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Hello. How are you?
>> Good. How are you?
>> I'm well. How old are you?
>> 21.
>> What do you got for me?
>> Um, I actually was the one who said it's based on your delivery. Um, I think she went off my comment and I would I mean I would think that it's just based on delivery. It's just how you say it.
>> How do you say you're fat? You're oversized. You're um obese. You're a little
>> fat. Obese is better. You think you think think you think what?
>> Well, I think that you can say um you're a little you're a little on the unhealthy size. Your size isn't ideal and it's unhealthy. So,
>> I just want Okay, hold on hold on hold on hold on no no no hold on.
>> That's a statement of fact. Fact.
>> Okay.
>> Why? Okay. My question is why is it Women don't have a problem in telling a man he's broke.
>> Okay.
>> Why?
>> I mean, um, men don't have a problem telling women they're unattractive.
>> Okay. Okay. You just answer the question with a question. That's not That's not how we do this. I said men don't have a Women don't have a problem telling men they're broke. Why?
>> I mean, I would think it would it would I mean, I would think it's to better that man.
>> Okay. So, when a woman tells a man the truth about a negative perception, it's for her for him to better himself.
>> But it's about her delivery, though.
>> Excuse me. No, no, ma'am. No, no, no, no. I just said broke. I didn't say you're financially unattracted. You could earn a little money. I said broke.
>> Well, that's rude to say it like that.
>> Is it okay? Is there is there is there a dollar amount a man earns less than that makes him broke?
>> Can you say that again?
>> Is there a dollar amount an annual amount of money that a man has to make less than so he'll be broke? So let's say if you make $50,000 if you're not broke but if you make $25,000 a year you're broke.
>> Well honestly
>> is there a broke is there is there a number where broke starts at? Um, I mean on that is really
>> I'm asking I'm asking is there is there a number baseline number?
>> No, because there's something making $10 an hour. No, I don't want to play games. So no, we're not going to do we're not going to do the find a nuance but most people
>> Okay.
>> $10 an hour is that man $10 an hour working 2,000. So $20,000 a year is that I'm broke?
>> Yes.
>> Okay. $15 an hour, $30,000 a year. Is that man broke?
>> Yes.
>> $20 an hour, $40,000 a year. Is that man broke?
>> No, I think he could sustain himself. Just not a family.
>> So, there is a number between 30 and 40,000 where it goes from being broke to not being broke,
>> right?
>> But at $20, he's definitely broke. $20,000 a year. $20,000 a year. $10 an hour, he's definitely broke.
>> I mean, yeah, that's just the way.
>> All right. The same logic holds with weight.
>> There is a number to where you're just fat,
>> right?
>> That's right. But it's just your delivery how you say. I mean, you can come at them like you're fat and you you're just fat. But if you say, "Hey, you're unhealthy." And When you say a man, but I'm using your same theory though. You told a man he's broke to help him out.
>> Do you think Hold up. Do you think you said Do you think Do you think me said Hold on. Do you think telling a woman You think me telling an obese woman she's fat is new news to her?
>> You think that she didn't know that?
>> But what are you ganging out of
>> I didn't ask you that. You don't you don't you don't answer a question with a question. If you want to do this, I'll answer. Do you think that's new news to her? Do you think she really didn't know she was fat? No.
>> All right. So, it doesn't matter what I'm saying. She can see herself every day. What am I gaining out of it? When women like that say they want high value men. When women like that say they want a man to take me as I am. When women like that tell dudes, "You average and you don't on my level." Well,
>> like they call themselves nines and tens, eights.
>> Well, in a traditional men's eyes, not a high prof I mean like I mean that's fine if I mean everyone has dreams. So if you're I mean but I mean for a traditional man she could probably be be suitable but for like a high I mean
>> where's your family from? Where's your family from? My family's from Columbus, Ohio.
>> Okay. Why should an average man be relegated to having a fat wife? You go back in your family, go back in your family history 100 years ago where the men barely graduated from high school. Did they have fat wives?
>> I mean, I I think that they were a little hefty. Yeah. But it because it was more so can you maintain a home? Can you you know listen to your husband?
>> People weren't obese a hundred years ago.
>> I mean chitlins and stuff like that
>> doesn't matter if they weren't obese.
>> Okay. All right. Yeah.
>> So
>> So what you're basically doing is reinforcing the same thing that an average man a fat woman would do for him. But if he's a high value man then they won't do. So that means all the men want to get to be high value. So that means women. So basically, you pushing all the men to the top and you telling men at the middle that they don't deserve anything. Do you think a woman being fat is a choice?
>> Yes.
>> Then she could choose to not be fat.
>> Well, the qu the argument is the delivery. We're kind of circling around
>> the delivery. Who does it who can find delivery? What who does it better? How should I deliver it? Because women often, and I'm going tell you this, women often say the delivery. Tell me the man or the person who's delivering truth the preferable way.
>> It's just like I said, it's their tone.
>> You got to give me an example. You can't you can't give me tone example. Give me an example. Give me Give me somebody to model after. Name me one person.
>> So, you're telling me to give you a person? If you like like you want you want you want to you want to shoot like Steph Curry, you want to dribble like Tim Hardway, give me somebody to model after. You can't just say it's just your tone and you're not giving me a model. Who? Because you have a model in your mind. Who are you thinking about? And it has to be somebody that we all would know. Can't be your dad or your granddad. Um, I guess one that's always in the media would be like Lizo kind of.
>> You want me? You want So you're saying that me is a 53y old
>> She has a man though.
>> Excuse me. Hold on. I want to be clear. You're telling me as a 53 year old man I should model Lizo's?
>> Wait, I'm I was confused on the question. You're telling me my tone and my delivery and I'm saying who does it right? Give me a model. Give me somebody to model after.
>> I mean, it's just common sense. Like you
>> It's not common sense. It's common. No, it's not.
>> Yo, your parents
>> Okay, ma'am. Listen, listen, listen. Don't get frustrated. It's not common sense. Men do this. Men often ask women to give us what we need. Give me an example of what you're talking about. Don't tell me why it's so simple or common sense. If it's all that, just give me the name.
>> Um, well, I I don't have an ideal person that could give you a delivery on.
>> So, there's no way I can know. Then there's no way I can know. If you can't tell me, all you can do is say your tone, your delivery, but you can't give me an example. You can't you can't expect me to do anything different.
>> It's not how human beings learn. Well, I mean, I would think that a person is taught how to conduct a conversation.
>> No, ma'am. No, ma'am. What you that does that due respect, that's not how we learn. And see, that's part of the problem. This is a feelings-based argument. There is nobody that does it better. You can't point to somebody and say, you know, Barack Obama or Donald Trump or Elon Musk. You can't say. So if you can't tell me, then how am I supposed to get better? How am I supposed to know?
>> I guess you just I mean re-educ I guess it just starts with a house. It starts at home. It just starts with parenting styles that
>> How about How about How about this? How about you just wrong?
>> It doesn't start with the house, man. You can't It's like like saying, you know what? I I don't like the way you make steak. It's just not good. All right. You don't like the way I make steak. Whose steak do you like? Oh, I think it's just common sense. It's just a cow. That's not how people learn. That's not even that I mean, I'm not trying to be ridiculous, but come on. That's not how that works.
>> No, but what I'm saying is it's just it's your delivery and how you say things. I'm not saying what you say. I'm saying how you say it.
>> And everyone should have been taught how you should say something. No, they're not. And and the problem is women aren't taught No. And that's the problem today. I'm glad you got there. You ladies aren't taught how to handle criticism. You're only taught how to handle praise. So you're So we talk about a failure at home. The failure at home is to teach all of you that your special snowflakes and you're not.
