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Becoming a mom has been so hard. The next phase of my life is going to be beautiful.
Lost my job and my best friend in the same week. It's Christmas Eve today, and I am here wrapping gifts on my own. And I just moved the rest of my [ __ ] out of my ex's house. How did I end up moving in with another single mother? I was diagnosed with PTSD, went a little crazy. That was fun. And so I did what any normal person would do, and I sat in silence for 14 days. So I did a hero dose of mushrooms on Thanksgiving. Psychedelics for therapy, psychedelics for mental health. Ate a bunch of mushrooms last night.
Just remember, guys, she's a single mother. This is what I'm telling you guys. Not old people should be parents, okay? And I went on the date from hell, and I realized that I am funnier and cooler than every man I've ever met. Of course, and that's my problem. The potential that you see in somebody, it's not real.
So I have this theory that every single human soul comes to Earth to really relearn and remember a few, maybe one or two, very important spiritual practices.
Of course, one of the strangest parts about being a single mom is the reactions you get from people. Like, for the, the most part, every woman is very supportive of you. And then you have a niche of women who like hate men, who are super supportive of you, and just like hate men. And then you have another niche of women that are usually Boomers, elders, that just like completely blame you. Like, "Thanks, Rudy. This wasn't my choice in life either." "How are you not to blame, ma'am, when you are the gatekeeper to sex? You let them guy smash without protection. Of course, it's your fault." "Oh well, I didn't know that guy was like this." "Oh well, he turned out to it." "It doesn't matter. You chose that man. Just because you didn't know how to choose the correct man, just because that guy turned out to be shitty, it doesn't mean it's not still your fault. It's your fault. Take accountability." "Thanks for shaming me and making me feel like it's my fault." "And then it's not making you feel like it's your fault. It is your fault, ma'am."
I have dated crazy women, I admit it. Now, do I blame them? No. It's my own fault. I chose to date them.
Men, I'd say like 90% of men don't even acknowledge my existence anymore. And, and 10 days ago, about 10 days ago, maybe a little more now, two weeks before Christmas, he thought it was good timing, obviously, to tell me that about a month, month and a half after I moved out, is when he started sleeping with his best friend, one of his closest friends. And they are now dating. Yes, they are dating. And they are going on trips together already.
This is why I tell you guys, women and men can't be actual friends. Yes, they can be friends at work, or they can be childhood friends, but they can't be actually friends. Why? Because we want different things from life. Because we see the world totally different. Because we have different mentalities. So why would we be friends? It's clear it's because either the guy wants something or the woman wants something more from that uh friend relationship. The amount of hate you guys are proving my point.
What our system, our Westernized system here in America, I will speak for America where I live, is not supportive of mothers. What's the probability that the guy that commented on her video is a guy that is watching my videos? It's just not. I'm sorry. Capitalism does not support [Music] motherhood.
Sing, are there any older men who like single moms in their 30s? No. Let me ask you a serious question for a second. If your baby mother doesn't want to be with you, why would I? Now, let me ask y'all a serious question. Just, just follow me. If your baby daddy don't want to take care of his kids, W. And you know what? I don't like to date my type of guy anymore because I feel like it's really boring. Because he treats me so good. When you get treated good, it's kind of like boring. And don't hate me, but I do love toxic. I like somebody who, like, I don't mean mistreats me in a bad way, but you know what I mean by toxic? Yeah, that's my type.
This is what I tell you guys. Women are not logical at all. They chase after the toxic guys and then they complain on on TikTok that all men are [ __ ], all men are cheaters, all men are liars. No, ma'am. The guys that you want, those men are like that. It doesn't mean that all men are like that. But of course, the boring ones, you don't even acknowledge them.
Do you believe that per every to that a woman has, it brings her dating value down? I do not. Because that is one of the purposes that guy created us. Your purpose was man. My purpose was not only man. You are correct, ma'am. We need children to perpetuate our species. But that doesn't mean that's my child. That doesn't mean it's my responsibility to take care of another man's child. That's just stupid. And multiply. That's after the man. You can't be fruitful and multiply until you hit stage one, which is the man. Okay? Right. You can't without a man. I agree with that.
