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White Woman Calls Out Black Women’s Dating Motives… Marquett Reacts

Marquett on Business47:48

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Let's get to this wizard. So, I wanted to show you guys this video right here. Pop this up for you. Once it starts playing, if you'd confirm that the AV is good by hitting populating an alpha one into the chat, I'd appreciate it. Here we go. Where's the volume? There we go.

>> This one out. >> Y'all get with a white man for his money. >> Oh, you bold with it. Talk about it. Flaunt it. There's a whole woman viral on Facebook and Tik Tok because she's with this white man and she's literally clearly stating this. She got with him for her. She was shaking ass before she got with him. Now she's with him and I feel bad for him. It's like boo. >> Okay, that's how you want to live. >> The reason why black women get with white men and the reason why white women get with black men uh >> oh, >> it's different. >> Uh >> oh. Uh >> oh.

Now I got to break this up if you guys don't mind. So I agree with her. You often see these black females who are with white guys are flaunting it and is is mostly very tacky, distasteful, and sad. But they're flaunting the fact that they're there for the money. And I can also concede in my dealings with black women as an adult, especially when I'm getting inbound interest, it's because of the money or or the clout. And it's really quite sad. And this is not obviously it's not all black women. And then of course there are levels to it. For example, in the state of Florida, and this isn't only black women. Latinos will pull the same stuff, right? White chicks will pull the same stuff, but there's levels to it. When I was in uh first coming into Florida a week maybe two weeks ago. I'm on the freeway and it was traffic and there's like two women in a car and they're trying to pull up next to me to like get my attention like while we're on the freeway in slow traffic which unfortunately in Florida I've experienced a few times just in two weeks being here. So, it's like the level of financial thirst is a lot higher here than other places you might encounter black women. Not to say that they don't like or appreciate a wealthy man, but there's a higher level of thirst. And I trust that Latinos are, you know, not much better, but we're happen to be having a black and white conversation right now, but I say all that to say this. Part of it we have to acknowledge that it's not necessarily because the woman is black or even because of black American culture, but it is a direct function of economics. Black females are of the poorest females in the United States. So, of course, you're going to expect them to utilize strategies that lift them out of their perceived poverty. Same thing is true in the developing world, right? That's why passport bros can go to Colombia or Philippines or Brazil or La Republica Dominicana and get a bad chick. Well, it's a function of economics. These women are gold diggers, too. And they're just trying to get the guy who has not only perhaps more money than their countrymen, but also has access to the big bank, which is the land of opportunity, the United States. So women are always using economic strategies, but there's just higher um there's more weight and more uh need, you know, in certain contexts. In the third world, there's more need. So you have even more attractive women are willing to go for guys who are even less appealing if they're American, if they come from a developed country, if they have more money than the other guys that live in that third world country. And in the United States, black women are the lowest income and perceive themselves to be in great need. Now, the funny thing about black chicks who are broke is they'll call dudes broke while they're broke. It It's just extraordinary. It's like a woman never believes that she is broke. Women don't believe that a broke woman is a concept. And at some level, it makes sense in as much as they do have an ATM between their legs. They have an actual ATM between their legs. So, they never believe that they're actually broke. But they'll call a dude broke in a second. Is really insane. But this is one of the things, in fact, I say this is the most critical thing that must be healed in the black culture, which is a very lower class culture. And the heroes of the culture are very lower class. Your sexy reds, your Suki Hanas, your Nicki Minaj, your Cardi B. These women probably should receive capital punishment for the poisons that they're reinforcing in the society. And it's not only these women that are guilty. You also have a number of rappers that are guilty because these characters will make songs and talk about what they're buying the chick and getting her a bag and paying her rent. I mean, that's the most insane concept on earth is paying a woman's rent. It's like, why would you do that? I don't understand at any level except that you're a beta male peeon. And for those of you who are watching and wondering, can you be rich and be a beta male? Absolutely. Most of them are. Most men are beta males, but definitely the rich guys, because there's a good number of guys who went and got the money so they could get some honey. Come on now. They got the money just so they could get the honey. They didn't get the money because they love to hustle. Me, I love to hustle. I love to hustle. That's why when chicks ask me, like if a chick ever hits me up on DM and she's like, "What do you enjoy doing?" Making products, serving the marketplace. That's what I enjoy doing. Yes, indeed. I like putting out products that people use. like Wisdom for example, I got a couple messages pending on Wisdom. It's a phenomenal platform where people can make money, can change people's lives. I love the fact I can put money in other people's pocket and I even more love the fact that I've created a communications platform that I think is where the future is heading uh in terms of transactional communication, but it's a product that many people get to use. I love creating products and adding value to the marketplace. I I just love to hustle. I love to hustle. I don't love what the money can get me. I actually love the process of hustling. There's not many people like that. You know, if you have that wiring as a man, you're blessed. You're truly blessed. If you're a woman and you can get a man who has that wiring, you're truly blessed because you'll never be broke. That man could lose a job. Oh, you gonna be back on, baby. Give it a couple months. You gonna be all right. Believe that. You dig? Yes, indeedy.

