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We got the main event here of why you never ever trust women and you trust your wife. In my experience, we're going to talk about being a fitness trainer, which I was a fitness trainer. I talked about this earlier in the show. If you want to revert back to that is during the monologue, but I have experience training women and wives. Although in my experience, I would not have my wife train with a male trainer. Now, that's just me. But in my experience, I think once you get into a relationship, you must kind of I would say maintain a little bit of closeness on how you have relationships outside of the marriage. Anybody that has this idea that they can have relationships outside of the marriage, you're setting yourself up for a potential risk because human nature, although we don't intend to do things, human nature is human nature. So, some men do try to source their women through business and training, I never really did that. I can count on one hand after 12 years of any woman that I've been intimate with through fitness training. All right? But I tended to draw a line related to that. And if any time that happened is mostly I was with the friend of that client, not the actual person. And that's just the way it is. I can separate business from pleasure. It's all about the money for me.

But in this case, we have a woman that says that she's had a relationship, a sexual relationship that she didn't intend to have with her own male fitness trainer. Then she goes on to say she's in marriage counseling. With that being said, one thing that I said about marriage counseling is that most of the time women are lying in the marriage counseling. They're lying. Okay? They're not telling the truth. They're manipulating the counselor. They may even meet separately with the counselor and then you guys meet together. And she might insinuate that you can meet separately, too. But of course, you got job to do. You got work. You got bills to pay. You ain't got time to be sitting up in counseling all day unpacking and manipulating the therapist. So some people lie to their therapist which makes therapy almost impossible. Also if we look at the data that Larry C pulled up couples that go to counseling has still a 40% chance of ending in a divorce. Sometimes that one partner 30% chance one partner that goes into counseling already knows that there's going to be a divorce. Okay? So it's almost like the precursor to the divorce. It's kind of like the a waste of time or space. People that survive it most of the time the dude's going to be a beta brat. All right. He's going to try to work through it by just being okay. I'll listen. I'll listen. I'll tell her. Let her tell me what to do. Okay.

But in this case, we have Dr. John Deloney that has a video, a woman here that's going to spell out a story. It's 3 minutes long. So, I will stop uh to teach in between. I'm not going to let three minutes come by and me not have a contribution. But I'm glad I can play these videos by John Deloney because if I play their regular videos, they give me a copyright. So, let's hear the video and see what advice that he has for her. She said, "I've made a horrible mistake. I have made a horrible mistake about two months ago. I found myself in an unhealthy relationship. >> Wait, back out. Are you married? >> Yes, I am married. That's the key. That's the key problem. Um, we have been married for about five years. Two children, two and four. So, I wanted to do a fitness competition and I found myself at the gym a lot and there was a guy there, trainer, and basically started helping me out with some workouts. >> Let me stop right there. I'm going to stop every 30 seconds because I got to teach y'all. You can watch the full clip by yourself. You can Google it and watch the full clip. But as I said, the marriage will is undefeated. They were in love. Oh, they really weren't in love. They were in love. Then guess what happened? Children. Children happened. Guess what happened? She wanted to start getting back in shape. She goes back in shape. She goes to the gym, which is the nightclub, which I said that in 2018. The gyms are becoming the nightclub now. People are still trying to say that down. Too late, [ __ ] I've been there already. So, she goes to a place, a breeding ground of sexuality. The gym is a breeding ground of sexuality. I told you about the whole grease thing of how gym gymnasium basically means a place, naked place. All right? Participating in something naked. You got dopamines, endorphins, people half dressed, people scandalally clad. You can see titties. You see with their chesticles out muscles. All right. people groaning, thrusting, squatting, bending over, stretching. Everything about the gym is breeding sexuality. Everything about the gym historically has. But because we try to outthink logic and nature as Americans in the Western world, we try to separate that. Oh, that's different. No, we're not there for that. That's a lie. You're there for that. Everything you're doing is to try to make yourself more desirable for your mates or feel better about yourself. It literally is a breeding place for sexuality. That's why if I had a partner or a relationship, I would have her understand that to say, "No, you're not going to be out here loose running around the gym. You're either going to stand next to me or you're going to work with the trainer I assigned to you. You're going to work with a female trainer and you're going to come and go. You're not just going to be out here loose running around here. No all that. No, no, no, no, no, no. I got too much invested in you to have you out here some dude at the gym that came out and cold you and want to help you with your workout. I'm just that way. I'm just a little bit more pragmatic and logical. If she doesn't agree to that, then we can't be in a relationship. If she wants to say, "But I would never and I'm not like that and I'm not there for that and I'm not there." I don't care what you say. We're talking about human nature. What you say you want to do and what tends to happen. Oh, I made a mistake. Okay. Yeah, whatever. Listen, that's how I do. You don't want to do that, go find somebody else. Go find somebody else. Now, somebody might say that's controlling. How's that controlling if I leave it up to you to be with me or not? You don't got to be with me. Go find somebody else you want to be with. Controlling would be you got to stay with me and listen. Controlling with me say you can't leave me and you have to do it. I gave you a choice. You can be with me or not. But being me with me requires this. Being without me means no requirement. So you can go if you want to. That's not controlling. That is not controlling. I allowed you to leave. I accept it. I say this is acceptable behavior. This is unacceptable to me. You choose. Okay. You want to stay, then follow this. You don't want to stay, you're free to go. That's not controlling. All right? That's literally me setting a standard and saying, "This is what I'm going to accept. This is what I'm not going to accept. Do what you want to do, but you can either do it with me or without me." All right? That's all it is. I just know too much. I've seen too much. I'm not playing the game. You can play that if you want. Okay, you can play that if you want. You can roll the dice if you want.

