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[Music] Any special friends? Good to see you again. So let's talk about Pisces moon today.
So this is the sensitive moon, the most sensitive of all the moon styles, where security is often found in forms of suffering and then eventually, hopefully, transcending that suffering. They feel safe and also disrupted through gushing amounts of feelings. It doesn't mean that they're always coming out, but they're feeling them. They pick up on everyone else's feelings as well. They need to learn what is them and what is other people. They are highly attuned to the needs and unspoken weaknesses in others, but not always, at least at first, tuned into their own needs or weaknesses.
Pisces moon people do not do well with confrontation, and this includes confrontation with their own feelings. They are safest when detached from real feeling through placing their feelings in others or what might be. This again is the ultra-sensitive style of the moon. Growing out of limiting sensitivities is the most freeing thing for Pisces moon people. They're learning to individuate their feelings from those of the collective, to define their own emotional boundaries so they can then enforce those boundaries and experience what it is to be separate, to be individual, before they can more healthily into wholeness with the All, which is what they're really emotionally driven to try to do.
The tendency is to escape with the Pisces moon, to not sit with what is, because it typically is not going to match what it is that they've decided previously that they want. So a chronic dissatisfaction always follows them because they're not attuned emotionally to be comfortable with their feelings as they are. Often Pisces moon people feel lost and lonely or even bitter because life is not what they feel they want it to be. In order to feel really engaged with it, they're waiting for the right conditions to arise and then they'll jump in and, you know, feel that the real life is finally starting. But they're waiting for something unreal to present itself, something contrived, a fantasy that they have created or nurtured and are sure it's now a promised part of life.
Really, what's going on is they are on an emotional quest for a savior. It's part of the habitual unconscious emotional pattern of escaping into something encompassing, something that they can melt into, something that will save them from their feelings, save them from their isolation, save them from what is. The isolation you put yourself in in an effort to keep apart from the real flow of life is the isolation they are also trying to escape.
So people also with hard aspects from Moon to Venus to Neptune often suffer these same things, and they don't. So they suffer the most of anybody because they suffer from loneliness, isolation, lack, feeling misunderstood, and it is because their safety is actually found in suffering. So it's very much like, as soon as they're suffering, they're back in control. The control comes from holding on to that ideal of what life should be like and then resisting the natural flow of life.
The tendency to escape into something ideal can only bring misery because you are not okay with what is. If your conditions for your real life starting are never delivered up by life, then it will never start because you don't get to decide what life should be or bring you. You have to get right straight with the nature of life and accept what that is, accept the nature of reality, and that this is where you are right now. Appreciate reality instead of holding out for the ideal or the spiritual or the perfect or something to put your faith in. You want to give up so you can rest, so you can stop, so you can lose yourself. But you can do that now. You can stop now. You can rest in reality right now. You just have to accept what is occurring right now. You must come to see the value of what life has to offer you. Go with the flow. If you want the ride to start, you'll find it's far better than your preconceived picture of what you should have that you had nursed all along.
Beautiful compassion really comes from someone who has a Pisces moon that has transcended their chronic need for suffering, their loneliness, and their isolation. In their compassion, they have surrendered to something far greater than themselves, the very thing they were resisting: life. They find what they were looking for and appreciating that every day, the tangible beauty of life, and they can become a well of kindness instead of a morose seeker filled with longing.
Pisces moon people really achieve balance through appreciation of the everyday, seeing the value of reality through not denying what is in favor of what could be. Intuition is very strong with Pisces people. This is often not understood or properly controlled at first and can affect them negatively, especially as children. They have tender feelings, even if we have an aspect to Mars or Pluto. Emotional boundaries are a must so they can learn what is their stuff, what is other stuff, and this then sharpens their intuition. The level their intuition works at, the keenness of it, really depends on the amount of enforced or recognized personal boundaries that they have. The better the boundaries, the better the intuition they get. They get too much ingress from outside sources that colors their own feelings to the point that they'll lose their direction if they don't have defined limits between themselves and others.
So this is really the moon position where you really have to find yourself in order to lose yourself. The habitual emotional pattern is to lose yourself, and we think that in doing that, we'll find ourselves, but we've got it backwards. We have to allow life to lead us and not be in a position when we are longing to be the one who dictates to life what it is that we should receive. So it really is about surrendering, and that's what they're always trying to do, finding something or someone or a belief or a savior to surrender to. And the danger in doing that before they have really surrendered to life is that they then put their security and their safety all in the hands of this outside savior or belief system or a relationship that they've come to adopt, and that is not a place of safety. So that creates more insecurity.
So there's the recognition of the boundaries that are needed leads to the recognition of that separateness, and that separateness then allows us to properly merge into something that's healthy, something that, well, there is an understanding of, you know, what's mine and yours, and then we can have this wonderful reciprocal relationship. And that's something that Pisces moon people are prone to finding is non-reciprocal relationships before they've really done their their work when it comes to defining their own position and then finding something beautiful to connect to.
So that's the end of this moon series. Not sure what's next. I should probably get your guys's input to see what it is that you would be interested in next. Chiron, I have a few of those filmed already, but we've been in Mercury retrograde, so I've been very closely listening to that and trying to slow down and work less and turn in more. And I think next Mercury retrograde period, I might actually take the entire month off. So be back tomorrow with a couple Chiron videos. And now that we're getting close to Mercury getting out of retrograde, we should start our chat room and all of that business because hopefully it won't be misfiring for me. So see you soon.
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