Single Women Regrets at 40 ( Passport Bro Reaction )

I am a pasper bro who lives right here in Southeast Asia. Today I'm going to react to some of the um videos of a lovely American and European women in their 30s and specifically in their 40s about uh, you know, some possible regrets that they may have in their lives by essentially behaving like most modern women behave um, in essentially what created the red pill movement. Where now men and I think a lot of people misunderstand the red pill movement. A lot of the red wheel movement is about this long list of things that we now have to watch out for when we're dating modern women or men like me who just don't want to do that anymore and just bail and go to countries where there's still some good submissive, agreeable, feminine, and essentially traditional women. Are now that is not necessarily the goal. Uh, there are a lot of many many other benefits of living in these countries. Uh, but it is definitely one of uh, the biggest uh, and uh, now not it's not to say that we don't have modern women here. By all means, we do um, especially women who speak English, they're usually already westernized and Americanized. I try to stay away from them um, though I do come across them, you know, more and more. Of course, some are western and some are Thai women who speak English. Um, try to stay away from them, but now that I have this job, right, I do come across them a little more than I probably wanted to, just to feel a little bit of pain that you guys are feeling so I can keep my fingers on the pulse of what's happening with with dating in uh, in modern countries.

So, you know, let's just get to. So, this is just a compilation of um a bunch of these videos. I sometimes I just react directly to them and I posted a few of them. I think the most popular video that I have on Tik Tok is essentially me reacting to uh one of these women. But, let's go through a few. Uh, I I haven't watched them really ahead of time. So this is really this really is a live reaction. Let me know your reaction in the uh comment section or if you're watching me live. Um, I'm streaming live from Bangkok right here. Beautiful. I would say the most beautiful city in the world. I love it dearly. So all right, let's get going. Um, this is the first one.

Soing tired of being the strong, independent, resilient one all the time. It'sing exhausting. It is so exhausting and draining to act like everything is okay all the time when you are absolutely [ __ ] breaking inside. So sick of being. Yeah. Yeah. So she's is essentially describing what it's like to be a man, right? I mean there's so much pressure on most men uh who have to provide for their families, for their children, who have to deal with a bunch of stuff at work, who have to work long hours, you know, mental health is all of these things. Yes. So basically when you say uh see we don't have to say we're strong and independent that's just expected of us, right? If you're a man that's just another way of saying you're strong and independent where women you know kind of emphasize that uh and this is where it leads right uh I never honestly I just never understood women because I feel like any girl who would you know anybody wants an easier life and no life is easier and you know being a good you know marriage material woman which really doesn't take that much, right? Don't be a [ __ ] you know put some makeup on and heels on and dress well and don't be argumentative, combative, the end, right? Really not that hard to to to be a desirable woman who is a wife material and yet I never and the life is going to be easy you know a good man as long as you know how to pick good men which again I don't think it's their heart a good man will come along and you you know in some cases don't even have to work in some cases you know you can have whatever job um the man was going to provide, make all the decisions, it's just going to be easy you know life for the rest of your life. I don't understand why women gave that up in in and became essentially you know strong and independent having to do everything themselves and in most of the time it and I would say 99% of the time it sacrifices what they cannot achieve at the same time which is having a good relationship with a good man so I never really understood. But as you can see, as they're hitting their 30s and 40s, it's becoming apparent to them, but it's too late. And we'll talk about it in a second, I'm sure.

Here's the next lovely lady, which I can already see has a nose ring. You know, tattoos, nose rings, red hair, blue hair. I mean, is is that still a secret for women that they should not do that? You know, that I mean, the nose rings, at least you can correct that problem by taking it out. But why put in it? Like I've never met a man or even read a comment or watched a video where a man goes like, you know, I'm not going to [ __ ] that girl until she puts a nose ring in there, you know, cuz that looks amazing. It's just to, you know, just in case if women are watching, which they really should. Um, you know, the nose ring is an indication that you're combative and argumentative, right? Because it's essentially sort of a symbol of um being strong and independent and an alternative, right? And usually it's an alternative to being a traditional woman. That's why we just run. Plus, it looks [ __ ] ugly. Now, when it's a little bit of a stud here, it doesn't look as ugly. And yes, I know in some cultures, I was just in Africa, in countries like India and I think Pakistan, it is more part of the tradition and sometimes religion. So, it's okay. But this things like a I mean don't don't cows have that when there is a never mind. Let's let's keep watching.

Told that I should be happy single. I don't want. Well, see that's the thing. Women listen to other women cuz no man is going to tell you that oh yeah sure you'll be happy single in your 30s and 40s. No problem. It's the other [ __ ] women who tell you that you should be happy and will be happy in their in your in in your life if you're if you're single. Um and and this is the problem. Women take advice of other women about and usually those women don't have a better personal life either, right? They don't take it they don't take advice from tread wives, right? They take advice from other women who are miserable and single and and I just don't understand. It's not even that hard to, I think, fathom is that listen, if you want to know how to be happy, ask ask a friend who's been in a long-term marriage or relationship and is actually truly happy and still has a great sex life and see how she did it, right? But no, all these miserable women take the same advice from each other and then one, I can't believe that didn't work. You know what I mean?

To be I want to be in love. I want to be sickening to everyone around us. I want to adore them and I want them to adore me. I want to find my person. I want to love them and I want them to love me. I have so much of myself to pour into someone and right now I feel empty. Well, so that's questionable because a lot of this, you know, women say, "I have so much to give and all of that stuff." And but at the end of the day, modern women don't have that much to give compared to what women used to 10, 20 years ago. What what really is a w Thai women, traditional Thai women or Filipino women or Southeast Asian women or s, you know, South American, Latin American women, what it is that they give their man. I mean, modern women have besides sex, uh, modern women have very little to offer. And this is where they also go wrong. I mean, they don't cook, they don't clean, they're argumentative, they they got [ __ ] nose rings and tattoos. I mean, there's just pretty much nothing that a man wants anymore besides sex, which, you know, I've already talked in other videos that, you know, can be easily purchased and pretty soon there will just be services that create uh humanoid robots. I mean, it's not tomorrow, but it is coming. So, women women are absolutely, especially modern women are on a t timet, right? Because once men figure out how to replace sex, and we will, especially now, uh, when there is a necessity, really, a a woman like this, as pretty as she is, you know, she ain't going to be as pretty as the humanoid robots, except for you can tell the humanoid, you can order the humanoid robot to not put the [ __ ] nose ring in, right? Like, how the [ __ ] nobody told her this about the nose ring? Really? Like, not a single person in her life. And all these simp men, none of them, none of them make comments on her videos on or maybe a friend, a male friend just like, "Hey, listen, just so you know, just, you know, we don't want that."

All right. Um, it shouldn't be that. By the way, I I do have to say that I do feel genuinely sad for these women. I feel bad for them because you know they are um they are they seem to be genuine in in their um in their sadness right now. Most of the time it's their own [ __ ] fault and the result of their bad choices and horrible behavior and all of those things, but as a human being I do feel bad for them because you know they a lot of them sound very much sincere right um so that's that's just sad you know because they've all could have t like this one's cute right the previous one was cute like it's not like they would have problems attracting men visually, right? It's just like everything else that's just so not attractive that essentially drives men back into their homes to the computer games and the gyms, right? And men like me to Thailand in other countries to just get away from them because it it is it is it is impossible to date women like this. It's hard to find love. But all I find myself doing is scrolling through stupid dating apps, finding stupid men who just want sex.

Ah, so yes. Now, this is a couple of things that that women just need to accept. First of all, if men constantly asking you for sex, maybe that's all you appear that you have all you have to offer, right? Maybe you appear that that's it. That's all you have to offer. There's nothing else to you, right? Like women never take responsibility for this. And secondly, listen, I'm sorry. It's just like this is men. We're all the same in terms of like, yeah, we all want to bang you. If we if we're attracted to you, right? If we see an attractive girl, we're going to try to bang her. If a man is not trying to bang an attractive girl, there's something mentally or physically wrong with him. He needs to see a doctor. This is just how we are wired. Whether you believe in evolution or God or whatever, this is just how men are made. And if we're attracted to you, we're going to try to bang you. Like make [ __ ] peace with it. Every goddamn generation of women complain. All they want to do is sex, you know. Yeah. Well, all all you want to do is talk like you know like yeah this is a joke that we were played about. You know we want different things and we just have to play this game. Just stop complaining about the game. Uh, but most importantly like I know that I treat women sort of I put them into kind of three categories, right? I think it's called [ __ ] Mary kill, right? Women who are like okay I'm just not attracted to fine. Uh, but the other two categories are women that I'm attracted to, but immediately I would put them in one of the two categories. And most men do the same. You know, either the women are like, "Oh, a potential wife material, right? I'm the way she carries herself, the way she dresses, the fact that she doesn't have the nose ring or tattoos, like all of that, right?" Uh, and women who have nose rings and tattoos and dress a certain way and talk a certain way where um I'll be like, "Yeah, I'll bang her, but that's it. I don't see any more value beyond that. And a lot of times even that is not even a big value. Especially here, you know, I live in Bangkok. Like sex is not a problem in any way, shape or form. So even that is not really that attractive on Western women. You know, I have not dated or had sex with a western woman ever since I got here. You know, I just I just I can't I just so allergic, you know, I tried once in a while. I'm like, "Well, she's attractive, right?" And you know, and then as soon as I start talking, I'm like, "No, no, no, no. I can't do it. I just can't do it." Right. Uh, all right. Let's keep going.

