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Ep 11: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

Arlette Amuli1:17:44

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Hello everyone, and welcome back to my channel. It's your host Arlette, and we are here with another episode of Pop the Balloon or Find Love. And we have some beautiful single ladies lined up. Make some noise, ladies! All right, so we're going to be bringing out some single men one by one. When they come on out around this corner, if he's your type, you like what you're seeing, you know, everything is just on point, do not pop your balloon. But you know, if there's anything like he said, or you know, whatever it is, if he's just not your type, you can't see yourself going out with this guy, go ahead and pop your balloon, and then I'll go over to a few of you, see why you ended up popping. Y'all ready to get started? All right, so let's go ahead and bring out our first single guy.

Hi. Hello, hello. Welcome in. I'll have you hold that. What's your name?

My name is Ryan.

Ryan. Yes, that's it. Okay. And Ryan, how old are you?

I'm 26.

26. And what do you do?

And I, I do a few things. I own two media companies. I run a clothing brand, and I also make music on the side.

Okay, very cool. And now what are some things you like to do for fun?

Um, I love thrifting. I love, um, yeah, thrifting, shopping, coffee shops. I'm like a museum goer. I'm not much of a clubber. Okay, so I'm not like a nightlife person. I'm more like a morning type of guy.

Got it. Okay. And now what are some things you look for in a woman?

I look for someone who's going to be able to be supportive of me and like help me with my with my business and my goals and dreams and whatnot. Okay. Um, and someone that I can just, I guess, laugh with and not be too serious about everything. I think that's what I'm looking for.

Got it. And now what are some of your deal breakers?

Deal breakers? Um, there's a few. Um, having kids is one, um, and maybe if they're older than me.

Okay. Might be one. I'm 26, so you're 26.

Okay. Got it. Okay, cool. So we did get uh, two pop balloons. Let's go on over there, see what's going on. All right, if we can have your name and age.

Briana, 26. I do have a child. I have a son, so deal breaker.

Got it. And Briana, what do you do?

I work for a medical record retrieval company, so I mean, they have us doing a lot of different stuff. Yeah.

And now prior to him saying that kids were a dealbreaker for him, you did have your balloon unpopped. Why did you [Music]

Um, you know, he ain't bad looking. I would like to hear more though, but yeah, deal breaker is a deal breaker.

Got it. And now I know you said the kid are a deal breaker, but is she someone that is your type?

Um, I would say yeah.

Okay. MH. Okay. What makes her your type?

I think I like her presentation. Like she looked like she got done up, so I like that she took it serious and took the event serious. Okay. Again, I don't know too much about her, yeah, but yeah, she's cool.

All right, thank you. Let's go. Oh, right here. If we going to have your name and age.

I'm Charisma, and I'm 27.

And Charisma, what do you do?

I'm a hair stylist.

Okay, nice. And uh, why did you end up popping your balloon?

I mean, one of his deal breakers were if you're older, and I'm 27 and he's 26, so got it.

Yeah. And then before he said that you did have it unpopped?

Yeah. I mean, he's tall, he, you know, um, is sure about what he wants. I was, you know, intrigued until he said the age thing, so it is what it is.

Have you ever dated someone younger than you?

I have. Yeah, so I mean, age isn't a big deal for me, but you know, it's not his for T.

Got it. Okay, so she is 27.

Mhm. Yep. How you feeling her though?

She's cool. Um, yeah, I wouldn't say that she's my type, um, but yeah.

Okay. M. So what makes her not really your type?

I would say like, again, I look at the outfits, but also uh, physically, I don't feel like there's any chemistry between us physically.

Okay. Mhm. Okay, cool. Thank you. All right, let's head on back over here. So we do still have have quite a few balloons unpopped, so the game gets switched on over to you. I'm going to hand you a toothpick. Damn. Okay. Uh-huh. All right, there you go. So we do still have quite a few girls without their balloon and popped, so I'm going to have you pop three. Damn. I know, tough. Yeah. Okay. Based off of what you're seeing so far, what doesn't really fit into your tie, whatever it may be, pop those three, then I'll go, we'll go over to each of them and we'll see why you ended up popping.

Can I ask any questions or we just after this round?

Oh, damn. I don't to talk to him. Damn. I know. I know that's why it's tough. This is brutal. Okay. Um, all right, you pop those three and I'll come after when you're done. Yeah, I know. Hold on now. All right, we doing three. Um, let me see here. Sorry. Okay, two more. Um, damn, this is hard. All right, let's start with the first one you popped. If we can have your name and age.

I'm Lex, and I'm 23.

And Lex, what do you do?

I'm an insurance broker and I host Christian parties. Oh, amen.

And now why did you have your balloon unpopped?

Cuz he seemed like he had his stuff together. Literally, that's it. And he like skin. All right, not complaining about that. So Ryan, why did we end up popping her balloon?

Damn, you know what it was? I think it was your demeanor. Just the expression on your face didn't look that enthused. I think that was just your natural resting pose. That is. And that was it. That was literally it. I get that a lot, so it's all good.

Mhm. You're obviously a great person, so I didn't have anything to go off of, so yeah.

Right. See now she's smiling. Is different, isn't it? There we go. It's different. Uh-huh. All right, thank you. If we can have your name and age.

I'm Jasmine, 26.

Okay, Jasmine, what do you do?

I'm a graphic designer and comedian.

Okay, nice. And why did you have your balloon UNP for Ryan?

Um, we have similar interests. Um, he's tall, tattoos. Okay.

Now Ryan, why do we end up popping hers?

Um, I think it was the outfit for me. Um, to be fair, I didn't know I was going to be here today. It's all good. Um, yeah, I guess it was just again the presentation isn't my cup of tea, so got it. It's all good. Okay. All right, let's go on to our third lady. Hello. Hey. If we can have your name and age.

Hi, I'm Karma. I'm 24.

Okay, Karma, what do you do?

I'm a singer. I'm also working in v, um, UGC, doing videography.

Oh, very cool. And now why did you have your balloon unpopped?

Oh, I don't know. You got to ask them.

No, no. Why, why did you have yours unpopped?

No, I think he's attractive. I like his tattoos, and I think he's a cool person, and I heard he was also in music and interested in the same stuff as me.

Nice. Okay. Ryan, why' we end up hopping hers?

Um, again, I'm going to go on the outfit and the it's the piercings. Um, it's okay. I guess it's just that aesthetic isn't my favorite. Mhm. I think I'm into less, less showy. Oh, okay. M. Okay. Definitely feel the vibes. It's kind of like seeing people multiple chains, but on the face. The vibes. Yeah. But I mean, you're an artist, so it makes sense. It's like that's your, you're an expressive person, creativity.

Yeah, absolutely. Well, I appreciate it. Thank you. Thank you. Okay, let's go right on back up here. So now you can go ahead and ask the ladies a question, kind of help you narrow it down. Okay. Yeah. Um, all right. We have how many people left? One, two, three, four, five. Okay. So what is, is the worst part about dating you all? All right, let's start right. Worst thing about you, worst aspect, character trait? Yeah. Okay. We'll start with your name and age.

Hi, I'm Esther, and I'm 23.

Okay. And Esther, what do you do?

I'm a medical assistant and a full-time nursing student. And just to answer his question, what is the worst part about dating me? Um, I would say just patience. Yeah, you know, I'm not as patient. I'm working on that, so I would say I'm still working on my patience.

Still in what regard?

Patients, like just not, you know, we live in such a microwave, you know, society. We want things here and now, so I'm working on just like waiting on God's timing and yeah.

Okay. All right, good. All right, your name and age.

My name is Jacqueline. I'm 25.

Jacqueline, what do you do?

I'm currently a full-time student pursuing a career in aviation.

Nice. Okay. And then just answer his question. Uh, worst thing about dating me? I'll probably say patient as well. I'm impatient.

Okay. Add anything to that?

I want something different.

Oh, something different. Um, can we come back? You want to circle back to her? We can circle back. All, we'll give you some time. Okay. Let's get your name and age.

I'm Kayla. I'm 23.

