Get Over Your Reality If You Want It To Change

So many people are living lives that they do not find fulfilling. They want more abundance. They want more love. They want more wealth. They want more happiness. They want more fulfillment. Everything and anything. All of us have this innate desire to have more of these things in our lives. I don't know anyone who doesn't. And the problem is, we are always constantly yearning for more and for different, without realizing how reality is set off for us to actually have these things. So you can spend your whole life in a state of yearning until you realize what I'm about to share with you here.

I need you to know and understand, and I've mentioned this in previous videos, but I'm just going to keep saying it: reality, your experience of reality, is a tiny, tiny fraction of what actually exists in the universe. Even if you think of this in scientific terms, what we can perceive in reality is 0.1% of what actually exists. So everything is made up of atoms and electrons. Electrons, we can't see. They're like invisible energy. It's only when we perceive them that they collapse into matter. So 99.999% of the electromagnetic field of everything that makes up everything in the universe, we can't perceive. Doesn't that make you think? Well, what else is out there? Like, what else is going on? If you haven't read the book *Biocentrism*, by the way, read that book. It'll break your brain. This is the start of all of this for me. But basically, anything we can actually perceive, it doesn't actually really... I'm going to sound crazy... it doesn't really exist. We just process information through light, and it like, is processed through refraction in our [ __ ] brain, and it makes us perceive something. So everything is perception. Maybe that was too much information for you. Just stay with me. Everything is perception.

And when you look at, I've drawn here as best I could, the universe. Yeah, this is the universe. And when you look, okay, so let's say all this board is the universe. So these lines, these squiggles, for me, it's good, like the ocean, right? The universe is like the ocean. So when I say universe, I mean like 5D, everything. The Kabbalah calls it the 99%, right? Oh, yeah, I wrote it here. 99%. So vast. Everything we can't perceive, that's the 99%. And what we are perceiving and experiencing physically in reality is 1% of what actually exists. Not to mention within this 1%, which is this little bubble, right? So you can imagine like this white P expanding to the edges of infinity and time, 'cause that's the universe. And this little bubble, what we're actually perceiving and experiencing, is a tiny, tiny fraction of what actually exists. But even within that, again, is your experience of reality. So you see this little tiny little blip within this blip within the universe as a whole. You have your experience, which is even smaller again. I'm not trying to make you feel insignificant. I'm trying to bring to your attention that there is so much more that meets our senses in reality.

And the minute you get your head around this, the minute you realize how things actually work, because we have senses that can only allow us to perceive the physical dimension. Do you not ever wonder why it's so insanely convenient that we have literally trees to give us oxygen and air to breathe, and eyes that can see, and ears that can hear, and how sound is generated through our eardrums vibrating, and that's how sound is created? Like, don't you ever think how convenient that is? That's something that, like, ever since I was young, I've just thought, what? Why are like, why is it all so, so like, designed for us to exist? It makes no [ __ ] sense. This is why. Our senses give us this experience, and here we are in this reality.

So when I say we have three planes of existence, I'm talking reality. This is the physical. So we have the physical plane of existence, which is what we're experiencing. Other people call this the 3D. And for this analogy I'm about to give you, I want to, I want to use the word 3D for physical. So, and then outside of 3D, we have 5D. We can call this 5D. Oh God, that's a five. We call this 5D, right? So you can think of like, we're in a third-dimensional world, and we can see things in 3D. This is way oversimplifying things, but this is just a way to get you to get your head around this. 3D is us here now, having this experience. But beyond what we can perceive with our senses is 5D. So we can't see that. We just don't have the right glasses on, basically, through our senses. So out there, you've got 5D, all this other stuff going on. The 5D dictates what happens in your 3D. This is what I need you to understand.

