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I just went on a date with a man and then this other girl walks into the bar and he leaves. I go to the bathroom. I come back. He goes, "Yeah, I'm going to go." We walk outside. The bartender, who I'm very good friends with because my best friend works at this bar, is like, "Yeah." He just left. I cannot do it. I can't date men anymore.
>> You had to rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10. What would you give yourself?
>> 10 of course. I'm myself.
>> 10.
>> Yes.
>> What?
>> I don't think he's coming back.
>> She really ordered the whole menu.
>> I had to. I needed like a little bit of everything.
>> Women don't fall in love with you. They fall in love with the dream of marriage and what you can provide. Women marry a lifestyle, not the man.
>> One time a guy looked me directly in the eyes and said, "I could never date you." I didn't ask, nor was it the least bit relevant. I've thought about him every day since.
>> Rejected.
>> Took her out to eat, bought you a pack, now you want a car,
>> bro. Literally, you haven't done nothing for me in eight like like how many years?
>> $500. What you talking about? I just gave you $500 for your birthday.
>> in 25 years of living. Thanks.
>> 25 years of living. You're my dad. The least you could have done is give $500 in a car after 25 years.
>> What?
>> I'm not I ain't got enough, bro. You keep talking about I only had one drink, bro.
>> I'm not doing this. Yes, you.
>> I don't care about no Mother's Day. None of that. That's what you want to do. It's not my idea. I'm paying for everything.
>> What you going to do if I walk out?
>> What you going to do if you walk out?
>> I don't got no money. I only got $20, bro. Don't touch me. I only got $20.
>> Get your purse so we can go.
>> So we can go for it. Don't got nothing to do with I'm leaving my money, bro. I paid for a drink. That's it. That's all. Why did you invite all these people?
>> Why did you invite all these people out?
>> Put this on me. I ain't got this.
>> I like nice guys.
>> What about your exes? Were they?
>> No, they're both nice.
>> So, why'd you break up with them?
>> Congratulations. You played yourself.
>> That's a good question.
>> How did you know I broke up with them?
>> Because I know.
>> Well, am I going to die alone? No. Okay. Am I going to get married? Am I going to go on a date next week? Close. Am I going to go on a date in a year? Am I really going to die alone? Oh my god, no.
>> Why don't guys approach girls anymore? Because all men because every day we wake up and we are constantly reminded that we are the we are the perpetrators. We are the bad guys.
>> We're tired of your bad attitudes. We're tired of your entitled attitudes.
>> The biggest misconception men have about women. You think we don't want to be approached.
>> Do you like it when guys approach you on the street?
>> No.
>> No. No.
>> Why not?
>> Um, usually I get a little scared.
>> Yeah. I feel like it's usually like with bad intentions. Yeah.
>> I'm like on my own vibe. Like I'm like I don't want anyone messing with it.
>> And even if you were to come up and talk to me after that, like I would be really rude, but then once you leave, get so excited. But that's just my way of like interacting.
>> What?
>> And this guy comes up to me and he goes, "Hey, I have a question. You seem like like the perfect person to ask." And I was like, "Okay,
>> why do men think they have the right to just come up and talk to you? How many girls want the cat call to come back where guys just hit on you outside somewhere like in the grocery store? But for some reason, human beings stopped. And I'll tell you right now, the feminine women really love the cat call.
>> I'm scared. No, you definitely should not be. Stop. Stop it. Stop it. Okay, enough. You stupid pieces of.
>> It's the lowest amount of money a guy should spend on a wedding ring for you.
>> Oh, it should be like for sure 30 40k.
>> Yeah,
>> we have standards here.
>> Yeah, that's the standard. Would you be Would you have been a little upset if it was 10K?
>> Yeah, probably.
>> Man, this was such a great outing. I was a little leer about meeting up with you, but thank you for coming out for brunch. This was a great situation.
>> This was fine.
>> How we doing? Are we all ready for the check?
>> Yeah. Yeah, absolutely.
>> Are we together or separate?
>> It's going to be separate.
>> Got them. We got them.
>> Yeah. Separate.
>> Separate.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I thought when we talked that you had the understanding of know what we was doing. We was just coming out to meet and you know
>> you didn't give me no heads up about that though. Like
>> I mean I thought that you I mean I don't know what made you think I was supposed to be paying.
>> You asked me to come and meet you for brunch today.
>> But it was the first meet and greet. So why would you think that I'm automatically paying just because I asked you to meet you.
>> You've got to be joking.
>> I initially didn't even want to come here. You suggested.
>> I think.
>> you have a boyfriend.
>> I do. Yes. Do you think it's possible to have guy friends when you're in a relationship?
