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Mission to Millions 2025 - Phase 2 Session 1

Melanie Ann Layer1:16:33

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Preparing for takeoff in 3, 2, 1.

Your mission. Everything you thought it could be. Despite the obvious. Beyond no limit, because you were born for this. And visionaries journey. Once upon a time, there was you.

Hello, gorgeous people of Mission to Millions. So, before we get started today, I would love to know who did not participate live in part one. Who is here and you're fresh for part two? You actually were not there for part one. I'm just curious. Okay, this isn't exciting. Freshest daisies. Wonderful.

Now, there are going to be some fun draws during this phase. So, I sent an email earlier this morning that really explained how to do it. There's a new post on Facebook. There's a new post on Instagram. If you share those and basically are like, "I'm in this master class," you're going to be entered in a draw, and tomorrow we're going to be drawing someone for $2,222 in Alpha B. So, that'll be fun if you just get in the vibes and share and have a good time with it.

Now, this, let's bring the energy. If you were in phase one of Mission to Millions and you are so ready for phase two of Mission to Millions. Yes. Yes. Let's go. I feel the energy. I love it.

So, I decided to make this master class a little different than usual. And the reason that I decided to do it this way is because I got some very interesting insight. This year, I was told some things that made me really realize some things. So, a lot of people have reached out during 2025 to say, "When I first met you, I didn't get it all. It felt like I had to listen and listen, and the more I listened, the more I got it. But at first, I didn't get it." And I realized that if I do a master class and you only get a few days to get to know me, if that's my only shot, I don't really get to compound the effect. So, you don't really get to experience the whole thing. And so, oh, well, thank you so much. Um, you don't get to experience the whole thing. And so, what I want is to try to compound our relationship and your understanding.

Oh, Alpha Fem, I just realized I have a wonky candle and there is a very high chance that that gnome is about to set on fire. So, could we get Effortless Alpha up here and fix that? Fix this situation 'cause we've got some wonkiness. Thank you so much. Almost set the whole place on fire just for fun. Thank you. Say mom, and if you're in the mood to be a barista, I would be very happy about that. Barista. Yeah. Okay. So, um, what everyone say hi, by the way. Kevin. Hello. Okay. So, I love the realism. This is life.

Okay. So the goal for me here in this master class is to really compound the understanding of the teachings, to bridge the screen, for it to feel less and less like this is not a real person, and to have it be like you're in my living room with me. You're like, "Melanie, your candle's about to go on fire." Oh, yes, sir. Thank you. You know, like, just the naturalness of the whole thing because although I have just absolutely loved the experience in my career of being able to like make this matter more than ever before, and I've loved that I've been able to do, you know, the beautiful animations, and I love that I'm able to like have a style now, and I can, you know, jazz everything up, and I can have good cameras, and I can do all these things. If that gets in the way of the realness of my heart, then we're actually going backwards. So, it's finding a way to like make it as high-tech and well-done as possible without it somehow making it feel not real because then we lose the magic.

So, what we're doing now in this phase of the master class is we're going even deeper into the into the vibe, into the energy, into the realness of the whole situation. So phase one, which was exactly one month ago now, was a lot about belonging, belonging to your mission, belonging to people. The difference between standing out, fitting in, belonging, like what are those energetics? Deciding, are you leading your mission? Cleaning up some of the energetics about money, like people get to receive money if they're going to have a mission. Like people are paid, missions are funded. If you have a mission, it's so much easier to receive and to unlock money because you know that every dollar that's coming in is for me, for you, for us. We started talking about money energetics, and we opened to quantum prosperity or, um, not quantum prosperity, but House of Prosperity. So, we've had an entire journey. Some of us have had an entire journey. Uh, our final call is today that we've had from the last one to now. So, for some of us, we've been like super close this whole month. For some of us, we're just reconnecting. So, wherever we're at, I'm just excited that you're here.

I decided to do this one in my cozies and I decided to do it outside of the the cocoon, like do it really in my living room with my tree in the back and just be like, really cool and just in the, just the normaly of life because it's the weekend, and normally I don't work on the weekends, but I really felt like the only way I could do this is to do it. And I felt extremely clear for some reason that it was supposed to be on the 13th. So, 13th of November, 13th of December, 13th of January, that's when the start. So, I had no questions about that. It had to be. But I'm like, this is the part, the fun thing is I get to do these. I get to do these whenever, whichever day. I get to serve my clients on the days that work for me, for you, for us. And I also get to do them in my cozies, and I get to do them in my living room, and I get to do them on a Saturday, as long as I'm sharing my Saturday and not giving it away, right? So, it's like perfect for what I want to talk to you about today.

As a matter of fact, as a refresher now, if you have not watched the full thing of the first Mission to Millions, I highly recommend it because it's a really, really powerful context for this one. And there's three live sessions, plus we crashed the internet. I got booted off Facebook. I came in like a, like a wrecking ball on the Alpha M team's account. There's live streams of me being like, "We will not be taken down." Um, there's all kinds of amazing things happened. And then there's also a shop with me that's no longer really relevant, but the beginning of the shop with me where I talk about the Godzone loop is an absolute must-watch. Definitely recommend.

Now, we start with phase two. And so, to give you a refresher, one of the most important things, the most important things is that we are here in this moment as a part of something that has existed long before we were there and will continue to exist long after we are here. So, this world has existed for a very long time, and it will continue to exist for a very long time. Thank you, Mr. Barista, Kevin. Oh, that's quite lovely. We even got latte art this morning. I'm very blessed. Okay. Kevin learned how to do latte art so he could make me fancy lattes. This is the kind of man this person is.

So, we have been here for a long time, but as humans, and there's still a long ways to go. We are not going to, as one single person, come onto this planet and single-handedly just change the world. That's not going to, that's not the way it is. When we have a feeling like, "I'm here to change the world," what we really often feel is that I'm a part of a collective of people that all have the same intuition, and if we find each other and we work together, we're probably going to create a massive dent. But it's not going to be one, one person that just comes in and goes, "You know what, people? I got it. I'm the one that changes everything because I'm special and I stand out." But it is, however, a collective of people who actually wake up and say, "I'm the one. I'm the one that plays this part. I'm the, I'm the one that has to activate in order to be a part of this mission. I'm the only one that can be me in this lifetime. I'm, I'm the one."