I might have a date this weekend, but nothing has been confirmed yet. Why are you looking like that? Have you met him yet? I have not met him. Now, cute or ugly? What's his name? One of younger siblings. Wow, you guys escalated really quickly. How do you feel? How do I? Okay, guys, can you see how she was taught? The little girl, it's not her fault. I'm not blaming her. But she asked, "How do you feel?" So basically, how does that guy make you feel? It's not logical. Does he, is he a good man? Can he support you and your children? Does he like children? Does he want more children? Is he a good standing man? Is he a family man? No, no, no, no. How does he make you feel? See how stupid it is.
Who's looking for a single mom with three kids who takes care of all of her own [ __ ]? Just a lover girl by heart, likes to be sarcastic, you know, it's homebody, someone who just likes to like chill out most of the time, get really laugh, watch TikTok videos. Let's, let's repeat that. Get really laugh, get really high and laugh. Okay. And she's a single mother. I get it, guys. The world is tough. But when you want to have kids, when you have kids, you can't act the same way that you did in your 20s. You can't go out and party with your friends. You can't get high. You have certain responsibilities that are bigger than than your enjoyment, than your relaxation. You have kids to take, take care of. Those come first. Watch TikTok videos. Who, who's looking for that? Nobody.
So it's been like half a year since the separation of my daughter's dad and me. Okay. And you would think that you, you would be better by now, but it truly doesn't get better. And I don't know why people say that it's, you'll be good in three months. Like, it's been six months, and obviously this isn't going to go away by next week. So I know it's going to be even longer and longer and longer because I'm feeling how I felt on day one. It doesn't go away. No matter what hobbies you do, your friends is hanging out, going out. It, I get it.
Ma'am, but then why did you break up? Why did you get a divorce? Whatever. Why, why go through all of this? Well, he was like this, he was like that. Yeah, but you chose him.
So I just ended a seven-year-long relationship and an engagement for possibly the pettiest reason ever. I believe it. I believe it. I can just look at you and believe it. Yep. We both share a three-and-a-half-year-old daughter, and I just really didn't want her to grow up in the same kind of environment that I grew up in. I will never talk badly about, um, my daughter's father. But you already did because you talk badly about the environment, and, uh, her father is part of that environment. So if you don't like the environment, you don't like the dad. It's logical.
But women, I repeat, I, I know guys, I say the same thing over and over and over and over, but all videos, all the videos that I show, just point to the fact that women aren't logical. But, um, we did fight pretty often, and sometimes it got pretty bad. I'm not going to talk bad about, uh, my husband, my partner, my boyfriend, whatever. But we fought a lot, and it was pretty bad. Yeah. Uh, he beat me a lot. Yeah, domestic violence. But I'm not going to talk about him badly. No. I just filed a a restraining order against him. He's in jail now, but it's all good. And I just didn't want her seeing that kind of stuff anymore. And it just, I just wasn't feeling it. I grew up with an angry man, my stepdad, and I just don't want my daughter to have to grow up with an angry man either.
And then she hit me with the, "When I tell you how I feel, don't tell me how you feel." What? Acknowledge how I feel. And I, I'll be like, she'll say what she feels, and then I'll immediately say why she shouldn't feel that way. I didn't even realize you're not supposed to do that. I'm just sitting here. You're supposed to do that, my guy. If she has a problem, you as a man should come and try to fix it. This is how it should be. But most women aren't like that. And you're not the problem, my guy. She's seeing you feel something dumb. And I'm like, "Well, let me fix that for you. You don't got to feel that. You are burdening yourself with this feeling. You can not feel it if you just listen to me." You see someone getting crushed by weights at the gym, you're like, "Let me help you." They're like, "No, just acknowledge I'm getting crushed by weight." Let me see how stupid that sounds. "Lift the weights." "Let me lift the weight off you." "No, no, just look at me and be like, 'Man, I must be so heavy for you right now.'" And then they're like, "Thank you so much," while their arms are shaking. No, that is so true. Cuz I'm my guy.
And whose fault is that? Whose fault is that? You married a woman like that. Is it my fault? Is it my fault? No. Is it my audience's fault? No, no, no. It's your fault. So why are you complaining?