Hold on, let me clean this up. If we even take within the 3D, let's look at a smaller example that you can conceptualize that you know. So within the 3D, you have your physical body, okay? Here you are. To give you a face, and this is your 3D physical body. Your 3D casts a shadow. Well, that's going to be difficult for me to do. Casts a shadow on the ground, okay? There's your shadow. This is 2D. 2D shadow. Let's say another shadow was beside you, and you wanted to move that shadow. You wouldn't be able to move the 2D shadow with your 2D shadow without moving your 3D body. You need to move the 3D in order for the 2D to move. And it's the same thing with 5D, non-physical, and physical. You need to move on the higher plane of existence in order for this lower plane of existence to be affected.

Everything that you're experiencing in your 3D physical reality is merely a shadow of the non-physical, the 5D, as some people call it. It's a shadow. Nothing can come into your 3D that was not first planted beyond in the non-physical, in the 99%, in the 5D, in the spiritual, whatever you want to call it, in the universal plane. It has to exist there. The seed has to be planted there in order for it to actually show up in your physical. So when people are wondering why suddenly something has happened, suddenly my car broke down, suddenly this happened, suddenly this person felt ill. This is going to sound harsh, but nothing is actually sudden. Everything is planted in the non-physical and then it comes to fruition in the physical.

You might be asking me, well, then how is life so unfair? Like, why do bad things happen? Why is there so much darkness? Why do these things happen when I absolutely do not want them to happen? These things are planted in the 5D. We're going to get into this in a minute, but usually by your own frequency, you send messages up to the 5D, and then the 5D changes your 3D. Your frequency is the communicator. So you can think of everything that's going on with you in the mental plane, your thoughts, your emotions, your beliefs. Those are like your little walkie-talkie with the non-physical plane of existence. When you think about it, everything that's not physical is what we really desire for. I'm going to, I'm going to, this is going to get intense.

So this is why this is the language. Feelings is the language of the non-physical. This is why the feeling, how you're feeling, is how you change your reality. Because everything that we actually want, every goal that we actually set in life, we want to have that goal because of the feeling it's going to bring us. Anything material that you can think of right now that you want, even financial security, that's a feeling. Security is a feeling. It's a safe feeling. Love is a feeling. Happiness is a feeling. Any job that you want, you want the fulfillment that comes with that. That's the feeling. You usually want connection, love, happiness, fulfillment, security, freedom. Can't think of any right now. Usually, anything that you want is because that's how you want to feel. So you're always wanting something that's not even material. You don't really want the material thing, you want the feeling state that goes with it. And a feeling state is produced beyond physical.

So we have the spiritual plane, the mental plane, and the physical plane. These feelings are produced in the mental plane. So how you bring about those coming into the physical plane is you communicate it first in the mental plane, and then it comes about physically for you. Just like casting a shadow. When you decide on a mental plane, this is the frequency that you're going to have. You're going to have an abundant frequency and you commit to that. Eventually, that is the shadow that's going to be cast in your 3D reality, and that's what you're going to actually physically perceive in front of you. But the feeling has to come first. The feeling is the language that you must speak in order for the shadow to be cast.

This is why people love Neville Goddard. *Feeling is the Secret* because feeling is the secret, my friend. It is the secret. But you, I want you to know and understand through this why it's the secret. Because the feeling is our access to the Divine, to the non-physical. I don't know, I think I'm repeating myself, but you get my point. We can't keep pushing the physical with the physical. We can't keep working harder and chasing after things more and more and taking physical actions more and more if our mental attitude doesn't change, if our feelings don't change towards the thing. It has to be your feeling state changes. And you can also take the actions that would also help. But if you take the actions without changing your mind, then it won't be reflected back to you. And that is the catch that people fall into. If you're working harder, but your attitude mentally and your frequency that you're emitting from your emotions and your thoughts stays the exact same, then the physical won't change.

So this is definitely not news to you. What I've just said about changing your thoughts and your reality will follow. It's what all the spiritual teachers teach and they preach. But the problem that people face is when they go to apply this in their lives, they still get bogged down by reality. Because we are trained to believe in reality. Like, otherwise, you are just batshit crazy to most people. And so when you watch all these videos and you consume all this content, you may logically agree and think, okay, that makes sense. Like, I understand when I feel differently, my results change, my outcomes change. And when I make the shift mentally first, reality follows. I understand that. I get it. But then you go to live your life, and you don't know how to actually apply it. So this is the trap that people fall into. It's a big trap.

