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Good afternoon, guys. I hope you guys are well. This is a very timely word for someone. Again, test the spirit and take the words to God to find out if the word is specifically for you.
Okay. Now, this is pertaining to, um, someone's reconciliation with their kingdom husband.
Okay. Um, the Lord highlighted that the person that you're supposed to reconcile with, they don't feel like they're good enough for you. They don't feel like they deserve you. They don't feel like they're good enough for you. You were literally right under their nose the entire time while they prayed for someone like you. The entire time you were under their under their nose, but they did not see it. They did not see it. They did not notice it. They were blindsided.
Okay? And again, everyone's situation's different. I don't know your specific case. I just know the confirmation and the specific word that God told me to tell you.
Okay. But in some cases, yes, there was maybe like interferences and other people that were involved, and you know, and then in some cases, they may just not have seen you as that person that's for them because they did not know much about you. They had no idea who you are until God specifically told them personal things about you, your traits, your characteristics, things that describe who you are behind closed doors, right? Cuz people don't really express themselves fully a lot to just anybody. They may not feel as open. Like there may have been reasonings as to why you're not as open with people. So because you may not have expressed yourself completely and fully as to who you truly are, they were not able to see that side of you until God revealed it to them.
Right? But everything that they have been praying for is exactly who you are.
All right? So now because they feel like they misjudged you, they feel like they did not honor God's will for their life at the time they were supposed to honor it.
Right? It does not mean that you guys will never come into his will and that the will is completely thrown out the window. No. But they feel like the way how everything happened and the way how they treated you when they did not understand the revelation was unacceptable.
Okay. And due to this, they do lack confidence. They do lack confidence in themselves. They have confidence in God's will, but they don't feel like they are deserving of you because the person that they prayed for, the person that, you know, they begged God to bring into their life, they know deep down that that's the person they never want to hurt. They never want to disappoint. Like that is just a part of their qualities. They don't ever want to hurt the person that they're supposed to spend their life with, right? They they never want to hurt the person that God gives them. So because they were not aware of the revelation, something may have happened between you guys where there was some maybe exchange of words, um, maybe misunderstanding, disagreements, and in the process you got hurt.
Okay? In the process you got hurt, and that is something they have a hard time forgiving themselves for.
Okay? Hey, you can forgive people all day, and that's because you have the fruits of the spirit and you know God may have taught you how to be forgiving and you may have already passed that test of forgiving people, but that does not mean that the person for you has forgiven themself. Do you get it? Because it's almost like you are God's precious chosen person. You are the person that God has called for them, right? So imagine in the back of your mind like, "Wow, the person that I prayed for, the person that I begged God for is the very person that I disappointed or the very person that I hurt." That is a very hard pill to swallow. Therefore, there's going to be some time that is needed for that person to overcome the fear and the lack of confidence and feeling undeserving and unworthy of you. There's time that's needed for them to heal from all of that. So be patient. Allow God to speak to them. Allow God to heal their heart pertaining to themselves.
Okay? Allow God to heal their heart. The person loves you, but they have a very hard time, you know, accepting the fact that the person that is for them is the same person that they disappointed at one point, the same person they hurt at one point.
Okay? So, God is teaching them how to forgive themselves. God is teaching them confidence, like He is helping them regain their confidence to feel like, you know what, it's okay, you are deserving, you are forgiving, right? So they have to come into agreement with that, right? And we cannot force people to hurry up and come into agreement with that; it takes time for people to heal, just like it took time for you to heal and to forgive people around you, and it took time for you to accept things, right? It's going to take them time to forgive themselves. It's going to take them time to forgive how they treated you and to have confidence that they do deserve you.
Okay? In Proverbs 31, I'm going to read this scripture here for you. It's a very important scripture. It says here in Proverbs 31:1, speaking about the Proverbs wife, it says, "Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value."
Okay. So if the Proverbs man has confidence in the Proverbs woman and he lacks nothing of value, that means that he has confidence in himself because remember he lacks nothing of value.
Right? So it's not that your person doesn't have confidence in you. They do have confidence in you. But in order for them to to lack nothing of value, they need to understand their value. They need to accept that they are deserving of you, right? Being with someone like you confirms their value because you are a good woman. You are chosen by God. You are God's precious. You are, you know what I mean? So, you have value, but they have to see the value in themselves. And lacks nothing also means confidence, as in they cannot lack confidence to be with you. They have to be confident to be with you. So this is what God is working on pertaining to them.
Okay. So I want to share this with someone. I love you guys. I'll talk to you later.