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This is why men don't want to get married, cuz if Steph Curry can't keep a woman happy, you guys think you have a chance? This is the bait and switch. She started as like a traditional tradwife.
All right, so this is my PowerPoint called women change. Remember, this is her. Look at Look at them. And I want you to understand, a lot of times when women marry men young, marrying young it really is not beneficial, I would argue, for most women or most men.
Um the reason being is I think women have to get pumped or dumped once or twice to realize that these men flirting with them are not going to take them seriously. I do think that's an important thing for women we have to understand. But unfortunately, you know, when guys get us before the pumping and dumping, we don't get humbled at all.
Now, you might say, "Pearl, but do women need to be humbled?" Oh, yeah, we do. Oh, hell yeah, we need to be The reason we need to be humbled is because remember, society is going to tell her that you can get anything, that you can do better, queen. So, remember, this was her what she talked about back then. So, a lot of times when women don't have a hoe face on the front end, they will have it on the back end. And I'm going to talk about what the red pill uh says about this phenomenon.
So, everyone's into barely wearing clothes these days, huh? Not my style. I like to keep the good stuff covered up for the one who matters. I mean, this is what she was doing, you know? That is a wholesome woman. And and like I I had somebody say to me the other day that I said that body count doesn't matter. Now, I actually believe that body count does matter when a woman isn't damaged. But in 2025, it doesn't matter that much. What it does give men is a longer subscription. So, like a woman that's banged a bunch of dudes, uh your subscription is going to be pretty short, your free trial. You know, she'll be like 3 months. Men, um can get a lot more out of a woman with a low body count. That's why I would obviously encourage you guys to go lower. But, even the women that, um don't have a lot of bodies, they just have a whole face on the back end, which is what we're going to see here. Wrong take. She was never wholesome, just pretending to me. Where are the wholesome women then? Where are they? Where are they? Mileage matters. Oh, it matters. As I said, it's like you get a longer test drive on the lower miles. But, it's not a guarantee is my point. It's not a guarantee in any way, um Yeah, like uh There are women that are virgins, and then they go bang, you know, how do our hoes made? They start as virgins, you guys. They start as virgins, and then they see all the women doing hoe [ __ ] Just like Aisha.
Okay, now this is her now. Remember her now. Like she posted a naked picture on Instagram. Now, this is her going to a Drake concert. She's looking for her next guy. Okay. So, it wasn't until uh obviously we do the bait and switch, so All right, so we're going to go through This is the clip that's going viral right now. Now, the more traditional a woman is required to be, the more we have a tendency to make you pay on the back end. So, the more youth and beauty we give you, the more we resent you for it later, especially if we don't feel like we got a good deal. Now, this doesn't mean we didn't get a good deal. Obviously, she got a great deal. But, that doesn't change her feelings because she remember, she views Steph as the guy, the dorky guy from high school. You know, now she's in Steph's social circle, which has has men that are way more alpha, more high status. And now, um she wants to get their attention. So, she's whoring, obviously.
>> I didn't want kids. I I didn't want to get married. I thought I was going to be career girl and that's it. And I had my eyes set on my goals. And I was never the little girl that like dreamt about the wedding dress and all of that. And then it happened so early in my life. Did you talk to Steph about it? He tries to resonate with me, but he just can't.
>> Now, again, if we feel like we could have been more successful on our own, now, there's no evidence that would suggest that she was really going anywhere. I think she was in like one music video. She was in a episode of Hannah Montana. There was no evidence that this woman was a destined for stardom. I mean, child actors have a very low shelf life. Um if anything, she's going to have more success as an actress because she's married to Steph if she wants to do it now. They're going to keep casting older women in movies because young because women love looking at older women on screen. So, there's going to be opportunity to make money.
>> I want to do a live debate and a meet and greet in your city. The problem is, I don't have any of your contact information, nor do I know what city you guys are in. So, make sure you fill out the form in the description. Just click, it's a Google form, the link's in the description, so we can contact you when we have an event in your city. Thanks, guys. Um but, she's just going to keep She's just going to keep taking credit. That's what we do best is we take credit for men's success, you know? We're very good at it.
