You almost hate to see it. Just kidding, they deserve it.

[music] Good morning, good evening, good afternoon everybody, no matter where in the world you are today. Let me just start by saying merry Christmas to you if you happen to celebrate it. I do. Christmas is the uh reason for the season in my opinion. So uh for those of you that celebrate it for the rest of you, I guess happy holidays. I I suppose I'll be nice.

Uh, the Christmas crashs have arrived. Oh my goodness. All of a sudden, all these women are reflecting back on the times of their past and they're realizing, hey, you know something? Uh during the holidays uh it's kind of lonely and that and these are relatively youngish attractive women that are saying that which is why they have a thing called cuffing season uh that I'm actually going to be talking about because women are I guess they just want a warm body around because they can't keep a man and just want to hook up and sleep with everybody. Uh but there's a couple of crash outs here that I kind of want to talk about a little bit because this is the season where if you are a uh a single person, you definitely get into a place where it can be a little tough. Uh for us men, we have things like community, which I'll be talking about in just a second. For the women, they don't have anything except maybe their cats and their wine.

Now, uh, speaking of, uh, uh, hangouts and everything, uh, I have a I do a on Christmas Eve and part part of Christmas day, I do a live stream and it's usually 12 to 24 hours long. Uh, it doesn't mean I'm going to be in front of the camera every minute. Uh, but what I do is I load up a bunch of either classic great movies that have slight Christmas themes, uh, such as the Terrifier movies, uh, traditional Christmas movies, uh, Rambo because it's got a Christmas tree and it's during the Christmas season, Die Hard because I don't care what you say that is a Christmas movie, but I also pull up like B-rated horrible movies with nice boobs in them and I play some of those. So, we basically have a hangout room and you can hang out. Now, you don't have to become a supporter. All you have to do is go over to Locals, which I think uh you can use your Rumble login if you have a Rumble login. I think you can log log into Locals with your Rumble credentials because the two have become one. And you can sign in, join my page, find my community, betterachelor.locals.com, and just join us for the stream. Don't have to support it. I'll make it open and free for everybody over on Locals because I do not want anyone hanging out or feeling like they've got nothing to do over the holidays.

If you're a single guy or you don't have family around or you're like me, you're getting a little older and family is kind of passing away. I just lost my dog 3 or 4 days ago, so it makes the holidays a little harder. My father passed on December uh 28th a few years ago. So, this time of year can be struggle a struggle for lots of us. So, come on over. It's free. You don't have to pay a subscription. Just sign in with an email. Make a username that I can read out loud. So if you say something nice, I'm not saying like, "Thank you, GT1473, Thundercap Wboarding." Just make a nice simple name that everybody can read and understand and that way I can read it out loud. Don't be alone for the holidays because it can be tough.

Uh we we'll start off here with uh this lady who I have to admit was probably a good-looking woman. Uh here's a photo of her. She was probably a looker when she was in her 20s and her 30s and maybe even her early 40s, but now she is 53 and she says, "I'll be lonely this Christmas because I forgot to have children." A woman 53 says the fast pace of London distracted her until it was too late and insists many women are the same. And come to find out, spoiler alert, lots of women are in the same boat. And what is this? This is from they get all the action, they get all the dates, they get all the fun, they get asked out all the time, they get flirted with, everybody loves to pay attention to them until they don't. And then all of a sudden you realize, oh, I'm completely alone and nobody cares about me anymore. They say a 53-year-old woman has confessed she forgot to have children, only realized when it was too late. Nadia Becker uh from London said partying, living a fast-paced life in the city, and a bad string of exes distracted her from making an active decision to become a mother. Before she knew it, she was 50 and lonely, having had no time to think about children. The aesthetic practitioner said she kept her feelings to herself out of embarrassment until she shared a video on Instagram and Tik Tok, admitting, "I forgot to have kids and it gets lonely sometimes." Prompted by Christmas on the horizon, a time she says makes being childless more difficult. She was inundated by supportive women who confessed they too had forgotten to have children. "In my 20s and 30s, I was working hard, partying hard. We were all like that," said Nadia. "I was meeting interesting, like-minded people. There was no time to think about kids. I also have a bad string of exes. Part of the reason I I never had kid was there was no man I would trust to have my kids."