>> I think it's possible. Yes.
>> STOP THE CAP.
>> Do you make guys that you think are boyfriend material wait for sex?
>> Um, honestly, yes, but not because I don't think that they're good enough. It's because I want to show them that I'm serious about them. If I'm not serious about you, then like I might just like you whenever. But like if I'm really serious about you, I'm going to wait.
>> What was the craziest thing you did this year?
>> Craziest thing I've did this year.
>> Oh, the nastiest.
>> I think the nastiest thing I did this year is my chef at my restaurant.
>> She belongs to the street.
>> He has a wife and three kids.
>> Hey, will you go out with me? You're really cute. Yeah.
>> he has a boyfriend.
>> No, I don't have a boyfriend. And yes, I will.
>> All right.
>> Are you kidding me?
>> Pull over here. Pull over on this side.
>> Okay.
>> Okay. Thanks. Bye.
>> In China, if a woman is over 30 years old and she is not married, she will be called, which means leftover woman. Men don't want to marry anymore because the risk outweighs the benefits. There's a risk that comes with marriage that essentially only benefits a woman. A man marries you and can only hope that one day you don't wake up and say, "I feel like I don't love you anymore and I want to leave and you can't do anything about it." According to ASA, 70 to 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Among college educated women, it jumps to 90%. You know what's crazy? I mean, a lot of us women don't have anything a man actually wants that we can bring to the table.
>> Excuse me. What Uber is this?
>> This Uber is for the dumb that keep going back to that one X that up every time.
>> Oh, that's me.
>> All these women that act like it's so cool to be a. Everybody just wants to be a now.
>> Yeah, it's very popular.
>> It was like pushed on us. See, this is the conversation that I've been having with my.
>> Don't blame other people for you being a. Yeah, nobody pushed you any woman into being a.
>> There's this whole like narrative with guys where it's just like y'all just are out here doing whatever and then we got all these rappers rapping about it.
>> True.
>> Now we got the girl rappers talking about we don't need and we're all singing it. True.
>> So now our brain thinks that this is what's going on.
>> Tell me guys if the girl in the middle is supposed to be at this game. Do you think that women tend to lust after bad boys but want to settle down with nice guys?
>> Oh, we sure do. I love a bad boy.
>> What's attractive about a bad boy?
>> They just have that quality that just is so attractive. You know.
>> how do bad boys treat women?
>> Horrible.
>> So then what? Why would you want to be with a bad boy when they treat you badly?
>> Cuz they do other things that the good ones don't.
>> Like what?
>> I don't want to go there.
>> We know.
>> We know.
>> How is it sexism when we have no barriers today? So we can we can pick who we want to have barriers.
>> Women doesn't don't have barriers.
>> Women. Yeah. What's stopping you? You can do whatever you want.
>> Uh I can or you can.
>> What's stopping you?
>> Got you.
>> What are you guys going to do when you party?
>> Have fun. Use men for shots.
>> You Hold on. Hold on. She said she's going to use men for shots.
>> That was I said no. No, no. I'm not saying right now. I'm saying during Hakaco summer you use MEN FOR SHOTS.
>> DO NOT BUY THESE GIRLS DRINKS. DO NOT BUY ANY girls drinks. These city girl has to stop. Do not fall for this.
>> BUT WHAT IS CITY BOY BUT menlain men are the ones who are giving in.
>> I know. THEY'RE LOSERS. THESE GUYS ARE LOSERS.
>> CAN YOU EXPLAIN WHAT CITY BOY IS?
>> THESE GUYS ARE LOSERS WHO ARE BUYING YOU DRINKS.
>> EXPLAIN WHAT CITY is. They're attracted to us and they're giving us drinks.
>> Okay, so what are they getting from it?
>> NOTHING.
>> NOTHING. YOU just said it. They're getting nothing.
Alexa, remind me that I don't need a man and men are useless. When should I remind you? Every damn day.
>> How it works is it is boundaries. My girl understands that she could she can go hang out with guys. There's a boundary though. She wants to go hang out with guy friends. The relationship's over immediately. That's all it is. Boundary.
>> Yes, it is. That is a boundary. If you if you cross this line, it Yes, that is a boundary. If she wants to go to the club, that is a boundary. You want to go to the club.
>> That's the boundary he set.
>> Yes, that is a boundary. If you cross this boundary, the relationship is over. That's all it is. Honey, you're broke.
>> You don't buy a house when you're broke.
>> You are broke and in debt. You make $35,000 a year and have a three-year-old. You're 24 years old. You don't go buy a house right now. This house will be a curse to you.
