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[Music] What's up guys? We're back with another video. If you are new here, my name is Sammy and we're the Mermaid Gang. This is where you can come and suspend your disbelief. I am your favorite manifestation coach, your favorite YouTuber, your favorite person. So if you would like for me to help you make manifesting your new lifestyle, then go ahead and sign up for coaching with me. Um, my website is linked in the description box. It's SammysMermaidGang.net. Very simple. And uh, go sign up for some coaching with me. Okay, let's get into the video.
So I know everybody has probably heard of the trend of like becoming that girl, that guy. I know it's usually that girl, but we're gonna say that guy too because I know I have some um men watching me too and you guys should be included in this. It's not just for women, it's for anyone. We want to make manifesting our lifestyle and we need to be living our best lives. Like we just need to be living our best lives. So I want to tell you how to do that. This is my ultimate guide for you to become that girl or guy.
Okay, the first thing I want to do, or the first thing I want you to do, is to get a notebook, get a piece of paper, use your notes app on your phone. I want you to write down what being that girl or that guy looks like to you. So essentially, it would be the version of you that is literally living your best, richest, happiest, loved, abundant, healthy life, right? Like you're just fucking thriving in every way. That's what it is. Like in my head, if you're that girl, that guy, you're that bitch. Like you are literally goals. Like you're a walking Pinterest board. Like you are goals, right? In every way. That's what it, that's the idea of being that girl. So that's what I want you to decide. What does that look like for you? Because everybody's version of that is different.
In my mind, that version of me is that incredibly beautiful, glowing skin, happy, thriving, organized, Lululemon mom, rich wife type shit. Like just happy, just living my best life, looking my best, feeling my best, big ass, fat ass bank account. Like literally just happy, healthy, and wealthy and thriving in every way. That's what that is to me. So in my mind, that version of me gets up in the morning, gets her coffee, um, goes outside and thinks about all the things she's happy about in her life. In that case, you would be listing all the things that you want, okay? Like as if you already have them. Um, thinking about how rich she is, how happy she is, how grateful for her life and her healthy, happy kid and thriving husband and um, her luxury home or luxury life or just luxury everything. And then go do a workout and then have a nice smoothie. Or because I really like smoothies, like just feeling looking the best. Like does yoga or some shit or some kind of like in-home workout or lifts weights. I personally like lifting weights. Um, it's super organized and looks like one of those TikTok cleaning moms. That type of shit, just thriving in every way, just with the best life, the best house, the best car, the nicest skin, that the happy marriage, the thriving child, all of that. Okay, all of that. That, that just all of those things is what I picture in my mind, plus probably more.
So once you decide what it looks like for you, like what is it for you? What does your day look like as that girl, that guy? What does it look like? Um, are you magnetic? Like are you easily attracting the type of partners that you want? Or even just being the center of attention of people that you would desire, people that are your type? Or when you walk into a room, does everybody look because you're so magnetic and beautiful? Or like how thick is your bank account? What kind of car do you drive? What kind of house do you have? What kind do you do? What kind of workout or whatever do you do? What kind of food do you eat? Like what is the, the happiest that girl, that guy version of you look like? What would your day look like if you sat and thought like, if I was that girl and I had everything I wanted, what would a day in my life look like? What are the things I would do? What are the things I would be thinking about? What would I feel? Because you can manifest feelings too. Let's say you're someone who is normally not very happy, you don't feel very good a lot of the time. You can manifest feelings by telling yourself, I'm so happy all the time. I always feel great. I'm so happy all the time. I'm thriving 24/7. I always feel happy. I'm so happy. I always feel so happy. You can literally manifest feelings. You can manifest feeling good.
So whatever you decided that looks like for you, what you're gonna start doing now, or first thing in the morning, I don't know when you're watching this, probably in the morning for most people, depending on your time zone. I usually post these in the morning. The first thing you're gonna do when you get up is you're gonna do that. You're gonna be that person. The things that you can do, the small little daily habit things that you can do in the 3D that you can go ahead and start doing now, like maybe a workout or drinking a smoothie or going, you know, taking a little bit of time to go get Starbucks. That was another thing, just going to go getting Starbucks or things that make me feel like that girl. Anything that would make you feel like that version of yourself. Um, buying like in my example where I said being a Lululemon mom, buying a pair of Lululemon shorts, which I did. I did. Um, that kind of thing. Just any little small thing that you can do that would help you feel placebo yourself essentially into feeling like that girl, thinking like that girl. Think the thoughts that you would think. Think of think of your life as that girl as if it's already true. You know, you know how to do this. You know how to manifest.
