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Don't worry, it's going to happen when you least expect it. There's nobody at work that you can go on a date with. You should just try talking to someone at the gym. Don't even worry about it. But are you on the dating apps? You don't need a relationship to be happy. Have you thought about joining a country club? You care too much about wanting a relationship. Just focus on loving yourself. You know, this woman I work with, she paid for the dating apps and then she found her husband. Why don't you join a run club? You got called for jury duty. Maybe you'll find a nice lawyer there. What about your friends? Don't they have someone to set you up with? What about that guy at the grocery store that you saw one time and never saw again for the rest of your life?
I started healing from my last relationship once I accepted I couldn't bring a dead thing back to life. This is my hundredth reminder to you that they are not going to change. Why would you want to be in a relationship with a guy that you know you need to change? I don't get it.
I was so scared to start over that I stayed in the wrong relationship for almost a decade. I'm going to get vulnerable and talk about the weight of loneliness and being single. For some reason, this week has hit me very, very hard. And I'm really not sure what it is. Maybe it's daylight savings and the fact that it's dark at 5:00 p.m.
Of course, ma'am. For sure it's daylight savings. Yeah. But typically, I feel really good and happy about where I am in life. I'm so grateful. I have so many blessings and amazing things. The ability to take care of myself in itself is such an accomplishment and something to be proud of. But it's hard not to get hung up on the fact that every single decision, every single responsibility, everything falls on me. Big, small, medium, it doesn't matter. I have to do it all. I have to take care of it all. And there's no one to share that weight with. There's no one to say, "Hey, can you just take this and help me?" It's all on me. And also, my friends, they're all married. They have kids. They're in a different stage of life. And I accept and respect that because I know everyone's journey is different. And I was in a very long-term relationship that ended last year. So, it's just how things played out. But even that makes me feel even more weight and even more pressure within that group. I just feel like I isolate myself more because I can't relate to their life stage. And it makes me feel like maybe I've done something wrong even though I know where I am today is leaps and bounds better than where I was last year and the person that I was with. And I wouldn't change where I am today because I am so fortunate that I got out of the relationship that I got out of without having children, without being tied to someone or bound to someone for the rest of my life, especially given what the relationship was. I really am so fortunate. But the weight of having to do it all alone, it is a lot. The wall. The wall. The wall. No man on earth can make me fall.
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So, it's been brought to my attention that my ex and his lawyer are watching my videos. So, I just wanted to say hey and thanks for the views.
Men that sleep around and I'm I mean like catch a lot of bodies always become ugly. Like.
So, let's talk about her logic. So, the guys that have a lot of options usually are the guys that look good. So, how can guys that look good that can get a lot of women? How are they turning ugly more than the normal guys? How does that make sense? There is no logic to what they're saying, guys. There is no logic. Life has a funny way of working out, ugly boy. A male content creator that I follow asked, "If women think the bar is in hell because men are not holding on to traditional masculine standards, then where do you think the bar is for women?" It is.
Women are not held to the same standards because if we want a traditional woman, we're misogynist. It is so [ __ ] toxic when you're, you know, having a little sleepover with a guy and he's just so [ __ ] hot and he's just hitting it so good that you're like, "Fuck it. Should I just let him get me pregnant? Should I just let him film me?" You're like, "No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no." And that's how they end up being single mothers. And then what happens? Then they start making TikToks and blame all the men for being toxic.
Women, we are our own worst enemy. When you're approached by a man or a man jokes and laughs with if he's charming, not necessarily conventionally good-looking, but if he's funny and charming and just has a nice aura.
You're you're fine with it. Yes, that's the huge kind of hypocrisy. You have your creep as a woman. I can't take anybody seriously when they talk about auras or energies. We're just going to skip this video.
Low IQ. Very low IQ.
Anytime a woman cheats on you, she's doing you a favor. If you leave, if you stay, she's not doing you a favor. But anytime someone leaves your company because they don't believe in your product, they're doing you a favor. Anytime someone cheats on you, they're doing you a favor. If you have abundance, you understand that. If you have scarcity, then you're sitting there crying because you're like, I can never find another woman like her. If you feel that way, then you don't have enough abundance in your life.
I agree with him, but there is a caveat. I get it. When you're younger, we're all simps. And I bet a lot of you have been cheated on. But if you start learning about women's nature and how women are, and you start watching content like mine, and you still end up with a woman that cheats on you, that's on you, my guy.
You know what I'm tired of hearing? Society is so hard on women. Women are not good enough. Women need the BBL. Women need to get lip injections. Women need boob jobs because society tells us.