I'm about to talk, I'm about to speak. Not just my ex, but like women in general. They'll express, "Oh, I've been through this, and I've been through that." And I'll be like, "Okay, well, I understand that, like, you know, let's, let's, let's figure it out." I don't understand why, like, you just can't listen to me. You should just allow me the space to be able to just express that I feel way about this. Okay, my guy, don't date women like that anymore. It's so simple. Why do people try to overcomplicate everything? And like, and you not say anything? My husband used to hurt me so much. He made me so mad. And I was like, until I realized that you're emotionally unstable. Yes, I get it. That he's not the person I should be mad at. It was like he was stepping on a landmine, and I was blaming him for the explosion when I should have been looking at, "How did the landmine get there in the first place?"
Well, you can't explain your hormones, ma'am, because your hormones fluctuate each day. Today you may feel a certain way, tomorrow another way. And if you can't control your emotion, and if you're not a stable person, you don't even know what the problem is. You think it's, it's normal to be like that? No, it's not. That's what being triggered is. We get mad at the people who trigger us, who make us have these big emotional reactions, when really they didn't put the landmine there, they just stepped on it. Being triggered is not just having a big emotional response. It is my brain right now perceiving this moment right now as if it's one from the past where Ma. The only thing I perceive is that you're emotionally unstable, and I feel sorry for your husband.
We're going to skip this video because I, I can't deal with women like this. They're like children. I didn't even find a single 37-year-old woman. And then when you do, they have a tendency to fall into three categories. They're either a super career-oriented successful chick. True. So I'm out. All right. Those girls are looking for a guy that owns a suit. I have a pair of slacks. I don't know where they are. Second category, women single at my age are divorcees. And those women are like Chernobyl. They're beautiful, but something bad happened. And now we all need to leave it alone for a few years. Yes, because from now on, she's going to blame all men for her failed relationship. And now you have to step on eggshells with everything you do because you have to be 10 times better than her ex. And the last category of women, single at my age, are women that have been single the entire time because their therapist hasn't quite got their pill combo locked down, and they still have episodes where they'll break into your apartment and set fire to kittens. I don't even have kittens, man. She brought them.
I know a lot of women are going to say, "Well, you can't force someone to be attracted to you." You're absolutely correct. But the double standard of if a man no longer finds himself attracted to his wife because she's gained weight because of the baby, oh, he's wrong. She is getting older and she don't want to dress, she don't want to be sexy, she don't want to try to attract him anymore. "I shouldn't have to do that. We've been together too long. You should just accept me for how I am." But this woman says, "I am not attracted to you anymore," and it's probably nothing that you can do. I guarantee you the women in the comments are going to say, "Well, you can't force somebody to be attractive to somebody." The double standard is horrible.
Now, this man goes on to introduce having an open marriage just to save his marriage, and that still wasn't good enough. This to me, this to me just shows me that he was a beta male, and, and the woman was running the household. And of course, you will never be happy with a guy like that. But because women don't truly want men like that, they don't want Sims that they can walk all over. They want an alpha man to put them in their place. There is nothing, my guy, that you can do to save that marriage. Nothing. It's confirmation that people forget what marriage is about. It's not about you being happy 24/7, 365. It's not about you getting what you want 24/7, 365. It is a commitment and a covenant that you made to make sure that you, your family, your children, and that husband all getting what they need and being honorable to God.
Is there a reason Mom is just mad in her office right now? I'm sure she thinks there is. Well, she's in there. Knock and step over. And I'm sure you have something to do with it. I'm sure I do too. Well, you going to tell me what's going on or what? Last week, she had to make an appointment for some event she wanted to do in Vegas. She was making hotel reservations, and I told her she had the wrong weekend. And she told me to shut up, I was stupid, and stay in my lane. So, okay. And who's, who's to blame, my guy? Why did you marry a woman that can talk to you like that? How can your woman say, "Shut up, you're stupid"? I've never heard that in my life. Never. What kind of women are you dating? I don't get it. Mind my own business. Okay. And what happened? And this week, she found out that she had the wrong weekend, the the wrong hotel. And when she tried to switch it around, it's all booked up solid. So she's mad at herself. You think she's in her office mad at herself, yelling? No. Okay, well, then who's she mad at? She's mad at me. Why? You tried to help her. Because she told me, "Hey, you're supposed to know when to stay in your lane, and you're supposed to know when not to stay in your lane and help me out." No, my guy, this is what the guy should say to the woman, not the other way around. Can you see what happens when the dynamics change in a relationship or in a marriage? It's all screwed up.