And I'm so sick of it. Why is it so hard to find love? I can't stop. Ah, why is it so hard to find love? It's your behavior, ladies. It's your behavior, you know. Um, you have you have thrown away the list of original uh characteristic characteristics and things that the husband should have, right? You don't give a [ __ ] about education anymore or character or hard work uh or you know being in shape, being wellraveled, being from a good family, someone who's well spoken, someone who likes kids if you're looking for, you know, uh to have kids. Um you know, all of those things that work, you know, classic husband material, you don't give a [ __ ] anymore, right? You care about stupid [ __ ] you know, or or a lot of you don't even know what a good man is. I mean, you're raised by single mothers. You're raised in families when there is a father, but he's a s. So, it's even worse. An example of a man in your life is essentially a pushover and and and a spineless uh you know, simp. It's it's it's sometimes and it's you know in many cases it's not your fault but you're keeping up this vicious circle and because you will become a single mother because you don't know what a good man is. You will pick the wrong one. He'll get you pregnant and he will leave. Well, you will have to leave him because he's an abusive [ __ ]. It's just it's on and on and on. So, it's not that hard to find love. It's just your behavior is such a turnoff. There are plenty of women here in Southeast Asia that find love just fine, you know, but they're feminine. They're non-combative. They're they're they don't have nose rings or tattoos. They're submissive, you know. They're kind. Uh they know what a good man is, you know. So, it's not that hard if you actually start listening to men and not your friends.

Um, I'm happy and I love my life. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I I think this is everything that's wrong with with with with modern women in a nutshell, right? She is crying. She's definitely upset, which I'm sure we'll find out why in a second. What what what could it be? But she literally says, uh, I am happy. I love my life. Right? I mean, I I don't mind that she's lying to me because I can easily see through her. I think anybody would, right? But the problem is these women are lying to themselves, right? They're like, "Oh, no. I'm happy. I'm fine." Well, I'm fine. What is this? This or not? Ah, dude. This is just tears, right? What do you mean? You know, this is the hypocrisy of modern women, right? They know they're [ __ ] miserable. They know they're going to be even more miserable and they're not willing to change.

Here in Thailand, it is amazing. I've already done quite a few uh um videos about this phenomenon, right, of modern American and European women coming here to Thailand, right, to live, right, tourists, whatever, but to live. And they live here for one, two, three years. You know, a lot of times they're teachers or whatever or there's a job assignment with offices in Thailand or whatever, right? And so they look around and they see all this men, Thai men, foreign men, uh, with with Thai women and pretty much never with like I I keep telling you guys, if you watch my channel for a while, I've been here for over two years and I'm pretty active in both communities, Thai and and foreigner communities here. And I'm pretty active on social media because it's part of my job. I'm trying to always see what's going on in the trends and specifically here in Thailand. And so far, uh, I've only met or even heard but met one Western woman who got married here after coming here. Nobody else. Nobody wants to marry these Western women. Nobody. Not Thai men, not foreign men. We just don't. So, they live here for a year or two. And, you know, I will I've already made a few videos and I have another video that I'm going to film. uh I think tomorrow about how these women they post they're like I've lived in Thailand you know for a year or two and I just I haven't had a date yet or you know all this you know like all these men going for Thai women right so they come here they live they see what it takes to get a man right you would think that their brains would be like oh that's what you need to do right like that's the type of way oh I see how they treat their husbands and boyfriends that what what's what gets them a husband and you would think that they would turn around and say Okay, let me mimic that, right? There's something there, right? Because I see the benefits and they [ __ ] don't. This is this is uh this is this fascinates me all the time because I see these Western single women who are good-looking. We have a lot of Russian women and American women, British women, they're good-looking, a lot of them are, and they're all single. Like, if they would be like in LA or New York or really anywhere in America or Europe, right, there would be a line out of the door to to for them because, you know, most Western men are simps. But here men go like, "Yeah, no, we have choices here, right? We don't have to simp." And even when we do simp, we'd rather simp for Thai women, right? Uh I I still don't recommend sing in any shape or form. Uh you will always end up with a low quality woman. But nevertheless, you know, and yet they don't [ __ ] change because they lie to themselves. Like this woman, right? Oh, you know, I'm so happy. I'm so happy. This is happiness. Wow. This is This is I'm I hate to laugh at someone's tears, but this is hilarious.

But I feel so godamn lonely and it terrifies me. Yeah, loneliness should terrify you, especially in your 30s and 40s and 50s because it becomes chronic. When you're lonely when you're 22, you can fix it, right? When you're lonely, maybe in your early 30s, much harder, but you can still fix it. But yeah, when you're lonely in your 40s and of course 50s, it's almost impossible to fix because let's say this woman is her 40s, right? Most of the time these women are trying to match with men in my age group because I'm in my late 40s, right? But who do we date? I I mean, I don't remember like I think most of my dates in the last like this year so far were mainly with women in their 20s, you know? I just went to Kenya and the girl that I clicked with the most, we almost had a perfect match. She was 20 years old, you know. I'm 48. So, yeah. So, we don't want women like in their 40s, right? These women, they should date men in their 50s and 60s, but they don't want to because they're old, right? So, again, there's no coming back from this loneliness, right? And yet, she had balls to say that she's happy. Everyone's getting married or having kids and starting a new chapter in their life with their friends and whatnot. Yeah. Talk to those women who are getting married. Now, hopefully they're not Western women who basically marrying simp, you know, guys or, you know, gold diggers for marrying rich dudes who are losers and we'll divorce them sooner or later. That's not really a good model, right? And having kids is not really an achievement. You can do it like tomorrow.

Or even today, if you have some time, right? Having kids is not a big deal. Um, but in, you know, talk to someone who's been married for like 10 years or 20 years, you know, uh, getting married and having kids is not the the the the holy grail, right? It's staying married for 20 minute 20 minutes 20 years—sorry, talking about Kardashian, I guess—uh, that's a that's a big that's a big achievement. Talk to those women, and I'm just here on my own in my own home, working in and surviving it. And I don't know what to do. I know what to do.

You know, stop doing whatever it is that you've been doing all for the last 20 dec decades, right? Listen to men. Go and find a man who is a good man and say, "Hey, listen. What does it take?" Right? Let me buy you a drink. What does it take? You know, uh, go listen to some of the women who have been married for 10, 20, 30 years. You know, my mother has been married to my father for over 50 years. Go listen, go talk to women like her. Go talk to my mom, you know. So, I mean, don't talk to my mom, but you know what I mean. So, you know, this is what it's amazing that this women still have not figured out what to do. I don't know if it's just me who's experiencing this, but no, no. I think this generation of women who are in their 20s and 30s now are mainly going to experience this, and it's going to be epidemic. The anti-depressants are going to be and cat adoptions, my goodness, probably going to be the best way to make money in the next 5 to 10 years.

I just feel so lonely, and it's scary. Not scary enough, by the way. Not scary enough. If it's that lonely and that's scary and that's terrifying, why aren't you doing something about it? It's not like we're not telling you this. You know, it's not telling you. But men who will tell you the truth are, of course, you will call toxic and you know, all the [ __ ] that they all [ __ ] names that that the narcissists, right? All the names that they call us instead of just saying, "Hey, maybe I should listen to them." Maybe you should. All right, next one.

