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Pack your bags and we will see you in paradise. Again, text brother R O T H A to 972649572. [music] >> Let's go. Let's go. Let's go. Welcome to another episode of Ask a Brother podcast. I'm your host, Jeff St. James, and I'm going to tell y'all right now, I am excited. I am excited. I am excited. I told y'all last night, and I mean it. This is an episode that you guys are absolutely not going to want to miss for sure as I bring in tonight's special guest. Um, and like I said, guys, I have multiple guests that you all are going to be very, very interested to kind of see over the next span of of of the next few days or whatever, for sure. But real quick, shout out to the 52,262 subscribers. I just checked 5 minutes ago. Yeah. Yeah. It's very very very clear, man, that we are continuing to build this thing. And we went from like a dream of mine was to hit 10,000, then we hit 20,000. Now we're at 52 plus thousand subscribers. on the road on the road to 75 and maybe even 100,000 subscribers before we could imagine it. But before I get underway with anything else, uh thank you to today's sponsor, um DJ, uh the money coach, the Zanzibar giveaway. Thank you, Mrs. Plum for being able to always be consistent with this and all my admins that are pulling up. So guys, if you're currently watching, I highly, highly, highly recommend it. This is going to be an extremely probably funny and entertaining episode for sure. I'm going to just put it out there, letting y'all know straight off the rip. I want you guys to send this to as many people as possible to men for sure. I I'm telling you, I'm going to get prepared for the laughs. I don't know what the answers may be to these questions that I'm think that I'm starting to have up, but I'm telling you right now, I I think that this is going to be extremely fun, laidback, entertaining for sure. But if you're currently here in the chat, please let me know that you're in the building. I'm going to eyeball real quick and over the course of the interview, you guys know how it works. Feel free to uh hit that dollar sign super chat if you're enjoying it. If you want to uh share any particular comment that you want me to show on the screen, as well as if there's any question. Um and then last but not least, man. Um when I you know, thank y'all. Thank y'all for y'all support for last week with me kind of stepping away with my family issues with the death of the my family member and just transitioning with that. And like I said, I'm going to kind of cover it and talk about that a little bit more and just overall mental health for myself and for the audience sometime early next week, more than likely. Um, for sure. Um, with that said, let me see who's in the building and then we're going to jump into introducing tonight's guest. So, who we got here? Young uh Young Doom uh here for the front row courtside sees. Listen, brother. I appreciate you. And yeah, man. Thank you for um you know you know obviously when we're trying different things you you don't always hit um but the goal is to always be a channel where we're not afraid to take risk and bringing different guests different perspectives uh for sure and obviously Mrs. Plum is pulling up in the building for sure. So guys, if you haven't done so, again, send this to one, two, three, or even four people and let's get these numbers up because I'm telling you, when this when when we get going and I start throwing these questions out, I'm I'm going to be very very interested to see how the ladies respond to this particular uh guest for sure. Uh so you'll see who else is here in the building. Let me know if you guys are in because uh last night I think somebody said that they were from I think I think it was either the UK or or somewhere. So, I'm like, it's been awesome to see the people. And guys, we looked at our analytics. I meant to tell you this. We we're seeing a decentsized audience from South Africa, from Jamaica, from Canada, and from the UK on top of the US as well. So, kudos. And yeah, shout out to everybody. Shout out shout out shout out. Shout out to everybody from all over the world that's tuning in and watching and supporting this brand and this channel. For sure. It's it's an honor to be able to know that there's this just definitely there's actual people that's just waiting for special guests and episodes and concepts. And thank you to everybody that watched the one um episode I did put out last week, the one episode specifically as it relates to uh the Pander Spear um and and just the feedback and I think it was almost 7,000 of you that kind of enjoyed that. So, thank you, man. For sure. Who else we got? Who else we got? Jeff, I'm active duty Army US. All of my friends at uh Fort Belvour VA. Love your content. I'm so sorry for your loss and my prayers and all you and listen man that thank you for their prayers and this is crazy. This is crazy to see that uh a whole bunch of fellas um over in your unit are are enjoying this and this is letting me know that we're moving in the right direction. For sure, man. I love the psychological approach. Being a psych major myself, listen to Jeff has that expert level insight that goes a long way. Yeah, man. It kind of depends on what specific part of it for sure. Um, but I'm excited to be able to share this stuff. Absolutely. Um, and if my guest, if you if you're ready, just let me know. Um, because I'm getting ready to skim through, finish up these questions for sure and bring you on. And then last but not least, so guys, again, if you're here, send it to two, three, four, even five people. I'm telling you, I I'm telling you, this is probably going to be one of the more entertaining uh interviews that I have for sure. Um, I can't believe I caught a live show. Yeah, I'm going to get in the habit of start announcing them more in advance, by the way, guys. So, don't don't lose sight of that. Um, I was going through some other stuff for a little bit, but now we're kind of back on track. So, you're going to start seeing these interviews and stuff kind of lined up way way uh in advance. U Miss Couture in the building, my my home girl. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. My guy Noah. Yeah. Listen, man. Noah was with us last night during the movie book club on Monday nights. It was an incredible show. We may even have a surprise show lined up with some of the members from that as we react and respond to a particular topic. We'll probably let you know early next week on what that is. And like uh Mrs. Plum puts here. Guys, feel free to kind of hit the super chat. But my most important thing beyond the super chats or any of the special donations that you guys send, become a member cuz it's $2.99 per month and that's the easiest easiest way to be able to support the channel and brand besides the likes, shares, and uh hypes and all that other jazz. Uh, Cynical Optimist, welcome. Good brother. Welcome, welcome, welcome. And is there anybody else who I have not seen? Shout out to Robert Hall, man. In the building, Canada. Yay. Hey, that's what's happening. That's what's happening. Edward Samuels, what's going on? The international viewers are in the building for sure. So, like I said, man, this is going to be a triggering night. This is, guys, y'all going to learn so much about when you're engaging in this type of content and you bring on a guest like this. I I think that guys, you're going to realize the truth of of a whole lot of things and and you're going to hear a different view and concept of the red pill that I think is going to wake up a lot of fellas. And I'm telling you, what's going on, Michael Malice, man? Um, this is going to be I think this is going to be absolutely absolutely a phenomenal fun uh program and show for sure. So, thank you all for pulling up. Uh, Draco, yeah, man. Thank you. Thank you for pulling up. And last but not least, there anybody else who haven't seen Terry? Yep. Thank you. Welcome. Hey, Charlotte's in the building. Canada's in the building. Who else we got? Man, man, man. Yeah, man. This is going to be fun. This is going to be a good time. And listen, man, if y'all not part of that movie book club, what is you doing? It's It's on Mondays every Monday, uh, 8:30 Eastern Standard Time. Our men's self-improvement group, I literally just finished it. We're about to start watching a movie, um, that we're going to be discussing called, uh, F1. Uh, we already finished a book, we've already finished another movie, and now we're about to start a new one. and we're going to be talking about some particular plans and things for sure. Uh so yeah, man, get them likes up if you haven't done so. Uh, somebody walk Oh, Cleveland's in the building, man. So, listen, bro. This is going to be Hey, Chaos Rain is here. And then, oh, oh, we already starting it off, right? I DM'd you on IG, two Asian authors