>> Yeah. I mean, it it it it's it varies cuz
>> it doesn't vary because women are women are less happy, less married, and headed in the worst direction. And who's teaching them? Daddy ain't mama. And you're telling me to do it better? I'm like, well, uh, no. And here's the thing. The women who
>> Well, I think dads I would I would have to disagree with you. I think dads are more like, "Oh, you're my little girl. It's a guy got to give you the world. he has to do this.
>> We're talking about how many dads get to raise their children to 18 years old
>> in the black community. It's actually going hyster. It's really bad. But that's I'm just speaking. I'm just I mean they have male.
>> So how many dads get to raise their children in their home until 18 years old?
>> So, don't tell me about it. Don't so don't tell me that black See, y'all always want to go to the extraneous examples. And here's the reality. Women weren't taught. Women were not taught how to how men think. You weren't taught how men feel. You weren't taught what men want. And you were not taught how to handle criticism. You were taught that you are the prize. That we're supposed to do X, Y, and Z for you. And all you're supposed to do is be pretty and show up. And that's not getting you married. That's not getting women married. That's getting you that's getting you pumped and dumped, slayed to the side. And then 27 years old, y'all laughing like where all the good men at? Because you did not learn how to accept the criticism and critique of the kind of men that you want to.
>> So you kind like what you're saying kind of reminds me of like why did I get married to you? you kind of giving like more like a Mike approach to Sheila kind of
>> like you're like you have you watched the movie Why Did I Get Married and then you seen like how Mike was treating Sheila and calling her like just saying all this stuff and it was just I don't I think that's kind of the approach that you
>> You're 21 years old and I'm you know I'm more concerned at 21 years old that you're watching that kind of filth.
>> Wow.
>> That movie was filthy. Why did I get married? That that movie didn't help. Do you think it portrayed marriage in a good light?
>> Well, I mean nowadays,
>> no. No. The answer is did it portray marriage in a good light?
>> No, it didn't. Did it portray black marriage in a good light?
>> No.
>> Did your mama let you watch that or did your daddy let you watch that?
>> I really just watched it on my own.
>> Uhhuh. And whose house? Your mama's house or your daddy's house? I was actually at my friend's
>> her mama's house or her daddy's house.
>> Her mom's.
>> Thank you.
>> You can't make this [ __ ] up, people. Unsupervised young women watching that kind of trash because women just let y'all do whatever. And it to the to the point to where you have an opportunity to talk to somebody and you bring you can't tell me an example of a proper tone. You can't tell me this, but you can tell me some some BS you saw in a movie that shaped your mind. And that
>> that I'm talking to the audience right now. And that's that's sad because this is what I mean. They don't get taught. They get supervised. Girls are raised today.
>> I was given an example of a bad delivery and in your delivery on that women gave me
>> that movie was propaganda. movie was straight propaganda. Did black men look good in that Tyler Perry movie? Who? Nobody talks to their woman like he talked to Jill Scott in real life. Ma'am,
>> I don't know who's I've seen it.
>> And that's the thing. This is what this is what litters these young girls minds. this crap that's been fed into me to the point to where you're bringing it up like it's real life or like it's something to be modeled after instead of saying this is garbage.
>> I mean it it is garbage.
>> It's garbage. Hello. How are you? Hold on.
>> Hi. How are you?
>> I'm good. How old are you?
>> I'm 25. No, I'm 35.
>> Okay. Uh what do you got? Is it critique or is it a belittling?
>> No, I actually agree with what she's saying. She's definitely right. It's definitely all about the approach. We have to pay attention to how we talk to people. We definitely We can't just say this hamburger is disgusting. We have to say,
>> you know what, honey? You did a good job.
>> Talking right through me.
>> I'm talking I I respect what she I'm sorry, honey. I didn't catch her name.
>> You're talking through me. You got to know that I can hear you. You can We got to know how we talk to one another. Why do women think it's okay to talk through a man?
>> What? No, no, no, no, no. You asked me. I answered.
>> Okay. You said you agree with her and I'm asking you just like
>> definitely agree with her.
>> Not even let me right because this because the funny thing is you guys are getting a kick out of this. The world likes it this way because you're 21, you're 35, you both will die alone.
>> No, no, no, no. Definitely not.
>> Okay. What does your husband have to say about that?
>> What does he have to say? He isn't going to say much. He isn't going to He's not going to come on this camera.
>> So, who does it right?
>> What do you mean who does it right?
>> Okay. You're telling me the tone. Tell me who does it right. Give me a model.
>> Okay. So, we can't give you a model. The fact is a model. Due respect,
>> black men don't like to be
>> Excuse me. Then do respect.
>> That's the issue.
>> Due respect and you can't tell me how to do it. You can't tell me a model. You saying do something better and you're just using a bunch of words.
>> We can't give you a model because the thing is you treat people how you want to be treated. So therefore, I am the best model of how I want to be treated. So therefore, I'm going to be talking about that's not what I'm talking about.
>> Okay. Okay.
>> Say, "I don't like your If I say I like steak and you make me a steak and I say I don't like your steak and you say, "Well, what do you like?" Well, it's just not good. It should be better. Okay. What do you mean by better? Should it be more flavorful? Should it be How do you like it cooked? Well, just better. It should be common sense. Speaking of steak like you'd want to listen to the example, wouldn't you me at some point whose stake are you comparing it to? What's a model? Give me an idea. You wouldn't just keep telling her, "Well, just just just know."
>> Oh, definitely not. I would say, "No, honey. There there's a bit too much blood here. Let maybe next time we'll do it a bit more well done." Or I'll say, "No, honey. We don't have enough blood here. Maybe we can try to
>> Then tell me the person who delivers truthful content.
>> What if you don't?
>> Tell me the person.
>> What if you don't have an example?
>> Tell me the person who delivers truthful content to women in the right way. You don't have one.
>> Then I'm all
>> That's where you and your husband just have to communicate.
>> Deal with it. I'm not changing.
>> No. Hell no. You just have to communicate.
>> Have to change the tone.
>> We're going to try again and again and again until we get it right.
>> One thing you cannot do. I'm going to tell you one more time. You can go back to your husband or whoever it is. This is not married women typically act.
>> You cannot. That's just rude.
>> Oh, I'm overalking you. I I think that we are looking more you're looking I think it's more sad the fact that we that we don't have an example as black women to say okay this is how we would want to be or this is it's sad that we actually don't have that example to give in the first place.
>> Why do you think that is?
>> Well because the men aren't like how they used to be. That's the only thing I think.
>> So again, it's a men's fault.
>> Well, I'm just saying like there is room to be improved as far as I feel like men these days they have unrealistic
>> Okay, let me before you go down that path at 21 years old, were you raised with your father in the house?
>> Yes.
>> Were your mother and father married?
>> All right. If men aren't if women aren't getting married before kids, whose fault is that? Well, I think it's a different mindset now because back then most most
>> if women aren't getting married. See, you see, you say the father. You're not letting me finish.
>> Hold on. No, no, you say the father and we started the basic building block. He needs to be in the home. If women are not choosing to be married before they have children, the father is not in the home. You cannot blame the person who's not there for how you turn out. But a man has a woman.
>> There's no butt. There's no butt. What? There's no way you have a baby before marriage. There too many forms of birth control.
>> I mean, things happen. So
>> that's
>> You're right about that. Now I can't
>> No. See, listen. I want you guys to understand the sheer lack of accountability. Think about how many times did that one, two, three women have pushed the responsibility back onto the man. Things happen this. Accountability is like kryptonite. Man, if a woman doesn't want to have a baby, she doesn't use birth control. I didn't say stop having sex. Just stop making babies with men that aren't your husbands. Can we agree that that needs to happen?
>> Okay. So, how am I supposed to know if we can agree with you?
