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I'm a single mama. I have two kids and I have two baby daddies. And I'mma tell y'all, as much as men try to make it like, oh, they don't like uh they don't like they women with kids or they ain't taking care of no other men's kids.
D. First of all, I'm not even looking for nobody to take care of their kids, take care of my kids. But I'm going tell y'all what the problem really is. They don't like when you have an active father in your kids' life and when you don't hate them. When y'all still have a friendship, y'all cool, y'all know how to get along. Y'all go to events together and sit next to each other and they ain't no, you know, they they don't not like that.
And as as much as open as I am about it, I don't hide anything. I tell them everything. They still have a problem with the relationships that I have. My kid's father and it's never no flirty stuff. We ain't never going on no solo [ __ ]. It's always about the kids at the end of the day. We are family and that is what it is.
Um, I went over my baby daddy's house to do my daughter's hair one time and my ex was mad about that. My ex, mommy and my baby daddy took me to the mall um cuz it was my daughter's birthday. He was paying for the party. I just had to get an outfit. Cool. I didn't have a car at the time. So, I asked him, "Can he take me to the mall?" He took me to the mall. It wasn't no big thing. I told my ex. He was so mad about that [ __ ].
He. You see, you see how the women can't really comprehend what's going on here. Here, let me break it down to you guys from a C student's perspective and help you to really, really grasp what she's saying here. What she's saying is that her and her child's father, maybe both of them, because again, let's remember that she has two kids by two different fathers and she's in a relationship with somebody else, which means that there's a possibility for a third kid by a third father. Never mind that, right? But she has a good relationship with the child's fathers or one of the child's fathers and she goes over his house to do her daughter's hair and he takes her to the mall. They still a [ __ ] family. They're still a family.
Do you know why marriage didn't necessarily have to have paperwork even back in the day? Way, way, way back in the day, but that was still your wife because the person that you wound up having children with was the one that you were going to be tied to for the rest of your life. So when people have conversations about they're scared to get married, no, you're you should be more scared for having children with somebody and then not being with them because the person that then comes afterwards is going to have to deal with the fact that y'all still a family for the rest of y'all lives. Thanks.