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You said that most women don't like men that much. I I'm pretty convinced this the data is in my favor, but yes, I would say women don't like men that much. They don't hate men. Not saying all women hate men, but most women, I would say, are pretty indifferent to most men.
And there's a ton of data more recently brought to light kind of what our realm that we're in this industry where the online dating data has kind of bore that out where there's the famous okaycid study where only 20% of men are rated attractive by women. There's also Tinder analytics where you look at how many swipes men do versus women do and how many women go on dates versus how many men.
Um, the vast majority of here's where you would go empirical data pre- internet. You could talk to old-timers like me or Rolo or that exceptionally handsome man. Tro Troy Francis that that despicably handsome man even Troy Franc. No, he's just like he's a great guy. No, but he's Oh, he's just so goodlooking. And then he has his British accent on top of it. He and then he's nice like ah, you're a dick. I gotta I gotta enjoy your company, too. um Troy Francis, handsome as he is, British accent as he does, uh he's been shot down the majority of times uh by women.
And you think like, wait a minute, just and there's a very simple study where uh I think it was a professor, he had a hundred what the heck? Oh, he had one female student, one male student go up and ask I think it was a hundred men and 100 women, would you go to go to bed with me? Just like that. and not one girl said yes to the guy where I think most of the guys said yes to the gal. Uh it's there. It's genetic. It's ingrained. It's not evil. It's not malicious. I just don't think women are that attracted to to men. And it it's borne out in many different sociological even genetic uh uh statistics with the uh the genome.
Why do you say it's genetic when like a hundred years ago most women married most men? Well, because they 85% of women were married. Well, yeah. you needed men back in the day, right? Previous and that's one of the the uh premises and not even a premises, one of the facts I I establish early on and point out in in I think both books is you had the industrial revolution and then more modernly the um it or technical revolution and that liberated everyone from physical hard labor. So now we have mostly white collar work which women can do. Women can do white collar work, they fine accountants, doctors, whatever. Uh but in the times past they needed the guy mainly because 90 odd% of the population was farmers. They needed the males physical labor to go and either hunt farm protect all that other stuff and and the ladies stayed home. Well the industrial revolution especially air conditioning and computers liberated everybody from that. Now women could go make their own money. So now they are not financially dependent upon men. You throw on the welfare state uh you have an insurance policy. Yeah. 65 in the United States and on, but now even if you fail in your career or you just don't want to work, uh you are now doubly less dependent upon men and you can you can make your own choice.
And it's been a fascinating just it's like Tom Cruz and Tropic Thunder like sometimes if you listen the world's trying to tell you something peg all men have to do and this is what I've done in my research step back. What are women choosing? They don't need anymore. They haven't eaten them for quite some time. How are women behaving? What choices are they making? They are not choosing to get married. And if they are choosing to get married, they're only going to sell for a very top echelon of men. And so you can see this in their behavior that the you could say, "Oh, the girls are crying themselves to sleep. Oh, girls would pining. They really do want a guy." I'm like, "Okay, that's fine. Maybe at night they're crying themselves to sleep and they really want a guy." And yes, we could always make the, "Yeah, but only a top 2% guy." whatever microscope percentage it might be, they still choose career, education, politics, sometimes even kids with outside of a husband. You still look at their behaviors and I don't care what they say, right? Crying at home after they got back from the nightclub drunk, I just really want a guy. Their choices in the real world, which is the only thing that matters, has made it that they are not choosing men and that's only what men can react to. And so I would say looking at that and I I believe they're being honest. They want to you could argue well they've been conditioned and all. Okay, that's fine. They've been conditioned. At the end of the day, they're still choosing to go into debt for largely worthless degrees. They're still going out and and partying and having fun. They're choosing careers. And I'm a libertarian. I don't care what you do with your life. That that's fine, right? But it is fascinating to watch from a I guess an anthropological anthropolological viewpoint like we're watching gorillas in the mist and oh now now they have the industrial revolution and now oh look now there's the welfare state. How will these creatures of the human world react? Well well they're not going out with guys and you're you're getting your answer through their behavior and their choices. And again, and it's kind of hard for and some of the people we mentioned before, that's hard for men to acknowledge and realize emotionally, psychologically, and genetic. It's very hard for you. Yeah.