And so we got married with children, five years, seven-year itch, two children, investment phase secured. Now, since the investment phase is secured, guess what? Boom. Now she gets to bait and switch you. I'm going to go to the gym. That's a similar to I'm going to go to girls nights out. That's the same thing. I'm gonna go to girls nights out, but she's gonna use the guys or he's going to use the guys of I'm just gonna do fitness competitions. Okay, [ __ ] All right, let's continue. >> And it went too far. He started talking to me. We met for coffee and then the part >> Did you sleep with him? >> We actually ended up sleeping together. >> Okay, so take a listen. It started off as what? This is why I don't believe in male friends. It's just a guy at the gym. It's just this trainer. He's just helping me. He not charging and blah blah blah blah blah. It didn't start off. It started off as a conversation. It started off with a text exchange. Then it went to a coffee date. Then it went to a going to his apartment. Then it went to a I got and I didn't mean to. I didn't want it to go that way. But as you can see, it went from step by step by step. Very predictable. Well, I was just thought he's just out helping me and he talked and then he start texting me and then I went to a coffee date. Then I went to lunch and we grabbed the shake after workout and then I went to his house and all of a sudden tooth dad ass up. But I didn't want that. I didn't intend to it. I didn't intend for that to happen. All right, let's continue. And look at John. >> Yes. Which is the part that my husband doesn't know. He knows everything except for that because immediately I just I was scared of losing everyone and I was so stupid and I was like just scared. So I immediately lied and blocked him from everything. I have not communicated with him since then, but now I'm like, well, great. When it was all horrible, I lied. And now I don't know if I should rehash this because things have been going really well. And like, >> okay, so here we go again. Now we got the old I don't know if I should tell him. This is a tough thing. Not many people want to rat out the fact that they cheated on their partner, spouse, wife, husband. But guess what? Everybody at the gym know she got Everybody at the gym know he her. Everybody know when the husband come to the gym that his wife got by the trainer. The husband don't know. See for her to pull that scab he going to have to reveal and find out he the last to know. The trainer and all the trainers in there know that he your wife. Somebody said raw too. Nutted in her nutted on her face did and it was she said it was once. Well, she's lying. It was more than once and she intended to do it. So everybody in that gym community knows she got [ __ ] cuz he told everybody more than likely. And now she's like, I don't know if I should tell. Why? Cuz things are going good. Why? She's got it lined up somewhere where he's now being the listener. Okay. You want me to listen or give advice? I just want you to listen. All right. And she probably did the nastiest [ __ ] to this [ __ ] And by the way, people have to realize people that have affairs, men and women, do not use protection. Statistically, they are the least likely to use protection because protection gives off signs that you are cheating. If a man has condoms in his wallet and he's married, that's a dead giveaway. If a woman comes back smelling like burned rubber, that's a dead giveaway. People that intend to cheat, people that are married tend to not carry condoms or require protection. Statistically, they are the least likely to use condoms. least likely married people, people in committed relationships, people that are in long-term relationships, they're the least likely to use protection. All right, so let's continue here.

