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I just got married last week in London to an ultra-wealthy guy, and let me tell you, it was not easy. I was an immigrant to the US. Took me 15 years to go from the bottom to upper class. Here are the five rules I learned from dating rich men.
Rule number one, rich men are highly calculated. They would only do something if it's a good deal for them. So, make it worthwhile for them. Your value could be in having his babies, in being his business partner, and giving him emotional support, or you could even have a father that he could use for social leverage. Position yourself right. Make yourself useful and find your competitive advantage in every relationship.
Rule number two, a generous millionaire is better than a cheap billionaire any day. It doesn't matter what his net worth is. He could be on the Forbes list. I don't care. He needs to be investing in me, in my dreams, in my business, and my bank account. If he isn't, then he has no worth to me.
Rule number three, put your pride aside and flirt. Prince Charming doesn't just come knocking. You have to work like a salesman. Push your boobs up. Be shameless and do whatever it takes to get him. A lot of people say gold digging is easy. There's nothing easy about this business. It's a business like anything else. You have to climb that social hierarchy. Go out and work. Flirting is a skill like anything else. The more you do, the better you get.
Rule number four, know when to cut your losses. It takes time to see what a man is willing to give you, but as soon as you see that he is cheap, walk away. Your youth is priceless. I have to go through a hundred guys to get to the right one. So, do not waste your time. The key word here is rapid testing and rapid elimination.
Rule number five, ask for what you want directly and have the courage to walk away if you don't get what you want. Your only leverage in a lot of situations is your ability to leave him. So, you need to have the courage to leave if he doesn't give you what you want. I always say silver today is better than gold tomorrow. Do whatever it takes to get what you want in this moment. Know what to ask for. Know when to ask for it. And never offer anything up for free. These men are calculated, so you have to be too. Never believe in any of his grand promises down the road. Get what you want today.
Those are the five rules, ladies. Play the game smart. Position yourself right, and you'll get the man who invests in you.