The problem is, you want, you really want things to change. And I know you want things to change because that is just human nature. We are all striving for more fulfillment, more happiness, more abundance, as I said earlier. But this, this wanting, is the biggest thing keeping you from having. You will never have something so long as you really, really want it. And so when you're going about your life and you're trying to apply this, and you're trying to say, like, okay, mentally I feel abundant. Okay, let's take this example. You've listened to what I've said, and you're like, okay, right, I'm going to try this and see if you're telling me the truth. And I'm going to tell myself constantly, I am abundant. I feel abundant. I feel abundant. Even though reality is not telling you that that's true, you're going to just say that to yourself and hopefully change your thoughts. The problem is, you're still, when you say this, your energy is in wanting and not having. And as long as you keep emitting the frequency on the mental plane of not having by wanting, you will continue feeding a reality shadow of not having abundance. It's going to just continue.

And this is the tricky part, okay, that people fall into, is this trap where, how can, how the hell can I feel abundant? How can I stop wanting abundance? How can I stop wanting this thing and feel like I already have it when nothing in reality is telling me that that's the case? You decide to absolutely believe in this and absolutely ignore reality. You have to, like, make a decision to commit to believing in this without needing any evidence, which is so hard to do. And it's why most people don't get the hang of this.

So how you tap into the energy of having is you have to completely let go of what you actually want outcome-wise and focus on your character and your energy every day. That's your goal. Your goal is not the goal because your goal is just there because you want to feel a certain way. Your goal is in yourself, how you are going to show up energetically regardless of what you're seeing in your reality. And I'm going to tell you the timeline of when you're going to start seeing things shift. But the quicker you can get the hang of this, the quicker you'll be able to see things shift. When I say timeline, I'm going to show you the process, but the timeline is dictated by this. Like, how fast each step happens is dictated by this. You have to stop looking for the goal and looking for the result. You almost have to just rise above any material goal that you have with your energy.

So it's really about rearranging in your mind what is important to you. What's important to you? And this is something you're going to have to remind yourself of every single day because we've been programmed to make the material outcomes, the material possessions, important. When I've just explained to you, the only reason you want those things is because of how they're going to make you feel. So what's actually important to you? Your energy, your emotions, how you're showing up every day. That's what's important, not the outcome. And the more you focus on that, the more your life will just open up and transform.

I'll give you a small example. I was talking with a girl recently, and she wants all these different things in her life, as we do. But she felt very stuck where she was. And I was said to her, okay, let's set some goals just for the purpose of setting you on a certain path and in a certain direction. And there was a certain goal that she had that she was kind of not sure she was going to go for that goal because it was to do with a certain line of work, and she wasn't sure if she was going to continue in that work. But it was something she felt like she wanted to do for ages, and she felt like she was letting herself down by not showing up and doing it. So it was studying for a particular thing, a particular field. And we wrote down, like, in your ideal world, in your ideal scenario, who are you emotionally? What are you doing? What behaviors do you have? And how do you feel? We did that exercise. We went and set the goal. And I said, the reason we're setting this goal, and the reason you're doing this, is not for you to do, like, to learn the thing and to get the outcome. It's for you to realize that you're disciplined and you can have self-trust, which is a characteristic that we had set for her character. So you see what I'm saying? You show up and you do things in your life. It doesn't matter what the outcome is. You don't need to know exactly where you're going. You don't need to know exactly what you want. All you need to know is a vague idea of who you're going to be showing up as energetically when you have that thing, when it's completed, when it's done, when you're living your life and you're already a year into achieving all the stuff that you think you want. How do you show up energetically then? Write this down. Write it down like that. Do you have high self-trust? Okay, immediately take that and ask yourself, what are you doing now to stop yourself feeling like that? And what do you need to change to let yourself feel like that? Because the minute you start feeling like that is the minute that you tell the 5D, I have self-trust. I have discipline. I'm this version of me who has these things. And next thing you know, the things come in. Even if you're doing things to gain these characteristics and to become this person that don't really have anything that much to do with what you want, what you want will come from that inevitably because you are becoming of the frequency of the person who has that thing.

