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Nagging RUINS Relationships But Women Can't Help Themselves!

Pearl Talk12:52

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Women nag men. Now, it's a grim reality for most men in marriages and relationships. Women really feel entitled to having things their way, and the man and the man they are with really has to comply or pay severe consequences.

So, it's funny how women say they're better at communicating, but don't know how to communicate with their husbands or boyfriends without nagging. It's also funny that women call men all sorts of things. They call men controlling, abusive, emotionally detached, but it's really projection. Um, to be honest, women are all of those things, but regardless, you never hear a woman call a man a nag, and men just don't nag women. Do you know what I mean?

It's like men know that their opinion doesn't matter, and that people have traits that you don't like, right? And they will put up with traits they don't like because they know they are not perfect, either. That's why they don't really go around trash talking their ex boy or their ex girlfriends, partially because they're kind of scared of them, but also because their ex girlfriends, um, they don't want they know they're not without fault, either, and they don't really want to go back and forth.

But, you know, the fastest way I've witnessed women lose their husband's attraction and romance in a marriage is, you know, besides being a and catching an STD, having another man's kid kid, outside of that is to nag him to death. And I would go so far that nagging is so annoying that men would actually take a child before they take a nagging woman. They would take care. I would I would go so far. I have never seen a man more beaten down than a man that's just every day the woman's telling him what's wrong with him.

And to be fair, there probably is something wrong with him. I mean, there's something wrong with everybody. There's something wrong with me. There's something wrong with you. I mean, I got to be a little bit messed up to do this job, if I'm being honest, guys. Do you know what I mean? I can't be like, who wants to talk for 3 hours? Who wants, you know, who wants to, you know? So like I I'm under no.

But, you know, a lot of the times women they never have this thought cross their mind, ever, in their entire life. It's like it's amazing. It's truly amazing. Um and modern women they can't help it. They just focus on. The man could have 10 awesome traits, but they'll focus on the one trait they don't like. And we see this nagging culture throughout American culture.

Now, I came up with a couple points about the modern woman nag, okay? Women feel entitled to giving their opinion. Men don't. Men know their opinion doesn't matter in the long run, but accomplishment and actions do. So, this is why you always see women nagging about the restaurant or whatever. This is why you see them do it. Because they'll they'll moan, where the men are just, they say good enough, you know, they'll focus on the one dish they did like.

You can also tell how emasculated the man is by how little the wife knows about men and how she treats him in public. So, like sometimes I, you know, I'll give you an example. The other day I met this woman was telling me about her life on the dating market and how, um, she is a divorced mother of four, right? And she was telling me about how she just can't help but give their her opinion about stuff, right? And I was telling her I'm like, "Look, you know, um, one thing I've learned in relationships and you know, at times I've fumbled in my life is that you know, it might be cute for you guys to listen to me for 3 hours, but in my personal life, uh shockingly, people don't want to listen to me for 3 hours straight. They don't and it's something I've had to work on, drawback. You know, and I was telling her, you know, if you have an opinion it's better I know it's hypocritical doing what I do, but men they really don't want to hear it. You know, and it's something that like, you know, at least in your personal life like I for some reason you guys like listening to me. I don't know I don't know why, but >> [gasps] >> my my point is this. My point is this. This I couldn't believe how a woman in her 40s and 50s had never thought about that the men she's dating and her ex-husband didn't want to hear her opinion. I couldn't believe it. I was like, "She's like, 'Oh, I can't help it. I always just want to tell them.' And I'm like, 'Well, die alone.' Die alone. I'm like, 'Look, some of these lessons I had to learn too. I'm not I I I try to. Do you know why my early content I I understand that sometimes how it sounds when I say like we like I'll say, you know, women we do the and I always try to I would always try to say especially my early content we. But for some you know, just to know that I you know, I'm still a woman too. I still got the the chaos in me. Um but for some reason in my early content I people just never got that. I I don't know. But these women do you know what they would do? They would come on my show where you know, women are supposed to argue about this stuff and then they would get so mad. It was like they would come on my show and then get mad when I did my job and I'm like, 'Why are you here? What was the purpose?'"