This in a nutshell is where dating is today and relationships are today. Is these entitled women they focus on work. They she says herself, I was too busy partying and she was dating bad boys. I She says I have a bad string of exes and I would never have kids with those men. Then then why were you dating them? Then why were you having intimacy with them? Why were you hooking up with them? Why were you sleeping with them if you never saw a future? Now look, when you're in your 20s, I get it. There were plenty of women I went out with cuz they had a nice set of knockers and I had no intentions of making them a wife. I get that. But when you start getting up into your 30s or maybe even late 30s or late 20s, you should at least be dating people that you could trust if you had children with. I don't I mean, okay, granted, there were a few redheads in my past that were definitely the fiery redhead crazy type of person that I would never have kids with, but most of the women I think I dated uh for any period of time, whether it be a month or two or four or five months, if something happened and they said, "Well, I'm pregnant. I'm going to have your kid." There's not a part of Now, I would have been afraid being like, "Well, this is not exactly the future I saw for myself." But it's not like I would say I have to find a way to get the children away from her because she's absolutely crazy. But she literally says part of the reason I never had kids was there was no man I would trust to have my kids. I I'm all the way through your 50s. Really? I also um she said I'm not a manhater. I do take a lot of responsibility. I made questionable choices in my relationships. Maybe my mindset wasn't there so I never thought about the kids. All right, that's fine. But then why are you just dating bad people? We know why. The butterflies and the excitement.

However, Nadia said she insisted if she gave it more thought, she would have tried to find someone to have children with. She said, "I think because I never picked the right men. They weren't family oriented really. Uh I but I never really cared too much cuz I was wanting them for a different lifestyle. I would have never had kids with those types of men." What were those men? Say it with me, everybody. Top 10ers. Playboys. guys that like to hook up, the bad boys, the excitement, all the all the wrong reasons. And women openly today say this is why they date men because they have their own money and they don't need they don't need men for their money. They don't need men for their status. They don't need men for companionship. They have all the things. They just want to use men as boy toys. And then one day the boy toys dry up and that's the end of it. Uh she realized uh she said, "I realized one day my parents are getting old, my siblings are moving away. that especially on Christmas, it makes you feel really excluded. Even though I get invited places for Christmas and I do Christmas like things, I just don't have that family base at home and she has a dog. I mean, it's fine if that's what you want, but if you're if you're lonely and you're saying you wish you had kids, then that's that's what we like to call regret. Uh she said, "I've had so many comments back from women who have also worked and not bought into the family life, and they feel heard. They feel heard." She said, "I was nervous to post about it, but honestly, we were part of the girl boss and girl power era that gets women to want to work hard. We weren't ever taking time to think about kids. A lot of women, the same women going through menopause right now will be feeling this. It is something about Christmas. Those in the day that wanted to have children, they would go for that. The women that didn't, they didn't. I'm proud to be part of the movement going to work. My era was great." Yeah. Well, your your era is over now. And the true reality is she will be able to find a guy. She will be able to find an older man that's already had his children or maybe he's past his years and she'll be able to move on with him. But when you've got 53 years of well not 53, let's say she started at I don't know 20. When you've got 33 years of just exclusively dating bad boys and having the butterflies and everything else, that's all you got coming.

Uh the other uh video, I got a couple more videos here I want to play. I'll play them at a little bit faster speed because these women talk so slow and we don't care what they say really that much. But it's interesting that like this time of year specifically, this is from December 20th. This gal uploaded this on Tik Tok. She said, "Uh, I'm crashing out." I feel like such a dude right now because it took me over a year to realize how badly I fumbled the bag when dating this amazing man. Like he was one of the sweetest, kindest, most genuine guys I've ever dated. And I threw him away like day old trash. And I'm just so disappointed in myself in how I conducted myself and how I behaved and how I treated him and made him feel taken advantage of. And I'm just disappointed in the way that I ended things so abruptly, so rudely. And um this is something I've wanted to process so many times over the past year, but like I genuinely couldn't come face to face with myself and like how I conducted and just my behaviors because honestly I know so many of the reasons why I behaved the way I behaved is due to past traumas. And while that's not an excuse to treat people poorly, I do have to recognize how, you know, my past h like does affect me.

And >> I'm going to pause it right there for a second. This is why, say it with me, how many times do we have to repeat this stuff? Literally, I could say this in every video. Why does her past matter? Why does the previous men she's dated matter? Why do all the hookups and the body counts matter? She says it out of her own mouth. And when guys say, "Look, I don't want a woman with a bad past or that's dated the bad boys or that have a high body count." This is why because they come damaged. Now, when the women are a good mood and they're getting laid a lot and they're partying and they're having a great time, they just say this is coping by, I don't know, men or incelss or who hurt you or all the usual things. But when they actually get to the point where they they want to or need to be in a healthy relationship, they can't.