Let me acknowledge some of the folks who came in using the super chat feature. He writes, "Could you collaborate with game god Goldie?" Could I? I suppose I could uh shout out to Chemical came and supporting the work. I also acknowledge Native writes been listening to the shadows for a while. Great work. Oh, listening in the shadows. I'm tripping. Appreciate you. Thank you for standing up, making your name known. Um, I am Blake the Realtor. Okay. Appreciate you. Just came supporting. And if you guys have any major players that you want me to collaborate with, reach out to them. Set it up. We get it done. But don't play any games. Don't reach out to people who are, you know, who are new in the game, who don't have real followings. That wouldn't be a great use of time. But, you know, if somebody want to chop up some real gain, absolutely. Let's get it.

Now, back to this white woman. This white woman. >> We get with men to love them. >> Uhoh. >> And we help build them. >> Uhoh. >> Y'all get with white men to take from them >> and have a success that you never earned. >> Yeah. I'm going to need some replies to this one. Look here, sis. You know, I got to speak up on this. >> Now, here's the thing. I feel really well positioned to comment on this. I did not comment on it because I really didn't want to uh I didn't want to cause I didn't want to sway anyone's perspective. I just wanted to hear from the audience. But I am fortunate enough to have been at a a crossroads where I've had my fair share of white women. my fair share of black women. And I guess I can weigh in on this. I guess I can weigh in on it. I do want to look at some of the comments, too. Black women building a man up. It's happened before. It's happened before. You know what? As I think about it, I I've had my fair share of lazy white ones and my fair share of lazy black ones. I've had my fair share of productive um white ones and productive black ones. So, I think they're almost equal, but certainly the whites the white girls are beating out the the black girls a little bit. Uh, in as much as for sure, I've never ever ever gotten the feeling from a white woman that's approached me or that I've dealt with, I've never gotten the feeling that I had to be a provider. It's always felt optional. It always felt optional. It always felt like I'm about you. And if you can provide, dope. And if you can't, it is what it is. I'm about you. I'm for you. I never ever ever one time felt like I had to be a provider with a white chick. Never one time felt that. Absolutely not. And in terms of being supported, I've been supported by all of them. But I say the difference in the nature of the support is that the black woman always put the feeling in you that you had to be a provider, that she was always doing you a favor. It didn't ever feel like you were one. Meaning that the white chick will make you feel like, and I'm saying generally, the white one will make you feel like the money circulates from her to you, but it comes right back to her when she gives it to you. So, it it's just like you guys are one and it's just circulating within you all and the wealth and abundance is just it's just soul to soul swirling around and you guys are eventually going to lift up. You're gonna blast off the black chicks. It's like it was a very painful thing for them to take a dollar out of their pocket and turn it over to you like oh like it hurt like every bit of it hurt like they were getting multiple sclerosis just having to hand over a dollar to you. Um it just seemed like everything in their their black soul did not want that to happen. Um but that's not every black woman. I'm just saying on the extreme side like meaning like the the the lowest quality black chick and the lowest quality white chick. the lowest quality black chick was unfortunately lower. Um, but in terms of the high quality, the high quality white chicken and the high quality black chick, they were about the same except the black chick was maybe I'd say a little higher. And I'm saying black, but she's really Afro Latina. If I'm being honest with you, if I'm keeping it a bean with you, she's Afro Latina. So, she she identifies as black, but she's a little on the paler side. Definitely thick. Definitely thick. That was probably the black side, but yeah. So, if you just had to go based on merit and you had never heard of, you know, any of this black empowerment stuff, if you're just going solely based on merit and you just want the best deal for you as an individual and you had to reach into a a bag with your eyes closed and there's a white box or you have to reach into a box, not a bag. There's a white box and a black box. You have