>> Hold on. Hold on. No, no. Can we agree that that needs to happen first?
>> Okay.
>> Can we Yes. Yes or no?
>> Yeah, that needs to happen.
>> Yeah, we can agree.
>> Then who ensures that? Men or women?
>> Women.
>> Women.
>> Thank you.
>> Because we birth we give birth to them. So we
>> And you pay a higher price because Yes. Because if you have a child
>> outside of marriage, you're setting yourself and a child up for less favorable outcomes. You asking me what laying down
>> the qu the question. The question. Oh, which one?
>> The other girl. She said, "So what?" You said something about it happens. The Lord to do what? Well, no, it does happen. I mean, that's been inev inevitable. It didn't happen to me, but it does happen to other people.
>> But if you start looking at the marriage,
>> what do you mean it just happens? How do you just get pregnant? You don't just happen to have unprotected sex during the time you're ovulating.
>> Well, what if you have a sex every day?
>> See what? See how that happened, folks? I just said it doesn't just happen where you have unprotected sex when you're ovulating. And just like the modern woman, she instead of answering the question, she just moved the goalpost.
>> Oh, whatever. It's true though. But what if you haven't?
>> No. What I just said is true. And this is why so many women are are going unmarried.
>> But what about the men that say like I mean I get you're saying it's the woman's choice because it is because in the end she has to have the b like it's her. So but what about those men who are like oh I like I don't like it with you know protection or those.
>> Yeah. You don't have sex with them. Very simple.
>> What about those men who like because the men I mean you're not I feel like you don't really I I do understand that women we need work to be done but the black men in our community are reading at fourth grade level.
>> That's [ __ ] THAT'S [ __ ] 54% of black men are single and childless and 61% are in the middle class. You're not going to come on here and run that [ __ ] No. 2.5 million black men are in the upper class. This is the This is that [ __ ] you were watching on those movies. That ain't the truth. I challenge you to go look up the statistics. Black demographics.com. Black statistics by black people for black people.
>> 54% of black men in this country, single, childless, 61 in the middle class. But you all got to think that there are no men out there to justify why you're alone.
>> You're alone not because there not enough men. You're alone because you're unfit. So where we supposed to find them at?
>> In the gym behind their preposition.
>> In a gym.
>> In the gym.
>> Well, I thought men were born hunters. I thought they were you were to catch.
>> I'm just so confused.
>> Where? Where? Hold on. Hold on. Where are they supposed to find them at? Were you raised with your mother? Lady laying down on the red pillow. Your first name. H Tina.
>> Tina. Uhhuh. Were your mother and father married?
>> Yes, they were. So when you asked your father where you supposed to find him at, what does he tell you?
>> Um, he found her.
>> I said when you ask your father where you're supposed to find him at, what does he tell you?
>> He don't know the answers. That's why I'm on here.
>> Uhuh. So when you had the time when you asked the question to him, he said what?
>> To find a man.
>> Theory. I ain't going to lie. I heard not on the internet.
>> Hold on, sweetheart. Hold on, sweetheart. Oh, no. I I'm going to drill down on this. What did he say when you had the conversation?
>> In church.
>> I heard that.
>> And then where else?
>> In school.
>> And then where else?
>> That was it.
>> And your father failed you.
>> Oh, well that's why I'm on here cuz I ain't got no
>> Well, that's not But that's not But if you're going to tell me your Were you ra Did your mother raise you to be on here? Did your did your mother raise you to be a wife?
>> Yeah, I mean she was she is a wife.
>> Did she raise you to Did she raise you to be a wife?
>> I guess so. Yeah.
>> You guess if you were raised to be a wife, you would know.
>> So, what did your mother questions? What did your mother raise you to do for a man?
>> Um, cook, clean, be emotionally supportive. You cook and clean for yourself. But that is something that go what else?
>> Be emotionally supportive.
>> In what way?
>> Um, what she used to do? She used to ask some stuff. I don't know, like be nice to him, not be [ __ ]
>> So, what I need you to understand is you want to, Miss uh, 21 year old, you want to say the delinquencies of what black men are. And this is and you're saying your mother and father raised you in the household
>> and this is the basics. You didn't ask your dad. He told you school or church and your mama didn't raise you to be. The problem is that's not a woman that's fit to be a wife.
>> So what's your husband? A man who is a husband does not need to go to a woman who does not know what to do.
>> Well, we have to at this point we have to blame the generations before us because
>> you got to blame your mama,
>> right? And your mama didn't teach you a generation.
>> If your mama was m If your mother was married and she didn't teach you how to be a wife and teach you how to work with and for a man, then blame your mama. Ain't got [ __ ] to do with the generation. It got to do with the woman that raised you, especially if she was married. And that's a problem. Far too many married women aren't teaching their daughters how to be wise. They're teaching their daughters how to be independent. And then when it fails, you want to look at the men and say, "No,
>> you don't think it's the men problem, too." Some of the men out here, it gota be they excuse me. No, no, no. Before you get to the men, you got to get to the marriage. Before you get to the men, how many of our ch What percentage of our children are born as a result of ma of marriage?
>> I don't know. Not a lot.
>> And how old are you again?
>> 27. Let me be honest, man. You're laying down in the bed on an Instagram channel with millions of people.
>> It's not millions. It ain't. It's 9,2327. Now,
>> for the millions of people, and this is what I'm trying to say. If this is what a woman who is asking these questions, you're laying down like this is the attitude the average
>> it's 12:00 at night. What I'm supposed to be doing outside in the club?
>> It's 12 o'clock at night.
>> I want you guys to understand what I want you to understand. That's the this is why.
>> This is why the mindset it's like it's a joke. It's a joke. Relationships are a joke in a game until you're 27 years old. It ain't going to be a joke in about eight years. And the problem is 80% of our children are very brought into into fatherless homes. 80% of the kids are born to single mothers. So that means
>> the majority of our of our community is single mother raised le home. You're already screwed up. Black marriages have last less than five years on average. 80% of the divorces that are filed are filed by women. 75% divorce rate. You can't keep a man if you keep leaving your man. You can't be married if you ain't getting married before the baby. If you do get married, you don't stay more than five years.
>> But we don't have a baby when we asking them question. You She don't have a baby. I don't have a baby.
>> So what we doing wrong? That's
>> Yeah. So what we doing wrong? She not fat. I'm not fat. So now what?
>> I don't know what you are.
>> Hold on. Hold on. I don't know what you are.
>> I'm not fat. So,
>> I don't That's what you say. How tall are you?
>> I'm 5 feet.
>> Dress size?
>> Uh, I would say a four.
>> How much you weighed the last time you weighed yourself?
>> 144.
>> You have a bit of a dress size eight. Ain't no damn way you were 5 foot, 140 pounds of a dress size.
>> Yes, my delivery. I'm saying a four.
>> It's my delivery. I'm an image consultant in real life. I know what the hell I'm talking about. I've dressed in size women all the time. I can look at Let's just say
>> and the problem is I want you to understand look at your attitude. You talk about attitude and delivery. Look at her. The attitude and delivery. It's a joke or it's aggressive. It's a joke or it's aggressive. I try to answer everything. I'mma over talk it. Pull out. Show bring your hand out again. Yeah. That's We love that. And you wonder what's wrong. That's what's wrong right there.
>> I'm not changing that. So that's
>> that's what's wrong. You can forget that. Congratulations. Congratulations.
>> Come with me. You can forget that
>> and they'll die with you.
>> Because I tell you right, I guarantee you right now, you know, and I know a white man, Hispanic man, Middle Eastern, or Asian men would not tolerate any of this. The only group of men that would even contemplate tolerating is the black man. And we're trying to get black men to raise their standards because, ma'am, your behavior is unacceptable. Even if you're right, you're still wrong because your behavior. You came on here. This platform has millions of people. You can be seen globally. And are you making a good representation for yourself or not? I get deemed for belittling women. I have conversations with women and let women show how they act. That's all I do.
