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Social media has kind of inflated their perspective on the level of options they actually have.
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The revolution [music] is going to be because of us. I'm like, Well, that's that's on purpose. That's on purpose. And it's because, you know, feminism is a is a multi-billion dollar industry where you've got lobbying, you've got lobbyist groups that push it, you've got companies, businesses that push it. They make a lot of money. Facts.
Um and so, you know, when you have men who are the main generators of income, who go to clubs, that fund clubs, that buy alcohol. Um I don't know if anybody knows this, but alcohol sales have dropped, clubs have closed, bars have been closing recently. And it's like, well, who funds all of that? Single men. You know, if you know, we the single men literally fund an entire industry of of uh adult content, um you know, females go out and buy dresses and skirts and stuff to look cute for these guys so that they can get them to get give them money. Mhm.
The whole industry of basically tricking guys that are lonely to give money to girls while in a place where they can generate income. A lot of these businesses have been closing, you know? And so, you know, how do we get men to spend money again? How do we get men to go out and go to restaurant? Restaurants have been losing money, right? Valentine's Day this year, they didn't make make as much money. Hallmark didn't make as much money this year. Mhm. Corporations are run on this idea that people will go out in in groups and do things with people. But if men stop spending money, if men invest [snorts] their money, are more conservative with their money, they choose not to have families, they choose What happens to the economy? Yeah.
Economy fall. Economy runs out of. Where's the money going to come from? So, how do we get men to to go out and do stuff? Well, we got to shame them out of the thing that's keeping them from spending the money. Mhm.
So, what are we? So, how do we do that? Instead of having them We're going to get the worst of the worst and we're going to say, this space that might give you peace is actually evil. It's bad. Mhm. Right? Shaming, the greatest tactic of all of mankind. We're going to shame you out of that space and we're going to say, no, do this instead. Right? And, you know, as a guy that was once on the other side, I was a very staunch feminist guy, um that's not healthy, either. Either side of the spectrum isn't healthy. Being in the middle is much much better. Yeah. And so, the man is into the manosphere was basically just a documentary on guys that like to grift in the space. Mhm. And And they turned that into the definition of what manosphere is mainstream and that's why you have girls on YouTube talking about it. Oh, this is the manosphere. See how evil it is. Mhm. But then there's men like you and me who are in the manosphere. We don't talk like that. We don't do those things. Mhm. So, it's it's obviously a a an obvious hit job Yeah. in order to get men to go with the the program that they want men to follow. Yeah. Yeah.
And um and speak. And relatedly, you know, you kind of mentioned about men opting then they're not they're not um the the dating events, men aren't showing up to those. Men A lot of men weren't already been stopped going to church and religious like. So, but that when conversely, less and less women really, you know, whether it's because of their their ability to make money, um sexual liberation, just feminism in general, women have now more options in terms of optionality when it comes to dating. So, as a result, a larger and larger pool of men they're now not viewing as options anymore in comparison to maybe their mother or grandmother's generation. So, if less and less women are finding most men, you know, unattractive and and and seeing a fewer pool of men as like actually legitimate options for relationships or even marriage, why do you think that's the case? What do you think's causing that? Is it just that most men are truly unattractive or is there something else that's probably going on that explains that?
Well, I always ask the question, why do women date men at all? Mhm. Right? Why do women date men at all? What is the reason? Well, you go back in time, it was be you wanted the strongest man because he could get you the food when it's wintertime and you're and you're going through your cycle and he he can protect you, right? It's to get the strongest male possible. It's the the the best option, the best utility possible. And a long time ago, the only utilities you had were the ones in your neighborhood, right? So, Jimmy down the street who might have been a five, but because you you're only frame of reference is this neighborhood, he may be a five to the world, but he's a 10 in this neighborhood. So so, he got selected cuz he was the best option she had in that environment.
What the internet gave women was basically, you can date a man from Florida and be in Kansas. You can date a man in Canada and be in New York City. You can date a man in Japan and and you're in Massachusetts. You can get resources, right? And you can use those resources like if you were both together, but now she doesn't have to follow his script. Right? Men come with standards, men come with with expectations. But if I can give him the sexual gratification and give him the the the experience of a girlfriend, which that's what I think online dating is, an experience of having a girlfriend, but not really a girlfriend. Mhm. Um then his brain goes, well, I'm in a relationship with this woman, I must protect her. She gains resources from him without having the trouble. Now, if she's able to replicate this for years, multiple times without having to trade anything of significance from herself, Mhm. how are you going to tell that woman to date a man within her neighborhood that's average? She's been able to get whatever she wants from multiple men around the world to facilitate her existence. She's been able to facilitate the dopamine hit that would then feed that instinctive part of her brain. So, why would I go out of my way for a man if I can if I can feed that need through external resources with less investment? Mhm.
So so, that's what's happening is you've got this internet, which is basically the the seventh greatest continent in the world where everybody lives every day and she can facilitate her life through it. Mhm.
Men can't do that. Mhm. Mhm. So now, instead of competing with Jimmy in my neighborhood, I'm competing with Jimmy, Chen, Jacob, everybody on the entire planet. So, I could be a eight in my neighborhood. I could be a I could be the best man possible in New York City, but I'm competing now with billionaires. I'm competing with Drake. I'm competing cuz Drake he could just text her on Instagram. I'm competing with with Offset. I'm competing with Snoop Dogg. I'm competing with men who are in an even higher echelon that she now has access to that 20, 30 years ago, you just saw them on a TV screen.
Dr. Orion, uh funny enough, Dr. Orion that I had on a couple weeks ago, Dr. Orion Taraban, when he from Psychax, he mentioned this same concept of how um social media has kind of inflated their perspective on the level of options they actually have. And and as a result, he said the worst thing ever is for the ladies who are very young that goes to the to the furthest extremes when it comes to this liberation. He said because, like you said, when they're selling when they're selling sex, when they're showing everything in the amount of likes, comments, DMs, he said this is so insane to where it's like when they finally do settle down, it's extremely difficult for them to be satisfied with the validation of one man. Yes.
And that makes lot like that makes so much sense to me. And then as a result, like you said, now you'll get women that actually get the guy and that's still not enough. Yeah. Because, you know, it's not just it's not just having a guy, it's the constant validation and approval and you know, you you got all like it's Man, let me ask you this this other question. And real quick, for everybody that's currently watching, um if you have not done so, please make sure you like this. Send this to two, three, four, even five people. Let's get the numbers up. And make sure that you're a subscriber to both of our channels and platforms if you have not done so.
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