Okay, Kayla, what do you do?

I do real estate and property management.

Okay. And then just to answer his question, what's the worst thing about dating you? That's it. Um, I don't want to seem perfect, but I'm just like how he was explaining himself. I'm very cool. I'm chill. I'm laid-back. I don't expect a lot of stuff to happen. Um, I came from a family of two parents, so like I, I mean, I don't know, but as far as like, I don't know, I'll eat your food, maybe. I don't know. I don't know. I really do not know, but not to sound like I'm cocky or nothing, but there's really, I'm just a patient person. I don't mind like, I'm not the go with the flow type of person, but if you know when the time is right, we need to go ahead and make sure we on that type of time, but yeah, I don't know if that makes sense, but

Okay, let's, let's go back. I think, I think we gave her enough time now. Okay. Okay. So maybe the worst thing about dating me could be like I have high expectations. Like if you tell me you're going to do something, I expect you to do it, and if you don't, that kind of becomes a problem for me.

Okay. Yeah. All right, let's go. Got two more down here. All right, your name and age.

My name is Mishna. I'm 23.

And Mishna, what do you do?

I'm currently a makeup artist full-time.

Nice. Okay. And just to answer his question, um, if I had to say the worst thing about dating me, it would probably say how outgoing and goofy I could be. I'm the youngest of three, so I kind of have that young child, the the younger sibling syndrome, so I kind of was bouncing off the walls. By the grace of God, I've been working on it a little bit better, cuz like our last person said, no one's perfect. I don't like to think I'm perfect, but with everything, it's hard work, and I feel like I've been doing better, but yeah.

Good. Okay. All right. Okay. If we can have your name and age.

Sure. My name is Tiarra. I'm 22 years old.

Okay. And what do you do?

Uh, I work remotely for specialty pharmacy, and I'm in school uh, for neurology.

All right. And then just answer's question. What's the worst thing about dating you?

Sure. I mean, I think that word is pretty subjective. Um, I wouldn't say there's a worst part of dating me because I'm pretty open to learning about myself and you know, if there's something that a quality of me that needs to be worked on, I'm okay with working on it, but I, I would say something that I am working on is taking other people's opinion um, into perspective and looking at both sides of the story. Um, typically I'm an overthinker, and I, I just think of my my side, and then I'm like, okay, let me calm down, and uh, you know, it's really never as um, exaggerated as as they 10 for things to be, so that's something I'm currently working on, um, understanding other people's perspectives.

Okay. Yeah. All right. Okay. Let's head back on up here. So to switch it on over to you, what's the worst thing about dating you?

Um, I'm opinionated, so I just have strong opinions on things. Okay. And uh, I'm a truth seeker, so it's like if someone can prove me wrong and like this is the right way to do things or this is how it should be done, I'm open to it, but I feel confident in my decision-making, so that's why I like to do things a certain way and how I like to do them.

Got it. Okay. All right. So after we have heard the ladies, I'm going to go ahead and have you pop three. Okay. Okay. We're going to have you pop three of their balloons based off of what you've heard and what you've seen, all that stuff. Um, okay. Oh, man, this is, this is brutal. Okay. Um, let's do, let me see who I want to. This is terrible. Um, am I looking at and let's go to. Okay, since we're here, we'll start with her. So why'd you end up popping her balloon? I can you remind me of what your answer was?

My answer was I have high expectations.

Okay. Um, I think this one's tricky because I'm I'm visually drawn to her, but I think something there's like a personality difference. Um, it's I don't think it's based on her answer. Okay. I just don't, I don't know. I don't have a concrete answer necessarily.

Okay, be like that. All right, let's go into her. Next girl. Why we end up popping her balloon?

Um, your voice was raspy. Um, okay. Um, but that, I mean, I, I, I not to say I don't like that, but um, I think voice is something I'm very attracted to or drawn to, and if I'm picturing a long-term relationship with someone, it's got to be someone that I really love how they speak, so that's the honest answer.

Have you gotten that before about your voice?

Hell no. I mean, no. Most people like my raspy voice, and then I got an accent, so like, I don't know, but I mean, that's how he, he wants somebody hot pitched. I don't know. That's on you, pokey. It's all good.

Okay. Let's go to our third popped balloon over here. Okay. So why did we end up popping her balloon?

Um, she was, she seems motherly to me. Like that's a bad thing. Um, like just I was G, I was just giving mother.

Uh-huh. That's it.

But don't usually men want to go for someone who's like their mother?

Yeah. I mean, that was my answer. That's it.

Okay. That's fine. Thank you. Yeah. Okay. Oh, okay. We got a pump. Why do we end up hopping our balloon?

It's giving mother. Isn't that what you want kind of in a woman?

It was just, I think it was the outfit. It was how she was put together that was like the mother vibe. That was it. Yeah.

Okay. All right. I think it was her personality necessarily, but yeah. Yeah. No, I mean, I find him handsome. He's typically what I go for, but I feel like it's all good. The comment, the comment for me personally, like I want to look like a mother. Like I want to look like someone's wife, you know. Yeah. So it's like when you said it's giving mother, I took that as like a compliment, but I don't think you mentioned that as a compliment. I think it was more of like a insult kind of, you know, but yeah, I mean, you are attractive. I like your answer so far. I appreciate that.

Yeah, yeah. I think that was just a just the way you interpreted my critique. I get that. It's all good. I get that.

All right. Cool. We do have our unpopped balloon down here. Let's go on over here. Did you have any questions you wanted to ask him?

What do your daily habits look like?

My daily habits? Um, I wake, let's see. I start with waking up. Okay. And I work Monday through Friday. Okay. Um, the weekends is where I take my time to relax, but I wake up, I like to go to the gym three times a week, and then I'm always working. My day looks different usually every single day, so I don't have a ice plunge and then two, two hours of meditation and then this. It's like I drove to Arizona today. Like I, I keep it very random, so I can't say I have a daily regimen that I follow, um, but I guess in terms of just habits, I don't know, I just like to get my work done before 6:00 p.m.

So how do you find time to care about yourself? Like what do you do to to yourself?

That's a good question. I think I have difficulty with that. Um, it's hard to find a balance between being relaxed, comfortable, and like self-care, quote-unquote, okay, and working and grinding and like, so I don't think I have an answer to that. Um, okay. Yeah. I, I have difficulty with that.

Sure. Okay. Um, what, what do you, what do you look for in a relationship?

Um, kind of like what I mentioned earlier, which was just someone who's supportive and willing to, I think, allow me to lead as well.

Lead how?

Lead, and basically every way.

Um, what is every way? Can you be more specific?

Probably like when it comes to decision-making. Let's say we're traveling, we're going on a trip. Okay, I'll book the trip. Um, I'll be in charge of like the itinerary, and I can ask you, hey, hey, what do you, do you like this? Do you like this? Cool. We'll set this up. We'll have this the Uber. I have it booked, and we'll pick us up at 6:00 p.m. Like I like doing stuff like that because I don't know, I just like having my, I guess, my way, so if, if I have to put it like that.

Sure. Um, do you smoke or drink or take any e-mil?

Nah. I stopped drinking when I turned 21. Um, it's just something that I don't know, doesn't agree with my system. Sure. So I don't smoke or nothing. Yeah. Sure. Oh, sure. Okay. Yeah. Let me bring y'all all up here. Let's come up. Let's come up. All right. So do we have any final questions before we determine if y'all are, you know, feeling each other?

I don't have any other questions.

Um, you don't have any children. Uh, uh. I'm just going to pop because I'm sorry. Um, I just, um, I don't feel a good energy. I'm, I mean, I'm not sure. You're really handsome person, but I feel like intellectually maybe we wouldn't connect. We'd be on different levels. Um, when you said, um, you're not really sure how to apply like balance into your life, I'm that's really important to me, and I feel like I, even though I'm 22, I've definitely worked myself up to be, um, to a point where I can be balanced and find, um, time to take care of myself, and I kind of want to meet someone that's already where I'm at. Um, yeah, but other than that, you sound like you're a really good person. Have a good trajectory that you're going on, and I hope you wish the best.