>> And he also comes from a place of like It's effing stupid. Like,
>> [laughter]
>> He's thinking, "Bitch, I make a hundred bajillion dollars. We can live anywhere. We can do anything. What more do you want?"
>> It's not true, so why And I'm like, "But, wait. Like, listen to how it makes me feel." And he's like, "But, why does [laughter] it make you feel like that? It's not real." After we got married, we found out we were pregnant with our daughter so quickly, it I didn't even have time to think about what I wanted anymore. It's so interesting. I spent my entire life like trying to work towards something, and then it kind of just disappeared, and I didn't think twice about it. But, after my daughter turned one, I remember there being a shift and being like, "I have goals for myself. Like, this doesn't feel right. I love being a mom."
>> That's called the bait and switch. So, again, she put his needs before hers in order to get the resources and the quality of guy she wanted. But, um deep down, I don't think she was honest with herself that she didn't really want to be a wife and a mother. And a lot of times, this isn't even clear to us. It's not until we have a kid that we get like post-nut clarity, where we we look at the guy and we say, "Did I actually like him? Do I actually Is this the guy I want to be with?" And, you know, even this is why men don't want to get married cuz if Steph Curry can't keep a woman happy, you guys think you have a chance? Yeah, you don't. Sorry. You don't. Hate to Hate to be the one to say it.
>> But I love
>> No, I don't. I love being the one to say it.
>> doing other things, too, and I need to get my [ __ ] together and figure out what that looks like for myself now.
>> If I have a career and I'm not home and like like did you experience that?
>> experience that. I still experience that. I'm almost like I'm always in therapy.
>> She's in therapy over this. Now, remember, men never say, "My wife held me back," even though wives generally hold men back. That we're not support systems, we're resource-draining, Even the better women, we just have a tendency to suck. Sorry. We do.
>> talking about this. Uh if you lose all of those things that were interesting about you, even for yourself, like even the things that made me
>> Some women are just do not have the personality to uh be married to high-value men. We don't. Uh because we can't take that loss of attention. Now, he gets all the attention.
>> feel confident and cool, then what like what are you doing?
>> Yeah, okay. But by the way, this is uh a string. This is not the first time that she's embarrassed him. So, remember, this is the bait and switch. She started as like a traditional tradwife, okay?
>> My husband really loves my feet.
>> Well, I love that.
>> And so, like the light was hitting them just right that day. And so, I was like, "Let me just snap this photo and send him a picture of my feet." So, I always say like when he says to send nudes, like that's what he's getting. A picture of my bare feet.
>> [laughter]
>> So, she's bragging about how when her husband wants a nude, she sends that. We're like asking to get cheated on. I really think we are. We're like, "Please cheat on me. We're so unbearable." While his ex-wife is actually a lost. Yeah, I know.
>> about her into a hole.
>> Yeah, so let me let me continue. Let's see what else we got. Oh, yeah.
>> Time for a drink. What do you say?
>> Absolutely.
>> Yes, we get TO DRINK. MARCEL?
>> MARCEL?
>> SO, SHE'S TAKING OFF HER WEDDING RING. AGAIN, this is a woman married to a superstar. This is just a dude with muscles. Because women look at most women have it in them. And women will deny this to our core. Core. This is an uncomfortable truth about women. When we're with the same guy for a while, we get we just want to go bang a bunch of dudes. We have that in us. Men do, too, but they're honest about it. Women will deny will gaslight you into eternity. And it's interesting because we'll we'll gaslight men so hard where they're like, "Babe, you've banged the personal trainer. You cheated on me with that guy, that guy, that guy.
>> [snorts]
>> You're you're a [ __ ] Oh, my bad. Sorry. Sorry. I'm making bread. That's like my timer.
>> [gasps]
>> I'm trying to be trad. So, I trad at 29.