>> You know, I'm in therapy and I have a coach and I [sighs and gasps] >> Sorry to stop this again so quick. What kind of young 20some needs a therapist? What kind of young something 20some needs a life coach? Life is not that difficult unless you make it difficult. Unless I don't know, you have microaggressions. And she's obviously ob obviously very liberal just by the wording and the coding that she's using and the fact that she has a septum piercing. You know, it'll be interesting. In 30 or 40 years from now, doctors are going to look back on history and they're going to need to figure out why piercing the center of your nose with a metal object and putting a ring in there makes you [ __ ] They're going to have to look that up. something happened in history and they're going to wonder why did putting metal in this particular part of the body make women go insane. They're just going to have to. It's it's a thing. It will have to happen.

>> I'm working through a lot of these things. But yeah, it just it just sucks when you realize how badly you [ __ ] bumbled. And it's not just because it's 1:00 a.m. on a Friday night, coming home from the bars and realizing the like just it being so apparent how challenging it is to meet good men out in the wild. More of the truth comes out. They always tell on themselves. It's 1:00 a.m. on a Friday night. She went out and no guys were interested in her. That's what happened. Because I'll tell you right now, if Henry Caval I always like Henry Caval because he's a good-looking dude. He's got the British accent. Uh he's got muscles. Uh he's rich. Secretly, deep down, if you can't tell, I'm a little genu uh jealous of Henry Caval. He won the genetic lottery. But she didn't get her Henry Caval for the night cuz if if if Henry Caval uh had it her had her heels up in the air and had her folded in half, she would not be making this video. She would wake up in the morning feeling great about life. and she's very excited that the opportunity that these men still want her. What happened is she did not get hit on. She didn't get talked to. She realizes that meeting any man is going to be a challenge and now she's starting to feel lonely. This is a crash out at 1:00 a.m. 5 days before Christmas on how she's going to be alone and that the guys aren't barking up her tree anymore.

>> Um, yeah, it's it's definitely a wakeup call. I'm like consistently working on my [ __ ] with my therapist so that I don't I don't let subconscious behaviors and reactions treat other people poorly and you know stand in the way of my own happiness.

>> We get it. There's another minute left, but we get the idea. Uh here's this is from December 7th, just a couple weeks ago. Same thing. a a woman bit into the feminism lies of being a boss bee and and now she's she's crashing out because she realized she's going to be alone.

>> When I was in college, I dated a very traditional Christian man who asked me at one point, "How do you feel about after you graduated, we just immediately got married and you were a stay at home wife and you didn't have to work?" I was honestly offended by that question because I was so passionate about this thing that I was getting a degree in that I was just so eager to enter the workforce and do this thing that I loved and get money for it. Um, fast forward to today. I've graduated. We broke up. I'm now working in the profession of the thing that I got a degree in. And I changed my mind. [snorts] I changed my mind. I don't I don't want to do it anymore. I'm done. I'm done. I don't [laughter] I like the fact that when she starts crying, she starts sounding like Slingblade. I don't want to do this anymore. I don't want to do this anymore. Her voice completely changed. Went about three octaves lower. She had the guy. She had a man. He would marry her. He would give her a beautiful life, stay at home, just raise the children, just relax and have a good time of it. Uh Brian Atlas, if if you know who Brian Atlas is, he's the owner and the host of whatever podcast. Uh I follow him because he posts these all day long. So he's he's a great uh if he's a great follow on X if you want to find this stuff. And he says only 50 more years to go. You got this. US tax system thanks you for your support and your participation. Hopefully he's happily married with a beautiful family offered freedom and traded it for a toxic work environment. That's what's happening. These women, boy, they got to they got to fight it.