>> Like we've really surrounded ourselves with a great community and church, family, and counseling. And I've lied so hard about this one thing. >> Yeah. >> Among every single person cuz in my head I was like, I'll just never ever bring this up. And now I'm like, to move forward, I need to know whether or not I should tell him. The fact that you're calling tells me that you know the answer to this >> and she thinks this is funny. So, you know, my opinion and I've been saying this for years and people have now found women cheat more than men. This is not even a question. They cheat more than men. They cheat smarter and they cheat despicably. Like they cheat with people in front of your face. They introduce you to the they cheating. They talk about the they cheating with over dinner or the person they intend to cheat with. They cannot keep the secret. So they find a way to tell him. They tell it'll be the neighbor, the coach, the football coach, the at the gym, and she'll introduce you. She'll talk to you about him at the dinner table. Oh, this guy. He's so funny. I mean, and you be like, "Who? Oh, this person at the she'll tell you." And then when you show up at the gym, she'll introduce you. Oh, this is the guy I was talking about. He's the guy. And look at him. And and then you looking at the like, "Okay, she wouldn't cheat on me, but this Oh, yes, she will. Right in your face, right in your community, right in your neighborhood." And guess what? The guy has no incentive to come out and ruin your home. The guy doesn't want the woman. He getting it for somewhere free. He doesn't have to babysit her and house her and go through no no sex and and periods. Like, he doesn't have to do any of that. So, he's like, "This is great. Keep this [ __ ] going as long as possible." And then when you come up and be like, "Yeah, y'all got a real relationship. Oh, don't worry about him. He He not the type of guy that does that. He's married. He's gay. He got a girlfriend. He don't like women like me. I'm too fat for him. He likes skinny So, it becomes a game of dangerous danger. It's a dangerous game they're playing. Let's continue here. Moving forward here.

>> Well, Google said otherwise. I was like, well, maybe I can get out of this. Maybe that's not a good idea. >> So, and also you're insecure for bringing it up. Oh, you're controlling. You're insecure. I can have a male trainer. Um, that doesn't mean I will cheat. You're controlling and insecure. >> Your gut. What do you think you should do? Um, I probably need to tell him. >> No, probably. Like, what? What do you need to do? >> I feel like I need to tell him because I feel like if I don't, it's just going to be preventing us, I guess, from truly living honestly. >> Yeah. Now, here's the problem with this. If you go back to the marriage will, she really can lose, but technically, it's his loss. Okay. So, while we're saying if she tells she's going to lose the marriage and whatnot, well, technically not. Go back to the marriage will. So, she has the investment phase secured, right? The kids are she's that five or three. Doesn't sound like they're going to have more kids. She he needs a DNA test on those kids. But, of course, if she gets divorced, there's the bait and switch. Okay. If he doesn't take it well and divorces her, guess what she got over here? Okay. Child support, family court. She keeps the house. She gets to play the victim. All right. She needs to She gets to say, "Well, I only cheated once, and you're insecure, controlling. Don't put any rules over me. It was just this once. It'll never happen again." Blas blas blah. All right. And then if he says, "Man, big you." Man, this is crazy. He loses. He craps out. He's got 50% at best contact with his kids. He gets to move out of his house into his car, into his mama's house, into an apartment, a studio apartment. Okay. All right. That's your win there. As soon as you walk off, she gets child support and alimony. She gets to play the victim. she gets to find out and, you know, reveal that you cheated once or she let you uh peg uh he let you uh peg her once or he she pegged him once. All right? And she will reveal that dirty secret. She going to start thting and plotting. She going to start thting and plotting. You just don't understand. Give me another chance. All right? You cheated before I gave you another chance. Whatever it is, now he loses. That's why she giggling because it's not that big of a loss to her. It's a loss. She gets to lose face a little bit. By the way, most guys that get cheated on in their marriage and a divorce happens, they almost never tell the public that she cheated. That's another thing that happens. You know why? Cuz that's a reflection of him. So, when the divorce happens and she starts acting funky and people start saying, "Well, why she cheated?" It is often the man that does not reveal he was cheated on. It is often the woman that says, "He cheated on me." It's often the man that keeps that secret. even amongst her family and friends. Even amongst your families and friends, you the man don't say that [ __ ] was cheating on me because it's going to look bad on you. They going to be like, "Well, why she cheating on you? You want hitting it right? You must been not licking it and sticking it. You she cheated on you. Damn, you got damn, she played in your fa." Nobody's going to sympathize for a man that's been cheating on. So, most of the time, the guy will keep that secretive. He won't tell the details of him getting cheated on. So, it's still kind of a win for her reputational wise cuz he's not going to bust up in church and say that [ __ ] was sucking the trainers. Okay? He not going to say that. He not going to go to her social circle in the goddamn country club and say, "Man, that was cheating on the trainer I hired." So, that way he's going to protect that secret to prevent him from being embarrassed. So, it's not really a L for her. He ain't going to go up to the school and tell the principal and the PTA and the goddamn teachers that she was sucking the trainer's dick. He going to keep that a secret.

