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Hey friends, Juel back with another super cool astrology video. And I wanted to talk about the Libra woman today. Women with their sun sign shining through the lens of Libra.
So, the sun is our ego, our identity, what we want people to see us as, how we, um, want to be appreciated for being, what we want people to look at us and say, "Oh, that's what that person is about. What that person represents." And it's a lot about our vitality and our expression, our style of, um, individual expression. And, um, represents, you know, the father, a relationship, uh, to authority, um, in part represents government. And Libra is the natural ruler of that 7th house. So that's very much about partnerships, and, um, what we attract in another, business partnerships as well. And it's very much about others.
So, the sun is very much about, you know, the individual. And the seventh house is very much about others. So the sun doesn't, you know, particularly, um, it's considered it doesn't do well. That means that it doesn't have a real natural understanding. The things of the ego and of the, the sun, the things that the sun represents, doesn't have a real natural understanding of, um, the seventh house. That's, you know, Libra, that's this lens of others. So they're learning to balance their own, um, identity with that of others, and to learn what their identity and what their ego is through experience with others. So it's very much a sign of, of balance in partnership, also business partners. And the ego is seeking to balance all sides of all issues in this particular sign. So we can see extremes in the younger life. And if the sun is like at 9, 10, or 11 degrees, this can be even more exacerbated.
Um, so the ego, you know, is shining through the lens of Libra. And that really means that they structure a lot of their identity and their ego based on what the reactions of others are. And so how they're regarded and treated by others is very, very important to them. And it can take them longer to really establish some limits and boundaries regarding where they begin and where others end. Uh, so selfishness versus selflessness is a big theme for anybody with their sun coming through Libra.
So women who have this going on are really looking for partnerships that she can invest in. This is a female who is looking for your emotional and financial investment more than your love. Love is important, but she is really looking for somebody who is going to see her as a woman worthy, um, you know, a worthy deal, a good deal. So, um, love is very much looked at. Relationships, life is very much regarded as a business deal when a woman has her sun coming through Libra. And she is really looking to be the majority shareholder in the deals that she makes. So she's really looking for the bigger, better deal. And will constantly be negotiating herself, um, better, uh, uh, terms in life and in her relationships.
She thinks like a man. This sets her apart from other women in the zodiac because other women are very much, um, more centered on making their decisions, on their relationship decisions, on the emotions. Are the right brain. Libra woman is actually more prone towards making those final decisions when it comes to logic and when it comes to the bottom line. So it's, um, really interesting, uh, how she does best in a very evenly balanced relationship. But will always be trying to test that by attempting to lead, by attempting to take over. So she really needs a partner who is willing to assert themselves. And, you know, she's really learning limits through others, limits of who she is through others.
So loyalty is also very important to, um, anybody with their sun coming through Libra. But Libra woman is really different in that she can justify, because this is the sign of justification, she can justify breaking, um, loyalty on her part if she feels she is no longer in an equal partnership or there's no longer equal balance to what two people are bringing to the partnership. Um, she wants to be spoiled. But there is a real balance that needs to be achieved. A partner needs to strike this perfect balance between too much giving and too much spoiling, and not enough giving and not enough spoiling. Because if it's not enough, she feels disrespected and undervalued. If it's too much, she can take that for granted or start to cross lines or boundaries and become petulant and disrespectful herself of her partner. So she really needs to feel and see a balance between your give and your take. And you really must demand that she give equally as well, because you are setting these limits for her. And she will act in very psychologically manipulative ways to make sure that you do so. So you must enforce the give and take in relationships with Libra woman, very gently but firmly.
She can give too much too early in relationships, while in the infatuation stage. You know, when we get into the into a new relationship and everything is great, and we're only seeing the good things about each other, and we're giving, giving, giving, and we're not really expecting anything at this point, and we're so excited about everything. So we're, we're being everything, and we're, we're doing everything. And Libra woman can set her up herself up in such a way where that level of care is going to be continually expected in the relationship. So this, um, sets the stage for the initial dance of balance in her relationships. And she will have to establish, um, certain rules or regulations or expectations, um, regarding what you put in and what I put in into the relationships. And all of life is very much like this, uh, because the seventh house is very indicative of not just our love relationships, but also the larger scope of how we behave in all of our relationships.