Uh here's the thumbnail video. I'll I'll zoom this up just a little bit. I'm I'm going to start with how it started with uh she is a pretty woman with all her makeup on. She's not even terrible looking. She's not even terrible looking with all her makeup off, but she's definitely a lot prettier with the gobs and gobs and gobs of makeup. Also, uh she's had lip fillers and some other work. This is this is the loop that these women go through. I'm playing these just to make you feel better for Christmas. By the way, guys, uh if any point you're like, "Man, I'm single. like I I got my life together. Uh for some reason I can't keep a woman or these women are just bouncing on me. This is why they're they're crashing out. We'll be fine. That's why you're going to join me over on betterbachelor.locals.com. I didn't you know this picture does look a little bit like my face, I think, which means I'm getting fat. I need to lose weight when I'm starting to look like Santa. I got to go on my diet here. Uh anyway, this is how it started. This is how it ends up. I'll I'll uh I'll leave it up to her to explain it.

>> I do not accept a coffee or a walk as a possible date option and neither should you. First of all, I'm not a dog that needs to be walked. Second, I have an espresso machine at home. Works fabulous. We're not doing drinks either. You're going to try to get me drunk and take me back home. No, we are doing dinner. You're going to pick me up. We're going to come to the restaurant. We're going to see your table manners. We're going to see what you order. We're going to see do you hold your chopsticks correctly. We're just going to, you know, study you a bit. [music] Okay. So dinner it is.

>> All right. So she demands dinner. No drinks, no coffee, no walks, nothing that's free. You have to take her out to an expensive dinner so she can judge you. So she can determine if you have I don't know the ability to pay for food uh to see if you hold chopsticks correctly. It's all about the judgment. Now, this is the same woman. I I did actually uh look up these videos where they came from over on uh Tik Tok.

>> I started the egg freezing process. I did some preliminary tests which showed that my egg count is really low. The doctors did tell me that that might affect my fertility. It's just so sad. I have been like crying the entire day, but I just feel this giant [snorts] pain in my stomach right now. They have all the This is from December 21st. All these are within the last couple of days. Now, I'm not saying necessarily that this is a a Christmas crash out, but uh like that other woman, it's that time of year. It's around the Christmas holiday season. You see kids making snowmans, snowmen with their parents out in the yard, and you see, uh uh mothers and fathers buying gifts for their kids. It is a very familyoriented. And now she finds out, well, you better start freezing your eggs because and and if you know anything about egg freezing, it's not uh the reason why they put five and six and seven uh fertilized embryos in there at once is because there's a good chance that many if not most of them fail. Now, in some cases, all of them take and that's how you get up octuplet mom that had like eight kids. But she's still single. She's freezing her eggs and everything else and she's still single, which means if she wants to have this family, she's going to have to find the guy. She's going to have to have him propose to her. Then they're going to have to get married. Then I guess he's going to have to want uh in vitro fertilization, IVF. Or or he could say, "You know something? I can just find a hot 24 year old. We do it the oldfashioned way, the fun way that also doesn't cost me $15,000 per attempt." And uh instead of the 15,000 per attempt, uh I'll I'll I'll buy her a couple of drinks. We'll go out to dinner after hopefully they're engaged and married. And they do it the oldfashioned way, which is just Randy in the backseat of a car. And uh don't do the pull out process.

Uh here's here's a video of what happens to these women and how they get themselves in these predicaments. This is just from again just a week ago. She's now going celibate because she gives it up to all the bad boys constantly and then realize she just gets pumped and dumped. So what's happening? Uh she falls in love. He falls asleep. He forgets her name and then he moves on and she's single.

>> I got attached to my one night stand. So 5 months ago I hooked up with this guy and for whatever reason I just got attached to him and he became really distant after we hooked up and I was like wow. Okay, I got played. I just [laughter]

>> it was a one night stand for both of them until she fell in love. And then she doesn't blame herself. She blames him for her catching feelings. How many times does this happen before you'll actually learn that player's going to play?

>> Just kind of felt emotionally wrecked afterwards. And I kept thinking to myself, why am I not good enough for him? And what can I do to be good enough for him? What can I change about myself so that he'll like me back? And this was the second time I noticed myself getting attached over a hookup. I think this was the third time I kind of let myself be convinced by a guy that if I just slept with them first, they would give me something more. And then

>> Oh, there it is. Where's my button?

>> Ding, ding, ding. What do we have for her, Johnny?

>> There it is. She thinks she's she's a five or six that thinks she can capture an eight or nine or 10 by just sleeping with them, giving the guy what he wants. And she thinks that's going to capture him, that that's going to make him have feelings for her. Let me say this for the 18,000th time. These guys have plenty of options. You're just a notch on their belt. Nothing you're going to do is going to make them fall in love with you. guys today that are in the top 10 or 20% have it easier than ever because they have literally all the women falling over them. It doesn't work that way. And they do this right up until uh I'm 54 and I'm alone for Christmas because nobody wants me.