So this is why, even when you're starting on something and you want to, like, maybe you have a side hustle and you're working full-time, you need to make time for that now. Even if you only have 20 minutes in the morning to work on that thing, because how are you going to open up that frequency within yourself if you never give it actual space to exist for you? You have to give things space to exist. This is why you're using your physical like a [ __ ] playground. It's like a toolbox to communicate to your mind what frequency you have now so that your physical can change. So use what you have. Do what you can with what you have. Don't get caught up on where you're limited. Just do what you can with what you have to become the version of you that has what you want and to feel like that right now.

This is numero uno: feeling differently. Feeling differently. And like I said, you can use what you're doing in your life to help yourself feel differently. But don't get caught up on things changing. Don't be relying on things changing. Do what you can to make yourself feel differently. What can you do to make you feel yourself feel differently? You keep your promises to yourself. You show up as the version of you, like, with your actions, the version of you who has what you want. You honestly show up as that version as much as you can, as much as your physical will allow right now. You visualize as if this is the biggest key to feeling differently. You visualize as if what you desire is already done. And this takes consistency, and this takes practice. But learning how to visualize the feeling of something completed is the biggest hack to all of this. If you don't know how to meditate or visualize, you're going to have to start there. But when you close your eyes and you calm your mind, and you still your mind, and you detach from everything in your life, and you start to imagine, let's say it's three months after you've achieved a big goal, and the people you love are coming up and congratulating you. This is, I think, another Neville Goddard thing, but I've done this, and it is like one of the top techniques for doing this. I'm not big on a lot of techniques, but this one works because of the completion energy that comes with it. So you're not, you're not at the point of the goal. You're not at the elation. You're over it. You're over it because as soon as you get over it, is when you get it. That's how this all works. So the more you can tune into the energy of getting over it, the faster you'll get it. You imagine someone you love coming up to you, congratulating you, saying, "I can't believe you did this. A couple of months ago, that's amazing. Have you been blah blah blah?" And you imagine having that conversation with that person and how you feel. How you feel. You do that until it starts to feel a bit forced, which it's going to take time to actually be staying like, to actually be able to stay in it for a while. But do it repetitively in the morning and right before you fall asleep. In the morning and right before you fall asleep. And you'll notice this: your thought patterns will start to change a little bit. The more that you do this, you'll start having different ideas because you're presenting this to your subconscious, and your subconscious will start to think, it's already done. It's already done. It's already done. Oh, it's already done. And as you emit that energetically, you'll start to get new ideas, new thoughts, new feelings that will flow from that. And as that happens, your reality will shift.

You have to remember what's important to you because reality is going to try to kick you in the balls. It's going to literally be like, "Girl, no. Like, what are you trying to do? This is stupid. You're in this reality." You're going to have moments of self-doubt. And I'm going to map this out for you right now, but keep in mind what's important to you. Ask yourself every day, what's important to you? Feeling what you want to feel. Feeling differently than your old reality. Feeling into the completion of the desire. That is what is important to you. Because when it is completed mentally, it manifests physically. When it's completed mentally, it manifests physically. So how can you get over it, basically? I want to ask you that, babe. I don't know if that's going to be offensive to you, but I need you to get over it. Get over it. How you get over it is you understand. And that's why I'm trying to tell you, like, everything physical is just, it doesn't really matter. All that matters is how you're feeling. And you can feel anything now. This is what I'm saying. It's like the ultimate shortcut. You want this goal so badly, but like, the goal never matters.

