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Are you not tired of being overlooked? Are you not tired of walking somewhere and literally no one looks at you because you are just plain, you're just average, you're one of the average people? I will, in this video, show you how to stop being ugly. I'm not saying any of you are ugly; I'm just saying how to glow up and how to look better than the average person.
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Let's get started. First things first: you are not ugly, you're just boring to look at. See, I was watching this podcast from this rapper, and he was interviewing this, uh, interviewer, and she has like these kind of jokes back and forth, and she goes like, "Would you ever date me?" And then he looked at her; he's like, "No," he's like, "You're plain, you're average-looking," he's like, "You have to spice up your look." And I know it was like a joke and stuff, but that really made me realize it's true. If you look at celebrities and why we find them so mesmerizing, it's because they're four hours into makeup; they have all these costumes, stylists, hair done, best hair people, all these things, right? They put so much effort into their looks. But if we take away a lot of these things from these celebrities—their makeup, all these things—when they're walking outside, you will not look even twice at them; they look average. But with all the extra things, they just look better than the average person. Anyone that stands out, even if they have like this weird clothing style, even if it doesn't fit like society standards, anyone that stands out will be more attractive than the average person, because you make us feel something. People get just bored of seeing the same faces every day, so when there's someone that stands out, you look back at them like, "Oh my God, wow!" You know, it's like a surprise. We have to figure out, okay, how do we elevate this look? The base is good; how do we just make it more interesting to look at?
First thing you need to realize is your face shape. Okay, what kind of face shape do you have? I have a long face, that's, o, like oval. Okay, I have very high cheekbones, and my face is just oval. So for me, hairstyles like these look very nice—just flat, straight hair, right? Or if I would cut it a bob, it will also look very beautiful. Now I have, for example, my sister; she has more—her jaw is very like Angelina Jolie, and she also has high cheekbones, but she has like more a diamond-shaped face. Her face would look better with layers, so she looks better with layers and like back, so more volume in the hair. The thing is, you need to understand what hair color suits you the best. So, for example, my original hair color is not black; my original hair color is like the wood behind me, and it's like the same as my eyes; it suits my eyes very nicely; it's very beautiful. But I feel like black makes me stand out more and it differentiates me, kind of, also because I'm very pale. Black hair, and then I have like orange kind of eyes, you know, it's a it's a weird mix. And my sister, for example, her natural hair color is black—it's so, so black—but then she used to color it blonde, and she looks so much better blonde than her original hair color because when she has black hair, she looks very intimidating, so it doesn't work for everyone. So you need to figure out, okay, what is the hair color that looks best on me? Sometimes your natural hair color looks the best on you, but sometimes trying something else will make you stand out.
You also need to understand your color palette. So your color palette is basically the predominant color of you and your body, right? So, for example, if you hold your hands up, look at your veins here; what veins are more predominant? So, for example, mine are more blue; the blue ones are more predominant. So that means I'm a cool-tone color palette. This will determine the kind of clothes I wear, the colors of clothes I wear, even the hair color that fits me the best and the jewelry that fits me the best. Have more red or yellow veins that are prominent, then you are probably a warm skin tone. So then you have to look at gold jewelry, uh, certain colors that you that look beautiful on you and will not look that great on me. For example, if I go for a nude color, it washes me out; I cannot wear nude. Like, for example, black or, um, pink is very beautiful on me. You have to look up your color palette and and start to understand the color palette. Your clothing style can make you 80% more attractive. See, the thing is, imagine you have a very plain face, whatever; how you express yourself in your clothes will make you more attractive, like insanely. And the key here is do not adapt a clothing style that you do not feel comfortable in. The worst thing to see is someone that is just adapting a feminine clothing style, but it doesn't look good on them because you can tell they're not comfortable; they're walking in heels and they're not comfortable. Do not do this if that's not what you feel comfortable in. What you feel comfortable in and the style that you like is what will give you the most confidence, and confidence is also what will make you attractive. See, you can have the most beautiful face, yeah, but if you don't have confidence backing up that face, you will not be beautiful or attractive to anyone. So your style has to fit your body type, so you have to look at what kind of body type you have; that's also all on the internet; you can look at it and you can be like, what looks the best on me? Because certain clothes don't fit certain body types. I love tomboy clothing style; uh, I like to dress feminine as well; it's like a whole mix, you know? My wardrobe is very casual, but I always make sure it's kind of basic, but it looks clean and nice. I feel like that's my style, and when I go out in the evening, I dress it up a little more, but also not over the top because I never want to overshadow my beautiful face.