>> [laughter]
>> Sorry. You guys are too. Okay, so you can't hear the video. Oh, that's not good. All right, shoot. Let me try it again. I'll try playing it again. Tell me if this is better.
>> Oh, all right, Aisha. I think it's time for a drink. What do you say?
>> Absolutely.
>> Yes, we get to drink. Marcel? Marcel?
>> [cheering]
>> All right, but she Sorry, I had to throw a shimmy in there. Um did I let it rise long enough? Probably not. I'm not very good at bread. Bread isn't my um
>> [snorts]
>> it's not my best dish if I'm being honest. Uh but I'm trying to get better at it. A- If people could say a lot of things about me, but I do try in life. I am a trier. Um so sorry. Enough about me. I'm trying to make this about me and my bread. Okay, so it like my bread matters. All right, whatever. So um you know, a lot of times women that give a lot of beauty and youth on the front and they make the men pay on the back end. So now she got the kids, she got what she wanted. Um now she's just going to kind of wave her power. When you're afraid of your husband Sorry, when you're afraid of your husband, you're not doing this. Do you think Melania Trump is trying this with Trump? Melania, do you think she's going to go on a show and say that she wants to bang young guys? Look, I'm sure she has that urge. But she's afraid of Trump. She's like, oh no, I got a good thing going. I am not messing this up. I'm not. Why do you guys keep going on about the bread? You're going to distract me. I'm trying to I'm trying to do a show here. I'm trying to do a show. Okay, so regardless, um Where was I? Oh, women women will gaslight men. That we don't want to bang a bunch of guys. Our That's our nature. Now, what will happen is the conservative men, usually dorks who've never banged a lot of women, men that have banged a lot of women and no offense to the conservative guys, but that's your archetype. Your archetype of man is kind of like sexless. Not that liberal men, um are sexless in a different way. Now, conservative men are usually tricked in a way by religion to not date a lot of women and still give women women traditional treatment even when they don't deserve it. So, they kind of have the fear in God of God of them. You know, an alpha's not going to let God An alpha guy in general is not really going to fear God. I hate to say it. I hate to I sometimes wonder. I don't know what I believe, um over the years, I I just I don't know anymore. But, sometimes I I wonder if women invented religion to control men's sexuality. They're like, "Okay, we cannot get these guys to stop banging all the tribe girls. Let me just there is somebody in the sky that said, "You can only be with me." Even if I've been with other people. And you're going to hell. I I'm not saying THAT'S WHAT IT IS, BUT sometimes I think that that sounds like something women would do. Does that make like that sounds that sounds like something women would do. So, women just have this tendency. We want to bang a bunch of dudes. We want to bang a bunch of like Tom, Dick, and Harry. We want We want to bang the comedians. We want to bang the streamers. We want to bang the rock stars. We want to bang bang the ball players. We want to bang the accountants. We want to go to bang the guy that helps us move. We want to bang bang bang bang bang. But, we have to hide the fact that we want to bang bang bang. And so, what guys that haven't really slept with a lot of women or have been sold a dream by their wife, um they're like, "No, there are these different or special women." No, all women have this. Some women are too afraid uh to use it. So, for example, you know, again, religion was like, "All right, we got to do something with both of these [ __ ] people that just love banging. Let's tell women they'll go to hell. Um yeah, we got to This is getting unstable, but let's tell women they'll go to hell if they bang the dude." So, some women fear, and the younger women are, the more afraid we are, right? That's We're going to talk about this later. That's why women's second hoe phase is so powerful because the fear's kind of gone. You know, when you're young, you fear everything. You don't know what's going to go You're not going to meet up with a stranger off of Tinder. Well, women do do that, but that may deter some women. But, by 40, they've seen the hoes that have done it, and they didn't die. A lot of them still got married. So, they're like, "Fuck it." Sorry. They're like, "Dang it. It's time to throw it back. It's time to do this." They see the divorced women that are fine. They're like, "I got child support. Okay."