>> I had a man say to me once that the reason that he likes dating younger women is because they're not so angry. Literally was like, "I like younger women because they're still so sweet." Nobody likes an angry woman, right? It's okay to be a little angry, though.
>> If you could say something to your ex right now, what would it be?
>> Um,
>> I hope you're good. He was like, he was amazing, actually. He was an amazing guy.
>> He was amazing.
>> Yeah.
>> Then why you lost feelings? I'm a man.
>> He just He just wasn't it for me. But he's a really good guy. Amazing guy.
>> What can men do to avoid situation like that? They're amazing guy. They do everything right.
>> Nothing you can do. Like it's just like your feelings. Like there's absolutely nothing.
>> Yo, KILL ME WITH THIS.
>> He can treat you like a queen and be the best guy ever. But like you just I don't know.
>> You can't do nothing.
>> Nothing. Yeah.
>> You think you're cute. Can I get you a number?
>> No.
>> I have a boyfriend.
>> I actually asked her but.
>> rejected. Have you ever tried?
>> Oh my god, that's so wild. I say that. Okay.
>> It's the wildest.
>> Have you ever tried it?
>> Oh, I can't be answering these questions on camera. Yes, you can.
>> No, I can't.
>> Why not?
>> Okay. Yes, I have.
>> And do you like it?
>> Yes.
>> Really?
>> Yes.
>> Was that so hot?
>> When was the last time you got it?
>> Um, like maybe a year ago.
>> What? You've been long overdue?
>> Yes. Overdue.
>> Oh, she's trying to live this things. You see in Atlanta, bro. OH MY GOD. I WENT TO COLLEGE, I WAS LIKE, I NEED TO go balls to the walls and all these men. But, um, you know, it did get a little messy cuz guys would get mad at me being like, why did you hook up with my friends? And I was like, well, you didn't respond and your friend was here. Um, but I was like, kind of toxic when I was.
>> toxic or boring relationship.
>> Toxic.
>> Toxic. Oh, toxic. Definitely.
>> It just makes it more fun. Just makes it more fun.
>> It's more fun.
That's enough internet for me today.
>> Would it be my preference if a girl just didn't even have social media problems?
>> This is giving red flags. I'm not going to lie.
>> Here's the interesting thing is that men are not allowed to have preferences, standards, and boundaries. Nobody bats an eye when a woman says, "I want XY Z in a partner." But the moment a guy says, "Here are my boundaries, preferences, and standards." Oh, misogyny. Red flag. D this, that. And the fact of the matter is, women are more picky than men are. Women have far more standards for men than do men have standards for women. But if a guy says, "I want XY Z, insecure, misogyny, blah blah blah," it's always going to be met with some sort of shaming language. But go ahead.
>> There were men that I literally knew I had no future with this person. They were placeholders and I would tell them anything. Yes, placeholders. And I would tell them anything to like reel them in, to get them to think that I like them or care for them more than I actually did because it was like a ego boost to have a guy feeding for you.
>> How much do you guys make on?
>> Um, it really fluctuates. Sometimes it depends on how much you actually promote yourself. So it can for me it goes between like probably 6 and 15k a month.
>> Between all of us, we make anywhere from about like 15 to 110k a month. I make a roughly 10 to 15,000. I make 80K a month.
>> Wow.
>> Come on now, dog.
>> Come here. Hey, what would y'all rate these models right here? She a seven.
>> Oh, man.
>> I like a seven.
>> Yeah, if you got bigger giving you like a 10. I ain't going to lie to you.
>> Rejected.
>> Hey, it was nice to meet you, bro. You too, bro.
>> I'm watching all this red pill. You hear these statistics, right? Gay marriage, two men getting married, divorce rate 26%. Male female marriage 50%. Lesbian woman towoman marriage divorce rate 76%.
>> Wow. Well, that's what it is, man. You get two crazies together.
>> That's some weird m I mean, what do you think? Like, if you looked at the math, do you think women are the problem? I mean, I don't know.
>> Are they?
>> Is that what you're trying to say?
>> You know, I'm non-traditional, so I don't feel like I have to cook for you. For what? Cook for your damn self. You got feet, right?
>> So, you don't feel like you.
>> And you know, my mom can't stand when I used to date. Mom can't stand when I didn't fix his plate. He got legs and feet. Get your ass up and fix your own plate. It's so bad. But I don't care. You know, I'm just You know, I'm so non traditional though.
>> Yeah. I just I'm just a very nerd person.
>> It's too It's too traditional for me.
>> If I'm cooking, I will make your plate. Like you don't got to get up and go make your plate. You got hands, right?