Another thing is eyebrows. Eyebrows are very important. Why are eyebrows important? Because eyebrows are literally on our face, and we use our expressions with our eyebrows. Okay, um, eyebrows also accentuate your eye shape. So for me, I had like two years ago, I had like very bushy eyebrows; I used to not pluck them; I let them grow, and then underneath that I had microblading, so they were so black and big, and they used to make my eyes look so small, and I looked more masculine. I made them like skinnier now because I like this look, and this accentuates my eyes the best. So you have to look at, okay, what will accentuate my eyes? On some people, skinny eyebrows are really ugly; it will age you; it will not look good on you. If you have different eyebrows, it can completely change your whole face shape. Have like an app on TikTok; they they show you what your best eyebrow shape looks like. You can go to an eyebrow lady that knows exactly how to make them symmetrical and nice, and this also—the biggest issue, yeah—if you don't have symmetrical eyebrows, that already can really ruin your face. So if if you if your face isn't symmetric to begin with, make sure your eyebrows are just symmetric; that will make a huge difference. You can use the inverted filter on TikTok and you can see if your eyebrows are the same or not.
It's plastic surgery. Am I against plastic surgery? No, absolutely not. Do I think like against the whole self-love movement? No, absolutely not. I know people that became more confident after plastic surgery, and I also know people that became more insecure after plastic surgery. You have to be very careful with the plastic surgery you do. I think the best kind of plastic surgery is the kind of surgery that keeps you guessing. I see a lot of people getting like nose jobs, all these things; I I think it's amazing for some people, but some people, you guys really don't need it. Like, I've seen a lot of people that have gotten nose jobs and regretted it and have to go again four or five times to fix their nose surgery again and again because either they have deviated septum, um, the nose is too up, um, the nose is not small enough; it's so many issues. Sometimes your original nose fits your face the best. So do your research before, and also make sure if you didn't have issues with your face before and you actually are like on the fence, don't do it just because it's a trend, because you might really ruin your face.
Other things: in order to be attractive, you have to look healthy. This is why people like people that have like nice skin, that look good like physically, have nice teeth; they like people that have nice hair, healthy hair, because we're all just looking at health in another person, and this is what healthy to us looks like. That's why I'm saying eating disorders are not good-looking. You might think like, okay, I'm going to starve myself, which I used to do; I looked literally scary—scary—and it was not even my body; it was my face as well. What is that? There's one thing with bulimia, which I had; your face will always be big and swollen if you look at people that are bulimic because they constantly throw up; this is constantly working here, and like your lymph nodes here swell up, so your whole cheeks are always swollen, so you always look swollen; your eyes are always puffy; it's really not a good look. You barely have hair; I barely had hair; all my hair fell out; I was literally like a skeleton. And you know why? I literally like got rid of my eating disorder because I looked at myself and I was like, "Wow, that's really ugly," actually. What you should do is you should make sure that you're toned, no matter at what weight, even if you're like a little bit bigger or or you're skinny, whatever; just make sure you have muscle, a little bit of muscle; like, train at home, even train some muscle. You know why? When you have muscle, your muscle burns calories without you not even doing anything. Like, for example, I I trained with my personal trainer; we created some apps; we we trained my butt, all these things, so I always have muscle. So now, even if I want to—I don't really gain weight anymore, and I eat every day; I literally eat like candy, chocolate; I eat all these things; sometimes I still don't gain weight because I have muscle that's automatically burning off my calories.
You have to have healthy hair. So, for example, what I use for my hair—I'm going to put it all up here—so I have this specific shampoo, specific conditioner, and I do hair masks once or twice a week. Okay, this is very important; most like people that have frizzy hair or wavy hair, you guys need specific shampoos for your hair type. Look up the best shampoos; try different shampoos and think, okay, which one is working for my hair? Which conditioner is best for my hair? A lot of women that actually have like, um, curly hair, and they just they they don't do the curly hair girl method, like nothing; they don't do these things, and then their hair just constantly looks frizzy; it's not a nice look. Look into, okay, what are the best products for curly hair? How can I like make my curls be healthy? And if you want to style your hair afterwards or make it straight, that's fine, but make sure your original hair is already healthy. So if you're balding, I have some—I'm going to also put the products up here that you can use that works for me—because basically when I had my ED, all my hair fell out, and I barely had any hair. So, um, these are the things that I used, and now what I actually use is collagen; I put a collagen scoop always in my tea. I will put up the collagen that I use, and literally it made my eyelashes grow; it—listen—these things make your hair grow everywhere. Okay, and as a girl that lasers her hair, that's not nice, okay, but it does help with like your head hair, which—your eyelashes—they'll be long. You know, the hair doesn't return everywhere, but like, for example, on the leg legs and stuff, it does.