Just look at where he's at. It looks like a man cave. Why? Because he needs to get away from his wife. That's why he built it. Now, I would also like a man cave, but not to to stay away from my girlfriend, just because it looks cool. If you need a place in the house so you can get away from your girlfriend or your wife, you shouldn't be married with her. It's stupid. It's crazy.
Okay, then how are you supposed to tell her she's wrong without her getting more mad? How do I know that? As soon as I figured that out, I'll let her know. Her boxes of Amazon products are out front in the grass getting rained on for the past two hours after she lectured me on what a sunny day today was supposed to be.
Women who get, when they get told like, "Oh yeah, no, you got to give him half your [ __ ]" or "Oh no, you got to pay alimony because he makes 50 grand a year and you make 250," and they're like, you know, they could be the staunchest feminist in the world, and when you tell them they got to pay alimony, they're like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. He's a man. He's got a strong back. He can get out there and work." And then suddenly the whole like, "Gender is a construct," and "There's no such thing," that goes right out the window. And you got told you got to pay alimony. That's like, "Nope, no, no, no, no." I believe in strict gender roles. Men, this is a perfect example of how full of a lot of these modern-day women are. Not all of them, but most of them. Because they all preach equal pay, but the bottom line is, is the minute they have to pay alimony, all of their morals and their belief systems go straight out the window.
Of course, the other thing is, is women are constantly told that they're not being paid the same as men. But at the end of the day, men take on like the construction jobs, they take on jobs that are like more. The gender pay gap is a myth. I can show you studies. I've seen over a dozen studies showing that it's not true. It's not. But women keep thinking that. They don't even understand how they made that study when they made the claim that, "I don't know, women make 87 cents to the dollar or something like that." It's so stupid. I, I don't know how, how they even permitted those guys who conducted the study to to do the study in that way. It just shows how stupid they are. Labor intensive. So me working at the mall, I'm not going to make the same amount of money as somebody that that's putting a roof over my head. That's just not realistic. And that has nothing to do with your gender. That has to do with what your capabilities are and what you're qualified to do. It's just funny when the roles are reversed, how quickly a lot of these women change their mind. I've told you these guys a hundred times. They're all feminists until the bill comes, then they're not. Okay, bye.
All you men out there who are in a situation where, you know, this woman won't let you finish talking without [Music] hisses, that means you're nothing to them. Why are you in a relationship like that, my guy? It's your fault. When you're there talking to her or arguing with her, and she makes you feel like [ __ ], even if you know you're right, you have to think to yourself, "Why am I with her? Why did I get into this relationship?" And get out. Trust me. At her job, when Mr. Feinstein is talking, they be quiet. They listen to what he has to say. On top of that, they do it. You, not so much. Why do you think that is? She can't be quiet when you're talking because she doesn't respect you. And if somebody doesn't respect you, if you try to build with them, you're going to lose miserably.
You saying I don't dress like this when I'm with you? That's exactly what I'm saying. Okay, well, I'm sorry. I didn't know I needed to dress like this for the strip mall. I didn't know I needed to dress like this for the food court. This is the perfect example. How can you be with a woman that talks to you like that? How, how, how much of a simp can you be? My apologies, but me and my friends, we got money, and it's long. So I get dressed up because I'm going to spend it now. If you want to take me somewhere where this is appropriate attire, not the movie theater. So I'm, so I'm a broke [ __ ] who don't take you nowhere. That's what you're saying. That's what you're saying. So I don't take you places where you have to put on good clothes. That's what you're telling me. That's what I'm saying. Everyone does it. Now you can do it too. Shut the [ __ ] up. Shut your mouth. Shut up. Shut the hole in your face like that. You can do it. Shh. Shut up.