And so, why this is so easy to get caught up in is that we get all kinds of different information throughout our lifetime. We get information like, "You got to be humble. You're not special. You are just one of everyone. Don't try to be, don't try to stand out." Then we get other information that's like, "You're not like us. You're different. So you don't get to fit in." Then we get other information like, "Why do you need to be special in order to belong? Why can't you just be with us?" Then you have other information that's like, "In order to belong, you have to stand out." And then you have information that's like, "In order to belong, you need to fit in." And then other people say, "You know, we're not born to fit in. You're born to stand out." And then the whole thing just kind of feels like, what are we here to do? What, what is it really?

And so, I have contemplated this immensely, and what I've realized is that we all belong. We all belong to the planet. There will be moments where we find groups where we totally fit in, and there will be moments where we stand out of the group. When we stand out to people we feel we don't belong to, that's a really awful experience. When we stand out to people we feel we belong to, it's the best feeling in the whole world. It means that we're special in that moment. When we fit in, like we blend in, when we dream to be important and special, we don't like it. But when there's a bunch of people that we think are extraordinary and we somehow feel like we fit in there, it's amazing.

So, the fact is, there is no just universal truth of what it should be and how we should be and whether or not we should fit in or stand out. What it's really about is how we feel with the people that we're with. What it's really about is belonging to yourself, belonging to this world, and being with people who also know they belong. Because the hardest thing is to be surrounded by people who don't feel that they belong, and you also don't feel you belong. That's the hardest thing. That's the hardest part. Or people who all know they belong and you don't. That's also tough.

So, one of the perfect examples I have for this that I think is actually magnificent is this Christmas tree behind us. So, this Christmas tree, Kevin and I bought a few years ago, and it was my favorite one in the shop. I loved the color. It looked so natural. And I usually get real Christmas trees, or because we're always traveling, it was like, "Oh, one of our gnomes just fell." Um, because we, we travel a lot, you know, the tree is going to die. So, it's better to have not the real tree. And so, we bought this tree. It was magnificent. And last year, we started having some snafoos with the tree. So, we plugged it in last year, and it was like, half the lights don't light. And Kevin, bless his heart, tried to twist every light and figure out which one was off. Couldn't figure it out. We ended up finding a gadget, a little clicker, and behold, the Christmas tree worked. Now, this year, with the clicker, even with the clicker, Christmas tree does not work at all. And what we find out is that there is a light that is entirely burned, that has actually fried one, like one of the entire lines of of lights in the tree. So, we're going to have to buy new lights.

But why this matters is this. One light on a tree that decides not to belong screws up an entire line of lights. And one entire light, one entire line of lights that decides that they don't matter because the one light decided not to light, makes the whole tree look weird and makes Kevin and I very frustrated for an entire night. All it takes is one freaking light bulb to decide, "Nope, I do not belong here. I don't matter." And the whole thing's kaput.

Now, when you change the light bulb and it finally works, that light bulb does not stand out anymore. It is not shinier than the rest of the light bulbs. You could not tell which one it was. It doesn't suddenly shine brighter than the than the rest. And the whole tree definitely does not constantly high-five that light like, "Thank God you're on. What would we have done without you?" Everything is just restored. Suddenly, that light belongs, and the tree works.

This is the thing that's difficult with humanity. We want that when we come on the tree sings for us. That we forevermore are the brightest light on the tree. And that we know from the bottom of our soul that without us, the tree is dead. And we are the one that is holding the tree alive. And everyone should be grateful for us, and everyone should love us. And if they forget what the reason is for the tree being whole, then they should look at us as we are the shiniest light on the tree. That's not what happens. The minute the light is fixed, all the lights are the same. You couldn't even tell which one was out.

So, if the trees on the lights were humans, it would probably have a light that's going, "Well, what's the point? I was actually getting more attention when I was out. They were spending more time with me when I was broken. Maybe I should just break again." We do that when we forget that we are a part of an entire collective, and that the goal is not that we are the one shiniest light on the tree. The goal is that if any single one of us decides not to belong, we'll fry a strand, we'll sabotage the entire tree. But we're not special because we are the one, as in the one most important light bulb. We are special because we are the one, as in the one that if we decide not to shine, the whole tree stops working properly. But we're all that. It's a collective pressure we hold. It takes all of us to belong as a light on the strand, on the tree, shining the way we're supposed to for the tree to work. There is not one person that is more important than the other people, but all it takes is one to not belong, and the whole tree sabotages.

This is the thing with a collective mission, and this is why I say things like, "We want to, we want to stand shoulder to shoulder, equal power, but different." Every single one of those light bulbs is different. It's a different light bulb, but it's equally important. One stops working, the whole strand stops working.

So, the way we're going in this direction today is so important with what we talked about last month because last month we talked about belonging in a concept that was like, we don't need to stand out when we belong. Most people think they need to stand out because they're afraid of belonging. So, they think they need to stand out to be important, to be shiny. When in fact, when you belong to something, it's so much easier and it's so much more real. And then when amazing things happen in your life, you get to stand out to who you belong to, which is a really fun feeling.

But the energetics of this piece now is, "I am the one." And the energetics of this get really messed up when you don't fundamentally understand the first part because there is a difference between "I am the one" against what exists, apart from what exists, in spite of what exists. "I am the one that's better than everybody else." "I am the one, I'm the one that should be chosen." "I'm the one that's the best." "I'm the one that's the greatest." This is what happens when I don't feel like I belong. But when I know that I'm a part of something, I am the one that is a part of this, and I am going to figure out what I bring as my part because I belong. Not to belong, but because I belong.

So, when you think about it, so anyone here who doesn't have kids, you can plug into what the people with kids are going to say because I think this is the best example, the cleanest example I can possibly give you. Okay? So, for those of you in this group that have kids, I'm going to ask you if you have multiple kids, we're going to go with those of you that have multiple kids. Those of you that have multiple children, your oldest is the one that is responsible, funny, the leader, is the your oldest one, the bossy one, the responsible one, the most confident, the feistiest one, the leader, the rulebreaker, the most dramatic one, the wise one, the responsible mother, the present one. So, look at this. It's so easy. The carrying one. The eldest one is the fire. The most motherly, like, my biggest teacher is the most intense. Okay. Now, tell me this one. Your youngest one. What's your youngest one? The funniest one. The baby. The rebel. The boss baby. Chill. Alive. Feisty. Sensitive. Funny. Sweet. The boss. Nuts. Free-spirited. A rebel, sweet, adventurous, sweet, kind, the Johnny Knoxville one, the troublemaker, the determined one, the fearless one, the spoiled one, the creative one, the trailblazer one, the carefree one.