>> And after this third time, I just kind of realized I think I'm better off avoiding men right now because I can't tell what their true intentions are. So, I became celibate.

>> You're sleeping with them first. That is their true intentions. Their intentions are, "I would like to stick my pecker in you." Your intentions are the same until you catch feelings. And she'll repeat this until forever alone.

Uh don't forget, I am going to talk about cuffing season. And now I guess they call it snowmaning. Uh so this gal uh these women uh this is 3 minutes and 33 seconds. I do want to play a good portion of this. I'll speed it up just a whisper because these women are starting to crash out because guys are not asking them out anymore and it's the holiday season and they're starting to feel lonely. I need to like crash out for a minute here. Okay, look. I'm not looking my best. I think my hair looks a little greasy. I just came from my son's um playoff um travel baseball game. I decided afterwards cuz it's not my weekend, but I'm just going to go grab a bite to eat. I didn't want to go sit at home by myself again. That felt depressing. and um like I'll just go sit at a bar and have dinner and who knows maybe I'll meet someone. And then finally towards the end a somewhat decent like attractive man comes in. He sits right next to me, looks at me. I could tell I could feel I could feel the vibe that he was like interested but he didn't say one word. Didn't say one word at the entire time. I I sat there. I was like kind of

>> she's a single mom that went into a bar/rest and is sitting at the bar. That's that's not quality men. But to her point, the guy came in. I I mean, she's a single mom, but he wouldn't know that. He might be looking at her as h she's a mid-30 or upper 30s something. Not too bad looking, kind of pretty. And then what does he remember? He remembers all the social media posts and all the videos of women online on X, on Instagram, on Tik Tok screaming, "We don't want your attention. Leave us alone." Now, she thought he was attractive. He doesn't know he's attractive. He I mean, I even made a post about this the other day. OnX, I might think to to maybe some women they might find me attractive. I personally don't think I'm attractive. I think most of you would agree on that. [laughter] I don't think I'm attractive. Most people would agree I'm not attractive. But there might be a woman that finds me attractive, but I certainly wouldn't hit on her because I don't know that she thinks I'm attractive. You know, there's some women that like, I don't know, bigger guys. There's some women that like athletic guys. There's some women that like tall guys. I don't seem to be any of those things. So, so even if she was kind of giving signals somewhere in your brain as a man now because of all the screaming for the last decade about men and patriarchy and white men and and leave us alone and feminism, there's just a point where you're like, "Okay, I could maybe flirt with her, get shot down, I'm going to sit here embarrassed eating my dinner, or I have to pick up and move away from this woman because my feelings are hurt, and then I'll look like a skullking dog as I creep off into a corner to finish my dinner. Or I can take a look at her and say, "You know something? The juice isn't worth the squeeze. It's just not worth it. I'm not even going to bother asking." As guys age, as guys get more damage done to them. Anyway, that Asian chick that's like, "Oh, I'm going through trauma and therapy and and uh you know, I don't trust men anymore." Okay? You know, I I dumped a good man. After you do that to enough good men, they learn and they say, "I'm not going to go through this. I I'm not going to go through this anymore. It's not worth the juice isn't worth the squeeze." Here's another youngerish woman. She doesn't look too old. And here's another woman lamenting. Men just can't be bothered anymore.

>> About the men not approaching women thing. If you are a man and you are watching this, you have to be not afraid to be rejected. That's part of the game. That's part of being a man. You have to be okay with being rejected. You can't be a beta. that you can't be. You have to go up to women and be fine if she says no. That's it. And it's not a reflection on you. She's just not into you if she says no. But go up to women. If you see a cute girl at the gym, like you can there's ways you can go to women that aren't creepy. Like you can be like, "Hey, do you need a spot? Like say something about their form or

>> I love the fact that this woman is giving men advice on how to pick up women and that we need to we need to step up, fellas. Where all the good men at? We need to be brave. Don't worry about getting turned down. Give her the opportunity to either select or not select you. Nah, that used to work in the past. We're not stepping up to the plate so you can judge us uh or deem us worthy or not. Not happening.