>> Will this end everything? >> I don't know if it will. I don't think it will. I just think it's going to make it harder. >> But I mean, y you all have been in counseling and you've talked about this and >> we've talked about everything ex and I've just totally denied doing anything more than just communication, meeting him, all that. >> And y'all just hooked up one time. >> Yes, it was the hookup and then done >> lies. So, look, this woman has lied to the husband, the children, the church pastor, the trainer, the therapist, and we're supposed to believe she only hooked up once. See, this is where I tell you, never trust your wife. Even in counseling, she's lied. She's lying to us and Dr. John Deloney. She lied to the therapist. She lied to her husband. What makes you think she ain't lying right now? Okay. Oh, well, you got to trust. Maybe she's just opening up and being honest. She's an anonymous person on the phone. She's lying again. She been getting ecclesiastically them cinnab buns clapped, papped out, and she said, "I told everything but this." Yeah, well, this is it. This is everything.

>> So, here's what I'll tell you. Your husband knows. He might not know that y'all slept together, but he knows there's a gap between the two of you. >> Yes. >> And he's going to counseling. He's doing what he thinks he's supposed to be doing. And that gap is getting wider because as he leans in, there's a part of you that leans out cuz you know. And so what I'll tell you is beyond the right thing and the integrity thing and all that stuff. You're torturing a man that you love. >> He knows there's a gap there and he doesn't know what it is. I know where the gap is. I know where the gap is. It's between her leg. Now, I went to marriage counseling once, and this is bringing up my marriage, which I, you know, I'm well past it, but I remember there was a point in the counseling which I started to stand up for myself. We only went to like three or four sessions. I want to say three other than the introductory session. So, what happened was she had met with the counselor multiple times without me, which they're saying was fair. I thought was weird. All right. But I don't know anything about principles of counseling. I thought that why were you meeting individually and then having couple sessions? But they were like, "Well, you could have came individually, too." But I was like, "I got to work. I ain't got time to be dealing with this and unpacking." So, what happened was after about the second one or the third one, I started saying, "Well, she got this and she did that." So, what happened was the the therapist didn't know that point of view cuz of course she didn't tell her. She went in there and prepped her to be the referee and he's so bad. He's so bad. He's so weird. He's so controlling. He's so insecure. But I started saying, "Well, this is what she's doing." And then what happened was the counselor was like, "Oh, really? She didn't know that?" It was a female counselor. So what happened was we came back for a third session together, but in between that third session, she had met with her individually, which I believe was a come to Jesus moment. So the therapist was like, "Oh, you didn't say all that." And they must have had a issue. They must have, you know, she must have had to come clean on some. So by the third session, this was the session, and it didn't last long. She was like, "Well, listen." She's like, "This is what we going to do." She's told me x, y, and z. Instead of you bad, you bad, you need to listen, you need to hug. The last session was, "Hey, listen. Well, some stuff has come up." But as a therapist, I can decide whether I should tell you what this thing is, whether it would be helpful or hurtful. So, if I know some information, I can decide whether to tell you or not. That's basically what the therapist said. And I'm listening to her like, "What?" Right? So, I'm like, "This is crazy." Again, I'm like, "What are we doing?" like, you know, I'm like trying to get over this. I'm like, this is going nowhere. So, she basically is saying I she told me something in confidence, but I can decide whether to tell you because if I tell you, it's not going to be beneficial obviously, but if I don't tell you, you'll be blind to it and then I can keep control of you, right? So, she kind of trying to approach her to that [ __ ] I'm like, so I said, "No, I got to know." And she was like, "Well, I think the best course of action would be, let's just start over with a clean slate. She just wants to be held and hugged. She's missing X, Y, and Z. She wants this. She wants you to pour in. She wants you to. And I was like, "Nope." But that's what I immediately I was like, "Oh, hell no." Because it's obvious at that point. It's obvious. I mean, I already knew was going on, but I now I was like, "Now it's obvious." And now I'm like, "Now you see the first two sessions were a waste." So I said, "This is the last session. I'm no longer working through this marriage." I was like, "It's officially over. We're done." I was like, "There's no way you can do that. I don't know anything about ethics or morals of of therapy, but I was like, that don't sound right." And I was like, "You you can go yourself." And I walked out. All right. I walked out. There was like, "No way." I was like, "That's all I needed to know." Now, I don't know what it was. I've never known what it was, but when I heard that, I was like, "It's over." So, a lot of people think, "Oh, she left me. She did this. She divorced me." I was like, "I don't tell you all the story." And that's not to make her look bad and me look