So, what I love about this is you're starting to see this is not a question of like, "I love my first more than I love my second," but I can very clearly tell you they are the one who dot dot dot. And why this is so important is because when you bring yourself to your family dynamic, it's easy to compare to your siblings, which one you are. So, you will not describe yourself the same way as your parents will fundamentally describe you in their heart. When you, when I looked at my siblings, I thought my sister was the beautiful one, my brother was the intelligent one, and I was the responsible one. That's like, if I were to really say the truth of what I, I used to think when we were little. When we grew up, I, I saw my sister as the cool one. I saw my brother as the successful one. And I saw myself as the mess-up. So, something happened when I started having difficulties, like when I was doing well and I was the big sister, I could take responsibility because I felt like I was doing that job well. But as soon as I felt like I was not doing that job well, I lost my, this is my thing, and I just took on another thing. It was not a very good thing.

Now, because we're not just who we are in the moment, which is what we really worked on with the people who did House of Prosperity with me, because I was teaching this insane concept that I really got this year called temporal coherence, which is just, I think I could probably win a Nobel Prize for. Don't mind me tooting my own horn as I drink my latte. I am the one. So, the idea here is that I'm not just who I am on my worst day, and I'm not just who I am on my best day. I'm a collection of all kinds of things I felt I am throughout my life. And sometimes, if I was really proud of something, I was in a certain version, and that goes, "I'm going to be, I'm going to say something really self-deprecating about what I'm not anymore." And if I'm something now that I used to not be, I'll be very proud in comparison. And I'll be, I'll be actually very happy about something I am now that I didn't used to be. So, we even contrast with our own identities. But you could say, like, "I was the success, so I'm the successful one," and then something difficult happens in your life, and you're like, "Now I'm the mess-up." And if you had never been the successful one, you may have never felt like the mess-up. It's just so weird how that happens.

But I would have said my brother is the funny one, which would make me not funny, instead of, "We're all funny, but my brother is the funny one." "We're all beautiful, but my sister is the beautiful one." "We're all responsible, but I'm the responsible one." I, it's like I take that on as my leading trait. Can you see how maybe in your life, when you've decided someone was the blank one, it was like, if they had it, it meant you didn't. Like, that was their thing, so it couldn't be your thing. Instead of, "It's all our thing, but they're the catalyst for that."

So, I think this is a really important thing what I'm going to talk to you about here, and it actually very much connects to Human Design. Now, for those of you who don't know Human Design, you can look it up when we're done, and it doesn't actually matter. You could, you'll get the point either way. And those of you who know Human Design, I think this is going to take your love of it to another level.

So, what I loved about Human Design when I first found it is it felt like a very amazing way to differentiate people without disempowering them. There weren't like better than others identities. They were, it was like how the world completes itself. And what I love the most about it is that part of the teachings, which made them so spectacular to me, is that the idea with Human Design is that as you spend time with people that have different parts than you, it's like we fill in the blanks for each other. So, for example, if I am a Manifesting Generator in Human Design, I have all these incredible ideas, and I've got a lot of energy, and I'm constantly creating. And you are a Manifestor, and you are informing, and you have this beautiful energy of peace, and I've got this energy of satisfaction. When we spend time together, I feel more peaceful when I'm with you, and you feel more satisfied when I'm with you. You get more energy from my sacral defined, and I get more peace from you. You inform me, and I respond to what you inform me about, and I can create even more because of what you've just told me. There's this feeling of like, we amplify each other when we're at our best.

But it would be so easy to say, "Oh, well, the Projectors are the successful ones," 'cause there's, there's, there's Reflectors, Manifestors, Projectors, Generators, and Manifesting Generators. There's five, five types. It would be so easy to say, "Oh, well, Manifesting Generators and Generators are the satisfied types, and the Projectors are the successful ones, and the Manifestors have peace, and the Reflectors are just, you know, surprised. That's it." People would say, "Well, I don't want to be that. I want to be that. I don't want to be satisfied. I want to be successful." But it's not that they're successful. It's that they're the catalyst for success. It's not that I am just the satisfied one, is I'm the catalyst for satisfaction. So, when I hang out with Projectors, I become more successful. And when Projectors hang out with me, they become more satisfied.

There is something so magical about being the catalyst for something. So, when you think about your funniest child, what they really are in your family is the catalyst for humor. It's not that your other kids aren't funny. It's that this one constantly makes everyone laugh as a part of their identity. They're the catalyst for humor in your family. Now, if someone else is the catalyst for cuddles and love, like the sweet one, the one that just wants to cuddle and say, "I love you guys, and this is such a special night." They're a catalyst for the love and the cuddles and the sweetness. You don't need two catalysts for humor. There's not, it's not necessary, but they're both funny. And when the one that's a catalyst for humor brings humor to the house, the sweet one laughs. And when the sweet one brings the brings sweetness to the house, the funny one feels more sweet. But it's not that they're not sweet until the sweet one comes in. It's just that the sweet one's the catalyst for that character trait.

So, ideally, for a family that works the best, you would have people who are happy to be the one who dot dot dot, the one who's a catalyst for the sweetness, the one who's a catalyst for the the humor, the one that's a catalyst for peace, the one that's the catalyst for getting stuff done, the bossy one. It's not that they're just bossy. It's that they're the catalyst for things getting done in your house. When they're there, we're all okay. Okay, okay, we're doing it. We're doing it. We get it. But the, the fact is, they're not always leading. Sometimes the funny one is leading 'cause we're like, "We're not in the mood to be bossed today. We want to laugh." So, we're going with the catalyst of laughter. Other days, it's like, "We're not in the mood to to joke around. We're in the mood to really be together and and love each other and care about each other." And so, each person leads on a different day.

But because we're not necessarily understanding this as people, and we're not born into the world understanding our gifts and our differences, and the fact that we, we're catalysts for incredible things for one another, on the day where our leadership is not chosen, we, we have the feeling of not belonging. Like, "The thing I wanted to bring, the thing I wanted to lead, the thing I wanted to be the catalyst for, just got denied." And so, I think my role is wrong. I think, you know what? I, I should be funny because isn't it funny that people prefer the funny thing to the bossy thing? So, maybe I shouldn't be bossy. Maybe I should be funny. Maybe there's something wrong with me. But the fact is, without your edge, your family isn't complete. And you're not just bossy. You are the catalyst for that edge energy. Without it in your family, your family is incomplete. It's why you were sent there because that's your unique edge.