>> We're just like, say hi. Just say hi. It's

>> No. No. There are guys that are like, "Hey, how you doing?" And women are like, "Ew, why are you even talking to me? You're gross. Get away from me." That's a lot different than, "Oh, no. Thank you very much." That's very sweet of you, but I I I'm dating somebody or I'm not interested. You're saying the same thing, but it's two completely different ways. I do remember asking out women back in the '90s, and they'd be like, "Oh, I'm flattered, but no, I have a boyfriend." Or, "Oh, no, thank you. I'm I'm not interested." Now, yes, there are a lot of guys that won't take no for an answer, and they keep pushing it, and then women have to freak out. But at the first attempt, you have to freak out at a guy. And if you say yes because men don't know when to say no and men are pigs and men are all these bad things. Well, you just answered your own question as to why men don't ask you out anymore even once because they get the ew and shaming language and everything else. So guys are just like nah I'm good.

>> It's so easy. If a girl is looking at you at a bar, go up to her. She wants you. If you see a cute girl at a bar, go up to her. You don't even have to buy her drinking. Just say hi. Compliment something about what she's wearing. Compliment like her hair. Anything. It's not that hard. It's very easy.

>> No, it [laughter] I love how women think it's so easy for the hot guys. It's super easy. A hot guy can walk up and go, "Wow, you are dog ugly, but I'll still take you home to bang you. Give me your number." You'll be like, "Oh my god, he's so mean and and stupid. You're awful. Here's my number. I'm free tonight." That That's what it happens for hot guys. For an average guy, if he's like, "Hey, I like your hair." She'd be like, "Shut up. We know this is true. Because we see all these women, it's why do men just feel they can walk up and talk to me? Like you're ugly. You don't deserve to talk to me. There's tens of thousands of videos of that.

>> You just have to be not scared of getting rejected is the thing. That is part of being a man. So what? You want us to go up to you? So

>> yes. Yes. That is now the social contract we have. That's where we're at. You need to go up to your top 10enters and put yourself out there so he can choose whether he's going to sleep with you or not. I'll tell you right now, he's not going to date you. And then put yourself out to an average man. And yeah, he'll sleep with you. And he might even date you. But you won't do that because you're the ones that change the rules, though. That's the irony.

>> So the girls have to not be scared to get rejected is what it's come to. No, as a man.

>> No, you don't get to use shaming. No, it doesn't. You don't get to use shaming language on us as a man who's part of the patriarchy and you're an oppressor. The glass or the uh the wage gap. No. No. We're not doing this anymore. There is no as a man you need to do. Cuz we say as a woman you need to do and you tell us to shut up. So now is my turn. Shut up.

