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And then she was blocked for 3 years. Now, in three months, they will be married.
[Music] Hey guys, welcome back to another video. In case you're new here, my name is Kim. This is Core Union. Today, I want to talk about how whatever you desire is already meant for you. Whether it's your specific person, or a different lifestyle, or a different career, the money that you deserve—all of it—it's already meant for you if you desire it, and it already exists, or you wouldn't desire it. So, the desire itself is your proof.
And I know that that, that right there is something that some of you guys don't necessarily believe or trust. So, it's that that you actually have to focus more of your energy and awareness on: What do I need to do to change my thought patterns to realize that: A) I am worthy and deserving of having what I want to have; B) it is safe to receive. It's safe to be in love. It's safe to trust in love. It's safe to feel safe. And the same goes for financial health and being able to enjoy things in your life. You have programming that told you otherwise, but you need to develop a certainty that you trust that you are already the light, and that what you want actually already exists.
And so, when something in your life reflects back to you that you can't have it, and you feel disappointed, or let down, or sad, or triggered, you can recognize that this is part of the process. In the moment, you can accept to feel the emotion, but still know that just because you're feeling this setback right now, which is really a set up—just because you're feeling this, it doesn't mean you can't have that. So, when you start to cultivate this and you stop trusting in the material world in your 3D, then you won't seek for answers outside of you as much anymore because you would have developed a trust in knowing that I simply wouldn't even be able to desire this unless it existed.
Okay. So, in the moment you have a feeling that triggers you, you feel like you can't have your person. They said or did something that went against the relationship that you want. Maybe they said, "I don't want to be with you. I don't see us. I don't trust you. Um, because of what we've already been through. I've moved on. There's someone else. I just don't want to be in a relationship. I want to be free. I'm not ready. I can't commit. I was heartbroken from my past. So, I don't trust relationships anymore. I'll never marry again." All of those things, none of that matters. Long distance doesn't matter. Age gaps, religions, none of it matters.
So anyway, I'm inspired to talk about developing a knowing, a certainty in that your desire itself is the only proof that you need. And that also there's something else coming up around states that I really need to talk about today because I'm seeing something in the community that I think I need to address because I'm I'm seeing that it's an important point where people start to lose faith and start to spiral a lot and then want to give up. And by the way, that moment that you want to give up is such a powerful moment.
But anyway, before I go further into this, if you love me, please do like, comment, share, and subscribe to the channel. If you want me to be your coach to help you manifest anything related to your SP, email a short description directly to me to kimcoryun.com. Go to my website coreun.com. Book whatever you want to book and my scheduling assistant, Olga will get back to you with my next available session.
So, I recently came on, probably a few weeks ago, a month ago or so. One of my clients had every circumstance, every circumstance you could think of, and she overcame all of that through persisting days, weeks, months, years. She met her specific person, her mirror soul. She knew, she could feel it in her soul: This is the one. They, at that time, they were long distance and they started dating each other. There was a lot of hot and cold, back and forth, up and down, runner, chaser dynamics happening. And eventually, now mind you, long distance, they had thousands of miles between them. And again, they had the the uh difference in spiritual beliefs. There was a big age gap between them. On top of that, the last time that he ran and ended it, he ended up with a friend of hers, and then she was blocked for 3 years. Now, in three months, they will be married. They have they are they are already engaged and they will be married in August of this year.
So have this be some proof for you to inspire you to persist, but to persist in knowing that the end already exists because you have the desire of it. And that's all you need to know. You don't have to worry about things like free will. You don't have to worry about maintaining the the perfect correct state 24/7. You're human. You are God having a human experience. Yes. But you are living out God's you're living out God's dream for you.
So the desires and the gifts and the talents that you have deep down in your heart and soul, that's that's literally what God created you for. When you continually go against yourself and allow your past fears, worries, doubts, limiting beliefs to rob you of your future, of what you want, you're simply going against who you already are.
