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Okay, your ex did not move on and suddenly become magically happy. It didn't happen. I want to tell you a few things that are absolutely necessary if you want to heal, you want to understand, and you want to move on from this.
The first thing is is that it doesn't matter if they're with somebody else or not. They're still the same miserable person that they were when they were with you.
The other thing that I want to tell you, you know those little bags that you pick up dog poop with? When you pick it up and you've got it in a bag, you got [ __ ] in a bag. It doesn't matter if you put it in a refrigerator. It doesn't matter if you talk to it nice, it's still a bag of [ __ ]. These people are bags of [ __ ]. And they will always be bags of [ __ ]. It doesn't matter if they're with you or not with you.
They're broken. They're broken when the lights are on. They're broken when the lights are off. They're broken in your relationship. And they're going to be broken in the next relationship. In fact, I guarantee that it's actually going to implode and it's going to be worse than it it was with you.
They're broken. They're not going to magically not be a bag of [ __ ]. They're not going to magically suddenly be happy. What you need to do is forgive yourself for investing in that bag of [ __ ] not seeing it sooner, and move on.