who wrote basic about a liberal interaction between the gray area race not being black but not white and reparations. I will try to find that. Um, I got to look between my two pages and the hundreds of DMs to try to find that for sure. And again, y'all, thanks Mrs. Plum for letting her know, letting everybody know. The links are in the chat, guys, for both the movie book club and for the men's group as well. So, listen, man. Without further ado, we're going to kind of hit the ground running because I'm excited about tonight's guest. I have been seeing her everywhere all over Instagram. I don't know what she's doing. I don't know who she paying. I'm like, why is she popping up? And the speed of how quickly her following is growing up. She her speed of her Instagram is pretty much very comparable to how quickly my YouTube has been growing up actually. So she is a wife. She is a mother. She is I'm going to call her an accountability expert. The ladies are some of the ladies are not a fan of her, but the reason why is because I think she was just honestly I think she's just telling the truth and the and countless countless men are sharing her videos because it's so refreshing to hear not only a woman but a black woman be able to talk about so many of the things that men have been wrestling with and struggling with for so long. So, I am absolutely excited about uh I'm absolutely excited about tonight's guest. So guys, without further ado, please help me welcome a person who has over 42,000 followers on Instagram and tons and tons of followers on Facebook alone. Please help me welcome to this to ask a brother for the first time to the stage, Miss Professor Pick Me. What's going on, madam? What's happening? >> When you see this [ __ ] you know it's me. [laughter] >> You know I'm about to pop my [ __ ] >> Yep. Yep. Yep. So, for starters, um, welcome to the show. Uh, I know this is your first time. And everybody that's in the chat, y'all better be respectful. Y'all better, uh, you know, you you can ask your questions, you can make your comments. Just make sure y'all aren't using curse words unnecessarily and don't use all caps. Um, but for starters, man, welcome. Thank you for coming through. >> Thank you. Can I I know this is your show, but let me correct you. You can be as disrespectful as you want to be. Just know [laughter] that I'm on your ass. So, >> she going to start it off right, y'all. So, I'm letting you know that this person um I'm just going to put it known like the the the the topics, the concepts. You are one of the funnier people that does dating related content. Start let me know and start us off with like how did you even decide to even get into content creation? >> Okay. So, um >> my mic is low. Can y'all hear me? Hey. >> Okay. That's my husband. He be like, "Oh, me. [laughter] Tell us what's up." >> That's like my social media manager. Okay. So, basically, I I had a sit down with my husband and I told him that I I wanted to get into, you know, being an influencer, but I didn't really know which like which way I wanted to go. I knew what [clears throat] I was good at, but I didn't know which way I wanted to go. I started off doing um body contouring and [ __ ] like that, like um laser lipo for women and [ __ ] like that. >> But so he said um he told me to write down a list of my friends and what their value was to me. So I did that and he said, "Now you need to call all of them and ask what your value is to them." So I'm like, "Okay." Everybody said I give good advice. I'm the real raw friend and I'm funny. So, I was like, you know what? I can just give relationship advice. >> So, that's how I got into this. >> How How have have your friends and family responded? Because what you're saying isn't normally something I think the sisterhood would be happy to hear is being put out there and the secrets is being exposed. How have people responded that you actually know? >> Well, I want to just say [ __ ] the sisterhood because uh >> Oh, she's starting it already. Go [laughter] ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead. Come up ahead. >> Yeah. I'm not a I'm not a girl's girl. I I I have a father, okay, that's still married to my mother. I have a husband and I have two sons. [ __ ] the sisterhood. That is like a bunch of delusional [ __ ] just bouncing dumb [ __ ] off each other. And I don't subscribe to that, right? I love women, but not dumb ones, right? So, um, everybody pretty much, the people that know me, they just know me. They know that I'm real. They know that I'm raw. If I got a home girl that's getting fat, I tell her she's fat. Like I'm not, you know, I don't sugarcoat [ __ ] I'm not holding your hand so that you can feel good about yourself. I don't do that. I just be real so that you can understand [ __ ] and make changes. >> Nice. Nice. Then so if that's the people that know you, what's it been like in terms of social media engagement with the comments and DMs from women that don't know you? >> Okay. Well, I'll say this. The way that I even got my name was from commenting on, you know, viral relationship posts and things that are supposed to be like, oh, you know, the man is terrible and stuff like that. I'll always have like a different mindset when it comes to that. And so it'll be [ __ ] in the comments like, oh, pick me, pick me, pick me. And I'm like, you know what? I like that name. I would much rather be a pick me than a skip me. But [ __ ] put professor before that. >> I'd rather be a pick me than a skip me. Why? Why do you think so many women are so angry about what you're saying? Like wouldn't it be helping people in terms of like moving better and being smarter with how to get a man and men knowing how to judge women? Why are you think the ladies specifically are so upset with you? >> I think that's be it's because it's just too much like right. It's just too much like right. >> I don't get it. It's we're it's like women are stuck in this delusion that everything they do is right and um they're perfect because they have a vagina and they just couldn't be any further from the truth. >> Hold on. We going to sit that. We can slow down right there. What's What's going on with your side of the species when it comes to how they approach relationships with men where we're the only ones that's expected to apologize? >> I think that it has a lot to do with upbringing. It's like >> we're we're supposed to be like everything is supposed to be sacred about a woman and a girl and you're a princess and everything's super soft and we don't want to hurt your feelings and things like that. And so when those people when we get older, that [ __ ] turns into a whole different beast. You get what I'm saying? So it's like we just we're fed that we're perfect and we're great and we're women and we make life and all of this stuff and then we give y'all our ass to kiss when we get grown. That's all. >> Okay, let me let me jump to the real topics I want to ask. Let's start with the women that are very very attractive, right? >> I'm talking like actual not not the everybody on social media saying they all 10 nonsense. I'm talking about like actual nines and tens, very attractive women. They got the body, the face, they they they they point. Why are so many extremely attractive women in your opinion single in this current dating market? >> I think that the personalities just don't match. It's like um when you have all of these things as a woman, you also have a sense of entitlement like a [ __ ] supposed to do this or a [ __ ] supposed to all of these things are supposed to happen to me because I look good when typically you you just get [ __ ] You know what I'm saying? [laughter] >> My bad. But why? Like you say it's a personality clash and difference. What how is how are they showing up personalitywise from your opinion? Is it just selfish? Is it or is it something else for why it is that I'm talking very attractive women are >> I think that is you're just in you're just entitled and it's like um what they call it pretty privilege. >> Yeah. >> You get what I'm saying? You expect [ __ ] to just fall at your feet and you know you supposed to just get what you want because you look good but looks fade. >> You get what I'm saying? >> Looks fade [clears throat] [ __ ] And they don't be realizing that until they get 40 and 50 and then it's the next [ __ ] that look good that's in her 20s. >> What's wild is I feel like a lot of very attract Well, women in general, but a lot of very attractive women, they they idolize and follow a lot of these celebrities, female celebrities. And I'm like, but you're watching women that's richer than you and look better than you also having difficulty in the dating market. So, I'm like, why wouldn't you kind of get the hint that maybe you got to bring more to the table than just looking good? I'm like, what's I don't get it, man. >> The thing is, people