good, but y'all don't even know the have. All right. When they told me that, I was like, "It's definitely over." I was like, "This is going nowhere." And then I think I moved out that day. The rest of the story was so we went home and um we drove in a car silent, quiet, 30 minute drive from Mission VA to Newport Beach. Drove there quiet. When I got there, her parents were sitting in the parking lot, right? And she got out of the car and left. I got out of the car and her father was like, "Well, things don't work out." And her parents don't even live in the state. They live in another state. They were in the parking lot. And I was like, they was sitting there waiting. I was like, "HOW THE Y'ALL ARE SITTING here waiting?" I was in the car with her. How the hell y'all sitting here waiting? Soon as I I was like, "Man, I moved out, packed up. I took a recliner, a Nintendo Wii, a blender, a couple of forks, moved into my car. I was like, "That's it. Move the out." So, people always like, "Well, she left too and this is that." I was like, "Nah, bro. Y'all don't even know." But, not to rehash all that, just telling you kind of how counseling works. It can work in your whole It can work like this. So, you can see that there was no intentions of them working it out. She was going in just to get a referee to set up the divorce so she can make me out to be the bad guy. So, everything's all lined up. As I call it, the toy soldiers. The toy soldiers was all lined up and wound up and she used them to manipulate everybody else. And she came back and I was gone. I took Yeah, I took the towels. I took a couple towels that she said I took from her. All right. Left her there. Wrote a letter. I'mma fight for these kids. Blah blah blah. I think she and then said, "Oh, you left." And she wanted to move. She was like, "Oh, I guess we not staying here no more." She wanted to move out of state. I was like, "Oh, no, no, you're not." She just thought I walked out. "Oh, you left. You walked out. So, I guess I get to keep the kids and keep the house and keep it and make decisions going forward. You left. I was like, "That's not how that works." So, and then I went to my parking lot and slept in my car. All right. I was like, "Nah, all that." I was like, "I'm going to get enough money so I can get my own place. It might take a month, two months, three months, four months. It end up taking two and a half months." But I was like, "I'm going to just stay in my car, right?" But when people tell me to get married in a relationship again, I'll be like, "Never again, bro. There ain't no way, bro. There ain't no way. And then going through the divorce and child custody for 12 years after that. No way, bro. Not in my mind. And they be like, "Well, that was just one bad one." Nope. That all right. Free agent lifestyle for life. That, bro. Hell no. Jode free agent lifestyle. I recovered. I became richer. I became more well-known, [ __ ] And she was the catalyst for the entire, bro. I was like, I'mma make that money back. There ain't no way, my no way. All of that that I learned after that is literally what I teach you on a daily basis. And I'm not the only one that goes through that. Most men go through this and don't speak about it. They're trained. They're told not to talk about it. I literally had to go to court and the judge told me, "Don't talk about it." You know why they don't want you to talk about it? Because if men were out here talking about it, none of you will get married. She took me to court to get me to stop talking about it on YouTube. I was like, "You ain't going to get me to stop talking." And the judge was like, "If you bring this up again on YouTube, I'mma take your custody away." I was like, "You ain't going to stop me. I'mma keep talking about it." So, most men do not get to talk about it because they get told and threatened not to reveal the system that you signing up for. And then when you talk about it, I got to deal with all the shaming and all this. You just hurt you all this. And I'm like, "No, I'm going to reveal this system that you're volunteering for." It's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when. Most of you guys are going to get this work statistically. And it gets ugly. Most men are told to not talk about it. And then you're shamed for talking about it. Oh, just move on. Just get over it. Just marry someone else. Just try again. Don't be bitter. Nah. Not me. All right. Not me. I'mma reveal what's going on out here. Just so you guys know, anybody can get that work, including me. But doing it again, hell to them. You cannot pay me to do that again. You can't pay me. The guy Nope. Well, there'll be a better woman. Nah, that I don't care. You can be a better woman with me and we can do this without marriage and you can live in your apartment over there, but not me. I'm not the one, [ __ ] The world only moves for those who take control and force it to respect them. If you're not building, you're declining. If you're not growing, you're shrinking. If you're not winning, you're losing. Every man has two choices. Be the hunter or be the hunted. Be the man who writes the checks or the one who waits for payday. Success is not given, it's taken. Wealth is not stumbled upon. It's built brick by brick with discipline and vision. The time for waiting is over. The time for hoping is gone. Now is the time to move, to build, to dominate. A man without money is a man without options. He settles for scraps instead of commanding the feast. The weak begin. The strong take. The poor complain. The rich strategize. The ones who hesitate get left behind. The ones who act become legends.