So embodying the wish fulfilled doesn't mean that you have to maintain a happy state. Because what I can see happening, and this is what I wanted to address in this, is that it seems to me that toxic positivity is being repackaged as embodying the state. Embodying the state of the wish fulfilled doesn't mean that 24/7 you have to be perfect. But even if you're married and there's Felix, even if you're married and you're successful, doesn't mean you're not going to have an off day. It doesn't mean you're not going to have shifts in your mood.
So when something opposes you while you're in this state, and remember, not not in the state, at this stage, in the middle, you are only in the middle. And this is a bridge. Everything that needs to happen is happening. The breakup and the separation itself is a bridge. So all of the unfolding while it's going on within you, it's going on within your person. And if you don't trust in that, then your focus and awareness needs to be on cultivating trust in that and not continually seeking evidence to prove to you that that's true. But maintaining the state of being claimed, cherished, secure in a loving relationship.
Once you are, I promise you this, once you are in the actual relationship in your 3D with your person and you guys are living together, you're still going to have different moods. You're maybe going to have disagreements. It doesn't mean that everything's going to go away. You can still have your insecurities, but the difference is because you've allowed yourself to have certainty to know that it already exists or I wouldn't want it. And when something goes against me, I see this as okay, this is an opportunity for me to I can feel the feelings. And then it's how long do I stay down in here? And what actions do I take from down in here?
Because as you're leveling up, this is the thing that you have to understand. As you're leveling up, then you will still experience feeling like you've lost everything, but that's because you're kind of at the bottom of the next level. And that can come with some growing pains. That's what growing pains are from my perspective. I've talked about it before using a butterfly as an example, the metaphor that the caterpillar crawling on the ground looking up in the sky seeing the beautiful butterfly thinking I wish I could be the butterfly and then they go through the process of they go in the cocoon and the metamorphosis is happening and that I'm sure doesn't feel good and then they come out of the cocoon spreading their wings. They were always the butterfly. It's the same thing as when you're leveling up. The actual leveling up doesn't necessarily feel good because as you get to the next level now you're at the bottom of the next level and this doesn't feel good. This is this can be hard just like when you're growing if you're a gamer and you're playing a game, right, and you're learning and you're learning the characters, you're learning all the things you need to know to play and win. And then you reach a new level. And then now when you're at the next level, it's a little more challenging and difficult and it can be frustrating. But it's because you grew, you got to a new level, and now you're you're evolving again. And that's the same thing that's happening. Even though you think you're having setbacks, these are set ups. There's never what you want already exists. It's just you allowing yourself to stop stop accepting your limiting beliefs and your challenges and your fears and overcome it.
Like my client that I described, she overcame thousands of miles between her and a person, the age gap. She overcame the being blocked for three years. Three years. She focused on the intimacy of the two of them guys, the two of them being sorry, the two of them being together, being peaceful and calm, feeling each other's body in bed, gazing in each other's eyes in love. That was a lot of the times what she chose to imagine.
So don't think that you have to maintain a state 24/7. Don't think if you fall out of the state that you're ruining anything. You're growing. You're leveling up. You have the desire of something. Something happens. It goes against you. It hurts. Let your body feel it. Let it move through your body. Tell yourself this is contributing to us. Everything that needs to happen is happening. Give yourself the love that you need. Surrender the pain. And then go back and do revision. If there's something that you're aware of that is the root cause of the feeling of being rejected, abandoned, or betrayed, or all of the above, not being good enough. But detach it from your person and continue to see the two of you guys having the life that you want. And visualize a lot of moments that are natural and normal of the life that lifestyle that you want and make it fun and make it joyful. It will be a lot quicker when you don't listen to the fears, limiting worries that are the robber of your love and your life and stealing the joy from your future of what you get to have.