don't tell them that. >> People don't tell them that. It's like, all right, I'm a [ __ ] gonna [ __ ] with you right now cuz you look good. And that's that's like your claim to fame. >> You don't have no home girls that's telling you nothing different. Your mama don't know no better. You get what I'm saying? It's just that's just what it is. >> That makes sense. And it's true. And pretty privilege, it makes sense that pretty privilege will prevent women for long stretches when they have all those options from actually hearing about themselves because guys just want to, you know, make them happy, sleep with them. And I'm like, you're going years without actually hearing about yourself? That's how you wound up 40, 45, 50 plus and just talking about men ain't [ __ ] And I'm like, this is woo. >> That's it. When all you are what you attract. >> Question question. Top five states to find a a high quality man and a high quality woman. >> I'm I'm assuming they probably not in the same states, which is why so many people single, by the way. >> Well, I'll say this. >> I know where you can't find a [ __ ] at. Atlanta, Miami, Texas, New York, AND CALIFORNIA. >> OH, SHOTS IS GOING. SHOTS is going. You said hold on. Miami, Atlanta, you said where else? >> New York, Texas, and California. >> She So, the fact the fact that you said the whole states for the last few, [laughter] you just said the whole state of Texas. The whole state. >> The whole state. you that you cannot find a quality man or woman or both? >> Both. Both. >> Why? >> I just feel like it's too many [ __ ] to choose from and everybody is somebody there. >> You get what I'm saying? >> Everybody hold on cuz we going we going we gonna break this down for a second. Let's start with with what's wrong with the entire state of Texas for why you probably can't find a good quality man or woman in Texas. To be honest with you, I just heard about like the STD rates there. >> But that was But you know that was Houston. That to be fair, that was Houston. I'm trying to be fair to the state. [laughter] I'm trying to be fair to the state. I that's happening in Houston specifically that that >> anywhere is just too close for comfort. >> Move around. Go to Mississippi or Alabama or something. I don't know. Like somewhere else. >> All right. And then the other one you said was Atlanta. Um, I understand why it's so difficult to find men because a lot of the guy the men are, you know, uh, on the other side of the fence or or or or jumping back and forth. >> Yeah. >> Why is it Why would it be so hard to find a quality woman in Atlanta, though? They outnumber the men. There's there's a lot of them are actually straight. Why would you say Atlanta woman wouldn't be high quality to pick from? >> Because some of them aren't women either. Hold on. What you saying? What you saying? Nahuh. Don't we not skipping over? What you mean? >> Some of the women have dicks. I mean, I don't know. You probably got >> Oh my god. I didn't know. >> You can never be too sure. I don't know. I'm just saying. Have you been to Atlanta? >> I've been to Atlanta about Yeah, I've been to Atlanta two, three times. And um King of D shout out to King of Diamonds. Uh they showed love on my birthday a few years ago, y'all. I haven't been back since. And um you know I never heard of that. That's the first time I've heard it because I know like people make the comments about going to Thailand and everything and you know >> you can come to Atlanta. You can come to Atlanta. They're here. >> We we have a lot of lady boys. Is that what they call them in Thailand? >> Yeah. >> Oh my god. I >> And you know what the men the men consider them um what? Exotic. That's exotic. the the male the males that's transitioning or acting like they're women are exotic in Atlanta. >> Yeah. >> Cuz you you really have to think about it like a real woman nowadays is so easy to come by like to [ __ ] It's easy to [ __ ] a [ __ ] All you got to do is maybe give her a couple dollars, >> fly her out, buy her some food or something like she's going to [ __ ] So when women become so easy to obtain, [ __ ] want something else. >> Oh my god. I You making me have second thoughts about wanting to go to Oh my god. >> Just be careful. Be careful cuz they >> What's wrong with What's wrong with Miami? Miami people. What's What's going on with them? >> Y'all answer that in the chat. [laughter] Um, let's start. I remember a video that you had talked about where it was the top five ways to get to the cat for under $5 because right now everybody's talking about men got to make six figures and men got to bring all this stuff to the table financially. Are you saying that there's a cheat code way for men to get to get to the box for $5 or less? What what what are those what are these hidden ways? I will say this. >> Mhm. >> It only works for a [ __ ] that really likes you. >> Okay. Okay. >> Right. >> Yeah. >> You should really just be able to whip it out on the [ __ ] your [ __ ] And it it should just go up then. You You get what I'm saying? [laughter] >> Huh? I hope my wife watching us right now, but we going to continue. Go ahead. >> Keep on preaching. Keep on preing. Listen y'all, the offering play is now out. So feel free to hit that super chat button because I think the preacher is about to start preaching. Go ahead and go ahead and go ahead and put it out there. So you said when we whip it out, what's supposed to happen? >> She just supposed to jump on it? >> My wife, too. Go ahead. Go ahead. Continue. >> All right. So, she has to be attracted. >> But you can just do small like small gestures. It really doesn't take much. But like I said, the number one thing is that it has to be your woman, right? Has to be your woman. >> Small. It's the small things that matter. For real. Do some do something that you don't normally do for her. And it don't have to cost no money. >> Compliments, I'm guessing, is uh >> compliment. Compliments. Write a [ __ ] a poem. Cook something. >> Like, [ __ ] cook something. >> Okay. Okay. All right. >> Put the kids to bed. >> Give a massage. Like, it's just basic simple [ __ ] that, you know, y'all probably don't really be thinking about like that because y'all got a whole bunch of other [ __ ] that y'all worried about. >> But it's just, you know, very simple. So basically the the small simple things that they always the ladies be complaining about if guys just actually do them every once in a while is it it may actually >> you can just sit you can sit down and fake listen to your [ __ ] talk >> that can be a turn on >> fellas this is the cheat code fellas I hope fellas I hope that y'all are paying attention she is teaching us about the the ways the womanly ways of being able to bring and build that attraction back. Um, but let's go to the counter to that. There's a lot of men that are expressing in therapy sessions, on social media, just in general. It's almost normal for a lot of men to say that that that they're either currently experiencing or have experienced being in sexless relationships. What's your thoughts and opinions on that? And what do you think they should do about it? I think first with anything, it could be male or female. Um, look in the mirror, right? >> What are you doing or what have you done that makes a [ __ ] want to give you some [ __ ] What makes your woman want to want to [ __ ] you? Are you keeping yourself up? Do you keep your hair cut? Are you smelling good? You wearing the same draws for five days? Like, what? [laughter] Cuz it has to be a reason. You what I'm saying? If she don't have no kind of medical [ __ ] going on, then it has to be a reason. Do you listen to her? Do you [ __ ] ignore her? Are you just on the game all day? Like, you got to think about things like that first before you be complaining about not getting the dick wet. >> Yeah. [clears throat] Yeah. You got to start with what's >> If all of your eyes If all of your eyes are dotted and your tees are crossed, you just might need a new [ __ ] I don't know. Like, >> hold on. Hold on. We going We going We going So, if a man from your vantage point, if if there's no medical reason going on and he's crossing all his tees and dotting all his eyes and he's showing up and he's pursuing and he's with a woman that doesn't want to and isn't interested for long stretches of time, your honest recommendation is what? >> Okay. Well, I would first say, can you beat your dick for a year? You know what I'm saying? If you can't beat your dick for a year, then y'all need to come to to to an agreement. >> Oh, no. Wait, why? Hold on. Why a year? Why a year, though? Why not like 6 months or 90 days? Why a whole year? >> I'm just like, this is worst case scenario. >> Okay. Okay. Okay. >> Right. Worst case scenario. But you can't be letting a [ __ ] get away with that. You got to let them know. I in my head I've always felt that women that do