Um Ayesha Curry stopped by Jada Pinkett Smith um to talk about being married and dealing with groupies. Um Oh, I thought this was the Uh let me let me pull it up on this other tab. Ayesha Curry red table talk. Here we go. Can you guys hear my dog snoring? She's really happy. I didn't want to let her She was sleeping so peacefully. I didn't want to make her move, but you guys may have to suffer. Someday when I'm being a bad mom, it'll be my kid crying. I'm kidding. I'm kidding.
>> and more bothers me and like honestly has given me a sense of a little bit of an insecurity is the fact that yeah, like there are all these women like throwing themselves, but me like the past 10 years, like I don't have any of that. Like I have zero this sounds weird, but like male attention. And so then like I begin to internalize it and I'm like is something wrong with me like
>> Now, a lot of people that the pushback I get and I'm going to defend black women for a second here. The pushback that I keep getting is that hey, this is just black women. You know, if he if Steph Curry This is this is the black couple. First it was First it was they're not traditional enough. Then it was well, you should just go white or go Asian. I heard a lot of these same I grew up in a conservative Catholic community. And a lot of the women there had these same talking points. White women are much better at hiding it. We might not do it on camera. I mean, we're we're getting more and more bold. I'll tell you that, but we're more likely to not do it on camera. Black women they don't care for whatever reason they just don't. Asian women, those are the hardest to get to get say it on camera, but we're getting more and more bold. so we can we can go through some other examples in other show.
>> Like you're not even But I'mma tell you something [clears throat] else, too. When your radar's turned off cuz I dealt with that for years, too. Like and I was young, like you.
>> Cuz I don't want it, but it'd be nice to know that like someone's looking. Yeah, cuz we don't we don't like becoming invisible. Plus, she at this point she had the post-baby weight gain. I think she's lost it now. Her body's looking good, I won't lie.
>> You're beautiful. Don't ever think for
>> Women don't mature ever.
>> a minute that it ain't no some men out there looking at you like I wish. Honestly, and I'mma tell you who knows that more than anybody. And I
>> [laughter]
>> want to ask a question now. All of you made the decision
>> Okay, so yeah, she's just embarrassing. She This is a humiliation ritual. We're going to keep going. Um So again, the women are defending her cuz a lot of women can relate to this. A lot of women in this country. Women do not want to be mothers as much as conservatives pretend. Women want a kid for status. I don't see women wanting a kid for the right reasons. I really don't. Women want it to feel included and for status. So, the women will say, "No, she's a woman who settled down too fast and gave up her own dreams and now she resents that choice." Hope it helps. I actually would say that's true. This was not a woman that should have had kids. Some women are not meant to have children. I I have said that time and time again. Because you know who pays for it? The kids and the husband. Probably the dumbest comment I've ever seen. You're telling me Ayesha regrets marrying a 6'3 multimillionaire athlete in Steph Curry and 1,700 idiots agree with this comment. These hoes are delusional. Well, and I want to push back. I would say maybe she's not right to regret it, but it's very obvious to everybody involved that she does. It's very obvious. Um she is a woman that missed out on her whole face. Um here's another comment. Ayesha Curry is living proof that no matter if you're rich and successful, women will still find a way to complain. The red pill doesn't need marketing. Um it markets itself. All right, so let's share this All right, now let's see some of the responses from the Twitter women.
>> is. Ayesha Curry is a prime example of a lady who married a man that she thought she was better than. insecure about their man. She craves the attention that Steph Curry gets because she believes that she deserves it and she believes that he doesn't. She can't fathom that he gets the attention that he gets because how could this [ __ ] that's underneath me get all this attention? She still believes that she's better than to this day. Babies and marriage and all. Like at the the recent interview that she did, she was like she wasn't even like she didn't really think that he was even the best for real. Like she was like, "What's the hype about?" Like she boldly said this [ __ ] out her [ __ ] mouth about her own husband that she has kids with. [music] So yeah, that's just what that is. She sat there, she married the guy beneath her because she knew it would be easier to be with him because um the things he would bring her. You [music] know? And she still can't seem to be satisfied because it has nothing to do
>> Yeah, because one, um she's going to crave dominance and Steph is just obviously he likes her a bit too much. So when men like women, it just doesn't usually go well for them. They kind of have to hate us slightly for us to stick around. And then when they start to like us, we bounce.