This is what you're going to do because remember, even changing the daily habits, everything still has to come from here to manifest that life for everything in that life to externalize for you, it has to be here. So while yes, you're going to be placeboing yourself and making yourself feel good by making by kind of acting as if this girl, kind of like I did to like go viral or um, you know, become a YouTuber and stuff like that. It's that kind of idea. But still, the mindset still has to be there. So you still need to be thinking as that version of you. Are you super happy? Are you excited? Do you have a lot of energy? Do you have a nice skincare routine? Do and think those things now. Think of all the wonderful things that you have as that version of you as if it's already true. Visualize it. I, I know a lot of people say they can't visualize, but try. If you can't see it, hear it. But I'm gonna tell you, a lot of people think they can't visualize because it's not a clear picture. I don't know of anyone who can visualize perfectly clear. And if you can, that's great. I can't and it still works for me every single time because I know what I'm implying when I'm visualizing. So just try it. Try seeing yourself saying these things or hear yourself saying these things as if they're already true.
I think visuals are very powerful. It helps you really feel it real. I want you to fully embody that state. And you can even literally hear someone tell you, wow, you're that girl. You are literally that girl. Wow, you are that guy. You are literally that guy. You can hear someone tell you this and it will become true because now that you've decided what that looks like for you, you know what you're implying when you hear someone tell you this. You need to tell yourself that too. We're going to get into another video about self-talk. We need to discuss how you guys talk to yourselves. Here's something that you, a lot of you are not getting when it comes to manifesting one thing or a whole lifestyle. It doesn't matter. There's no difference in either one. It's all a state. They're all states. So if you want to step into the state of being that girl, that guy, the person who has it all, the person who has everything you want, you simply have to think as that version. Even if it is just as small as you taking simple steps that you can take, things that are available to you to do in the 3D, such as like I said, a skincare routine, going to get a certain coffee, or meditating, or doing a workout, or taking time to get ready every day, even if you're someone who stays home, or taking extra, a little extra time in the morning to make yourself feel prettier, or feel nicer, or look more cleaned up, or whatever it is. Things that you can do, things that you can do to make yourself feel like that version. Things that you can use to placebo yourself. Little tiny steps you can take to help you really emphasize that this is who you are. This is the state you live in now. And thinking from that version, you're thinking from that state. When you think from that state, that version of you is going to become true. People in your reality are going to treat you like that version. Say you're someone who just literally wants to be that girl to everyone else, like you want everyone to be just like mesmerized by you. You can be that. Think as that girl. Think from the very best version of you. What does that look like? What does your life look like? What does your love life look like? What does your money look like? What does that look like to you?
Now start taking small steps or change one little small thing while you're manifesting. This is not a journey. This is not a physical 3D journey because you're gonna have to work your way up to. I'm just saying do these little things to placebo your brain to help you stay in the state because whatever state you most return to is where you dwell. We want you to keep returning to the state of being that girl, that bad guy, whatever. Okay? So and those little things make you feel good anyway. But you need to be thinking from a state. I would like you to try to visualize a scene from that state or even just do a visual of someone saying, wow, you're really that girl. Like you are that girl. You have everything. Your life is amazing. You're like a walking Pinterest board. Something like that. Something in that realm. Just try it. And if you can't see anything, just try to hear it. And no, you do not have to hear anyone's specific voice. Just hear the words. Hear something. Hear someone say that to you. Even if it's in your own damn voice, it doesn't matter. Your mind knows what you're implying. If you will start thinking as if you are this person, that girl implies that you have it all. That guy implies that you are someone who has it all. Relationship, money, career, house, car, happiness, health, everything. Whatever all is to you, whatever this best version of your life is to you, that's what it implies.