Now, it doesn't mean that you can't develop other things. It doesn't mean that you can't develop a sense of humor and a sweetness about you. But there is such a difference between developing it because you think you're not good enough and you're rivaling the one who's funny, versus being so grateful that you have a one who's funny in your family because they're the catalyst for you as well. They're not there to make your gift pale in comparison. They're a catalyst for that gift. So, if you love it, you get to say, "I love that you're so funny." You get to say, "I'm going to let myself laugh. I'm going to let myself love what you're doing. I'm going to let myself be led by you. I'm not gonna work. I'm not going to try so hard to be led in my, to lead in my bossiness because the truth is, I'd love to be a little more light-hearted, and so I'm going to let you lead a little bit. I'm going to, I'm going to laugh with you. I'm going to appreciate your gift."

But that's not what we do. We say, "Well, okay then. I guess if being funny is what we need to do, I want to be funny, and I want to be funnier than you." And this is where the rivalry begins. "You're not even funny." "That's not funny." Or say something, a different kind of humor, a dark humor, a humor that's maybe deprecating. "Oh, you think that's funny? How about this? You think this is funny?" And all of a sudden, you start getting arguments because it's, or you think you're so beautiful. "Well, let me sabotage this that's yours that makes you so pretty." Because if being beautiful in this family is what matters, then I'm going to prioritize that. And, you know, I'm going to maybe not be very nice to you for a season. And I'm going to say, "Well, I want to be the beautiful one."

So, the idea is that we want to learn as a collective, as a world, to value what we love and to lean into it, and to say, "I love that you're a catalyst for this. I love that when you're in the room, everything's more beautiful, and I want to learn more about that. I admire you for that. I love that about you. I want to receive that from you. I want to see that. I want to watch you do it. I want to marvel in the beauty of you that is," instead of, "I don't know how you do that, but I need to do that. And I need to do it better because I want to be the one that does this because clearly this is what everyone prefers." This is what creates separation on the planet. But furthermore, it's what makes us completely misunderstand what it actually means to say, "I'm the one." It's not just, "I'm the one that's funny." It's, "I'm the catalyst for humor." So, being funny doesn't make you the catalyst for humor. And being the catalyst for sweetness doesn't stop you from being funny. But there are things that you're effortlessly in the God zone with, and they are so valuable, and they will be valuable at different levels later on in your life because now the wild thing is, like, my sister is still the cool one. She's still the beautiful one, but she's also the artistic one and the creator one and all these things. And my brother is still the successful one and the smart one and the organized one and the intelligent one. And I am still the responsible one, but I'm also successful. And I've learned a lot from my brother over the last few years, not being so worried that his understanding of certain things makes him better than me. And I have been able to understand fashion and beauty so much more, receiving from my sister than thinking, "Well, she's the one that has that role in our family." The more I've worked with my sister in close proximity, the more I've actually become very close with her, the more beauty I've become, but not in, not against her, because of her. And because of me being so responsible in my family, my brother has taken on bigger roles in his life and in his family, and so has my sister. And so, what we've actually done these last few years as we've really bonded is we've become more of who one another is. My brother was the funny one. I never thought I was funny because I thought it was one or the other that was funny. Then I realized he's the catalyst for humor. But I am funny too, just not as much and all the time. But I'll somehow say it's a funny thing, and it just lands and it works. And I wouldn't have even let myself try that 15 years ago because I'm just not funny. That would have been, that was the story of my life. I'm not funny. I'm not beautiful. I'm not successful. I'm not smart. Because I see what smart looks like, and I see what beautiful looks like, and I see what funny looks like as the catalyst. And I know that I don't do that. And if I try to do that, if I'm trying, because being funny is just being funny, but trying to be the catalyst for humor is trying to make everybody laugh. You either are the catalyst or you're not. And so, when I let go of that, and I just saw like, the beauty I see in you, the beauty I see in you is your humor, the beauty I see in you is your art, the beauty I see in you is this. And like, you inspire me to be more of that. The rivalry gets put down, and all of a sudden, you want a bigger family because you get to have pillars that hold as a catalyst for dot dot dot. And it's not that you don't sometimes have multiple. You could, I could say like, "I'm the catalyst for responsibility and appreciation and gratitude in my family." Like, I come in, and there's a feeling of like, "Oh my gosh. Wow. Wow. The wow feeling, the wow feeling, and the responsible feeling." And my brother is like, organizing and nailing it and doing it right and funny. And my sister is just so cool and the life of the party and makes sure that we have the best time. And she's also just so beautiful, and she brings beauty to everything. The way she does everything is just beautiful. And so, when we come in as a collective, we've got all these traits that compound.

And sometimes people have traits that are dualistic. Like my brother's humor sometimes was at my expense, so I didn't like that trait. But my, my responsibility was somehow making him need to step up, and he didn't like that trait. And my sister's cool energy sometimes triggered past wounds of not belonging for me, and I didn't always like that trait. So, it's being able to look at not just the beauty, but the shadow that comes with all of our our magic. You have a trait that is both pleasurable when people are in the God zone with it, and triggering when people are not. And sometimes you look at your trait and you think, "Gosh, I love this trait. This is so good." And other times you say, "Gosh, I wish I wasn't this way because they don't like it." But it's not quite black and white the way we think. It's not, it's not as simple as I just want to be the good part of this because how do you just be the good part of responsible? And unfortunately, there's many different ways to be funny, and they don't always make everyone feel good, but they are funny to someone always.

So, what started happening in my life is I started looking at people and falling in love with their traits that made me notice and realize what's possible for me, not who I should be. But just like, the more I spend time with you, the more I access this in me. If I love it in you, if I reject it in you, I reject it in me. If I love it in you, I find it in me. And so, I've started building the most incredible life with the most beautiful people. I can tell you that my big dreams in comparison to Kevin's simple joy could have very easily been that I feel guilty in my life, and he thinks that I'm annoying and superficial. And when we first met, those of you who don't know the story of Kevin and I, we first met in a very different time in our lives. At this point, I was maybe, I want to say 32, and I was, no, 22, not 32. I was 22, and I was holding a lot of pressure for my family. I was helping my parents. It was very difficult, and I was very stressed, and I did not know how to hold pressure, and I was very, very driven to help, but in a stressed kind of way. I didn't know how to hold pressure. And Kevin was the boss of the company I was working for. So, I constantly had demands, but my demands were to try to help, but all under stress. So, all my grandness and my big vision was stressful to Kevin. And he just lived such a simple life that to see a 22-year-old with that much stressful drive drove him up the wall. He thought I was so annoying. It was like, "Kid, what do you need this money for?" He was 33, and I was 22. And I'm operating under stress and pressure and stress and stress, and I don't know how to hold it. And he's the boss, and I'm pushing, pushing, pushing. And he, he would ignore my phone calls and roll his eyes every time he saw my name. And I saw him like, "Not everyone is just going to be content with little Kevin." We were so different.