All right, going back. I appreciate that. Um, I think it's a valid criticism, and I think uh, that's good. I like what she said. Yeah, she's like, what do I do? Okay. All right. Well, Ryan, we weren't able to find you a match today, but thank you so much for coming on. Let's give it up for ladies. I'll take the mic. Go. Thank you. Bye. All right, let's go. Go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello. Welcome in. I'll have you take this mic. What's your name?

Antoine.

Antoine. How old are you?

I'm 27.

27. Okay. And what do you do?

I work at a plant, but also a personal train.

Okay, very cool. And uh, now what are some things you like to do for fun?

Really workout and just self-love, fol on, step love. Okay, that's me.

So you're all about the gym? Yeah. All right. Health is wealth. Heal is wealth. Okay. And now uh, what are some things you look for in a woman?

Really, uh, make sure she love herself first, and then just she got to understand that a happy man is God's plan.

Okay. Now what are some of your deal breakers? You say what? What are some of your deal breakers?

Smoking. Smoking is just a no deal for me. Okay. Uh, that's really it. And then you got to be a gym girl. Be a gym girl, as a gym girl.

Okay. Yeah. All right. Cool. So we did

Get a couple of Pop balloons. Let's go on over to these girls and see what's going on. We'll start right over here. If we can have your name and age.

My name is Jacqueline. I'm 25.

Okay, and Jacine, why'd you end up popping your balloon?

Um, I'm initially not really attracted, but also you said you want a gym girly, so I'm not that either.

Oh yeah, all right. And now she said, I know you said you're all about the gym girly. She says she's not, so is she someone that's your type?

No, she good. She good. Thank you. See, he said even if you're not a gym girl, he's spilling you not want. Okay. And then we did get a couple down here as well.

All right, if we can have your name and age.

I'm Lex. I'm 23.

Okay, and Lex, why did you end up popping your balloon?

Because he's not my type, like just physically, he's not my type.

Okay, so physically, what is your usual type?

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Um, I'm sorry, I wasn't expecting that. Um, more I don't know, I just I don't know, I can't even tell you. Just like the energy, possibly, or whatever.

You said physically though.

Yeah, like physically, your energy is not a match, but I do like that you go to the gym. I like that though.

I got you. Appreciate. And I like your outfit too.

Appreciate you. Appreciate you.

And now is she someone that's your type?

She decent. We can work something out.

Oh, okay.

Oh yeah, all right. Let's go. I ain't I ain't against nothing. It is what it is. I don't know none of y'all. If hey, things can change.

Okay, all right. Let's go on over here. Your name, age, and why you ended up popping your balloon.

I'm Jasmine. I'm 26. I really just popped 'cause I smoke weed. Everything was cool, but you said you don't like people who smoke, so.

Oh yeah, okay. Same thing. I know you everybody's cool, but smoking, smoke. I can't do no smoking. Can't do that.

I respect it. Okay. Let's go on over here. If we can have your name and age.

Hi, my name is Mishna. I'm 23.

And Mishna, why'd you end up popping your balloon?

I popped my balloon 'cause at first you said you're a personal trainer, but then I heard you speak about how much God is in your life, and I was like, like darn it. But then I also kind of I just felt like more or less I just don't see us being compatible with you being so big into the gym. I'm not a gym girly whatsoever. I personally dance; that's my choice of exercise. So I didn't want you going to the gym and me being like, no, I'm good. I didn't want that to be an issue, so I just figured I'd just rather separate myself.

I understand. That's one thing I should have emphasized on. I, as long as you've been active. See, there you go. Active is this could have been a thing.

It's okay. It's okay. This song. Okay. And so apart from him saying the whole gym thing, is he someone that is your type though?

Um, he's definitely someone my parents would like. I feel like you walked in the door and they'd be like, oh, thank you, Jesus, like she finally got a husband. No, but like definitely you are more or less my type. It's just it happens. People make mistakes. It's okay.

All right, cool. We do have one more here. We can have your name and age.

Hi, I'm Karma. I'm 24.

And Karma, why did we end up hopping? Never. I just wasn't feeling the chemistry, but then you said that smoke weed thing, and I do smoke weed, even though it's not my biggest partake, and it's not something I would hold on forever, it's something I do right now. Same way with Jim, I don't mind. I would take on to your same things and be able to do it together, but you know, chemistry is a thing too, so it's all.

Yes, man. Respect it. Respect it. All right. And now Anon, she someone that's your type? Again, I don't know nobody, but at the end of the day, the if the chemistry right is there, absolutely. I picking. We love a God's man. Okay. Right, pick and choose. All right, cool. And I think we did get a couple that we missed. If we can have your name and age.

Charisma, and I'm 27.

Okay, and Charisma, why'd you end up popping your balloon?

I mean, I smoke a little weed here and there, so that's one of his dough breakers, so.

Got it. Okay. And then before he said that, you did have it unpopped. Why did you? I mean, he's handsome. I like the whole put-together everything, so yeah.

Okay. Right. I know you going to say the same thing again, and we want something different. Okay, we need something different. So is she someone that you would approach if you saw her out? Somebody I approach. I would say no, just because I'm more off a petite guy. I'm off a peti guy.

Okay, all right. Thank you. Let's go back over here. All right, if we can have your name in age.

I'm Esther. I'm 23.

Okay, and Esther, why did you end up popping your balloon?

Just physical attraction. I'm not as am I. I'm ugly.

You're not ugly. No, I got you. It's not that. It's just not it ain't giv no it's. And you look good. I like your outfit. I got you, but it's just a physical thing. Physical attraction.

Okay, so is there something like 'cause he's trying to figure it out too. What is it? You know, we want to know a lot of. Y say physical attraction. I feel like I'm you feel me. You are handsome, just not to me.

Damn, I got you though. Appreciate you. I'm sorry. Appr. Great teeth too. I keep like staring at your great great teeth. Physical fit, look good. What is it though? Let me know so I can work on it. Hello. SE step improvement. It's like beaut is in the eye of a Beholder, you know. You are someone else's cup with tea, just not mine.

I got you. Okay. Now how are you feeling, Esther? Would you approach her if you saw her out?

I probably would. I probably would.

All right, cool. Thank you. So we do still have three unpopped balloons. I'm going to go ahead and have you ask the ladies a question to kind of help you narrow it down. See who's more your type. So I already got the gym thing out the way. I I feel about 50/50 50/50. Oh, let's start right here. Your name and age.

I am Kayla. I'm 23.

Okay, so Kayla, why'd you end up popping from him asking how you feel about 50/50?

Because I'm not trying to like backtrack on my past relationship that we was doing 50/50 there, and I I didn't like it 'cause I feel like if I'm cooking food, if I'm cleaning the house, if I, you know, I feel like that's the 50 right there. I never said I never said about payments or nothing. I it is is. Can you adapt? Matter. That's a better question. Can you?

Okay, yes, I can. 'Cause I can be holding you down, but then again, life happens. Life going life. Yeah. Can you adap? If are you willing to adap?

Yes. Yeah. So can I? You want your balloon back? Let's get that balloon money. I'm not putting no no. See, Kayla, that's why you should have just asked him. You right. That was my fault. I'm sorry. You good. You good. What you know what, hold on, I'm about to do it again, 'cause you know what? I I tried to shoot my shot a long time ago, and he like never gave me the time or attention, and he probably don't want to tell nobody, but he's um what's the people security at the club, and I be trying to shoot my shot there too. He still don't give me a chance. I'm good. I don't even care. No, I'm good. That's what you got to say for yourself. All right. It's just like if I see you in the club all the time, it's just I'm come on now. Let's be. It's not even all the time, but I also got your Instagram, so it's like make some shake. What you saying? Make some shake. What what you saying? You heard her. What you so you're saying you see her out too much? Yeah, and that's like a that's not even even though even though I I work security at the end of the day, I'm not making money. If you was out making money, that's the difference, but you going out. I'm cool.

Okay, all right. Let's go ahead and go on over to our next girl. I got a question. Start with your name and age.