>> with the physicality of how comfortable life is has everything to do
>> All right, thank you, lady, for being honest. I didn't think I'd ever meet an honest woman. All right, so I have a couple notes of that I've taken. I'd like to credit Brian Stone, Rollo Tomassi, um a lot of them talk about these ideas. So, and some of these are just my own personal notes, so it's just a combination. So, all women have a pull to be promiscuous, especially the ones that you think are not that like that. They are We are all like that. It's our DNA. It's our hard wiring. But, what happens is a lot of women that cashed out early and married young, older women are less scared. Um they can get away with more. So, what happens is women when when you're beautiful and young, there's a lot of eyes on you. Men can be invisible, and no and it's actually a benefit to some extent. It's very hard for a young woman to manage her reputation. Because there's all these eyes watching. She goes into a room, everybody's looking at her. Everybody. She can't flirt with the bartender without people knowing. So, where a guy can flirt with a woman, he can get rejected by a woman, nobody cares. Nobody's going to remember. Where women um but when women get uglier over time, they're going to use their newfound power, which is that they can move more invisibly. They can bang more dudes. They can get away with more. Um older women realize they're not going to die from STDs, their reputation doesn't matter as much, especially if they already have the kids. They're not shamed as much cuz who cares when an old woman does I mean, if a woman's throwing it back at 50, does anybody care? Does anyone give her ass ass? You're old. No one cares. A lot of times at this age group you'll see them start to do the swinging stuff. Um then they'll start to regret what they could have been. A lot of times it's not even what they could have been. Um but, you know, say a woman was going to be a writer, she'll feel as though the husband held her back if she gave that up even though it was going nowhere. A lot of times therapy will start at this age. And women will resent the husband for what they probably couldn't have done anyway. The downside of women marrying young, particularly their feeling of missing out in their youth, which ties to his concept of hypergamy in the epiphany phase. Women who marry young, early 20s, may feel they missed out on their party years or opportunities to explore their SMV at their peak. The regret often surfaces in their late 20s to early 30s. And I would say now I'm seeing it more late 30s, early 40s. They'll get like some fake tits and Botox and go when they realize their SMV is declining and they framed crave the excitement or validation they didn't pursue. Stone sees this as a losing deal for women because early marriage while securing stability can make them feel trapped if they later compare their life to their peers who chased alpha experiences or career freedom. So, again, the women that marry their high school sweetheart, a lot of times he has not had the life experience to be a dominant guy. Right? So, he doesn't have the life experience to tell a woman to shut the [ __ ] up, [ __ ] Get off these podcasts. That's a muscle. That's a skill men have to develop, right? So, a lot of times young marriage for women when they marry a guy from their high school, it doesn't end well because he doesn't have the frame to maintain it. That's something men have to learn. Um So, to be honest, the most successful marriages I see are when women go for a guy in school that's a little bit older or in the city that's a little bit older. The high school, I mean, that was fizzle. Um this stems from hypergamy, women's drive to seek higher value partners, which can make them resent a young marriage to a safe provider if he lacks the dominant or excitement they desire. For example, a woman who marries a beta at 22 might hit 30 and feel like she missed out on dating high-status men, leading to behaviors like branch swinging or initiating conflict to test her husband's frame. Stone advises um to marry young vetted um advises women to marry a vetted high-value guy to avoid this regret, but warns that without a strong male frame, the marriage risks becoming a losing deal when she hits the epiphany phase to reclaim her youth. So, this is why I say to some extent body count doesn't matter. Because if the man doesn't have the frame to maintain a relationship, she's going to bounce later.