Think of a person. Okay, think of a person. I saw this example recently. They have 200 million, okay? And they do a bad investment and in one day they lose 150 million. I'm just going to do this 'cause I'm lazy. So they're left with 50 million, right? This is person A. Then you have person B who woke up in the morning and they had 3K in their bank account, and they went and they won randomly, or they did, had a really good investment that suddenly came through. They suddenly got 500k. This person has $53,000. This person has $50 million. But which person do you think feels better, honestly? Who feels better? This person feels better, not because of the material thing, because of the feelings attached to that thing. The thing doesn't matter. It doesn't [ __ ] matter. I can't even explain this to you in any other like form. None of it actually matters. It's all, we're all just little shadows of the spiritual realm. This is just a little puppet game that we're playing. All of these things are just symbols of potential feeling that we can feel. Everything is. So this person, even though you think, wow, 50 mil versus 500k, completely different. Like, you feel so much better. Oh, on this day, no, they wouldn't, because of how they're perceiving it, because of the feelings that are attached to it. So all you're ever looking for is a feeling. And I want you to get this into your head because I want you to realize you don't need to want material things so badly. The material things don't mean anything. It's the feelings that come with them. [ __ ] off, by the way. Somebody, I've had a few people come at me for my profanity. Um, I'm Irish, guys. So profanity is, I don't even know what that means.

Okay, this again, this represents this board represents the whole universe. This blew my mind thinking about it like this. A lot of spiritual texts, a lot of esoteric studies, and people in general who have had like near-death experiences, a lot of people believe in this. I like to believe in this. I think this is true. The universe, source, spiritual, non-physical realm, feels like Oneness. So it's like God energy, right? Feels like wholeness, feels like one, feels like abundance, fulfillment. The highest frequency emotions are related to the non-physical, spiritual realm, the 99% that I alluded to earlier. Okay? So everything outside our physical reality is everything that we're chasing in our feeling states. So when we take our physical reality, which is like this dense, dense, dark, not dark, but polarized experience, we're just like little itty-bitty ants in here running around, and we're all desiring everything that's actually out here. So this light, this wholeness, this one Oneness, really, that's all we all want is to feel that. But we came down and we were sent into this dense, polarized experience so that our souls could go on a quest to find that for ourselves and to experience that for ourselves and to combat darkness so we can truly create that within ourselves. Because without darkness, we can't appreciate light.

So when you're running around and you're trying to find all these material things, I want you to keep in mind that really all you're looking for is Oneness and wholeness. And it's interesting, and there's evidence that this is what we experienced before we came down here, and what we will experience when we go, and what is experienced beyond the physical. Because how the hell can we desire something that we've never experienced? We can't. You would not crave a cup of coffee if you hadn't experienced coffee. You could not crave this yearning for fulfillment, for Oneness, for abundance. You could not crave these things if we hadn't experienced them already. So that tells me in the non-physical, that's all there is.

So I want you to understand how not important the illusions the physical is trying to place on you. The illusions of darkness, jealousy, envy, lower vibrational emotions. They are all illusions. And this is our natural state of being once we leave the physical. So the more you can allow yourself and give yourself permission to tap into those now, the more you allow this light to appear for you in your physical by rising consciously above the physical. This is your true form, your natural state. That's why you crave it so much. But you're spending so much time feeding your energy and emotions into circumstances in your reality that are trying to dampen this that you've forgotten this, that this is actually your natural state. And then reality tricks you into thinking like you need this thing to feel like this. You need that thing to give yourself permission to feel like this. And Bashar calls some permission slips, which I love. You don't need a permission slip. This is your natural state. All you need to do is detangle yourself from the web of darkness that reality tries to impose on you.

And I saw a super interesting video about this, Nero Knowledge. Shout out, guys. If you haven't watched this YouTube, you need to watch it about the devil and Christ, and how the devil really is someone who just came down and got caught up in the illusion of reality. And Christ is somebody who came down and remembered that their true identity is not within the illusions of reality, is above the illusions of reality. They have a higher perspective, a higher consciousness that is not dampened by reality. So this is what you need to keep in mind. And this is what's going to give you faith and confidence in yourself that you can detach when the world keeps trying to drag you back down to your old frequency and keep you stuck where you are. This is the stuff you've got to keep in mind, and you've got to have confidence in.