>> You're the one that has to put yourself out there and be and be okay getting rejected. That's the risk that you take by being a man. Nah, no, you're not worth the risk. That's just the catch 22. It's officially cuffing season and snowmanning is the dating trend of the month. I I love this. Women are to the point now where they're just like, "Would you please spend some time with me, Chad?" Now, they don't want to spend time with you and me. They don't want to just hang out with you and me. They want Chad to hang around for more than one night of pump and dump. Winter's officially arrived and with it comes the annual urge to text people you forgot about in July. Yes, it's cuffing season, but this year it has, as expected, spawned a new dating trend. Snowmanning. If cuffing season's about finding someone to survive the cold with, snowmaning is about finding anyone to pass the time with until spring shows up and feelings melt. They're saying it right to your face. Please let me find just anyone to spend the holidays with. Make me I It's cold out. I don't want to bother going out. I just want somebody that I can call that'll come over and hang out with me and bring me Door Dash and pay for some dates and maybe sleep with me and feed me and and then in hot girl summer I'm going to dump you. Uh snowmaning is when you knowingly date someone you're not that into. In other words, most women, whether emotionally, intellectually, or romantically, but they're available, attentive, making winter feel less boring. Okay, let's break that down because they tell you in their own words, "Knowingly date someone you're not that into, whether emotionally, intellectually, or romantically. They don't say physically." Notice what they don't say. and they don't say it for a reason. Women don't want to get emotional about a guy. They're not intellectually stimulated about the guy. They're not even romantic about him, but he's hot and you want to bang him. And you don't want to have to go to the clubs and you don't want to have to keep being on the dating apps. So, you just want to find a a good-looking guy to bang all winter. That's literally what they're saying. It is certainly, as Jenzie puts it, a red flag dating trend, but viral nonetheless, in an age where dating is a chore. Since winter is peak loneliness season with short days, dwindling social calendars, this is where snowmaning comes in, filling the gap between I'm fine alone, and I don't want to be alone right now. You can think of it as finding someone not to date long term, but to watch shows with or text during holiday holiday downtime. basically companionship without commitment and everyone involved quietly understands the assignment. My god, are we in lonely dark times? It's an assignment now. People are just doing anything anything but being realistic about their options and they're they're desperate. The desperation is dripping off them in waves. While cuffing season implies the least possibility, at least the possibility of uh something lasting, snowmaning doesn't. There are no where's this going conversations because everybody knows exactly where it's going. It's nowhere past March. It's dating with clear expiration date. Whether it's clear to your partner is another story and trend, right? So, these women want to bang these guys all summer or excuse me, all winter. The girls fall in love. The guys have a rotation of four other girls. They're banging because this again is only the top 10 percentage of guys or 20% of guys. And then the woman catches the Fifi and the guy drifts just like this other previous woman that she's I slept with this hot guy and I don't even know what's going on. And it's happened to me three times where I sleep with these hot guys and I catch feelings and but yet they used me. Well, duh. Uh the rules of snowmanning. Uh you don't future plan beyond the next few weeks. This means no meeting parents, no big declarations. You enjoy the moment, not potential. And when winter goes and spring arrives, you're you part ways politely or mutually ghost. If that sounds transactional, it kind of is, but it's also largely consensual. So, if you find yourself texting someone you wouldn't have looked at twice in the summer, congratulations. You're not confused. You're just snowmanning. God, we live in such horrible, depressing times for dating. They, you know, these women will do anything but come to grips with reality. They'll do anything but fall in love with a guy that's on a similar level to them that they could fall in love with. And no, he's not Dreamy McDreamboat. He's average. You're average. You grow up having a good average life with good average kids. Like that's just how life works. But these women have just through feminism and all this other stuff been promised the moon and never never settle for less or you go girl. So now they're literally sharing the same men over the course of a few months or whatever. And it's just dark. And what guy wants to be part of this? I guess there's a lot of guys that, you know, if if you're the player type and you're not trying to get emotionally attached to any of these women and you're just out there trying to get hookups and have a good time, I guess it's I guess snowmaning is the perfect season for you because on Monday you'll text and call one girl and hook up with her. On Wednesday's another, on Thursday's another one, and then Friday and Saturday you go out with the boys to try to find more women. I know this happens. I was in the military with a lot of good-looking guys that were athletic and funny and charming, and that's literally all they did is they would have girls calling them and coming over to their dorms and knocking on the door and trying to constantly and then calling them jerks and a-holes because they just ended up hooking with them. And it was four years, my four years in the military, there were guys doing that for four years. And the guys would laugh and drink beer, drink beers and and have uh conversations about these dumb women that kept doing it. And then the rest of the guys are like, "Man, dating kind of sucks." I've seen this firsthand with friends and acquaintances and co-workers of mine in the military. And what happened in the end? I don't know where those women are. Those guys were they're just out having fun. And women keep trying to do the same thing. And then they end up catching feelings like this chick saying, "Well, I thought they would change after sleeping with him." The crashs are here, man. The crashs are here. And granted, it is all year long, but it does get especially strong and especially bad this point of year because it's a it's a hard time to be alone if you're not used to it or you you're getting near that age where you thought you'd have a family, but you were too busy partying it up and living the high life in London. Eventually, every day is going to be a crash out Christmas. Like it there, these women just they have a shelf life and they just do not understand it. And when when they all reach there, which they eventually will, bad times are ahead. I can tell you that. But not for us. Because once again, I invite you to come over. Just sign up betterachelor.locals.com. You don't have to leave a donation. You can become a supporter for five bucks a month, but you don't need to for this stream, okay? It'll be like a between a 12 and 24-hour stream. It'll start tonight, Christmas Eve. It'll go all through the night until Christmas Day because I've got fans and viewers from all around the world. And your Christmas Eve and Christmas Day is different from mine. And so, we're going to try to keep this stream going for everybody. And that way uh and that way you've got some something to do and someone to hang out with so you're not alone. So, come on over betterachelor.locals.com. Sign up at Locals, sign up at Rumble. I think you can use those credentials. Come on over and join us. Do not spend the holidays alone. If you're in a bad place, just come on over, hang out with us. We make fun of movies. We tip back a few drinks. I should get some eggnog. And we're going to have a good time. So, come on over, join us, and we'll see you gentlemen in the next one. [music]