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Hey everybody, good to see you again. So let's talk about the conjunction between the moon and Venus in a composite chart today. One of the very few aspects between the moon and Venus in a composite chart that are not fabulous. Usually all of the aspects, uh, even the minor hard aspects and the hard aspects between moon and Venus are good if you can get them in composite charts, but the conjunction is the one that does show a division or a lack of, uh, connection that both people experience as a result of the combination.
So, compositories are different than sinistry. Sinistry is how we connect and intersect and how we relate to each other on a day-to-day basis and is showing how our particular needs are or are not being met or what does that look like? Uh, in particular, the composite chart is bigger than that. The composite chart is what we both turn into, what we both experience. What, what is the mutual alchemy? So you know how you and this person that you know both kind of become this when you relate to each other. This person and this person over here, you both kind of become this. The composite chart is a picture of that, that picture of the chemistry between, uh, you know, vinegar and baking soda. When you see that reaction, when you put those two things together and it has that effect, it's a picture of that.
So with the conjunction between the moon and Venus, both of us feel like there is a, uh, like a chasm, a gap, a lack of connection that both of us are grappling with. The very reasons for being in the relationship. Hold on. I have to, I have to yell. Sorry, girls. Shh. Mommy's working. They're in heat today. Three of them at the same time. So, a little noisy and aggressive around here. Uh, so both of us have a, a complaint, a, um, a feeling of lack about the other person's availability, understanding ability to connect. The reasons for being in a relationship are maybe not being met in a big sector with this conjunction.
But this, be aware, can be a part of other things. This can just be a side to a relationship that does have other really good connections going on. But if this is in a composite chart that lacks emotional affinity or connectivity, uh, if we're not seeing evidence of emotional compatibility, this is something to very much pay attention to because this can be, uh, this can be something that is so not okay in the long-term scope of a relationship that both of us may choose to find comfort, safety, affinity, emotional connection, warmth. We may choose to find other outlets, other relationships, other people. And to a certain degree, to a large degree actually, we do have to do that with this conjunction because we don't naturally gravitate towards each other for that resting place, for that definition of home, safety, security. You know, you make me feel warm. I feel like I'm in a warm safe blanket. You know, this atmosphere that I'm, that I'm in with you. I just, you know, I want to be here. That's what we get from the, the good aspects between moon and Venus. That's a definition of a healthy, good, warm, hurt, um, you know, emotional affinity for each other.
We find over the course of time with this conjunction that unless we're both making really conscious efforts, which is actually hard because the moon is an unconscious thing. As we're making more conscious efforts to bridge that gap, we have to accept that there is a certain division or a canyon or a chasm that we are not going to be able to bridge. So the relationship has certain limitations when it comes to what it's going to be able to fulfill for both of us on that level of looking for something that is deeply comforting where we do have that assurance. So the other person gets our needs and is able to empathize with us.
So we can have other very good things going on. And if we do, this may be something that both people choose to tolerate, to deal with because it can be a part of other ways that we relate to each other when we do feel known. We do feel like we can be ourselves. We feel like we have a lot in common when it comes to activities or, uh, ideology. Um, what we want to build in the world. We can have a lot of good things going on, a lot of good reasons for being together even with this conjunction. But again, if it's part of a relationship that is challenged when it comes to what we're going to share in other ways, if there isn't enough agreement or affinity when it comes to the mutual attraction, our life goals, ideology, uh, lifestyle, uh, how we want to feel validated and appreciated and applauded. If, if we don't have other compensating and sometimes rather more heavily compensating things going on, we may decide that the relationship for both of us just is not emotionally feeding us. It, it doesn't meet our mutual definition of that safe resting place that we know we will find that acceptance, that hug, that invitation to relax. And so there is that really, a, a lack of total relaxation, of total comfort that, you know, for some people, they, they can manage it. Others know, um, particularly if both one or both of us is more emotionally unavailable in the natal.
This conjunction over the course of time can have us feeling like, um, we're becoming more emotionally alien to each other. It can become more and more isolated. The two, uh, experiences of the emotions in the relationship. We'll keep more and more to ourselves and we'll choose to find other outlets, other friends, uh, other activities, um, family, sometimes affairs, if we're prone to that, we'll find something to fill in that gap. So it is one to pay attention to and, um, it can explain a lot in terms of both of us, you know, being in some cases very emotionally prepared to have a warm safe blending, but we don't seem to get it here. Sometimes there's not anything wrong with us. Sometimes we are emotionally available, but in this connection, we're not.
So, if you're interested in knowing more about this, you can find me at my website, Truth and Aspect Astrology. If this is something that you're dealing with in your own relationship, uh, I am open for consultation. You can find me at my website right now. Uh, I'm not always open, but I did open for the rest of the year. And I was g, you know what? I think I will write a sinistry or composite module, but probably not till February. So I'll keep you updated about that. And if you're interested in more videos, stay tuned. I will see you guys super soon. Bye.