Oh, my name is Briana. I'm 26.

Um, what's outside too much? Like what is in the club sections too much? Is the part I'm trying to figure out. Too much, man. Every weekend is too much.

Oh, okay. Not every weekend. And then I think your initial question was how do you feel about 50/50, right? No, how you feel about being able to adapt? Say that being you did say 50/50. 50/50 was I'm going to answer 50/50. Um, with 50/50, um, you know, I feel like that's a case-by-case scenario. Like I don't have a problem. It depends. Like I don't mind adapting because you did say adapting, so I don't mind. Like every relationship is different, so whatever works for each different relationship works. Like I'm not opposed to 50/50 is what I'm trying to say. Say so, um, yeah, I mean, I don't mind it. I would rather let me throw that in there. I would rather more so the man putting in more. I'm not going to lie about that. I would more so rem uh prefer a man putting in more, but I don't mind a 50/50 situation. It it depends on the situation. I like it going down here. All right, if we can have your name and a.

Sure, my name is Dearra. I'm 22 years of age.

Okay. And then to answer this question about the whole 50/50. I'm sorry, the question is can can I can can you adapt? So basically, if we was in a relationship, of course, I'm going to take care of everything, ma'ale, but can you if something was to happen, are you able to pick up the slack where where I'm lacking at?

Sure. I mean, I think that's kind of like the bare minimum of jumping on the relationship. You've have to be willing to adopt to a person, but you you you you'll be you'll be like in shock nowadays with with with the generation in nowadays. Everybody just expects so much.

Okay. I feel like that should be communicated before jumping into anything though.

Completely agree. Yeah, completely agree. Okay. Do you have any questions for him?

Um, what is your daily habits?

My daily habits? Sure. Gym, JY. I work and go to the gym. Anything else that's me. Read and gram. What what's interesting about you? What would you say is an interesting aspect of you?

Interesting like what are your hobbies? What do you like to get into too besides the gym?

I'm right now I'm focused on really self-love and work and gym and active. I'm being active.

What does that look like to you?

Self-love, being healthy, just caring about my body first.

Okay. What does that look like? Like what how's your lify?

Eating right. Eating right. Like I told you, I read and ground. Just getting my body right, and that everything else going to fall in line. What B are you currently reading? You said what what books are you currently reading, or what genre do you read?

Just self-love. Any self-love, but how to be a superior man. Sorry, how to be a superior man. How to how to be a superior man. A superior man.

Okay. Okay. That's the book I'm reading right now.

Sure. Okay. Okay. Do you have any questions for me?

I don't I don't. You don't. I don't. We can focus on that elsewhere. H. I'm sorry. Okay. Why do we end up hoping? I just I I think um the energy. I feel like I'd want more someone to ask more questions for me to get to know me better. That's all on on the show. Um, I think there's like baseline foundational question. I just like it's a time and place for everything.

Sure. I got you though. Yeah. Okay. Oh yeah, all right. And we did get our pop over here. Why did we end up popping? How old are you again?

27.

Yeah, know. Um, I ain't going to lie, I thought you was younger, but um.

Old 27. Old 27 isn't old old.

Yeah. Um, I just want to see the other options. That's it.

I got you. You're handsome.

Okay. Hi. What's up with it? You're handsome.

I appreciate you. I appreciate you. Okay. All right. Well, that is all the balloons popped unfortunately, but we do thank you for coming on. Let's go ahead and give it up for him. Ladies, appreciate. Like thank you. Okay. Let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello. Welcome in. I'll have you hold that. Can we have your name?

I'm Michael here.

And uh, Michael, how old are you?

I'm 25.

25. Okay. What do you do?

Uh, I'm an electrician.

You're an electrician?

Yes. Okay. And now um what are some things you look for in a woman?

Um, just really support and uh, few morees. I'm from I grew up in the South, so gotta have morals.

Okay, all right. And now um what are some of your deal breakers?

Um, just roflness. Being disrespectful, especially depending on certain situations and stuff, but really that's the main thing.

Okay, all right. And then for the ladies to kind of get your get to know you a little bit, what do you like to do for fun?

Um, I play basketball, uh, I play paintball as well. Also, I'm getting into riding motorcycles.

So you so you're riding motorcycles?

Yes. Get back into that.

All right. So we did get a couple of pop balloons. Let's go on over there and see why they ended up popping. Let's start right at our first girl right here. All right, if we can have your name and age.

Hi, I'm Esther. I'm 23.

And Esther, why did you end up popping your balloon?

He looks like my ex. Yeah. Okay. Literally the second he walked in, I was like, but yeah, got it.

Okay. And now is Esther someone that's your type?

Yeah, I would.

Oh, okay. So you you're not trying to Circle back?

No, no, no. Did you play football?

No. Oh, okay. Never mind then. Okay. All right. Let's go on to our next girl. We can have your name and age.

I'm Briana. I'm 26.

And Briana, why'd you end up popping your balloon?

Well, you are younger than me, and I do have you on Instagram. I never met you in person, but I do have you on Instagram, but really you're just younger than me, so.

For sure. Yeah, I'm 26. You're 25. For sure.

And now is she someone that's your type?

Um, not really. Um, I'm like more like I would say athletically built women, but.

Athletically build.

All right. Not muscular, but you know, like more. You want me to be like.

Not muscular. Just more. What you want me to be like? Just a little bit more built, you know, like thi thicker women.

Thicker. All right. All right. O. Let's go back. If we can have your name and age.

My name is is Jacqueline. I'm 25.

Okay, and Jacine, why'd you end up popping your balloon?

Um, I'm petite. He said he likes thick women.

Oh, think you said you didn't say thick, did you? You said more thicker.

Thicker. Yeah, thicker women. Okay. You know, it is what it is. So is she someone that is your type though?

Yeah, she's my type, but you know, it's when I say like, you know, athletically built, it's just more, you know, like some type of physique to you, you know.

Okay. So do you you know, apart from saying that you did have your balloon unpopped, so when he kind of rephrase that, how are you feeling now?

Um, I feel the same.

Oh, okay. Yeah. So you're still yeah to no. Yeah. Okay. So all right. Let's go on over here. If we can have your name and age.

Charisma. 27.

Okay. And Charisma, why did you end up popping your balloon?

Um, I just didn't like your question. Um, was what are you looking for? And the first thing that you said was like support, and I feel like if a woman said says that, then we're like gold diggers, and we are looking for help, and I feel like when you're looking or trying to be with someone, you're supposed to be looking for love, so that was just my thing.

Okay. Did you want to elaborate on what you meant by support?

Um, so let me ask you this. Would you take care of a man that doesn't need to be taken care of?

I'm not. No, I wouldn't. I mean, if we're together and we have communication and he's down and I'm able to pick up where he's lacking. Yeah, but take care of a man? No, never.

See, and that's that's where the question gets you. It's a man that doesn't need to be taken care of, not financially, but you got to be able to take care of him emotionally, support him in those type of ways. That's why if you don't, you know, listen to the whole question, you eventually well, maybe you know, you could have elaborated a little bit more on the support, but that's just you know, that's what you said, so I was just you know.

Okay. All right. So is Charisma someone that that's your type?

Yeah, she is. Look at you.

Okay. And I know you said him saying that whole support thing was like, but once he elaborated, is he like physically your type though? Like I do like the fit. I do. I like the builds. Like I don't like skinny guys. Um, he's cool.

Oh, how you how you feeling?

Um, we can I guess we can talk a little bit more. I can get my balloon [Laughter] back.

Okay. All right. Let's get that back. There you go. Okay. We'll be back. All right. Let's go right on over here. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping.

I'm Jazz. I'm 26. Um, I pop because I feel like we would be more like best friends.

Okay. Understandable. You getting that Vibe? Or yeah.

Oh, why you guys getting that Vibe?

I don't know. He just seems like brotherly. You know, like he looked like he'd be my brother.

Yes, s. All right. Let's go to our next person here. Okay. If we can have your name and age.

Hi, I'm Karma. I'm 24.