But what changed things was when I lost everything. Actually, I realized I was happy with so much less. The way I went into building was with pressure, not stress. And if you haven't heard the live stream I did, it's pinned to the top of my personal page on Facebook. Watch this live stream. It's a master class within itself. The difference between stress and pressure, it will change things in your life permanently.

And so, when I started understanding in my body, slowly but surely, that there was a difference between needing everything and feeling like you could have all the things if you just built them, I started to see the beauty and the simplicity of Kevin. What an incredible moment to just sit there and not need to say anything or do anything or perform at all. Like, it's all enough. It's all enough. That gave me so much simplicity in my soul, spending time with someone who was just, "It's enough." And for him, watching me be a dreamer, but without the stress and the pressure, he got to see a beautiful vision of like, "Wow, what an incredible thing to dream on that frequency." It didn't make him feel like, "Oh my gosh, I need to dream as well." And it didn't make me feel like, "Oh my gosh, I'm superficial. I need to chill." It was like the simple moments and the dreaming moments. And we both calibrated to each other's pure frequencies. And I think we both became better people for that.

And so, there's, there's people in, in the world on the internet that trigger you a little bit. They either trigger you or they inspire you, either because their trait is something that you have inside that you haven't let yourself uncover. And it feels like until this conversation, them having that trait as a leading trait and you having a different leading trait means that yours is not good enough, and you should have that one. Instead of seeing like, "Perfect, I don't need to have that one. They do. I can now develop this skill of mine while continuing to be this catalyst for whoever is going to have the beauty of experiencing this."

So, if you could like tap into one of your traits that you know is one of your traits, a catalyst trait that you have shadow and light about. Meaning, on good days, it has saved you. It saved your family. It saved your clients. Say it's been the thing. And on days where people don't like it, they've called you things about that trait that you're like, "Like, you're funny, and people think you're hilarious, and you're lighthearted, and you're the life of the party." And other people say, "You're mean. You're in charge. You're, you're a leader. You're, you're a boss." But then on the bad days, you're bossy, and people say that you're, you're difficult, or you're bossy, or whatever it is. You have this, you're a catalyst for trust or belief or faith. And people say you changed the way they see things, and you give them hope, and because of you, they see the most beautiful thing. And then other people say that you sell dreams, you sell pipe dreams, you live in La La Land and don't take things seriously, and all these things. It could be joy. You know, you're happy, and you bring a bright light everywhere you go, and people say, "You're so beautiful. You, you're so positive." And then in other situations, maybe your kids say, you know, "Not everything is happy. You can't just, just be happy. You can't just be positive all the time. It doesn't work that way. Like, I'm experiencing something difficult, and I feel like you're just trying to bypass all my sadness because you can just be happy. Well, not everyone's as happy as you. You know, you, you don't understand me."

For some of you, it could be, you know, you see beauty in things. You constantly create the most beautiful things. And people love it. They love seeing what you make and what you build. Do you inspire them? But then also people say that you're superficial, or you fear you're superficial, or people say, "Well, not everyone has the time that you have to do this or to do that." And there's a shadow of it. So, if you start contemplating like, there are things that you have that are part of you that are really wonderful, and then there are things, those same things in different contexts, that people don't like. And it's like, "Well, maybe I don't want this to be my gift." And we imagine that other people have got it better, but the thing is, everything's got a flip side. Everything.

So, why this is important is because "I am the one" is, I am the one that has natural traits of the one, things that you've had since you were a little kid. And in groups like this, a lot of us have very similar ones because we're drawn to each other. So, it's normal. And we also have experiences of that that feel different. So, it makes us different at the same time. But what are some of the traits that your parents may have given you or said about you when you were a little kid that they knew? "Ever since you were a little kid, you were..." I'll tell you one of mine is, "Ever since I was a little kid, I was fancy." Ever since I was a little kid, I, I wanted, if I ever had any money whatsoever, my grandmother would take me to the church bazaar, and I would buy all the old crystal glasses, and I would have all these crystal glasses and want to set the table with them every night, even when we were having chicken nuggets. Like, I, I was always fancy. I had it in me. I was bougie from the get-go. Like, there's, child, you know, tiny videos of me being this little kid being like, "Mom, I want pearls." She's like, "You want pearls?" And I'm like, "Yes, big pearls, white pearls, round pearls." Five years old. I want pearls. You know, I've always been that. I've always been bossy. I'm the oldest of three kids. I took that role on like it was my full-time job. I was bossy. Later on, it became responsible, but from the little kid, like I was bossy. Okay, don't do that. Mom and dad said, "No, you're not supposed to do that. You can't do that." Very bossy from, from the get-go. A storyteller. My mom always tells the story of when we visited my grandmother in England, and I was about 2 years old. My grandmother got, invited us over to England, and she took me to see Cinderella at the pantomime. And I came back from that show as a 2-year-old and just reenacted the entire Cinderella thing to everyone and explained the whole show. And it was like, you always had the the ability to capture with what was passionate for you. Even when you were a little kid, you did that.

So, there's things that you've had ever since you were a little kid. You were an old soul. You were bossy. For some of you, it's things like you were highly emotional. You were highly emotional. You were, it was, you had a very difficult time with fairness. Things needed to be fair. It made it difficult for you if things weren't fair. Maybe you had a lot of the arts in you already. Very dramatic. It was all about the drama. Maybe you were bossy. Maybe you were fashionable. Maybe you were. There's things that like, when you think about a little kid having these things, you don't contemplate that later in life, those traits might actually be extremely valuable. A highly emotional adult is a person who can take things to heart so deeply, and it matters. But if they're not trained properly, they're, they're volatile. So, if you tell an emotional child that they're too emotional their whole life, and you never help them become what they're supposed to be with that emotion, they think they're wrong their whole life instead of knowing, "You're the one that brings the emotion to the party." This is also a really cool thing to think about if you have children, however old they are, and to start thinking about things a little differently.

But whatever it is that you have as traits, whether you wish you had other ones or not, they're not fixed in a way where they're the only ones you'll ever have. They're just the ones that you are a catalyst for. Your emotional self helps other people be emotional. My speaker self helps other people speak. My bossy self makes people move. Now, later on, those traits are actually really.

good for the world. If I'm not ashamed of them, if I don't think I should have have different ones, but there's some that I didn't have that I thought I was lacking because I didn't realize that the person that has them effortlessly is simply the catalyst for them. So if you can kind of like think about that for a moment.