No, I never told women that. Society doesn't tell that to women. You know who tells that to women? Other women. And it's funny that those women are always single and can't get a man, but they always give dating advice to other women. That's what we need and we're never good enough. Who tells you that? Who tells you that in society on social media?
It's not men that tell you that. In fact, most of them don't even want it. Who tells you that?
It's other women that tell you that.
So, for all the women who say that women have it hard, that's total BS. We don't have it that hard. Actually, I venture to say that men have it a little bit harder. Maybe more than a little bit.
You can't say that, ma'am. Because because if you say that, you must hate women. You must be a misogynist.
We are held to our own standards by our own gender.
You have to ask yourself, what do you actually want from a woman? Because we are so [ __ ] confused right now. Both men and women are. And women, women, what do we want from men? What do we want from men? I feel like because I have so many single girlfriends, like hot single girls from like 25 to 35, obviously like in the dating realm and they make great money. They come from great families.
The more money they make, ma'am, the smaller the pool of guys they want to date. Why? Because they want a guy that makes at least as much as them. So, the more money they make, the fewer options they have, but they don't get that.
They work out. Like, they they do everything. And it's like, why can't they find a man? I know that there's a lot of women who don't want to stop dating and they're waiting for that man to come. And I hate saying rescue them, but rescue them.
Sweep them off their feet.
There is a real danger that the divorce rate is going down because it's harder for women to leave.
If I have my child half the time, why am I paying full support? Like I'm not even around. I'm feeding them, clothing them, taking them to school, wiping their tears just like she is. But somehow only I have to pay up. This system doesn't reward fatherhood. It punishes it.
Kentucky flipped the script. They became the first state in America to pass a law making 50/50 custody the default. And the.
Yeah, I heard about that law. It was put in place like in 2016 or 2018, something like that. The moment that happened, something incredible and honestly terrifying for some people was exposed. When women realized they could no longer cash out through the courts, divorce filings dropped overnight. A full court fewer divorces in one state compared to just 18% nationwide. Men call it fairness. Women's groups, they call it dangerous.
And that clash right there between fairness and fear is why this story is exploding. There are reports coming out of Kentucky that the divorce rate has completely plummeted 25%. It's gone down 25%. Like that's significant. You know, when the divorce rate nationally rests, I don't know, I think a little bit above 50%. To have it drop 25% in one state is means to pay attention. It's a reason to pay attention.
This is pretty controversial to say, but I had this friend who was really good-looking and he whistled at some girls and I was like, "Oh my god, like don't do that, bro." Like women hate getting catcalled and they all wave back at him were like, "Hey, like how's it going?" And I was like, "There's no way that just happened. I'd never experienced someone doing that in my life." Yeah. In terms of what you can get away with, the threshold goes through the roof as you get better looking, right? You can do things that unattractive people can never fathom, right? You could see.
Yeah. And the women complaining on social media that men approach them and men should stop approaching them. They're bitter just because Chad doesn't approach them. See, sometimes when I was working in nightlife, people would just go up to chicks, just grab them right away and start dancing, making out with them without saying a word.
I had this happen to me, guys. I was out with a friend, and my friend is a player, is is like a bigger player than me, guys. And at the end of the night, the bar was closing and he didn't want to go home alone and he just went up to a girl. He never spoke to her. He doesn't know her. "Hey, what are you doing after this?" "Oh, nothing. I'm going home." "Okay, come back to my place." And she said, "Okay, that's it, guys." He never talked to her. He never saw her. The better looking you are, the easier it is. That's why I tell you guys, when you're good-looking and she really likes you, you don't need to do anything on dating apps. You don't have to have anything in your profile. You don't have to come up with a witty answer. You don't have to do [ __ ]. You try to do that as an unattractive male, uh, you know, someone's going to start screaming rap, right? So, these are just the disparities and the differences between living as an unattractive male and living as an attractive male. This is for the single girls. I'm 37 and single and I just have a little encouragement for us. I'm currently riding a high of breaking up with someone. And no, not because he was bad or awful, but after 3 months, I realized, you know, this guy can't meet me where I need him to meet me. And while he's perfectly nice and lovely and I could string it along and make it last a little bit longer so I don't feel lonely every week. Another woman proving my point that they're not looking for the nice, lovely guy. They don't care about that. They don't care about how funny he is. They care about other traits. But if you ask them, "No, no, no. I want the nice guy." No, you don't, ma'am. This guy was the nice, lovely guy that did nothing wrong. Yet, she still broke up with him.
