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Uh Steven Crowder recently came out with a new video or a clip of a one of his live streams where he was talking about Tommy Lauren. Um I think I'm pronouncing that right, Tommy. Tommy. uh and how she was calling out men for not providing or men need to provide certain things and women don't need to provide anything and Steven Crowder uh replied to it and listening to the entire video it basically was 15 minutes long or so. I cut it down a little bit. It's basically him being 100% I guess you'd say men going their own way kind of philosophy. He is a guy who's now gone his own way. And he used to make fun of guys going the own way, their own way. I did a video on this right after his divorce. And here we are two years later and he's literally picked up every single talking point that the men he used to make fun of said he is now 100% promoting red pill philosophy, going your own way, all the rest of it. He's 100% in. And that just goes to show you that people that do not experience the hardships, people that don't experience the bad divorces, people that don't experience the lies and the manipulation by the courts, by people on social media, by the news, whatever, until you go through it. Many times, people just don't understand it. So, here we are a couple years later after Steven Crowder's divorce. And boy has he gone through it to the point where not only does he have the same talking points as most in the red pill, he now has the talking points of men going their own way.
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I want you to hear how he feels about relationships, dating, conservative women, and all the things that we talk about because all of a sudden he now agrees with us. Here's the thing. There are now people on the right who are still telling you, "No, no, young men. It's not that the options available to you. It's not that the agenda that's been driven uh home and that has been thrust upon you is a problem. It's actually just you. Young men, you are the problem." At least according to Tommy Lauren. But Laura, I got to tell you, this is also a big problem when it comes to, I think, declining birth rates, people not getting married and having children. You know, that's a big problem. They blame it on women. Well, look at what young women have to choose from. The pickins are slim. Yes, we might have a feminism problem in America, but it's the feminization of men. There are a lot of young women out there that want to get married. They want to have kids. They want to have stable families. But there are a lot of young men out there who want to live in mama's basement and order Door Dash. And there in lies a big part of the problem.
Um before he gets into this, I this is one of the things that uh the interview I did with Andrew Wilson, we talked about how conservative women want all these things from men and they will not listen to men when men tell them what we want, what we require from women. And what do you know? Steven Crowder suddenly agrees with us. Like that's just not the real problem. It's there are no options for men. They've been well who's feminized men. And I just heard Tommy Luren list a bunch of things that she wants and expects from men. Okay, but maybe men have expectations, too. Around the 20 year old, like Gen Z women, they're twice as likely to be obese as men. They're significantly more likely to be depressed. And let me let me just read what the study says here for those of you just listening. A study of 20-year-olds says obesity more likely among women. It also said that young women were much more likely to be obese than young men. Some 16% of of women were obese age 20, while just 9% of men were at the same age. So, here uh Tommy is making fun of the young guys that are overweight in their basement that don't want to work. Does she say anything about the 20% of of women or excuse me, 16% of women at the age of 20 that are already obese and that young men don't want to date big girls, my my brothers out there aside, most guys don't want to date overweight women. I'm I'm one of them. I'm not attracted to overweight women. So if if men are saying we don't want this, where are the women calling out other women instead of saying, "Oh, be stunning and brave and you're beautiful at any size and respect all women's choices doesn't exist." They say the study also found that symptoms of depression were more prevalent among women. Some 32% of young women reported these symptoms compared with 23% of men. So yes, one out of four men are going through it, but one out of three women are, which means there's a whole heck of a lot more women that are in a bad place, overweight, and and we won't go into all the other statistics. And where where are people talking about the women's problems? No place, because that is verboten. We cannot do that to be on psychiatric medication. Young men are less obese. They're less depressed. They're more independent. And women still blame young men. Hey, can anyone name me an equivalent to only? This is the you cannot continue to blame men while women are being told that they are beautiful at any size, that they can have an abortion at any time, that all of their decisions are valid and none are valid for a men to the point now where we've validated young men's decisions to not engage. Young men have far fewer prospects when they're looking at good women in their generation than women do. Tommy Lauren, she she can't help herself. She lists a bunch of expectations of men and none from herself.