A person who has a trait effortlessly becomes a catalyst for them. What in your life can you be just so effortlessly without having to work hard at this whatsoever? If you were just being yourself entirely and someone could shadow you while you were this way that they would get the purest channel of it. What are some of those traits? Like I have a lot of willpower. If you hung out with me on a daily basis, you would get more done in your life than you've probably ever gotten done before. I am a communicator. If you communicate with me, you'll find the words to say what you want to say. Look at all these beautiful things. Efficiency, empathy, precision, calm, peace, strategy, courage, innovation, creativity, connection, faith, boldness, love, innocence, leader. You know these, they're coming out of you like this.

And so the question a lot of times is like, how do I make a business out of that? But what we talked about in mission to millions is not everything is a business. Sometimes you you have a business and then your innate traits amplify that business. Like you take Steve Jobs and you take Steve Jobs is bossy. Steve Jobs is a visionary. Steve Jobs is an artist. He creates a technology company. But because he's bossy, he's a visionary and he's an artist. We now have the Apple iPhone. You know, it's like those are the traits that when you put them on top of the business, it created it as what it is.

But there are also income generating gifts in this world, which we talked about in mission to millions phase one. And income generating gifts are that you don't use your gift to create a business. Your gift is the business. So, it's basically like I can walk with you for an hour a week for you to access more peace. You'll spend time with me for 1 hour a week and I'll help you access more courage. We'll talk 1 hour a week and I'll help you gain clarity on all the things that matter to you. I'll walk with you for one hour a week and I'll help you find innovation on the thing that you're stuck with. because we wonder how do I make a business out of that we get stuck the thing is you don't need to make a business out of that that is that is the business a person speaking with you for 1 hour a week and working on accountability and I feel like we discount in life how simple just the transmission of a pure gift can be people who have a gift of being funny and have a gift of being a speaker sell out stadiums as comedians. People who have the gift of drama and the gift [clears throat] of speaking and the gift of beauty become Hollywood stars because it's an income generating gift.

Now, the thing that's difficult is that there are things on this planet, it seems, everyone wants. And there are things on this planet that feel harder to sell. But that doesn't mean that not everything is equally important. Equal power, but different. So when someone is gifted at strategizing and they're really good at strategizing, the people who understand the power of strategy and that know that that is a gift that they're lacking that hire the person that's a strategist have a lot of fun and the strategist has a lot of fun. However, strategists get a lot of headaches because they also get a bunch of people who don't understand anything about anything and think strategy is the only thing they need to work on. They give all the stress to the strategist and say, "You should create a strategy for me." The strategy does their best work and then the person can't hold anything else. Thinks the strategy could have saved everything and they're dissatisfied. and strategists are having a really stressful time right now with the wrong clients buying their packages and feeling like. You're not supposed to use me instead of you. I'm supposed to be as well as you.

So, everybody wants it, but not everybody gets it. That's a problem in of its own. Then there's the people who are like, I help you access peace in your life. Well, less people want that, but those who do come and find it and are incredible. So the people who sell, I'll help you find peace, have a much more peaceful life. Maybe they have less people queuing up, but the queue is moving at a peaceful pace and the people who buy it understand the value. And so there's always a flip side. There's always a duality. You're always having to understand why everybody wants it. And so what people do is, "Oh, I should be a strategist." But are you? No. Well, this is going to suck. Why would you do that? Because everyone wants to be a strat. Everybody wants a strategist. No. Everyone that understands the importance of strategy because all the other gifts are covered are amplified by another person's genius in strategy. And strategists serve people who understand all of that beautifully. Everybody else gives strategy strategists their stress so they don't have to feel pressure. Worst job ever if you're attracting people like that.

Oh, I have so many of my clients that are genius strategies genius strategists and have it completely eradicated in any of their language whatsoever that they are strategists just so that people don't hire them for that. They keep it as a secret bonus in their back pocket. Like once you enter my world for all the right reasons, I will show you how incredible I am at strategy, but I will not tell you I have that or else I'm going to attract a mob of the wrong people who expect me to hold the the stress of their entire existence on my shoulders. So the fact with alpha fem is like I don't talk about strategy because I believe that strategy in my in my experience strategy should should be a very personalized thing if it's going to be in the god zone. It's not something that you're like oh that worked for Harry so let me try it. It's something that's like based on everything I am everything I know everything I want everything I desire. people I serve, this is a really great idea. So, I help people have their best ideas and ultimately what a strategy is is a proven idea. So, instead of selling strategies, which is what Harry did that worked, I help I I listen to you and your life and what you're doing and I find the best ideas for you that are fresh and brand new and then we test them. I don't know why, Harry. My brain is a machine. It comes up with a random things. I have a random, this is one of my gifts. I have a random idea generator in my brain. Sometimes it brings genius and other things, sometimes it channels Harry. It just kind of depends. Just kind of depends. So when we think about it, I rather have an idea than a strategy because I'd like to test the idea and if it's good, then I know, oh, I could possibly do that again if it's in the right energy later on instead of this worked for this person, so I should try it. Which just feels it is I tell tell Kevin I want a coffee and I receive the whole coffee pot. abundance.

So if you think about if I were to say to people I just just imagine how different my life would be and how different this group would be if I had said I am a genius. I have the strategies that can turn you into a millionaire. And I have so much evidence and so many clients that have become millionaires that it's hard to imagine at this point that you wouldn't become a millionaire. Like I've got them all. And we have created together the most epic strategies of all times for their launches, for their master classes, for their sales pages, their funnels, their posts. Like I am a genius mastermind for strategy. And my strategies work so well that I've made $100 million from my strategies. Can you imagine who would be in this room today? How they would be listening? What they would be expecting? And it doesn't mean that underneath there wouldn't be some sort of a dream to do something big, but that would entirely drown out their power. It would entirely drown drown out their mission. It would entirely drown out their uniqueness. It would entirely drown out the fact that they've got something unique. And it would just all become that I am a genius. and I have the answer. And so I would attract a lot of people who are like, "Oh, thank goodness Melanie is gonna fix my stress here." Somehow you guys are like, "Ooh, yay. I'm going to learn to hold more pressure." You're literally not the same. This is an entirely different group. This is like, I'm going to become a greater leader. I'm going to learn to hold pressure. I'm going to figure out what my gifts are that are incredible and I'm either going to help them amplify my own business or I'm going to make them the income generating gift. I'm going to learn how to receive from people who have the gifts that I admire instead of fighting against them. And I'm going to learn how to hold the pressure. And I'm going to do this not because Melany's the one and so she's going to give me. And so then I'll be the one. This is the thing that I think is the most sad about about that that angle because it takes away all of our power.