to reach in with your eyes closed and pull out something that's going to benefit you the most. and you have no allegiance to race or anything like that, you probably gonna want to reach in that white box. You probably gonna want to reach in that white box. You probably are. Now, that is not to drag black women through the dirt. That is to say, you must do better. You absolutely must. And black women are probably watching this like, "Well, you ain't anyways." Well, most of them are, and I agree with you. Most of these dudes aren't worth much. So, you need to crowd around the ones that are that are worth something and make sure that when you get to that level, you can uh you can add value. And the claim of he date white girls or he like white girls or you shouldn't be dating white girls, that's not going to get the job done, sis. The only thing that's going to keep him away from white girls because as long as white girls have vaginas between their legs, which which I trust that they do, all of them. I checked in some cases um men are going to see see what it do. So the only reason you are going to be able to keep a man or get a man or prevent him from going over to that side is to perform. And that does not consist of complaining or deriding the white woman. You have to perform. You have to stop being a gold digger. You have to stop being so transactional. You have to be willing to contribute. Um, and the funny thing with black women too, and I have to put this out there, is so many of them come from poverty. So many of them didn't have their father. Um, but their standards are so high. And I'm just like, damn. You expect me to do things that your father didn't do for you? You expect me to do things that your father didn't do for your mother? Where'd you get these standards from? Like, you expect me to pay for all this stuff? Like, where's your dad at? Like, why do I have to pay your rent? If you can't pay your rent, your dad doesn't want to pay your rent. Hasn't he known you your whole life? So, black women have to, and this is why I try to write down so many of the standards and just like spread it across the earth so that we can have realistic expectations when we engage one another. Cuz women will say, "Oh, well, I expect a man to court me." Well, that was a thing in the past. But remember this. In the past, when men had to go all out of their way to court a woman, those women were virgins. Are you a virgin? Women wear white at their wedding day to symbolize purity. Most of them should be wearing gray or black cuz they're not pure at all. None of them. They most of them shouldn't even be getting married. Like they shouldn't even have a wedding day. And if they did, they shouldn't be wearing white cuz that's a lie. So what they want is they want to benefit from the old rules, but they don't want any of the accountability from the old rules. The accountability of being a virgin, the accountability of being a woman who stays at home most of the time. The accountability of being subject to your man even if he raises a hand to you and not taking your personal business, your family business outside of the home. They don't want to abide by the old rules because in the old rules, you're gonna you you gonna get this work. So, they want to abide by the parts of the old rules that benefit them instead of the whole code of conduct. And that's a part of the deceptive narcissistic nature of the female, which is inherent. And there's levels. And your goal is to find a woman that ranks low in narcissism, high in being caring. Huh? low in deception, high in cooking skills, willingness to clean, and you know, high in being able to listen and uh take feedback. Come on now. Uh shout out to Pug that. It's been a while since I saw you, bro. He writes, "Any chance you and coach Greg Adams can link up again? I doubt if you have the same issues, excuse me, I doubt if you have the same issues you came across with FNF. you are two of my top content creators. Maybe a Vegas thing piece of things. You know what? Um, shout out to to the coach. Uh, we did link up a while back. And you know, we have a good relationship as far as I know. Now, shout out to the coach, my baldhead brother, wise uh wise gentleman. You know, I invited coach on my show and um you know, if he wants to invite me on his show, I'd be more than happy to uh to show up. And you know, that's kind of how things generally work. At least for me, I always think of it as um you know, like for like, you know, kind of go back and forth with things. So, I I made the first reach out to him, invite him on my show, hosted him. So, took him out to dinner. So, I think uh I'll just yield to him on that one.