Well, that's feminine. I mean, I think we already know why she's single. First of all, her boobs are in my face. Now, if it's a strip club, if it's a red light district in Amsterdam, no problem. But this is how you dress to attract men, you know, there's a problem right there. But this masculine banging on the table energy. And by the way, just in case if you're not familiar in America, I I only dated black women for the last 15 years. As a matter of fact, one of the reasons I went to Africa a couple years ago, couple years a couple of weeks ago, it was still this month, earlier this month in June, you know, was to maybe to find myself u uh an African wife. You know, it was a quick two two week experiment, but I thought I'll give it a try, and I did learn a lot. So, I love black women, right? Uh, but my goodness, I I mean, this [ __ ] ratchet masculine energy that some of them give is just I mean, it's it's ir it's it's hilariously ironic. Why the [ __ ] am I [ __ ] with somebody that [ __ ] with somebody else?

Yes, that is a good question. Why do you pe pick shitty men all the time, right? Shitty men that will double time you or whatever else is going on. And this goes to the core of this whole problem and why red pill movement really exists. Women don't know what good who good men are anymore. Now, I know your single mothers are not going to tell you. Your simp fathers are not going to tell you, but there are resources. Ask a guy like me. I'm here for you. It's my job now. I made it my job. Too little, you know. Watch some Kevin Samuelson uh Kevin Samuelson um uh videos, you know, they're free, you know. Definitely miss Kevin Samuels. I mean, it's it's Yeah, but but watch him. He talked to black women all the time. Told you not to [ __ ] do this [ __ ] And you still going like, "Whoa, I can't believe this." You're picking wrong men, you know? And the list for good men is not a secret. Chat GPT it. What are the qualities of a good husband? Whatever. It's not a secret. It's right there. The [ __ ] would you tell me that? Why the [ __ ] won't you tell me? Oh, then I also see a nose ring, right? Like pretty sure there's some tattoos somewhere as well, right? Because it's almost impossible to find a modern American woman without [ __ ] tattoos. The dumbest [ __ ] thing that they do to themselves. I have reached my breaking point of having All right. Well, we're done with that one.

This black woman is a little bit more chill. Um, apparently she reached a breaking point. All right, let's let's talk about it. Having to do this life thing alone. I just want to be held, nurtured, loved, cared for physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, in all aspects. I want my heart and soul to be seen and held. I just can't do it alone anymore. And I'm at my, you know, this should be taught in schools, right? Because again, look, so she seems to be genuine, right? First of all, she seems to be genuine. She didn't mention money, right? Everything she was is asking is quite reasonable. If I read a dating app uh profile with a girl saying this is what I'm looking for, I'll be like, you know what? Yeah, first of all, I got it. Secondly, yeah, that like let's do this. You didn't mention money. You didn't mention trips. You didn't mention gifts. You didn't, you know what I mean? So, it makes sense. And again, obviously, I'm biased towards black women. I love black women. She's cute. Seems like she's got a decent body. I mean, for what I can see, right? Like, so it's not the looks, right? It's always the [ __ ] attitude.

Breaking point. I can do it physically alone. I've been doing it, but I don't want to. I don't deserve to because I am. Ah, well, here's the thing. As soon as a as soon as really anybody, but especially a woman says I deserve something. Listen, dating, you know, dating is seen as a marketplace, right? Like I cannot claim that I deserve a great woman because, you know, I'm educated and I'm hardworking and I make good money and I don't have any kids. I don't drink and I don't do drugs or drink, you know, smoke cigarettes and I'm well, you know, traveled and I come from a good family and I, you know, my parents are still together. Like, I don't walk around with that list in America and say, I'm a high value man, you know. No, I'm not a high value man because women don't see value in that anymore and it's the marketplace. So no, nobody deserves anything. You know what I mean? That's the thing is I deserve anything. The worst thing that women can tell, you know, to themselves is I deserve something. That's not how life works. Worthy of companionship of you're apparently not worthy, right? You're not worthy of a companionship of men that you want. And I don't know whether she just wants the wrong men, right? And then she every time she realizes that it's not a good relationship or she does understand what good men are but they don't want her. Right? So I'm sorry just by definition of reality you are not worthy. Community of love of affection of support of someone lifting me up motivating me encouraging me. I am worthy of that. So I deserve to receive that. Worthy deserve.

Uh, this is see this is why these women are single and and nobody told them how is it they don't have any friends go like hey hey um don't say that like don't don't that's you know like with men it's different like you know I had this guy who asked me to mentor him through his um move to Thailand, right? I had to drop him because he was just so horrible but you know he would just say you know I only date tens right I only date tens now like you know if we were women I would be like you go you go for for it, right? Gore power. Absolutely. You do what you know. But I told him, "Dude, no. You're you're you're fat. You know, you don't have enough money. You're having financial trouble right now. Um you're not tall enough. You're don't have a you know, like you're not going to get a 10. You need to be a really good-looking in shape billionaire probably to get a 10, right? That's just reality." And he's just this short fat dude who doesn't have enough money. Sometimes I had to pay because his credit card wasn't it it it was pathetic. But you know I have no problems telling him no dude you're not getting a 10. Sorry. Like a five maybe a six. And that's there's nothing wrong with that. Right. Uh but not a 10. But women never tell this to each other. Right. It's like oh yeah sure. Absolutely. You deserve that. Right. I don't want to do it alone anymore. And I've been crying all day. So I know I said I wanted to take a break from dating. That's another dumb [ __ ] that women do. They they think they have time. Listen, you if you're 20 years old, you're already running out of time. You're 5 years away from being at your peak of attractiveness to men, you know? So, you the time is running out. You have only five years to figure out what a good man is, find one, have him see value in you, and marry him. Five years. That's not much, right? But as soon as you turn 25, you're now your value is decreasing. And when women in their 30s and 40s go like, "Oh yeah, now I'll take a break from from from dating. Yeah, I can totally be 15 20 years removed from my peak and I have no problem." Right? This is the dumbest [ __ ] that they do, but they do, right? Well, let's see what happens when they do. And um I didn't need a man. I changed my mind. I'll take whoever. Just like, "At least she's honest. I changed my mind. I'll take whoever." And and and this is what happens. Now, of course, the truth is she's not going to take whoever, right? She's still shooting for uh a guy who um who she could get 20 years ago or 10 years ago even, right? Or maybe even five years ago, but she can't anymore, right? She's I'm I'm going to guess 45, you know? So I you know and and this is but but but I like her honesty and that really should be like if you're in your 40s like yeah you should take whoever if there's any guy who's who who wants you you know in a sort of serious relationship you should take him but she won't get here ASAP please is it just me or so I like the honesty of that girl right I mean and this is something that I think should just be u um you know it should be just taught in school that that you know I just this is where you're going to end up. Do you really want to be like I'll take whoever.

Um, all right we got a comment and this lady looks like she's proving my point. Says black women uh don't love you. You're too soft. Unfortunately black women did love me for last 15 years in America. I actually had great relationships. Last relationship lasted for seven years. She was awesome. Um I just went to Africa and um even though unfortunately the dating scene there wasn't what I expected. It was more like American dating scene. But I've certainly found I never said the night by myself in Africa. And I actually found this one girl who was just really wonderful. She just you know she's 20 years old. Uh definitely loved me. She was wonderful but she she wants kids and I don't want kids. So otherwise honestly I would have loved to bring her back to here Thailand and start something. So she was she was great. So um but you know first of all you have if you if you want to hurt my feelings sweetheart you got to try so much harder. You know how much hate I get uh you know on daily basis. As a matter of fact if I don't get messages like this I would almost be thinking like am I doing something wrong? Am I not saying things correctly? Right? So, um, and this is, you know, this is about how toxic women are, right? Instead of listening to what I'm trying to tell them and men like me, they don't have to listen specifically to me. There's like, like, again, go chat GPT [ __ ] you know? They would rather attack and insult and everything. And this is why I left, right? Like I don't get attacks like this here from Thai women. Thai women here not don't all agree with me. There's still modernized Thai women here, right? Who just don't want a guy like me because I'm too alpha, too. But they are not ratchet to leave this message. By the way, this message could have come from a man who is a s, right? Uh, but you know, it's it's uh it's always hilarious. But listen, I love little, you know, uh um what do you call it? Hackles here. And I would always put them up on the screen for sure, but you got to do a better job. A little bit better job. You know, try a little bit harder. But okay, next to the on to the next black woman. Excellent. Let's do it.