So once you have listed out and decided exactly what that looks like for you, I want you to think, act, and feel from that version. Okay? And do not let anything convince you otherwise. Your world will conform. People will start treating you differently. Money will start pouring into your life. Opportunities will start pouring into your lives. You may be even compelled to start doing certain things for yourself that will literally just transform your life. And just, just follow the state. Okay? Think from the state. Step into the state of you being that girl, that guy. And the way you do that is to think from it. And in my opinion, start doing things from that state. Embody the idea. Embody the person that you want to be. You are whoever you say you are. Whatever things you're saying to yourself, whatever things you're consistently saying to yourself, the things that you do every day, that's who you are. Even if it's just making your bed in the morning, just one different thing to get you out of a cycle. Doing things like that.
Because the reason I'm kind of emphasizing doing a little in the 3D more than I normally would is because I have truly discovered that it is a lot easier to work with the logical mind than it is to fight it. It is easier to change the assumptions if we're not fighting it and trying to force this completely opposite belief on it. So if we start changing the cycle, I read an article once about one way to break a habit is to um, do small things such as instead of, if you're right-handed, instead of brushing your teeth with your right hand, brush your teeth with your left. It, the brain, it's something happens in your mind and it just breaks you free of a cycle. So do things that you wouldn't normally do, whether it's like I said, put makeup on when you wouldn't normally, do your hair if you wouldn't normally, make your bed in the morning if you wouldn't normally, um, develop a skincare routine. Just anything, anything that you think that version of you would do. Anything that you can do that that version would do. Do it. Even if it's just one or two things at first. Okay?
I can't even tell you how good I feel from doing a couple of new things. This is gonna sound so weird, but even sitting on a different area of the couch than I used to sit. Like I had this one spot on the couch that I would sit when I would do my work or what if I was watching TV or anything like that. Changing that, taking time to get up in the morning, get my coffee and go outside because I live in Florida, so the weather's nice, it's not cold. Things like that. I even bought a notebook for me to write down things about me as that version. And you know, I wouldn't normally do that. I don't write things over and over. I just simply write like a sentence or two, just as like that version of me. Just little changes like that. Putting more effort into my skincare routine. I did not have a skincare routine before because I naturally just have good skin, so I didn't really see a point. But it just makes me feel good. Even if I don't, I'm not doing it for results, but it just makes me feel bougie. And like buying the Lululemon things, like that. My Jeep makes me feel like that girl. That was one of the things that I wanted on my, you know, the journey I talked about in my vlog. Doing things like that has changed my mindset about it. And I think that's where this new motivation and energy has come from. It's definitely helped my bank account. It has definitely helped my relationship even more. It is just give, I just feel happy and refreshed every day and I can feel the things falling into place. Okay? And I want that for you.
So this is my ultimate guide for you. This is our version of that girl, that guy. I know the one on TikTok is like all 3D things. I know some people maybe talk about affirmations or scripting or something, but they're not really getting the entire, the entire idea of literally manifesting the entire lifestyle. Like we can do. We can make it our lifestyle quickly and easily where all the money, all the the the love you want in your life, the friendships you want in your life, the the car, the house, the entire life, the children, or whatever it is that you want, whatever it is that you desire. Even if you don't desire to be with someone, maybe you want to be wanted by everyone. This, that's kind of it entails. Whatever it until it's specifically different for each person. So whatever it is that that version of you looks like, that's what you're going to manifest into your life. And I think you could do it pretty quickly if you'd go ahead and start and start implementing some of these things in the 3D and kind of placebo yourself into this mindset, changing little things, working with your mind instead of against it. I know you hear Salem, that is something I really want to emphasize more. Let's, let's work with our logical minds because while yes, we are very, very powerful, very spiritual beings, we are still also human individuals with a logical brain. And if we work with it to change the assumptions, it will be much easier and much faster. I'm not referring to settling. You're still going to change the assumption and you're still going to manifest what you want, but a hell of a lot easier. Okay? A hell of a lot easier to think from a state and step into a state if you'll kind of work with your logical mind a little bit. And we'll come up with more examples for that as I go on. Like if you have any questions specifically about ways you can work with your logical mind instead of against it, we'll talk about it. Okay? But this is about your ultimate guide to becoming that girl, that guy. I hope this made sense. I had a lot of thoughts because I've been thinking about this for a while and I'm just now sitting down to film it because I've just now felt like that new burst of motivation again for my channel and it feels really good and I'm really happy to feel this way again. So thank you so much for watching. Please be sure to like, share, comment, and subscribe. And we out.