I'm going to try to break this down as simply as possible because I've been talking a lot of fairy dust and stuff, but I want you to actually be ready to know what this actually physically feels like when things are happening. Because otherwise, you're just going to get deterred. Naturally, you will. It's not normal to stick this through and be able to see the bigger picture when you've spent your whole life buying into your physical reality.

So phase one: you're doing the work, but you are addicted. So phase one, you're, you're doing the work, right? So you could be meditating, you could be trying to change how you speak about yourself, trying to change your habits, trying to change, like, you're trying to visualize more, whatever. You're doing the work, right? But you're absolutely addicted to your old self, and you're addicted to your circumstances. You're addicted to the emotions that you felt your whole life. You're addicted to the thoughts that you've been thinking your whole life. So this first phase, you're going to be doing the work, but you're just going to still be addicted to all of that stuff, and it's going to just feel like, I don't even know if this works. What's the point in this? I want you to know that that's normal. That's fine. That's part of it. You might be a little bit motivated because maybe you've watched some videos or whatever, and you're like, okay, let's go. I'm going to do this. So you have a bit of motivation, but you don't have any belief because your reality is showing you nothing different. And you still feel, act, and think like your old self, even though you're forcing yourself, maybe to show up differently, even though you're forcing yourself to meditate. Nothing's going to change for the first little while because you must stay consistent, and you must keep recommitting to your new frequency until you get strong enough. And this is what we're going to see in all of this. This is all just phases for you to reach a tipping point in your frequency, which is your emotions, your thoughts, your actions. When you reach the tipping point, that's when physical starts to shift. All of this is just waiting for your new frequency to become stronger than your old frequency.

So right here, your old frequency is at 100%. Okay? This is in the beginning. When you just start, your old frequency is at 100%. You believe in what you have always believed in. You have no evidence for anything to support the opposite for you yet. You feel how you've always felt, but you're trying to make the shift. You're introducing new things. You're introducing new habits, and you're hoping for the best, even though you don't believe it at all yet. And people think you're delusional. So that's phase one.

Phase two: you start letting go, but you're still addicted, but you're starting to have awareness as well. So awareness is usually the precursor for the whole transformation cycle. So here, we're trying to really bring in awareness as well. That's a big part in phase one, but your awareness really evolves in phase two to the point where you can start consciously letting go of things. But you still will only, you might just feel a slight shift. You probably won't see a shift in your reality, but you're going to feel a little bit differently. You're still mostly attached. So your old frequency is, let's say, about 80%, but you're starting to question things. You still maybe are living in fear. You're living in your old emotions for the most part. You're still attached to those emotions, but you're starting to see the stuff that you need to let go of. You're starting to have awareness, and you're starting to feel a little bit differently. Sometimes, as you're going through this, the biggest thing you're going to feel is self-doubt. Don't expect that to not be there. That's going to be there because you're breaking up with this version of you that's kept you safe for your whole life. You're trying to feel an entirely different frequency. You're trying to believe an entirely new belief system that goes against who you've been for your whole life. And so naturally, you're going to feel a lot of doubt. And naturally, that old you is going to latch on and try to keep you stuck by throwing thoughts at you like, "This is stupid. This is never going to work. This isn't true." Blah, blah, blah. So that's why you feel so much self-doubt. It's as you're letting go and breaking up with this old self, self-doubt is going to flare up. So this is just a natural part of the process.