Am I like in the point in my life where like I'm so uninterested in man, but I also want a man so bad. Like I want a man so bad, but I'm so uninterested. Like every man that comes my way, I don't respond. I don't flirt back. I I just don't care. Like I don't Yes. So that's another thing that I did observe and I see women do say this in their videos. By the way, it's amazing that they're not ashamed of this. In fact, thank you for them for making these videos. Obviously kind of uh uh tells the rest of the women the reality or that they should expect. But I've seen videos like this also where a woman goes like, "Oh, I really want a man, you know, but I just I just don't want to do nothing for it. I sit at home and that's it, you know? And when a good man comes along, I you know, I just I I don't look at him, right? I don't flirt with him, whatever." Which again, to me, it's a mental health issue. It's some sort of a mental health disorder, right? Because we're if anything we're all wired to procreate, right? We're all wired to go after the opposite sex in case of women to receive the advances from the opposite sex. But when a good or a good-looking man makes a move on you, right, and you do want him or men like him and you go like, "No, no, no, no, no, no. I pass." I mean, that just goes against nature of how we're made, right? So, it is a mental health disorder. Like, and again, I'm not trying to make a joke with it. I mean, I I don't make jokes about mental health. I mean, this is a mental men's mental health month, right? June is. So, I'm not going to make fun of anybody's with mental health issues, but she has a mental health issue, so so do a lot of women. When you reject something that you know you want, right? It's kind of like if like, you know, we all know that if a person who refuses food, for example, is mentally ill, right? Because we need food to survive. And when person essentially rejects something that they absolutely need, they have a mental health issues. This is no different. You know, I mean obviously love and sex or whatever is not food, but it is food for your soul. Not to sound cheesy, right? So when women do this, like this is a mental health disorder. Don't care to put forth the energy. Like I don't the tattoos, right? Of course. The [ __ ] is wrong with these women? Like uh somebody tell them that tattoos ex like like a tattoos completely eliminate you from the pool of most good men that you want. We'll see the tattoos we run. Oh, when will it stop? Came my way and I still just been like cool cuz I'm good. But then I lay in my bed at night alone and I want to man so bad. So like what's wrong with me? Can we Well, I already I already mentioned what's wrong with her. And like I said, I I don't mean to make fun of mental health issues, but we do need to recognize them. And again, it's very sad. None of it is I mean, it's funny that they are so delusional, but it's not funny because it is it is if it's not a result of a mental health disorder, it's going to lead one, right? Is going to lead to depression and many other things that I don't think they planned u in their early 20s. Right.

Talk about how I crave to be cuddled. How I crave to just be like can I just like kiss someone? Can I just like hold someone hold me? I need a big boy. But anyways, I just I just want to be held and to be honest with you like right so you know these are the women also I don't know if you guys know but there was a strand I don't know if it's still going on where women are being asked like if you're going through the through the woods by yourself just the woods right um not like I've seen too many woods in America I grew up in Russia we had woods right anyway and if you were to have a choice to see a bear or see a man, right? And women are like, "Oh, I'd rather have a bear, right?" Um, so go hug a bear, you know? And listen, like I said, like this is what I think women also don't understand. We men, like I am single in my 40s, and I might be single in my 50s and 60s, but I'm good. I have many other alternatives, right? I don't need to have a wife to feel successful as a man. Right now, I'm dating five different women casually. They all know about each other, so don't call me a cheater, please. Uh, and I'm perfectly happy, right? There are plenty of guys here in many other countries who purchase services for their needs and they're happy with that, right? Women don't have choices like this in their 40s, right? They can just generally, right? If they want to be held genuinely by a man like this girl does, right? Um they have to have a genuine love, a genuine relationship with a man. They cannot purchase it, right? There's no AI uh that that can do it for them. They want the genuine affection from an actual man, right? Cannot be purchased where and so this is why and and you know when you become less and less desirable as a woman in your 40s and again I think most of these women who we're looking at are quite cute. They were probably even better looking in their 20s but they wasted all of that right to become lonely. So, you know, but they cannot purchase it. They cannot purchase the solution for their loneliness. Where us men, [ __ ] yeah, we can. You know, like I came here to Thailand to find a wife and once I got here, I'm like, do I really want one? Do I I definitely don't need one, you know, like I thought before. But I'm not even sure if I want one because there are just so many other choices of how you can live a life as a man here without a wife. Uh non-monogamy by the way having two wives here is not that uncommon. You can be polygamous essentially. Um you know I I've seen quite a few families where a man has a wife and then a second wife. So there's just so many choices here for men and and so being single for a man in their 40s means more fun. You have definitely keep most of your money and you have a lot of free time, you know, to do stuff. Go to the gym, have a hobby, make more money, go travel. Like I just travel for more than two weeks. And uh I went to Africa, but on the way back, I decided, you know, um since I'm on my own boss, I don't depend on anybody. I, you know, I'm already in Africa, why don't I go to Egypt and see the pyramids? I was like, let's do that, you know, business class and everything because I don't have to double spend my money because there's a girl with me, right? Because a lot of times, like I'm not that rich.

I cannot afford most of the time, two business class tickets. I can do one, but two adds a bit of a, you know, maybe less travel than. Uh, so life of a single man in his 40s is very different than the life of a single woman in her 40s. So something that I think a lot of women just don't get.

I could go out and get that [ __ ] right now. Like I could respond to a DM right now and be like, "Let's meet up. Let's go Netflix and chill and like let me get it satisfied." But that's temporary satisfaction. And we are well, that's not even a satisfaction you're talking about, right?

Yeah, you can get laid, you know, but that's not like the thing is when when we get laid, we're good. When you get laid, you're not good, right? Because that's you need more and that's that's that's the problem.

Big girls, we don't do that. We don't Well, that's another [ __ ] What do you mean you big girls? You first of all, you've done it. All of you have done it. One night stands, friends with benefits, and all that stuff. By the way, nothing's wrong with it. I think more of you should do that. I think like this is where I definitely uh disagree with the red pill movement. Women should have as much sex as they want to. That's I like I don't have a problem with it.

As a matter of fact, I'd rather get together with a girl who has some experience and knows how to do things rather than, you know, a lot of women who I got together here who are, you know, either borderline ver virgins, they're so bad at it, it's not even worth it. You know what I mean? So, so I don't mind women going out, you know, being active, but like, oh, big girls. Yeah. No, you know, if you're older now, you know, then you should do more of that because if anything is going to save you is is is being a little bit more promiscuous than less. If you were giving it out easily when you were in your peak and you didn't get a man, you're definitely not going to get a man by withholding it now, right? You don't [ __ ] do that.

I've done really well for myself in my career, and I'm ambitious, and seems to be something that is like desired because it's like I don't know what prize to be won. Desired by whom? Not by men. We don't want ambitious. We don't want careers. You know, this is this is like whenever I see a girl that she's got a career or even masters or PhD, walk away. Walk away. You'll never be her number one. She will never she'll never be a good wife. She'll never be submissive. Um, but she'll end up like this. Am I

But then once I actually open up and like in the dating world and like let someone in, then they get bored or they just they don't see the value. There is no value. We don't see a value of somebody who makes your money. We don't give a [ __ ] about your money, about your career. Your money in your career only makes you less attractive to us. I how do these women don't understand if you to have a career, to have money that makes you more more combative, more disagreeable, more assertive, you know? Um, we don't want any of that [ __ ] you know? You're definitely not submissive. So, no, like somebody has to tell is there somebody maybe like a celebrity we can hire to to give this information to women that we know you cannot have both. You either want to have a career or you want to be a wife. Like, you can't have both. It's just I'm sorry. It's just, you know, just like us men, we either, you know, we either can make something out of oursel out of ourselves and then be able to have sex or we don't. If we're a bunch of losers living with our parents in the basement in the age of 40 something, we're not going to have sex and definitely not have a girlfriend. So, it kind of works both ways. So, yeah, it's either or. And in your case, it's either career or, you know, and and this what you're going through right now. um or being a wife. Like it's just not sorry. This is just we all have choices to make, and I was passed up on an opportunity this week as well.

Um, opportunity, a business opportunity, a career opportunity. That would be interesting to know. Or a a man passed on her. And then also the guy I was dating um it just I guess didn't work. Well, so you went for two opportunities. I mean, obviously a woman who's trying to get a promotion is probably going to abandon her relationship and it I'm I'm if I was to guess that's what happened, right? Uh and he probably just got [ __ ] tired of this [ __ ] and and just left, right? For someone who's more available and younger on top of that.