Weekend or whatever it is. Um, I realized that's not really making room for the right person and that's not really choosing myself and making decisions for myself. That's making.
Of course, another woman choosing herself.
Yo, some of some women get on my [ __ ] nerve. Like they're over here [ __ ] turning 40 telling me that, "Oh, I can't find a good man. I can't find a good man." And then they [ __ ] talked to someone and they just stopped talking to them. And I'm like, "What the [ __ ] happened?" "Oh, well, I asked him what he was doing and he told me he was eating chicken wings." "Okay. And that was."
And the chicken wings gave her the ick so she stopped talking to him. So she ghosted him. Yeah, that's what happens. Ma'am, you're totally right. But why do you have to swear that much, ma'am? You just sound like a man. Was it? He was eating [ __ ] chicken wings. You [ __ ] stopped talking to him because he was eating [ __ ] chicken wings. No, he should have like ate something healthier. Like I want my guy to eat something healthy. The guy [ __ ] wants chicken wings. You just stop talking to a guy from eating [ __ ] chicken wings. That's what.
Does she have a New York accent? She sounds like like the mob guys from the movies.
Why are you [ __ ] 40 and single?
So, you're allowed to say everything that's wrong with men, but if I want to say about something that I've seen that's wrong with women, you must hate women. Women are perfect. You can't say anything that critiques women because you must be a misogynist. You must hate women. And if you're a woman, you must be a pick-me.
Because for so many reasons, from propaganda, from media, from what feminism has poisoned us with, and I'll say something like, I've seen women be horrible to me or to one another. And I've witnessed some demonic stories. And like I said, it's not that she's jealous, it's that she's envious, and she wants to take away what you have. Not be.
Why do women call other women they don't like? Hoes, [ __ ]. Why don't they use other terms? Because they know to guys that matters. If she's a hoe, if she's a [ __ ].
Because she wants it for herself simply because she doesn't want to see you be happy. The concept of seeing someone else happy shortcircuits her brain. And I do think that women can be so vicious and so aggressive and especially when it comes to gossip and reputation, that's in that's their arsenal of choice, right? But I'm not allowed to say this. And it's not me painting a brush that all women are horrible. I've seen some gorgeous divine women, but one in a million, the majority is not so fine and dandy and great, but I'm not allowed to say this. They'll deem me as a pick-me or or or all these horrible things or as a misogynist or a woman hater or whatever it is, but it's so easy in the same breath to say, "But all not all men, but always a man." I'll tell you what, not all women, but always a woman. There's always a woman in my comments. Always. There is nothing better than a good divorce to give you a fresh perspective on how women truly operate. I've been married before once on paper. My wife had a very privileged life for international holidays a [ __ ] year. We had a boat in the marina, a nice car, money in the bank, and one day she turned around and said to me that she wanted access to half of my [ __ ] money. And if I didn't give it to her, she was going to leave. To which my response was, "Well, it looks like you're leaving then, doesn't it?" During the divorce proceedings, my wife or ex-wife Debe went through the process of trying to blackmail me and [ __ ] rinse me, which is quite interesting because God himself could not find that money even if he wanted to because I had my precautionary methods in place.
Good for you. Good for you. But I remember after we signed the divorce papers, I asked her, "Why did you try to blackmail me and [ __ ] steal that money from me after being given so much?"
Because they think they deserve that money just because they were in a relationship with you. That's why.
And her honest response was is that she was just scared and she wanted to get everything that she possibly could for herself. Pretty honest, right? But what's the lesson here, lads? Well, if I look back over all of this, she had a colorful history. And that colorful history, that decorated past came back to bite me in the eye. Guy that admits that he was a s[ __ ] exactly like me. I'm not saying that I was a saint. I was a s[ __ ] in my past, but I learned from it. If you continue being a s[ __ ], it's on you, my guy. You deserve everything that is coming to you. [ __ ] Fortunately, I was able to get out of it unscathed. But the woman that you marry is 100% not the woman you divorce. So, you have to choose carefully and you have to look at their history and their past before you step into anything like that. Know what I'm saying?
Going to the gym in Poland after moving here from the United States is by far one of the most humbling experiences. Respectfully, I think similar to a lot of what's going on in the country in general, in the United States, when you go to the gym, like you see a typical demographic. We all know that people are like being poisoned. They're so inflamed because of the food quality over there. And you can see that in the people, I mean, our obesity rates.