At this point, you're going to have resistance. Resistance is going to be high. What do I mean by resistance? Your old self. So you've, you've, you've gone through all of this. You've still kept recommitting to your new frequency. You kept recommitting. You kept showing up. Kept visualizing. Kept questioning your old beliefs. Kept recommitting to your new beliefs. Kept showing up. Kept showing up despite this out, out. Kept showing up. As you go through, you're going to get glimpses. Maybe in phase two, when you hit phase three, you may have moments where you really start to feel like you're in your visualizations. You may actually start to see little glimpses in your reality also. But as you're just about to hit the threshold to go into phase four, you're going to hit a wall of resistance. And resistance is going to be your old self really fighting back against you. So it's going to be like a huge serge of self-doubt, or it's going to be something, probably maybe both. It's going to be something in your reality. The universe is going to [ __ ] test your new frequency, is what I like to say. It's going to be like, right before we give you access to phase four, where you're in your new frequency, and that's just the truth for you now. Before you reach that tipping point, we're going to test you and make sure you're actually committed to that. Okay? So you have two sides to that, right? You're shedding part of yourself. So your old self is going to resist you. The more that you're shedding, the more you go through this. But also, reality is going to test you right before you can break through to your new reality. And the reason I'm telling you this is because I want you to be prepared. And I've made a video on this before, but I'm just going to repeat it to you because you need to keep this in mind as you're going through the work. It's going to be challenging if it goes against all your old programming because you have to deprogram yourself. And you have to keep detaching from whatever [ __ ] reality is throwing at you because reality is going to try to knock you off the path of your new frequency until your frequency is so strong that reality shifts. And this whole thing, all of this, is just you training your new frequency. It's just you making that new frequency really strong. And by the time you get to phase four and you pass these kind of tests, so the universe will send you things in your reality, and your old self will try to block you. The more you let go of the old self, and the more that you ignore, whoops, the more that you detach from reality and persist in your new beliefs, your new feelings, your new thoughts, your new actions, despite your circumstances in reality, then you will all of a sudden land in your new reality.

Okay, and usually phase three, by the way, is usually realizing that you need to, telling you that this is impossible. And so them and be like, "Hey, look, thank you so much, but yeah, it is." Because it's actually safe. It's not scary. It's going to be fine. Whatever you need to say to them. So all of this is just part of the process, okay? And I want you to know that it's literally just a system like this. And you are, I want you to zoom out. The reason I'm sharing this is because I want you to zoom out. When you're in the thick of all of this, it's going to catch you and get you if you don't understand that this is just part of the process. As you're going through this, you're going to get into this. When you get to this part, it's going to feel awful and sticky. And this is the part where most people give up. The resistance, the old limiting beliefs, all this stuff flaring up that can't come to the new frequency that needs to be cleared out, the tests, right? That's where most people fall off. But that is your access point, and that's your opportunity. When you're in it, it's not going to feel nice, but if you just stick through it, fight through it, and as soon as you've processed whatever is going on, recommit again to what you're aiming for, you'll find that you're all of a sudden there. That's all you kind of have to do. So keep that in mind when you're in this trench. The trench is part of the transformation. You can linger in here for a long time. Sometimes there's big parts of you that need to be shed. I made a separate video on that. Part of you can come to the next level. You should watch that if this is like, really picking your interest on this part because it goes into this a lot deeper. But there are maybe some huge parts of you that need to be shed, some huge limiting beliefs that really go against everything that you want. So sometimes those do take time, and they take compassion, and they take slowing down and actually understanding those parts so you can release them. But a lot of times, really, something that can just work really well is just saying, rather than getting caught up in your 3D circumstances, reminding yourself where you want to go and focusing your energy on that. Redirecting your focus, energy, and attention on what you want versus what's in front of you right now. Nobody else is going to ride for this new frequency. Everybody wants you to stay where you are. Okay? You have to be a ride or die for your new frequency, no matter what comes up. You're going on a mission here, okay? And your mission is to stay committed to the new frequency despite all these obstacles that are going to be thrown in your path.