So even if I have a great idea for you, I would only be able to give you my great idea if you told me everything I needed to know. and you told it and you gave it to me vulnerably and you said to me everything you've tried and everything you've done and I'd have to know who your who your people are and how you help them. Like I would need to know about everything. And so yes, I help my people strategize, but not because I'm a genius strategist, but because we cocreate in the God zone from frequency of truth based on where they are and who they are and who they serve and what they've tried. And it's like there's so many moving pieces. So I would never come in and put that as my main gift because I know what it would attract. So there are things in this life also that are your secret undercover gift. And there are people in this world that have the secret undercover these secret undercover gifts. And I love those even more than I love the main attraction gift. My favorite thing on earth is meeting a person and liking them and then just being more and more obsessed with them after every meeting cuz I realize how many other secret gifts they are and how many secret gifts they have. I want to meet you and then realize, wait, you're all so funny and you're all so cool and you're also a leader and you're all so organized and you're also this and you're also that and you also have that. Oh my gosh, I'd rather have that than look at me, I have this, look at me, I have this, look at me, I have this, look at me, I have this. And then like, okay, well, I expect everything from you. I know nothing. And I'm just waiting to be wowed. And this is what a lot of the internet has become. Trying to prove that you're everything you are so that people choose you instead of leading with your truth. Knowing that the people who already feel a pull to who you are will find you. And then the more they get to know you, the more they realize all the ways that you're actually magnificent. And then the right [clears throat] people come into your world. And that is such a different experience. And then you get to fall in love with who they are and you get to see their gifts and you get to say, "Gosh, I'm so grateful that you're in my life because when you're in my life, you amplify this in me." Like Amy has amplified the sexiness in my life. When she's in the room, she's she always brings this like super alluring energy that really has made me respond to it over the years. And Jack Jack wild in me. My clients bring out this. Steph 100% brings out the humor and the fun. The more I spend time with my clients, the more I speak to them, the more I I lead them and I respond to their questions, the more I I light up. My client Juliana in House of Oat, she gets me all fired up for the future of humanity and womankind and like business and stocks and investments and having like funds and like I just love her. I just love her. I feel like when I'm with her, I see a vision for Alpha FM that's so big and she always sends me stuff like I had a dream about you and you there was this there was this happening and this happening and I'm like, "Oh my gosh." Like she holds a vision that's so big and she's a catalyst for that for me. She's precise. She's powerful. She's a projector. So all about success and like she she holds an anchor for me and I'm I'm her mentor. But she gives me that this I receive this from her. And so this is what starts to happen. my client Amanda who has this incredible product, these incredible um I mean I don't even want to describe them because I feel it takes away the power but we'll call them anchors that really do like change your experience of your worthiness, your belonging, your enoughness and becoming a part of her [clears throat] world and her becoming a part of my world. Every time I talk about an anchor or enoughness, I have I have her in my head. She's become not just a a a mental reminder, but like an actual like anchor. Like she she is my reminder of human form of being anchored as a person. Like there's all these different people in my life that remind me of all these different things, of all these different ways of being that are either funny. Amanda, she's actually in the comment section now. She's right here. There's so many people in my life that remind me of things, that anchor things in for me. And it's just such a beautiful thing to be surrounded by those people.

So, I chose a career where not only I'm the one, but you're the one. You're the brave one. You're the wild one. Shosana is wild and brave and free. You know, it's like and and Bridget is just a queen and just so, you know, the queen. She's just there's something about the energy. There's something about every single one of them that just makes me feel like my client Misa who's just sparkles. Like she is sparkles. She is the frequency of sparkles. And and and when I and whenever I think about someone effervescent and magical, you know, I have my client Vanessa, they anchor things in. They anchor things in my badass client Jess. She's a badass. I think of her, I think of badass, I think of Jess. These people, Marta, who's like the matriarch, fashionista, like luxury queen, goddess. They anchor in frequencies. And so I could say, "Oh, I wish I were more like this person." But it's like I am because of them. because of you in my life. I have a client Dana that's in my AlphaFam experience. She's now in I think for the third or fourth year. She is love. If you have probably seen her hearting every single thing and leaving 25 million comments on everything. She is just love. Her fingers work faster than anything I've ever seen. And she's just love. And she's an anchor for that in my life. She's a mirror for that for me. I have so many beautiful people in my life and it's so easy to say, "I wish I were more like that. I wish I were more like that." But you can actually say, "I am when I'm with you." And that's so beautiful to all of us. I'm more brave when I'm with you. I'm more real when I'm with you. I'm wiser when I'm with you. And then when I'm not with you, I continue to be that because of you. And eventually I'll take those traits on fully. And because of this, because of us, someone else will end up doing that because when I take on that trait, then I own it and eventually I do become this way. And other people will say, "Gosh, you have such this beautiful trait." And you say, "Thank you for that." And in the bottom of your heart, you remember because of us. It's this chain reaction where we give to each other. We don't take from each other. We calibrate to each other. Your presence in the room changes the room. My client Ria, who's just the most faithful person. So much faith in this woman. There's just so much faith. You you just you just feel it from people. They're anchors. And it's like there is so much value in having a network and a life of people that have qualities that you admire. But if you spend your entire life thinking you need to be more of that in order to belong to them, you miss out on the very real opportunity to say, I I connect more to my dot dot dot when I'm with you. I realize how important of a trait that is when I'm with you. Thank you for who you are in my life. instead of I measure my less than after you're more than and then I wish that I was more like you because you make me feel less than. That's just the comparison game. It's what siblings do to each other. I want to be the funny one. I want to be the one. And it's not that there aren't other people in my world that hold those frequencies, but in this moment, those are the names that came up to me. But I've got so many clients that are anchors for me. And we all belong to each other. That's the beauty of it. Until one decides they don't. And then they leave. But they still belong. They're just gone. They belong to us far far away because they think maybe they don't because someone else came in with the same gift. And that's the thing I want you to contemplate before session two. The hardest thing to believe is that I am the one when two people hold a similar gift. So where I've triggered people the most is that the place where I would say like, well, I'm the one who brings responsibility. I'm the one who brings power. I'm the one who brings expansion, growth. I'm the one who brings these things. And people say, "Well, I'm that one. That's me. I'm that. So now I need to show that I'm better at this job than you. Instead of just saying, "Oh, that's amazing. Let me see how you go about being that. And let me see if there's something where I could be amplified because that's also by gift and let me bring my gift to the space because maybe my gift will amplify your gift somehow." So, you will trigger people when they feel like that you you have the gift they have. If you've got a friend group and a new friend comes in and she's also the funny one, the first funny one's not too sure about that. When you bring in when you're in a friend group and there's a new beautiful one, the first beautiful one's not too sure about that. That's where the rivalries come from. You can't have that trait. This is my trait. Who will I be if I'm not the one? Our job is to understand that we're the one, like we're the one on a Christmas tree. Our job is to be pure with our frequency, constantly calibrating to the light of other people around us without ever dimming ours or changing ours because we should be something else or trying to dim someone else's because there can only be one. You dim someone else's light. You turn off the Christmas tree. you decide you're not a light, you're an ornament because there's already too many lights on the tree. You kill the Christmas tree lights. So, we want to learn a stronger version of who we are. My gift as the one that's a part of a whole.