Okay, Karma, why'd you end up hopping your balloon?

Hi, baby. You are so sweet. Your hair is the problem. That was it for me. It's so it's it's healthy. It's natural, and it's being done and kept. I appreciate that. It's just the hairstyle for me. I just don't like the singular braids. They remind me of big to. I don't know why. Otherwise, you give grown man Vibe. I like the outfit. It just didn't work out for me.

It's okay. All right. Is Karma someone that's your type?

Uh, not really. Um, it's just more like kind of look Gothic, but not not you're beautiful for sure, but it's just the nose ring for sure. That's the main thing. It's a Vibe. It's all right though. Thank you.

All right. Let's go on over here. Your name, age, and why you ended up popping your balloon.

Sure. My name is SRA. I'm 22 years of age. Um um I just popped because we seem like a wonderful person. I just feel like maybe our energies wouldn't match necessarily. Um, I feel like you'd be willed with someone else. That's all.

For sure. Yeah. Okay. And is she someone that's your type?

Uh, not really. Um, but I mean, her energy does seem like she's a very genuine person. Uh, we could be cool, but yeah, like Dan wise is probably not.

I get it. All right, cool. And then we did end up getting a pop back here. Oh, I look at me skipping you. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping.

Hi, my name is Mishna. I'm 23. Um, the reason I ended up popping 'cause um I just got a kind of a better look at you, and I noticed how how many tattoos you have. Um, I have none, so that's just something I'm personally not looking for, and I just feel like I don't want any hassle when it comes to bringing home my parents 'cause I'm Haitian. I'm first um first generation, and I my parents are a big aspect of who I date, and I don't want you to have any trouble, and I don't want to hear my mom's mouth, so I just feel like it'd be best if to just.

For sure, M. Okay. All right. And um I mean, none of my tattoos are like anything vulgar or anything like that.

Uh, it doesn't matter with them. For sure. Doesn't matter.

Understandable. Okay. So we do still have two unpop balloons left. I'm going to go ahead and have you ask the two ladies left a question, kind of help you narrow down between them. Okay. Um, do you have any children?

No, no. Oh, they both no kids. No kids. Okay. Are you? How many children are you wanting? Okay, let's start. Um, three at the most. Three at the most. Three at the most. Like two. Like two. What about for you? Do you have any kids? No, I do not. And how many do you want? Uh, two. Two. Okay. All right, ladies, do we have any questions for him?

Okay. How often do you go out? Um, well, I usually go out sometimes. If it's not every weekend, it's sometimes. I work 60 hours a week, so I mean, whether it's going out to the club or going out to just have fun, enjoy activities, it's either or.

And do you believe in God? Like, do you go to church or anything? So I don't go to church out here because I was raised in church. So like, I have a certain connection. If I go to your church and I'm not feeling that vibe, like I can't just find that, you know. I got to be brought into that. That's how I was raised.

All right, rephrase this question. I'm going to rephrase. Is it, how deep is your relationship with God? Um, very deep. It depends on what you want to know. Okay. That's all my questions.

Okay, I have two questions. Do you like to travel? Yes. Do you travel a lot? I don't travel a lot right now because I'm building myself as I'm younger, so then before, you know, starting a family and everything, I can get that out of the way.

Um, how flexible is your schedule? 'Cause I'm a hair stylist, so I kind of like pick my schedule, so I'm usually, I can be free when I want to be free. So how flexible is your schedule? So I make time for what I want to make time for. So my flex, my schedule is flexible however we needed to be.

I had one more question. It's just she, it's like when she did that, it just went out of my brain. Uh, there was one more. Um, um, I don't know. You don't know it. You can come back. Okay. Okay. Well, I'm actually going to switch it on over to him if I can borrow your pick. Okay, I'm going to have you hold that. So off of these two ladies, I'm going to have you pop one of their balloons and you will see if the other one is your match. Okay. Okay.