Us as humans need our little person, but I don't want temporary anymore. I'm done with temporary. Well, that's the thing, you know, you don't get to choose that much. You kind of have to start with temporary. Like, and and I think this is I I don't want to speak for all men, but a lot of us, it doesn't work where we come in and we're like, "Oh, yeah, we want to get married and get committed." That's [ __ ] creepy. If a guy just meets you and within a couple of months, he all of a sudden wants to get married. That's [ __ ] creepy. that that that's just so many things that wrong with that guy, right? It's just not, you know, but uh if you want to get married, most men are not going to be like, "Oh, I'm here to get married. You know, how we can get started?" No, we're like, first of all, can you be good in bed? Right? Like, first, what do you look like naked? Can you be good and bad? Is it like, can you meet my basic needs? Right? That's why we all want sex at first. Secondly, like, all right, are you [ __ ] annoying afterwards? Like, are you like, what are you doing after after we're done? Are you [ __ ] trying to cuddle and block my TV or you trying to cook something and tighten up my place? Right. Oh, wow. That's the ladder. Oh, wait a second. Like, maybe we should hang out a little bit more. Let's grab dinner, right? Let's let's see each other in the next day or the day after. Right. So, it all starts with temporary. For most men, every marriage-like relationship starts with friends with benefits. That's just how it is. You You girls like don't know that. I already made videos about it, too. So, yeah. And you know the reason that those were temporary relationships, it's not because they were temporary by design. It's just because you made it temporary. You weren't good enough for a guy to say, "Oh yeah, I want this girl as a wife, right? Didn't cook, didn't clean, didn't give him peace, maybe was argumentative, you know, maybe didn't, you know, prett yourself up when you were going out, maybe weren't as available, maybe choose you chose your career or your friends or whatever else over the guy." And that that and and you made it temporary, right? So So that's another thing that women just don't [ __ ] understand. And no one shows up as as a groom. We all show up as spot boys essentially and then see if you can prove us wrong and we're interested in more. But at first, I'm ready for long-term commitment. And that's what none of our generation is up for. No one. No one in this [ __ ] All right.

Especially where I'm at. Especially where I live. There's no one. And it [ __ ] Oh, there is one. He's in your friend zone most likely. He's a guy you passed on, right? He's not good-looking enough for this princess. Except for now you're older. Now the same guys you rejected, you know, 5 10 years ago, you know, and all of a sudden they they made something out of themselves or made more money or became more confident or got in the gym and got into shape. They don't even want you anymore, right? The things have changed. And don't tell me how. I mean, unless you live in a remote village of 20 people who are all related to another, there is a good man in town. Trust me, you just don't know how to identify him. You just don't see him. You know, that's the problem. And again, listen to men like me or listen to women who have been in relationships for a long time like my mother or uh chat GPT this [ __ ] It's not a secret how you need to be in order to find that guy. And then it makes me just think about like the [ __ ] that I've been through. And then it just makes me think about like how my sons like single mother.

All right. Well, that's another thing. Sorry. If you're a single mother, your only choices are other single fathers, right? And not the ones that see their kids like once a day or during the week, right? me like single fathers that have their kids at least half of the time like involved single fathers. So that's the only type of man you're going to because I no good quality man without kids wants a single mother. It's it's such a horrible unfair awful proposition for any man uh to never be number one obviously to have to deal with someone else's child and a lot of times the father who's still in the [ __ ] picture or two or three. Um yeah. So that's that's a problem for you also a legit family. I mean they have a great family like of me but I mean like they don't have the mom and they don't have a great family like you. You're a single mother. You are creating you know kids who will also not know how to be in a good relationship. You are part of the future problem. Dad in the same household is what I'm saying. And that sucks. That that sucks a lot.

People meet people nowadays. Being a single gal in a single world, where do I go if I don't want to go on dating apps? Like, I don't like dating apps. I've had them. I've tried them. I get disappointed. I get discouraged. It Let's be honest. Let's be real. Well, first of all, uh being on a dating app for a woman is very different than for a man, right? If you can't find a guy on a dating app where there's like tons of them, you know, I mean, first of all, women don't even understand how to use dating apps, right? they they work over their feet of the guys who already liked them, right? Instead of going and swiping on their own, right? Because the guys who liked you is a lot of them don't fall because I also have I have the reverse problem here, right? My dating apps are full of women who already liked me and I know that if I'm working off of that list, a lot of them are outside of my age range that I want, right? But they still swiped on me, right, on me because they didn't read my, you know, profile. uh some women that I just don't find attractive. Some women are way too far away from me, you know, live in a different province. So, it's just a list of a lot of women who just do not qualify in the first place. Instead, I swipe myself, right? Because dating apps will prioritize some of the people who did like you, you know, in your swiping um section, right? But women don't understand that. They just go through guys who already like them and that that's just a lower quality for all all of us. um instead of swiping on their own. Uh so they don't even know but so how so and and and and they don't know how to use them. They a lot of times they don't know what a good man is. So they go for the guy in the gym doing this, right? Instead of a boring guy who doesn't even know how to take a picture and he's like this, you know, and he's wearing the wrong type of glasses or whatever. Maybe not a great hairstyle, but that's the husband material. You're idiot, right? Um, now don't get me wrong, the fact that she's not on dating apps is pretty good, but there's so many other ways for women to get a a guy interested. Like that's where you can like, for example, if you go to an art show or classical music concert, right? Where I'm going to classical music concerts in a couple hours, you know, that's where you will find a lot of men who are, you know, marriage material like, "But these girls, have you have you seen a girl like this at the classical music concert?" No, I'm not going to see one tonight for sure. If you're going to think this person is attractive, you're probably going to swipe yes. And if you don't find them attractive, you're going to swipe no. But sometimes people just aren't photogenic. They just don't present themselves well through photos. That's a smart girl. She just said what I said. I just didn't think she was going to say it. Okay. That's why I just feel like it's so much better to meet people in person. Also, just like with having I agree with her. So, I I I do use dating apps a little bit here and there. A lot of times it's just for something casual because it is much easier through a dating app. Also, don't forget I'm a white guy in Thailand, so I have a privilege of having a lot of girls uh messaging me and and and liking me. But if I was in America, I would I wouldn't bother. But like I'm not on Tinder. I'm not on Bumble. Uh you know, I'm mainly on like local apps like Thai friendly. But I agree like I prefer to meet uh women in person because uh it's just it's better in so many different ways.

So smart girl dating apps like it just feels forced and I don't want it to feel forced to be I want to like go out in public meet someone like in the wild both just happen to bump into each other and you're like and then you know sparks fly that I just want to know where like where do the single men go where are you going where are you hanging out well no it's not about just single men right uh you want to like I said art shows classical music concerts you know even coffee shops you know you see a guy in a coffee shop who's sitting working on his laptop probably, you know, that means he's working remotely. That means he's probably traveling. That means the job is probably pretty good, right? Uh it means a lot of things. So, I don't think it's even that hard for these women. But where where do you think she goes, right? Probably to a local bar, probably to like branches or whatever and all that [ __ ] and the fancy restaurants and stuff like that. So these women again because they don't know what a good man is anymore. They don't know where to find them, right? Like for example, I don't know where to fish for salmon. I don't know. I I I just don't know where salmon is. Usually I find salmon at the sushi restaurant and at the grocery store down the street. But if you want me to go and hunt for an actual salmon in a river, I'm assuming, I would know because I don't know what salmon even looks like and where it lives, right? So, I would be horrible at it. Just like these women, they replace salmon with a good high value man, right? They don't know who who who they are and so they don't know where to look. If you're in the garage, like come out. Like, are you at the lake? Are you snowmmoiling? Are you fishing? It's No, snowmobiling is probably not a good way to find a man. See, winter time. What are you doing right now? It's funny. How am I this amazing? like and single like you're not that amazing if you're single, right? I mean, you can't have it both ways. You're pretty. I I mean, for my taste, and I don't even like white girls. She's definitely not ugly, right? Unless she's like 300 lb, you know, underneath there. But, you know, being amazing means more than just being pretty. Men know that, especially now. Uh men don't want to be with a pretty girl who will, you know, rip them off in a divorce or cheat on them or not take care of them, right? So looks don't matter as much to men as they used to. And I got to tell you, like I see tons of men here who come here and young, tall guys with money and they're walking around with really average, really basic looking tie girls. Why? because they would rather be and I'm I'm I would I'm happy to be one of them. I'd rather get a six or a seven who is amazing to me, right, than an eight or a nine or 10 who is just ruining my life or will ruin my life at some point. And a lot of men are waking up to that. And that's why the the good looks aren't fooling a lot of us.