So, what I would love for you to contemplate before tomorrow's session, it's going to be at 10:00 a.m. Eastern Standard Time, is where in your life, even from childhood, have you feared that you do not belong because someone else has a similar gift or a gift you think you should have had? And what could you say to that version of yourself after having heard this today? How can you reframe that? What I will ask you to do if you can process this, think about it once you've got it, come in the group and tell us. The reason why is this. Other people will have the same thing as you and won't do this work. They'll go, "Yeah, yeah, I'll do it." And then they won't. And then they'll see yours and they will realize that that's exactly what they did. And you will give them freedom. Other people will think they're far too advanced to do this. This is silly. they don't need to do this. And then they'll see someone like you, someone they admire do it, and they'll go, "Well, she can do it. I can freaking do it." Someone will think, "No one cares about what I think. I'm not advanced enough. I'm not cool enough. I don't have a business. I don't own anything. I don't even know why I came to this master class. I don't even belong here. I don't know. I don't know. I don't even know." And then someone will post their thing and you'll be like, "Whoa, that person feels just like me and they posted it and that inspired me. So maybe maybe if they can do it, I can do it. Every time you have the thought, I don't need to turn on, you're messing up the Christmas tree. Every time you have the thought, there's other lights in here, you're messing up the Christmas tree. The whole goal is that this whole room glows. If the whole room glows, we will have done something that is unthinkable for master classes. Because there are just just so you know there are industry standards for master classes of what you should expect of how many people should be watching and how many people should do the coursework and how many people actually pay attention and I do not believe in any of it. I believe that it's because we expect so little that we get so little. What I want more than anything is that every room is filled. And if that means keeping master classes open for three months to test this because I believe in it, then I will. And what we did in phase one was outstanding. But it's not about what we can do on day one of a master class when we think we can stand out to a group of people. It's what we continue to do in faith, in alignment, because it's who we are every day that creates the kind of compound effect that eventually lights the Christmas tree. So, I don't ask you to do this for me, and I don't even ask you to do this just for you. I ask you to do this for the Christmas tree. Because the only way this group redefes what's possible is if we all show up, which has never been done. And that can't happen without you. One person doesn't do it, doesn't like the Christmas tree. So if you don't participate, it doesn't. It's not like, oh, Melanie doesn't see it. Well, when the lights turn back on, I don't know which one was broken. But when every light is on, we get this masterpiece. And it's true that sometimes people are afraid that they're going to look like they're trying to be performative and they're trying to do this and they're trying to do that. I would rather you look like you're doing that at first than not do it at all. And I would rather people [clears throat] get to know you and realize that that's just your style. And I would rather you realize that, oh yeah, there was a little bit of that, but I didn't even catch it down the line as you refine. It doesn't matter. So your homework as you're going to contemplate in your life even from being a little kid or with your siblings or in as in your friend groups or even now as a fully grown person where have you seen other p other people and their belong in their light and thought because they are like that I don't belong cuz I should be more like that and where have you said my gift isn't as good as that gift. I wish I was that instead. And now based on what we've talked about today, what could you say to that version of you? What would you like to say to the version of you who thought, "I'm not the cool one. I'm not the pretty one. I'm not the rich one. I'm not advanced enough. I'm not this enough. I should be that. I should be more like that. I want to be more like that. I don't want to be this." What could you say to that version of you now after this conversation? What can you see that you maybe couldn't see before? And you can go as far as the back as far back as being a little kid. And you can go as recently as like in this master class when you first came in, you had that thought. But now when you read the posts, you'll say, "Gosh, I'm in a group where every part of me that wants to be amplified has a person I can calibrate to. What a gift." And when you see a gift in someone else that's like, "Oh gosh, I have the same gift. They can't have that. That's my gift." You'll say, "There's two of us. That makes our mission more possible. And when someone has a gift and they're just starting and you say, "Hey, hey, you better not be good at your gift. That's my gift." You say, "I hope you become excellent at your gift." Because the more of us, the better. And when you say, you see someone who's getting all this love for their gift and you have the same gift and you don't get as much love, you don't say, "Oh, they matter more than me, so maybe I'm not good enough, so I should change my gift." How do you give yourself back from this conversation and then share it in the group so that other people can calibrate to what you've learned. Thank you so much for being here. Tomorrow is a masterpiece. So, if you can make it live, that will be fantastic. I look forward to seeing you soon. Have the most beautiful day. Tomorrow, just to give you an idea. First of all, there's also the draw. So, if you want to be in the draw, there's a post to share on Instagram and on Facebook. It's in your email. I'll send it again with the replay. Um, and so we're going to be drawing after on tomorrow's live call. And then the other thing I want to remind you of tomorrow, oh yeah, so tomorrow we're going into feminine energetics and the receiving of gifts, which is so different than the masculine energetics and the creating or striving or earning of gifts. This is one of the things that has completely changed me as a person is the understanding that my actual balance is far more in the feminine. My God's own balance is far more in the feminine. And there's things I needed to understand in order to receive. Most of the things I have I have received, not earned. It's so different. And I want to help you open up your mind because this might be for you as well. You may have a different balance than what you've been taught. So, I look forward to seeing you tomorrow. Have the most beautiful Saturday and I'll see you on the internet. Preparing for takeoff in 3 2 1. Your mission. Everything you thought it could be [music] despite the odds. [screaming] >> [music] >> Beyond no limit. >> Because you were born for this. [music] [music] A [music] visionary's journey. Once upon a time, there was you.