>> And this is the reason why people talk trash about black women. Right? When you are a black woman yourself and you are on a platform, talk of is watched by thousand something people that is live. After the show finishes, people are going to tune in. People will come back to watch the show after the show is done. So if he's saying millions and millions of people are watching, it doesn't mean currently watching. At the end of the day, the views the video is going to get means this the amount of people that have tuned in to watch this video. And talking of the fingernails, you know, the extensions that is on the fingers and she said, "Oh, that comes with me. That's the black girl ego that he triggered right there like that." So instead of saying okay if men don't really want it then I got to change it she has to stay in her you know what I say arrogance to say that comes with me and asking of what are we doing wrong you know what you're doing wrong but the thing is are you willing to change it and the answer is no and if you are looking at these two women I think both are black women and one attitude is kind of do she's not able to handle criticism the one on the left is not able to handle criticism but I think you know she's kind of feminine in a way right but the one with long fingernails and accounts with it says a lot about who she is she's masculine and we want to dominate a man right and I will say disrespectful in general Yes, if she is at age 27 can talk to Kevin Samos that is 50 something years old like this then I mean how will she talk to you being her husband that she will see you as her equal and I think it's the propaganda that is spoiling our black girls look at the movie this lady just watched right I mean Ha Perry and the rest of the producers have done the black community a very big disservice by producing these type of movies that portray black men being bad people or being, you know, just like some kind of human beings that women should want to deal with. And if anything is going wrong, I think Taliperry is someone that I mean we should blame more because most of these movies are being produced by you know Tala Perry. So it is what it is and these women are consuming it. Especially when the movie portray how good black women are and portray how bad black men are. They kind of love it and they watch it in masses. Guys, let's continue with the content.
>> You just said that that my nails is not going to give me no man. But they like this.
>> That's that's just a part of femininity.
>> My personality. Yeah. Mhm.
>> I want you to go show me the women that are married to men of value who have nails that long.
>> Let me think about it. Nicki Minaj.
>> I mean, I like them a little shorter.
>> I'm not going to get into her husband. I said men of value.
>> Men of value. Damn,
>> they're like a they're like a medium.
>> So, if you want to marry a man of value and you say this comes with such and so forth, you either get rid of the nails or lose the opportunity to get the man. That's all it comes down to.
>> I'll consider it. I'll
>> You don't have to cons. The thing is, man, while you're considering it, women who are already raised or understand that they need to compete for him, he ain't got to handle you or figure you out, the women who are already trying to get on his team. That's what I talked about on YouTube today. Y'all are so worried about men. So many of our women are worried about our men taking you as you are or handling you. This is why Becky's coming in, Maria's swooping them up, and y'all can be right at the Dunning Krueger effect. Loud and wrong. It's not working. And it's not. And here's the thing. It's not working because men in general, black men in particular, are marrying you. If they're not marrying you, you got to ask them why.
>> You be having some points. I'm not going to lie. But sometimes it's just like you get way too disrespectful calling people fat girls, ladies fat and all that stuff. They ain't got no man. But the fat girls got more husbands than anybody.
>> No, they don't.
>> Oh lord. Check the stat statistics with that.
>> Who you think you talking to? I'm a walking statistics. What I'm talking about?
>> Fat girls ain't got hers cuz they on my show looking for high value men. And if I call you 5 foot 8, 220 pounds fat. If I tell you the size of an NFL running back and is it the statement of truth?
>> Listen, all I know,
>> see, that's what I'm telling you. There is no nice way to tell somebody who's used to no criticism or accountability that there's something wrong. Should a female weigh more than a male at the same height?
>> Um,
>> a male and a female the same height. Should the female weigh more than the male?
>> But what that got to do with love?
>> I didn't ask you that.
>> I mean, no, because that's not healthy. But what does that have to do with love?
>> Is it not healthy or is it not natural?
>> It could. It's both. It's both. It's not natural or healthy. But people are
>> So then why are women doing it if it's not healthy or natural? I don't know.
>> Take me as I am.
>> Huh?
>> Take me as I am. That's why they're doing it. No man is supposed to have anything. Nature can't even have a standard for women. And then you go back to love. Love has nothing to do with marriage at first.
>> Okay.
>> Go back 100 years ago. Did people date? How long did people date 100 years ago? I wasn't born a 100 years ago. So,
>> Excuse me. Did you go to high school?
>> Yes.
>> Did you go to college?
>> Yes.
>> Then stop with the smartass attitude. All you need is a goddamn history or a library card. Do that one more time and I will bid you a good night. I'm tired of your disrespect.
>> Now, do you want to continue or would you like to leave?
>> No, I'll continue. See, I want you to understand I'm twice your age and you the casual disrespect of trying to have a reasonable conversation and it doesn't matter. See, you y'all don't like my tone, but you don't have to have any problem with your disrespect.
>> I just feel like sometimes you are a little bit disrespectful. You just don't realize it.
>> I asked you the people date 100 years ago and you got disrespectful. And I'm going tell you right now, y'all's generation, my generation is the last generation of men that was raised tradition, these young guys, y'all know. Anyway, that smart mouth gets dealt with sooner or later. Gets dealt with sooner later. And most of you are dealt with it by yourself. Better stop talking to men like they're crazy because you talk to men like you want to smoke. Some guy just may decide to smoke it up with you. Then you'll be, "Oh, what happened? Now, back to the conversation. A hundred or so years ago, did people date or how long did they date?
>> I don't think they dated for
>> for a long time
>> because because and I would say like I would say I don't know because like the woman had to get out the house at like 16. So, about how long? Okay, I get it. About how long?
>> I don't know. I really don't know. I don't think a long time.
>> Just guess.
>> A few weeks, a few months.
>> Thank you. They didn't date. People picked for whatever reason they picked. So, we got people dating today two, three, five, 10 years and not getting on with life and then wondering why they're still getting high school outcomes when you still dating like high schools. Dating is dumb.
>> Wow. Okay.
>> But dating, so we're talking about all this other stuff. But you got out of the house because you went from your father's house or your parents house to your husband's house because you were trained and you knew what the kind of you knew what was expected of a wife. Today, you don't even know what's expected of a woman, much less than a wife. That's why I'm asking.
>> Well, were they happy? Eventually, they didn't. They weren't happy and then they got a divorce. That's what they kept. That's what Tyler Perry and them keep telling you is these women weren't happy. That's a color purple waiting to exhale and all these [ __ ] ass narratives keep telling you. Yeah, women in those 50-year marriages weren't happy. My grandmother was happy. She was happy. She had a husband, Jesus, and her family. And her mother was happy. The black community was better back before Jim Crow, segregation, slave, and all that other kind of stuff because we had families. Women today are not happier. You're just single. You're just single and you're not making enough money to live this hot girl summer or whatever. Whatever. It's not working. You're 21. You're 27.
>> Yeah, but I'm in school.
>> Okay. But you're but you're younger than 27. Miss 27 years old. Do you want to be married one day?
>> Yes, I do.
>> Okay. Let's say you're 55 years old. Let's just say for some reason you're 55. you never got married, never had any kids,
>> huh? What would life look like socially?
>> For me socially,
>> um, it would be sad because all of my friends, all my co-workers have families.
>> So,
>> how long was your last relationship?
>> How long was my last relationship?
>> When was it?
>> When was it?
>> Mhm.
>> Um, we broke up in October.
>> How long was that relationship? Uh, a year and some change.
>> Okay. By what age would you like to be married?
>> Um, 30.
>> How many kids would you like to have?