Now, back to this white woman. >> Point this one out. Y'all get with a white man for his money. >> Bold with it. >> Yeah, they they do. They brag about it. >> There's a whole woman viral on Facebook and Tik Tok because she's with this white man and she's literally clearly stating this. She got with him for her. She was shaking ass. She got with him and now she's with him and I feel bad for him. It's like boooo. >> I don't feel bad for him though. >> Okay, that's how you want to live. The reason why black women get with white men and the reason why white women get with black men is different. >> We get with men to love them and we help build them. >> Y'all get with white men to take from them >> and have a success that you never earned. >> Damn. >> Yeah, I'm gonna need some replies to this one. Look here, sis. You know, y'all got to speak up on this one now. Don't don't don't just swipe through this one now. I need some responses. I need some responses >> and let me point. >> You know, what she's saying is so powerful. And if it was if it was completely uh if it was completely ludicrous, I wouldn't be reacting to this. If it was completely ludicrous and baseless, you wouldn't have 1,242 replies to it. if it was completely ludicrous. Just the response rate alone lets you know that she was she was saying something valid and this was only posted uh posted this before I went for my workout. So, she's saying something valid for sure. Now, let's take a look at um at what people have responded. This fellow writes, "Let me make sure this is enlarged so that you guys can see it." This fellow writes, "Oh, and by the way, if there's any ladies who want to come on, send your three bucks by v by Vinmo and you can come on. Express your your perspective on this." And I think a woman's perspective is very valuable here. He writes, "I think black women are more aggressive and talk about using men. White women are more quiet about it." And I think that's a good point, which is to say, women use men. Full stop. All yeah, absolutely. Women use men generally speaking. But yes, black women are shameless about it. Very tacky and low class about it. And and it's really an embarrassment to all of us, all of us black people. The way they talk about it like that, it's really sick and sad. Uh so I agree and apparently a lot of other people agree because there's 510 likes on that, which is to say women broadly use men. black women brag about it, which is really devious when you think about bragging about doing something bad. It just shows that you're you're a real dirt bag, doesn't it? Fellow writes, uh, that's sometimes worse when they don't have when they don't even have anything to say for themselves. Okay. Uh, this is a woman who believes herself to be black right here. She writes, "A white woman talking down." And see, this is the important thing to understand. I really want you guys to understand this piece. So she writes, "A white woman talking down on black women." Now, this is so important. This is what's wrong with women today in gen in general. Telling the truth is not talking down on you. Being critical, criticizing, or giving feedback is not talking down. And this is fatherless behavior. Because if you weren't raised around a real man, I shouldn't even say fatherless. This is behavior that results from not being around a masculine man, you were never disciplined. And so if you were never disciplined, when you receive discipline or feedback, then it seems like punishment from a female mind that has not been developed with a masculine balance to it with with a masculine externality balancing that inherent female emotionalism. So, this female is lying, saying that she's talking down on black women. She's not talking down on black women. She is shining a light on black women. And I can testify. And that this woman writing this comment, dirt bag. Total dirt bag. And I'll show you in a second. A white woman talking down on black women from the black men. Black women whom the black man came from is insane. I think there should be a period there. Also, yeah, that should be a period. There should be a capital. Also, switching up verbiage, referring to a black woman as boooo. I'm not sure at that time she was referring to a black woman, but who cares? Anyways, I love y'all black women and men. Now, the question is, you love black men and women. Do you have a black man whom uh you're with and you are honoring him and you've given him children? We'll take a look. We should be able to tell from your profile. Don't continue to let others get in between us loving each other. That's a good message. Except this woman's not getting in between you. Black woman in that comment was accusing the white woman of trying to come in between the black woman and the black man. And this is what I told you earlier about women and their ruthless competition with each other. They don't want to see another woman do better than them, especially with regards to men. Cuz women mostly view themselves as sex objects. And if she would heed the words of the white woman, she'd probably come closer to the black man because the extractive nature that these black women exercise upon white men, they also will exercise upon black men. They target the white men because he's he's more financially empowered. So, he's a better target of extraction. But her nature and her skill set is still going to be utilized against the black man as well. H and when the white woman says we go in there cuz we love the black man, the one we're dealing with, I tend to think that that has some level of authenticity. And the reason that I say that is because you're going against a level of social norms. You're dating outside of your race. You're going to receive some level of sanction from whites in your family and in the society. So you're going against that when you don't have to. So there has to be some driving force. It's obviously not money in most cases. And the black man generally is the most downtrodden, if not viewed as the most downtrodden in the society. So you probably have significant level of emotions and driving force, especially if you're an attractive white woman dating a black man who's like an everyday guy, especially in that case. So, I I tend to think that there's that's factual that they're dealing with these guys because they love them or they're interested in them truly. I don't think that the the claims of black women hold up. I'll tell you what, let's be real here. A black woman saying that white women fetishize black men is the same as white guys on the internet calling chicks mud sharks when they date black men is just a strategy. It's a survival and protectionist strategy for the less desired counterpart uh of a given race to to try to give social sanction so that their their counterpart doesn't go and seek a better option than them. That's essentially what that is.