So why did we end up popping her balloon? Um, she's just less my type between the two women. She's very beautiful. Um, pair D F crazy. Thanks. No problem. That's all I have to say is thanks. All right. And so I'm going to bring you on up here. Let's come on up. Come on up. Yep, you too. All right. Did that question go back to you or any final questions between either one of you before we determine if this is going to be a match? And if you have one as well, you can say. I'm good. I think I'm good. Oh, I think I'm good. Okay. So my final question is going to be, is it a yes for you for him? Yes, it's yes. Okay. And is it a yes for you for her? Yes. We got a match. Okay. I'm going to take this mic and you guys can go on [Laughter] up. How cute. All right. Let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello. Welcome in. I'll have you take that. What's your name? My name is Chandler. Chandler. Yes. Okay. And Chandler, how old are you? 28. 28. And what do you do? I'm a um, fraud analyst. So I just look at customers' accounts, make sure that they're um, fraudulent use of uh, their account number, just pay them back if it's a a fraud case. If not, I just deny the claim off the evidence I found. Okay. Pretty cool. And now what are some things you look for in a woman? Yeah, um, just uh, kind of like my other half, you know what I mean? Someone that compliments me, someone that's uh, you know, by my side, definitely uh, loves me for just me, you know. Okay. That's nice. Now what are some of your deal breakers? Uh, definitely like kids with multiple men, um, and just uh, close-mindedness, you know, not willing to just try new things and, you know, just be spontaneous. Okay. All right. So we did get a couple of popped balloons. Let's go over just a few of these ladies, see why I didn't end up popping their balloons. Start over here. We can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. My name is Kayla. I'm 23. Hi. Um, I just popped it just 'cause I don't like your outfit. Sure. I like your face. I like your height. I like everything about you. Like if you have something different on, I would definitely like be like, pick me. So yeah. My next question for you is what, what kind of outfit would you expect me to like wear? What, what, what would you? Not a flannel 'cause it's hot as outside. And then definitely, definitely other than that, maybe if you would have just took, oh, anime, not that either. Pokemon, or deal breaker? No, I don't know. It's just childish, but if you would have probably took the flannel off, maybe, sure. It would have gave a little bit more, but you making me hot standing in front of me, so yeah. Sure. Sure. But that's it. No worries. And your name's Chandler? Yeah. It's so interesting. But yeah, that's it. No worries. Thank. I would, yeah, thank you. You're welcome. Now is Kayla someone that's your type? Yeah, actually, yeah. I like the braids. Um, very beautiful. Thank you. Yeah. Tattoos are cool. Thank you. She's definitely someone I would approach. Okay. Yeah. All right. Cool. Let's go over to another lady. We going just skip around if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. I'm Lex. I'm 23. And you're just not my type. No worries. Like your whole aesthetic is just not it. Doesn't fit me. Sure. No worries. Yeah, that's pretty much it. That's cool. Okay. All right. And now is Lex someone that you would approach? Yeah, no. She's beautiful. Yeah. Love the hairstyle. Love the dress. Tattoos are cool. Yeah, everything's cool. Yeah, she's cool. Yeah. Okay. Definitely. Thank you, Lex. And we did get one down here as well. Let's go over here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. Hi, uh, my name is J. I'm 22 years of age. Yeah. And um, I just popped because um, even though I I don't really know you, but um, based off of physical attraction, I'm not necessarily attracted totally, but that's really it. I respect, I love your freckles. I freckles. Yeah, you're really handsome. Thank you. I appreciate that. Thank you. Now is she also someone that you would approach? Oh, yeah, definitely. Eyes are beautiful. Hair is great. Dress is great. Yeah, she's super beautiful. Definitely. Thank you. Definitely. Let's go over here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. Um, I'm Jazz. I'm 26. Um, I popped really 'cause I feel like we would be more friends. Um, I'm a very like, not aggressive, but I'm a very dominant person, and I just can't see you being overly dominant over me, so I just feel like we'd be better as friends. Interesting. Interesting. Okay. So you feel that I would not be the dominant one? I just like passive. And I don't, not like there's nothing wrong with that. That's just, you know, I just feel, which is fine if you're passive, just not for me. Interesting. No worries. You're cool. Like nothing else. I totally understand. Thank you. Yeah, thank you. All right. And now is Jasmine someone that's your type? Yeah, she's beautiful. Love the braids. Love the outfit. Everything's cool. You know what I'm saying? Real stylish. She's cool. Yeah. Definitely. Definitely like the outfit. Okay. All right. Let's go on over here. Yes. We can have your name and age and while you ended up popping it. Briana. I'm 26. Yeah, no. My typical, my typical physical attraction is like a dark skin, so totally, you know, you pretty, you like bright. Yeah. Okay. You're not ugly though. Yeah. Now I've uh, I've I've kind of like seen this before, and I've just always wanted to ask, what, what is like your negative or what is your sort of like issue, not necessarily issue, but what is your like, I guess for a lack of better words, what is your beef, if you will, with lightskin individuals? Do you necessarily beef at all? Yeah, just I'm just more so attracted to dark skin. Like that's just, you know, chocolate. Ooh, you feel me? It makes you melt. Okay. So that's just it. Um, other than that, like you're not, you know, you're cute, yeah, but I just prefer just a little bit darker, dark skin. Okay. For sure. For sure. It compliments me, you know, compliments my skin tone. Okay. Yeah, yeah. I feel that. I feel that. Okay. I don't have a beef. I like that. I like that. Reasonable answer. Thank you. Thank you. Definitely. All right. And now is Briana someone that's your type? Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah. Beautiful. Love the earrings. Love the hair. Dress is awesome. Heels are great. Everything looks cool. Yeah, yeah. No, you're great. Okay. All right. We got two more ladies up here. Of course. Of course. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. My name is Jacqueline. I'm 25. Ja, hello. I ended up popping because I feel like we're not aesthetically compatible. Sure. Like I'm not really feeling your shirt or like the rips in your pants, but I think you are very handsome in the face. Now is it like a past experience you've had with guys that dress like me, or is it just like? Not really feeling the style. No, not a past experience. I'm just not feeling the style. Of course. Of course. I appreciate that. Thank you. Welcome. And now same thing. Is she someone that is, is she beautiful? Beautiful. Love the hair. Earrings look great. Dress is cool. You know what I'm saying? Accessorizing well. Heels look cool. Yeah, yeah. Everything's cool. Yeah, yeah. I like it. I like it. Thank you. You're welcome. Okay. At your name, age, and why you ended up popping. Hi, I'm Esther. I am 23. 23. Cool. I have some reasons for you. You ready for them? Okay. So I like that you find beauty in everyone. All the ladies here are gorgeous. I appreciate that, but I feel like you should know exactly what you want. Oh, I do. Trust me. Okay. All right. That's locked in. Trust me. I already know. 'Cause she did ask like a she type, and you kept saying yes and yes and yes. And there's nothing wrong with that. No, I love chocolate. You know what I'm saying? A bunch of beautiful Black women here, so take it back then. Okay. Trust me. Second reason, if I could just take the shoes, I'll take the shoes right, and then just strip all of that, keep the face. You're handsome. Wa. So you don't like the sneakers? No, I like the sneakers. This gone. Oh, okay. So the rest, outfit, the cloth, the outfit, which honestly, it's something that you can change. Yeah, I get that. Without a doubt as well. Yeah, but it's just like, you know, you kind of knew what we were going to look like. Okay. So this is my next question. This is my next question because I've seen a few of these videos, and a lot of women have like straight up flamed men off like wearing suits, off wearing like what they're comfortable with. So you tell me like, what, what do you want your man to like, how do you want your man to dress? How do you want your man to look? Would you dress like this on the first date with me? Yes. This is what I'm comfortable with. This is who I am. Hey, I love that. I respect that. It's just if like you, you dress like that on the first date, I would probably walk. So then my next question is, how do you want your man to dress on the first date? Bring back that dark-skinned man that his out do with the with the open. Yeah, yeah. My brother. Yeah, yeah. Your brother can learn a few things. Got it. For sure. But yeah, other than that, I mean, you're handsome. Your answers have been great. Your questions have been great. I like your face. Like I said, it's just the outfit. Besides that, maybe else copy. Got you. Thank you. Of course. Thank you. And now is she someone that is your type? Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah. I love beautiful Black women. You know what I mean? Dress is fantastic. Everything's on point. So I have no problem with it. So yeah, she's great. All right. Cool. Thank you. Cool. We did get one down here. Hello. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. Hi, I'm Karma. I'm 24. Um, actually, you are my type, and you're somebody I'll be interested in. Now when you said that you wear that for a first date, I'm not opposed, but I do feel like people should dress up for first dates, you know. Women, we got to do a little bit more. I feel like the man should be able to subside. Now for me, it is personally, like I had questions, but like I just felt like if I wasn't going to personally go on a date with you or match further, that's stuff that we can still talk about as friends, but it just wouldn't be somebody that I would look for as a partner with you right now. Sure. Sure. But otherwise, you're a great person. You seem cool. Seemed interesting. Got some cool stuff. Respect the answer. Ense I was well-spoken. Yeah, thank you. Thank you. Right. And I feel like I know the answer to, but is she your type? Man, chocolate. You already know. Yeah. Come on now. Like, come on now. Dress is cool. Like everything's good. Hair is on point. Yeah. I like the little like nose ring kind of thing. Yeah. It's different. Yeah. I like that you, yeah. No, I found him interesting. I probably just need to know you more, but otherwise, um, I just felt like I was going more off the outfit and off of just seeing myself with you, but yeah, you seem like a great person though. Totally. Totally cool. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. So we do have an unpopped balloon here. If we can have your name and age. Hi, my name is Mishna. I'm 23. Okay. And Mishna, why do you still have your balloon unpopped? Well, with all of my fellow colleagues, they had a lot of good points, but I feel like when it comes to your outfit, you could always change your clothes, and and I feel like when she was talking about anime, I'm a big anime nerd. Perfect. And she was saying, oh, anime is childish. I'm like, that's what I'm looking for. That's what I'm looking for, ma'am. Yes, ma'am. Yes. But I did, I just felt like you seem like a really cool individual. You seem really laid-back, and the way you were um, responding to the other ladies' answers, it wasn't defensive. It wasn't like, well, I know I'm good-looking, like, but you seem very nice. You seem very nice. Thank you. Thank you. And I'm looking for someone nice. Thank you. Thank you. Okay. So let me just, let's let's walk on up here. Come on up. Come on. Yeah, I'm with that. I'm with that. I'm with that. I'm with that. Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am. All right. Any final questions between either one of you before we move forward? What is your type for the entire? I just want, do you have a type, or is everyone your type? No, definitely not everyone. Um, you know, I grew up in a like predominantly like my my father and my mother, and they are both just Black, so just beautiful Black woman. You know what I mean? Like someone that just loves me for me, you know? Like I want to like keep the the bloodline just like good. You know what I mean? Like strong. Exactly. Like Black is Black. You know what I mean? And yeah, just as really as simple as that. Like I've just seen good, beautiful Black love, and that's what I want. It's just should beautiful Black love. You know what I mean? Where would you take someone on your like, not someone, you sorry, you're right. Sorry, you're right. I'm sorry. I apologize. Yeah. Where we going on our first date? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I'm like big on like I kind of like um, like for a first date, I'm really big on like the picnic kind of setup. I know it's a little hot for that, but we can do like an afternoon to the like to the sunset kind of like picnic date. You feel me? You know what I'm saying? With just like the the sandwiches, the the the grapes, the water, the the blanket. You feel me? Just enjoying the scenery, enjoying each other's company. Strawberry. You know what I'm saying? Like, you know what I'm saying? Soes like I'm just a lover boy at the end of the day, so definitely just looking for love. Take my balloon. You can have it. Thank you. Oh, okay. All right. All, let me let me ask my little final question. So is it a yes for you for him? It's a yes. I like him. Yes. And is it a yes for you for her? Definitely. We got a B. Okay. I'll take this mic and y'all can go on up. Oh, wait. It's all right. Let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello. Welcome in. I'll have you hold that. What's your name? My name is Chad. Chad. Yes. Okay. And how old are you? I'm 29. 29. All right. And what do you do? Um, I'm a restaurant manager, model, rapper, actor, you know, all that. And now what do you look for in a woman? Um, peace, um, integrity, respect. Know what I'm saying? Like a hustle. No, like I want to provide, but I want to be able to know you can provide for yourself, type thing. Okay. And now what are some of your deal breakers? Um, not too many, honestly. I mean, uh, I'll say one of my deal breakers is like somebody being close-minded, just not um, open to the possibilities of their mindset being not the end all be all. Okay. All right. Well, we did get a couple of popped balloons. Let's go on over to these ladies, see why they ended up popping. Start right over here. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon. My name is Jacqueline. I'm 25. I ended up popping because you said you want like a hustler for a woman, and yeah, I'm not into that. Are, are you not a hustler? Like, do you not make your own money? Do you not? I make money, but I'm not like a hustler. I feel like hustler is like, I do this, I do that, I do this, I do that, and like all over the place, and I'm kind of like, I have a straight path to my career. Um, I don't necessarily think of a hustler as like all over the place like you said. I think of a hustler as like just having um, some type of straight path or or goal that they're going to and, you know, being relentless at it, you know, and um, um, just being able to make their own money, not depend on anybody. Independence. Aw, but thank you. Appreciate it. Of course. For sure. All right. And now is she someone that is your type? Um, yeah, she's gorgeous. Um, you know, I like your dress. You know what I'm saying? Like, you know, definitely, you know, popping your big one. For sure. For sure. Okay. Let's go over to our next lady. All right. If we could have your name and age and why you ended up popping. Hi, I'm Lex, and I'm 23, and I have a couple different things. First of all, um, you have your glasses on, and this is supposed to be a dating show, and I feel like out of respect for us women, you should have your glasses off. I respect that. Um, second thing, uh, you said something about uh, woman in peace, like your woman being your peace. You should be able to find your own peace, and the woman should be able to add to it, not her actually being your peace. I didn't necessarily say like the woman was my peace. I'm saying I I look for peace in a woman. So so when I'm looking at you, I don't want conflict. I don't want problems. Um, I want like something that, somebody that's um, looking to provide a solution, you feel I'm saying to whatever peace we have, so whether it's whatever. And then as far as my glasses, they like sentimental. Um, I don't mind taking them off, like, you know, yeah, you know, if if you just want to ask, but they're sentimental. Um, my dad got a piece of metal stuck in his eye. He always wore sunglasses and everything, so I just always wanted to be like my dad, so just came as myself. That's all. I appreciate you. Okay. Yep. And now is she someone that's your type? Would you approach her if you saw her out? Um, she she's