>> He got feet, right? So get fix.
>> and that's understandable. Completely understandable.
>> Get up and fix your own plate. Like what?
>> I hate being ugly. I hate it so much.
>> Oh my god. It's like It's like being I don't know. It's like being smelly or something. People treat you weirdly and you just don't know why until one day someone tells you you smell or you're ugly. And then it all comes together. You're like, "Oh, you're right. I am ugly. Oh, how could I have missed this?"
>> This summer I was hooking up with like four people a day, a couple times a week, and they were all like different people. The problem with winter is that I can't do that as much. I'm trying to focus on school, and hooking up with people takes a lot of time. But I definitely miss it.
>> She belongs to the streets.
Protect feminism or low gas prices?
>> Um, I guess low gas prices because ever since the feminist movement, it's been a lot harder for me to find a guy to pay my bills. And all of a sudden, I have to work and I have to do all these things and I honestly don't want to work. I would rather stay in the kitchen. Mind you, I need some cooking classes, but I think I could take a couple cooking classes and make somebody really happy.
>> What's your biggest regret?
>> My biggest regret? everything before this day.
>> What you mean before this day? What you got going on?
>> My life has been so downhill.
>> This though, you definitely had a one night stand before, right?
>> Twice.
>> Okay. Twice. So, why are you making this guy pay full price and weight when those other guys didn't have to?
>> Um,
>> Does body count matter?
>> No, I guess not. So, what do you consider high?
>> Over 10.
>> Okay.
>> I'm not. So, I'm.
>> You're not You're not You're under 10.
>> No.
>> Oh, you're over 10.
>> No.
>> No.
>> So, your body count's non-existent.
>> Yes.
>> She belongs to the streets.
>> What's your best pickup line?
>> Hi, my name is Da. Smile. That's my pickup line. I don't really need to do too much.
>> really.
>> Um,
>> yeah. No.
>> Such a woman. We're going to put that to the test today, though.
>> All right. Bet.
>> Here. Take the mic.
>> Hi.
>> Yo.
>> So, let's say you're moving me, right? How would you move me?
>> Huh?
>> How would you move to me?
>> I wouldn't.
>> You wouldn't. You I'm not attractive to you.
>> Am I not attractive to you?
>> No.
>> Wait. Wait. Sorry. That's rude. Sorry.
>> Rejected.
>> Are you single?
>> No.
>> Is that your girlfriend right there?
>> Yeah. Uh, you can you can go. You can go.
>> Would you stop with the guy? Break my balls. J, I'm starting to eat.
>> You don't want anything? Then get the hell out of here. Go in the car.
>> Girls that have lots of sexual partners before 21 are like 14 times more likely to get divorced because they just don't know how to be sexually exclusive. They they don't they're not trained for it. They don't know how to be nonpromiscuous.
>> I saw this on Hinge. What percentage of men do you think have yachts?
>> Oh, like I don't know. LIKE,
>> Y'ALL KILLING ME WITH THIS?
>> YEAH, pretty low. Maybe 9%.
>> 9% of men have yachts.
>> You think 9% of men have yachts?
>> Is that you expect me to pay every time we go out to eat?
>> I mean,
>> yeah.
>> Okay. So, I expect you to cook whenever I want you to cook. Damn.
>> Good job, my brother. We rocking with you.
>> Like, so that's too much. So it's it's not too much when it benefits you,
>> right?
>> Um I just I just use my other hand. So.
>> Hey yo, WHAT THE
>> WHAT is the thing you've ever done?
>> Um had had sex with my boyfriend's best friend.
>> So you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, now my ex. But yeah.
>> did he find out?
>> No.
>> So, I realized some of the mistakes that I made in my early 20s. So, I had met a few good guys that actually wanted to date me. And I was like, no. Like, he's corny. Like, no. He ain't got no swag. He ain't got that ump that I'm looking for. Like, nah, not my type. Sorry. No, thank you. Not interested. So, I went after what I thought was my type. You know, the guy with a little edge, you know, bad boy. Got a little side to him. You know, tattoos and all of that good stuff. The interesting, mysterious guy. And I told y'all a lot about my toxic relationship. And man, after I went and took my ass over to where I thought the grass was greener on the other side, only thing that was on that side was trauma, mental abuse, and boy did I get dragged through the mud.
>> What's your body count?
>> Uh, probably like 56.
>> Really?
>> Yeah.
>> Damn, girl.
>> Is that bad?
>> I mean, do you think it's bad?
>> I've heard divorce.
That's enough internet for me today.
>> It's a hot girl summer. My boyfriend just broke. We just broke up like 3 weeks ago.