>> One.
>> Why just one child?
>> It is right now it's like you know the economy I don't know. I think one is safe. Is that a healthy way to raise a child?
>> No. But I I just God forbid if the if the man leaves, then what I'm going to do?
>> Men don't leave. Y'all do. I just proved that several times over. Women always women make mating decisions based upon our bad behavior. And you're the ones that act badly. You're the ones that lead. You're the ones that wreck the family. You're the ones that wreck the home. You're the ones that wreck the kids. the facts and one kid. China has a one child policy and it's crippling the country now. They're telling people, "Oh, we need at least three kids. One child. I was raised with only child." It's a horrible thing to do. But I want you to understand how selfish your decisions are. One kid because it's best for you. That's what That's what my
>> What should her response been?
>> Say again.
>> I said, "What what would what should her response have been?"
>> Yeah.
>> Is a family one child?
>> Yeah. A family could be one child.
>> No, it's not.
>> Well, including
>> Ask anybody who was Ask anybody who was raised as an only child and they would tell you there's a hole there. It is not a family. A family is at least two kids, preferably three. We need
>> So, how do you feel about people that have three children and can't afford to raise three children?
>> You live at your means. Your grandmother and your great-grandmother had more kids or less money. You stop living like you got Do that again. That [ __ ] costs money.
>> I know. That's why I should have one kid.
>> See what I mean? See? See what I mean?
>> Selfishness of modern women.
>> You laugh because even you even you knew you even knew even at 21. You're like, "God damn, don't say that, girl."
>> But that's that's that's real.
>> Y'all are too adored to be so broke.
>> No, because All right. one. I mean, I feel like after two after two kids, that would be it for personally me because three kids is crazy. I really feel like you should be making 300K with three kids.
>> What'd you go to school for?
>> I went to school for computer engineering.
>> Are you making over six figures?
>> No.
>> Over 80?
>> I make just just at 80. So in other words, in order to have more children. So my thing is why do women in 20 why do women in 2022 want to live a life of high value? Because 350 is the number. Listen,
>> why do you need to have so much money to have kids today when women 100 years ago with barely fifth and sixth grade educations had more children with less money?
>> The economy.
>> Yeah. And then I just told you that I make the
>> economy
>> the gas prices and that's not enough money right now.
>> You can go to the Hispanic community and tell me uh they make less than the black community and they got more kids and they taking over the black side of town. It's not the economy. It's because you ladies spend outside of your means. Those eyelashes your 21 years old and your face is beat to the gods. When I was in college, women only put that kind of [ __ ] on for holiday parties. They didn't have it on on Tuesday night just because
>> young lady that was only done for something like a glamour shot that that's not even functional and that cost money
>> somewhere.
>> Do what now?
>> I said I've actually somewhere earlier today.
>> But my but you get the point whether you or not. I get
I get what you're saying. Women today spend too much money, and then women talk about you want to have children based on money. You want to pick men based on money. And guess what men hear when you say, "I think you're gonna have three kids, you need to make at least 300k." Uh, you know how many men would say something about your delivery? But that's just truth for you now, isn't it?
See, y'all don't have any problem telling men anything. But my thing is this: a man making $250,000 or more, uh, what is he going to want from a woman? A wife. Me to do everything? Sure. Um, me to do everything. What does that mean? I can't have an attitude where I can't listen to him if he's making that much. Oh, but he's making less. You keep— Yes. I can't believe— I'm being honest. You said it because that's the truth. Yeah, I'm being honest. I was trying to say— That's why I said dying alone is the truth, too. Because you're outside of your budget. And then you think a man who's making less has to tolerate this. Many gonna have to tolerate this. You said you're, on a scale from one to 10, you can't use seven. What would you rank your your face? Just your face. Fresh face out. Um, I think I'm a seven. I said you cannot use seven. Oh, I can't use seven. I'm an eight. So you're up there with Beyoncé. Well, don't— I don't want to compare myself to Beyoncé. I want to compare myself. Huh? That's what's in the eight category. Beyoncé. Okay. Well, give me a give me a six. Give me a six then. I'll be a six. I don't want to compare myself to Beyoncé, but I'll be a six. But before I said Beyoncé, you said I'm an eight. That's two steps away from the top. I need you to think about what I'm saying. Computer engineer. If you thought yourself two steps from the top, that's 20% of women. Do you have— Have you ever modeled? Not fashion, though. Print modeling? No, just like urban hood stuff. That counts to put yourself in an eight? That's an elite category. I, I think I got elite features. Yeah. I want you to go back to that woman that was before her and she said she was a nine. See, the problem is you've already shown that you just like the other woman, y'all rank yourselves high. You're a five, six. Hell no. Okay. You said consultant. Nah. Professional image consultant opinion. So Beyoncé, no. Ma'am. Ma'am, what about your features make you pretty, beautiful, or gorgeous? Okay, I have nice eyes. See, they're a little slanted. I have beautiful skin. Beauty mark. God don't give no beauty mark to nobody if they're not beautiful. Teeth popping. Nose. I got a nice nose. Eyebrows lit. Hair. You're average. No, I'm not. Then I got the dimples. Ma'am. Why is today average? Is confidence matter, ma'am? See, you ladies want men to value all this stuff. And I'mma let you know that don't matter. If people aren't coming to you to say, "Oh, we need to put you on the cover of this magazine or this article or in this movie." That's what a woman who's an eight, Beyoncé. Okay, but they got talent. Diane Carol. These kind of women, women who are just— No, ma'am, they don't. Chariss got talent. Excuse me. Chariss the run had no talent. She was screaming at a bank teller in Bank of America, but she looked so nice that they made her into a star. That's not how this works. I've worked with people who who actually source models and they would tell you, "No, you're not an eight." And telling you you're average shouldn't be an insult. You're you're five feet tall, 140 pounds. Say you're 5'6". Trying to give you the benefit of the doubt, but you but you're an average cute. You could be cute, but ain't nobody going to mistake you, sweetie. Kelly, Rihanna, all in the same thing. There's a difference. And I didn't get to answer the question. Men who are making that quarter of a million dollars or more, will they typically marry average women, average-looking women off? No. Nowadays, can can I off rip? Off rip. They just marry average women off rip. Not all the time. No. But listen, listen. Can I tell you one thing? Nobody in this world is ugly. Nobody. They just don't have enough money to fix it. Cuz whatever you say, only thing that I can't buy is height. Well, I could buy height cuz on with heels I'm 5'6". You see what I'm saying? So it's like I don't believe that. That's why when you come— I don't give a [ __ ] what you believe. And the fact that you're this foolish to say that no one in this world is ugly shows how far we've come. There are plenty of people in this world that are ugly. That they are they ugly or are they broke? Either one. It's still the same. See, today women don't want any standards. You want pretty, beautiful, or gorgeous women. And these women over here just be fixed. You ain't got— It doesn't matter. It matters to us men. That's why I said fresh face out of the shower. All the confident [ __ ] that you ladies pop is laughable to us. We don't care. Y'all sound to the male mind. Y'all sound zip damn crazy cuz we're still saying you can pop all that [ __ ] You're still a five. And you get five outcomes. Men off rip making a quarter of a million dollars a year or more do not marry average women once they're making that kind of money. If you want a man like that, you better get him when he's younger. But you're 27 years old. I'm running out of time. So time is against you. And then you want to have money on a certain level. So, this is one thing that I don't seem to realize is women don't seem to understand the time and the sense of urgency. I was so busy telling us about the the tone. If I didn't use my tone or my delivery, I wouldn't have had your attention or your attention to tell you you need to make a difference. So, let's understand what the