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I don't know what a man needs to know to understand this, but women learn from a very, very young age that manipulating men will always get them what they want. Let's go over a few tactics that you might not even be aware of, of how you've been manipulated or are currently being manipulated by a woman.
If you catch a woman in a lie, whether she admits it or not, she'll start emailing you or texting you longass paragraphs. And it's not to acknowledge or take accountability for the fact that she lied. It's the fact that she wants to feel good about herself again. So, she's only sending you these long paragraphs to make herself feel good. It's not about you. It's manipulation.
Most common way that women manipulate men is putting them in the friend zone because they want to keep you on the side. They want your attention while simultaneously they're banging other dudes, and they want to talk about it with you. It's about attention. It's not about being friends. It's not about eventually being the guy that she's going to date. She's using you to feel good about herself and to have a backup plan because I promise you, if a woman is single, she is never talking to just one dude.
Next one is super common, but a lot of women use jealousy as a manipulation tactic to make you keep chasing her. What do I mean by that? Anytime you hear a woman say that, "Oh, but this man bought me flowers, and oh, but this man is taking me on a date," or, "Oh, I'm meeting just a friend for lunch or coffee," she's not telling you this out of the kindness of her heart because she wants to be upfront and honest with you. She's telling you this so you end up chasing her because she wants to feel like the prize. Again, it is about validating her own feelings about herself and has absolutely nothing to do with you.
Next one. And this one will happen over and over and over and over again is that when the communication starts to dwindle and she starts to withdraw, she's doing that intentionally. So you feel like you're losing her and you step up your game because you start to feel like, "Oh my god, I'm losing her. I'm not doing enough." So you start to become clingy in her opinion and you start to do all of these extra things to win her. But the reality is, is that she's doing this to test you to see if you will put in all of the effort. What she really wants is all of the drama. She wants the reaction. She wants it to turn into, you know, a discussion, even an argument, because she likes the high and lows of toxicity. And she will intentionally withdraw to make you feel like you're the problem. It is another manipulation tactic to not only make you feel small, but also to make her feel good. Because guess what? Now you feel like you're losing her. You're chasing her again. And it's a repeated cycle.
Another really sneaky way that women manipulate men is they use their sexuality. And I don't mean just her sleeping with you. I mean her sending you sexy photos or videos. And she'll essentially use it as like a lovebombing tactic to make you feel like you're gonna get the most from her. And she uses her sexuality. But what ultimately is going to happen is that part of her is going to turn into a negative experience where she can later on use it as an excuse to leave you or dump you because you only wanted her for her sexuality. You're sitting there like super confused because wait, you're like, "Wait, wait. I never asked you for these photos. I never asked you for these videos. I never asked you to talk dirty to me. You came on to me. I reacted and now basically you're, you know, she's flipping it on you for feeling good about a situation that she created.
And lastly, another way that women use manipulation to control a narrative is that they will actually butter you up. They will learn your insecurities and they learn your insecurities not because they actually care about you, but it's to make you feel like she is trustworthy and that she will always be there for you, only to let you down later on.
I could probably do a part two because there's so many other ways that women use manipulation and to control you, and it actually works because a lot of y'all are enticed by the sexual nature of a woman, and she knows exactly what she's doing when she's doing it. So when she tries to pretend like she's this innocent little girl, just remember she doesn't get to pick and choose when she wants princess treatment and when she wants to be treated like an adult. Okay, bye.