Are you kidding me? And like for the longest time, I just like wasn't worried about it. At this point, I'm like, I'm 31. What is happening? Like, is there just no one left? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's the thing. You You weren't worried about it when you should have in your 20s, right? Now you hit 30s. Then she probably realize that even though there's still some suitors, right? Like I would date a girl in her in her 30s, but uh there's much less. There's much less. Like I know a guy so I have one of my buddies here. he is in his late 30s and he does not consider women in in in in their 30s at all at all. Like that's not a thing for him, right? So yeah, there's much less uh you definitely going to probably have to date an older man in his 40s in, you know, my age bracket. And I know a lot of women don't mind that in their 30s, but you're going to have to change. And a lot of us are gone, by the way. I'm not going to date you. I I'm not because I don't want to be near the lake that you're at, you know. Um, but you're gonna have to change your attitude. Also, put me on a dating show. The Bachelor. The Bachelorette. Why would you want to be on that show, you idiot? It's all fake and dudes there are [ __ ] and women are not that much better. The quality of people on those game shows are not high. This is the delusion now coming out. I thought she was a little reasonable until now. Love Island, I don't even care. Just put me somewhere so I can actually like interact with the male race. I'm not acting with males. Oh, Jesus Christ. Now she's blaming man. Okay.

Oh, I got a super chat. Look at that. $2. Thank you. $2. You know what? Buys $2 here. Um like I like this dish. It's called um kamuang. Um, so it is a four types of pork over rice with some cucumbers and sauce. Um, and a soup of uh with blood cubes. I love blood cubes, by the way. And it's a pretty big plate. Like that's enough for half of a day for me. That's what I can get for $2. Actually less than that. Um, okay. So, uh, the coldest, uh, Jenkins says, "I don't want Chad and Tyrone's leftovers." So, interesting interesting comment. So, um I know I'm torn there. Like I do understand that a girl who [ __ ] around in her 20s with a bunch of dudes who were just like doing her and for no good reason this you know um you know and then she shows up it's like well I'm ready now for marriage right you know uh you know there is um there is on one hand uh that's life you know what I mean a girl in her 20s are going to experience life and also in my case I want a girl who knows how to have and is good at it and and and the only way to get there is to have a few partners before that. Right? I'm telling you, I'm in Thailand. I've been with tons of these women who are just I'm their second or third partner, you know, they haven't had sex in two or three years. And boy, that sucks. Boy, that sucks. I'd rather have these girls be taught by Chads and Tyrone sometimes on how to do it because it is awful, you know? So, but on the other hand, I do understand that like, do I really want a girl who's just kind of like being used up and stuff like that? So, ah, man, I would I wish there was a balance, right? I wish there was a balance. But I do understand you guys when you say, "Well, I don't

Want the girl who's been playing around in her 20s, and now she's all used up and you know, now she's ready for me, a guy she didn't want to pay attention to only like five years ago, right? Because she's hitting 30 or 40." So, I totally understand that. Um, I will mold it over uh um a a um grilled pork over rice dish that you just bought me. So, I appreciate it.

All right. Karen says, um, so big deal. 40 years old have regrets. Old people have regrets because nobody knows the future. They only know the past. Well, Karen, this is what this life is all about. Um, a woman in her 40s has way less choices, at least of men that she wants, right? A typical woman in their 40s wants a man in his 40s or maybe early 50s. I'm a man in the I mean, I'm 48. I don't even consider women in their 40s at all. Like, I'm mainly dating women in their 20s, maybe sometimes in their 30s. And I'm not a I'm not a a weirdo who just somehow does that. And I'm not even one of those guys who like I like young women. I I I I like women in general. Uh, it's just I click more with women in their 20s, and I get more attention from women in their 20s. And I know most guys in their 40s and 50s who are dating women in their 20s. So, you the a woman who's in her 40s just has way less men who are available to her in the age group she wants.

Now, a woman in her 40s probably should date a guy in his late 50s and early 60s, but a lot of them, they don't want that because they just got done with Chads and Tyron, right? Like as a previous guy said. Um, so they're not willing to kind of like visually fall from like a pretty hot guy to like a guy in his 60s, right? But we're now talking about marriage, right? And so so and and and and like I said, there are very few choices, alternatives for women in their 40s, right? Because when a girl in her 20s or whatever, you know, not only their choices of men, but their choices of like, oh, you know, I'm going to go and drink and have a career or whatever, right? Women in their 40s are now starting to feel a pain, right? And there's no turning back. That's another thing, you know? There is really no turning back. The mistakes that you made that made you 40, you know, 40 and single are irreversible. Where a guy in his 40s and 50s and 60s, we can easily purchase what we want. Many of us can still even get it because there are plenty of girls in their 20s who do want an older man, even 20, 30 years older. Like I said, my mother has been married to my father for over 50 years, and she is almost 20 years younger. Um, so I have a pretty good, you know, role model of how to make the relationship work between an older man and a younger woman.

So, you know, yeah, you know, and and the thing is, but I think you're also not uh uh listening to what I said earlier. You know, if you have regrets in your 40s, do something about it because there are plenty of women, I mean, all the women that at least I've seen in this video so far are still pretty attractive, right? The ones that are single mothers, that's a whole different story. But just as far as attractiveness, they they have not hit the wall yet. So do something with those regrets. You know, correct your behavior. You know what I mean? Maybe slow down your career. Uh, maybe uh develop some of the characteristics that these men want in a wife. And maybe start, you know, being less argumentative. Like even your message here, Karen, that's quite an, you know, disagreeable, argumentative. You know, you could have come across with the same message um in a much more kinder and feminine way, right? So, maybe start learning more feminine ways, how to talk to a man, how to just have an better attitude, and the feminine energy will attract more men, right? Because like I said, if you're still decent looking, there will be men who will be attracted to you. Uh, but what will be unattractive is the attitude, this attitude. And look, I'm not trying to pick on you specifically, Karen. I do appreciate you're participating in the conversation, so respect, uh, but you have to understand that if you want a man in your 40s, you have to change the attitude, you have to be less combative, less disagreeable, phrase things a little bit better than this u you know, and and also and this is I think most importantly, recognize what a good man is. You know, most of you don't even into your 40s, you know, adjust, look at the women who've been together with their husbands for 20, 30 years and are h still happy, right? Not all of them are, but talk to those men and women and see what you can learn there.

Okay, let's keep going. Anyways, love comes to you when you least expect it. Shot. Oh, I agree with this one for sure. This doesn't happen even for men, right? Uh, a lot of people told me also like, "Oh, no, you're looking too hard or whatever." I was like, "Well, I'm not really looking too hard, but I definitely if I stop looking, that's not going to happen at all." Like, this is not a movie. Uh, and uh, this is this just does not happen anymore anyway because the dating thing has evolved. Uh, but specifically for women, yes, I think um, she kind of resonates the same vibe as the girl, the black girl from before that says like, "I want a man, but I do absolutely nothing to get one, and when one shows up, I show him the door." You You do have to participate. You do have to participate. Well, let's see what she has to say. I like where this is going. I have been trying to not expect it for like 6 years. And also, I was speaking to my friend the other day and she was like, uhoh. Uh-oh. Let's see if she's going to listen to her female friend. Uh, it would be nice to know if her female friend is is married or or or in a relationship or single, but let's see. Like, are you like trying to like go out of your way to meet people? I'm like, "No, because people are [ __ ] telling me that it comes when you least expect it." So, here I am like trying to convince myself I don't want it and I'm just not expecting it. So, I can get it and it's not happening. But then even when I go out of my way to like go on dating apps, it just never works because these people that I'm meeting aren't my cup of tea, are not wanting what I want. They just want a casual thing. And like as as someone who's never been in any kind of romantic entanglement, I'm my first my first relationship is not going to be a [ __ ] casual relationship.

Well, then you're going to stock up on some anti-depressants and cats. Um, and but uh that that whatever the [ __ ] she's wearing is perfect to cuddle with cats. Um, I mean, she is in her 30s, right? At least. And she she never been in a romantic relationship. I think you should take whatever you can get. I mean like I like for example I as someone who is you know wanting a wife and sees a girl in her 30s and says I've never been in a relationship before. Uh, run, run right, I mean, this is where you need to get some experience, and at this point I would not waste my time and I would get into any type of relationship just to figure out how to like not get bothered by the dirty socks on the floor by a man. You know what I mean? So, uh, and it sounds like her friend actually gave her a pretty decent advice to get out of her own way because obviously she has been if she's in her 30s and still single and yeah, so like what one is it? Should I put myself out there or should I just pretend that I'm not like, "Oh, I don't want a boyfriend."

