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It's like I'm just trying to be here too as part of this relationship. It feels like exactly. Let me in. Exactly. Yeah, that's really well put. I'm just trying to be here too.
And from the other person's point of view, from the emotionally immature person's point of view, it's kind of like, "Well, why are you trying to be here too? I'll tell you what you need to know. I'll lead us. I'll inform you. I'll tell you what to do next."
But from their point of view, yeah, I mean, does it feel like a waste of time? Because they already know what they know. But they, yeah, I mean, curious or opening up about, you know, new things about each other or trying to have a, uh, a discussion that holds no appeal to them at all. In fact, it's, it's frightening. Yeah, because they feel, or they need to feel like they know everything already, and their worldview is extremely rigid.