that and they're using it in a way to almost weaponize sex, they're doing it with men that they don't believe will leave. >> That That's what I've always >> And that's why sometimes, I'm not saying all the time, but sometimes you just got to show a [ __ ] you know what? You don't. So, we not [ __ ] I'm about to go get some [ __ ] but I'll be right back. Baby, I love you. I'm [laughter] not I'm not I'm not going to tell dudes to announce it, but I'm going to make it known that like some of the scenario >> announce it. Announce it because as a woman, I need to feel that >> cuz maybe I might I might get on my P's and Q's now. Hold on. Wait, wait, wait, wait. You about TO GO [ __ ] SOMEBODY FOR REAL. YOU telling me that, >> brothers? >> Let me get my mind right, [ __ ] And you better do a good job, >> brothers. I'm going to put this out there that all women are equal. And it's the women that's going to see that as motivation to get their lives right. And it's gonna be women that's gonna grab for a weapon. So just keep that in mind, fellas. [laughter] That that >> grab for a weapon, call the police on her ass. >> Fair. Fair facts. Um, what's the top type of man or top women men should avoid? And then we'll go to top men that women should avoid in your opinion in this current dating market where everybody apparently doing things wrong. >> So the top women that men should avoid. >> Yeah. What's the what's if you were giving advice to men? What's the top types of types of women or females that you think they should absolutely stay away from and just not even deal with and avoid? Um I would say corporate women, men, women in uh management, um baby mamas, um women raised by single mothers. >> Je um >> hold on, professor. Do you realize how few women is left when you what you saying? [laughter] Like corporate women, baby mamas, women that come from single mother households. We down to less than 20%. >> That's why y'all got to get passports. I really don't know. >> Oh my god. >> You can go to another country. >> Oh my god. It's >> always an option. They care about family other places that we we black women here, they don't give a damn. And you can still get a black woman. She just don't got to be American. We are like washed. And you see the way that I talk and the way that I think this is why [ __ ] don't like me now. >> Listen, we everybody talking about what was going down in Houston with the rioting and and uh the spot in Florida with a lot of unfortunately was a lot of black women involved. I'm like, do you really think black women are like in this country are cooked in terms of like their prospects bec because of the ones that's giving them a bad name? Like is it re is it is it the number of black women that's engaging in the problematic behaviors. Do you really believe it's what it's matching on social media? Like is it really a lot or is it a minority? >> I think it's the problematic behaviors, right? Because um going to college and having all the degrees you can get and buying houses and all of these things are good things, right? It's just the mentality. It's the thought that you don't need a man that is the issue. You can go and fight as many [ __ ] as you want to fight and all this other kind of [ __ ] That ain't even that's like a small you know what I'm saying? But the the [ __ ] that want to be men I mean >> it I I'll acknowledge this that in terms of the mindset that you're talking about is definitely more prevalent in the black American women than in other groups. And I've definitely seen it in other groups to a degree. >> Yeah. But that mentality that's like you're right, they it they're like anti-f family, anti-men, uh anti- structure, instruction, correction. I'm like Jesus. So then when you're like, well, what's the types to avoid? Single mothers, corporate women, which is damn near most of them. Um, >> [ __ ] in management, she going to think she can come home and run you. And that is not cool. >> Absolutely. I got a I got a post on my I got a post on my page that says my husband is my leader. Oh my god. [ __ ] is like my he like [ __ ] Yeah, it can only be one head. What is wrong with y'all? Who the [ __ ] raised you [ __ ] >> I don't [laughter] I don't get it. I don't understand it. >> You tell it can only be one head and it's just like it's going to be my head then. >> You mean he lead? He lead you. You do what he say. I'm like >> [ __ ] telling me what to do. Like, [ __ ] why not? But your boss will. You okay with your boss telling you what to do, but your [ __ ] who you sleep with every night, it's a problem. >> Oh my god. Listen y'all, if y'all are currently in the chat, let's get this up. I see 200 plus people are concurrently watching right now. Please make sure you like this. Share this with two, three, four, even five people. And let me eyeball some of these super chats real quick to see what's happening to make sure I didn't miss anybody. Michael Malice, I appreciate you again, man. I did see that one. Uh Joe Buddton's voice coach, thank you for the $5. Jeff, I'm glad you're speaking up and calling it like it is on both sides. Also, welcome to the channel, ma'am. Um uh Quant Tree A3000, thank you for the $4.99. Hopefully, you already pop. >> Yep. Yep. Hopefully that Let's see. Professor, what market do you live in? I know she's down you down south, right? >> I'm in Atlanta. >> Okay. Oh, so then you know, so you then you know exactly what you talking about. >> Firstand. >> Uh, Miss Couture, thank you for the $10. They always talk about six figures, but not the taxes that bring that come right back down to barely surviving. Learn about taxes before telling the man what he need in terms of six figures. Thank you, uh, Miss Couture, for that. Uh, the Geek Surgeon, thank you, good sir, for the $2. Hit that like button, uh, for for this game. Uh, okay, professor. And then, uh, Joe Buddton's voice coach again, thank you for the $6. What's wrong with corporate women and what's your thoughts on PY? Oh, those are both good questions. Let's let's sit on that for a minute. Um, you kind of already answered the corporate women question. It's the mentality where I my view has always been I think that if you spend so much of your time focusing on just that particular skill set and not a skill set that has almost nothing to do with translating into that it's it's one of those where you're it's it's like you'll be overqual you'll be really really qualified in one area but you'll be outrageously underqualified in an area you weren't trained. >> It's the focus the focusing on the focusing on my career [ __ ] Yeah, >> they have the least amount of men cuz that don't even turn that's not something that turns a man on. A [ __ ] don't give a [ __ ] about your job, your career, your degrees. I ain't never heard a man say I bet she got a lot of degrees when >> Oh, I'm turned Oh, you know what? You had that you had that associates. I'm not real turned on. But the bachelors. All right. Now you talk like that's not a real thing. Ari women have it made up in their mind that it don't matter what y'all say that y'all like. >> Y'all supposed to like it anyway. It's It's like the men tell you what they care about. >> I don't get it. >> You feel like it's supposed to be something. It's just >> it's delusion. I'm sorry. My my thoughts on Py is um >> whatever works for you. Right. It's it's definitely more women than men just in the world, >> right? Um >> and if you guys can come together as a unit and you have enough dick for two and three [ __ ] do it. >> Listen y'all, if fellas, if you're single or if you're in situations where a woman is is comfortable and is consenting to that, um the market is there. Uh because you said there's way more women than men. There's way more women that look better than the men that they find attractive. So the market is already there for the men that are actually interested in that. But I agree. I I don't want guys that can barely get access to a woman bringing this up and trying to, you know, you not the greatest looker. You don't take care of yourself. you you barely making it and now you >> got to have a couple dollars for it just and also you don't really even have to have that much money depending on the [ __ ] that you choose, right? Cuz if you choosing [ __ ] that don't wear weed, don't wear makeup, don't care if they nails is done, ain't trying to take no trips, don't give a [ __ ] about a bag, you in there. You know what I'm saying? >> Hey, and there's definitely ones that are coming into multiple ladies that are don't mind their logic is less about, oh, he got to make 300,000. It's more so like we can share responsibilities, we can combine our assets and our income, >> get these kids together. I can have that. Yep. >> Yeah. I I I got a person uh a well, I guess a thrpple um that might be coming on this month, but I'm gonna be intro interviewing my first poly I'm about