kind of man you want wants on a woman and ask yourself, can you do that? But today men want, especially the higher level men want femininity. I am girly. That's not femininity. You're masculine. You've been so argumentative and combative even though you haven't cursed a lot. It's just your nature to the smart the sass. That's not femin— Yeah. I think I'm just sassy. But I don't think I'm— The sassy ain't femininity. It's not femininity. Okay. That's why I did it on YouTube. They men aren't going to handle that. So y'all like— So y'all like— There's a difference between. There's a difference between a wife and everything else. What should we do? If you get if you have mothers that were married, you should go ask your mother, "Why did you not teach me how to be a wife?" Why did you not sassier than me? You ask the question. You go ask yourself, "Why did you not teach me to be a wife? What do I need to do for a man? How do I keep a man? Not how do I get a man, how do I keep him?" Does that sound like how most women talk today? Huh? Does it sound like how most women talk today? No, I don't ask those questions. Well, and you got to think about it. Well, then how are you expect to get the knowledge that you would need to get the outcome you want? Well, I actually instead of asking my mom, I actually asked my dad and he was just like, um, basically to follow through with the man's vision. So whatever he's whatever his v— if if his vision correlates with your vision or even if you guys can grow into a vision together. Well, because I felt like he— I mean, he married her. So. So if you wanted to learn how to cook and your mom was a cook, you'd ask your dad because he ate the food. Well, I mean, think about the logic. If you want to learn how to cook and your mom was a cook, you'd ask your dad cuz he ate the food. Right? The fact that you ladies can't even go to your mothers is a problem. I did. You shouldn't have to go to your mothers. The read the the women of the village are supposed to teach the girls how to be wise, how to work with the men. But y'all don't have the relationship to where you can go to your mother or feel like you get there. Hey, how are you? You just showed up. Your name is what? Jess. Yeah. I get everything you're saying cuz How old are you? How old are you? Me? I'm 37. All right. Um, so you were saying you agree with the things I'm saying? No, I agree with a lot what you're saying, but I get what the girls are saying too because it's like, like you wouldn't tell your daughter that advice that you know, like you wouldn't tell your daughter like, "Hey, put up with this [ __ ] He got money or whatever." Whatever. You know what I'm saying? Like you would— I have a daughter. Don't tell me what I would not tell my daughter. I, I absolutely— You're going to tell your daughter like, put up with this [ __ ] I tell my my daughter watches my content. But you know what? Like cuz my Okay, hold on. Stop right here. Why is it always "put up with his [ __ ]"? We put up with your [ __ ] What? You women today are out of order. Do Do you know what action reaction? I do agree with him on that part though. I, I do agree women are— Out of order. Let me ask, and instead of you asking me a question, you're immediately going to go to tell me why I'm wrong. No, no, but listen. Like, Okay. Before we get there, before we get there, are you married? Me? No. But I've been in like the same relationship for— 19 children. Children? Yes. How many children? And you came in saying you're a traditional woman? I would say so because like, um, like this doesn't mean anything to anybody else, but like out of my whole family, I was the only one out of to have kids out of wedlock and you know what I mean? get married. And date outside of my race as well. Why didn't you get married? Why did you get married? Why didn't you get Why didn't you get married? Cuz people be acting up because we're busy fighting then planning a wedding. How many kids do you have? Who? Me or him? You. Oh, us two together, too. So, remember what I said about women complaining about men's behavior, but then you decide to make babies before you be become a wife, right? I'm sorry. A become a wife first. No, I get it. But, you know, life happens and you know when you're in love and— This is exactly what you said, 27, right? 27 and that what you just said 31. Life happens. Life doesn't happen. Grown 37-year-old. So, life doesn't just happen, ma'am. Ma'am, you're right. But not everyone bonheaded like you. Like, [ __ ] this [ __ ] I don't know why I have kids with her, but I made her. No. The problem, this is why I don't This is why I don't tend to deal with women over 35. It's because you guys know all the mistakes, but instead of keep humbling yourself and saying something different to the younger women, y'all double down to validate your lives. No, I, I get what you're saying because you know what? My mom said things happen. What do you mean? What do you mean things happen? What do you mean things happen? Life happens. No, life happens. Like, say, let's just say you was go to a bar or you meet someone beautiful and you guys vibe, you had a great time. Like, let's not act like accidents don't happen. And this is not my situation at all. But— What do you mean accidents? You mean sex? Whatever. And you really— Mean sex? You mean sex? Yes. It's called a condom. You already know. I need a stranger and I'm going to put I'mma put my— I'm going to put my precious inside of your suspect vagina without a condom. My precious dick. My precious seed. I protect it. Okay, but that's your mind. Like you should protect your precious wound. You're right though. But that's true. Then there is no accident, ma'am. That's true. Cuz you're a responsible individual that thinks— Because I'm a grownup. Cuz I'm a grownup and I don't want HIV, AIDS. I don't want any other things to come along with that. Or children. And I'm tired of hearing grown women talk about accidents happen. You know how many steps it has to take from meeting somebody to having sex? There are thousands of steps in between. I get what you're saying, but— The "but" right there in the mouth of females is a problem. Notice how or whenever Kevin Samuels tries to corner these women and they kind of realize that, okay, whatever he's saying is true, they kind of like, "I kind of get it, but" or "I understand, but" the "but" right there is a problem. The "but" right there, whenever you say "but," whatever that follows the "but" is [ __ ] right? This is a lady and let me just say something. Often times when these women call in, they come to prove why Kevin Samuels is right than wrong. He often talks of women over 30 years being difficult, right? And this lady has proven that because she's non-agreeable and most of the things that comes with women that are over 45 years old that 35 years old, sorry, that makes them unpleasant to marry. This lady has just proven it. Like she will kind of hear what Kevin Samuels is saying makes sense and she'll decide to bring back, "How about I made a mistake and yes, it is a very bad situation for me to put myself in and I kind of want younger girls that are yet to grow up and make decisions try to, you know, avoid these type of mistakes." But you're going to make it look like it's a mistake. How do you accidentally have I have sex with someone? I mean, make it make sense. And Kevin Samuels is talking about thousands of steps involved in you getting to have sex with someone. All those steps being put in place for you to make a mistake at the end. You don't even think of like protecting yourself. Like you can never like make this make sense to me. You know, by all falls on the women because at the end of the day, if you have reproduced with this guy, it doesn't really hurt him that much because for him finding a woman with kids, it's not it's not problematic to him. Like he can have kids with someone and still can get a woman that haven't reproduced and will still have standards saying, "I don't want a woman that has reproduced." And he's definitely going to get it because we give out marriage. But you collecting marriage from men, you cannot have the same standards saying, "Hey, I got two kids, but I'm demanding this this this from a man." It hurts you women and it falls on you to correct these things. It falls on you not to make quote unquote mistakes when it comes to these type of situations. How do you, I mean, make a mistake having sex with someone? You know, you should wear condoms or take pills and all these things. Let's say you've forgotten to wear a condom, right? You as a lady, you forgot to make the guy wear a condom. How about a pill? Or you saying you also forgot to take the pill? That makes you irresponsible. That's just how I'm going to put it. There is no excuse to if you I mean having to have kids with someone else, it's just foolishness. It's you just not being responsible or trying to just take accountability for what has happened to your life. Let's continue with the counter guys. But these type of women, you got to avoid them by all means.