Ma'am, stop blaming the USA for your poor choices in food. If you were smarter, if you ate better, you wouldn't have ended up there. And I'm not talking about her because she's thin. She's not fat. But stop blaming other things. It's your fault for gaining weight. It's your fault for looking like this. Stop blaming the country. I'm sure that you can find good food in the USA.
Are like crazy. But then you go to the gym here in Poland and when I tell you like everyone looks beautiful and everyone looks good. Even if they're not like the super fit muscle mommy, everyone is like I think as the girls call it toned. Obvious.
Yeah, guys, I don't know. When I go to the gym is usually in the morning and I don't see overweight people at the gym. I don't I don't.
Obviously not like everyone everyone but like 98% of people and that's just what's normal here. Obviously working out really matters towards that, but I truly think that the highest contributor is again the food quality. So the food quality here is significantly better. Like even if you go outside of Poland to the EU itself, there's so many regulations. There's so many things and ingredients and food practices they don't allow here that you're allowed to do in the States. There is a massive thumb on the scale in favor of women in almost every institution. And this is one of the few things I say in the piece that is genuinely controversial and subject to sincere debate. I believe that the great feminization is artificial. It is the result of social engineering. It is not just the result of women organically outcompeting men in the fields of the academy or business. It is because of incentives to hire more women and promote more women. EEO and it's so stupid. I I don't understand how that is legal because you're just saying, "Oh, no. I'm not going to hire men or I'm not going to hire white people or I'm not going to hire these kind of people because I need a quota. I need to fill a quota. I need to hire him and her." And I I don't know how that's allowed because it shouldn't be allowed. It should always be based on how competent you are. That's it. Nothing else should matter. Nothing. It doesn't matter if 99% of people in that company are men. It doesn't. It shouldn't. You hire based on how competent they are.
And that are the result of laws that have been passed in the United States. So, I think that if we simply get rid of all of the hiring targets that currently exist at large corporations, saying that you have to have a certain proportion of your employees be female. If we get rid of the legal protections that exist around feminization in terms of HR that say you can't have a masculine atmosphere at your workplace because having a bro club atmosphere in your workplace is currently illegal. A woman who's in that workplace can sue her employer saying, "I feel like success at my office is determined by how well you go along with being one of the boys. Therefore, I'm being discriminated against." And a woman who brought that lawsuit.
It's so stupid. It's so stupid.
It would stand a good chance of success. That is a problem. And that leads employers to feminize their workplace to a greater degree than they would otherwise if left to their own devices. I'm saying leave employees to their own devices. In my perfect world, you will have some workplaces that are more masculine, some that are more feminized. The world's big enough for everybody. Uh, everyone can find a workplace to suit their own preferences. Athletes are scary, too, because you know what? I'm in New York City. This is actually not that long ago. It was like towards the end of my New York days. And I am hooking up with this hockey player. It's one night. We had followed each other on social media. We met in college a couple times. I had maybe sucked his penis once. That was kind of it. It was just a casual.
A palette cleanser.
No, this was not a palette cleanser.
And they talk so openly about this on podcast, on TikTok, and then they complain that they can't find the man.
This dick is so [ __ ] scary and large and curved.
No, I hate that. So.
I like the curve.
The curve was um fine for a [ __ ] but it went. It's either left or right. I can't remember. Okay, so I'm in New York City. I run into him at a club immediately. I'm like, "He's one of the hottest people in the NHL." I'm like, "You're so [ __ ] hot. Let's [ __ ] do this."
But I'm convinced he has a girlfriend. I'm like, "Wait, isn't your Instagram like full of this like girl that is like your girlfriend?" And he spends the entire night convincing me that they're not together. And I'm like, "But."
And you're stupid and believe it. But remember guys, they always say they want a nice guy. They don't say they want the athlete that has a lot of money and a big schlong. They they don't talk about that. No. Of course.
Like what? Like why? Like I just know athletes.
That's what athletes are good at. Sales. They go into sales after.
So they all become [ __ ] cold.
[ __ ] true. He I'm like, but any also I'm not an idiot. I've dated athletes before. Any [ __ ] athlete. The minute you're done with someone, you delete all the [ __ ] pictures. You don't need to prove that you have a hot [ __ ] on your arm. Like you're not a [ __ ] loser. Like you're good.
So I get super drunk and then I'm like, you know what? He's.
So she knows those athletes have lots and lots of women, but they still go for the athletes. Why aren't you going for the dorky nice guy that you will know he won't cheat on you? Why are you going for the athletes that you say, you know, they're not losers, they have a lot of women, and then complain that they cheated on you or they were toxic. They just prove my point with each TikTok, guys. They just prove my point more and more and more.