When you doubt something, you're actually just putting 100% trust in the reality that you don't prefer. I think Bashar said that. You know, I get a lot of things from Bashar. I don't even know what that guy's story is. I better look into him. But he, I think, I think it was Bashar who said that doubt is just a 100% trust in a reality that you don't prefer. So when you doubt what you, what you're chasing after, okay, maybe you don't have enough evidence yet, but that's just you saying to the universe, "I 100% trust and have faith in this circumstance that I absolutely don't like and don't want." That's all you're saying when you doubt the other one. And you literally have evidence, right? When you put your 100% trust in things that you don't want, you have evidence that the universe will deliver that. So what is the difference between that and something that you do prefer? What is the difference? The only difference, really, is that you're repelling it by this wanting, chasing energy. That's the only difference, which goes back to my earlier point, which I'm not going to repeat again because you can rewind if you need to hear that again. So yeah, the doubt that you're feeling, it's just evidence that you're trusting in a reality and an outcome that you don't prefer. And the one that you do prefer, you just don't trust yet. So how can you learn to trust it? Figure that out.

So this is what I'm going to leave you with because this is super important. I love how I'm copying this drawing from a drawing in my book. What are those? Okay, I've mentioned before that as soon as something becomes the minimum acceptable standard for your life, that's when it becomes your reality. Okay? We always default to our minimum acceptable standards. So if we take income, for example, if you have it as unacceptable to earn less than $5,000 in a month, and you usually want to earn somewhere around $10,000 in a month, you most likely will never really fall below the 5,000. This is a subconscious thing, but you won't really ever hit the 10,000 because we always default to our minimum acceptable standards. Why is this? It's the energy of mental completion. So part of this whole process is you subconsciously raising the standards in your mind so that whatever you want is the minimum standard for your life. You almost want to look at it, and this is what I'm trying to get with all of this. You want to look at this physical thing as like, eh, it's done. It's done. This is why, like, when people get to big goals, they're already on to the next one. When I did powerlifting, as soon as I squatted 150, mentally I was squatting 160. When I squatted 160, mentally I was squatting 170. Yeah, I'm that strong. That was past life. Oh my God, what a flex by me. But you get my point. It's like that in life. It's like that with money. It's like that with everything. By the time you get it, it's already so done for you mentally that it's a minimum standard for you. And this is the attitude you need to have to get to the right frequency so that you can actually bring this thing about physically. Because when you're embodying that emotionally and energetically, that is the message that needs to be sent on the mental plane in order for that to be cast down for you on the physical plane. It's done. When you say it's done, they're going to show you that it's done. When you say "I want," they're going to show you you don't have, because that's what "I want" means.

So down here we have mental completion, physical manifestation. All right, you're over it by the time you get it. So how you get it faster is find a way to energetically get over it, like complete it mentally. And this is why earlier I said the biggest hack for all of this is just focusing on your character and who you're becoming. If you know with the physical manifestation of having a business that's earning a certain amount of money per month, you have developed all these qualities that you need to have, you have these certain emotions, these certain attitudes, these certain habits, then do those things because those will make you have the vibration, the energetic feeling of somebody who has mentally already completed this thing. And that's when it physically manifests.

So I know you might say to me, well, you said not to fight reality against reality. It's not about, it's not about just doing things. So doing things physically in your reality can help with mental completion. When you know these are the things that are going to make you feel like the person has already done it, that's the key. So when you're taking action, this is why they call it inspired action. The things that you're doing should be lending to the frequency of somebody who has done what you want to have done or has what you want to have. Does that make sense? So yes, action is actually necessary. You need aligned action, but it needs to be inspired. It needs to be aligned, and it needs to be something that's going to help you generate the thoughts, emotions, and feelings, feelings, and identity of somebody who has the physical manifestation already and who's over it.

Okay, guys, I'm getting really hungry, so it's giving me a headache. So I hope this video helped. Please remember, you've got all the good stuff wired into you already because we all come from the source, which is already abundant and full of light and love and everything. You just need to, um, remember that and start forgetting and detaching from all the [ __ ] that reality has put on you since you came here, 'cause that's not going to get you anything. Reality, physical, you're pulling from a finite source, okay? But beyond that, in the mental, in the spiritual, it's an infinite source. So keep tapping into that. Keep being delusional, and I promise you, you will get there faster than you think. I hope this video helped, and I will see you in the next one.