Definitely gorgeous, um, you know, for sure. But I probably know. Wouldn't she seems like, you know, more of like a friend, um, you know, somebody that'll probably be like a cool person to hang around. You feel what I'm saying?

I agree. Cool, thank you. And then we got one more down here. We can have your name and age and why you ended up popping.

Hi, my name is Darra. I'm 22 years of age. Um, nice meeting you as well. Um, I ended up popping just for a presentation. You came in here and you had sunglasses on. I feel like lacks proper etiquette as a man, so just really that, um, you seem like a really amazing person though.

I appreciate you. Thank you, thank you. I appreciate it. Yeah, no problem. And now she, someone that is your type? Um, yeah, yeah. You know, like I said, she's gorgeous. She seems like a real down-to-earth person, um, you know, like me personally, I'm more of like a personality type thing, so like, you know, I I would always get to know a person before like, you know, anything.

So sure. Definitely sure. Okay. All right, so we do still have one, two, three, four, five balloons left unpopped. I'm going to go ahead and have you pop two of the ladies' balloons based off of just what you're seeing so far. I know everyone says, "Oh my God, that's so hard." I know. I I don't blame you, but let me go ahead and hand you on a PCK. Okay? And then go ahead and pop those two, and then I'll follow right after you and see why we ended up popping.

Okay, okay. Let me see. Let me see. Let me say, okay, so I'm going to go ahead pop, go, join. Okay? And one more. Um, I think I'mma pop, join, go. Okay. I'll come over there. We'll start here. All right. If we can have your name and age.

Hi, I'm Karma. I'm 24. Okay. And Karma, why'd you have your balloon unpopped?

Love you. You're a great person. I know you're sweet and he's really considerate. So those are my reasons.

Yeah. Okay, definitely. Um, the the reason I pop Mone, um, it's because like we was talking before. Yeah, and we just kind of like L touch. You feel what I'm saying? So I, you know, it was just like one of those things where it's like, you know, if if it's not in in the plans, it's not in the plans type thing.

So absolutely. We still cool friends? Yeah, we still cool. Okay, that's cool. All right, thank you. We had one more over here. Your name and age?

Briana, 26. And Brianna, why did you leave your balloon unpopped?

He ain't bad looking, you know. He he chocolate. So I appreciate you. That's what I like.

Thank you, thank you, thank you. Why'd you end up popping her balloon? Um, honestly, um, I end up popping her balloon like for absolutely like no reason. She was she cool. Um, it was just literally like picking like, you know, two people that you know that just wasn't the fit. Um, I I don't know you. I haven't met you or anything like that, so I can't really say anything about you, but you're beautiful and I'm pretty sure you'll be great for somebody, so you know that's amazing.

Okay, thank you. Appreciate it. All right, so we do still have three ladies left. I'm going to go ahead and have you ask these ladies a question to kind of help you narrow it down, see more your match. Okay? Um, so it's a two-part question. Um, do you guys have kids, and how do you feel about men with kids? Okay. Let's start here with your name and age and then the answer to this question.

Hi, I'm Esther. I'm 23. That's I have no kids. No kids. How do I feel about a man with kids? How many do you have? Uh, two. Same woman? Yes, ma'am. How old are they? Uh, my son is nine and and my daughter be six on the ninth. Okay, so how how you feel about me and with kids? Just I have entertained a guy with two kids. I have so that's like your limit. Can I ask him a question? Go ahead. Do you smoke? Do I smoke? Yeah, yeah. I smoke. Yeah. That's cool. I'm sorry. It's cool. All right. Cool. Thank you. No problem. Let's go to our two ladies here. All right. Your name and age and do you have kids and how do you feel about me with kids?

I'm Kayla. I'm 23. Um, I don't have kids and a man with kids. I mean, I'm trying to be more open about it cuz there's no more single men out here without kids. No more like I'm I'm just giving up at this point. And but um, two [Music] 29. Yeah, that's cool. That's cool. Yeah. Oh yeah, I'm I mean, it's I don't know. I feel like you should have just married her because you have to. I don't marry people for no reason. So if it ain't right, it ain't right. I guess I don't know what to say, but yeah. Know. Let's go on over here. Your name and age and do you have kids and how do you feel about men with kids?

I'm Jasmine. I'm 26. I have no kids. Um, men with kids, I think it just depends like if you're a good dad. I mean, I can't really say nothing as long as there's no drama. Yeah, I think it was cool. I respect that. I respect that. And the communication has to be open, like you feel me? But I respect that. Got it. Okay. Now do you have any questions for him?

Um, what do you look for in a woman? Um, oh, you already asked that. No, yeah, you already asked that. Hold on. I smoke a little bit, so um, what are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your free time?

Um, honestly, um, I just like to work on how to better myself as a man. How do you better yourself as a man?

Um, just working on like my craft, so not working for anybody, um, making sure I have some type of way to provide for my family, um, working on my mental, making sure like I'm sound, I'm poised. How do you work on your mental?

Um, just talking to people, um, meditating, um, no, I mean, it sounds crazy, but talking to myself. Self-evaluation. Self-evaluation. You feel what I'm saying? I I look in the mirror and be like, hey, like, so you're honest with yourself before you could talk to anybody else. That's how I feel. Um, no, I don't have no questions.

Okay, cool. All right. Let me bring her on up here. Come on up. Come on up. All right. I know you say you have no more questions. Any final questions from you?

Um, no, I ain't got no more questions. I'm good. Okay. All right. Well, then, is it going to be a yes for you for him?

