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Look, brother, when it comes to dating, in my opinion, being an unforgettable type of man is a kind of superpower. The way social interactions have become so high these days, meaning on a daily basis, the way we meet new people, old people, or basically how many people we meet in a day has increased manifold compared to the olden days. And trust me, the more people you meet, many of your own interactions with them won't even be remembered after some time. But if you have the ability to be an unforgettable type of man, then my friend, whether it's about your first interaction or if a girl is already in a relationship with you, she will think 10,000 times before breaking up with you, brother, solely for the fact that she knows it's not easy to forget you. So basically, becoming a man who is not easy to forget, my friend. This gives you a kind of unfair advantage over the guys who think that people will remember you for your looks, money, and cars. That's why today I have brought you five things that, if you understand and apply them carefully, nobody can stop you from becoming an unforgettable man. That's why we come to our point number one. Build contrast in your personality. Building contrast in your personality is such an undervalued trait, my friend. People aren't even talking about it these days, but they forget that personality contrast is a huge part of people you can't forget, from movies to real life. Because look, brother, what happens is as soon as you meet a girl, or any person, their mind starts categorizing you to understand you. For example, this person is shy. This person is confident. This person is an introvert. This person is an extrovert. This person is funny. So basically, their mind tries to put you in a specific category. But if there is contrast in your energy, then my brother, when that girl can't put you in any category, that is something that can make you completely unforgettable to a girl. For example, John Wick, on one hand, loves his dog so much, and on the other hand, when that dog is killed, the kind of man he becomes is completely opposite. And this is the contrast you need to build within yourself. For example, you might be flirty, but you are a deep man who also knows how to have deep and meaningful conversations, and your personality is also very deep. This particular thing, my dear friend, can make you irresistible. For example, or let me say, on one hand, you are completely calm, but at the right time, you are absolutely loud and playful. You might be a completely ambitious person in your life, or you might have achieved a lot, but at the same time, you are very grateful and grounded, my friend. When you hold these two extremes in your single personality, my friend, trust me, forget about girls. Whoever you meet in your life, they will not be able to forget about you. And please tell me in the comment section below what contrasting traits you have in your personality. So, my dear friend, blend the opposites. Okay? The second trait that can make you completely unforgettable to a girl is understanding her better than herself. Again, understand this complicated point carefully because no one will give you this knowledge for free. Because, my friend, developing this quality takes a lot of time and experience, where you start understanding people better than they understand themselves. Because, you see, human beings, I would say almost 90% of human beings, are living their lives subconsciously. They are not fully conscious or completely aware. But in such a crowd, when a girl notices that you are a conscious man who can easily read the vibe of the room, can read the people around him, this, my dear friend, is a small ability. But if you develop it just by being aware and conscious, it will definitely take some time to do this. But if you practice this consciously, you can grasp this ability even faster, where 90% of the time you can easily guess what the next move of a human being, or the person in front of you, or a girl, will be, or what they will be thinking, or what they will be doing. And why this is not difficult is because, my friend, human behavior is very predictable. And if you understand a generic female nature from my videos, then my friend, in the initial conversations, you can easily read a girl's mind and what she is going to do. Even with your own experience. But let's assume you are in a relationship with a girl for a long period of time. Then, my friend, when your accuracy regarding that girl becomes almost 99%, when you always know how that girl is going to react, what she is going to think, or what is going to happen to her, even before she knows it herself, then my friend, that girl will never try to leave you in her life because this is a rarest of the rarest quality. Therefore, as a man, start observing patterns and behaviors. And this starts with yourself. You first start understanding yourself the best. And once you crack yourself, then cracking others is just like this. For example, you say something to a girl and then your next statement is, "Please don't think about this all night," or "Don't overthink about it." So, basically, if you read her flaws there and alert her before that, this is just an example, my friend. She is never ever going to put you at risk. Because that girl also knows that every man can see her, but only this man can feel me. Understand? And brother, becoming unforgettable is not just about words. It's also about your preparation as a man, where many men don't pay attention to their personal care, which often makes them feel internally unconfident. And believe me, how much attention you pay to the details of your personal care impacts your behavior. Because a girl can sense these things very easily. 