Even though he was adamantly against men and the men going their own way. And to the men, we've talked about this a lot. The incels, right? The involuntary celibates, the professionally outraged over alimony and child support payment crowd. Sorry, I'm not on board with you. I understand equality. I understand people being upset with feminists and how far they've reached. But this men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way. Are you feeling it now? You know what? You need to learn to be the person that your woman's going to want when wolves are at the door. It is more important for society right now to know what a man needs to be. And that means not just for himself, but for his woman. And here we are two laders after he's gone through it. And now I mean I could I could have just uploaded this, hit play, and if I used a voice changer, some AI to turn it into my voice, you guys would have been like, "Yeah, dude. We know you said this plenty of times. marriage and divorce and losing custody of your kids and losing massive chunks of your money to a woman that probably did him wrong. It changes a man. And the Matt Walshes and the um the Ben Shapiro in the world, they'll never understand just like Steven didn't until you go through it. Andrew Wilson asked her, that's why we had him on the show on Pier. He said, "Can you name me one duty?" He said, "There are many women who would love to be feminine, who would love to have a man take care of them, who would love to have who would love to have a family and be able to stay home. Okay, great. Those are things that you would want. What are you bringing to the table aside from being fatter, more depressed, and physically inert than ever?" That is young women. It's not the same message that young men are being bombarded with. I have to teach my son the same. Also, you're not a piece of garbage because you were born a young white male. Boy, is he hitting every talking point we talk about. Men have been told we're bad. Women have been told they're good. It's through everything. And now young men are checking out because of it. Is there any other choice than to check out?
Now, many of you might say, "Well, I still want to date or I am dating or I'm doing whatever." That's fine, but you've got to make sure your house of cards is in order first. You need to make sure your life is together. There is no more building a life for the future wife. building a life for anybody else but yourself. As I've said many, many times, build your life and then the women will come. And if they don't, don't lose any sleep out of it. You've got your good life together. Steven Crowder feels the same way. Don't own the checking your privilege. Don't own the white guilt. Society says, "Man at fault, woman beautiful at any size, brave no matter what you do, all choices are as valid as an X- choice. Men, these are your duties. And then you see it from conservative, so-called conservative women. These are this is what we expect of you. Okay, what can we expect of women? Why are you trying to control me? Okay, then enjoy 60% of women being single and unmarried by the year 2035, I think, is a stat that I heard. It's just like Tommy Luren is sounding just like what she purports to hate. That that's my issue with her specifically on this is that she doesn't look at what caused men to be in that state. She doesn't look at that and say, "Hey, what what are we telling young men right now? What are we doing to them as as women, as society in general? What are we telling young men? This is what my point was when I was talking to Andrew Wilson about this in in the interview I did with him a few weeks ago is that women have all these expectations on men and men's expectations are ignored or they're made fun of or were called misogynist. The young male solution statistically, and we've talked about this, they're just checking out. They're saying, "I'm not going to get married. It's too much risk. I don't like the choices that I'm looking at before me as far as women." Young women like Tommy Luren, their solution is to blame men more for checking out. I had a scenario. This is uh before he jumps into his scenario here that he talks about. That's right. Men are checking out. There is no other choice. That is the answer for men today. And I've said it before and I'll say it again. It doesn't mean that life won't change for you. That things will go a certain way for you. Maybe uh companies are not looking for white guys, right? white straight guys because you don't meet the demographic. It doesn't mean you don't find a company that you can go work for that you enjoy that is the job that you want to do that won't hire you. It just means it's much harder. I've said it a billion times. It's a needle in a needle stack. You might be able to find one. You don't know which ones are the good ones and it's going to probably hurt the whole time you're looking for it. That's why men feel