to say poly couple, but it's a polythrople um pretty soon um in the next couple weeks or so. And I'm going to be interested. I'm going to ask them all these questions cuz I've I've never really dealt with anybody in the sense of like actually hearing like knowing people personally >> who's doing that. But I'm like >> I I'm the way things are going. I'm not going to be shocked that more and more women are going to start to you going to go from going leaving men for cheating to end up sharing that. I I think that's that's probably happening. That that's going to come. >> I mean that's how it started off anyway. >> Facts. Facts. Um, >> top messages to ladies that have a man, top messages that you want to give to women that currently have a man so that she doesn't lose him in your opinion. What would be things that you would tell a woman that she needs to do in 2026 to not lose men? Because the way women are leaving and losing relationships, they're now complaining that men ain't approaching women no more, that men aren't chasing women the same degree. What would be the top things for you that you would tell her to make sure she does not lose out on the guy she does have? >> Um, well, the number one thing I would say is you got as good as you going to get right now. Once you get older, your value is going to go down. Especially if you have kids, right? So, you have kids with this man, you're married, make that [ __ ] work. You definitely need to shut the [ __ ] up. Stop talking to me. >> Number one on the list is Shut up. [laughter] >> Shut up. >> For real. >> It's cool to be emotional, but stop putting that on him like that. He got some whole other [ __ ] that he got going on in his head. He's fighting the world. Like, shut the [ __ ] up. Okay. That's number one. >> Okay. Okay. What else you got for him? What else you got? >> Um, listen to him. right? Um, allow him to lead. Don't question his leadership. And I don't say I'm not saying like be quiet and don't have an opinion on anything like that or whatever, but understand that if if you are married to somebody, they have to have your best interest at heart. That's why you married them. You trusted you trusted this man enough to be your man, your husband. So, let this [ __ ] lead, right? So, that's another thing. Have as much sex as this man wants to have. Right. >> Hold on. Uhuh. Uhuh. We ain't skipping that. Say it again. Say it again. >> Have as much sex as this [ __ ] wants to have. >> Why? Why? Why do Why is it from your vantage point, why do women struggle with that so hard and then are shocked when the relationship ends up falling apart or he ends up cheating? I think that um we get so wrapped up, especially when we have kids, we get so wrapped up in the kids and the daily life and the cleaning and the working and all of these things that we kind of put that to the back to to the back when in all reality that should be like at the forefront. Not saying that your relationship should only be based on sex, >> but that is very important to keep y'all connected and close and all that. Don't you want to motivate your man? Don't you want him to feel like he can take over the world every day when he leaves the [ __ ] house, [ __ ] SUCK SOME DICK. >> OH. OH. SEE, HERE WE GO. Here we go. [laughter] So, shut up. Have as much sex as he wants and don't constantly undermine and question his leadership. Like, if it's if it's to that point, why be with him? Why be with the man? And if you and if you don't like which way which direction y'all are going in, you can say, "Okay, it it's a way that you say things." You know what I'm saying? But if he still wants to go on with that, let him do that. And then at the end when it if it don't work out, then you be like, >> you could just note to yourself that I was right. But don't tell the [ __ ] "Oh, I was right. I told you we shouldn't have did that." Woop whoop. Like, you don't got to do all that. Just go with the [ __ ] flow. It's It's going to be okay. [laughter] So, so I was going to listen, my follow-up question was originally going to be about like, well,
Who gets the final say in the household? But, so, basically, you don't believe in "happy wife, happy life." You're big into "happy spouse, happy house."
"Happy spouse, happy house."
So, wait a minute. So, the ladies that say things like, uh, "A man can't tell me how to dress," or or who, what type of friends or girlfriends I'm allowed to go out with, from your vantage point, is what? 'Cause they see the slavery. They see the depression.
Yeah. Those are single [ __ ].
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It is very clear to me that your husband is blessed. Your husband... Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Your husband is blessed. We're going to acknowledge that. Shout out to that gentleman because what we're hearing right now, now I understand why these women hate you. Because you're saying all the things that the women are not wanting to do, aren't able to do, and they keep getting back out in the dating market. And the women that's getting it, they're now sharing a cheat code because these women don't want to have to cave in and do the exact opposite of what they've been telling everybody else. "Man can't tell me how to dress. Man can't tell me where to go. He can't, he can't tell me what I, I can put on social media." And this, I'm realizing now, I now I see why you're enemy number one.
You got protection? You got security or something?
Absolutely. And you know what? Speaking of that, don't nothing get posted without my husband's approval.
I'm only on here right now because he said it's okay.
And if he said I couldn't come on, I wouldn't be here. You get what I'm saying? And I would be fine with that because I trust him. So for y'all...
So for y'all, like, with his leadership and y'all level of communication, the idea, if he says something like, you know, "I want to go to KOD, I want to go to King of Diamonds," or something like that, would that be something that you would be comfortable with? You would allow him to? Or would you, would you like, he would initiate? Like, how would something like that work with a person in his role where you see him as the leader? Would you get offended by it? Like, how would that work?
So, we, um, make time to do date night every Wednesday. So, tomorrow is date night.
Nice.
Uh, last week we were at the strip club. So, he don't even want to go to the strip club without me 'cause he already know I'm gonna be rustling the [ __ ] up and all the [ __ ]. Like, "Come over here, some ass, dance on my [ __ ]. Please dance on..."
You feel me? Like, it's it's not. But if he wanted to go without me, he could. So, do you think, because I know a lot of ladies that would be terrified and angry about the idea of their guy even wanting to go to something like that, do you think that impacts why guys feel they need to cheat or they can't communicate or say what they're interested in? Because something like that, most women would never even let fly.
Yeah. I think that, um, a man's inability to be who he is and who he wants to be openly with his woman definitely, um, impacts. And when, if women can accept the fact...
Mhm.
...that men are attracted to women, especially naked ones, [laughter] you'll be okay.
Why would you not want to go do that with him? Let's go turn up on these hoes. I mean...
Yeah. Yeah. My view has always been, I just want people to get in the habit, if they can, especially if they're single now, to get in the habit, especially men, to say that upfront. I, I, I think that when you get into these situations where she has an idea of the type of man you are and that you're not interested in certain things, and then you throw it out there and she was never going to be on board with that, I could see how that can cause a lot of...
...clashing and fighting. Versus like, she knows what she's signing up for. But you're saying this is in most men's nature.
Yeah. Like, maybe not to go and trick off on [ __ ], but [ __ ] like [ __ ]. What? [laughter] You are not the only attractive woman that your man is going to see or want to see.
Oh, man. Now...
...to think that that is a part of the the [ __ ] delusion.
'Cause you know I got water.
'Cause you know I got a, uh, I got a household to run after this. So, I'm gonna try to stay on, stay on, stay on task with this. Uh, now, I did see something that was questionable that you posted. "Things straight men do not do." I want to slow down on this because I was like, she was cooking and all these other things, but I'm like, what, in your opinion, what are, what are things that straight men shouldn't be doing?
Okay. So, in reference to that post, you probably didn't see the pin comment, but it was just satire.
Okay. Oh, yeah. Yeah. [ __ ] I feel like men should be able to do whatever. I think that the only thing straight men shouldn't do is [ __ ] another man.