So anyways, Solvaria says, "My girlfriend tried to put emotional baggage on me. I told her obedience is a must to stay with me and I don't want her acting the same way my wife does." >> [laughter] >> "Well, wife cut off the sex and turned on the nag after year four. Anyone else out there? Yeah, cuz I Did you have a kid? She probably got what she wanted. You guys would be better off dumping these broads and I just want you to know and I'm just I want to give you a different perspective cuz I've just seen this. You guys, by not dumping these nagging wives, you teach your daughters that it's okay to do the same thing and that men will put up with it. But I know what everyone says. They're like, they need like the dads in their life and you know, I I then I lose everything. I don't know. I mean, look, you do what you want. So don't I don't let me make a choice for you, but I think it's better to have no dad than a demasculated dad. You know, save save your money for the kids. Um if you can in the divorce and just leave it. You did what you could. Um the women The kids belong to the women. I'd just cut it. Um Now you guys are saying now we're simping in the chat. Slander of Candace won't be accepted. Okay, you can even call in and tell me what slander. What did I say that was slander?

So anyways, I'll I'll continue. All right, so a common tell and is by women, by how little they know about men is they often use What they'll do is they'll use their marriage as a way to virtue signal. So what they'll say is, "I'm married, therefore I know more." But their actions show really differently. And women go through marriage and often learn absolutely nothing about men. Know nothing. They don't care enough about their husbands to pay attention. Um So this idea that women that are married are somehow superior. I mean, there's a reason that men say girlfriends are better than wives, right? Because girlfriends have the burden of performance. They're forced to pay attention. Married women, especially married women women with kids, if anything, I'd say they know the least because they have no burden of performance. None.

So, the next point is women have a laundry list of complaints about a man, but none about themselves. They can't do any type of introspection. You know, none. None. It's like even suggesting they're not perfect. It sends them into a crash out. It's so exhausting. I don't know how you guys do it. Women don't even realize how much they nag. Many couples' normalcy is the woman's nagging the man constantly. Um modern women, uh both liberal and conservative, have never been told to shut the up and never been told no, so they take offense immediately. And the same pathology conservative women have the same pathology as liberal women and um Candace Owens, I'm going to show you the clip. She virtue signals in response to a masculine behavior. And I can't stand it. I can't stand when women do this.

I have met Candace and to be honest, I was a little starstruck when I met her. It was really weird. It's kind of weird when you meet someone in person um that you've seen on TV for years. Um and I gave her a woman should. Oh, I can't say that. I gave her a certain t-shirt. And to be fair, I want to I want to be clear. I do not hate Candace Owens. I do not think she is even a bad person. But I don't think you have to make me You have to think I'm stupid to believe she is a conservative Catholic wife and mother. You have to think I'm an idiot. And that's what I don't I don't like that signaling. I don't I don't like the lying, right? Um and that's what's always sold to me. I don't like I don't really like that she's now putting a Catholic cross in the background and using the religion I grew up with. Now, even that maybe I'm not the most religious person in the world, but do you know what I mean? There's still a sense of like, "Hey, you know, that's a bit disrespectful. Could you grift on like um the equivalent of that would be I worked a sales job and imagine I just put all my like I make um my sales cubicle um a prayer station. You'd be like, "What's wrong with you? You're just doing that for clout." But we never question it when these influencers do it. Look at. And there's things I think Candace Owens did great, okay? There's things I think she did awesome, but you can't be in that, you know, I bet you if I came on if we ever I doubt we'd ever collab again cuz it was like um a pay it was like we both got paid to be there like yeah, anyway. But um if you're in this industry, put on your, you know, you got to put on your big girl pants. I everybody like if you can't handle criticism, then you got to you got to get out of the industry. Now I now anyways.

Um, all right. So, the other thing I don't understand about a lot of these conservative Christian women is politics and your children's safety is important. So, they always signal that family is more important than a job, but women will accept money for safety or make sure things are safe um before there's any kind of real risk. But when they finally take the risk, they take too much credit and give an embellished version of the story to make it sound harder um than it actually was. So, in her case, you know, she's getting death threats over the J stuff. I'm I'm going [clears throat] to just say the J. What what should we say on the channel to signal cuz I'm not going down that rabbit hole today. You know, if you're a mother and your kids safety is first, I don't really understand why you wouldn't put it down and let the men do it. You know what I mean? Um conservative women have no idea how much they narrow on a daily basis. Conservative women use their families and their children as a way to show how moral they are and bolster their public persona. They have no idea how unfair it is to the kids to have to be the fuel for the machine that is her public persona. So, you see that. It's like. You one thing I appreciated about Tucker Carlson, he does have the occasional picture with his family. But nobody like thinks of Tucker Carlson's kids. They think of Tucker Carlson. He never brought his kids to his brand or work. I mean, I'm not against an occasional picture once a year or something, but when you start to like every argument, it's like I had kids, you didn't. I thought your behavior was supposed to be the best thing about you. I should be able to tell if you're so morally superior.