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Make sure that you check it out because it's completely Ayurvedic and has no side effects. So, let's move forward in this video. After this comes our third thing that can make you completely unforgettable in a girl's mind. Do you know what it is? Embrace your flaws. My friend, in Japanese philosophy, there is something called Wabi-sabi. I might be slightly incorrect here, but the meaning of my words will be the same. So, in Wabi-sabi, they practice an art called Kintsugi. Do you know what they do in this? If a glass object breaks or gets a crack, my friend, they fill the cracks with gold. They make the cracks within it, its flaws, even more beautiful. Now, do you know the reason behind this philosophy? The flaws within you, your shortcomings, are what make you more identifiable, beautiful, and unique. If you are a human being, I know you must have some insecurity. My height is short, my complexion is dark, my hair is falling out. There can be anything that makes you completely insecure. But if you try to hide your flaws and become perfect, you are basically putting yourself in a generic mold, which makes you like the already predictable human beings. That means you are blending your rarity, meaning your uniqueness, into the crowd yourself. So that you don't stand out. But if you want to become unforgettable, flaunt your flaws. Because perfect is equal to predictable, and imperfect with acceptance is equal to being unforgettable. There are so many paintings in this world. But today, everyone remembers the Mona Lisa because she doesn't have eyebrows. So don't remove your flaws. Refine them and accept them. Now, many people confuse this with meaning that we shouldn't improve. No, my friend. Accepting your flaws doesn't mean you don't improve. You have to improve. The things you can work on, you need to improve them. But without forgetting your true raw identity, who you really are. Because anyway, people remember flaws more. People remember shortcomings better. Because I also remember when I went to my college reunion. So, brother, my college principal himself told me that I forgot the class topper, but this doesn't leave my mind. Now, there might be other reasons for that. But flaws were something that made my HOD remember me. My some bad habit, because of which maybe a girl constantly complains about me. But this is something she loves. I hope you have understood this in a human way, not a robotic way. Because many people listen to my videos like lecturers, as if they will analyze it to teach somewhere later. But what you actually need to do is, you don't have to follow me blindly. You need to understand what is useful for you and apply it by understanding it better than me. Okay? After this, we come to our fourth point. Build control over your nervous system. Remember, my brother, the moment someone doesn't understand you, or when you don't do what they expect, you force them to pay attention to you. For example, if a glass object falls, every average person's reaction will be similar, "Oh my god!" But you might be somebody who is still calm about it. You are as you are. Non-jerky movements, for example. Because 90% of people fail right here. The moment something is emotionally triggering, they lose control. The glass thing is just an example for you. But 90% of guys, if a girl becomes a little distant, doesn't reply properly, their behavior changes. It's possible a girl is acting like a meme in front of you, just to test you. And you react to that in the same way that 90% of other guys would. She stops paying attention to you, and you start chasing her. But if you don't do it the way more than half the people do, you instantly become unforgettable. Now, this thing is part of your behavior, your reactions, your responses, everything. And this part, the control of the nervous system that I explained to you, is a part of the part, my brother. The real game is having complete control over your central nervous system. Gaining things over your willpower. Building discipline in your life. Not feeding your fantasies. If you want a video on not feeding fantasies, then write "fantasy" in the comment section below, brother. But as a man, if you build control over your central nervous system, you are not only unforgettable but you also instantly become unstoppable. Because when you have control over your central nervous system, then my friend, you will never have needy energy coming from within you. And you will never feel anxiety because of any girl. Nor will you send overthinking messages. Double messages, triple messages. Everyone tells you not to send two messages, but how are those two messages happening? With your anxiety. If the girl doesn't reply, then constantly checking your phone. These things go against your masculine behavior. Not saying no where there is no need to say it. Not answering that girl's random questions. My friend, this is why having control over your central nervous system is very crucial, which you achieve through journaling, meditation, and self-healing. Okay? Now we come to our fifth point, which is specifically a weapon in dating and one-on-one person dynamics. Which is public versus private behavior. What do most men do? The way they behave with a girl when they are alone is the exact same way they behave with her in public. And the same thing goes with your friends. The way you are with them in private is the same way in public. This needs to change if you want to be categorized as an unforgettable man. The duality of your public and private behavior, just like I explained the importance of contrast in the first point, is also a very underestimated superpower. Because when you behave slightly differently with a girl publicly and differently privately, then my friend, the girl feels different about herself in public with you and privately with you. She also feels like she is two different people with this person in public and in private. Now, generally, I never give tactical tricks, but I feel that when it comes to how your relationship is publicly and your private dominance, then my friend, I believe that this matters. So, for example, publicly, you might be calm with that girl. Extremely respectful, always composed. But at the same time, privately, you act extremely playful, flirtatious, and maybe more expressive with that girl. And at the same time, this also instills something in that girl's mind that I have a man who privately shows me a side of himself that he never shows publicly. And this exclusivity from a high-value man is a goldmine for a lot of girls. Because this thing not only makes you an unforgettable man but also creates complete emotional attachment towards you in that girl. When she understands that I have a high-value man who behaves differently publicly, but privately I get to see a side of that man that no one in the whole world gets to see. And this is very addictive. So, I hope you all have understood these five points very well. If you are new to this channel, then my friend, subscribe. Let's quickly complete 7 lakh subscribers. And make sure if you got even a little value from this video, then give it a thumbs up. Because researching, meditating on such in-depth knowledge, and then bringing it in front of you takes effort. So, I hope you all liked this video. So, I will see you all next week in another amazing video. I love you all, my boys.