The, the, the things that I have learned over the last five to ten years about what's counting as straight is confusing to me because even down to, uh, Magic Johnson's son, that, that, that dresses like a, you know, and he's talking about, "I only date straight men." Huh? You couldn't possibly.
How? That's why I'm confused. Like, what is that? Like, what does that even mean? So, I'm like...
It's delusion.
So, of course, it was satire, but what were some of the, uh, examples that you was given of like, what things that straight men [ __ ] got no business doing?
Um, I said, um, eating a banana, peeling a banana back and eating it whole.
OH.
Drinking out of a straw.
Wait, in a [ __ ] umbrella. Like, do not pull out. Now, that's one that I'm for real about. I do not. My husband better not pull out a [ __ ] umbrella unless it's to put it over my head. 'Cause why would you do that?
What about us? What if it's really pouring? Like, what are you supposed to do? Just accept the elements? Like...
I mean, you can get under it with me, but not like have your own umbrella 'cause it's raining outside. Like, [ __ ] like, no, you're not [laughter] gonna milk. You are not gonna milk. [ __ ] that.
So, wait a minute. Wait a minute. She said, she said you can't eat a banana whole, which I, I understand that, like that.
Cut that [ __ ]. Break it. Shake it in half or something.
Don't take the whole cucumber to the...
Don't do that. It went out. I don't know what happened, y'all, but, uh, drop a comment in the, uh, comment section and let me know y'all still watching it, watching, 'cause I can't see [ __ ]. I guess it's just me. So, yeah, I'm gonna be starting my own podcast. Professor Pick Me. Y'all go find me on YouTube right now and subscribe to my channel for more [ __ ] like this. I can't even see y'all, but I'm sure y'all can see me. I'm having a good ass time tonight. I cooked dinner for my family before I came on this [ __ ]. Y'all also follow me on, um, Instagram. The real I love her. And love is L-U-V. The real I L-U-V her. Follow me on Instagram. Y'all know I be popping my [ __ ]. If you see a [ __ ] with this, just know it's me, okay? Keep it lit. Come on, Jeff. Where you at?
My bad. My bad. You know...
Hold it down.
Listen, I had to go pay the bill real quick. We back. Listen, brother. We paid the bill. The, we back in action. They told me, they told me your boy got about another 30 minutes, but I gotta pay the rest, rest of the bill. My bad. That was on me. That was on me. So, so, um, yeah. So, banana. What? Why can't brothers drinking with the straw? What's up with that?
I mean, it's just so dainty. You see how my shoulders just did?
Yeah. [laughter]
Why you got to? Why you got to do that?
Well, I'm going to be questioning all this.
Cocktails, [ __ ]. Do not drink a cocktail. Whiskey. That's cool. I don't need...
Why we got to drink all? Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Why we got? No. Why we got to drink all the nasty drinks? What? What's up with that? Why are the brothers always got to drink the nasty damn drinks? What's going on? Like, what's up with that?
It's, it's, um, what is it? Um, life is not fair.
This is, this [laughter] is, this is so crazy. We, y'all, this is wild to me. And I'll be like, you know, I don't mind beer every now and then, but sometimes I want to be like, "Oh, they got, you know, that got, what, you know, strawberry. A little cocktail. Okay. You want, you want a little sugar on the rim?" I'm just playing. [laughter]
Listen, I don't mind a little lime every now and then. I'm trying to, you know.
Yeah. Yeah.
I'm just talking [ __ ]. Y'all should be able to do whatever the [ __ ] y'all want to do as long as y'all not sucking dick and bending [ __ ] over.
OH, THERE WE GO. There we go. Couple more questions because I don't want to hold you too long. This has been great. And listen, guys, if you're currently still watching, feel free to make sure at the end, I'm going to, I've already put it in the description for the video. We're going to be posting it in the chat as well. Make sure that you guys subscribe to her channel on YouTube 'cause we, 'cause, uh, this year, I, I have a feeling she gonna be putting out a lot more content and we need it. We need it 'cause this is, this is interesting. This is funny. Um, a few more questions. Um, uh, what was it? Message to men. Should he have to consist? Oh, well, we already answered that question. You basically said he didn't. So, message to ladies. You mentioned a little bit about how a lot of ladies don't really get or understand exactly what it is that men are wanting and drawn to. In my head, I think women are projecting onto men what they're attracted to. So, you know, ladies will be like, "Oh, you know, the career, the degree, he makes X amount of money, so therefore that's what he would be looking for in me." And I'm like, "No, we don't. That's not a thing." For, if you gave a message to the ladies, what's the, what's the top things that comes to mind for what men are actually wanting, what men are actually attracted to from your vantage point?
Um, number one, it would be beauty 'cause that's the first thing that you need to see. You guys are visual.
Okay.
Right? So, keep yourself up. Um, they, men don't typically like overweight [ __ ]. So, lose some weight. And when I say lose some weight, I mean like, go to the gym. BBLs are cool, but you typically will just get [ __ ] with a BBL, not wiped. Um, let's see. Men like women that are kind, that are respectful. Men will choose respect over love when it comes to a [ __ ]. For real.
Respect him. Don't ever do this to your [ __ ]. Get your [ __ ] finger out of [ __ ] face.
Don't do that. [laughter]
Um...
Yeah.
...of [clears throat] course. Everybody wants somebody that is loyal. However you want to, um, classify that, what, what loyalty is to you. Um, and don't have hella kids with hella different.
That could have been number one right there. That could have been number one, right? Oh my god. Especially nowadays where men are getting shamed for saying that they're not, that's not their first choice when it comes to like, especially if they arrive in life and it's like their first choice.
Your kids are only, um, what? Blessings to you. To a man that's not their father, they're liabilities. But that, these are like facts that [ __ ] hate. I just don't understand. And then when you tell a [ __ ] that, it's like, you wrong. I'm wrong for saying that.
And then they come up with the whole excuse, "Well, a real man, a real man would step up to the responsibility." Ma'am, this is not how you... [laughter] Don't kiss.
A real man will go find a [ __ ] that don't have kids.
That's what a real man would do.
Bro.
Bruh. Like, exactly. Exactly.
Unless, unless you're like an empty nester. And another thing that you, you kind of can get a free pass on is if like you had children in a marriage or you're like a widow or something like that, but like a baby mama...
...just you never been taken seriously by a [ __ ]. [ __ ] just coming and leaving. [ __ ] and leaving. I, listen, me and you in the future may have to do a follow-up episode where we do the hierarchy of single mothers so they can understand that men actually view it through levels and at the top of the list, you're right. It, it, if they were married or they're widows, it's at the top first.
Yeah.
And then you work your way down from there. And then when you get to the bottom, this is the ones that's just having two, three, four, five different baby daddies. And then you're like, "But you need to be the man that steps up." I'm like, "Yo, like that's, that's as bad as it gets."
It doesn't even make sense. Or comparing a man having multiple children and multiple baby mamas to you having multiple baby daddies, it's not the same. Even though we want it to be the same, it's just [ __ ] not. Just like I can go eat [ __ ] and come back from that, he can't go suck dick and come back from that. It's just how we're doing.
I tried to say this. I tried to say this again and again. I've always believed, I'm not even putting my therapist hat on, I've said that I believe women are their, their view on sexuality is more fluid and that they're by nature more by curious by default. The way, uh, hugging, touching, cuddling, listening on your home girls and [ __ ].
Come on. The, the, the college experience where you got to try. I ain't never had to try dick to know I ain't wanted. I wasn't interested.