So, how for example, Sierra happened? She she has a a beautiful relationship. So how does it? So when people had a baby talking through me? How does it happen the second time? What do you mean? There's one kid and there's two. Cuz you know, you know, you know, you be holding on and having fun and you're like, and you know, women, we like to like make our man happy and when you get pregnant again, you're like— I don't have a problem with you making your husband happy. But I'm not going to lie. But he's not your husband. He's not your husband. No matter what, ma'am. No matter what. Women like yourself who are unmarried still don't have that security that the married version of yourself would have. And there's no there's no way to make it be more secure. When DMX died, his baby mama of years was left out in the cold. Y'all know better, but modern women today are rebelling against what it is that's always protected you. Structure. Yeah, I get what you're saying. But but not everyone is as strong-minded as you to like play out the part as it should be as a mother looking at my daughter or whatever. You know, you get what I'm saying or no? No, I don't. I— Should though because people including myself, excuse me. I look at people today like and myself included say how [ __ ] weak we are. The previous generation survived World War II, the Vietnam War, polio, smallpox, the influenza. They Great Depression, the dust. They had real [ __ ] problems. It's true. But we we ain't in that era, though. No, we're not. Today, we allow women to just do what you're doing. Every I want you to understand this is why you young ladies don't get the information because women in her age group are still— You understand? And it's instead of saying, "You know what, young ladies, if I were your age, I would not have done this because I've learned this." But they're still trying to because they're still out here. And all I'm doing is I'm talking to 24, 21, 7, 37. And I'm talking to all unmarried women. 70 years ago, you all would have been married. There's a lot of like there's a lot of single thirsty women out here these days. Like it's seven to one these days. Like— But you got one man with two babies and no ring. Why not just make— I have a ring, but we just didn't get married. But why not? Okay. I'm saying, why not finish the family and get out and get on down the line? You know why? Because because men they do things and action reaction. You you know, you understand what I mean? Yeah. What I want you to hear is— So you want me to just like— Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. You can't— Keep [ __ ] on me. No, no, I'm see, I'm talking, I'm talking right now. Action reaction leaves you with no accountability. Mean all you have is to react. Okay. So, what about mother? You're a grown mother of two. You're a grown mother of two. You have the ability to be accountable and make your own actions. That's true. Ladies, and this is what I want to tell you. This is where this single independent mindset, it teaches you how not to couple or pick men who give you action reaction. Ma'am, you're an attractive woman. You had plenty of suitable men. Why did you pick one that has action reaction? Why'd you pick the boring guy? I mean, I mean, he's not boring. He's almost too excited. Why didn't you choose? Why didn't you pick the guy who wanted to do the traditional thing like you said you were raised? Because life doesn't happen that way. It's not a movie. You see? So 21 and 27. Do you see why I say it's not the men, it's the women? This is the women that they're older and they're supposed to be teaching you, but they're still acting like they're your age. Yeah. If I if I blank this screen out and and and digitally transform the voices, they would think you were all about the same age. And I'm not saying that's an insult. I'm just saying there's supposed to be a difference between 21 and 37. Right? But there's not. Cuz like the things that you say, I, I really wish like some of the things you say, some of the [ __ ] I'd be like, "Calm down." But but I'm like, "I wish someone told me that when I was young so I would know better to do." That's why I'm listening now. You mean you know what I want and nobody told me. Even though you may not agree with him, like, like it is what it is and is keeping it real. Here's what I, here's what I want. Here's what I want because no one told me these things either, or else I wouldn't be divorced. Like I want, but here's what I want. I want women in your position to go tell the younger women so they don't have to worry about me and my tone and my delivery. You guys are supposed to be telling them this, not me. Because with me, they got to worry about the tone and this and that versus just get the right information. But they listen more because you're a man, too. And you're not. So, but can I ask you a question? So, who is going to tell the men not to cheat on us? Well, sweetheart, u— I have bad news for you. Women and men cheat roughly at the same rates. A matter of fact, younger women cheat at exponentially high rates. And this has been documented. Google it yourself. Let me go ahead and pull it up for you. Um, see, this is all [ __ ] Y'all believe— Because that's my problem. I'm not gonna stay with somebody that keeps cheating on me. Uh-huh. But you— Can only get you as a question. Men and women cheat at the same rates. Who's cheating on who? They're both cheating on each other. Well, he keeps getting caught. So— To me, I just have a problem like like y'all said like the I feel like I mean, I feel like no man should cheat at all, but it it's the ones that don't have nothing that's doing all the disrespect and the cheating and they don't have— 28 to 24%. Men cheat at a 28% rate. Women cheat at a 24% rate. But here's the funny thing. Women talk about cheating like it's nine to one. When women cheat, we cheat with emotions. When men cheat, it just be like, "Fuck." No, you cheat with your vagina, too. No, but when it doesn't matter with our emotions. But do men and women talk about Do men do men talk about a fear of cheating like women do? So, can I ask you a question? You want us to first? Do men talk about Yeah, but what if she cheats? Like women talk about that. No, they don't. But if and if it's almost the same, what's the difference? Y'all are being told that something happens that doesn't. Y'all women cheat at higher almost higher rates now. So, do you want all three of us to marry cheaters? Oh, that's what you're saying. If he— If he cheating on us, do you want us to marry them still? Poor thing. See, this is what I mean. Y'all, this is important. Listen, all three of you guys, maybe the 21. This is why I don't want you watching that stuff. That why did I get married? Because at a certain point, your mind becomes so warped by this propaganda. All you can see is relationships in negative terms, worried about [ __ ] that ain't happening in global in mass. Eight out of 10 children in the black community are born to single mothers. One out of four black women will get married. That's one. But that one woman, the marriage tends to last five years. And if that marriage is divorced at the 75% rate, eight out of 10 times it's you walking away with the kids. So, who should we be concerned about relationships and marriage? According to the numbers, men should be the ones. I get WHAT YOU'RE SAYING. NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT. NO, I get— I don't I don't want this not a time to This is not a time to combat. There's nothing you can say that's going to overcome this. Stop. Stop. There's nothing you're going to say that's going to overcome this. You guys talk about relationships is in negative terms and you guys are the ones that wreck stuff by the numbers. I beg to differ. Ma'am, unless you got better. I don't want ma'am. Before you say something, ma'am, unless you're coming with facts, data, statistics, I don't want to hear it on this. Okay, but listen, unless you're coming with— Statistics does not everyone's I don't want to hear it on this. I don't want to hear it on this one. Can I give you a name? I don't want to hear it. I don't want to hear it. We've heard this [ __ ] too much. Shut it up, please. We've heard women like you tell this [ __ ] propaganda lie too much. That's what's confusing these young girls. This is the problem. I tell you not to listen to women her age and older because they're the ones warping you, not men. You still want to say, "Do you have better data, ma'am?" Yeah, you make sense, but you don't get the— Do you make Do you have better data? I don't have no data. Then if you don't have data, why are you still talking about this issue? If you don't have better data, why are you trying to make a different point? Because not everyone's story is the same. I don't give a [ __ ] You don't give a [ __ ] But they're living their life. All right. I've told you you're not trying. We're not doing this. This is the problem. Young ladies, I want you to understand these older women are so concerned with you feeling their pain, with you understanding that accidents happen. It's not always this way that they're not teaching you. See, she knows what she doing, but she wants she wants to tell you her story so much. And then you guys get caught in between and there not enough men who can't speak. You hear more women like her talking than men like me. They throw me. This is your problem right here. Women who say they know better, but they still want to tell you. Now, that's all not all the same. And we need to figure out every snowflake. Ma'am, you look at the Do you look at these women's faces when you're talking? They're looking at you the same way. You're not getting it. No, I know what you mean, but you know what I mean. You know, I know what you mean, but I don't know if you know what I mean. Relationships. The older cousins, the aunties, the women who have made the mistakes aren't humble enough to remove themselves from the story. Whatever happened happened. Tell tell the women tell these young women what they should do. How about that? I'm gonna step back. I'mma tell I'mma step back. You tell them what they should do. I don't know what I should do because I don't have my stuff together. But I will be honest and say that my mom, she's amazing and