Another thing is if you have dry eyes and your eyes easily get infected, you need eye drops that will hydrate your eyes, and you need to do it every morning and every night before you go to bed. I have that issue; I have very dry eyes, so I easily get like pink eye and infection, so then I always have to put like the drops, and and now it's much better, and it also whitens your eyes inside, so it's very nice. Take care of your lashes; your lashes are literally around your eyes; your lashes can make you 100 times more beautiful just because you have long lashes. So what I use is I always use lash conditioner, and I use also like this eyelash serum. I used to use like the popular ones before, but they made my—get me like dark under-eye circles, so I stopped using them. Now I use the ones that don't have prostaglandin or something in them that is much safer for your eyes. Another thing is eyelash lift; I always get my eyelashes lifted because I think it just looks better during the day, and it just looks like I have makeup on. Listen, guys, during the day, I rarely ever wear makeup; I literally don't. I will put eyelash conditioner on top, and uh, it looks like I have mascara on because I have my eyelashes lifted, and I put the eyelash conditioner on, and I walk out like that, and I put my lip gloss on, and that's it. And everyone always thinks I'm wearing makeup when I'm not.
It's skincare. See, I have very sensitive skin, and I have rosacea. Rosacea is an inflammation in your body. Read the book; I put the book up here; it's about rosacea. The basically how I found this book is there was this guy, he was on a podcast, and the other guy told him, "Oh my God, your skin is insane; it's so beautiful!" And he said, "I literally—" he's like, "I tried everything"—he's 40 now—"he's like, 'I tried everything for my skin and to make it better and all these things,' and he's like, 'But I was struggling with rosacea,' so then he was like, 'I read this book, and it completely changed my life.'" The book is basically about like what foods you you should eat with rosacea and all these things because this is an inflammatory problem; it is about the foods that will trigger your rosacea or different environments. For example, if I go into a sauna, I I will get like issues with rosacea, so I have to be really careful in hot environments. But my skincare is literally—I have gone back to the basics of the basics, honey. Like, I used to be that girl—so many expensive skincare, all these things, retinol and all these things; I can't; I can't; I literally do like—caveman now—to cleanse my face with soap, yeah, then I take like uh, this—I'll pull it up—then I take this cream and I put it on my face, and I also have an under-eye, uh, for dark circles. Oh my God, you guys, this one from Stratia—the under-eye—I've tried so many; this—the only one that works; I literally I stand by this. If this cream has one fan, it's me; if this cream has no fans, I have left this Earth. I will also use like a charcoal face mask like once a week or twice a week, like that you peel off, uh, to cleanse my pores, and I also have like a turmeric face mask that will that's also like cleansing. Oh, I have like a cold mask in the fridge, like it's just an ice pack, I think, yeah, a pack, and then I do that like sometimes to calm down my face, because especially if you have rosacea, it can flare up, so it's good to cool your face down.
A sleeping position and your sleep—listen, honey—I literally, years ago, and I'm talking about seven years ago, I saw this old lady, 65, yeah, and she had the most beautiful—I've ever seen—and literally the best skin I've ever seen. So I was like, "Oh my God," okay, she was making a video about that she sleeps on her back, that she doesn't move her face like around or she doesn't sleep on the sides. She said that's why she doesn't have wrinkles and that's why her eyes are still up like that, you know? And I started doing that ever since. I do not sleep on my sides; I sleep on my back, and I sleep a little elevated, you know? And I sleep on a silk pillowcase, and I also wear a silk cap to protect my hair because most of your hair damage comes from, um, from rubbing it whilst you're sleeping. So either you put it in a loose braid whilst you're sleeping or you put it in a silk cap to protect your hair. Anyway, so I sleep on my back, and literally, she's right; you don't get wrinkles; your face stays tight like this, and your eyes become less and less hooded. Sleep is so important. Oh my God, like sleep, you guys. During sleep, we heal; okay, during sleep, we heal; our body heals, and you you will look very bad—bad—if you don't sleep well. Whatever you need to do, I don't care if you need to go to the doctor, whatever; I don't care if you need to like find activities during the day to make you sleep better at night; I don't think—I don't care if you have to release things or stress or whatever so you are able to sleep at night, but you need sleep; you need sleep. If we don't sleep, we don't look good during the day, and it's actually very bad for our health.