[laughter]
I ain't never had to try it to figure out that that was for me. And I'm like, the amount of women that's talked about trying something, but no, I'm still straight. So, I'm like, it's just a different rule, it, you know, for me.
And that's okay, right? It's okay. But that's the thing. Men can accept [ __ ] like that, but we just [ __ ] can't.
No. And what's wild with that is when it come to the body count question, ladies, you can't judge women. You can't judge. You can't judge. Tell her you slept with a man before, see what happened with that. Women will judge over a whole host of things, including past decisions if it's that, if it's that specifically alone. And, and I don't fault them for it. I just would acknowledge, if you'll judge a man because he ever did something with a guy, why can't we judge you for the amount of men that you've been with? Look, [laughter]
Uh, putting sex on the calendar, put scheduling sex on a calendar because I think what's happening right now is a lot of couples, whether they're married or not, sex is often put on the back burner when life's happening, responsibilities, kids. You said something very interesting that I want you kind of expound on that. Why would it, wh, why do you think it would make sense to try to schedule? Like, what would be the benefits of of actually scheduling a set time frame or date or time to actually do that?
I think that, um, as adults, especially adults that are married or in long-term relationships that have children and things like that.
Yeah.
We literally schedule everything out. Like, you know what time you got to go pick your kids up from school. You should know what time you supposed to be sucking dick, too, because it's important. It's really important to have that intimacy and to connect with your partner. Like, where anything that is important to us, we put on a schedule. You know what day you do your groceries. You know what day laundry day is. You don't know what day you supposed to be popping [ __ ]. You don't know what time of the day you supposed to be doing that. Like, make time so it can be important to you. That's all. I mean, if, if women, I mean, women probably don't need sex as much as men do.
Fair.
Right?
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
But don't you want to nurture your man? You take care of them kids. You don't want to take care of him? It's very simple.
Oh my god. And it's so logical. And it's like, if, if my god...
And I'm not even trying to be funny, but how long does sex even take? Like, we are over 30. [laughter] You ain't got 30 minutes for your [ __ ] [ __ ]? Like, what?
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Listen, fellas. Listen. Unless y'all taking TRT or some type of drug or something to, or, or some gas station pills. We, we understand it. It don't take a half hour, fellas, like it used to, brother. It ain't [laughter] Some of y'all, it ain't taking three minutes. So, I...
...get her done. Okay. Listen. [laughter] And, and scheduling it absolutely will probably change so many different couples' relationships where he's not waiting for having to initiate and get rejected. She's, she's not, "Does he still want me?" It's a, it's a. Listen, half the things they will complain about, once they have sex, they don't want to talk about it no more.
If you, if you want the best version of your man, you will pop that [ __ ] consistently.
Period.
You wonder why a [ __ ] walking around with an attitude? It's 'cause he ain't got no coochie, [ __ ].
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So, so, last question on my end. Obviously, everybody talking about this gender war foolishness and and men and women, "Hear me roar" nonsense. And this current dating market with everybody and all the complaints going on with the numbers, the leverage, and who really has the true options? Who is the prize? Men or women in 2026? The dating market?
2026, I would say men are definitely THE PRIZE.
Fellas, it's over. Interview is a wrap. I appreciate your time. You said that so reluctantly. Why do you think?
And really, and I'm just want to say this to whatever women is watching. Facts over feelings, [ __ ]. It's more of us than it is of them. Supply and demand. It's, it's more women. The percentage of the men that women even want is so minuscule in comparison to the amount of women that want them. It ain't even just total women and total men. The pool of men that women actually want. I've tried to say this again and again. I don't think ladies realize when you, when you stop bringing in the femininity, when you start busting it open, the last 20. Y'all putting in Wilt Chamberlain numbers. Now y'all getting in, you got the, you got the, you got the OnlyFans link above your grandma picture of your grandmom. We are at a point where you may see more clothing in the strip club than in some churches. Listen, it depends.
Turned up out here. I ain't gonna hold you.
Hey. Hey. I'm not. Listen.
That's real [ __ ].
I'm dead ass. And to the point of where we can't even tell. I'm like, man, so I'm, I'm, I'm trying to explain to ladies who think what I'm basically saying is, is ladies don't have the leverage they even used to have 20 years ago. They do not. The, the OnlyFans and social media has ch, social media and the way women talk on social media about, uh, what's a Shira 7 talking about, you know, "Take him for what he's got and take advantage," and the divorce parties and always celebrating the worst of the worst. I'm like, what the internet did and what social media did was let men know about female nature. And then with the manosphere and Red Pill, all we do is talk about and share our experiences. So now most of them, for any man that's truly serious, it's recreational. And, and, and very few of them we could actually see is like, "I can lock him." That's the truth.
That's the truth. And, and it's wild to now, again, every man ain't the prize. I'm going to be the first one to say that. Just because, yeah, there's a, there's a minority of men that are the prize. That don't mean just because you a man, all these women want you. You [clears throat] you either got to, you got to be born with the genetic lottery or you got to build yourself up. But once you do, this, this idea of not being able to go without sex for two, three, four months. We not our fathers and we not our grandfathers. This whole living and missing.
They didn't do that [ __ ] either. They got whole other families that you found out about at the [ __ ] funeral. [laughter]
You're right. Because it was always the cousins that was little, the, the family members that was totally different knew about it.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You're right. You right. Or they would come to stay with the family and now she raised them as their own. It was, you're right. There was always. Oh my god, man. This has been awesome. Let me look through the super chats before we close out to see if there's anybody that I missed. Uh, let's see who else we got. Uh, BMI 3000 Reloaded. Thank you, good sir, for the $10 passport to Africa. More than half a billion women. Now, fellas, I'm going to warn you, it's, it depends on the country because the Nigerian and a couple other countries, they're starting to get a little westernized. They starting to have the same complaints that we having over here. So, gentlemen, be careful. Um, and because don't just assume 'cause you...
I see them Nigerian [ __ ] on Instagram. They be turned up. [laughter]
Yep. Yep. And I'm like, "Oh, this is, this is getting out of control." Uh, and again, appreciate you, brother, for again, for the extra five. Uh, Joe Buddton's, uh, voice coach again, thank you for the three. You can't protect anyone who doesn't listen. Absolutely. And, and we're at a space, gentlemen, where if you do what you're supposed to do, you shouldn't even be with women who don't want to listen. That, that's not even a, this days of like having to convince a woman to, that's over. Like, that's not, it doesn't even make...
Her boss don't got to convince her to listen.
...'cause she respects her boss, apparently. Uh, Marcus F. Oh my god. Marcus, what's going on, brother? Uh, thank you for the $10. This is a great show tonight. I have one suggestion. Can you please have one show with Professor Pick Me and Miss Smell the Roses and other respectful women on the panel?
Um, yeah, man. I, I'm open to it. I might do a panel with the ladies, uh, for just different content creators. Uh, we'll see if they can handle Professor Pick Me 'cause she may just, she may, she may take over the whole panel by the time. She may, she may. We gonna see how it's gonna work. I got to figure out what's the, what's the good order of ladies that would be a good combo 'cause this is, this has been very, very entertaining. And then last but not least, Miss Couture again. Thank you for the two. Only you only schedule when you are not taking, taking, uh...
...birth control.
Oh, okay, man. I, I was about to read something else.
BC. BC.
I was about to say, black. I bet that's a lady.