Okay. All right. The last thing I wanted to talk about was just a case study that Neville Goddard talked about in um I think the lecture was release Barabus crucify Jesus. And the lecture itself is just using the story of when Jesus Christ was crucified that they asked the crowd who who are we going to who are we going to release and let go of and who are we going to crucify and they decided everyone decided release the robber the thief Barabus but crucify Christ. And so in the lecture, Neville Goddard is explaining how the cru the crucifixion, the resurrection is something that's happening within us day-to-day. He talks about a case study where I believe one of his students or a woman who was following his teachings met a woman who had been, let's just say she was um single. She got a divorce from her husband for 19 years. She was in a lot of debt. Her son wanted to go to college. She was talking to her neighbor about it and her neighbor explained to the woman what she's learning from level Neville for the law of assumption and she basically tells her what is the ideal man what does the ideal man look like for her he would be established he would be a provider he would be loving secure confident and they talked about what are all the qualities that this man has then they did a visual little an imaginary scene that the woman was getting married to the man and they actually did it together. The ring on the finger and everything or if it wasn't an actual ring, it was an imaginary ring. The woman helped her out with this with visualizing and then she said, "Now I want you to go to sleep every night in the wish fulfilled that you're already with this man married. So, you're going to sleep with him." And then a certain amount of time passed and the woman ended up meeting some man somewhere. I don't remember exactly where it was and she was he said something like so are you planning a vacation because of the time of the year you're planning a vacation. She said she wanted to go to a particular um a a particular place but she didn't have the money to. And he offered her three rooms for her, her friend, her neighbor who was helping her and her son. As it turns out, the man owned this re resort or hotel and he was a wealthy he was wealthy and he was a widow widower. He had lost his wife. So, it was a perfect bridge of events. She ended up meeting this man. He fit all of the criteria. She got to know him. He was lovely. They got closer and as she continued to get to know him, she grew fond of him. But he said to her how painful his whatever the loss was that happened with her his ex-wife. I think she passed away. Whatever it was, he said, "I'll never marry again." So then the woman went back to her neighbor who helped her do the imaginary ceremony and imagine herself going to sleep every night with this with this perfect ideal husband. And she said, 'What do I do now? He's perfect and I really care about him, but he doesn't want to. He He refuses to get married. He'll never get married again.' And the woman said to her, "How could we even be discussing this? You're already married to him. So don't like, in other words, don't trust don't trust this fear. Don't trust this. Just maintain the state of the wish fulfilled, living from the end, and trust in it." The woman ended up getting married to the man and they ended up having a wonderful life together. She ended up having a beautiful home together. The man became the father of her 19-year-old son. Put him through college and she ended up very happy. If she had listened to her fears of him saying, "I don't ever want to be in a relationship," then that wouldn't she wouldn't have allowed herself to experience an end that already existed.
The reason why you felt such a strong pulling and you still do to your specific person, your mirror soul, is because the end of you guys being together already existed before you even met them. And then you you met them and you felt something deep down in your heart and soul, like really deep down. And you kind of knew on some level, this is the one, but this doesn't even make sense. I don't even know this person barely. You get to know them more and then you're really feeling it. But then the fears, the worries, the limiting beliefs from your past are trying to stop you to keep you safe. That's all that's happening. As you level up and grow and evolve and awaken to who you actually are, your your all of your fears need to come up and come up to the surface. So, if there was a separation and your mirror soul was reflecting back to you, babe, you don't know how to trust. You think that I'm going to leave you. You think that if we have an argument that this means this is over. When things get hot, you think I'm going to run because you believe that you're going to be abandoned. You don't think that you're worthy or good enough. You don't think that you're pretty enough. You don't think that you're rich enough. You don't think that you're talented enough, smart enough. Your mirror soul is reflecting those limiting beliefs back to you so you can realize the truth. You need to do something to overcome your limiting beliefs and to change your thought patterns. If you need help with this, obviously, I know that I can help you. Please do affirm down below that you've received this message with prayer hands and a heart. Affirm to me that you know that your end exists and that you and your specific person love each other deeply. And reach out to me. I love you so much. Have an amazing weekend. I'll talk to you soon. Bye.
[Music] Nothing can come between us.