I acknowledge Carter came in supporting the work via Vinmo. Shout out to Teddy with the first baller alert. Teddy's a baller. Teddy's a baller. First baller alert. He write comes in at the $100 level on Vinmo. He writes, "Peace of the saints." Just like the divevesttor who was found unal alive uh who talked bad about black men and was bragging about her white zatty uh and her soft life era saying the guy in the pic uh looked like a damn psychopath. You know what? I saw that and I even saw it said that black men were celebrating it. And I don't know if celebration is necessary. You might chuckle at a thing like that. out of celebration is necessary. But what these women don't realize is that, you know, though women talk of love and they talk of romance, it's mostly a strategy to extract from the man. Men actually feel the love. Women will talk of the love, they'll talk of the romance, but men feel it. Like we actually want to love a woman. And there's some of us who are, you know, kind of hopeless like these guys who pay pay to play with women. I don't understand that. like me, I can't really enjoy the woman unless the the love is there. You heard me? That's just me, though. But anyways, I think that this woman was dealing with a guy who was underdeveloped. And often the guys who are paying to play, they're underdeveloped. The passport bros, these are the guys are a little bit autistic. They lack social skills and they think that going abroad where their dollar goes farther is going to get them a woman. And you can't buy love. And in the absence of buying love, you know, you you're ending up with this being who is a blood sucker and a parasite and you're you're trying to pull love out, but it's like squeezing blood from a stone. And what happens is that in your disappointment, and then she starts, you know, revealing more of her attitude to you, more of that negativity, and then bro snapped. I'm not surprised at all. So, this is a a black woman who wants to talk about white women coming in between black love. Then you might ask yourself, well, what kind of black woman is this? Is this a worthwhile black woman? And I think it's worth taking a look at her because, you know, frankly, there's certain things that are red flags and I'm I'm willing to point them out. So, here we go. Just got waxed. So, this cat, I'm assuming, refers to her getting her cat waxed. That's not appropriate conversation in general. Okay. I don't mind the braids. That's cool. We could work with that. But then you had to put on those eyelashes. Major turnoff. You um Yeah. Anyways, carrying on. So, there's that. I say that to say that her with this negative comment, she's not even a woman that anyone should want. Huh? Give me one second and send your comments, questions, size tuition right now. Okay. carrying on. And I think it's really worth seeing how people reacted to this. And you'll also see a a a noticeable absence of black women in the chat. Gentleman writes, "She's completely correct. And I am a black woman. There's so many of us that are just selfish." Oh, wow. She she keeping it a bean out here. Um, let's see. And now the white man took her out. He's talking about that news that someone else had mentioned. Individual writes, "Based off of US history, this seems accurate." Oh, I agree. Person writes, "No lies detected." Individual writes, "White women get with black men out of lust." Now, this is a very fascinating take and is very common as well. I'm not saying it's inaccurate. I think there's definitely a lot of uh white women that are chasing the sole pole, but I think that makes sense. Marco, what do you mean it makes sense? And mind you, I don't like promiscuous women. I don't like sexually driven women at all. Major turnoff for me. But human beings are animals. And our purpose, one of our purpose is to procreate. Being attracted to one another is a core thing in romance. That's that's what makes the relationship not platonic. It that's what makes it not a friendship. So it's a requirement that you're attracted. So the idea that black men are more attractive or that white women are more attracted to black men, I don't find that to be a a mark in the negative column. I think it's a strange argument to make as though it's like some bad thing that they're sexually attracted to black men. Like you're supposed to be like when I walk out and if I decide to talk to a woman, you better believe that I'm attracted to her in that way. There have been some women that have approached me and they're engaging me or even women that I might end up talking to and then I remember like, "Oh, I don't even want to sleep with this woman. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you." No, cuz cuz that's actually critical. This is critical. So, it's really weird that people act as though that's weird that the the white women want the black guy sexually. Like, duh. It's necessary. It's important. Makes no sense. Anyways, white women get with black men out of lust, not love or to build them up. Shout out to this brother. He's really trying to hold down his sisters. Uh, number one, it may start of lust. And I think the love will probably come. And I think the nature of many of them is to build based on my experience. And I've had women of all races come at me out of lust. And I have no problem with that. I just don't like dealing with women who have high sex drive or are sexually focused. And unfortunately, it's too many of them. They've been exposed to too much. He writes, "Black women don't care about white men, and when they do, it's only for his privileges." Okay, I'm curious to see what people said. Back to Little Buddy. Uh, this person writes, "So, black women don't lust over white dudes?" Yikes. You know, I don't think they do. Right. I must concede I've never heard black women like having conversations about white men being attractive respectfully. Um this is not to suggest that there are not attractive white women or she mean white men. This is just to say I've never heard like a real conversation between black women about such frequent writes typically black women lust over what's uh in white men's pockets versus in their pants. The brother is saying white women lust over us because of their infatuation of being with a black man physically. That's been going on since slavery. Nothing new. Yeah, I think that's about right. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Okay. Not such an engaging conversation there to me. This person writes, "That's a black woman's entire life goal. Sleep with a man for money. That's all they talk about." Like lowkey if you listen to their music. That's kind of true. I'm not going to lie to you. Uh, like one major red flag, if I hear a chick listening to any female rapper, it's a red flag. And women should not rap ever again. I have not heard a good female rapper since Lauren Hill. Lauren Hill was spitting some real rap, but every other female rapper is like, first off, their voice, for some reason, they feel like they got to sound like a dude. Me the Stallion feels like she needs to sound like a dude. So here she is in this deep grally voice like yeah and if he don't eat my butt and make me nut and I'm trying to make a come up. It's like all it is is about perversion and money is perversion money perversion money. That's it. And I even find it disgusting when you see a lot of these white females on social media are dancing or reacting or voicing these grotesque lyrics like Taliban time in the realest of ways. But I agree with Brody right here. He writes, "That's a black woman's entire life goal. Sleep with a man for money." Uh, that's all they talk about. This is a fact. Uh, your finances might be the first thing they ask you about. And unfortunately, I have had women uh make inquiries about that. And it's an awkward thing. It's a very awkward thing, bro. Hit us with the meme. I'm Jaw writes, "She is trying to hit a point. However, even when research is cited, a lot of it reflects socially constructed." Okay, we that's sounding kind of liberal. I'm gonna just skip that right there. I don't feel like reading all that woman talk. Uh Bernie writes, "I see now we're going to have to be in their business more often because staying in black people's business seems to be a trend." Uh no, I agree. They like to be in our business, but I wouldn't be surprised if baby has some black kids. And if you're a white person with black kids, well then black is in fact at that point your business. But also I think that she's probably been attacked quite a bit by black women and this may just be her reaction to such. Wouldn't be surprised at all. I remember one time and I'll tell you I was walking down the street in Baltimore, Maryland with a colleague. It was a colleague, gorgeous white woman whom I did end up eventually taking down like a hitman but at the time she was just a colleague. And I'm walking down the street and there's some black women in a beat up ass car. It's like a 87 Toyota hatchback. They're driving down the street and then as they get by us, they slow down, roll down THE WINDOW LIKE SELL OUT AND THEN DRIVE OFF. I WAS LIKE, "GOD DAMN." And I was personally angered because I was like, I didn't even hit. Like if I would have hit, I would have felt fine. Like, yep, sign me up. I'm selling out. But I didn't even hit. I was like, you have a you accused an innocent man. And the crazy thing, too, is this white girl was also thick, too. So, I was like, I know y'all hate this white girl. She's pretty and thick. Oh, I know y'all hate her. I know y'all hate her cuz y'all can't beat her at anything. Oh, I know y'all hate this girl. I know y'all hate her. Big mad. >> Point this one out. >> Oh, dang. Did I lose my place? I did. Let me get back down there. Yeah, they was big mad. There's nothing that makes black women more uncomfortable than a white woman who is naturally thick. Oh my god, that says them over the edge because they just feel like they can't compete on nothing. Well, I don't even want to say that out loud. Just saying that out loud, I think like there's some black women downstairs waiting to take me out in the lobby. You dig? Yes, indeed. Bernie writes, "Uh, I see now we're going to have to have Okay, read that one. Better ask all the NBA players, football players, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Kevin Cosner, just to name a few. It's women, period, no matter what the make or model." I agree there. Nicole looks like this is a black woman. Let's see. Okay, there's Nicole. Looks like she has some kids. She writes, uh, "So when white women speak on black women, it's true, but when white men speak on black men, it's lies." Yo, yo, shout out to baby girl right there. I like how she did that. I like how she did that. Now, here's