smart. No, no, no, ma'am. I only ask you one thing. To tell these young women what they should do to be ha to live a life to be happy. Tell them how to do that. Pardon me. Tell them how to do that. By just living off what you feel, I would like to say, but really not. Well, the first thing she said is, "I can't tell you how to do that." Yet, she still But she's still trying to overtalk me and still want to be heard. And then when I let you talk, she's got nothing for you. Just go on how you feel. That's what got you where you are. Got me where I am. That's what I mean. This is the problem, young ladies. I want you guys to see this is not necessarily a black thing. This is the modern woman thing. You got two young women who are trying to learn and you should be able to tell them something different. So you get you, this is why I say all you got is me. So you got to put up with my tone because at least I'm trying to tell you something. I come with facts, data, statistics. I don't come with this [ __ ] that most women are coming with. Well, you know, [ __ ] just happens. Live life. At least I give you something that you can research to think about. The women failed you guys, not the men. The woman failed us and not the men. You women failed these young women. Yes. I'm I'll ask you again. Tell these women who are 10 to 17, 10 to 16 years younger than you what they should do to get a different outcome than you. I would say just think before you speak because I really don't sometimes. and do what makes you happy because this is only one life and that's all I got to say because and like I was saying before that my mom taught me and I never listened or thought about it till it panned out in my life. She was like, like you need to like pick your battles. You know what I mean? Like you know how when people get you mad and get you upset and if you nitpick and [ __ ] and complain about every single thing like you're just going to [ __ ] [ __ ] up. You know what I mean? Like mess stuff up. You know what I mean? And she was like, sometimes like, you know, you ain't going nowhere and you know you love this man and whatever like you need to calm down and relax and not mess it up because you're not going anywhere because you love him and you're not going anywhere. But I'm not saying like, hey, like like disrespect me. But she was saying that to me and I never understood it till I got a little older. So 21. So 21. Did that help you in any way? Pardon me. I couldn't hear you. Um, I think what she's saying is, um, just try not, a lot of women are impulsive, and I feel like she's saying to not be so impulsive is to actually think through your decisions before you actually make them and try not to involve. Is that what you Is that what you Okay. I tried to dissect a little bit of some ising your facial expressions and it's not making any sense. It's not connecting. And again, the whole thing about "do what makes you happy" is the problem. Happiness, ma'am. What makes you happy is what children do. It's time to grow up. You need to do what's right. Do what's practical like grownups. Stop. You are letting you speak. get out of this. I need to do what makes me happy and live my own life. This ethereal liberal [ __ ] You only got one way around it. That is amazingly shortsighted and selfish. So you can say that and then turn around and say that your mother showed you something, but at the end you did what your ass wanted to do because it's all about you. And that's the problem with today's women. That is everybody but them. Like we don't want to hear that, but you're telling the truth. Yeah. Have a good one. Appreciate it. Modern women is become it's it's here's the biggest difference. I appreciate this. Ladies, I want you to have a life. The women I date are educated. I don't deal with dumb women. I deal with women have something to lose. But the difference between now and back in the day is we had lives that were just bigger than our individual wants. We had a family that we had to make look good. A neighborhood, a community, a church. It wasn't just about our own personal individual happiness. That makes an incred— That doesn't work. So, I appreciate you guys tuning in. Uh, I think this is actually pretty good video. Pretty good show. Um, have a good one. Tune in tomorrow night. Bye-bye. And guys, that brings us to the end of today's video. Thanks for watching. More respect on the legend Kevin Samuels. I think this guy was fantastic with his content and his concept. And let's be honest, right, having women like this, let's not forget the video was consist of four women with himself. And isn't it interesting that the young lady among these women was the one that was kind of like pleasant throughout the conversation or will I say kind of I would say half sense in a sense, right? Because her point she made, I think the only thing that she has problem with is you criticize on her. She don't know how to handle criticism, to be honest. Like, let's keep it all stuck. But I think she's the one that is able to, the only one that is able to, I mean, understand whatever Kevin Samuels is saying. And you see sometimes it punishes her the points these women try to make when Kevin Samuels was talking about the fingernails and the lady said, "This comes with me." Talking of, "Oh, will you avoid that to be able to use that as a support to raise case?" That was what Kevin Samuels was trying to imply at that moment, right? Because he said it costs money and we all know that it costs money. And she said it counts with her. The young lady was laughing because it doesn't make sense for you to put these things on to avoid having an extra kid to make it two kids or three kids, whatever the case is. She's 21 and she's able to navigate these things and understand these things very well. And I think she's more logical than the rest of them. Though, like I said, she has a problem, you know, taking accountability or, you know, being criticized, right? I don't even think that she has a problem with accountability. She just don't know how to handle criticism. That's how I'll put it. Because of that. If a lady is fat and you have to tell her, "Oh, she looks a little bit oversized and unhealthy and all this." No. Is she fat? Yes. Saying she's fat, is that an insult? The answer is no. And saying that these women sees themselves every day and they know that they're fat is not news to them. They know that people are going to talk about it. So if they are not proud of it, they would have changed it. I think I'm just giving my piece. And talking of if a man is broke and the lady happen to tell him he's broke, that's to better that man, right? Means the man hearing that will have to try to change the fact that he's broke, right? That is what is making the man a better person. So what of a woman that is fat and you telling her that she's fat? It's also the same thing. You are telling her she's fat so that she will lose weight and become in shape. So the outcome is going to be the same. But it's just the fact that they feel very bad. They feel the way hearing that they f— or something like that. And it's almost to me like it's not the specific person in the videos that only feel bad. It's just women. Women just don't want to hear you criticize another woman for being fat. That's what it seems to me. And how do we get somewhere if we cannot call things what they are? I mean, how do we get somewhere with that mentality? Then always focusing on the negative or what is going to disqualify black men for marriage. Anytime he would talk about them getting married or something like that, they always run to what is going to disqualify black men or men in general from marrying because he talks of, "Oh, they should do things that are right." And the 27-year-old runs towards saying, "Oh, so men should just cheat on them." So they always wanting to magnify and amplify what their reason is for not marrying or something like that. But at the end of the day, if you are not married, it's harming you. It's not harming anybody. Though it's harming the community in general, but it's also, you know, you go online, TikTok, you see women crying day in and day out because they're single and often times to some cry because they've made a mistake by getting divorced or something like that. Do what is right for the community and for the human beings that are that are around you. Don't just do it just because I feel like this. The older woman is having two kids and still not married because of "I want to be happy." If you're a lady and you prioritize your happiness, whatever you do is just about "I want to be happy" and all that, then you can't get married because marriage in the first place is not about happiness. It's not a place of happiness. Right? Though you can be happy, but the place of being happy. Oh, I'm happy. No, no, no. You are two people coexisting from different backgrounds and with different upbringing and all that. So the things you believe in are going to be certain things that are going to be irritating towards the other person you're living with. And that is why you cannot be happy because you are coming from different backgrounds, different probably different ethnicity with different upbringing. So there are things that you were raised to believe that that the opposite person might not believe in. And the same way he also believes in something that you wouldn't believe in. So I mean, it's going to always be there is always going to be problems, you know, but hey, you have to be adults, hash it out, you know, keep it moving. That is marriage. It's not a place of you know, always being happy. No, no, no, no, no, no. You can be fulfilled as a human being married. That is something we can guarantee you almost, especially women, because you get your husband, someone to take his last name, right? And also you have kids. So that is something we can guarantee you. But happiness of what you women call happiness. No, we can't guarantee you that. And that is the reason why the 37-year-old lady is having two kids and still not married and she haven't learned anything that is going to change her mind into getting a man to commit to her. Guys, thanks for checking in. If you enjoy the content, make sure you subscribe to the channel. Stay tuned. Catch you in the next one. I'm out. Peace.