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Ever notice how some people, uh, people who cause the most conflict, also seem to think they're always right? Let's talk about antagonistic people. Think narcissists, gaslighters, bullies, and how they tend to see themselves as perfect.
According to recent research, people with antagonistic traits often genuinely believe that they're morally superior, not just smarter or stronger, but better. And here's the kicker: the more antagonistic they are, the more likely they are to view themselves as having strong character. They'll say things like, "I'm honest," or "I just have high standards," when really they're just masking unkindness or, uh, control behind some moral smoke screen.
Um, you've probably seen it at the workplace: someone steamrolls other people in a meeting, then claims they're just being direct. Or in families where one person shames others but insists they're doing it out of love. This isn't annoying; it's a cognitive blind spot. And the more confrontational they are, the less insight they usually have into how damaging their behavior is.
So, if you've been second-guessing yourself around someone like this, pause for a second. Their overconfidence might not be proof that they're right; it might be a shield against their own self-awareness. There's nothing wrong with you for feeling that disconnect. Pay attention to it. Give it some assessment. Um, what's going on for them? What's going on for me? Um, protect your peace. Follow for more insight into the psychology of difficult people and how to keep your power in the process.