So, um, it's very common for Libra woman to do the providing or to wish to do a certain equal amount of providing when it comes to the financial situation in a, um, partnership. She feels best about herself when she can bring in her fair share or when she can contribute a fair amount. She generally looks for very early on, especially in life, she looks for the sugar daddy type of partner. This really doesn't make her happy in the long term because she needs to be growing through a constant exercising and learning of a balance with another, with another. So, you know, it's easy to be in those, uh, spoily relationships where we're demanding everything and getting everything. And an immature Libran female will gravitate towards those relationships. But to really feel that we are in an equal, balanced, loving partnership, there needs to be that constant give and take that you don't get in, um, sugar daddy type dynamic relationships.
So, um, she needs to feel that she is being appreciated in her femininity, even when she is contributing. It's really important for Libra woman to be regarded by her mate as a very feminine entity within the household and to be treated as such. She can fall into this trap where she's doing too much giving or too much providing because she thinks like a male. She often attracts a male or a partner, if it's a female, that thinks the opposite, opposite way. They have more of a feminine mindset. So she can get into these types of, um, situations where she doesn't feel appreciated as a woman or for her femininity. She feels that her financial or businesslike contributions are what she is being identified as. And she needs to see that you are identifying her, because this is the sun, this is the identity, as a feminine female. So it's really important to come out and verbalize your appreciation of those qualities of her, because she does want to be seen as beautiful. This is a refined sign of that. And this is represented by Venus, the sign of beauty, the sign of femininity. So although she thinks a certain way and can even back that up with her behavior, she is looking for a full appreciation of what she is, not just for what she does or brings to the table. So it's really important for her to have that equal, um, balance of what do you bring to the table in a partner, in a man, especially. So, um, you need to bring both an equal amount of contribution, but you need to bring an equal amount of gender appreciation as well, and not forget that she is, above all, a woman.
So, um, she can be confrontational, especially if you tell her what to do. Now, this is not like Leo woman who will, um, just take up the challenge because that's how the ego is oriented. Libra woman is, um, going to rebel because you've pushed a certain direction. She will then naturally balance out by going the opposite direction. So it's important to let her come to her own decisions on her own. Because if you push her, or if you try to control what direction she's going to do, because she can vacillate when it comes to, um, her decision-making process, if you try to, uh, push that in any one direction, you can be sure that you are not going to win. So it's important to let her work it out on her own. It may take some time, and it may be frustrating, and it may not be your style of how you approach things. But if you do push, she is going to push back in equal measure, and that is going to add fuel to the fire. And not only is she going to have this problem that she's originally had, she's going to also have the problem of not being able to take your advice now, because you've given it in a way that she feels like she's just naturally has to go the other way in order to balance out her identity. "Oh, you're trying to identify me as this? Really? Oh, I'm going to show you." And then she'll go the other way.
So as Libran women mature, um, they, you know, can really mature out of this and see that a lot of their, um, inability to take advice or direction is very much related to the ego. Um, she very much identifies with whatever relationship she is in. Most of the time, the vast majority of the time, it will be Libra woman who ends the relationship or breaks up. Because if she feels that she is broken up with, or if she is left behind, it can really send her identity into a tailspin. So it's really, um, important that she keep in mind that this is the, uh, identity talking when she can end up in those situations. And reorienting herself in the world can take some time because she can feel very much, uh, like she is worthless, or like she is nothing, or she, um, has been robbed of a sense of self if the other person leaves the relationship first. So it's, um, you know, important to remember that that is the identity talking. And these things are, um, we do come back from these things, and we come back stronger. And, um, it can be a real ordeal for her if she, uh, ends up being the one who's left out when it comes to the end process of leaving a relationship.
So, um, all in all, this is a really, um, interesting place to have the sun because, uh, of the two, uh, very differing qualities of what the sun is and what Libra is. So it really sets somebody up from a for a real learning process about the things of the sun because they're just not really naturally oriented to using their egos the way, or their identities, or understanding their identities the way that the other signs are.
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