like they have no other option to check out. And once again, Steven admits it. blame men more for checking out. I had a scenario. This is true. I had a scenario where I was roped in by uh my then lady to uh console her friend who um boyfriend broke up with her and they were going, "Oh my god, let's go. He just doesn't deserve you." And they're like, "Tell her." I go, "I remember when she cheated on him." Like, and they all were like, "No, it's his loss." I'm like, "No, it's not. It's not like he dodged a bullet. Wait, you want me to you want? Whereas if a guy cheats on a woman, we'll go even the bad guys like, "Nah, she caught you." Well, them's the brakes. It's your consequence. Young men are held account. Young women are not. And that's how you get to the point of being because you This is where accountability, that's why we joke about accountability is women's kryptonite. But it's also a lot of men's kryptonite today, too. Because men will slay queen and yes, girl, and don't worry about him. you're wonderful and beautiful on social media because somehow they think by simp they're going to get some action from the woman or some attention from her. It never happens, but they think it's going to if they support the woman enough. I know many of you that if if if I, for example, were to make a stupid choice, which we'll talk about at the end of this video, if I were to make a stupid choice and it messed up on me, you're not going to say, "Dude, it's not your fault. Dude, she's totally missing out." you'd say, "Well, that's on you, stupid. You You didn't heed your own advice." But again, we'll talk more about that later.
Wow. I guess there is no wrong that can be committed here that is impermissible. Hey, let me ask you this. You're a young man. You go through it. You go, "Oh, okay. Hey, I think she's really I think that woman's really, you know what? I'm going to take my shot. Oh, wait. According to Gillette, I can't even go up and hit on a woman. Okay. Um Oh, wait. We have a problem of culture. So, if everything is consensual, but she doesn't like me later on and I break up, she could still go out and falsely accuse me of and I lose everything, as we saw with Aziz. I'm sorry. As we saw with Chris Hart, as we saw with plenty of as we saw with Trevor Bower. Okay, there's that. All right. Well, let's say I work. I do. I don't encourage student debt and I finally find a right woman. Okay, I want Oh, well, she doesn't want to work at Okay, she's going to go out and work. She's not going to raise the kids. Oh, I guess I have to outsource the raising of my children, which is never a part of my dream. All right, I guess I'm going to, you know, I'm going to work extra hard so we can get the best nanny. And oh, now I'm not present enough at home. And she's gone. And the law says that even if she never made as much as me, she can take all of it. And now I'm living in a junior suite. So men go, you know what? Considering the caliber of women out there in the young generations, they're checking out. This is literally every talking point we drill in, video after video after video, of red pill content, of men going their own way content. You can't ask them out anymore. You're shamed for it. They'll blast you online. You can't go to the gym anymore and even glance to the corner of the gym that a woman's on or she will will post you on social media making fun of you. You can't. The danger of sleeping with one or even hookup culture is now bad because if she regrets it, she can say you did something inappropriate. Of course, men are just checking out. It is literally the only option left to most men. Why should they when all the women want to do is smash the top 5enters? Of course, the majority of men are tapping out. Welcome to the club, Stephen. You also hear, "By the way, if he loves you, he'll love you just the way you are." Women tell other women. Guess what? That's not true. You just heard not one, two, three, but four, five transactional portions of that equation. Man has to be successful. Man has to be a provider. Man has to be masculine. Man has to lead until he starts leading in a way that you don't like, in which case you can leave him and take half. Love is never transactional, but she's not going for a carpenter who's working his ass off and making a good living, but isn't rich and is a good man who will treat her right. This is There are plenty of men like that around. Young women aren't interested. And young women are fatter, less mentally stable, and men are checking out. You hear? He just described 10 percenters. He just described the 8020 rule, which now we know is the 955% rule. Steven sees it. I don't mind that Steven Crowder and Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro and uh Piers Morgan and Andrew Wilson, all these groups are now bleeding this out into the mainstream. That's exactly what we want. This is why I keep saying and many of you argue with me and saying, "Oh, we're