So [ __ ] hot. I'm gonna Oh, I can't even say it out loud. I'm going to trust him.
Ew.
Disgusting.
Alex.
We go back to his place. We start having.
Like God.
Just let's do it. I'm sure she's not your girlfriend anymore. I choose to believe this man. After like 3 hours, we go back and his curved penis comes out and we start having sex. And a [ __ ] was one thing cuz his mouth can do great things. This curved penis is so large, Hannah. I start bleeding. I am in so much pain and I just kind of.
Okay, we're going to stop it here and we're just going to skip this video because.
Yeah, guys. Yeah, guys. And they talk about this on online and then they wonder why they can't get a man.
This is hard. We've been together for nearly 8 years. We built a life together. So, there's so much to this, but basically, I, 27 male, did that thing that everyone in a relationship should be wary of. I looked through my girlfriend's 25 female phone, and I found messages upon messages from a mutual friend who lives out of state. Now, that were concerning. Initially.
How do you not have access to your woman's cell phone when you're in a serious relationship with her? I'm not talking just dating for two weeks. I'm talking you're in a serious relationship for months or years and you don't have access to her phone, my guy. You're a simp. And she doesn't respect you and she probably is talking to other guys. She's probably cheating on you. That's why she doesn't want to show you her phone. Because think logically, somebody that doesn't have anything to hide will have no problems with you looking in her phone. So if she doesn't want that, it's because she's hiding something. It doesn't matter if she calls you insecure or controlling or whatever. You leave that relationship because she's cheating. I was going to leave right then and there, but I wanted to try to talk to her. I gave.
Yeah, because you're a simp, my guy. That's why. You think that talking to her will somehow magically resolve things? No, my guy. Talking won't erase what she did, my guy.
Gave her almost three chances to own up to it. The first time I was really vague and just asked if there was someone else.
She flat out denied it. I thought I was prepared for her to deny, but turns out I wasn't.
Then the other times I got more and more pointed. Finally, she admitted that the guy had messaged her and flirted with her, but we knew he was that way. And while she didn't tell him to f off, "How did that guy have your number?" How? After the first message, how was that guy not blocked? How? See no logic. She wasn't into it. Now, I didn't see any messages from her at the beginning that showed she was exactly complicit in it. So, while I didn't believe her, I tried to give her a chance. I know it's stupid, but we've been together for so long and we built a life together. As I said before, if you ignore the red flags just because you're in love, you can't say anything after about that woman because it's your fault, my guy.
But then I dug again.
Oh no.
Man is a little gopher. And there it was. All of it. And worse, he took the time to insult me to him. That hurts so effing much. That hurts. I know my faults and I know that I could have worked on this relationship, but I really tried. Every day I tried. Can you see how much of a simp he is? After seeing those messages, he still thinks that he did something wrong, that he could have worked at that relationship. My guy, you couldn't have done anything because if the woman is a three or four is a hoe, you can be whatever. You can do whatever and it won't change. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. But for her to tell someone else things about me like that, I can't help but feel broken. So, right now, I'm waiting for her to wake up and leave for work. Then I'm packing what I can and heading to a friend's place and I don't know. I spent eight years on this relationship and I'm going to walk away from it.
So you're just admitting to us that you were stupid and ignored the red flags for 8 years because I'm sure this is not her first time. My guy, if she's if she's doing this, she did this in the past. I wrote a note out on my phone that I'm going to write up for her after she leaves. It says everything I can think to say. I mulled over what to say non-stop. Somewhat satisfyingly, I'm going to tell her how she did this to know that and remember that. And then, and you know what she will do, my guy? She will just make a picture of that note. She will laugh and send the picture to the other guy and talk to him on the phone and they will laugh together about how stupid you are because you're stupid because you're in love and you think you should have the last word because somehow that will make everything better. Some people I swear some people are so stupid they never change. They never learn.
That if at any point she thinks we can become okay, that no, she effed this up and it hurts so much. He's going to make sure she knows.
Yeah. She can never forget this betrayal.
Yeah, my guy. But what you don't understand is that she will forget it the first time she meets that guy and the guy [ __ ] her really good and she will forget everything that you said and they will laugh about you. We're just going to skip this video because it's too much cringe. Too much cringe. And I I hate simps. I swear, guys, I hate simps. I don't hate women. I hate simps. Hope you enjoyed this video, guys. And I'll see you on the next.