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So you had this person that started a whole smear campaign against you. What this person would do is they would go around to anybody that would listen, and they would talk about you behind your back. They would gossip about you. They would just slander your name, just create all sorts of lies about you. They would accuse you of doing things that you did not do; accuse you of saying things that you did not even say. Basically, just making up all of these lies, and it was done by one specific person. One person.
Now, this person, what they would do is people would probably wonder, like, "Why do you constantly have your name in this person's mouth?" Like people would wonder why this person would always have your name in their mouth. Why do you always have their name in your mouth? Why are you always talking about them? Why are you always gossiping about them? Why do you always have to talk about them behind their back? Why do you always have to talk about them when they're not around? What is the issue? Why is their name always in your mouth? People could wonder that about them.
But, for them to save face, what they would do is the people that they would talk to about you—wait, I'm sorry—the people that they would talk to about you, they would basically make up lies and say that you talked about them as well. See, basically what this person would do is they would go around saying that you were talking about them, that you were being mean to them, that you were doing this, that, and the third to them when none of that stuff was true. So, to make their story more plausible, they're like, "Hey, wait a minute. Not only was this person talking about me, but they were talking about you, too. And they said this, that, and the third. So you need to be upset with them like I'm upset with them. You need to be mad at them like how I'm mad at them. They talked about me, they talked about you, they talked about the both of us. We both need to be against them." That's exactly what they did. They would basically make up lies saying that you were talking about everybody else to make their story more plausible, to make their story more believable.
And what this did is when they would lie to other people and say that you were talking about them, talking about the people that they were talking about you too. Basically, those other people would think like, "Well, why are they talking about me? What have I done to them? Why are they got that? Why do they have my name in their mouth? What is D?" Basically, what they would—basically this person did this on purpose to get people to dislike you, to get people to be against you, because if they heard that you were talking about them, then they would have an issue with you. So, this person started this whole smear campaign to get people to have an issue with you, to get people to have a problem with you, to get people to be against you. This person that started the smear campaign wanted people to be against you. They wanted you to have nobody, no allies, no—excuse me—confirmation, no support system. They wanted you to have nobody. They wanted you to be alone. They wanted you to have nobody but yourself.
And this worked in a sense because these people were actually believing what this person was saying. They were believing that you were talking about them, that you were saying all these things to them when you really weren't. But the thing about these people is they didn't come to check the source. They didn't come to you directly and say, "Did you say this about me? Did you do this to her? Did you say any of this?" They never came to check the source. They just believed this person at face value because this person was so manipulative. These—this person manipulated other people around them and started a whole smear campaign against you to get people to be against you, all because of their envy and jealousy. This person was severely envious of you. They wanted to be like you. They wanted to be you. They wish that they could have your personality, your vibe, your appearance, your looks. They wish that they had all of that that you had, but they don't; they're not you. So basically what they did is they wanted to make your life miserable. They wanted to give you a hard time. So they're basically trying to get everybody to turn against you behind your back so that other people can have this problem with you.
And another thing about it is is this person was saying, "No, don't go back and tell them what I said to you. Just keep this between us," to basically keep you isolated, to keep them having this bone to pick with you. This animosity towards you that you have no idea where this animosity came from. These people had this animosity towards you that you didn't even know where it came from because you got some person slandering you behind your back. That's what was happening with that situation because this person that started the whole smear campaign is a narcissist. They're a malignant narcissist. They start rumors. They start smear campaigns. They ruin people's images. They ruin people's reputations. They do so many things that they can to ruin a person's life. That's what they try to do. And this person went out of their way to try to ruin your life.
But here's what happened. Once you removed yourself from that group of people, that same person that started the whole smear campaign started going off on everybody else, started attacking everybody else, started just saying—verbally attacking people, emotionally attacking people, saying all bunch of nonsense to people that got people looking at this person all off, all different. They're like, "Why are you going off on me? Why?" These people that they were going off on are looking at this person like, "Why are you going off on me? Why are you attacking me? Where is all this coming from? Why are you giving me all this energy? You gave them that energy because they were talking about you, but now you're giving me this energy when I'm not even talking about you." That's when the light bulb started to go off. Light bulb started to go on, and they're like, "Oh, you know what? Now I'm starting to see the problem. This person probably wasn't talking about you. You probably just said that they were talking about you to get people to be against them. Now you're throwing me under the bus and acting like I'm talking about you when I know I said none of those things about you. You're just lying. You're just pulling [ __ ] out of thin air, pulling [ __ ] out of your ass. And you probably did the same thing to them. You're the problem. You're the issue. You're the main culprit. You're the manipulative one. You're the one that gossip and slanders about people. You are the one that has the issue. You are the one that has the problem, and I don't want to be around you anymore."
Those people that were once their allies now left them, now are no longer a part of their life. They no longer have access to them. They no longer deal with them because they realize how toxic and manipulative this person is. This person shot themselves in the foot by taking that energy that they had towards you and going and using that energy to go towards everybody else because now they push everybody away with their energy. Now no one wants to deal with them. No one wants to be bothered with them. So they tried to isolate you. They ended up isolated at the very end of all that because no one wanted to be around them. Now this person is alone. They're isolated. They have no friends. They have no allies. They have no group of people that they can talk to. They have nobody right now. And they're stuck dealing with all of their pain on their own. They're stuck dealing with this by themselves. They have nobody that they can project on to, nobody they can talk about. They don't have anybody now. And now they have to sit back and reflect on their past behaviors to see how they got into this predicament, how they got into this situation that they are in now where they're lonely and depressed and sad and alone. But they only brought this all on themselves. They brought this all on themselves because of their own actions.