not winning anything and things are still horrible." Yeah, maybe we're not winning anything and maybe things are still very rough for men. But at least the message is out there now that even men that are not in I always have to move my quotes here, red pill. Even men that are not red pill, just if you're a college bro and you're on a meme site, you see it. If you're listening to most things put out by men on Rumble or in the news or on social media, it's everywhere now. You cannot avoid the message. It is so in your face that a lot of guys are kind of tired of hearing it. To me, that's a win. Now, it doesn't mean that men still won't make mistakes. It doesn't mean that men say, "Well, I found a unicorn. It's not going to happen to me." Whatever. That'll still happen a ton, too. But those guys will learn afterwards either a I need to emotionally adjust how I think about relationships. I'm not going to put too much into a relationship. I'm not going to fall head over heels. I can still care for somebody, but I got to be smart about it. Men are at least going to be adapting the way that they go about it versus, well, my father told me be a good man, be a supportive man, you know, make sure I'm a great provider and I take care of a woman no matter what so she never has a worry in the world. And oopsie, she left me for the dude bro down at the gym. Men are at least moving out of that ter territory into the I know n the nature of women. I've been warned. I'm going to do it anyway. And if things go bad, the worst I can say is well, I knew it. I did it anyway. Oopsie. That's on me. But that's a whole different feeling than having your entire world shattered. thinking that if you're a good man and you're a proper man and and you're a reliable man that things will just magically work out because that's what I was told by my father. And so there's a huge generational leap in the right direction where men at least know what's going on. And then if they choose to do their own thing, then that's on them.
Here's the thing. You can scream until you're blue in the face and blame. They're checking out now. They're just not they're just not getting married. They don't think it's worth it. You can scream. You can you can continue to blame men and you will alone. That is a guarantee. There is no door number two until you start taking taking that lens and looking back on yourself. Women will never never say this is a me problem. I keep I keep sleeping with the top five or eight or 10% of men. They keep enjoying me. Then they dump me. And it happens again and again and again. Maybe I need to change what I'm doing. Nope. Can't do that. You're stunning and brave. You're wonderful. Thousands of people like you on your social media posts where you put up a bikini. Lots of thirsty simps out there. You get lots of ma matches on um the dating apps. It's not me. It's just the men. You can choose whatever you want. You can choose to work. 40% of the labor force are now women. That entirely changed the structure of our economy basically overnight. You can choose to work or choose to be a stay at home mom. And both are beautiful and brave. Okay, man. If a man is the primary, can you choose to leave? No, you cannot. You will be punished. Everything that you've ever earned, including what you earned before you got married, will be stripped of you. You have no choice. Oh, you're not happy, woman, and you've never worked. You can choose to leave in the pursuit of your own happiness at the cost of your family. And you'll be richer than you could have ever dreamed and could ever have attained any other way. I think I read somewhere that out of the top 10 or 20 of the richest women in the world, I think only one or two of them got that from doing the work themselves. How does a millionaire become a billionaire? Work really hard. Put in a lot of time. Know what he's doing. Be intelligent. Be smart. Be hardworking. Be creative. Be adaptive. How does a billionaire become a millionaire? Get divorced. That's it. you married a successful guy. So the only choice that young men have or you can say feel they have is do I want to play this game or not and they are making their only choice left which is not to play. And if you now start condemning them for making that choice more people are going to make that choice. He has to be responsible. He has to hold himself accountable if he wants a good woman. If he wants a decent quality woman to use the term he has to stay in shape. He has to be on top of it. He has to be articulate. He has to be charming. He has to be well-groomed. He has to make a decent income. and he has no choice in what happens to his children, what happens to his finances. Like, let's just go through that. We focused so off for so long on women's choice and now women don't like the choices they have left in men. This is the po point I think that is the hammer home for me on much of this stuff. Men have to be men have