get the email that, hey, I was talking to somebody and this person recommended you for this opportunity. Would you want it? Hey, I such and such uh works at this place and we have a position open. They told me that they worked with you five years ago. This literally happened to me. They were back when I moved to Georgia. Somebody emailed me about a teaching opportunity cuz they heard about me from an old coworker of them that worked with me more than five years before that. Right. I found you. I we got this opportunity. I wanted to see if you would be interested in it. Right? You just cross somebody's mind when it's time to give a blessing. The thought of you happens and comes up and pops up when somebody has a blessing in mind. When somebody is vibing at that vibration, you are a part of that vibration. So, it just happens for you. It just happens for you. You are just blessed with certain things. And to the outside world, your life just looks so easy. Your life just looks so easy. Damn, it seemed like everything you want, you get it. Your life just seems so easy, but they don't even realize the steps one through six that you did. They don't even realize all the the the spirit. See, that's spiritual work. people just watching you get blessed and watching you get the opportunity and watching you get all of this love and they don't even realize it's because I did one through six and really six because I'm still I'm still living in that high vibration. I'm still working in that high vibration. It's just natural to me. You can't even recognize it. Why? Because you're not at this vibration. You can't even recognize it. you can't see the work I'm doing because you ain't there. And that's another way you know how to recognize when somebody is not at your vibration. When they can't even see that your life is a reflection of the vibration that you are at. They can't see you there. I'm telling y'all from personal experience. When I'm on my balcony in my penthouse, I don't know what the [ __ ] somebody else doing at the ninth floor. I can't even see them. Even when I look down, literally, I cannot see them. And not to say that the people at the ninth floor is doing bad. I don't think that at all. Not to say that they worse to me. I don't think that at all. But when somebody is at a lower vibration than you, they can't see you and you can't see them. Okay? They doing them, you doing you, but they wondering why you receiving so many different blessings. Why your air up there feel different? They wondering. They wondering, right? So that's what you have to re realize when it comes to receiving. You don't need to reach for [ __ ] You just need to be open. Just be open. Be open to receive. Okay.
Now, once you are open to receiving and you start receiving, you have to live in full gratitude for everything. Even the little things, the little blessings. And when I say the little blessings, the little blessings is really the bigger blessings. Being able to turn on the water faucet, full gratitude every time. Literally, I was mopping my floor earlier and I was just like, "Thank God this water is running today. Thank God the water is running. The water is running hot. Thank God for that. Thank God for it." Huh? Lord, I thank you. It's the little blessings that you become the most grateful for. You have to live a life in full gratitude. And then when you get those opportunities, even the opportunities you don't you you're not going to take, I still give gratitude for the fact that I was even thought of and considered for the opportunity. I'm grateful to know I'm a person who's worthy of opportunity. Even if I'm not going to take that, I'm grateful to to be worthy of the opportunity. I'm grateful to be worthy of the email. I'm grateful to be worthy of the thoughts. I am grateful for that. I'm grateful for that. Even for the job that you don't want, be grateful that they considered you. I'm grateful that they saw me as worthy of being offered that job. I'm grateful for that. Right? You wanted the job at this place. Okay. You you only got McDonald's. Well, [ __ ] at least whoever worked at McDonald's saw you as worthy of working. They saw something in you and said this person is worth it. That's more than enough. And if one person can see your worth, another person can see your worth. Right? So you find the gratitude and align with the gratitude in every single thing. Okay?
And then the last step is to serve because one thing you can never forget to do and shout out to J Shetty, think like a monk. Something that came up multiple times was service, service, service. When you are truly living the law of dharma, when you are truly living in your purpose, your purpose is to serve. How do you serve though? What does it look like to serve? To serve means to understand your space in the infinite all and play your role. Your natural role in the infinite all is a role of service. As a spirit being born in human form in this time, how is my natural role service to the infinite all? How am I of service to the greater energy? How am I of service? And being of service looks like going back to step six, which is continuing your work and continuing to live at that high vibration energy. You just realize and recognize that my entire existence in life is service. The way I move, the way I think, the way I move about this world, the way I exchange energy with people, it's all of service. But I'm too being served, right? It's an energetic exchange within the infinite all. So the service does not look like, you know, shucking and jing and leaning and bowing. It looks like how am I making sure that my energy is properly being exchanged at this at its highest level with the infinite oil with everything? How am I of service to the trees? How am I of service to the water? How am I of service to the land? How am I of service to other people? How am I of service to the animals? How am I of of service to other infinite energy beings all throughout this experience? How am I of service? And then when you realize and recognize that, you'll look around and realize you are being served as well. K. Cotton said a smile to everyone. And that's a fact. And every time somebody smiles to you, you'll be able to see the service in them. That's what I mean when I say the energetic exchange. If you can recognize that smiling at somebody is of is service. When somebody smiles at you, you see the service in them. When you compliment somebody, that's the law of giving. that is a part of your work and living at that high vibration. When somebody compliments you, you receive that as service to you and you are grateful to that. So that's what I mean with the energetic exchange of the infinite all right constantly being of service and the service always comes back to you right?
So those were the nine steps family like I said I wanted to give supposed to be quick um was kind of quick hour right but I wanted to give that that quickish breakdown about manifestation when you are at a basic level and at a mastery level how to get from basic level to mastery level because the big the biggest thing to understand like I said I too started at basic level as well right that's I I started learning with the documentary the secret and went down a rabbit hole and in a lifetime of practice and all of that and one thing I can tell you is that when you get to mastery level like I said it becomes easy it becomes easy because your natural life is really all of this right it's all of one through nine that's just your natural life and natural existence the only difference with basic and mastery is that With basic, you are learning to be intentional about each step. At mastery, every step is just a part of your natural experience. So, you don't have to be as intentional about it. It's just always who you are. What with with time and consistent practice from basic level, you will get to mastery. You will get to mastery, but you just have to be consistent in your practice with that, right? And don't forget what I said, family. This is going to be the biggest thing for a lot of people. It's your mind. It's your mind. It's your mind. That's going to be the biggest thing for a lot of people. It's going to be your mind. Okay? You have to overcome your mind. You have to unclog your bridge. You have to release and let go of some of that past trauma. But again, those anam mantras naturally helps to undo that. It naturally helps to break that connection.