The thing is hydration and food. I drink three liters of water a day religiously, yeah, ever since I've started doing that, because before I used to always always say, "Oh my God, I drink so much water," I didn't, okay, until I started drinking three liters a day; I was like, "Oh my God, my digestion became so fast," literally; um, I am more plumped, more more—I look more like brighter; even my eyes become lighter because I'm very hydrated, you know? And then also your food, you guys. Eat rubbish; you eat rubbish all day, and then you're like, "Why is my skin like this? Why am I puffy? Why is my face so like this?" Yeah, because look at the food you're eating. Do not eat processed foods that much; it's not—I'm not saying never eat it; I'm saying watch what you eat. If you eat something, make sure it's like more healthy; it's anti-inflammatory food that can help you combat your inflammation. And literally, the most of my time, I was bloated; my whole face was bloated, and I was just filled with inflammation. I wasn't ugly; my skin was inflamed; my cheeks were inflamed, so you could barely see my face because it was just all like a swollen person. So combat your inflammation by—I use these products now; I'm going to all put them up here—that really help with my inflammation: Omega 3-6-9, amazing, thank you; glutathione—glutathione supports the liver health; yeah, it's very important for your liver, and it also helps with your digestion; then I have another thing that I think for—it's a digestive enzyme; it's um, with bromelain; bromelain also helps with swelling and digestion; um, turmeric supplements or you can just drink ginger tea; that also helps with inflammation. Anything that combats inflammation is very good for you; it will make you look more attractive. When you have a lot of inflammation, you don't look like yourself.
Teeth are very important; I think like teeth are one of the most important things on your face, like literally. People—I've seen girls that are so gorgeous just because their teeth are nice; their smile is so important. You constantly talk—you're like, if you're smiling, you're like more—they will perceive you as more nicer, and if they see that your teeth are nice and white, they'll think, "Oh, this person is very healthy," because we look at the teeth to find health in people, right? So invest in a good smile. For example, I had braces—my literally for three years, I think—and it completely even changed my jaw. Like, braces can change your jaw and make you like way more attractive. You guys don't understand how important often this part of our faces is; so invest in a nice smile, and also if you get veneers, don't get the fake really bad-looking veneers. If you even go for a color of veneers, make sure the color is like more natural and not extremely white, because I feel like if someone has like crazy veneers, it it's also not attractive.
The thing is your nails and your hands. Make sure your hands are always moisturized and your nails are clean, both on your feet and your hands. See, you don't have to put like nail polish, all these things; it just has to be nicely manicured, like clean, so that when people look at you, they don't see like these crazy nails or crazy toenails, because that is scary. I don't care how pretty you are; if I see those crazy nails, I run. Hands can be so attractive; like literally, my ex, for example, he literally tells me now that he looks at the hands of every single girl because he liked my hands so much. He said like, for me, hands are important now, you know? So make sure your hands just look nice; clean manicures—less is more. See, for example, for my face, if I put like glam makeup, like full makeup, this and that, I look like a drag queen, and I have nothing against drag or all these things; it just—it's not the vibe I'm going for, you know? So it doesn't look good on me, so I always go like for this more natural look; even if I do makeup, it's more natural, all these things, and it fits me better. Makeup shouldn't take away from your beauty; makeup should accentuate it; it should make your eyes pop a little more, should make your lips a little bigger and nicer, or whatever you want, you know? But it shouldn't take away from it and completely like make you—make you look like, "Oh, wo, this is too much," or "This is too scary." Just find a makeup look that suits you and your face and your features the best, uh, and it's the same way like like with clothing and everything; don't overdo things that it almost takes away from your own beauty; like your beauty should be the natural center point, and anything extra you do should just add to it.