the thing. This whole post didn't have anything to do about black men. This is about white women and black women. It's about white women and black women. So, I don't know why y'all got to start throwing this under the bus. We ain't had nothing to do with this post. It's a white woman chinchecking you. This This had nothing to do with black men. But I like how she did that. That was funny. That was very funny. And it was kind of It was unrelated to the argument, which is women, they often like to do that. They say things that are unrelated to the current topic when they're emotional. But it it was well put together. Shout out to baby girl. Got her two whole likes. And let's see. Um, did she wrote did she at herself? That's curious. Very curious. The enlares so you guys can see it. And then she wrote someone responded, "Huh? Why in God's name art thou talking?" What? What are you talking about? He's asking why black women get with white men, love or money. Black men have nothing to do with this. Let's focus. You know what? This is a rational man. He came to the exact same conclusion I came to, which is that you're not talking about the current topic. And this is a major thing that every man should be teaching his daughter. How to deal with feedback. Women cannot deal with feedback, most of them. And you'll have a a woman who is a true gem when she can deal with feedback. And because most women can't deal with feedback, I don't give them feedback. I just most of the time I just dip. Most of the time I ask myself this. I say, "A, do I ever want to deal with you again?" If the answer is, "No, I don't want to deal with you again." Oh, I don't need no feedback. I'm leaving for good. You'll never see me in your life. I'm gone. If it's a woman that I'm going to deal with, we're going to continue on in our relationship. I ask myself, a, if I give her feedback, will it transform the behavior? If the answer is no, then I'm not going to waste time giving feedback. And if I expect her to recommmit this violation, which is probably minor, then I'm just going to give her some time to let her know like, I didn't like what you did or said, I'm not going to waste my breath telling you to fix something I know you can't fix or won't fix. I'm just going to take some time away from you, and then I'll see you tomorrow or I'll see you on another day. I'll see you next week, whatever the case is. Um, but most females are horrible at taking feedback. Oh, they are so bad at it. And that is not good. Women, when you get them, you basically got to take them for what they are when you meet them. And here's the funny thing. They're lying and pretending to be better than they are. So, you got to figure out who they actually are and then take them for that person. You heard me? Yes, indeed. And this woman, she's clearly going off topic because this guy said the exact same thing I was thinking, which is, "What the hell are you talking about?" And what she's basically doing is trying to shift blame and attention. Shift blame onto the the black man and shift attention away from the faults of the black woman. And you know that she's probably a guilty party because she's in there fighting for her life. You see, if someone made a post and they said, "Hey, black men are uncouthed. Black men are obnoxious or emotional. Black men are low income. Black men are this and that." I wouldn't start defending it if they're speaking to the facts. And I wouldn't feel offended either. It's the facts. It is what it is. And if it doesn't apply to me, why should I be mad? Huh? Anyways, then we have this person here uh has zero post. He writes unknown. I don't know if he meant I I don't even know what kind of See, this is why I tell women if you meet a good man, throw yourself at him because look, I can't even understand this guy's English. Unknown. Sounds like it makes sense to me. She just taken the words out of Is that a word? Outa. You guys date men that that write like this out of they mouths and putting it into perspective. You forgot about soft life or pasta and lobster. And I always encourage people when they're writing to write in proper English. I think all women is here to love and take care of a man. It just depends on Okay, carrying on. Can't speak for me, but both my cousins are brown with some good black girls. I wouldn't say that's true what she said. Well, you said your cousins are brown. She's talking about white men, uh, black women that go for white men. So, that didn't even relate. Also, this is why we shouldn't take from women on such things or why women's testimony is half of a man's. Women are prone to emotional biased arguments and using their own anecdotal experiences to generate. Okay. Uh just women being spiteful against each other. That's probably true. Um, if ever needed an example of a plain looking white woman, you know what? I don't know if that uh insult was warranted because that's not very manly. Like I like a plain looking woman. Like a woman is is plain when she's actually wearing her face. They're not plain when they have the the eyeliner and the eyelashes and all this extra stuff. That's the stuff that represents the evil. So me personally, I I like a plain woman. Being female is the key. Person writes, "Caucasian women do the sameish to those successful black men, NBA, NFL players." Uh, person writes, "White people always worried about