It is. Couture. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It is. Yeah. Birth control.
Pregnant if you just sucking dick. It's cool either way. I feel you.
Listen, number one, I so appreciate you coming through from clearly from the engagement and amount of. I can't wait to see how many comments. You got to do this a lot more, especially on YouTube. I may have to talk to you and your husband about you coming on at least once or twice a month and we coming up with actual concept and reaction videos 'cause my audience absolutely loved you. So, why don't you let everybody know where they can find and support you?
All right, y'all can find me on IG, the real I love her. And that's T-H-E-R-E-A-L-I-L-U-V her.
L-U-V her. And then YouTube, Professor Pick Me.
Professor Pick Me. And like I said, y'all, I've already put it in the description for this video. We're gonna be popping it up in the chat as well. Everybody, everybody, everybody, please show some love. Please make sure that you subscribe and follow her on all these respective platforms. I really appreciate you coming through. And then, and I, I was gonna close out with, um, how did you feel in terms of your first time coming on the platform?
Oh, I love it here.
Dope, dope, dope.
This is dope. So, listen, you are more than sure.
Yeah, you are absolutely more than welcome. Um, so, thank you for your time and I'm gonna close out with the audience and I'm gonna talk to you soon.
All right.
So, guys, that was absolutely lit. This was, this is her Instagram. Um, thank you, Mrs. Plum. I'm going to make sure to put it in the, uh, in the description of the video as well. So, guys, if you haven't, please make sure you gravitate to her channels on Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube. We want to build up her, um, YouTube, uh, platform, especially, um, anybody who's spitting truth, regardless of how they spit it. I think that, you know, this is the type of channel and place where we want open perspectives, different perspectives, especially if they spitting on the truth. And I hope that y'all enjoyed this. So, like I said, man, uh, tomorrow night, I mentioned to y'all that I have another special, uh, lineup tomorrow. We're gonna have Dr. Tommy Curry, um, pulling up tomorrow evening on this Airy channel for the Men's Table. It is going to be lit. We're gonna be doing going over a critique of both feminism and the manosphere as well. And then on, and then I'm also going to be interviewing somebody earlier in the day that's going to be pre-recorded and I'm going to decide when it is I'm going to release it. But I'm going to tell you this, a whole lot of you have heard of her and, um, and I think that's going to be a very interesting and thought-provoking interview for sure. And then last but not least, I'm going to have a surprise guest on Thursday. And all I'm going to say as a hint is, um, uh, get your, get your legal hat on. That's all I'm going to say. That's all I'm going to say. Y'all get, y'all can put the guesses in the chat. So, guys, I hope that you enjoyed this. Thank you everybody that showed love. Listen, man. Get ready because it's not just this show. It's going to be another show tomorrow night at 8:30 and another show back-to-back great guests. So, thank y'all for the super chats. Thank y'all for the love. So, please, please, please, please, please make sure you're a subscriber if you are not. Make sure that you share this if you have not done so. Send it with two, three, four, even five people and become a member. If you are not a member, what are you waiting on? It's $2.99 to be a member of the channel and that's the number one way to be able to pull up and show love and support the brand and channel. We are at 52,000 and climbing. We started this channel last January and the pace we're going, we may be at 60 or even 70k by the end of this year. So, guys, this is really happening. I'm super, super, super excited. And like I said, y'all, big guest tomorrow with Dr. Tommy Curry coming, our first major guest for the Men's Table. Um, that's going to be dope. Then tomorrow night, I mean, then the next day, we're going to have a legal person pulling up. Somebody that a lot of y'all have been saying y'all been wanting to come through, um, to, to bless the channel. So, I'm, I'm super excited about both by both these guests. And I'm not even going to give any clues to the guests that I'm going to be doing an earlier interview for earlier in the day. And I'm going to decide when in the schedule it is that I'm going to promote and release that. All I'm going to, actually, I'm gonna give a hint. Actually, no, I'm not. No, I'm not. No, I'm not. I'm not gonna give a hint. I'm just going to tell y'all thank you. Thank you for the love, for the support, and let's, uh, you know, when it comes to this stuff, all I ask, guys, is that y'all share it, that y'all hype the videos, that y'all share it, that y'all continue to show the love and promote it. Um, I am in the process now where I think that I want to start working with some of some content creators, maybe, maybe Professor Pick Me and others where I actually want them to be more regulars where I actually have a set day and schedule where once or twice a month, uh, certain people that you all love, I'm going to invite them and we maybe come up with some, you know, something where, you know, it's going to be finan, it's going to cost me a little something, but to have a really, if y'all love certain people that y'all want me to actually do more regular content with where we cover hot topics, trending topics, reaction videos, and just different interesting concepts. But you want that person or potent, some of the guests that I've had. If y'all want me to do shows with them, um, let me know. And once we get that list, I'm going to follow up with each of them individually and see if they're interested, how much it's going to cost me, and then we're going to go from there. So, guys, feel free, feel free, post it in the chat. Let, post it in the comments. Let me know if this is one of those people that y'all would love for me to bring back and bring back multiple times because, um, she was highly entertaining. She's hilarious. Shout out to her husband who allows her, who works with her and being now allowed to, you know, put this type of stuff out. I think it's dope. I think it's awesome. I love hearing about married couples and couples where they support each other when we do this type of content creation. My wife set up this whole everything, man. Um, from start to finish. So, despite popular belief with everybody who's convinced I hate women, I, you know, my, my wife and, and the wife, the women in my life, they, they love the content and they enjoy it and, and, you know, I think I'm going to get in a habit now. I'm not going to do the Kevin Samuels route, but I am going to start to do some sitdowns or virtual sessions with some ladies being able to call and, um, figuring out why they single, why are you single? Um, I think I'm gonna start doing that as early as next week and we'll see how you guys react and respond to it. So, guys, share, share, share, like, like. Make sure that y'all are a member if you are not. And make sure that you check out both of those groups. Our movie book club on Monday nights, our, uh, men's, uh, social imp, uh, self-improvement group on Tuesdays, Men's Table is Wednesday night, 8:30 Eastern Standard Time. Special legal expert on Thursday is pulling up. So, guys, thank you, thank you, thank you. I am hyped. I am excited. I told you guys that I'm back. I had to take that week off for the death of my family member. Yeah, we're still processing it, but we have a lot of family. We have a very, very big family, and everybody's texting, calling, checking in with each other. So, I appreciate the positive energy, the love, and positive thoughts and the prayers from everybody. And I'm excited, man. Um, in the sense of like my cousin's not here anymore, but, uh, I, I want to live a life to where I feel like building up what it is that I have in my head. If I come anywhere close to that, I know that I would have made him proud. So, my goal is just to turn this channel into 100K plus subscribers and, and end up in places that y'all can't even imagine. So, you know, stay tuned for some major announcements between now and May. Uh, because I'm going to be appearing in something soon. I signed some NDA, so I can't say anything more with that, as well as releasing a project that I've been working on since the end of last year. Um, so, listen, man. Thank y'all for the support. Genuinely, thank you for everybody. I saw people talking about that they were in Europe at different military bases. Shout out to the people in South Africa, Canada, Jamaica, and where else? The UK. Those are our other four areas where we've gotten a decent base. So, guys, share it with family, friends. Thank y'all. Have a good, good, good, good, good evening. And I'm going to see y'all bright and early on the other side. Peace.
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