The thing is trauma healing and soul healings. I know a lot of people don't believe in this stuff, but that literally changed my face. And why is this? Because a lot of people, they hold their traumas and their emotions in their face. Sometimes you're not ugly; sometimes you don't recognize yourself anymore because there is trauma stuck in your face. I remember before that when I didn't do like my soul healings, people used to always tell me, "Why are you sad? Why do you always look sad?" I had a sad expression in my face, and even when I was just—I I I looked in the mirror and I thought, "No, this is normal," right? Everyone else would give me that comment. Now, when I started doing soul healings, even my therapist, she told me, "Liz, you hold all your emotions in your face." So when she started removing those little by little, my face started to literally change. Even when I look in the mirror now, I'm like, "Whoo," like I look like how I envision myself, and it's crazy; these things are like miracles. A thing like when sometimes people, they eat the right thing, they they work out this and that, and they can't lose weight; sometimes it's because you have trauma stuck in your body. Like, for me, for example, my digestive system was was not working at all; like when I had an ED, I used to take laxatives; I used to take all these things, and I couldn't anymore function; my body couldn't function on its own anymore. Then I started doing trauma healing, and what I understood is even in my stomach area, there was trauma stuck. And a lot of women hold their emotions and their trauma in their womb. When we start to remove that, I'm telling you, I think I have the the fastest metabolism I've ever seen ever, and it's crazy to me because I would never think I would come to this point. A lot of you guys maybe have the same issue; you're doing everything right; you cannot seem to lose that weight; maybe it's traumatic weight; maybe there's trauma stuck in your body. And I feel like when I whenever I talk about this, people are like, "Oh, no, you're crazy," this and that. You guys need to realize that we're a soul; we're not this body; what is this? What is this? This is nothing, you know? What we're inside, that is what matters. And when you heal the inside, the outside changes. If you look at people that have done a lot of spiritual healings, their eyes will always be different than the average person; you can always see in the eyes because the eyes are the window of the soul. When the soul is more evolved, the eyes will always show.
People that see the beauty in everything are beautiful people. What you perceive in the world is what you are. So, for example, me, I can—I have yet to see someone that I've seen, and I I say, "Oh, that's an ugly person." I can't find anyone unattractive, and I genuinely mean that; like, I look at people like, "Whoo!" I look at animals like, "Wow!" I I find everything beautiful. Why? Because I'm a beautiful person; I see the world in my rose-colored glasses because that's just how how I feel from the inside. And what you see in others, what will—is what will reflect back to you. You look at everyone and you think, "Oh, they're ugly; oh, they're not good; they're criticizing this and that"—what you give out is what you will receive back; people will think you're ugly and they will criticize you even though you're physically attractive. You guys need to understand that mean spirits will never be beautiful or attractive to other people. See, you guys might not realize this, but we all feel each other's energies, right? And there is certain people that are even famous that like people will just look at and be like, "I don't find them attractive; I find these people scary," even though they're physically attractive, but you wouldn't like really think that. You know why? You feel their energy; the energy around them; if it's not like a a good spirit with good intentions, you might not find them attractive at all. But when someone is actually a nice spirit and like a good person, even though they're maybe physically not attractive, you will find them more attractive. So many like physically beautiful women, but then when they said something that was so mean about someone else, I was like, "Oh, okay, I'm done; like, I really do not think you're—like you might be physically still beautiful, but you're not attractive to me," you know? I really, really dislike mean-spirited people, whether it's a man or a woman.
The thing is confidence. Listen, you can be the most gorgeous person on Earth; you can be like the insanely beautiful model, whatever; if you're going to walk inside of the room looking like this, no one is going to find you attractive. You have to walk into that room like you own the place; shoulders back, looking around like it's okay to recognize that you're beautiful. Like, I hate when people think like, oh, when someone that's actually attractive says like, "I'm attractive," and they're like, "Oh, you're narcissistic; oh, you're vain." Why can they not state the obvious? They're not bad people for finding themselves attractive; okay, they're attractive, and maybe if you don't think they're physically attractive, but they think that about themselves, why does that bother you? You know, let those people think that; it's nice; it's nice when someone feels good about themselves. See, people are so bitter these days; they don't want to see anyone happy; they don't want to see anyone feel good about themselves. Don't project; if you don't feel good about yourself, then work on that, but let that person be happy about themselves; it's so fun to watch; it gives me so much like, oh my—it fills my heart up, and it it literally makes me feel so happy that like other people feel good about themselves. Guys, I hope you guys learned something; I hope you—I helped you guys in some way, and yeah, I love you guys so much; you guys are amazing, and yeah, see you in the next video. Bye-bye, love you.