black people." Uh, this woman writes, "Her vernacular is giving that she is with a black man, and clearly he has given her the perception that she's better than black women." Well, if that's the one he's with and you can hear kids in the background, then in his personal experience, uh, she has been better than black women and the permission to disrespect black women. I don't think she was being disrespectful. I think she was actually just speaking to the the facts. Have you ever noticed that unless it's a celebrity or an athlete, the white women who are with black men are usually the white women that white men don't want? I don't know if that's entirely reliable, but there's definitely some truth there. I agree at a level. Furthermore, I question if the NBA wife or Joel Embiid or Patrick Patterson or she's this is a womanly post because you see how long that post is. That's damn near a breakup text. You heard me? And again, that's the difference between men and women. Like women are treated so well in the society that they think a [ __ ] wants to read all of this. I was about to read this message and then I realized that this is a breakup text. me and her just broke up. You hear me? This is a breakup text. A a real [ __ ] would never write a goddamn message that long because we have enough like humility to know that nobody cares about us enough to read a message that damn long. You hear me? Like nobody cares about us to read a message that long. This looks like this is a woman here and she writes, "White women get with black NBA players for their money, their muscles, and the muscle between their legs." Okay, someone writes, "She's delusional." Okay, I think this person was delusional cuz that was crazy. They're saying it like she's completely off base. And this is the emotionalism that we're talking about. It's like, come on. And we got to be real at some level. Uh Dr. Cocoa Bunny writes, "Girl, if white men had the package black men have, you wouldn't even look black men's way." Okay, so this woman's talking about intercourse at her age. Okay, I'm just going to carry on. Uh, this person writes, "White women are the ultimate diggers of gold. They are taught to take and not earn by their mom and dad." Okay, I don't know. This people weren't these comments. I think I'm good on these comments here. I think I'm good on these comments. And the sad thing is that we see a diversity of perspectives, which lets you know that the truth might be lost there. There's a little bit too much diversity. You tend to expect some level of diversity, but not that much. Not that much. I think there's a lot of emotion in that comment section. I think that a lot of people who are consider themselves to be pro black, which is a beautiful thing. Uh they're pro black and so they feel like they have to cover over the the flaws or shortcomings of black people, which is fine. I don't see I I have no criticism of that. But certainly, I do believe that if we don't acknowledge things and make plans, I'm all about practical steps. If we don't make plans and execute on it, then we're not going to see any process uh progress. And so as long as we're lying and claiming that black women are not admitted gold diggers, and you can even hear it in their music, they're always talking about it in nword with money. And even you hear the guys, they basically represent themselves as tricks. Until we can acknowledge that that's in the culture, we can't pull it out of the culture and we can't thereby build strong families. Maybe the white women who get the black athletes are gold diggers and they're clearly very talented gold diggers, but what they don't do is they don't express it and they don't flaunt it and thereby degrade the men while saying, "Hey, this is what we're really looking for." And that's a lesson that black women can take from white women. Um, but I also, if it's true that the white woman is a gold digger and the black woman is a gold digger, then the black gold digger should ask the white gold digger, "What are you doing that the higher level black man wants you?" Because we both have the same body and the same physical or sexual abilities. What are you doing? What are you saying? How are you treating him that makes him opt for you instead of me? And I think that that's a very meaningful like thought experiment for the black woman because there's no doubt that there are shortcomings and I say that with full love and respect uh for black women and it's enough love to correct so that they can be better and they can build families instead of being lonely mothers which so many of them are. And again I always tell people don't mention other content creators in my live chat. So we'll just remind people of that in case they forgot. If you feel like I should link up with another content creator, reach out to them. Make it happen. If they have a significant following, we we'll get it done. I'm always willing to engage with people who uh you know, who do good business and are honorable and straightforward. No problemmo. You see, it looks like uh I'm caught up acknowledging all the folks. Thank you to everyone who actually supported the work. I really do appreciate you. Uh thank you to those who um hit the like button, those who really support, those who are members at peace ofthesaints.com. and it really does mean a lot. Um, until next time, peace to the saints.