to have all the sixes, all the sevens, all the eights, depends on what woman you talk to. Men have to provide all these things. Men have to be athletic. They have to be good-looking. They can't be too short. They got to they can't be a plumber. They got to be smarter than the woman. They've got to make more money than the woman. They've got to go through all these things. And then what does a woman have to do? Literally nothing. A lot of guys just said, "Treat me nice. Don't cheat on me. Don't get fat." Well, you can't you can't ask that of women. You have to love a woman any size. You have to love a woman no matter what. When you can't fight back, when you can't argue it, when you can't let your voice be heard, when when any opinion you have is bad, the only choice for for men is to walk away. It's the only one. This is the only movement that I can think of that vilified cat calls, vilified men saying, "Hey, you know, if you smile, you have a beautiful smile. You smile more, you catch more flies with vilified them, and now vilify men for not complimenting them enough." Where' the chivalry go? Where do you think? And it's just like all things. Women wanted all these things from men. They demanded men do certain things. And men either a gave it to them and they don't like it. Like, oh, I want equality. Okay. I'm not going to get out of my seat for you just because you're a woman. I'm not going to hold a door for you. I'm not going to help you carry a big package. I'm not going to help you. You got it. Cuz you know what? No guys are going to show up to help me with anything. They either wanted equality and they got it and they're unhappy about it. or they don't want equality when it comes to dating, marriage, income, you know, being a provider. They don't want that the that equality because the man must bring all the things and a woman doesn't need to do anything because I'm a woman and you're just lucky to have me as a man. As long as that persists, men have no choice but to walk away.
Uh lastly, I uh the the thing I wanted to talk about is when when I do a video, when I do a video, I do read the comments down below. And recently, I I did a a an interview uh Jedi reached out to me. She wanted to interview me. I did an interview with her. Previously, a a very nice gal named Aaron over at Exit from Eden reached out to me and she said, "I would like to interview." In both cases, these women wanted to talk to me and I talked to them. And in my comments down below, I hear a lot of people saying, "How dare you platform a woman?" Okay, first of all, I didn't reach out to them. They reached out to me and I agreed to talk to them. Second of all, uh, Jedi has also talking talked to Rolo and Sterling Cooper and and PBD podcast and even Andrew Wilson. Are you angry at these guys for having dialogue with women? Having the conversations between men and men, men and women, conservative, leftists, rich, poor, black, white, these are the conversations that need to happen if we're going to heal things, if we're going to learn new ideas, if we want to stay on top of the game. The minute that you say, "I'm I have a purity test. I have a wall. And if so and so does such and such that I don't expect or I don't like, I'm going to stop listening to that person. I'm going to stop talking to these people. I'm going to close down my mind and not explore different ideas. The minute you're doing that, you're kind of losing. You're becoming no different than the feminists that just re at all the men and refuse to listen to any of our issues. Communication's good, but at a certain point, you're going to fail your own purity test for either the content creators you listen to, your politicians, uh your family, your friends, the world around you. You have to be open. And an open mind is a mind that can absorb things. A closed mind, you get no new information. I still have ideas and concepts and things I want to explore in my life. And if part of that means talking to a woman, if part of that means interviewing people, that's what I'm going to do. No one is going to pass your your your purity test. As a matter of fact, Pearly Things and um um Fresh and Fit have done interviews together. Are you purity testing either one of those or do you just say, "Well, they're just exploring ideas cuz she's in the red pill content creator, but she is a woman." Well, so is so is Jedi. If you listen to her, many of her ideas are very traditional red pill. I get one chance at life on on this earth and who knows what's after it. I I certainly don't. There's religions built about about trying to explain what's next. I know I'm going to try to make the life that I have on this planet as fulfilling as possible. And that means I'm going to talk to people and learn new ideas, admit I'm wrong about some things and hold to my principles on other things. That's just how we grow going forward.
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