All right, guys. Thank you so much for coming back to my channel. So, all right. So I think this is just a um end of this compilation and um I had to use the compilation of someone else who who did that. So um yeah so this is as you can probably see if we would have gone for further videos and by the way I'm going to do this in the future as well and some of these videos I do break down you know one by one. I think the one of the most popular videos I have on my channel is where this girl says, you know, I'm single, I'm lonely, and I've done this wrong and I've done this wrong. And then she goes on to blame her parents or her ex-boyfriends for it, right? So, in a classic modern woman fashion, she wants to take absolutely no [ __ ] responsibility for her own action and her own destiny. At least men, most of us, we're like, "Yeah, I [ __ ] up. Yeah, that girl was great and I [ __ ] up. I I cheated on her or I did this and I did that or whatever." Right? By the way, I've never cheated on women ever in my life and I never will. But um you know what I mean? Like men have no problems admitting their mistakes and saying, "Yeah, you know what you're going to do." But women just have no [ __ ] like brain cells to even understand that you got to take responsibilities for your actions and your words, but you can do something about it. When you take responsibility, you don't just say, "Okay, I take responsibility." That does nothing. When you take responsibility, essentially it means you have to change something. And a lot of these women, like I said, I did not see a single ugly woman in this compilation. These are all very very still attractive women, at least for my taste. And like I said, half of them are white, and I don't really like white chicks. And and so the and what's keeping them away from uh men interested in them seriously enough to, you know, consider them as possible material is what's inside of their head, how they act, how they look at it. You know, we just had a comment with a girl who came out and basically showed kind of proved my point, right? And I just addressed her comment, you know, it's it's it's definitely uh sad and and also puzzling for someone like me. I'm a very logical person. You know, when something's not working, I try to change it, right? Like I already had a seven-year YouTube career with a previous channel that uh you know the reason that channel was successful was because I consistently changed the channel and tried different things. Even on this channel, this channel is not even half a year old, but I'm already trying different things and changing things. If I don't like uh how it's going, maybe I'm not getting enough subscribers, maybe I'm not getting enough views, and I'm like, "Okay, well that's not working. Let's not continue doing the same thing. Let's try something different." Right? Um, I just don't understand why same mentality are just not something that these women consider, you know, and again I and a lot of them like you know Karen earlier they don't even realize that oh you are pretty much out of time, you know, you don't get to take a break or work on yourself or still chase one more promotion uh or go after one more Chad, you don't have that time anymore, you have to lower your standards in terms of looks, sorry, like again you're going from banging Chads to trying to marry, you know, a good guy. That's going to that's going to that's going to be a big difference, right? But most importantly is these modern women just don't understand how to identify and attract and then keep a good man. And I think until they figure it out, they're going to consistently and continuously having this issues. And you know, by the way, I escaped, right? Like I'm good. And by the way, if you want to do what I did, which is not that easy, um, there's a good reason why I have that right there. See the URL in the in the yellow. The millionp project.com. That entire thing is dedicated to how you can also get away from these modern women. And, you know, without having to wait for them to change their behavior and come to another country where the women are still feminine, they're still submissive. Not all of them, believe me. You're not. you still have to do some work here and a lot of times learn the language and that's all part of my thing there. So go and check it out. It's in the description of this video as well. But I escaped so I don't really need um to deal with a lot of these women. But if you cannot, right as a man now I I suggest that every single man in America and Europe just starts trying to start a business online or get a job that he can do online so he can escape because I don't believe there are any marriage material women left in in these countries. But if you're staying, you know, I you're going to have to wait until these women come around. You really do. I already saw this myself uh before I left over two years ago, but I keep hearing more and more how you go to a bar a lot of times and the bar area is nothing but women, nothing but single women and a few men who are in that bar or whatever, they just enjoying their time and drinking with their buddies and exchanging stories and whatever. I remember I decided to remember a specific place and it was in Houston, Texas, the last place I lived in America where I was like all of these good-looking women. They're all dressed up, you know, and there's bunch of dudes and they're just like don't give a like what is happen. It was just so weird, right? But then they realized like, yeah, these guys are out with their buddies paying for their own beer, not having to pay for $20 drink just to talk to a girl just so you can exchange numbers and she ghosts you, right, within a day or whatever. Like, they've done it. And this is kind of like how I feel a lot of times when I see uh u women even here in Thailand. I was like, "Yeah, that girl definitely going to ghost me within 24 hours." So, I'd rather like, you know, write an extra script for my for my uh for my channel or I'd rather go and check out an extra restaurant or hang out with a buddy of mine. But in America, I I don't blame that. Most men are basically like, well, I know what's going to happen, right? I'm going to be out of more money. Like I was going to spend like $10 on my beer, but if I go talk to a couple of girls, that's a $60 night now. And yeah, I'm going to maybe get their numbers. That's fine. But they're just going to go ghost me or stand me up on a date, you know, or take that, you know, top off and it's going to be all covered in tattoos or whatever. Like, you know what I mean? So, or or demand expensive dinner for the first date. Like, nah, I'm good. I'm good with my $10 investment into this evening. I'm here chilling, listening to music, talking to my buddies, people watching, you know what I mean? Um, and and this is the trend that I've already seen, you know, going on in America before I left. And I think this is only going to continue. But I am hoping that some of these women who are obviously smart, a lot of them have done very well for themselves, as you can see, develop their careers, they fly business class. I see them all the time right next to me. um by themselves. You know, maybe they'll start using some of those brains, which they do have, into analyzing and figuring out what they need to change in order to attract men who actually want to marry them, even if they're in their 40s. Like I said, a man in his mid-50s and early 60s, there are plenty of men like that who are still in shape, who are still good. Don't even have to use Viagra, you know, who u have a good track record of being in good long-term relationships and marriages that are more than suitable. You just can't have a six-pack Chad anymore, you know.

Um, yeah. All right. Um, Calvin says, "Passport bros, we're up." Now, let me also So, I am a Passport Bro, but I am a real passport bro. I hate to say that. I hate the name, but most of the dudes that you see out there, you know, on social media, I'm not really passport bros. If you see a Passport Bro with a girl with her tits out and tattoos or trying to shove a drink into the camera, these are not passport bros and these are not, you know, uh, a traditional women, right? This is just hoes that they've hired and piled some money on that they can afford because it's much more affordable here in Southeast Asia. Uh, these dudes, they're they're not even quality men in general. That's why they go after these bar girls that they pay for. Um, Passport bros are actually men who genuinely want to be in long-term good relationships and find a wife and come here for those reasons. Not because it's cheaper, not because, you know, uh, because women here we have choices of women who are, you know, submissive, whom women who are traditional and so forth and so forth. It's not easy. Like I believe you have to learn the language of the country you're moving to because women who actually speak English here are no better than they are better but they're not that much better than American women or or or western women in general. You do need to learn the local language that essentially protects this women uh from uh being westernized from being damaged by what I call as a the real virus. Um, so and like I said, if you want to become a passport bro um I have the whole sort of course on how to do it. It's not that easy. It is not that easy. Um, you can go to the millionmanproject.com and you know you can see the table of contents how long it is and and part of that courses actually is I have to explain and I just did a live video about that. I had to explain what a traditional woman is because a lot of men kind of forgot. Even I forgot when I moved here. here. I was like, "Oh, I remember women doing this things for me and speaking in such a manner and dressing, you know." But a lot of you either forgot or um um or uh never never even knew what a traditional woman is, especially younger guys, right? Or guys who were in a long-term relationships and realize or marriages that holy [ __ ] that was not good, right? So um I have to like a whole section there is just explain what a traditional woman is and then how to find a country right like Thailand is not for everybody right and I think Philippines is also not the best place to go yeah women in Philippines are great u but uh you know they all speak English so they're all infected but also I feel like Philippines is not a livable country the standard u of life there is just not good enough yeah you might find a wife there and then what are you going to do you know be afraid that she gets raped every day or not be able to provide good care for her and you know her um you know her family. So yeah, so check it out. Now Kelvin actually says it very interesting uh something. He says, "My wife is a doctor and completely traditional." So Kelvin, I I would have to I I would that would be very very very rare for a woman to be able to kind of turn her boss chick thing off. However, it depends what kind of doctor she is. if she is like um you know a regular medical group 9-to-f5 kids doctor right uh and you know then she comes home and becomes a wife then it's a you know possibility yeah very difficult especially if she's earning money now also if you're earning much more money than her as a doctor that's also possible uh so yeah um let's see but And uh someone replied says uh Kevin, "What is it like to have a doctor make you a sandwich?" That is a good question. I would like to know uh u the question. All right, here's another attempt on a hackle. I feel like I can't trust a guy named Gooberman. You don't have to trust me, you know. Uh yeah, I don't. Sorry, Jimmy. You don't you you don't.