Yeah. Okay. And is it a yes for you for her? We got a match. I'm just kidding. She been waiting to pop her balloon. She like, I'm pop it. Y'all need to go off. Let me take this mic. Let's give it up for them. Y'all okay. Let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello. Welcome. I'll have you hold this. All right. If we can have your name.

Uh, my name is Aaron. Aaron. How old are you? I'm 29. 9. Okay. And what do you do? U I'm a licensed plumber. Okay. Very cool. And now what do you look for in a woman?

Um, I look like I look for a woman that's not promiscuous and um, has a career going for herself. Okay. Yes, ma'am. And now what are some of your deal breakers?

Uh, deal breaker being promiscuous, non-cleanly, um, don't have a career, nothing really going for yourself. Okay. All right. So we did get a balloon. Let's go ahead and go on over there. See what's going on. Yes. All right. If we can have your name and age and why you popped your balloon.

Hi, my name is Karma. I'm 24. Okay. Oh, sorry. I'm supposed to say the popping the balloon popper. Got you. Um, for me, it just did not work. I didn't feel like I had chemistry. I wasn't fully attracted to you, and I feel like that counts if we were going to be going through a dating show, you know.

Yes. The feeling is definitely mutual. So uh, that's okay. Thank you. You did me a favor, you know. Absolutely. I'm glad you have a great day. Thank you, Queen. You too. Okay. Well, let's go ahead. All right. We got to pop over here. If we can have your name in age and why you ended up popping your balloon.

Hi, my name is Sarah. I'm 22. Okay. And why did we end up popping our balloon? Um, the comment you made uh didn't really I like a more humble person that's the one that responds so defensive is yeah, that's really it. I didn't really necessarily like how you f hey, I could just all I can do is be honest. Yeah, be honest be to to find a match that wasn't matching. That's all. Queen. 100% understand. Sure. And now is um she someone that's your type? Um, she all right, you know, you're not really my type. I don't mean to be disrespectful. No disrespect, but if I seen you in public, I wouldn't reach out to.

Totally fine. Yes, ma'am. Thank you. All right. And we did get a pop balloon over here. Your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon.

I'm Lex, and I'm 23, and I pop my balloon because I feel like you could be a tad bit disrespectful, like how you like I don't know, arrogant a little bit. Yes. Yeah. Just that. Well, voice in my opinion is not arrogant, you know. She asked me if she would be a good fit for me if I like what I see, you know, uh, it's contrary to the truth, so that's all I can do is just state what I see. I don't that's not a good look for me. That's all. Queen. But uh, thank you. You did me in favor as well. Yeah. Also, um, what I have to say is it's not what you say, this is what I mean by what I said. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. You could have rephrased a lot of the things that you have been saying to me as well as the other girls differently, but that's all I have to say. But one thing about me is I'm not going to change who I am of to fit somebody else's liking, you know. I'm just going to tell it how it is. If you're not it, that's not it, you know. The one that is it, I'm going to let it be known. Okay. You know for surely. Yes. Respectful. Okay. All right. Your name and age and why you ended up hopping your balloon.

Briana, 26. My eyes are are up here, baby. Are you looking at the texto? No, I I'm I'm looking at the hair on your arms. You know, women I deal with, they don't have hair on their arms too much. Hey, I'm just being honest, que much, you know. I I don't like that. That's all I was looking at. You trying to say if I'm looking at particular body parts. Looking at my eyes. I looking at the anyway. She asked me the question. Um, yeah, I'm in Hills, and you ain't tall enough. Okay. Don't do too much though. Well, you're not qualified, baby, so that's all good. Let's move on. Let's move on. Okay. So we do still have three unpopped, but she looking like you going to pop. Okay. Okay. All right. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping.

My name is Jacine. I'm 25. I popped because I have hair on my [Laughter] arms. Hey, just cuz you got hair on your arms, that's okay though, Queen. You look phenomenal though. Thank you. You know, she ain't fit to my liking. She ain't even fit to Hey, excuse me, Queen. I'm I'm talking to this woman right here. Oh, well, I could look anyway. I could look anyway. I could look any way I want to. Okay. But yeah, can y'all give her her balloon back though? She don't want it. Yeah. Do you want your balloon back, Queen? We're not talking to you, sweetheart. You already been I already let you know I'm not interested. You got more hair on your arms and me, baby. But uh, anyways. Okay. So he's saying get your balloon back, but how you feeling him?

Um, I'm not going to give my balloon back. Okay. All right. No problem. So we do still have uh two balloons. Yes. Do we still have two balloons? No. Okay. Let's go over here. I saw you has that's what I had to ask. So if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping.

My name is Kayla. I'm 23. Um, originally I was not going to pop my balloon cuz I know a lot of them popped it because he was being I guess arrogant, but to me I like my man that's not going to sit in every girl's face and you know, complimenting them, you know. So I didn't find that offensive to me, but when they start that what was going on, I'm very like I'm I don't want to say I'm argumentative, but I don't want my man to argue back with me because then I feel like it's going to always be a problem. That was the only reason why I popped my balloon because I was just like, dang. Um, but then with me, you kind of got a little bit catty with me. You a little sassy, just a little bit. And since you want to come at everybody over here, I'm going to get at you too. You kind of look like a ninja turtle. You're not that cute. You you need to relax. Uh, you stocking as hell, and I was trying to be respectful, but like you was you was really coming out like I didn't I didn't like it. I'm from the south, and I can handle like a lot of criticism and stuff like that, but the way you was coming, you just ain't like you got it all like that, and I guarantee you probably got a roommate at home and it's just not giving anymore.

Well, let me say this, Queen. I'm a licensed plumber. I real estate. I live downtown. I live downtown. I stay by myself, Queen, you know. And you're not even qualified to be even dealing with not qualifi you definitely not. You know, if anything, it was one of these two. I wasn't even looking your way. You that's fine. That that is totally fine. But one thing about me, I could pull 100,000 on the bank. Can you do the same? Yeah, you can't do that. You can't do that though, baby. Yeah, in a real way, you can't do that though, Queen. All right. If we can have your name and age.

Hi, I'm Esther. I'm 23. Okay. And Esther, uh, you still have your balloon unpopped. Why? So are you done? Oh yeah, I'm done with the rest of that, you know. Okay. Now we can talk, right? In a real way. Okay. What do you look for? I look for What are you looking for? A a woman like I said that's not going to be promiscuous, a woman that's is going to be consistent, a woman that has a career and things going for herself cuz I have the same thing going for myself. Okay. You know, as well. I don't need a woman to uh give me her money um or anything. I'm just looking for devotion and some loyalty. That's all. And some honesty. Do you believe in God? Oh, certainly. Yes, ma'am. I'm a God-fearing man. I practice monotheism. You know, I won't tell you what I identify is religion-wise, but we can get to that at a later date and time, you know, if you choose to uh leave here with me. Okay. Do you know the Bible says that love is kind? Yes, certainly. Are you here for love or are you here to just insult? I'm trying to create a family, you know. That's what I aspired to do. Okay. Yes, ma'am. All right. You're good. Sure. We're good. Oh, okay. All right. Any questions for her? No, not at all. Oh, do you have any kids? No, I don't. Do you want kids? I do. You going to give me some? Huh? How old are you? I'm 29. How old are you? 23. Okay. Is that okay? Yeah, that's perfectly fine. You know, we might as well get up out of here right now. All right. Well, let me's step on over here. Let's step on step that way real quick for me. Step that way. Okay. All right. So seems like there's a little Vibe here. So is it gonna be a yes for you for him? God says saved Souls, so yeah. Oh, and is it a yes for you for her? It's going to be a hell yes for me. Okay. We got a match. All right. Let me take this mic and y'all can go on off. Okay. All right. Everyone, thank you for tuning in on this episode of Pop the Balloon or F Love. If you are in the US and you'd like to be featured in any of our upcoming videos, the email address will be in the description box below. And make sure you like, comment, and subscribe, and we will see you all next time. [Music]