But I had um it was not so much the data, it was just trial and error cuz I'm old. We we had ask people out in person back in the day. We we'd put our spears away after we slew the mammoth and we'd walk up to the pretty girl with her, you know, uh leopard bikini. Never married though, right? have like a crazy Most guys in the space, not most, but a decent amount had like a crazy divorce story. Yeah. I've dated crazy girls. Yeah. I I I I just watched I just watched all the boomer men in my family get divorced and I like this is not And it also um in in my benefit, it didn't seem at a benefit at the time, but it ended up having me here. Uh there was no help from my parents, like no money. I dropped from 147 to 118 pounds in college. Mhm. because I just couldn't afford to a lot of food. Also, I work security, so you're biking and all that. Um, I didn't have time to be worrying about world chasing girls and all that other stuff. So, I had to be very much more shrewd and economic with my resources. And you just like, for example, kids, I could never afford kids. These girls, one girl I dated, nice gal, I want four kids minimum. Four kids minimum. Well, where are you going to get the money? I I can barely afford parking. Where where what world are you in? Um I talked to I talked to um one guy. His his dad isn't from here. And he was like, "American women, that's amazing. They can like your mother never paid. At least like your these American women, they pay, right?" And he's like, "No, no, no, they don't. No, no, they don't. They really don't." Yeah. I thought it was I thought it was so funny. Yeah. I mean, at any point in time, well, maybe not any point, but these gals could have like, I work, I really want to get together with you. It's like, okay, well, you going to pay my rent? Are you going to like because in the meantime, I got to work another shift. Um, so having that those limited I had to be much more shrewd. Uh, with prospects like having kids or getting married and when you just see everyone getting divorced like, no, this is no, no, this is I can't afford to go through a divorce and what meager assets I have, you know, be split in half. It just wasn't wasn't doable.
What do you think about like women want the soft life now and they want to be scared? No. No. No. No. What do you think about? What do you think about No, you don't. No, no. That That is You don't get to tell men for literally 50 years you don't need them and you're going to do it on your own. And And that's You haven't seen the Tik Toks? They're Oh, I've seen them. No, no, no. I The dresses are here. So much political, economic, educational, corporate, and I would say psychological on a societywide level. So much infrastructure has been laid that women are going to be equal. They're going to support themselves. We've invested in that for generations, like three generations now. Can you give me an example of the infrastructure? Um well for example quotas u we got to get a certain amount DEI affirmative affirmative action being kind of law that that'd be an example um the psychological infrastructure well should be educational infrastructure is they're pushing women into like not fine push women education they got to do absolutely I'm I'm all for you going becoming engineers but then also bismerching and like oh my god you you don't need a man you're a pick me that kind of like uh uh belittling and and smearing uh marriage So, there's a psychological predates you, but I would love to go and read some of those teen beat Vogue 17 magazines, uh, what they told young women back in my age, what it was, or more modernly, which would be your Tik Tok filth that you have now. Um, and then, not to get too political, but the Democrat party and and feminism as a as a I guess the women's wing of of leftist politics. Again, getting back to that psych the the value system like, "Oh my god, you're a woman." And it's just just that's all you need to be. And that's just so amazing. It's like me saying, "Oh my god, I'm a browneyed person. I'm just amazing and I'm going to live my entire life to that." So, no one says that to you. No one cuz it's ridiculous. It's It's just equally ridiculous. Yeah. Can I mention his name? Jeremiah's black. All right. I have brown eyes and you're tall. Oh my god. Let's just go jerk off to ourselves in a mirror with traits for it, but it's ridiculous. And it's the same thing. I got brown eyes. Oh my god, it's amazing. Have you seen the eye chart on Twitter? No. What's the eye chart? Oh, so I found this I just got on Twitter in the last year and I didn't know there's this whole like eye chart and they believe that if you have like the bluest of eyes, you're like royalty. Royalty. Yeah. So, I'm apparently in um I forgot. I'm like third on the chart because I have green eyes. So, you know, I think your ancestors are just from northern climates. That's pretty much I don't know if it means you're from royalty. I don't know. I don't know. They keep putting Trump's son as like the king. They're like That's exactly my point. This is ridiculous. It That's what that reminded me of. There's a little sect on X that that's what they believe. But it but uh however, whether it's government politics, laws, I would say more so current social psychology among women in general. Well, I mean, look at younger girls, but the polling data, it's borne out in polling. Younger girls, Gen Z, men are ranked seventh on the priority list behind a whole bunch of other things. Uh, that is having an effect and is an example that infrastructure uh that has been uh uh laid down and sent several generations of women down a path that in hindsight now they're like, "Oh, I want my soft girl life." No, we can't. We have a welfare state. You need to work and pay for those taxes that you voted for. It's all this free crap that you wanted. Yeah. You know where it comes to a head. It's exact. Can't have your your cake and eat it too.
What do most women want but they can't have now? Um top five% of men. Uh sure. Okay. Yeah. In terms of lifestyle, what's something that they, you know, they're 40, they're crying, they're drinking the home. Stay at home mom. Too bad. Too bad. You voted in all these entitlements. You voted in the welfare state. You said you're going to work. You got to work. And you we still spend more than we got. We got I don't know 32 trillion in debt, right? No. All hands on deck. You said you're gonna do the thing. You're gonna do the thing. And if you don't, there's a tremendous amount of economic hurt that's coming our