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Let them lie to you, ghost you, betray you, and run their mouths behind your back. The only way to see someone's True Colors is by giving them all the freedom in the world to be exactly who they want to be. You can't force a cheater to be loyal. You can't twist a bad friend into being a good one, and you sure as hell can't make a liar suddenly find their moral compass.
What you really want is control--control over these people, over their actions, because you're clinging to this illusion you've built in your head about who they are. But let's be real, that's never who they really were. The sooner you get that, the sooner you'll understand that real power comes from sitting back, watching, and then making a move based on what you see.
Stop trying to mold someone into something they're not. Stop demanding, stop fighting, and stop pretending they can ever become the version of them you want. If it's not in their character, it's not happening. And trust me, once you let go of that control, you're going to find