>> So, you've been running up the scoreboard.
>> Hell yeah.
>> How many points have you added to the scoreboard?
>> Too many. There's no limits to it, bro.
>> I can help you out with that.
>> Okay, bet. You want my number?
>> Yeah.
>> I'll give you my number.
>> Come on, man. That's too easy.
>> Why do you think men should pay for the first date?
>> Because that's their job.
>> If that's their job, then what's your job?
>> To get free food.
>> I take birth control for him so he can hit it raw. You can't even invite me to the bar.
>> Damn.
>> How many guys though? How many are we talking?
>> in general? Oh, at uh it was like five. Is that a gang bang?
>> Yeah.
>> Five is a gang.
>> I enjoy I would say I enjoyed it fully.
>> Of course you enjoyed it. Three.
>> Come on, man. Stay in your daughter's life, bro. This is This ain't it, bro. This ain't never going to be it.
Some things that girls say to reject guys.
>> Yeah, for sure. We should hang out later.
>> Oh, yeah. We should do that another time. That'd be so much fun.
>> This would be better off as friends.
>> Oh, that's the best one.
>> Feminism is a scam. A few years ago, I was an angry, blue-haired feminist. I once believed that male privilege was real and that I was a victim of the wage gap. Now that I understand the true motives of feminism, I know that this could not be further from the truth and that modern-day feminism is a war on true masculinity. Feminists are convincing women that hookup culture, using hormonal birth control, and not shaving is liberation. That toxic masculinity is prevalent and the patriarchy must be dismantled.
>> What's the craziest thing you did for money?
>> Trying to think uh I guess like six girls in a row for like a hundred bucks.
What have you learned from your marriage and your previous relationship that you think you like have have looked out for?
>> I don't really like alpha males. So, the men that are like full of testosterone and many men and etc, etc. I don't like them. They're very aggressive. And.
>> were you do you think you were into that when you were younger?
>> Oh, 100%. Yeah. I thought it was so hot and now like I see them just like you, bro.
Being a single mom is literally the hardest ever. Like you cannot do anything.
>> Guy gives you an engagement ring and he calls off the engagement, should you give the ring back?
>> No. Hell no. It's my ring.
>> Okay. So why is it if a man withdraws consent to an engagement, he loses the ring?
>> I mean, I don't think women are objects like rings are.
>> I would say he loses a ring, but you lost the value of that woman.
>> Okay. If marriage is supposed to be an equal partnership, why does a woman get an expensive engagement ring but a man doesn't?
Break me on a scale 1 to 10.
>> Oh my god. Okay. Honestly,
>> honestly,
>> I'd hang out with you right now and I'm a lesbian. He will. I would actually Yeah. Yeah.
>> And No, that was it. I'm just saying I would make out with him right now. Yeah.
>> Oh. Oh, okay.
>> Oh, I thought it was going to happen.
>> Oh, did you?
>> THIS GUY STINKS.
>> I MEAN, YEAH.
>> That's why I TOOK THE MIC. OH, DAMN. I DIDN'T I didn't.
>> They didn't get the kill.
>> They did.
>> Rejected.
>> The food was good.
>> Yeah, it's real good.
>> You got a whole lot.
>> I just got French toast, crepes, pancakes, and he can double pancakes, eggs, sausage. It's not that much.
>> Well, here goes your meal. I told him to split it because I really only got an orange juice.
>> You mean my bill? Your bill? I'm not paying them.
>> What you mean?
>> You asked me on a date.
>> I know. I asked you on a date. But like, look at everything that you paid for. Like,
>> you ordered all this stuff.
>> We're on a first date. I mean, I didn't think you wasn't going to pay for your own food.
>> Why would I pay for my own meal? You actually That's dumb.
>> Yeah, we're on a date, but I don't really know you like this. So, why won't you just get to know me? Yeah, that's fine. But look at everything you ordered and all I got is an orange juice. Like at least pay,
>> right? So pay for your own food.
>> But you ask me on a date.
>> That's true. But I still want you to pay for your own food. You can't pay for your own food.
>> I'm not paying. It's not that I can't pay. I'm not paying though because you said you were taking me on a date. So you're supposed to.
>> We're on a date, but that doesn't mean I have to pay you pay for your food.
>> Why? I don't even eat this much. Like look at this. Look at this.
>> Just pay for your own food.
>> No,
>> but I took you out on a date. Maybe. Okay, you get this one and I get the next one.
>> There is no next one. I'm done after this.
>> Oh, well.
>> You really need to pay for your food, man. If that's the case, I'm not paying for it either.
>> I'm not paying for it.
>> You need to pay for.