It's a very odd. Again, if this is a serious statement, that's just dumb. But if you're trying to hurt my feelings, please, please put more effort. I like good insults, by the way. I can appreciate a good insult, but a lot of you guys are just too lazy. It really takes so much more than this to really hurt my feelings, right?

Um, all right. Uh, Dominican. Yeah, I've never been to the Dominican Republic. I've heard good things. Uh, so, uh, it is a possibility, but again, you guys have to remember that if you want to be a passport bro, you can't bring yourself to another country and expect different results. Right? You have to improve yourself; you have to have some self-respect. You cannot be a simp, because I'm telling you there's plenty of women in every country that figured out how to take money and make your life miserable as a simp. Guys reach out to me, ask them to ask me to mentor them, and then I can't do anything for them because, you know, I just can't unsimp them. You know what I mean? So, you have to improve yourself.

Uh, make sure you have, you know, you make—it's not that hard to make enough money here to be able to be a good provider, but still, you got to be able to do it online. So, three, four thousand a month, you know, strive for that. You know, be in shape. Don't show up as a fat [ __ ] here. You know what I mean? You can improve. You got gyms in America and Europe there. Don't be a fat [ __ ] here. Okay? If you're balding like me, like I'm just about to have a second hair transplant surgery, try to look presentable in whatever, you know, um, whatever improvement you need to make, because you do need to look physically attractive as well. I mean, these women still don't want to, you know, screw an ugly, fat guy, right? So do your best. Uh, work on your personality, but especially work on your self-respect, right? Don't be a simp. So, you know, it's all part of my course, but just generally speaking, guys, don't just show up here.

All right, Jimmy decided to end his insults and ask a real question, so I will entertain that. Do I need a passport to be a passport bro, or will a driver's license do? Well, uh, that's actually a better question than you might have thought, Jimmy. Uh, yes, of course, you have to have a passport to live overseas. Not all countries will allow you to live there permanently, for the long term, right? Thailand is one of them. Uh, the driver's license, by the way, you know what does help here is having a local driver's license, not so much to drive—like, I haven't driven a car in two years and I have no interest in that—but it is to, uh, when you go somewhere where they check driver's licenses and you show them like a Thai driver's license, respect—all of a sudden they don't look at you as a tourist; they look at you as more of a local, someone who lives there, obviously likes their culture. So, you know, so you need both, I guess.

Um, Gila Star says, "Uh, lol, don't be a fat American stereotype." Yeah, I mean, listen, here's the thing. You know, you can—there are good stereotypes and bad stereotypes. I'm just saying, you know, if you're going to show up here fat, the only way for you to get a good—I don't—you're not going to get a good girl. Uh, or she will also be fat and ugly, right? If you're okay with that, that's fine. We have plenty of ugly women who are good wives. Okay? If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, it's totally true that song, right? So, but you know, give yourself a better chance. You should not be fat, not just for the attractiveness, right? It's a fat—a guy who's fat obviously has no discipline. You don't care about your own health. So, how are you going to be expected to take care of the family's well-being if you're not taking care of your own well-being, right? You don't have to have a six-pack. I don't have a [ __ ] six-pack. I don't think I ever will. But, you know, I take care of my health. So when a girl sees me being, you know, at least decent-looking and in shape, they're like, well, he probably has discipline. He doesn't eat cheesecake every day. He probably, you know, has something healthy, which I do. You know, a lot of times I'd like to go and eat something unhealthy. Get some pad Thai, you know, with shrimp and Thai iced tea. But I don't, right? I drink water. I eat something healthier.

So, um, yeah, there is also an international driver's license, Michael. Uh, here in Thailand, they're actually just about to pass a law where you cannot drive with that license, which is kind of weird. Um, Michael says, "You're wrong. Men simp themselves." Yeah, the women just take what is offered. You can't really blame them. Yeah, I don't blame women. I mean, their behavior is disgusting and I want to have nothing to do with it, as far as modern women are concerned, but I don't blame women. I blame men. We've allowed this. What you permit, you promote, right? So absolutely we need to change first in order to expect women to change because, as you can see, these women in their 40s, they're not willing to change because there's still a bunch of simps who are willing to entertain that idea, except these women realize they don't want them, but by the time that happens they're in their 50s, right? So it's a vicious circle. Um, the diet in another country helps you lose weight. Yes, we definitely—I mean, food in America is just complete [ __ ]. I had to be gluten-free in America, where in any other country I don't have to avoid gluten. That's how much, you know, the American food industry rapes the food there. Almost everything is automatically organic and well-sourced here. So absolutely you will be much healthier here just eating the same food even as you did in your country.

All right. Uh, Jayla says, not being sarcastic or anything, I'm genuinely asking. Wait, what did you ask that I did not answer? Um, well, you—you asked Michael, right? Um, but I will answer that question, Jayla. Um, what's your opinion on a simp? What if he is happy? Will you let it be, or would you convince him he's a simp and should be unhappy? Well, this is why this movement is called a red pill, right? Because a lot of people who live in the matrix love the matrix, right? But the question is, do you really want to know what's happening? So I know plenty of simps, right? Like one of the simps I know, he is consistently a victim of domestic violence by his wife, but if you would tell him like, you know, you're a domestic violence abuse victim, he'll be like, wait, what? Why? You know? So he's happy; he's in the matrix; he's happy by being a victim of abuse. So you tell me, should we tell people that they can do better or they shouldn't tolerate it? I think we should and let them choose, right? I mean, let's do this blue pill, red pill thing to them as long as they know that there is a red pill. Most of them don't know there's a red pill, so I think just telling them there is a choice is important. Um, but yeah, I agree with you; there are some simps who are in normal relationships and they're happy with it, and in that case, like I said, I will be like, hey, listen, you know, you can have a different life, right? But if you want to keep yours, that's fine, as long as you know there's a way out. If you want to have it, some people, you know, some people like it. So, yeah, I look down on simps a lot of times, but as far as like the relationships, but if they're happy, um, I don't want to convince them. I don't.

Um, let's see. Um, all right. Well, Michael, I answer your question as—well, Jayla says, "No one says changing at 40." You know, I feel like we live in a world where people do change. I feel like I have changed in my 40s and for the better, actually. But that's because I came to Thailand and I wanted to be in a country and a culture that's much more sort of kind and, um, I have become a better man just because I'm amongst kind and respectful people. So people do change, but you know, um, I understand this is not ideal, of course, and it's difficult.

Um, all right. This is too much for me to answer because I got to go. My cleaning lady is just about to come in. Uh, I made a mistake of choosing the brown pill. At least it looked like a—Okay. All right. Funny. Uh, oh yeah, I'll take one or more—me two more comments. You guys decided to participate at the end. I was going to go for one hour and we're like one hour in. I do have—I have to eat and I have a classical music concert to go to, you know, where there will be no women who can recognize a good man at the classical music concert. Michael says, "Uh, I'd let girls slap me around a bit when I was younger, but I grew out of that." Okay. Um, well, I'm assuming you didn't mean M. You mean me. Uh, Jayla, sorry if I'm pronouncing your name incorrectly. I've changed a lot, but that's only after having kids. I was also in my 30s, 40s. That's tough to believe. Uh, he must really want it. Yeah. Well, it sounds like these women want it, but they don't want to do anything about it, right? They just want it magically to happen, but the magic is unlikely at that time of their lives, right? So, uh, that's why it is—just know I can only hope, right? I can only hope that women in their 30s and 40s and even 20s watch videos like this, realize they don't want to end up like this, and they absolutely will if they continue the type of dating strategy they have, uh, and then change because everyone's going to win. Women who are traditional and submissive and want to be wives will have amazing lives, and men who want those women—which I think most of us would—also be happy because right now no one's happy except for me, but I moved to Thailand. Again, if you want to do the same thing, I have a link in the description of the video. Go and check it out, guys. So all right, guys, I'm literally looking at my door because my cleaning lady is just about to barge in and she has no idea I'm doing a live stream, so, um, but listen, I'm live every day and I absolutely—so join me tomorrow if you want to continue the conversation for sure. I'm going to try to do it around the same time. So, I went live what, one—one p.m. Bangkok time, which I think is eleven a.m. Pacific time. So join me tomorrow. We'll have another reaction video, but I'm love chatting with you guys. So maybe I will see you tomorrow. Okay. Peace.